| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | LVM and their double standards. | RANT | NeptunianBabe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:16 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | I’d rather be single forever. Who the heck would ever want this life?!Yeah of course he can't complain because it works for HIM. What the heck is "kitten care" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Part 2: For sh*ts and giggles, what's your HVM zodiac sign?Virgo, aqua and cancer are the worst men I've ever dealt with. Virgos especially, my dad is one and he's not a good husband to my mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Then again, alot of males wouldn’t tolerate their daughter being treated the way they themselves treat womenMeanwhile my dad was telling me "don't be a gold digger" 🙄🙄 no offense but his relationship with my mother is nothing NOTHING to look up to. A narc pick me relationship smh. I keep telling my mum to stand up for herself but she doesn't, she's too scared to "offend him" and it makes me so angry. My dad made sure that she's financially stunted in everyway so that she could never leave him, he doesn't even buy her the bare essentials. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Man cheats on woman, publishes it in a pathetic attempt to get her back & scrotes in the comments going “You REAL for that bro! Get her back!” If it was the other way around, theyd call her a hoe & the man a simp. double standards on display right here, folks.I'm getting Nick Dunne vibes from this apology **infinite eyeroll** | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Gotta save them the back pains from stretching so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:18 AM |
| 7 | The delusion... I’ve only seen men look better in their 30s vs their 20s if they were obese and then lost weightHave they forgotten that they're more likely to father children with complications at an older age? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:14 AM |
| 25 | Girl's fiance stales and spends their entire savings to buy a gaming pc, plays with it all day ignoring her, house chores and his work from home. People in comments "how are you going to trust him with money again?"What a piece of sh** 🙄 she should've left him the moment he took their money and used it on something else. I'm sure you won't find any comments on the post calling him a gold digger, but if roles were reversed.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Just Got Rehired!You're welcome :) , wishing you all the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 25 | Send this to an unwanted suitor without a context | by Meme MomIf I'm not wrong its Karolina Zebrowska, she makes youtube videos about vintage dresses and gowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:37 PM |
| 9 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menMen don't listen cause they DON'T WANT TO LISTEN. Not cause they lack comprehension skills, posts like these annoy me cause they make us think we need to walk on eggshells while dealing with men. If he's being a jackass why not leave him, there is no need to try and change a grown man🙄🙄. Also I didn't even bother to read the post I just read the title and felt exhausted. And YES most men have fragile egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:10 PM |
| 17 | When they care more about their penises than they care about your wellbeing, RUN!Yes they are. There is this period app called Flo that has a community section where women can discuss things anonymously and trust me the things I've seen there about men just make me wonder. There is a woman who said that she got turned off by some guy she was hooking up with then she "dried" up. When she told him that they should stop cause it hurts and she isn't turned on that much he told her to drink WATER. Yall I- 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Just Got Rehired!Congratulations girl 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Okay... I’ll stay singleNever thought I'd see happy wives and cheating in the same sentence, the cognitive dissonance is strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Men talking about bumble: “Women have to send an interesting first message that isn’t just Hey or What’s up, you should also mention something in our profile and make it interesting.” Men sending first message on Tinder/Hinge: “Hey”This is just preparing the women to get ready to impress them from the beginning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:06 AM |
| 59 | Yes. Yes. Yes.And when it does, it's the most liberating thing ever, cause then we see that our lives are our own and we can live them however we want to and that men and a relationship are not everything there is to life. I really thank this sub for helping many of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:37 AM |
| 80 | Yes. Yes. Yes.If this isn't true. This is exactly what I was telling a friend yesterday,that it's always the pickmes that are trending on twitter and not cause they're pro women but cause they're pandering to men and throwing women under the bus. Just recently a lady was trending and she was telling women that they were given vaginas for free therefore they should share them FOR FREE, like they shouldn't expect a man to spend on them and spoil them and pay for stuff cause "hE's Not hEr FaTher" (amongst other … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:29 AM |
| 8 | Why vetting who you are allowing into your life is so important – They can turn into a literal threat to your very life. Be extra cautious if you have a health condition that makes you more vulnerable.I lost hope when I read that she's pregnant 😩. I know that would probably make her feel like she should stay but she shouldn't, this man clearly doesn't care about whether she and their baby die cause of what he did smh. I hope she finally gets her medicine and leaves this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Positive social media pages for women!Check out @sheratactics also | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 07:57 AM |
| 6 | Where are you queens going if FDS is banned?I've followed you back 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Where are you queens going if FDS is banned?Mine is Primordialfire, lemme follow you right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:47 AM |
