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Same. Also, I wish this supposed "wall" existed. I'm way past it and men still bother me... I just want to be left alone and ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:28 PM
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🎶let's go to the mall 🎤😁 send him the music video from Robin as a teen pop star as a response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:17 PM
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Yes, we are vIsUaL 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:03 PM
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"showing affection you don't recognize" is a whole new level of gaslighting 🤯. It's never their fault, and your reality is always questioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:41 PM
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I was thinking the same. It's very unlikely to stay at a party where your ex is showing off his new gf. I was a really bad pick me (clingy and jealous) and even I would have never tortured myself like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:05 PM
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I was just about to say, if he has social anxiety he should work on that first before he starts dating. 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:59 PM
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He was also speeding, and Gabby was probably frightened, especially since the police wanted the driver to pull over. The police was called because Brian was seen hitting her. But none of that mattered when the police man found a new bro, and bonded about their "crazy OCD girlfriends". In the car with Brian, the police man made some sexist remarks about his wive being only good for one thing when he went to a trip, because she would serve him food. If you read all the comments about the case it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:44 PM
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Thank you, finally I read this question from someone else. I've been asking that question with my ex who were all porn addicts. They could not answer this. One of them said it's not the same and porn and masturbation has nothing to do with sex 🤦🏻‍♀️but is a stress relief.. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:34 PM
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😁👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:48 AM
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Thank you for that weirdly accurate description 😁👌🏻🥔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:25 PM
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Yes, because no one believes you and you start to doubt your own sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:15 PM
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It's so infuriating. You would think that after an abuse victim is literally killed, people would stop victim blaming. But no, those crazy victim blamers and misogynist still find a way to twist reality and blame the murder victim. It makes me feel like living in a crazy world...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:11 PM
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Because narcs wear a mask and mimic the nice guy. If you haven't studied or experienced narcissistic abuse it is easy to fall for that mask. I also think that Gabby didn't share her relationship problems with her dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:04 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:53 AM
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Can confirm, although my ex used the bathtub 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:45 PM
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😂😂Don't give them ideas...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:43 PM
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Yes, men who cheat are overly possessive and often abusive. I ha a friend who is in a relationship like that. He had a secret second gf for three years and she forgave him and is still with him. 🙄 He was even jealous when we would hang out together and kept calling to "check on her".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:36 PM
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I'm glad to hear that 😊🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:32 PM
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My therapist once said "people who are possessive and overly jealous often project their own urges and feelings onto their partner. Meaning they are the cheaters or thinking about cheating, so they assume their partner to think and act the same"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:57 PM
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I'm sorry you were homeless in the past. I hope you are in a better situation now 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:48 PM
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I just came to realize that I was being gaslit my whole adult life that I have a jealousy problem when in fact my exes would hide porn, lie about it, befriend a model online and talking on the phone the whole night, left me standing alone on new year, staring at a woman in the train while ignoring me, going out to clubs with his boys getting drunk. I just realise it now in my 30s. Thank you FDS! Better late then never. (I even focused most of my therapy on my "jealousy problem" when in fact I ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:02 PM
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And they wonder why they end up alone. 😂 Maybe just maybe it's a you problem sir 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:04 PM
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Slugs carry parasites. He poisened her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:22 AM
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My ex broke up with me via text when I woke up in the intensive care unit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:45 PM
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Same 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:28 AM
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My ex got upset when I got a dog because not all the attention was on him anymore. He also got really disrespectful and rude on a family gathering when I mentioned he started his interest in drinking tea because of my aunt. He disrespected me in front of my relatives and got really pissy because "he didnt got the tea obsession from trying my aunts tea". I was baffled, because he never treated me so bad especially in front of my family, about such a minor thing. My ex husband hated my music, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:07 AM
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Don't forget the "not all men" response. Or the "why doesn't she report it". Like it is so easy to press charges and be taken seriously, living through the whole abuse again, being not believed and hated, being shamed and blamed for the abuse, also not everyone can afford a lawyer. Even if you succeed in your case the punishment for SA is laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:08 AM
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The whole "you're not that special or attractive to be raped" infuriates me on so many levels. As if it's a compliment to be assaulted? It's again shifting all responsibility on the woman. And also it has nothing to do with looks and attractiveness... They are projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:38 PM
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That really gives me a special kind of rage that they think they came up with something new and are the enlightened ones, even though the same victim blaming "logic" exists for centuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:32 PM
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Exactly this! I couldn't have worded it so well as you 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:24 PM
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I just ended a 20 year old friendship to a male friend of mine because of his statement "not all men". "Not all men " statements are part of the problem and create an unsafe environment for us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:13 PM
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Agreed. 😁👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:54 PM
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I honestly admire your strength and witty responses. I just get so overwhelmed and shocked that I can't think of a witty answer. Only after a week I come up with a good reply and then it's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:05 AM
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You go sis 🙌🏻 very proud of you 🎊😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:49 AM
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Exactly my thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:46 PM
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I'm so mad and sorry that happened to you. F*ck them, I have really bad things to say about those guys I can't type out. 😠🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:43 PM
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This made me feel sick🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:40 PM
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I had this thought today that when talking to a man you are actually talking to a penis 🤔💭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:37 PM
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Schrödingers scrotes 😂😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:36 PM
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Me too 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:34 PM
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Thank you so much for the award 😇it's my first one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:14 PM
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They have so frail egos they need a women to always smile at them otherwise they can't handle it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:12 PM
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Never blame yourself. It's so sad you had to sacrifice your career over this. I hate the world sometimes. I really hope the future is brighter for us women. I'm sending you strength and love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:57 PM
