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| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:24 PM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierBecause at least the men won't be starving while trying to run the supposedly impossible dating game. No matter how you slice it, fixing economic injustice first is just the logical tactic. How many of those "physically inferior specimens" you're alluding to are just men that can't go to the gym because they have to work long hours just to stay alive? Or can't get a good night's rest because they're economic status means they're living in their car or worse? Or can't see gains because they can't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 03:46 PM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierLike the other commenter said, do you genuinely think, that billionaires hoarding wealth and actively making the world worse for everyone involved, doesn't impact you more than the nebulous preference of women as a whole? Hell, if you subscribe to the idea that women are attracted to wealth, then you should at least realize that a more equal wealth distribution where people can actually have safety without worrying about the next three meals they're going to have, would benefit men by giving the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 10:46 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierI think you're the naive one if you think that this infighting isn't exactly what they want, though. They want you arguing about the surface level misandry online because that keeps you from fighting the most misandrist system in the world; the class system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 10:40 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easier99.9999999999999% of all gender war related problems are actually class inequality issues in a trench coat. Or, at the very least, any class issue is almost definitely more pressing than any gendered issue. Telling people to stop infighting over shit like "who should pay for the first date?" hopefully sways enough people to stop rotting their brains on gender war bullshit once they realize that no one will give a shit who pays if we were actually living in an economy where people actually have e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 10:38 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierHonestly, this subreddit should be shut down with a banner "until we reach class equality, we should shut the fuck up and stop arguing and instead agree to band together to eat the rich. If any of these gender war 'problems' exist after that, we can keep arguing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?I got dinged for blocking before - which, IMO makes no sense. It's because for a while, blocking meant that not only was that person unable to reply to you, but you locked them out of the ENTIRE comment thread you commented on, as well as subsequent threads you participated in. So blocking someone on a debate sub where people are replying back and forth all over the sub, meant that you could effectively soft ban someone if you were active enough participating in threads. I think it may finally h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:29 PM |
| 5 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menI'm sorry, but when you start the thread by calling them "objectively wrong", then link inconclusive studies, then put the burden of proof on them, I think that speaks of massive arrogance. Your citations don't really support your claims. Like I said, 2 out of 3 of them don't even have anything to do with the matter being discussed. Corroborating your claims is nice and all, but throwing any source you find with a vaguely relevant key word isn't enough to make you "objectively" right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 11:56 PM |
| 7 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menFirst two have nothing to do with the concept of women masking more than men, just that there are negative downsides to being autistic in general. Last one is a tiny sample size of 84 kids that still follows an observational model where "we feel the girls masked better because we had a harder time telling they were autistic thanks to societal expectations". This is weak data at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:42 PM |
| 9 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menAll of those studies seem to suggest that you can apply OP's logic broader than just to dating. First one has a tiny sample size, and seems to run on judgement based metrics; "we feel this kid masks better because it was harder for us to determine they were autistic", but that is the same as why autistic women don't face as much pressure while dating; their social expectations aren't the same. If you're gonna link a quote to support your case, I think it's pretty dishonest to link a partial quot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.Are you fucking with me? That's the opposite of just world fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Is virgin shaming REALLY a high-school thing or it just seems so?it's an emotional self harm of sorts Ain't that the fucking truth, brother. For every 1 good take or conversation I read on here, I will have gone through hundreds if not thousands of comments that either; a) generalize men as being evil (even though I logically know this isn't necessarily directed at me, I am a human with emotions and can't entirely suppress the feeling of being targeted); or b) argue from "my perspective" but tinged with so much vitriol and derision that I start doubting my ow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.I mean, it isn't surprising that someone that married their HS sweetheart wouldn't get that the world doesn't just fall into place for most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:43 AM |
| 0 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.I get that, and relate to some extent. But hanging out in incel spaces, even if to argue against them, or in spaces like inceltears, is only going to tear you down further. Hell, I'm in a not dissimilar situation from you, and I think even PPD might be too much toxicity and too adjacent to incel negativity to possibly be healthy for me. Browsing inceltears as a virgin is just not healthy. You may be thinking "at least I'm not as bad as those guys", but I bet you notice a comment here or there th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:40 AM |
