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| 7 | Is There a Cure for Gay Loneliness? | NeoSoul121 | /r/altTRP | 21/10/17 08:57 PM |
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| 1 | Is There a Cure for Gay Loneliness?Everything you say makes sense my friend. It's definitely more difficult to garner close friends in the age of social media and fake people but I have several. Getting enough exercise, sleep, healthy eating, and taking care of my mental health is a constant struggle. Finding a partner removed from the gay community does seem like the only way but even then you run into problems with the nature of gay men and fidelity etc. (I also tend to red flag any activist I go on dates with) And as far as as… | /r/altTRP | 04/11/17 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Is There a Cure for Gay Loneliness?Thanks for the advice Ace. I do lift already. I've done sports in the past and find it depressing and hard to concentrate when playing with boys I'm attracted to. But I am active with lifting and running. Do you really think not masturbating will make me need others less?? It seems like it would do the opposite cause I'd be horny all the time. I already usually don't reveal that I'm gay unless it comes up. I'm going to continue bettering myself because I know I have it in me but remembering thes… | /r/altTRP | 22/10/17 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Is There a Cure for Gay Loneliness?Yeah this all seems about right, just extremely depressing. I feel the best I can hope for is a LTR with a guy who sleeps around maybe. But even that seems like a longshot. I'm always working on keeping my neediness in check, but there are times when I feel as though it's impossible. (aka guy who you've been close with doesn't respond for weeks on end) I just can't see myself being the more masculine partner unless the other guy is very boyish and way more attractive than me. It's just very fuck… | /r/altTRP | 21/10/17 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Is There a Cure for Gay Loneliness?Thanks for the response! I appreciate the wise words. I have been seeing a therapist who's also gay for about a year now and another therapist for a couple years before that. Haven't been able to find any kind of personal reason why I would feel that way. I've been meaning to get involved with an lgbt organization. Preferably one that helps homeless lgbt or something like that. All the ones I've been a part of in the past have been politically and ideologically polarizing and have been much more… | /r/altTRP | 21/10/17 10:43 PM |
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