NeonScarredHearts Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Lighthearted ways to mention you want a more traditional relationship while online dating and first few dates?	DATING ADVICE	NeonScarredHearts	/r/RedPillWomen	10/11/23 05:38 PM

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7	In the world of actual high value people, is the red pill truly valid? You’re completely right. I entered success at a young age (23) and work with very high earners and C suite individuals in tech. My sister is even more successful financially, and all her social circle and mine have men who don’t think like this nor do they want that extreme American version of the perfect redpill woman. I noticed a lot of us in the high tech space are children of immigrants and we tend to not be as dogmatic about everything since our parents’ countries were naturally more tradit…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 06:23 AM
19	Having a debate ..about roles I mean … do I think it’s ok? Yeah nothing morally wrong about that to me. Especially if I’m driving. Would it be nice to have a man do it? Yeah sure I guess. I just don’t think it’s that serious tbh.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/24 08:02 AM
14	Thoughts on wanting to be taken care of by a man? Not everyone can afford a cleaning person. And a cleaning person is not enough to take care of the rest of the household duties, so you’d need to hire more people. If you can’t afford more help, 8 times out of 10, the mental burden for taking care of the home will fall on the wife. It’s a fact. So personally, I’d rather just focus on that and be less stressed than try to “force” my husband to help more. I don’t find any fulfillment climbing corporate 9-5. I’m a successful woman already (almost s…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/24 07:40 AM
40	Thoughts on wanting to be taken care of by a man? I want to be taken care of financially by a man. I’ve always had — it was logical to me before even getting into RPW. Most women in my family and around me in society are overworked, stressed, and carry the load at home and work. I refuse to live that kind of life, since most men won’t actually carry 50% of the housework regardless if they promise to do so, I decided that I’d rather focus on the home and have my man focus on work. You can’t force men to change but you can change yourself. So I’m…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/07/24 06:35 PM
2	How important is it for the man you want to marry to have a stable job? First of all, as a female in the art/design space, the starving artist trope is a common and dated myth. There are many stable high paying jobs in the arts, you just have to be good enough to snag them. The issue is that since art is so “subjective”, many people enter the fields thinking it’s easy and don’t accurately analyze their talent and / or don’t grind hard enough to achieve high skill levels. A lot of the time, these are the people who struggle to find work. But of course certain fields …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/24 06:32 AM
1	Do men really enjoy providing or a coverup? Yeah I’ll admit that I’ve always feared the risk of ending up with an overly “domineering” guy. I’ve heard way too many stories of dysfunctional households with that dynamic, and I’m a free spirit at heart (an artist), so that’s part of the reason I’ve avoided them for so long. But now that I’m older I realize that there are many men out there who are balanced and healthy, I just need to find them. If I’m lucky, maybe a fellow creative — they tend to have a more relaxed temperament anyways. In m…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/24 11:39 PM
8	Do men really enjoy providing or a coverup? Girlll trust me, you don’t have to tell me twice lol 😂	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/23 07:15 PM
10	Do men really enjoy providing or a coverup? Are you Igbo? Yeah respect is very important to Igbo men and they’ll avoid women who don’t. Not all of them are that extreme though (“totally and fully in control of the marriage and her life choices going forward”). There are some control freaks but I’ll avoid those, I of course will submit but that doesn’t mean he becomes God in my life. I want a Christian man who treats me like the Bible says and will encourage me to follow Gods plan for my life. Most Nigerian American men aren’t that extreme…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/23 07:12 PM
36	Do men really enjoy providing or a coverup? In my ancestral culture (Nigeria, Igbo), men genuinely love to provide. They feel less than if they don’t. And unlike most Americans, it doesn’t matter if the woman acts “masculine “ or not they just do it out of duty. I’ve always been open to interracial dating and for a long time was most attracted to Caucasian Americans (more than men from my own background), but I’ve also noticed most of them nowadays don’t want to be the main provider / leader. Even if they claim they do, it’s always comes …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/23 04:38 AM
1	Lighthearted ways to mention you want a more traditional relationship while online dating and first few dates? Thanks for this perspective / advice! I’ve never considered these statistics but it makes sense. I’ll be DMing you :)	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/23 09:14 PM