| 6 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.Yet a lot of abjectly horrible people manage to mislead others into thinking that they're good people. Why is the inverse not possible? This is just just world fallacy. You're trying to justify that anyone that doesn't have friends must be deep down a bad person and therefore deserve it. Despite the fact that the amount of friends literally says nothing about a person's character. Your friends could be bad people, after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.The average black piller does not have the mental strength to do it. Thats why they sit on the internet all day bitching about womens standards. You should stop trying to prop yourself up by comparing yourself to incels. Stop going to inceltears. It's incredibly toxic. Like, your post history is full of "incels are so pathetic, I'm not like them even though I'm also a virgin", but that mindset is pretty much just a mirror to their own bitter existence. You can't cultivate positivity and positive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:25 AM |
| – | Women dismiss men's relationship stress, yet believe similar complaints from lesbian/bi women.It's insane how often I read what would be a decent point if it weren't bogged down by the vitriolic language the guy uses. Main offender being when they use "whore" instead of just "woman". Like, I don't like how frivolously the term "misogyny" gets tossed around, but in these cases their whole outlook on life is revealed through their refusal to even just speak about women as people rather than a target of their bitterness. I don't entirely agree with your last point. It's not a failure to log… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkBut that’s not an argument—it’s just unfalsifiable speculation. No, that's what I'm saying your whole post is. There isn't much of a debate to be had here because your whole argument hinges on the question of whether a person (man specifically in your argument) can forego external validation entirely and come out at a net-positive happiness level. Which is an unverifiable claim. You say that "some men do that, that's proof", but I'm saying "you speculate some men do that". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkIf this was truly impossible, why do some men stop chasing validation? Why do some guys detach from the belief that their worth is tied to women? If conditioning was an unstoppable force, no man would ever escape it. Clearly, that’s not the case. Just because a person claims to be content outside of a relationship doesn't mean they are. Even to themselves, they might find purpose in hobbies or work, but in the end they might only be distracting themselves from what they don't have. Sure, some pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Most attractive, intelligent, socially competent men pair off with women close to their own age. But the causality needs to be kept in mind here. It's probably more to do with people pairing off during high-school/college and therefore matching with people their own age due to circumstance rather than a conscious choice of preferring someone their own age. Even with relationships that form later, it's more likely because people will form relationships with people in similar circumstances, 30 yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyThey might listen to kind words. They definitely won't listen to yet another person telling them how terrible they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 09:04 PM |
| 3 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyNo woman here has the time to counter all the misogyny and chauvinism here, most of us pick our battles. And again, are you really "picking your battles" by going into random internet arguments with someone who you know won't listen to you? Are you aware you are in a debate sub, and that women aren’t here to coddle and coo over men who make the most vile remarks? Are you aware that the purpose of debate is to reach a constructive conclusion, not to just ignore the opposition and patting yourself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 09:03 PM |
| 0 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guySo let them stew in their misery? Or at least hope that they'll come around eventually. Why are you, specifically, engaging in a way that is only ever going to be a net-negative, for not only them, but you yourself as well? Instead of just not engaging, resulting in at worst a neutral state of affairs or potentially positive change if they happen to run into someone that actually shows them positivity and influences them to change for the better? It's just hypocrisy whinging about a "crab bucket… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 07:11 PM |
| 2 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyit’s crabs in a bucket I see no valid reason to treat them gently So you add to the crabs-in-a-bucket effect because you refuse to approach these topics as if you're talking to other human beings? Why even bother at that point if you're just gonna participate in a shouting match where you know your vitriol is only ever going to entrench them further? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActThe whole "objective rating" thing just doesn't work. I get that saying she's "solid X" is more of a colloquialism than saying she's "objectively" a 6. But like, physically she's at least a 7 or an 8, and her face is objectively without blemish. So while she's not my type and I'd rate her face like you at a 6, it's not a "solid" rating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 12:02 PM |
| – | Generally speaking, women are bad at taking initiative.I'm always curious why people like you hang out in cesspool subs like this. If you're so happily married, why do you come into subs like this to yell at people about how their lived experiences are* wrong despite the fact that you haven't even been participating in the culture they're complaining about for over almost 2 decades? Going by your comment history you love to tell guys that they're unlovable. Just seems like low empathy to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Younger generations feel entitled to what their parents took for granted when it comes to relationships, much like buying a house, and they need to lower expectationsThis such a typical bullshit "you just didn't try hard enough" response. Finding a partner shouldn't be something you dedicate all your waking moments to. Not to mention, if he had said "I go to 2 or three speed dating events a week, spend half an hour swiping on online dating every day, and approach dozens of women every weekend", he'd (mostly justifiably) be told that he should spend more time nourishing his own interests and hobbies instead of desperately trying to hustle every waking moment.