| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | There isn't someone for everyone | Debate | Neon-Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 06:46 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsEveryday good women marry men who have all these characteristics. Marriage means nothing. It's just settling for less. Their dating and hookup experiences are what matters more. That's when true attraction comes in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedWould say the same with Andrew Tate Red pill videos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 02:24 PM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Date the women who are fine with 50/50. Those are unicorns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 06:32 AM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Lol hitting the gym doesn't change face or height. You wouldn't understand unless you live as a bottom 10%-20% man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 06:30 AM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Either communicate like an adult or some bitching about it. Most women would cancel the date if a man mentions 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 06:28 AM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Fully agree. And they justify this with "muh patriarchy made us like that" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 06:13 AM |
| 5 | Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselvesEasy to say when you will never live as a bottom 10%-20% man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 03:38 PM |
| 9 | Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselvesI struggle to see how the reward is “so low”. You wouldn't unless you lived as a bottom 10%-20% man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 03:26 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyone‘Women don’t want me because I’m short/ugly.’ Yeah women don't like settling. They all deserve top 10% men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:20 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneThere are men in wheelchairs with shriveled limbs And how many don't? I don't think most physically challenged men gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:17 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyonePretty much this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:14 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneSo like if yours is 5, would you only date who has a body count of 5 ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:13 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneAhh yes, of course it's women's fault for choosing bad guys When did I say that it's their fault? They can do whatever they want. Just don't lie and say it when a bottom 20% man comes and rants about his dating failures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:09 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneSo dating a virgin ( man with no options) dating down ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:05 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneWrong. Hypergamy is absolutely there. Women don't like men who don't have options. A post was made a few hours ago on this same topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:00 PM |
| – | There isn't someone for everyoneI don't think we're still at the stage where only 20-30% bottom feeders have zero options. They actually don't have options. No woman wants the bottom 20% man. They are just settling. I don't count settling as options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 06:57 PM |
| 30 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?Instead, you have to learn to play a bit hard to get, to be a challenge for her, be a guy she can’t land or get to settle down very easily this doesn't work for unattractive guys. Women don't dream of landing with ugly guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 05:02 AM |
| -10 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?Why don't women act the same with attractive men ? Women are always ready for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How much do you think SMV really matters in relationships?That first stage may not be heaviest weighted factor in the entire relationship, but it’s still the first. Meaning if you can’t pass it then you can’t access the rest. Not the heaviest but the most important stage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 01:58 AM |
| 0 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Lol no . Go check out the definition of revealed preferences and how it's measured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Lol. All these "revealed preference" matter only after there is enough sexual attraction towards the man. If a woman doesn't find a man attractive for being a potential partner these don't even matter. A woman is not going to date a guy just because he is " a good lover, loyal and supportive" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:15 PM |
| 3 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.I’m responding to this comment about how men don’t think they should have to try Why try if the chances are near zero for so many men today. It would have made sense if men had the same amount of dating options, and didn't have to approach and go through rejections every time. You wouldn't know unless you have lived as an average man in today's dating market . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:24 PM |
| 4 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.(Cough husband material is not an insult, it’s a compliment. No one wants to marry a fuck boy cough). Lol !! What an absolute lie ! Then why just keep him for marriage only ? Why not just stay loyal to him the moment you meet him ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:37 AM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Would you date, marry and have sex with a man you find sexually unattractive? like looking at him makes you drier than sahara. No, right ? Even if a man approaches you who has the perfect personality for you but you aren't sexually attracted to him , his presence won't even come in your mind. All this "heshouldbegoodtoothers, listentomewithouttalkinginbetween" bs is gonna come into your mind only when you see him as a potential partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 04:22 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Then why say "looks don't matter to women much" ? Just accept and say you want a top 20% man in looks,height and money, but he should also have the perfect personality for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistWhat's your age ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 07:25 PM |
| 48 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"The same thing applies for being used for sex. A man is being deceptive in order to get sex knowing that if was honest and said that’s all he wanted she wouldn’t have slept with him. But no woman is entitled to a relationship. Even if a guy said that he wanted a ltr before having sex doesn't mean he can't change his mind later. Just like A woman can stop and withdraw consent in the middle of sex because of "whatever" reason, a man can too in any situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 06:34 AM |
| 22 | It’s unhealthy for someone to never having someone else be romantically interested in them.And the best way to fix this is to listen to the gender you are attracted to telling you what attracts them, and what turns them off. Women are saying they are attracted to height... https://np.reddit.com/r/shortguys/s/FUHD465K2V https://np.reddit.com/r/shortguys/s/kALxKVmzb6 What if I am short? I have no other way to improve my height except surgeries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | "Husband" is a compliment. "Material" is objectificationThe word "material" makes it objectifying. No one likes getting objectified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:33 PM |
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