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Fundamentals Nervous_Cold8493/r/seduction16/03/26 10:54 PM
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The crux is good communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:54 PM
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Well, how spending a lot of money on a first date indicative that your are going to be fun and good in bed? So expecting casual sex is not really valid to me. Heck, if paying a lot is a way to subcommunicate "look, I can be a great provider", it's miscommunicating what you want in a relation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:53 PM
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I initally agreed with you, but only if both men and women where very clear on what they wanted. Just have a playful "I am not boyfriend material" demeanor, women are not stupid and will get the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:28 PM
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When I read that it's funny, when you get into your grooves, you can have multiple dates per day with cold approaching, and if the chemistry is there, sleep with the girl the same day. But it does require peak social skills and ability to connect on an emotional level quickly, which is quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:27 AM
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May your soul find peace
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:23 AM
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Oh great! I kinda of get why you can feel warm and fuzzy when the hubby get a little protective :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:38 PM

Yeah but as harsh as it sounds, those men do not matter in the "market" (gosh I hate that term)", the true winners and actual subject of the OP are the men that are actually sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:57 PM
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No, I was just saying that there is no good misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:52 PM
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Benevolent misogyny is still misogyny: it implies that women are weaker beings that needs guidance and protection. It also implies that women are only suited to specific role in society, even if those role are glorified, it reduces woman agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:00 PM
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True, but I think sometimes healthy behavior may be seen as "assolish" by people way up on the agreeableness chart, such as playful teasing/banter and assertiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:30 PM
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I don't think the argument is that being misogynistic make you successful, but that attraction and kindness are not really correlated in dating success. If you know how to create attraction while being nice, great, but some people do know how to do that despite being misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:08 PM

Well being a counselor with autistic clients is relevant to the conversation. Especially since we tend to put more value on someone with actual experience on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:47 PM
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By redpillish I meant more old school PUA adjacent: clarity of intent, be more loose and unstiffled, focus on the girl and not not being rejected, that kind of stuff. But it may contradict some red pill alpha male stereotype, one of the best dude at cold approach (street and night) I knew was a blue haired scrawny dude, but he was fun and free spirited. BP advice I thought was way more elitist, with that weird shaming of girl that sleep with dude met on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:39 PM
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I never had as much as success since I started getting redpillish (I am a lefty and do consider that women have it worst) on the attraction side. Actually the moment where I still give the "ick" to woman is when I get back to my BP way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:43 PM
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Treat it like going to the toilet or having to eat, a cyclic need.
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:26 PM
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Fair enough, but erasing desire will REQUIRE dedication.
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:26 PM
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Monks actively work on erasing their desires, it's actually the best path for OP.
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:11 PM

Yes, first thing you learn in psychological support, ensure that the person you want to help is feeling heard and understood, OP should do some volunteering work to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:14 AM

I was in a similar situation to OP, it was only when I seeked actively relationships that I started to got them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:14 PM
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Damn that's dark, I would never call another human being like that. Get some light in your heart bro, sincerely.
/r/seduction19/03/26 10:46 PM
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