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 02:00 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?The point of the question is to point out how hurtful the idea of "husband material vs hook up material" is. It's not about the men fantasizing about being mistreated. It's about the fact that women will say things like "he's not hook up material, he's husband material". This already implies a litany of things such as the husbands that these women settle for are somehow inferior to to the hook ups of their past. Is it not self evident that if a person is unwilling to do things with their "safe a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornI mean some of it definitely wasn't harmless. But you can't argue that it was the entire 91%. And most likely it wasn't the majority of the content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?It doesn't help that a lot of men for some reason don't focus on the emotional aspect that they are missing. They don't say "I wish I mattered to someone" or " I want to be in a loving relationship". They say "I want sex" "women get sex on tap" "cock carousel" I don't think she was saying "men say this because they mean it", but rather that a lot of men misrepresent their own issues due to lack of introspection. Because while I think 99% of redpiller/incel struggles boil down to lack of emotiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:19 PM |
| 3 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornI'm mostly going off the fact that content wasn't removed "because they couldn't verify it's consent or legality". While that was the purpose, the way they did that was by instituting a hard line "no verification, no content". To extrapolate that to imply that 91% of their content had been malicious is dishonest at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:11 PM |
| 3 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornPornhub was forced to scrub 91% of it's content because they literally can't verify if any of it is consensual or legal. That's probably more to do with the piracy aspect of old pornhub. I'd wager most of that content was either just individual users bootlegging mainstream porn, or amateurs that uploaded a single video with no intent to monetize and promptly forgot about their account. That is to say, most of it was entirely innocuous but because of the new laws they were forced to scrub anythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerWomen generally have greater access to social safety nets. Be it welfare, more leniency when facing the system, the fact that gender role standards still dictate that men should generally be the provider and therefore meant to shoulder the responsibility of comitting, or just that women are less likely to be thrown out of their homes by family in the first place. None of this is to say women don't face hardships of this kind, but generally they're more likely to find support or get shielded from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerYeah, the responses are genuinely wild. OP: "Men are actually far more likely to be victims, so the specific talking point that women can't feel safe is inaccurate" "Well actually, that's still because men suck, and we don't have to consider the broader socioeconomical implications further than that." It's really telling, honestly, of how these people don't actually care about discussing societal issues, but just want to broadly paint men as oppressors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerBeing driven to crime by desperation doesn't just force a person to steal once or twice. It's an economic force that pushes them not only into the behaviour, but the social situation that it necessitates. Stealing because you're desperate won't feed you for more than a few days, it's not a viable long term method. But if you're in the economic situation where you're desperate enough to steal, you probably don't have a lot of options. You're more likely to be funnelled to gang activity or even or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Moved to automod because automod removes my comments for not being "male flaired" even though I'm using the "purple pill male" with a custom tag. It's not "pushback" to point out the obvious consequence of "raising your standards". In this case, "raising your standards" basically just means to remove yourself entirely from contention. You can argue all day about whether this state of affairs is because "men are too thirsty" or "women have too high standards", but at the end of the day, a man tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked.That's because RP is just common sense. The parts of it that ring true at least. The reason it often gets portrayed as a "secret" is because blue pill spheres i.e. the mainstream often denies common sense. You say "blue pill says that too" but most of the time they'll argue "just be yourself and be nice" which is just denial. This is the reason the grifters get away with selling these "secrets". The harder the bluepill tries to argue that anyone can find love just by being their average or below… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How Can We Improve Dating Sites?We're not talking about the absolute doom point of view. There are aspects to online and modern dating that are a product of the flawed design of apps that apply even in the case that you're wrong and women aren't purely driven by their "hindbrain". Also, you're probably more wrong than you think regarding female attraction. You look at dating app statistics as proof that women are only attracted to 20% of men, but that's conjecture. More likely it's a result of, as I said, the gamification of o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How Can We Improve Dating Sites?Without reading past the title: End capitalist society, redesign it from the ground up with genuine intentions i.e. dating apps that are designed with the users' benefit in mind and not the investors' bottom line. After reading the post: Same as above, really. The problem is that the whole thing is game-ified and turned into a zero-sum competition that aims to keep users, and get them to spend, rather than actually help people connect. With a game-ified experience, meta-analysis happens and prod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Women who get the ick = porn brained menIt used to be easier to immediately identify a troll and know who was bringing positive intentions vs not I think it was the other way around. It was just as difficult to discern, but the average online user was more tech, media, and more specifically social media literate. The people online were more versed in online interaction. It was their specific hobby. The audience was more niche. Nowadays everyone is online. Communities were more tight knit and trolls were, well, trolls. Not a superposit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 04:19 PM |