| 34 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.This sub has been a safe haven for many of us and a rehabilitation centre for different issues with ourselves and regarding men. I hope it doesn't get banned 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | The mercury retrograde crawl backYes, but I changed my number recently (other reasons) so they have no way to access me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Struggle is realThey would ghost her right then and there, or stick around hoping they'd somehow get into her pants smh. Alcoholism is also something else they try to make a "personality trait" from what I've seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:39 AM |
| 11 | Struggle is realDrug addicts should also be on that list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction shows us the real nature of menThank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction shows us the real nature of menMaybe, anyway I hope I'll be able to join the subreddit. It would be great to learn and contribute where I can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction shows us the real nature of menI tried to join it but idk why I wasn't approved. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Some women desperately need FDSThese pick mes should stay off their phones🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:16 PM |
| 21 | What led you to find this sub?A scrote asked me about my "body count"🙄 so I decided to check what people thought about "body counts" on Reddit, then that's when I stumbled upon a post from this sub. I read it, the handbook and other posts, then I realized that I was passively being a pickmeisha and that I had been a pathological pickmeisha🤮 and libfem. I felt embarrassed but I decided to stay cause I wanted to change. So far so good. FDS ideology has proven to be helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:00 PM |
| 2 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠The nicest way to let him know that he's gross, is by leaving him. I highly doubt this man would be with her if she was as unhygienic as him. I don't understand why she feels she should stick around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 30 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?The bar is in hell but this man still found out how to go under it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.You're welcome 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 6 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.I got scarred from his work ever since, I'm sure it's really amazing though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:23 AM |
| 11 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.NVM/LVM are delusional. They think they have so much to offer and are god's gift to women when they're the opposite. Scroty McScrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:21 AM |
| 13 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.I don't know why they think we can't see right through their act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:07 AM |
| 93 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.This is exactly what my NVM ex told me, he had the audacity to send me Alan Watts videos afterwards to "cure" my heartbreak. Gave me a speech on how I should work to improve myself and how he'd be happy if I got someone else🙄 ...God I hate him and how much I was a pickme for his abusive ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Queens what are your feelings regarding being childfreeI'm still on the fence about it, but as I learn more about the world and see current events, I think I might end up child free. Also I have many interests and things I'd love to do and having children would hinder that, don't get me wrong though, I really love kids. I'm just scared the risk might not be worth the reward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:42 PM |
| 4 | I can't help but laugh, look at her contact name though.If Cirque du Soleil was a person, It would be this girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:08 PM |
| 15 | Shera is a queen. 💅🏼 Follow her on insta and youtube!Most men won't even stick around for a wife whose sick with a terminal illness 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:57 PM |
| 15 | A way to measure if your conscience is tyrannical, and telling you to be nice. Do you want to say no but feel bad about it? Don’t.Well said. Ladies repeat after me: LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS IS SELF ABANDONMENT! I always tell myself this every time I catch myself slipping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | FDS Youtubers and InstagrammersI have a couple of Instagram pages that I follow. Here they are: Femoiselle, simplysheneka, hypergamoushive_, not_your_typical_woman, journey2hypergamy, quotes_by_shera_7, thefemmeguide, level up in love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | My biggest regret is having "boyfriends" in my 20s. Don't do it.This is why I've decided to stay single in my early 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | 42 Year old man takes woman on coffee date, buys two cake pops, then eats both in front of her.Just ditched a guy today who thought this was appropriate for a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 17 | Why do you want to do more for men ??? WHYI saw this on twitter and I logged out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What is a random red flag that holds true? Let’s discuss patterns we’ve observed 👑👇🏽Did we date the same person? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 10:26 AM |
| 4 | Anybody else? I recognize not every child of divorce will develop attachment problems but I’d like to minimize the chanceI dated a man like this for 3 weeks and I dumped him. He refused to deal with his trauma and expected me to be his therapist. Mind you we had free counselling services in uni. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:35 AM |
