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In Asia even relatively the prices are way lower than that. The massage parlors I see everywhere usually advertise at 20 bucks an hour. From what I heard, you probably need to tip as well but that's only another 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:54 AM
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With regards to sex, if you want to have good sex you should try that of course. And being red pill is about understanding women's psychology rather than spinning plates
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:39 AM
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These things are achievable. Focus on developing towards one girl. Each girl will have different preferences in bed, so you don't want to overly specialize. Instead you need to find a girl who you really love and want to be with, to be the best for her. Physical attractiveness you are going to need to put in a lot of work on your physique and complimenting your natural features with grooming and fashion. Depending on the girl this might not be as possible(if the girl dated Brad Pitt). However th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:43 PM
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I honestly have similar feelings to you. I always want to be the best for the girl which I chose. If the girl has a past, there has to be a reason why I am special or else why would see not just keep looking? However, be careful. You are never gonna win everything. Unless you get a virgin, even if her body count is low, the other guy is going to be better in some way. It's your job to fix the things you can so that you can be the man of her dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:33 PM
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Just a slight comment, I think the perception of what constitutes lean and strong has changed due to instagram culture. I would say that to look strong, men would have to work harder and for longer. I would say that the strong lean physique probably requires a few years of sports or 2 years of solid hypertrophy work and some dieting. Most people won't get to that level in two years mind you, since we usually make mistakes in training. Unless you have above average genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:20 AM
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I think it's diverse. Some girls think dad bod means fat while others think it means chubby with decent muscle. I would argue the one that is more attractive to girls is probably the latter but I don't have data to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:15 AM
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Obviously it's possible we have met and read many different women but certainly you cannot be denying that women have a higher association between emotional fufilliment, feeling safe, and feeling appreciated with physical pleasure than men do. I never ever hear women say the best i had was because the guy went down on me and knew where my clit was. For one, being hyperfocused on the clit can be a bad thing. You need to hit more than one pleasure point repeatedly, the clitoris is not a cum button…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:11 AM
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The problem with these kind of threads especially on Reddit is the lack of awareness. Most men on reddit will say "i love to give oral" or "every time my wife cums at least 3 times before me". Clearly some of these people are lying or being lied to. Notice these are precisely the same people who report vast knowledge of women's bodies. I am not saying that all redditors are liars or that all redditors are nerds. But certainly I have never heard from women: "you know who was the best sex i have e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:08 PM
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I think men(i know my flair) don't understand women(besides polygamists) would prefer to just find one guy. Every girl i have dated(went out more than 2 times) developed an emotional connection with me. I am sure in the beginning they were talking to other guys but once it was clear they wanted me, i am sure that they basically only focus on me. Now i won't say that girls don't ever talk to multiple guys or that they never have a favorite, but usually you know if you are the favorite and if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:13 PM
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Check it out yourself. But it's a fact that they report they masturbate less than men by far, and also are less likely to masturbate overall. You can say "well they are lying" but do you really think they are all lying? If so, it becomes difficult to parse any data which relies on reporting. I would wager that some lied of course just from embarassment but i don't think every woman lies. Mind you most of these studies are in the US, which is comparatively a sexually liberal place(compared to mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:40 AM
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I suppose it depends on the extent, some things you cannot undo. Being married for a woman might be comparable. Getting a vasectomy? I am sure there are many things. Of course being a virgin and giving ones virginity is quite a big decision, i don't think that should be disregarded. However the seeking for significance and uniqueness is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:09 PM
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I think men and women both do that to some extent in dating. Many women ask the "why do you love me?". Also many women experience both retroactive jealousy and normal jealousy. Edit: Consider the girl who tries to change her bad boy boyfriend. They hope they are special enough for him to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:34 PM
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I am happy you were born in an Asian country. And I am sure that gives you knowledge in your country more than I have. I will say I have lived in several asian countries, and if you look at what women report even in the US, the numbers for masturbation, porn usage, and sex toy usage are much, much lower than men. And even if you say that I am wrong about the numbers and my experience, I am a man and i know how men think. I know more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:32 PM
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I understand your perspective, i also think fleshlights are considered pretty taboo, as are all sex toys. I am not sure if virgins use fleshlights are not, however I will say i have never used a fleshlight and would judge myself if I did. The difference is that the men would perceive it as different. And i think men would also perceive men who use fleshlights are men who cannot get girls. Nerds, etc. The male perspective is all i am writing to you about, not the women perspective because it is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:23 PM
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I don't think I said you cannot. I am talking about perception here. How men perceive women who use dildos specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:16 PM
