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A few have told me that I listen well, understand them, and make them feel safe and comfortable. A few also have said i have deep smart 10/10 eyes lol too and a great beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:15 PM
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I've heard multiple women say they want an AI that can filter out all the losers, guys interested inc asual sex, married men wnating to cheat or emotionlly messed up men. Those are the real problems AI needs to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:32 PM
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Those was were fashion trends mostly set by the expectations of other women. Men's innate preferences for a nice slightly curvy and big butts never really changed. Numerous studies prove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:23 AM
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Depends on what you call 'sluts'. I'm talking about the girls everyone called out as sluts as they dated around a lot, probably had 3-5 boyfriends in highschool I think your group were troubled girls from broken homes who were promiscuous. I did go to a very upper middle class highschool though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:12 PM
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Like everyone said, depends on what you called sluts. I will say though, that the 'sluts' in highschool are all married with kids, had kids young, found rich guys and seem genuinely happy, they all take care of themselves too and look great for 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:57 PM
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I have severe severe pain symptons dimissed as just gas, or a pulled muscle. Turns out it was my appendix, fuck these sexist female nurses and doctors right?
/r/MensRights25/10/25 03:18 PM
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I get what you're saying. I've got close female friends and we trash-talk each other all the time, however these are girls who grew up with lots of brothers or had many guy friends and tended to be less uptight about most things.
/r/MensRights23/10/25 03:26 PM
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I used to think a bit like this, a lot of the women there have genuinely had bad experiences with him, or had normal men but had rediculous expectations. Eitherway, i try to understand why everything for them boils down to "Men bad, lazy, selfish, evil, rapists"......i think their views are often right when looking at maybe 10-20% of men. However, they don't often reflect that toxic women are out there too and contribute greatly to creating these kinds of men. It applies to use too, weird, gross…
/r/MensRights23/10/25 02:20 PM
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It matters to an extent that we need to understand why they feel like men hate them, when in reality men don't hate 99% of women.
/r/MensRights23/10/25 11:32 AM
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I don't support using cat-lady, and we shoudn't either, we can be better than that guys. That said, cat lady was never meant to be a really derogatory term, and was probably used by both genders to reflect a stereotype for childless older women who ended up with lots of pets usually cats. I've also got a friend, wonderful, kind, beautiful who has 9 cats on account of her having several miscarriages and loving pets. I don't support it, people should be able to choose to be child-free without bein…
/r/MensRights23/10/25 11:30 AM
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and what are you taking away from that, what does it imply to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:52 PM
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Look it was because my intention outright wasn't short term, i was looking for a girlfriend, but if I realised they weren't compatible with me in a relationship, but were attractive, i told them outright this line at the end of the date......'Look i'll be straight, you're fun, interesting and I'm very attracted to you, but you're not exactly what I'm looking for in a future wife, but if you're open to some casual fun then let's do it and we see where it goes' I know that line kinda stings, and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:51 PM
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Tinder i get zero quality matches, like i've swiped hundreds of times, only matches are from massive fatties (like 300lb+ women) or bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:47 PM
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have what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:46 PM
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Yes to some, some it was implied. I do have some integrity, and I don't want to waste anyone's time and lead them on. I've been on the recieving end of that few times and it's very hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:46 PM
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There's no real lies, only lie per se was that this likely over a longer period but i was on and off the dating apps a lot so to me it felt like 6 to 8 weeks of actually using the apps. Anyway, for what it's worth, I think I'm fairly good looking, and I've been bodybuilding for years, so I do look attractive enough. I've had women say I was a 9/10, but due to my height and my lack of a great smile, I'd say I'm a good 7. You are 100% right in that it didn't fill a void, it was temprorary ego boos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:44 PM
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You're both right to some extent. You're more right though, I've been with some real hotties, way out of my league, one in particular would literally almost always be the mostr attractive girl in the club or whereever we went. She was that gorgeous and we did have a short meaningful 6 month relationship. That said, I can say with 100% certaintity that the girls I slept with knew this was going to a casual fling, non of them developed real feelings. They saw me as a cool guy to know and keep arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:40 PM
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Fair enough, I did want a relationship with two of them actually. One I did end up having a short relationship, but she moved to Austraila with her brother to join their dad. Most of these girls weren't relationship material, nothing wrong with that, but they were around 25ish on average and just wanted to have fun and explore life. My emotions after it all, I'd say it temporarily boosted me ego. However, at some point you want a partner, not a fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:36 PM
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Not exactly. So all I changed was my arrogance with them, aside from the height lie. It wasn't a pump and dump, i didn't trick any of them into thinking i wanted a relationship, I did perhaps the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:32 PM
