Neldemir Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	3 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get The Girl They Want Ouch… I didn’t develop game	/r/seduction	30/03/26 09:03 AM
1	Who is the best to learn from for game? Oh god, these Disney ahh answers	/r/seduction	04/02/26 06:17 PM
8	The most important alpha male attribute women are looking for I’ve read these type of answer constantly and used to believe it because it’s so easy and it’s the lazy mindset. Boy oh boy how wrong it is. I’ve started analysing this “game” obsessively for some months now and wow, it’s crazy how active listening and charisma are way more important than looks. Some guys I know who are worse looking than me get people enthralled in minutes	/r/seduction	02/02/26 11:50 PM
1	What exactly is 'The Game' ? Same. Turns out we’re all playing this silly games wether we like it or not	/r/seduction	31/01/26 03:17 PM
1	What is the best book that will improve your game? Why?	/r/seduction	29/01/26 08:02 AM
2	Advice on sending voice messages when you cringe at the sound of your voice? Ex is a hypno, I still get aroused by his voice memos. Believe me, you can train your voice	/r/seduction	20/01/26 07:33 AM
0	I can get a few women interested but retaining them is very difficult. I really didn’t mean to be rude. And stop downvoting me systematically… you’re asking a question, you should be ready for awkward answers… are you sure it’s really not some ego problem? And I really mean this in a respectful way, (but the fact that I need to say this is already a sign)	/r/seduction	11/01/26 11:52 PM
0	I can get a few women interested but retaining them is very difficult. 🤣🤣🤣😭 I guess you aren’t if, like you’re claiming, they’re the ones dumping you first.	/r/seduction	11/01/26 11:10 PM
0	I can get a few women interested but retaining them is very difficult. Psychopathy. But yeah, I’m traumatised so I’m seeing it everywhere	/r/seduction	11/01/26 11:01 PM
1	I can get a few women interested but retaining them is very difficult. It’s the trophy dynamic characteristic of both personalities I mentioned. I didn’t say BPD, BPD is different I don’t think they have problems keeping long relationships. But everything you mention really sounds like ASPD. Particularly how you refer to your friends like acquaintances, remember it’s based on inability to form deep attachments with others. And what you call “making all the effort” could be love bombing and idealisation? Are they the ones leaving you? Or do you get bored by them?	/r/seduction	11/01/26 03:46 PM
0	I can get a few women interested but retaining them is very difficult. Are you sure you have this “extreme ADHD” and not a cluster B personality type/disorder?. Opening with your body count and jumping through people could be NPD or ASPD	/r/seduction	11/01/26 02:55 PM
0	What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy? It is indeed an avoidant/anxious dynamic. Yet that mix gave way to a trauma bond from all the calculated negging, triangulation, hot cold, devaluation etc	/r/seduction	15/10/25 03:22 PM
1	What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy? Intimacy as in sexual attraction, chemistry, and also the idea of being together in a two person team	/r/seduction	15/10/25 01:28 PM
1	What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy? It’s called trauma bond, it’s the “love” that happens in abusive relationships. SS is a type of TB. I just realised I’ve been through both, I should leave this fucking country	/r/seduction	15/10/25 01:20 PM
2	What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy? Yeah, but I would call it more a cognitive dissonance. Two opposed ideas clashing in my mind. But to address your question more, you can love a friend but not be in love with them. I guess the difference is intimacy	/r/seduction	15/10/25 12:25 AM
6	What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy? That’s not “women”. I’m a man and I’m still in love with my ex boyfriend but I absolutely despite him. I can’t control how I FEEL about him but I KNOW the stuff he did to me is just beyond inhumane. One is emotional, the other is intelectual - what we call the heart and mind difference	/r/seduction	15/10/25 12:08 AM
4	Say they don't have social media but gave me their number/asked for mine instead Yeah socials seem more private now. A lot of info for someone yet unknown	/r/seduction	15/10/25 12:00 AM
3	Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is. Psychopath ex is the nicest guy when his mask is on. Mask off, when there’s nothing to gain for him, pure disdain and disgust	/r/seduction	14/10/25 05:56 PM