| 4 | This is the harsh reality!!! This is why you should only date a HVM, and stop wasting your precious time on dusties that don’t even love you 👑😌Its from She-RaSeven's video called "He don't love you, you love him". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is designed for your failure/unhappiness. Let's discuss how to game it for your success/happiness.Which other books would you recommend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 04:28 PM |
| 8 | Early signs of narcissism.Another one is telling you about his traumas early on, this is a manipulation tactic. Made to guilt trip you and trap you emotionally early on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Early signs of narcissism.Dr Todd Grande is also a good channel for these topics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:25 PM |
| 9 | We deserve more. In other news, the world is roundWhat is NVM in full? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | NEVER DO HIS LAUNDRY SISWell said 👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:02 PM |
| 15 | ah yes, the oppression of men in AmericaI stopped reading at "men are told they can't make fun of or HIT GIRLS" what the?? I had to read it again cause I just can't believe it 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Kdramas: Epitome of LV BehaviourThis is exactly why I stopped watching them. Icouldn't stop cringing ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Famous Scrote demands 'swinging" lifestyle after he marries. Goes on to humiliate wife in Playboy interview. She divorces him. Scrote is shocked and confused.It's always the unattractive ones with such unreasonable demands, smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 02:05 PM |
| 4 | The Ten Types of Men on Tinder"Mugshot Mike" 😂Jesus Christ I'm wheezing 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 9 | YOOOO DO Y'ALL WANNA READ THE RED FLAGS I MISSED WHILE I HAD A CRUSH?Ive had experiences with two of them, they've been the most abusive men I've dealt with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 9 | I’m tired of our culture celebrating Male Incompetence. Male incompetence isn’t funny and endearing, it’s childish, unattractive, and infuriating!!🤬"Signed, his bangmaid" took me out 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 7 | And if you decide we’re splitting the bill, it’s no longer a dateReddit is so full of dusty and low value men. Smhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:59 PM |
| 50 | Maybe more women will listen to this because it's a guy, but I know most of us already know this from experiencePainful but true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Hey Queens! Please check out the official FDS Social Media Accounts!This is some exciting news!! 😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 09:23 PM |
| 54 | What’s the thing about FDS that you struggle the most with ?Forgiving myself for what I allowed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:34 AM |
| 6 | Are all men in IT crazy/creepy?I'm also doing computer science and the guys I've met so far are just overall weird, creepy, insecure "softboi" (Mr manipulative that's wants you to play mum with him) or/and abusive. I've dealt with two abusive ones, they were the atheist philosophy red pill kinda guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 10:58 AM |
| 1 | 5 ways to spot emotional immaturityYou could look into hypnotherapy. I've heard it works wonders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020It's really hard not to, but I'm sure we'll get to a point where it'll be so easy for us not to do it. Yes, with time I'll know definitely. Thanks for your input! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Okay 😊 Thank you for the great advice, I appreciate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Yeah we're in the same uni actually. He's a close friend's friend. Don't worry I don't wanna know anymore, I detached completely, that was just me feeding fantasies in my head and hoping he'd fit the frame (tres pathetiqué, I know 😂). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020You're right, I wouldn't want to look insecure haha. Thanks for the advice, I'll keep focusing on other things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020I've known him for 3 months now and he asked me out but i refused cause of the current situation. But we've been talking consistently, he's the one who reaches out almost all the time. You're right, so I should just ask right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Should I ask him where exactly and what exactly we are? If yes, how should I go about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Don’t be a fanI've texted him first like 5 times and I regret all of them. Time to take my power back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Worthy.Thank you! I always felt bad for not texting first and when I did (which is rare) I still feel bad lol. I'll definitely stop trying cause it even makes me uncomfortable in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | I don't owe anybody a response and neither do you...Am I you? Are you.. me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Twin flames, soulmates, Plutonic relationships and other Pickme bs pushed by the astrological communityI stopped watching tarot, cause they're always encouraging women to stay in bad relationships. If you read the comments under most tarot videos you'll be appalled, pickmeishas are wilding there ie "We've been on and off for six years, I caught him cheating once but he ended up leaving her for another woman. I still love him and although the journey is hard and I'm tired, I'm just gonna keep waiting for him cause he's my twin flame" 🙄🙄. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 12:01 PM |
| 1 | The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is *BLOCKED*One of my exes used to tell me that if I left him he would never date again. I left him the next week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:35 PM |
| 4 | LVM and their double standards.Hi! Wow I'm actually surprised this post wasn't taken down lol. Anyway I'm not, I'm actually African and it's the same here and I only came to realize it recently after I joined uni. To be honest it really sucks how much they have double standards and they aren't willing to change smh, mostly cause they don't see a problem with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 09:01 PM |
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