| 16 | Why is Autism basically a contraceptive for men?I think it's because their general lower capacity to deal with social situations means that they're more likely to be targets of sustained bullying. The bullies will jockey for status, like you said, but neurotypicals will give them pushback which the neurodivergents won't. The bullies then go for the path of least resistance in achieving status and keep bullying the "weaker" prey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 12:10 PM |
| 19 | Why is Autism basically a contraceptive for men?You're overthinking the reasons why men would ostracize neurodivergent men. It's more likely that it's simply because putting others down increases their chances at social success. It's not about excluding the other, it's about upheaving themselves. Which once again is why just world fallacy is so insidious. Being selfish and putting yourself first is how humanity often operates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themAt her dog*. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 08:06 AM |
| 6 | The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for MenThis just doesn't follow logic. Sex is generally a precursor to getting into a relationship. If men are struggling compared to women to even get sex, then how are they supposed to be skipping that step and "getting into relationships easier"? That's not to say the axiom is true to begin with, but if "women get sex easier" is true, then "men get relationships easier" doesn't follow logically from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 06:15 PM |
| 4 | The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for MenThis is something that gets touted a lot but is just simply not true. Men can be perceived as having lower standards. Because as OP mentions, they are expected to be the pursuers. If a man doesn't pursue, he'll never get anywhere. The fact that they have to then potentially cast a wider net as they keep being faced with rejection and the fact that their standards are higher than they can afford (they are forced to learn their place), doesn't mean that the woman who conversely only has to reject … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themETA: That's not to say she should force herself to interact with some weird homeless guy, but it's pretty hypocritical to cry about empathy when you're clearly not showing it yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themIt doesn't really seem to me you're being introspective based on your takeaway from that situation. You expect others to show you perfect consideration while being unwilling to give anyone else the benefit of the doubt, interpreting their motives in the most unflattering ways possible. The man you're irate with only wanted you to pick up your dogs poop. A legitimate request. You don't know the headspace he was in or whether he maybe noticed the homeless guy after the fact and then felt awkward h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 03:36 PM |
| 7 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themBut do you see how saying "you don't have relationship success because you lack empathy" is a non-sequitur? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 03:21 PM |
| 9 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themAnd like I tried to convey with my edit, you're entitled to feel that way. It's understandable to be uncomfortable, feel awkward and/or even scared in that situation. But don't extrapolate that to mean other people don't have empathy when you have a clear example from that situation that empathy isn't always a given. Not to mention how other people have mentioned elsewhere in this thread that empathy has precious little to do with dating success. Shitty people of all genders are some of the most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themYour dog poop incident makes me wonder if the guy that yelled at you was aware of the homeless man. If he did, I would think he would have reacted differently. Not to mention she was apparently out among people. From the sound of it, this wasn't a situation where she was out late at night, alone and cornered by some homeless man. It's a core facet of the story that someone else was around. From the way she describes the scenario, why should the guy have thought she was feeling stressed out in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:39 PM |
| 1 | It feels like women are in one giant collective post-breakup phaseTo be fair though, a lot of that "insight" is just bullshit. From women only wanting alpha males to men only caring about sex: a lot of it is just destructive half truth observations made by bitter people trying to justify their bitter feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:06 PM |
| 0 | If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps.There is no reason for a woman to entertain an average man in real life any more than on apps. That's just strictly not true. There's a dehumanizing effect of communicating with someone through a screen. You see them less like a person and more as an idea. When dealing with dating profiles, if it doesn't match some perfect ideal, you're more likely to be harsh towards it. Meanwhile talking to someone face to face you're forced to face the fact that they're human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueFailure at some juncture of communication does not preclude the genuine desire for a deep and intimate relationship. Nor can you pit all of this blame on men, failure to commit is not exclusive to either gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 03:21 PM |
| 8 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueBro, you have the context literally written down for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 01:41 AM |
| 6 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueWhy are you even here if you can't follow the context of a short comment chain you yourself started? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 01:33 AM |
| 6 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueSo you admit you're wrong? Even given your own experiences, men want LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 01:27 AM |
| 10 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueUsually those men say they want long term relationships, but actually only want sex. I'd wager the exact opposite is far more common. Men will claim they just want sex, but that's just because society has told them and conditioned them to believe they're slaves to their baser urges. What they really crave is intimacy, but they've been sold a lie that they can't escape because of the shred of truth that exists in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Searches spiked post election regarding whether Biden had dropped out and on what "tariffs" even are. The average voter is woefully uninformed. Do you really think it's so simple that the republican voting block knowingly voted against women's interests? I find it far more likely that the average republican voter just got sold on some vague idea of "tariffs" to fix the economy. You're quoting a tweet that went viral, a single very loud loser posted online and got attention, but most of that atte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 05:57 AM |