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I can understand your perspective, i am just telling you most people who have a conservative mindset don't think of it as "didn't have sex with a real man" = " low n count virgin". Your personal values are whatever you want them to be. But sex toys are usually seen as kinda taboo and associated with high n count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:15 PM
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I think you are right about the porn issue and the oversexualization. But usually that kind of thing is further than the beginning of the relationship. Nonetheless it highlights a big problem with current societal expectations. I would say that most men who have had a decent amount of sex know that most partners are not significantly better than the others. Rather the primary differences are the situations, and the feelings involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:12 PM
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I have lived in many traditional cultures, currently i am in vietnam. In most conservative cultures, dildos are pretty taboo(they are illegal in much of Asia, though still available). Being asexual or not is irelevant, and the man would never be able to tell whether you really were a low body count/virgin or not. I am just sharing what most men would think. The having of desires is not what i think most men would object to. Masturbating certainly doesn't require a dildo. If you look at the studi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:09 PM
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Do men really complain their gf is not a pornstar? Clerks made this point 20 years ago and somehow it still hasn't gotten through, women as lovers are more or less the same. There are slightly better and slightly worse but it's not significant. I think many red pill guys just want to get laid. They aren't thinking long term, but if a girl has a low n count and gives it up quickly, they think "i must be special" or "i must be different"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:04 PM
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If you use dildos, I would probably have a hard time taking you seriously as a low n count woman. At least you don't seem very sexually conservative. Most men would not believe you were a virgin. To answer your question directly, they want to be special and unique. Some one you are willing to break the rules for. It's not hard to understand i think. It's the very same reason they don't want the high n count woman, because they want to be special.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:59 PM
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I think it's a bit disingenous to suggest that femcel and incel are used to the same degree. I would argue incel is common parlance(it was used on SVU in 2018). I am not sure I agree with the thesis of this post but mocking men for being incels is much more commonplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:39 AM
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I wonder what the use of complaining about it would be. I always thought the Red Pill was about self-improvement to become the type of person which girls would desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:11 AM
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Does the study factor in muscle mass? More men engage in hypertrophy training and thus are like like in the overweight range. It's not optimal from a health standpoint, but certainly body composition matters
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:03 AM
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In the case where the woman is holding out for a relationship or something like that, it's not going to work, because you're in line with what she wants anyways. You'd just be making it easier for her. She wouldn't care. This is exactly the case. If a woman wants to make you a long term option and wants to wait, she isn't going to care that you are not pursuing sex. Consider how dating is done in more conservative cultures. The man doesn't push for sex and instead let's the girl control the spee…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:46 AM
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You are super young, work on developing yourself. Personality and charisma does a lot of work. Make yourself an interesting person, people will want to know you more. Make your dates fun, and be different. Most guys are really boring people. Also developing physically is going to be important. Understand who you are, understand psychology, and work on your communication skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:45 AM
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Two things I can think of but they are culturally dependent I would think. Intelligence, but intelligence in many fields. Languages, philosophy, history, politics. I don't necessarily mean knowledge but the capacity to know. Open expression of feelings. Often women are characterized as the pursued and the one who shouldn't show their feelings too strongly about the other person. I prefer open devotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:57 AM
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" You don't need a crazy sexual attraction but just enough attraction for a lasting relationship." ​ If you don't feel crazy sexual attraction for your partner, you will find someone who you do feel that for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:37 PM
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Can you elaborate on typical female wooing behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:36 PM
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80% and I was just went through quickly without thinking too much. Plus these are 2d pictures not real people walking around. Often it is easier to tell with real people. Even in Thailand, where surgery is common, you can usually tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:53 AM
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This girl is super low tier for Vietnam. Super super low tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:48 AM
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No offense but that vietnamese woman is really mid. I live in Vietnam, girls who like that are everywhere. Much more attractive girls than her actually are common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:45 AM
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I have attempted to date both an actress before and a model at separate times. Both careers were dealbreakers for me, I was unable to deal with my own personal jealousy issues despite the chemistry which we had. It wasn't only the people which they had to be around(very handsome, sometimes quite successful, sometimes powerful men) but it was also the type of roles women are expected to play and the type of emotions they are expected to portray with their costars(or coworkers in the case of the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:42 AM
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