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| 1 | Got flat out rejected, don’t know how to feelThat's helpful, thanks a lot for those examples. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Got flat out rejected, don’t know how to feelHow are you establishing intent without the initial opening line of him calling her cute. That is indirect game and she might think you are having a curious and paid conversation. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Stirling Cooper: How I Grew My Penis Book & Sexual Dominance CoursesI get that. I don't even want to come to this sub though anymore because I can't post anything. I must be IP banned or something. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Stirling Cooper: How I Grew My Penis Book & Sexual Dominance CoursesLOL what rules are my posts breaking??? Nothing i try to post is rule breaking compared to what goes through. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Stirling Cooper: How I Grew My Penis Book & Sexual Dominance Courses/u/captain_w00t /u/elbynerual I've asked literally 10,000 times to have my posts approved... yet this is allowed? Why exactly? How did this not get filtered out but all of my posts do? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 11:01 AM |
| 2 | 28 year old Virgin. Help me out guysWell it's a new year, so I need to work on that. I personally don't want it to come in the form of a fleeting hookup, but we'll see what happens. | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 08:59 AM |
| 0 | 28 year old Virgin. Help me out guysRight now I'm learning to ski. I wouldn't say it's the most social thing to do honestly which kind of surprised me, but it's a challenging sport to say the least. When I was in college I used to row, but those days are behind me. I still go the university gym nearby so I run into college student a lot. Other than that, I work around a bunch of older married men so they're not really useful for expanding my social network. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:39 PM |
| 2 | 28 year old Virgin. Help me out guysI had to stop reading at the meetup app suggestion. This is thrown out there a lot, but unfortunately the reality of it is not the same as the rosy picture presented on Reddit... it's couples and older people, and there won't be girls under 30 on there. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | 28 year old Virgin. Help me out guysI mean I'm 28 myself and a virgin. I'm not even ugly or overweight, I'm just under 6' tall and 160 lbs. I am not very muscular though, I think I need to put muscles on this new year. But I'm kind of picky, I don't necessarily want to go for the first mid chick in the bar (and in my city the women are not the prettiest or the cutest). | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | 28 year old Virgin. Help me out guysI'm in the same boat, exact age. I came close on November 27 but due to an unfortunate miscommunication on my end I ended up with nothing. In hindsight I don't necessarily regret it because I wasn't ready anyways and she was only in town for the holidays. I am seeking something sustainable. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Any tips for New Year’s Eve tonight?I'm not going out to the bars for this very reason. I want to just be present in the moment and I think chasing girls at 10pm on New Year's Eve will not help my case. I'll wait until the weekend. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:33 PM |
| 5 | What healthy and uplifting advice do you have for a soon to be 22 year old virgin?Well that may be true but I'm 28 and in the same position as you | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:32 PM |
| 0 | 10-year resultsWow I'm a year younger than you and I've completely struggled to gain any traction... looking at this there's no excuse why I'm a virgin. Fortunately I've had several make outs in the last few months, two of them were in a bar. But that's it. Well, at least you prove that it's possible to get laid once. And ironically enough, I live in the most walkable neighborhood in a small city with two major pro sports teams (as a size reference). Steps away from multiple bars and cafes. Yet I haven't crack… | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How to Connect with Women on the Dance Floor Without Talking?What's weird is that it's easier for me to get physical and intimate with girls on a dance floor than it is for me to do so just by talking to them... at least in the two times I've done it | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 01:34 AM |
| 2 | What to talk about with girls at a party???Well, I don't really want to be the guy on the other end of that to begin with so I wouldn't do it | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What to talk about with girls at a party???I think bar/party can be interchangeable here. I don't get invited to parties because I don't have a social circle. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Is HingeX worth it for guys?No. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Best general places to approach girls?I just came back from going out tonight. It was ladies night, and I felt completely isolated because everyone was like 21-22 and I feel like an old man at 28. Despite the fact that I have less dating expertise most of them, I still felt lonely. It wasn't until I saw a dude who looked like he was in his early 30s that I found someone to talk to, and he invited me back to the booth with his cousins and siblings where they gave me beer. So while I didn't talk to any girls tonight, I guess I had a g… | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Hard to find other guys eho actually want to go out and have fun? Also hard to find places that are populated with single women who don't have kids and aren't overweight in my area?I'm out at a bar right now and I have the same problem | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Best general places to approach girls?I was in Target, Bath and Body Works, Chipotle and Barnes and Noble this afternoon doing Christmas shopping. While I could have approached some girls that I saw, I was very observant of my surroundings and determined that several girls were not as "solo" as they looked. For instance, I had to wait in a long line to check out at Target, and this cute blond chick standing in front of me had a shopping chart with 2 coffee cups in the cupholders. I figured that was off, and about 5 minutes later som… | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 12:50 AM |
| 3 | When you were in college how many women did you seduce?I asked out my teammate on the rowing team. We ate breakfast at Denny's but she turned out to be lesbian. This was the only date I had in college. | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Entering a room full with peopleIs it bad that that's the first thing I noticed too? Lol | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 06:44 AM |
| 0 | Fundamentals: How to get better online dating resultsPay $$$ | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Besides "clubs" or "bars" where are the most appropriate places to approach women? How would one go about it?I don't mind going to bars now, but the environment has to be right. Last night was ladies night, and contrary to popular belief, it doesn't really attract as many ladies as you might expect. Rather it's a bunch of dudes looking for ladies (and the girls there just weren't my type). For $10 entry that's pretty bad. | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 07:42 AM |