| 7 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Among that population? Probably more than the converse out of the population of PPD, just considering statistical odds. Especially considering that PPD tends to attract people that are more argumentative rather than violent and/or at least exposed to opposing view points, while the - already rare - type of incel that commits atrocities is the type to hang out entirely within their own toxic echo chambers. This idea that incels are dangerous as a group, citing the 10 extremists that went out of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameMy very first paragraph addressed it, and you entirely blew it off. So no, you very clearly aren't reading my comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameNot even a week after the election and y'all are trying to rewrite history. Then we have something in common, I guess. while Trump doesn't even have to answer for what he says himself You're not reading any of what I'm writing, so I'm not gonna bother any more. Have fun arguing with yourself. It gets exhausting watching you argue ad nauseum that there's nothing to be discussed, it's all just bigotry after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameYet they don't hold Trump to the same standard Again, according to whom? It's held as self evident that Trump is bad. What use is there in repeating that again in an echo chamber? There's no use in badgering that side of the issue, because yelling "Trump is bad" to the thunderous applause of the choir, is just masturbation. The people yelling "cucks, betas, simps" aren't the leftists criticising the left. Why are you expecting Trumpists to be critical of Trump? Two women have run against Trump a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameI think the aspect of IDPOL generally being discussed isn't necessarily that Trump addressed it at all, but rather that the left has been running on a platform that heavily stigmatizes Trump support on the grounds that you're a misogynist if you do. Which of course has the further implication that you're a misogynist if you don't vote for the DNC. So anyone critical of the DNC feels like they're just being dismissed as a bigot. They thought they could win on abortion and vibes alone. Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameThey bitch about being called "incel" Yeah, I wonder why people get upset when all of their criticisms of a party get reduced to "you're a virgin loser". You're being disingenuous by acting like Trump doesn't have to answer for any of this, the swing votes we're discussing right now have stated time and time again that they don't like Trump but will vote based on misinformed things like tariffs. Of course, I'm just pointing out that all their excuses for not voting for Harris pretty much boil do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 10:50 PM |
| 8 | The Type of Women Normally Chased by Men"Religious" isn't synonymous with "modest". That being said I think PrimateOfGod is the one closest to the mark, it's not that modest girls aren't desirable, it's that they're invisible because they, well, don't yell louder than the loud girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:08 PM |
| 2 | If you are a late bloomer / socially stunted, you may never fully catch upI pretty much agree with your post entirely, except maybe the core premise of why people self isolate. Do they pick up solitary activities and become recluses, or were they recluses and therefore decided to pick up solitary activities? In my case for instance, I wasn't not a social child, but I also ended up getting bullied in some severe ways, which caused me to semi-isolate in my teens. It clearly stunted my social/emotional growth, but for instance, a lot of the friends I did have in the soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?I'm neutral towards it. Because while I agree with the core foundational tenets, I think "feminism" is a loaded term that carries, alongside all the positive things it does, a lot of negative methods and beliefs. Please do not comment things about the more extreme side because again that’s not what I’m talking about, I only want comments on what you guys think about actual feminism The problem here is that where do you draw the line for "actual" feminism? At some point you just have to accept th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:08 AM |
| 6 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?This is hilarious because your initial reply to large wishbone was already twisting his words and being argumentative. Just pure bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps.Plenty make the claim. But I suspect it's largely a lack of introspection. They claim they just want sex, but it's probably more that they'll settle for sex when deep down they know they won't find love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 11:19 PM |
| 29 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.This really is the crux of the issue Lilith has been whining about the past week. She doesn't acknowledge that the double standard isn't in the fact that women's preferences are called out while men's are ignored, it's that while both genders are often led astray by their junk, men tend to acknowledge it while society will more often than not claim that women don't ever prefer bad boys. Like her fiction post, refusing to acknowledge that fiction is a mirror to society is just delusional. But whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men dobut I am going to make an assumption of what it is anyway when I could've just read the damn thing 🙄 Was I wrong though? You can't expect me to read some shitty red pill forum post when the point you're trying to make is contained entirely within the title. It's my rebuttal that this is based on only using a definition of toxic masculinity that is specifically only about men's claims about what happens when they show emotions in a relationship. And as I demonstrated, none of the examples you pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doHow do you figure this actually contradicts OP? I'm not even gonna bother reading that article you linked, since the whole idea is the clickbait title anyway, but judging by the title it regards traditional gender roles and being the "leader" in a relationship. It's an explicit example of Toxic Masculinity, but supposedly one that gets results for those that are following its advice i.e. exactly what OP is talking about. OP even explicitly mentions "doing something gay" as falling under toxic ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 01:45 PM |