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I f**Ing hate it when guys tell me to smile, it brings up deep anger in me. Like I am some dancing monkey for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:52 PM
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I'm really sorry 😢I hope you are okay ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:50 PM
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Same 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:39 AM
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I'm really into true crime and there are always so many people who blame the women who gets murdered, it is absolutely sickening. The same with rape victims. What is wrong with people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:26 PM
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Thank you for your advice. I've gotten some really hateful responses after rejecting a man, maybe because they 've notice how hard it is for me to have boundaries... People have a sixth sense for weakness and they will step on you if they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:23 PM
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Yes, she is very wise for her age. A very kind and joyful person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:20 PM
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I would really love to read how you dumbed him, since I have big problems with rejecting a man. I've never learned to have boundaries and grew up as a people pleaser. So any tips would be welcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:19 AM
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What the hell😱 glad you left him 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:32 AM
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https://youtube.com/channel/UCsdmWXO6bmlo5neNJu1r-cw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:02 AM
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🎻🎻🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:38 AM
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She is awesome!!! I've subscribed to her 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:37 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:05 PM
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I remember talking to a girl about our similar interests in make up and nails, I told her that I want to paint my nails neon pink. A 40 + year old scrawny guy with no fashion sense interrupted me (who wasn't a part of our conversation) and said "I like it more when a woman keeps her nails natural and trimmed" I was so angry and speechless, because the audacity coming from him. First of all I'm not even talking to him. Second of all I'm not doing my nails "to attract men". It's like painting and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:56 PM
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I'm sorry but that is absolutely not normal to not be able to come from bjs or PIV. What the hell? Even with all porn sick exes I didn't experience that. I would be so grossed out if a guy would need to masturbate next to me to finish 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:39 AM
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This is a very true and painful lesson. I suffer from chronic depression, anxiety and ptsd. I came to the conclusion not to date anymore, if I don't completely heal maybe never. Dating with ptsd is very dangerous. You don't have the skills to see red flags, you become trauma bonded and unable to leave. You are vulnerable to abuse because it feels familiar. You attract men with narcissistic personalites and even psychopaths. It is a hard pill to swallow, but it kind of helps to come to terms with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:39 AM
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Try everything to get out of there safely and go no contact. I don't know from which country you are, I am from Germany and I could finally get out of my abusive home when I got in to a hospital for mental health, they have social workers there. Unfortunately I only got help when I became suicidal but that is the harsh reality a lot of times. Now I'm in no contact with my narcissistic mother. That is the only way you can heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:37 AM
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I think my dog is finally fed up with men in my life. He will completely ignore anyone who could be a dating prospect and I think he is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:15 AM
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Because men need VaRiEtY 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:03 AM
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I can totally confirm this. My dog completely ignored my ex and wouldn't respond to my ex anymore after he dumped me when I was in the intensive care unit. My dog totally noticed how much my ex hurt me and in what state he left me when I came home from the hospital. After the break up my ex would come over to have sex with me and my dog would not even acknowledge his presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:40 AM
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Men going their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:00 AM
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Maybe if you have the possibility get a guard dog. I always take a flashlight with me on walks, I can blind someone with it and it's pretty heavy, so worst case scenario I could smasch their heads with it. I wish I could get a guard dog like a Cane Corso (my dream breed) or Rottweiler but unfortunately I can't because I don't have the space in my apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:29 AM
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Because in the beginning men promise a thousand things. I've experienced it so many times. But now I have learned, a man wont change, if he watches porn before you 've been dating he will still do it in the relationship. It's a talk and not action. Just to reel you in. And then they gaslight you, because how do you know he is watching porn? You have to snoop through his stuff and they flip it around and you are the villan in the story. So there is no winning in this. For me, if I meet a guy and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:18 AM
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Men are literally peeing on the floor, meanwhile my dog is potty trained and only pees on walks in grass. How are humans considered the smarter ones😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:37 PM
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I didn't get that part at all. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:21 PM
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My ex didn't have a washing machine and he bought himself new underwear and socks instead of washing them. Also didn't have a bed, only an old dirty couch with cigarette burns. His toilet was falling apart and he never cleaned his bathroom. All the dirty dishes were in the bathtub. The list goes on and on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:20 AM
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Ahh ok. Thank you for the explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:04 AM
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Off topic. But what you wrote about being sick and how different my exes would act compared to me is mind blowing. It was almost like they were annoyed when I got sick. But if they were sick it was a huge pitty party
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:39 AM
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Thank you, that tip is really helpful. I have big problems to notice abusive behavior (psychological abusive) and red flags because I grew up in an abusive household. I kind of forget myself when I interact with people. And your advice is very helpful. I will definitely use it if I ever date again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:34 AM
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Why do beautiful women like her end up with scummy bfs. I want to date her and I'm not even lesbian. It's just so sad how much heartache and energy we waste on stupid, ugly and abusive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:13 AM
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I use my hand too. So in their logic they should feel threatened by my hands 😂 takes me two minutes to do the job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:07 AM
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Can someone explain to me the expression "death grip"? I've read it a few times now and I am not sure what it means. It could be because English is not my first language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:04 AM
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It's the same here, I'm from Germany. All I see are travel photos on tinder. And their hobbies are always travel and food. They also have to brag about how many and what countries they have been to. I'm long time done with online dating. It's nothing more than a sex and ego market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:54 AM
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The cigar comment is so true 😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:01 AM
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Same, and I'm from Germany
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:59 PM
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Yes, when I read that I think "oh you love food, like literally every human who doesn't want to die of starvation" it's such a basic thing that everyone writes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:46 PM
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THIS!!!! Almost everyone on tinder loves traveling and needs to show off their travel pics. It's so annoying. They also love food, the gym and have beards and men buns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:43 PM
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Same. All my exes are porn addicts. One is also an alcoholic with erectile dysfunction who called me a sex addict. I'm so done with men... All were slobs too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:29 AM
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