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And they call women dramatic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:20 AM
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Lol 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:17 AM
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Yes seriously what's up with that? It always annoyed me because I'm not someone who has thousands of pictures of myself. And then they say "oh you 're fake". Basically blackmail, if you don't send pictures you' re fake. I think they want to check your body out, if you are fat or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:08 PM
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Thank you for your kind advice. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:05 PM
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I'm new here but don't give up so quickly you had a fallback, it happened and you can't change it now. All you can do is lift yourself up, learn and not do this again in the future. Beating yourself up about it only makes it worse, you feel even more down and might fall back even further. Hope that helps 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:48 PM
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That's a really good point. I only once had the courage to walk out on a date. But he was following me asking me why I want to leave...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:43 PM
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I think for me it is easier to ghost because I feel like I have to explain why I matched him and then decided because of something off he says not to be interested anymore. But I guess I could just write "we are not compatible" and then ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:42 PM
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Me too, but a much longer period of time 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:25 PM
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Hi 🙋🏻‍♀️I'm very new to FDS, and I have a question. I struggle with dating because I am really bad at rejecting a guy, they often get really rude and I get so unhappy and down that I stop online dating all together. My question is how do you reject a guy and would it be OK to ghost someone, I get ghosted a lot and don't care, I mean in the dms not after an actual date. If ghosting in the dms is not okay, what is your go to rejection line and also what do you say when you get weird vibes at a dat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:18 PM
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Storytime. I had a date, the guy really pressured me into this date and I'm a pushover so I agreed. We both drink a coffee, I get weird vibes and when the waiter comes we asked for the check. He has the audacity to say split, (the coffee being 3 Euros, don't know in dollars but around 3 plus minus). I was so turned off and being a pushover I could not get rid off him and we took a walk. So he asked me how I liked him and I tried to be honest and told him that I'm old fashioned in dates and him s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:08 PM
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Yes, this!!! I was wondering what that is all about. Now I know... I'm so naiv, but the gaslighting annoyed me so much, I'm very receptive for that manipulation (narc parents). They even often write in their profile what they are looking for is a 'spontaneous' woman or they describe themselves to be 'spontaneous'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:59 PM
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I'm really sorry you had to go through this too 😢. But we can only learn from it and never repeat this mistake again. I don't even want a man in my life anymore. I have my dog and he is the most loyal friend there is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:55 AM
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That happened to me. I will never ever mother a man again. I will never clean up his hoarder flat, do his paper work, make appointments, help him to get his driver's license, help him to get his life together, help him to find hie own flat. I'm done with this. And I'm rather single than with a man child who is addicted to porn and can't do basic hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:31 PM
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