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| 276 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov did | BOOK REPORT | Neoprude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:06 AM |
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| 18 | Legitimately evil m*le tells his gf he *had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend himThere's an abandoned village in the Pyrenées near me and I dream about turning it into a female commune honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 11:35 AM |
| 5 | “By definition, you can't make a difference if the big ambition is simply standing sentry to your innocence. That's not a way to live; that can't be what a woman is. That’s just a life of running fire drills.” —— Dessa!I've spent the afternoon falling in love with her, thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Sex Advice Scammers: Nadia Bokody - Borderline Personality Disorder, Self Harm, Abusive Behavior, and Zero educational background apparently qualifies one as a "Sexpert"This is so so true but have you come across Louise Perry? Not only is she involved with the incredible 'We Can't Consent To This' campaign here in the UK, she's written several articles exposing 'sex positivity' for the damaging lie that it is. She also has a book on the subject coming out this year! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didExactly! In that era, the belief that women hit a 'wall' at around 30 was a lot stronger. Their lives were limited outside of matrimony, they weren't allowed to support themselves, or travel, or move to a different town and start again. Lizzie didn't give in to that fear and neither did Jane - so neither should we. It sounds like you've made so much progress, I'm really glad for you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:40 AM |
| 54 | How it feels to hear that other women have shared experiences with men/no longer having to gaslight yourself about how you were treated:There's that Dworkin quote isn't there - "many women, I think, resist feminism because it is an agony to be fully conscious of the brutal misogyny which permeates culture, society, and all personal relationships." The flipside of this is that once you've stopped resisting (and accepted that awful realisation) you can start to try to do something about it. Women like us can find each other and try to do something about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 7 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didA woman being honest as opposed to nice was clearly as shocking then as it still is now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didThank you both! I imagine I'll do one for Sense and Sensibility and/or Persuasion the next time I find myself procrastinating 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didOmg yeah, we think that women who choose to focus on their careers get a lot of shit from society TODAY. I can't imagine the degree of strength and drive it must have required in her case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 8 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didIt's my go-to comfort viewing :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 19 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didYes exactly! Darcy could teach a masterclass on how to pursue a woman UNOBTRUSIVELY. When Lizzie is thrown in his path again he doesn't waste the opportunity to show her that he's serious about her. He takes the initiative by befriending her aunt and uncle, introducing her to his own family and generally being solicitous about her wellbeing. But as you say, he only actually asks her to marry him again after he discovers that she MIGHT look on his offer favourably. It's the opposite of pressuring… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 22 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didCome to think of it, her leaving Rochester (not to mention rejecting St John when everyone was putting pressure on her to accept him!) was a serious FDS move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:50 PM |
| 12 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didIt's never too late sis. I'm in my early 20s now but still wish I'd known before, I could have saved myself some trauma. But it's not our fault there's no one looking out for girls and telling us this stuff when we first need to know it. I'm glad you're free of the old mindset now x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:47 PM |
| 29 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didI grew up with that movie and loved it long before I read the book! Marianne (I say this with affection) is very much a HVW acting like a pickme. She's beautiful and confident with an affectionate heart and a passion for music and poetry. She even has high standards, just not enough of them - she assumes that if a man enters into her feelings on one point then he can't be bad. She's naïve, that's all. Austen might as well have written "WATCH OUT FOR FUCKBOYS (and don't pin your entire happiness … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:26 AM |
| 16 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMMy dad was like this. Sometimes I think it's not just a matter of carelessness, it's actually a kind of weird power trip. He was obsessive about my mum in some ways - she was 20+ years younger than him and he was very proud of that/very scared of losing her 🙄 - so being disrespectful in 'small' ways was necessary for him to placate his own ego. It was his way of telling himself (and her) that she wasn't all that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:26 AM |
| 9 | What progress and solidarity looks like.The next time I hear this, I'll reply that whether or not I'm "like other girls" doesn't matter - he's clearly like other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.I know this reply is incredibly late but I just had to say thank you for putting this into words. It's something I've figured out for myself (because I've been forced to) but which I've never heard from anyone else before. Thank you for making me feel less isolated and insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:55 PM |
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