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I actually did an experiment in online dating. I disobeyed the 'good advice' from women regarding dating app profiles. I put up gym pics, pics of me with other women, pics of me posing with a sports car...jus douchy pics, I lied about my heiigh, I'm 5'9" but put 6ft. I got 7x more matches and some real hotties who seemed super talkative. On dates, I showed up, on the date itself, i was flirty, touched them a lot, tried to be arrogant, bit of an asshole too...basically all non-nice guy traits. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:52 AM
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who says we don't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:03 AM
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Men used to have standards. Fit, can cook, good mom, keeps the home tidy....and we were told that was toxic and sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:13 PM
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Look I sorta get where you're coming from, and i know you can easily see evidence that overpopulation is a real strain on resources, and the global population jumping from 1.5 billion to 8 billion in a century is fucking wild. But calling declining birth rates a non-issue or purely a corporate/political scare tactic misses some hard realities and facts mate. Take Japan or South Korea, fertility rates are 1.26 and 0.78 (2023 data). Their workforces are shrinking fast (Japan’s working-age populati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:54 AM
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No it's not just bad, it's likely way worse than you think. In my opinion, there's no pysop, there's barely any concern or public awareness or educaiton about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:41 AM
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very soon trust me
/r/MensRights25/08/25 02:38 PM
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Nah i don't think that's fully true. Women let you believe that. I have 4 exes. Right now, I know 2 of those 4 exes would get back with me in a heart beat. The other 2, one hates me, as in her mind I betrayed her with her worst enemy (I didn't but she fully believes I did because I refused to stop being friends with her).That was 7 years ago. Yet even 3 months ago, she met my friend at a party and spent almost an hour bashing me, saying how much I hurt her, asking him about me, what I was doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:19 AM
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Well not all do that. I've argued with many, the core problem I've experienced is that they refuse to emphasise with men on certain issues. They totally believe they're right and you're wrong from the outset.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 09:19 AM
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and the others? I think what you're trying to say is that women pay attention to only certain men,, and ignore others, so when they talk about men being this or that, they're talking about a small subset of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:31 AM
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While i don't disagree, why do you think this is? Don't these women have brothers, fathers, uncles, co-workers, friends, classmates?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:21 AM
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If this is the case, these men really should just go to another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:40 PM
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In reality most men would sleep with the top 60-80% of women. It's biology at play though. Men have a more thirty sex drive and will still go for average women, it's why average women will have 100 likes on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:17 AM
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I do pretty well with girls I'd rate between 6-7.5. I've dated 8s and 9s before, my main 2 ex-gfs were 9s.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 02:36 PM
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In my experience, of being 'average' height in London and considered kinda tall in Portugal or my home country....I'm 5'9" but with shoes on I'm at least 5'10-11. Women respond so differently to me in Lisbon, which is a whiter city than London. Maybe it's racism or racist preferences, but I'm south asian and that's my experience. I have lots and lots of female friends here in London They all want someone who's at least 5 inches taller, possibly more. I've got a really good-looking and confidence…
/r/MensRights28/04/25 12:16 PM
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Think about it from the kid's point of view, especially when they're a little older like 8 to 15. You're competing for their mom's affection so part of them begins to resent you. Also, as a man, you're going to want to take the lead, but if she's a strong woman and most of them are, then they're already set in their ways and routines and you're taking a back seat. Secondly, the kids will test your boundaries and they know you can't really disciple them so they take advantage of that and see you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:25 PM
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I've dated a single mother. She was absolutely incredible. She divorced her husband because of a total deadbedroom no love, not emotionally there marriage. I respected that. She was an amazing mother with so much energy and discipline. When she dated me, she was fully there in the relationship, keeping it just the two of us. I assume she's rare. But she's incredible, a responsible career woman who was doing an amazing job. That said, when she started includign the kids it became a little messy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:24 PM
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Here's where learned experience tells you something else. Firstly, I believe women are far pickier and thus use that pickiness to weed out men at the first sign of a 'red flag'. Here's a few examples in the past where I was rejected and found out why (from asking them, or hearing from their friends). I was divorced My ex wife and ex-gf were too attractive I like clubbing I work in tech I'm indian I don't have a british accent I go gym too much Now, if you look at all of the above, they're either…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:16 PM
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you're actually right though, now men do sometimes get turned off by women, but it's mostly to do with promiscuity or drug use etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:07 PM
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I will say there's no way she's 200 lbs in that pic, my sister is 5'4" and 150lbs and she looks bigger than that person in the pic. The friend I was referring to is A LOT bigger than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:47 PM
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Yes it's weird, in fact i just posted their pics on an AI rating website. He got 7.6 and she got 3.4......