6	Lighthearted ways to mention you want a more traditional relationship while online dating and first few dates? Aww absolutely love the drawing idea! So far I’ve gotten lots of good / sweet responses to my bio, but I definitely will consider adding questions for convo starters. Thanks again for these clever ideas :)	/r/RedPillWomen	10/11/23 08:40 PM
7	Lighthearted ways to mention you want a more traditional relationship while online dating and first few dates? Hi, well men from my culture are hard to come across here in the states. We’re quite a minority population, and in general, culture / race never mattered to me when dating. Although you bring up good points about the reality of finding a typical American man with these qualities who isn’t overtly ideological. In my culture, most men feel the need to provide for their future spouse and it’s sort of a “given”. So no matter the personality of the man, (eg. artistic, intellectual, blue collar, white…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/11/23 08:11 PM
0	Lighthearted ways to mention you want a more traditional relationship while online dating and first few dates? Haha yeah I get what you mean. Good ideas, thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	10/11/23 06:49 PM
3	Lighthearted ways to mention you want a more traditional relationship while online dating and first few dates? Ok yeah that’s a good point. Thanks for the insight!	/r/RedPillWomen	10/11/23 06:38 PM
7	Lighthearted ways to mention you want a more traditional relationship while online dating and first few dates? This was very helpful advice! Thank you so much 😊	/r/RedPillWomen	10/11/23 06:35 PM
2	I’m a formerly poor woman who married into extreme wealth. AMA! Haha ok, got it. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/23 04:15 AM
10	I’m a formerly poor woman who married into extreme wealth. AMA! Very interesting, thanks for sharing! I also work in tech but live in a super flashy city in LA. I just moved and I feel really nervous / uncomfortable interacting with some folks I see since like you, I have imposter syndrome. I came from a middle class background, but my parents were immigrants so I’m not familiar with upper echelons of American society and how to interact. Where do these kinds of people tend to hang out during their free time? I wish to network with these people to build a cu…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/23 10:02 PM
3	How can I help my boyfriend deal with his ADHD without mothering him ? As a woman with ADHD this is kinda….. idk imagine replacing ADHD wth another physiological disability? I understand you’re probably going through something with your SO, but don’t paint whole groups of people, who have a condition they were born with, with a large brush.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/10/23 04:30 PM
9	Is marriage inherently emasculating to a man? No, because I’m Christian and don’t subscribe to that particular secular belief. I belief God originally made both men and women “naturally “ able to be committed to one person. I think sin has corrupted that original design in our current world. So while it may be more difficult for men to keep to that standard now because of our sinful nature, I don’t think the original standard for marriage is “emasculating”.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/23 04:52 PM
1	Youth Struggling with Sexual Sin Thank you so much for this, I’ll definitely check this out. God bless ❤️	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/23 12:04 AM
1	My (28F) Bf (29M) is prioritizing video games over me and not communicating effectively Well it’s not “gamers” who do this, it’s addicted gamers. Gaming is simply a hobby, anyone can be unhealthily addicted to anything (sports, instruments, watching TV, etc.) I and every gamer I know don’t prioritize gaming over “everything”, we have lives. But we do prioritize gaming over other forms of entertainment b/c it’s our favorite hobby.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/23 03:16 PM
6	My (28F) Bf (29M) is prioritizing video games over me and not communicating effectively Yeah as a female gamer/artist, this actually sounds great to me cuz I’d love to either join my partner or work on art while he’s playing lol. But I’ve always been a gamer so I completely understand playing for hours and days on end lol. But if it’s not your thing , it’s simply not your thing, and you guys either have to compromise or realize that your not a good match.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/23 03:01 AM
5	Youth Struggling with Sexual Sin I wish I had advice but just wanted to say I’m also a young woman struggling with the exact same thing since my teens as well. I’m still a virgin but my sins have acted as a “crutch“ preventing me from losing it this whole time. I was culturally raised to never even consider being intimate with a man until I’m married, and rationally, there are way too many benefits for waiting for me to ever forsake this boundary of mine. I’ve never had a BF before but hope to purify my mind and begin to start …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/23 10:15 PM