Nephlam Archive

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1	How do you get a girl to open up? Do not ask her too questions. You are not interrogating or interviewing her. She’s been asked about her hoodies, birthplace, likes and dislikes hundreds of times. What you want to do is make statements. Cold read. Start a conversation and keep building on that conversation. Open up to her while creating a space for her to open up too.	/r/seduction	15/04/20 04:14 AM
6	Is it a good or a bad thing if a girl makes you feel nervous? You can be as nervous and anxious around attractive woman. It just depends on how you behave while nervous. Rockstars, musicians, comedians and performers of all kind get stage fright. But they still focus on their gig and get the job done. Seducing women is like performing arts. You are creating a space that is fun, interesting, routine, all the while making it seem like it’s new and creative. You can crack killer jokes and be act charming af while your knees are trembling and your face is red …	/r/seduction	15/04/20 04:11 AM
8	How not to get Attached with girls?? I hate to say this because it’s shallow and can be demeaning. But here it goes: People are expendable. Unless they are your immediate family members, friends or lovers, 99% of the people you meet, you will never see again. Only difference is how long they’re visiting your life before they make their timely exit. These guys you’re falling for, will be nothing but a distant memory a year from now. You only live once. So go out, go explore, hangout with your girlfriends etc (The generic “get on wit…	/r/seduction	15/04/20 12:57 AM
0	How to be secure without validation from women? Dude ugly guys get laid a lot. Stop looking for validation. Learn to validate yourself. You’re feeling this way because you’re trying to turn one off encounters into something longer. Maybe the girls you described aren’t looking for that. Don’t waste your time on girls who aren’t willing to keep your around. Hold your head up high and: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ahTgZeYJQPE	/r/seduction	14/04/20 11:57 PM
6	Too nice? That’s a tough question man. You gotta be willing to work to change that mindset. You’re nice because you want to be kind. Or you fear rejection. Or you want to be accepted, etc. most reasons people are nice or pushovers are because of deeply seated beliefs about yourself and others. The quick fix is to act a little arrogant/cocky every time the opportunity presents itself. The hard part of that is being consistent. On the other hand, the real problem is not being nice. But the fact that you thi…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 11:49 PM
1	Any advice on how to re-win a guy over? 🎶On to the next one🎶 Sometimes passion just fizzles out. There is millions of books telling you how keep things exiting and fun but thats just a part of dating. It has its ups, and definitely has its downs. There’ll be plenty of other guys you’re attracted to and they will be obsessed with you. That’s sometime in the future. Confidence comes from preparation. So do whatever you’re willing to get ready for the next romantic adventure of your life.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 10:21 PM
2	Fellow introverts, how many cold approaches can you do in a day before being spent? What about night game approaches? Oh man when I first started cold approaching, it was hard. My goal was to cold approach a minimum of 5 girls then took it from there. Sometimes, after some momentum, I approached way more than 5. Other times I hit it off before then. But most time, I was just glad I got it out the way and began enjoying my night.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 10:17 PM
1	How do I ask a girl on a date whom's Snap I just got? You need to connect with her a little more. Find out more about her interests just so when you do hangout, you’re more prepared with things to talk about. Things that interest her. Also trying to set up date too soon could back fire. But each situation is different. So shoot your shot or hold off a little bit until you guys bond a little more.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 10:12 PM
32	How not to get Attached with girls?? To attract a lady, you must be willing to let her go. You must be willing to walk away and lose her at any given moment. This will keep her guessing what your next move will be. Being romantically attached to a woman means you fear losing her. No girl out there wants to be your priority. Your number one should always be you. Women just want to be a part of this.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 08:27 PM