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| 8 | Did I give up too early?You will never know. One important thing to realize, for your own mental health, is that you were A LOT more invested in her (emotionally,) than she ever was. Heck, you came to Reddit and posted a several long paragraph about a single small interaction. If she was interested, she would've given you her number. Or, who knows, maybe she has a boyfriend and didn't want to create a conflict. You will never know, and you should come to terms with this. For next time - express interest early on. Women… | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:55 PM |
| 5 | How To Be A F*ckboy 😈🤡 | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How to beat the fear of rejectionYou have to flip the scenario. You are a loser if you have the inner desire to "mate," i.e. approach, make a genuine connection with the women, but you withhold yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 03:33 PM |
| 6 | I feel my game has been trash with my GF lately; how do I fix this?I had an ostomy bag and I cried in front of her while telling her my condition, before sleeping with the girl i was dating. Her and I then became a couple and we dated seriously, to a point of her hinting at marriage. While this dating coach’s advice holds true to a certain extent, it does not apply to good quality women you want to keep long term. So, what happens when you encounter an illness and show weakness, expect her to leave you while you work on yourself? | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Where to start for a beginner?Read Models by Mark Manson and reflect on your recent experiences. Don't go out and mass approach. Save your self esteem. | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Me and her are almost never on the same vibe. Is it all about personal power?If you have any doubts, you have your answer. Dating and pursuing should not be difficult. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 02:28 PM |
| 40 | Women seem into it then suddenly notMixed messages are clear messages. Don't let your mind get hung up as she is probably doing this to multiple people. Stay calm and keep your options open, or rather, have an "abundance mindset." | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 04:52 PM |
| 2 | My ex's friend is hot and cold on me. Should I move on?I am going through therapy, and my therapist told me that animals in nature pay very close attention to mistakes. Because one mistake and you are dead. We, as humans, we focus on the positive traits of the people we meet - they are beautiful, treat us well, etc, and fail to see the negatives. | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 05:40 PM |
| 5 | kinda gave up on relationship in generalYou are damned if you do, damned if you don't. One thing that I've learned is to never hold it in. If you like someone, break the news ASAP. Preferably in person. Make yourself vulnerable and stick your neck out. They will at least respect you. Don't beat around the bush. | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Someone explain this to me, why would a woman try to schedule a date with me multiple times in the course of a year but always be too busy to actually go out on said date?You have like 6 matches, and she has 120. Sorry but online dating is very very skewed. At least your mind is at the right place, so curb your expectations. Throw the ball in her court by giving her a “hey, I was looking forward to meeting you in person but you seem to be busy at the moment. Let me know when you want to catch up.” And then drop it mentally. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How does love-bombing and "not showing too much interest" coincide?All of the stuff you posted are acts, and therefore are needy. Because with your actions, you are trying to manipulate and get a certain outcome. Rather - work on being confident and vulnerable (telling her you like her, escalating, etc.. vulnerability in the context of putting your neck out there..) Acting is for narcissists. Don't go that route. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:35 PM |
| 8 | Girl who’s “too busy this week” for a dateVery very well said. Thank you for sharing your perspective. It is very rare in this sub. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:09 PM |
| 0 | I blew a perfect opportunityDon’t be creepy. If she was interested, she would have responded. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 06:22 PM |
| 4 | How can I be more emotionally unavailable as a Woman ? Any tips or advice pleaseI don't think there is anything wrong with you, but if you think it is unhealthy obsession, I do think it could be stemming from anxiety. You need to figure out what is causing that anxiety. Is it a lack of self love, or is it the fear of being rejected, or many other reasons that could play a role. I think it is anxiety which then translates into obsessiveness. Don't ask how I know. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to never get over a major fumble?Too needy and obsessive. You need to be more dynamic and out of your head. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:12 AM |
| -4 | I’m 26 she’s 46….want to pursue her but I’m stumped.Yes, we get you. And you sound like an obsessive creep. Listen to the above comments. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 09:51 AM |
| 63 | What to do when a girl calls you bro ?You are overthinking. Depends on context. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 03:11 PM |
| 11 | I fumble girls by being too honest.Read Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 06/09/23 03:16 AM |
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