| -2 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?But we're specifically talking about the societal impression here. If you don't care about that impression, then of course it doesn't matter how you lead your life. But if you do, then there is a potential double standard in play here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?I think one perspective here is that it's assumed that the women are just passing through this job, they're given the benefit of the doubt that this isn't their "dead end". The loser on the grill? Who cares. That's just a man doing menial labour like he's supposed to. Why assume he has higher aspirations? And if you're trying to be considerate of that loser, why would you bring that up to his face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?I mean I think the two are pretty much 1 for 1 comparable. A woman can get off without toys, and from what I've read/been told, deep penetration isn't necessary and is the least important part of achieving orgasm. Similarly, men can easily get off without "penetrating" (depending on whether you'd ever call closing a fist around a penis "penetration"), the only real importance to achieving orgasm is mental state and some friction. However, both are clearly heavily improved and more enjoyable with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:02 AM |
| 2 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Women do not claim to be demisexual. Which is what I said, correct. we don’t walk around getting wet the way guys walk around popping boners Now you're just hyperbolizing and demonstrating exactly why man-frustrated didn't want to bother with continuing this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 02:41 AM |
| 3 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?To be fair, he literally explained to you the folly in your logic fairly clearly once, and you still insisted on your original point despite that being completely besides his point. OP does not claim to be demisexual. There is no hypocrisy in him not giving what he considers "ugly women" a chance, despite giving ostensibly demisexual women the advice to give "ugly men" a chance. As man-frustrated pointed out, your contention isn't with the alleged hypocrisy, but rather, the fact that he's pointe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | The majority of women that watch porn on pornhub are bisexual or lesbianI think it's super hot too. But mostly when it's not hardcore gonzo style. This is sort of what I figured, when you consider as mentioned by a comment above that MM is popular for instance within the anime fandom, where it's generally more about the romance of the situation from what I understand, more akin to erotic literature and less straight porn. Two notes to consider here; 1) perhaps a lot of live action MM porn is already too niche for women to like it, and it removes the sensuality of fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 11:03 AM |
| 14 | The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women.I agree in the sense that, yeah, maybe obsessing less about the "chase" is generally good for men. But I'm kind of sick of hearing this idea of "just become a better person, bro" or that suddenly dating will become easier because you're not stressing about it, or that ignoring your lack of romantic success will leave you enlightened somehow. No, the most likely outcome is that you'll just be entirely removed from the dating pool. There needs to be effort or you're just not going to get anywhere.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:11 PM |
| 3 | How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it?I'd like to think I'd know my own child well enough by that point that I could reasonably deduce how capable he was of sexually assaulting someone. I feel like this is an angle a lot of the comments are ignoring. One commenter talks about 100% cutting their hypothetical son off, that it would be a cut and dry case, 100% the son is an abuser. But I mean, even following statistics where false accusations are basically automatically dismissible, it feels pretty callous and presumptive to assume you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 01:57 AM |
| 11 | Are men who never had sex immoral?when we use it as an insult we’re insinuating or inferring a few things... Do you not realize how using as an insult at all insinuates that you inherently feel this way about virgins? ETA: u/FirefighterAnxious93 It's against subreddit rules to block people, just fyi. But I also don't see how my question warranted immediately blocking me without so much as a single reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youThose are your friends, not your dating pool. This is exactly OPs point. Ok, you treat your friends as friends, now what? Where are you supposed to find romantic love? OP is talking about the lack of nuance and how short-sighted the advice of "just get a friend group" can be. Especially considering how people like you look at people trying to find romantic love and make them out to be creeps for, checks notes, "daring to have feelings for their friends". I'm sorry but the fact that you consider … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:50 PM |
| 2 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areIt seems like you're using points that illustrate a different conclusion than you've come to. The conclusion you should have come to with the evidence of "not just extremes" is that variety is preferred. Now, that's not to say this actually correlates with what women want. But the equivalency you're drawing is "sometimes women want 1 finger, sometimes they want a guy hung like a horse". Because even though I don't generally like squeezing my dick like a washcloth, sometimes you're in the mood fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Why "Objectification" is bull. (Pro porn rant part 3)This is a fallacious argument, seeing as how OP planned to make three posts from the start. They weren't "not convinced and therefore made more posts", they made more posts because that was the intent from the start. That being said, I'm not reading that wall of text, I guarantee you can condense that to be a more concise argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 04:42 PM |
