NerdySciFiChick Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
122	Is he a man or a puppy?	DUMP HIS ASS	NerdySciFiChick	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/20 12:41 PM
113	Can we talk about manners?	RANT	NerdySciFiChick	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/20 02:52 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Yesterday my [21F] boyfriend [24M] slapped me for not putting enough makeup on before we had sex. It was the first time he hit me. He apologised last night. Should I give him another chance or dump him now? When I read these post by women, these absolutely bat shit bonkers abusive incidents - and they are acting so casual about it, it breaks my heart. How much have they been through that things like this aren’t immediate call your mom/sister/bff to get you out of there!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 12:21 AM
6	Yeah 😕 On to bigger and better things! Everything is great now!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 04:11 PM
33	Yeah 😕 I know it’s a really old timey option, but I used a diaphragm for years and never got pregnant. This was during a marriage that I thought was monogamous (hahahaha) so we didn’t use condoms. But it was pretty easy to use, and effective.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 10:39 AM
15	"It only took two days!" I don’t know either but I LOVE THEM!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/20 11:12 PM
10	What’s the strategy when you’re not looking for marriage? I can tell you what I did, it may or may not be helpful. I dated around, and was very up front that I was not looking for marriage or cohabitation and that no one was meeting my kids, every. (Huge baggage from an abusive step father) Before I got my footing was I was a super Pickmeisha - felt guilty about them paying for coffee (!), always planned all the dates, ended up just going to dates houses to have sex and leave. It was really unsatisfying and I felt awful. I got my head in a better place…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/20 01:36 PM
16	Her LVM pushes her to do anal even though she doesn’t like it! He sorta knows, huh? You mean that repeatedly saying no, only giving in after incessant begging and telling him it hurts wasn’t clear enough? He knows, he just doesn’t care. And he probably likes hurting you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/20 11:53 AM
1	What is the best thing that happened to you after your left your bad relationship? That wasn’t the “best” thing but it was the day I knew that we were all better off without him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/20 11:33 AM
1	What is the best thing that happened to you after your left your bad relationship? It was several years ago, but one day I pulled up to the house after work and realized that while yes, there were dirty dishes in the sink, I wasn’t going to have to face the guilt trip, sighs, and comments about how my friends had cleaner houses while working, raising children and managing their extra activities. I felt this sense of lightness. I went inside, told the kids to get in the car and we were going out to dinner - and there would be no complaint about spending his money on that, eithe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/20 11:32 AM