| 1 | How is the dating world after 30?I can definitely ask around, I'm 28 so I think most girls I'd be into would just be going with friends. Ironically the ski resorts market heavily to college students and college ski clubs, which I wasn't able to join when I attebded | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | How is the dating world after 30?I think I have bad luck with choosing hobbies... I thought skiing would be my big break for socializing, but it turns out it's not as easy to meet girls through the sport as it may seem on the surface. It's more like, you meet a girl and take her skiing rather than meeting a girl on the slopes. The question is, where do I meet said girl? Right now it's either the gym or the bars I guess. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 06:54 AM |
| 2 | How is the dating world after 30?What about skiing? | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 06:46 AM |
| 2 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?I like how this post is upvoted and the other was trashed 🤣🤣🤣 I can't understand Reddit sometimes even after using the site for almost 15 years. | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 07:32 AM |
| 0 | Instagram gameHow do you mutually follow girls that you've never talked to before...? Don't you meet someone, ask for an IG and take it from there? I'm 28 but the only way I can DM a girl is through meeting via an approach, "stalking" via looking at mutual followers, or just cold DMing a random girl I find on a business' followers list... | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Spotify Wrapped Are out- Your OpportunityYou may be joking but I think you're right. A lot of Instagram game really only works if you're in high school or something. I really wish I were 15 years younger sometimes, there are so many social opportunities I could take advantage of that didn't exist back then then. Instagram had just started to blow up when I graduated high school in 2014. Snapchat was more popular at the time, but I used it more as a toy than a social networking app | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Spotify Wrapped Are out- Your OpportunityHow am I supposed to magically find girls that may or may not be taken thru ig? | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Spotify Wrapped Are out- Your OpportunityWhose DMs am I looking for? I only follow like 100-150 girls, most are taken or we're just old friends. Am I supposed to look for randos? | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Dating without dating apps is so much better.At least for me, I can walk into a bar tonight and talk to at least 1 girl my type that may or may not be into me. On Hinge, I haven't had a match in 2 weeks. I think that speaks for itself. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | One night stand turned into confusing future/u/Captain_w00t technically this post is about a "specific situation". I need to make a field report from last night but literally every post I make here on any account gets hidden/removed. I haven't made a post here in like 2 years, and the mod team tells me there's nothing they can do because the filters get triggered. Where am I supposed to ask my questions? It's hard for me to even come to this sub anymore when I have legit questions, search and ask around but can't get an answer because my … | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How to get a hookup on Tinder?I have the same issues don't worry | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to and bond with women in a non-romantic way especially in social settings (college, gym etc) as I do with men?You talk about mods banning or removing questions... with all due respect to the mods, I've been trying to submit posts here for the last 2 years and none get through. I don't know why the gatekeeping is so heavy here. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 12:13 AM |
| 12 | Housekeeping tips that helped me in the dating worldI have a brand new luxury apartment that I've been in for 2.5 years. I always try keeping it spotless. Not 1 girl has stepped foot in it. There's a couple boxes of expired condoms under the sink in the bathroom. But I've gotten compliments for my decor choices. Maybe people think I'm gay now. I don't know if the cleanliness of your place really makes a difference. Plenty of dudes get laid by cute chicks while living in a pigsty/rat's nest. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm looking for a wingman in Vaughan or North YorkI live in Buffalo but have a lot of friends in the GTA. Seems like a shitty place to out. Like Markham | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern datingWhy aren't there resources on "insta game?" If it worked so well why haven't I met anyone it's worked for? | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach success storyWow... I mean I approached 150 women in 3 cities and got nothing out of it. I approached a waitress at a restaurant with my friends and got a date from that, but I was rejected afterwards | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find single girls?Yes I empathize with this... especially if you're surrounded by cliques. If you check my profile, I made a post about this in my hometown's subreddit. It's frustrating. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Besides clubs and high end malls what are other places to increase your numbers?OK well you better work from home then because if you are too busy you won't be around to take the dog out | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Besides clubs and high end malls what are other places to increase your numbers?Why are clubs and high end malls the first thing that comes to mind?? | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I gave 10 people new dating app pics. Here is what happenedAll of these pictures have the same thing in common. Showing off a (most likely) fake lifestyle to try to get girls who want that kind of lifestyle. If that's not who you are I don't see the point. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Maybe they need to eat, but I don't know anyone IRL that would pay to hear more on this topic. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Do this if she leaves you on readI have had this happen on multiple occasions | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Let me tell you about Existentialism…I never have... how did this post slip through then? | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Let me tell you about Existentialism…No my point was that my posts are always blocked | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Let me tell you about Existentialism…/u/Elbynerual ... and whenever I try to make posts here, they get blocked, but this gets let through? WTF | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | What has your experience been with the state new jersey?The armpit of America | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 01:03 AM |
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