| 8 | Pro porn rant part 1: introIs your reading comprehension lacking? The people asking for MORE MORE MORE content are a fraction of the people consuming porn. Pointing at that as a justification for completely abolishing porn is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Pro porn rant part 1: introBut pointing at addicts that have lost their lives to porn because they lack self control and saying "see, this person is representative of what the supply of porn is like!" is intellectually dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 10:18 PM |
| 7 | Pro porn rant part 1: introI could probably spend a life time eating every kind of apple out there. That doesn't change the fact that there's a food shortage. That's an even worse equivalence. You're comparing physical goods to the functionally infinite supply of porn on the internet. To be clear, I think there are aspects of porn, the porn industry and porn consumers that are terrible and need to be ratified. But pointing at addicts that have lost their lives to porn because they lack self control and saying "see, this p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 10:04 PM |
| 9 | Pro porn rant part 1: introFor porn and prostitution, the demand is infinitely bigger than the supply. A single person could spend a LIFETIME browsing just the porn we have online today, and still never watch the same video twice. Any sort of implication that porn is in low supply is just insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendsIt’s not normalized Sex and the City is an American romantic comedy-drama television series created by Darren Star for HBO. An adaptation of Candace Bushnell's newspaper column and 1996 book anthology of the same name, the series premiered in the United States on June 6, 1998. They concluded on February 22, 2004, with 94 episodes broadcast... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:21 PM |
| 9 | Luck plays a much larger role in dating success than most people like to admitUltimately, I'd rather put in the work to find and vet a good partner in a way that isn't reliant on 'luck'. But that's OP's point, you're still relying on luck to some extent. You could vet a thousand people and not find a single person who meshes with you, or you could vet a single person and find they have everything in common with you. But you could also find that this one person you've vetted is already in a relationship, has been burned one too many times and isn't ready to try again, thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Luck plays a much larger role in dating success than most people like to admitSort of a tangent but: I did once have a beautiful woman turn up at my door but she was trying to sell me an MLM scheme Now I'm picturing a story of a woman/man going door to door trying to con people into an MLM scheme. The twist? The MLM scheme is the "pyramid of their heart", and they're genuinely just trying to find love in the most desperate fashion possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 02:17 PM |
| 7 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?what they really believe is “I want women to choose ME” I mean, a big part of this bitterness comes from the way women rationalize why they aren't "choosing him". Women claim that they know before hand that they'd be a terrible partner, but as you just pointed out, a terrible partner can come from anywhere, and often is the one chosen by women to at least attempt partnership. Meanwhile women will tell those unchosen that it's because they "already know" that they'd be a bad partner. They then po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Yeah, I might linger on a video about how to improve and prevent knee pain through exercise, and within 5 videos it's showing me some dudebro lifting content. Shorts are also so braindead that if you start scrolling them within no time you're not giving it any mind at all, so you start lingering longer than you should on some home improvement video before you realize you don't actually care about what's happening. But it's too late. These home improvement shorts are also insidious because you al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:04 PM |
| 6 | Why do the people of society confuse young boys and men regarding how they are supposed to attract women?How socially retarded would you need to be? Just a couple days ago there was a post on the front page with a woman listing the "things she looks for in a partner" and she listed all of the socially acceptable items that are always listed. "Kind, comfortable to be with, funny, etc" and the comments were overwhelmingly along the lines of "why don't the incels understand that this is all it takes? You don't even have to be attractive as long as you tick these boxes!" This is the overwhelming sentim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:21 PM |
| – | Women see men as worthless/dangerous by default, so "don't be negative" is easy for them to say.A shame OP took the post down. I found it well worded and obvious what point was being made if you've spent any amount of time in these discussions. They were basically advocating for empathy. A willingness to acknowledge the other side of the coin. But these obtuse commenters just stuck their fingers over their eyes and refused to try to understand their broader point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 4 | There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you.Exactly. It's not like this way of dealing with the situation is great, it's childish for sure, but to extrapolate that into "he was just a scheming manipulator all along and didn't even see her as a person" is insane. No, it's just a defense mechanism that's all too common in people of all genders. They feel hurt when someone they like doesn't reciprocate their feelings and as they are inherently close to the situation they take it very personally, which obviously puts them at risk of lashing o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest.I don't use tiktok, but from what I've heard the algorithm's there are just so much more aggressive than the ones on youtube. It's fare more likely that you'll get sucked into a ragebait rabbit hole scrolling through there than on youtube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else (all genders) get torn between wanting to be a slut and actually having something serious with one partner?In regards to point 1, if you check the wikipedia article that they linked, you'd see it at the end of the introductory paragraph: The Coolidge effect has been demonstrated to occur in humans across cultures and in both sexes. This of course being a social study is, imo, very questionable, but it has been observed according to at least some sources it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers and Women reveal some truths when they criticize Age Gap Relationships and Passport BrosVery fair point. I'm only taking issue with the very broad judgement call of "still relies on their parents" as being some sort of marker