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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	"Be authentic" is terrible advice I said it already before marriage to myself: I don't marry any girl who falls for the unauthentic me. This should be a filter: if she falls for the unauthentic me then let's have fun until the next interesting girl crosses my road, if she is honestly curious about the authentic me (and obviously accepts it) then do your best to marry this girl.	/r/seduction	09/10/23 05:45 PM
2	"Be authentic" is terrible advice I argued how you use the word "authentic", I did not argue about how you handle these situations. I start out usually as you say: presenting only the good sides to me to maximize my chances of getting the girl, and mentioning as a side note a little flaw as to APPEAR authentic. I did not say it shouldn't be done like you say, I also did not deny that I do it this way myself, I said it is still unauthentic. Since I learned (in the initial stages at least of dating a girl) to be like girls expect …	/r/seduction	09/10/23 05:32 PM
1	"Be authentic" is terrible advice Totally agree that that's the way to attract the girl, but it's still unauthentic.	/r/seduction	09/10/23 10:12 AM
2	"Be authentic" is terrible advice Boys fall for looks, girls fall for stories, that is why girls wear makeup and boys lie. One either accepts the girl without makeup and the guy being avarage, or one learns to enjoy the lie. Late addition: and yes, you judge what it is when somebody wearing makeup expects you to be authentic.	/r/seduction	09/10/23 09:49 AM
3	"Be authentic" is terrible advice This is it also in my experience.	/r/seduction	09/10/23 09:43 AM
4	"Be authentic" is terrible advice "“be authentic” But only display the positive stuff about yourself." This is called telling half truths, or lying by ommision. Still unauthentic. You confirm what OP said, and he's right.	/r/seduction	09/10/23 09:42 AM
4	"Be authentic" is terrible advice Even if it is poor self esteem (which isn't, but let's say it is) it's still part of his current authentic self. I agree that with constant self improvent OP can make the best version of himself be authentic in the future But in the present moment this is his authentic self, and his point stands that presenting his true self is BS.	/r/seduction	09/10/23 09:37 AM

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