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| 1 | Single and Happy? Are they?I am not dating him or seeing him. I can be happy by myself. I don’t need someone else to fulfill me. Having someone to share your life with is always going to be superior to being alone, but it is a very particular partnership that reaches that pinnacle. The vast majority of relationships will not because most people are incredibly unhealthy and don’t know how not to be. I don’t think anyone is committed to singledom. I think everyone ideally wants an equal partner. They’re committed to stabili… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/26 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Single and Happy? Are they?My life is extremely peaceful now that I have not been in relationships with toxic men for the past year. Yes, I can find joy and happiness without depending on someone else for it. I am individuated. I refuse to be in another relationship unless it allows me to maintain my emotional clarity and stability as when I’m single. Most men are incapable of being devoted, loyal, communicative, action-oriented, protective, emotionally vulnerable and stable, etc., but I think I recently met a guy who is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/26 06:57 PM |
| 0 | What if the man I'm searching for simply doesn't exist?Is your life supposed to end or something if you stop searching? You continue to live and achieve your dreams. If the man you want doesn’t exist, he doesn’t exist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/26 07:09 AM |
| 1 | You’re not marrying a rich manWanting to protect women and help them build real security is not solely feminism, but humanism. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/26 12:14 AM |
| 0 | You’re not marrying a rich manThe obvious answer: Because I read it and participate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/26 02:13 PM |
| 1 | You’re not marrying a rich manIf you have no money, no career, no skillset, no work experience, no resources, no house, no car, etc., because you were a housewife spending all of your energy domestically, and he breaks up with you, you live on the streets unless you have access to alimony. Moreover, having to ask permission for an allowance and to spend his paycheck is pathetic. Many men abuse this power imbalance, often unconsciously. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/26 12:52 PM |
| -5 | You’re not marrying a rich manRelying on a man for financial stability is 100% giving all of your power, self-worth, and self-respect to them. It makes your future incredibly uncertain, which is ironic because women seek men who make a good income for stability and certainty. It’s a lie men feed women so they can obtain sex, maids, therapy, and childcare for free, but they will not give a shit to take care of you if they change their mind about you. There are very few men who have a moral code where they still support you af… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/26 10:10 AM |
| 8 | Bf texted another girl to compliment her“I forgot about it.” Ahhh, the pointless, irrelevant words they use to manipulate you into forgiving him. If he stuck his dick in another woman one night and forgot about it, is it not still cheating and punishable by breakup? Forgetting a sin does not negate it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/26 07:22 AM |
| 22 | Bf texted another girl to compliment herMen are not stupid, but they do play dumb to hide their intentions alllll the time. They play the “I’m just a simple guy and so innocent” card. No they aren’t. I’ve been in relationships with guys like this. He knows what he’s doing. He knows it’s inappropriate, yet did it anyway. A man who truly loves and values you would never jeopardize his relationship for a thot. I wouldn’t even bother trying to work shit out with men who do that. I’m over it. You either wanna spend all of your young energy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/26 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Worried I will come off as career driven or too educated when I’m not. Should I avoid a masters try to change into a helping career?De-center men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/26 08:58 AM |
| 4 | Is it true that women over 30 are seen as lower value by men or don’t get quality male attention?Different men have different perspectives and understanding of value. Yes, to some men women have less or no value after age 30, or even 25, but those aren’t very good men anyway. A sustainable, longterm relationship is not possible unless they choose an equally superficial and vapid mate. Find the ones that understand women increase in value with age as they obtain higher wisdom, emotional regulation, stability, skillsets, etc. I love the perspectives of older women, and their wisdom keeps evol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/25 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when a man asks ‘ what do you bring to the table?’Why are you so quick to label my comment as “playing games?” That’s a projection of your perception shaped by the reality you choose to live in. Not mine. Socialization matching is not playing games, it’s how real, effective conversation is exchanged. Nowhere in my comment did I say she couldn’t or shouldn’t answer his question. I simply stated what his question implies within him and a follow-up question and energy I would equally engage in. If I were in the same scenario and was asked what I’m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 5 | How do you tell the difference between feminine mannerisms and lack of masculine energy?Every human on Earth possesses masculine and feminine traits, and certain people, places, things, and moods can bring out more of one or the other depending on what it is and how our bodies respond to the stimuli. My advice is don’t be so in your head and over-critical. Don’t fantasize who he is, experience him. His actions in his friendships and relationships are more valuable and telling than his hobbies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when a man asks ‘ what do you bring to the table?’I think it’s an inappropriate phrasing that stations him in a condescending position. It implies he has authority and superiority which he has not yet earned. It’s too controlling and domineering. He keeps redirecting to her, which may seem like nothing, but it could be an imbalance that leads to something sinister. She needs to assert intel on him, too. I think I would have matched his initial question with “what are you looking for in a woman?” | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/25 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Feeling invisible to good menI’m 36 and a virgin, intentionally. I will not have intercourse unless there is a wedding ring on my finger. No exceptions. There’s nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about when you know who you are and what you want, and you carry it with pride and dignity. A good man compatible with you will notice your good qualities and will swoop you up. Have faith in it and let it not be a thought that consumes you. It’ll happen when you least expect it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/25 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Repairing my relationshipBurnout doesn’t make you stop saying “baby” and showing affection to your gf. He’s either not into you anymore or he’s an avoidant attachment style. Both of which you do not want. The first is self-explanatory and the second is unhealthy and will cause you the worst emotional pain you’ve ever felt in your life. It isn’t worth it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/25 09:57 AM |
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