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:31 PM
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She's an odd one, she is 100% below average attractiveness, and admitted to me that out of those 53 dates, only a handful did actually want more than a first date or hookup. That said, I posted that example to show you how much easier it is for women on dating apps versus men. That leads to real and valid self esteem issues for those men and perhaps an overinflated self esteem for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:21 PM
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Well in Spain he gets some amazing looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:20 PM
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Here's the thing though, in Spain he cleans up, like some of the women he's been with there are 9s and 10s. In London though for whatever reason, he doesn't. I don't disagree, but it's drastic how some people can do well in some areas and not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:19 PM
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I've got a friend, she's 5'3" and probably 200lbs. She told me she had 53 dates last year and multiple men wanting to be her boyfriend. She's on a scale of one to 10, possibly a 3. Next my Spanish friend, good looking guy, funny, makes good money, has his own apartment, but is 5'7", He struggles to get a date online and he's honestly not bad looking at all. I'd rate him objectively 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:00 PM
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What people mean by this is that literally all a woman has to do to be attractive by men is not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:57 PM
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I can tell you that 100% yes it is social media. In went to Uni in the late 00s when facebook was barely a thing. Then did an MSc in 2016 when it was still super popular but not as life consuming as it is now. I also have tonnes of female friends and sisters. Women are being bombarded with attention from men. Rich men, good looking men. It really really skews their perspective. Story time, I had an ex who is amazingly hot (pm for pics) and she and I dated in 2014-2016 on and off. We broke it off…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:57 AM
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He's a kid, I didn't start some sports til i was 16 or 17 and they changed my life too.
/r/MensRights04/04/25 12:02 PM
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All parents encourage kids into sports because there's a ton of benefits to it. Almost all kids have seen their parents do something like that out of anger, that's just being human. It's problematic yes, but nothing that needs to be heavily demonised.
/r/MensRights04/04/25 08:28 AM
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His father was an extremely good dad, not sure what you're on about.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 10:20 AM
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Mate everyone will occasionally get angry and act out. That doesn't mean he's toxic or unhinged. He showed incredible restraint in all scenes in the show except for his eventual blow up at the end. And even then, he was quite kind to his wife and daughter.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 08:04 AM
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I just want to say—I absolutely loved Adolescence. I genuinely think it's one of the most groundbreaking shows I’ve seen in years. The acting was incredible, the camera work stunning, and the writing? Phenomenal. What struck me most was how balanced the show was in tackling such a sensitive, complex topic. It didn’t take sides—it just told a story. And it did so with so much nuance. That’s why it’s a bit disappointing to see how most of the online and press reactions have framed it. The dominant…
/r/MensRights01/04/25 03:27 PM
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Bro, the show literally said that was NOT the norm for him. You people have absolutely no empathy for anyone, especially men. Someone wrote Nonce on his vehicle on his birthday while he's going through the shame of having a murderer son. For God's sake reddit, be smarter.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 10:16 AM
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You i was thinking for a minute about why this is, but this is definitely true. It's why women date bad boys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:40 PM
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My close friend was a teacher and he said it was a massive turn off to women in dating.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 01:46 PM
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This is utterly stupid and reads like something a true incel (no offense to them) would write. Women are not sexually driven like men. I've seen average girls easily easily turn down hot guys, but will have a weakness for one particular, often not so attractive man. Once you develop an close emotional bond with a woman, you will almost always have her faithfulness once she has a good head on her shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:24 AM
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