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LESSON LEARNEDNenuphxr/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:00 PM
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I relate to this so much! Im bi and had a moment recently where I was convinced I must be a lesbian because moving in with my ex and being expected to coddle him and clean up after him like his mum made me so turned off and repulsed by him but also by men as a whole. My relationship with him was so awful I literally questioned my entire sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:00 PM
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I think some men tell you these things early on to see how much bull you’re willing to tolerate, and test how high your personal standards or boundaries are. I remember one time a friend told me she was on a date with a guy who told her he was physically abusive to his ex and she kept seeing him for a little while longer before breaking things off. When she blocked him he turned up at her door and was banging on it, almost breaking it down trying to get to her. It’s really awful she had to exper…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:42 AM
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My ex would do this all the time!! One time he met me at my workplace and offered to pay for lunch only for his card to decline and for me to end up paying (which I was frustrated about because it was close to pay day so I was on a tight budget). It was an expensive sandwich place that I didnt even want to go to, so I asked him to pay me back tomorrow and when tomorrow came he made some elaborate creamy pasta dish instead of just doing what I asked which was to be paid my money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:58 PM
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I definitely understand how you feel, I think for me Im slowly moving past the resentment stage and trying to understand her more. I’ll admit there’s still resentment there but Im definitely learning from her mistakes and as awful as it sounds using her life as a blueprint for what NOT to do. Sometimes I feel like she really fumbled the bag, she came from an upper middle class family that could afford to send her to uni in the UK and support her but she dropped out and had 4 kids with a man that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:50 AM
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