of being a loser. When more and more people are forced to not just rely on their parents, but even live with them because of the state of the economy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pillers and Women reveal some truths when they criticize Age Gap Relationships and Passport Brosis a able bodied adult who still relies on their parents post school People rely on their parents their whole lives, to differring extents, sure, but especially in the modern economy this statment is insanely tone-deaf and lacking in empathy. You sound like a boomer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:37 AM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Stopping worrying about things that are only giving you stress is a good thing, sure. But the reason it's stressful for most people is because of the loneliness caused by the lack of companionship. For some people they'll stop the chase but just realize it wasn't really the chase that was the issue but rather what they weren't achieving. Like yeah, it's probably a net positive in regards to active stress factors when you first stop the chase, but it also means that the big underlying factor won'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Teenage girl watching red pill content."Red Pill" is a frame of mind. "Red Pill content" is generally created and catered towards the extreme ends of that spectrum of belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 01:13 PM |
| – | What should a late virgin do?One of the issues I have with the whole idea of "hiding your virgin power level" and flipping the "red pill switch" to become an unstoppable PUA (as if it were that simple for me in the first place) is the fact that I don't want just a shallow connection. Like, yeah, I lament the lack of sex. But more than that, it's genuine intimacy and connection that I crave. Hiding who you are just means empty relationships anyway. Don't develop your internal self for the sake of a woman This is generally th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 02:23 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about the fact that women aren't really expected to give the same level of care to men's consent as men are to women's consent?As a man, I DEFINE FOR MYSELF what I find acceptable. "If the they didn't want to get raped, they should've just said no" You're making this claim that men are always the one in control of the situation, that they're always the one to dictate the pace and mood. The reason consent is such a common topic of discussion is because "consent" isn't always clear cut. For instance, was coercion involved? Was alcohol? Is there a power imbalance? If a woman tried to do something to me without my consent, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?This is what I meant with "you're acting like a stereotype" lol You're acting exactly like the stereotypical insufferable vegan everyone despises, acting holier-than-thou and preaching over everyone. The other guy wasn't correct, but that doesn't change the fact that you're being obnoxious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick???? What exactly are your points? Or your "view" for that matter. Pointing out that people display emotions differently is not "attacking your view". Asking you whether you think it's healthy to become angry at someone for not conforming to your narrow ideas about healthy emotional displays is asking for introspection. If he was stand offish This is an emotion. This would qualify as him "being upset". Again, you're not being clear about what "being upset" entails. My husband is medical... But...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Proclaiming that "eating meat" equals guaranteed cholesterol imbalance is equally "bs". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Ok, but so let's suppose then, that in that situation, your husband doesn't react exactly how you expect, but is instead quiet and seemingly devoid of emotion. Do you think it's a healthy response to get pissed at him for that? Doesn't that signify in some way that it might be even harder on him than your expected reaction of "being upset"? If you know your husband so well, and supposedly cherish him, why is it a point of contention that he might be in control of his emotions during a time of cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Just like how you're forcing your belief on him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?The person above is saying that a person should show no emotional response. No, I literally said that you need to clarify what "being upset" means. As BlackFurosuto mentions, not everyone displays emotion in the same way. I even said "being upset, but not letting it affect you", i.e. what true stoicism is about. Being stoic doesn't necessarily mean not having feelings, it just means keeping your emotions under control, especially during difficult situations. Calling people "robots" because they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?I mean sure. But what spangles describes is an odd expectation of her husband to not be stoic during a difficult time. Especially since not every person displays their emotions the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Enjoy your b12 deficiency? Like, this is a wild conjecture to make based only on the idea of them eating meat. It's entirely possible to have a healthy meat based diet, just as it's possible to supplement a vegan diet to not have nutritional issues. Don't try to shame people into veganism, you're just coming off as a stereotype. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?I would have been pissed if my husband hadn't gotten upset when our child got sick and landed in the hospital (baby is doing good, just got an infection). What a weird example of what you consider "appropriate" display of emotion. If anything, that's exactly the situation where I'd consider stoicism a virtue. Someone has to keep a level head during difficult moments. Of course, this depends on what you consider "upset". Being upset, relaying that, but not letting it affect you is what I consider… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?It's funny, I kind of feel the exact opposite. Drawing a hard line about finding "immature" humour infantile is a mark of immaturity. If you can't laugh at a well placed fart joke, you probably take yourself too seriously. Of course there's something to be said about time and place, people that don't recognize whether it's an inappropriate moment to make such jokes are also immature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?I didn't say you were racist. I said you brought up race. But race is outside the scope of this particular discussion. You are actually exactly what I was talking about in a different comment. You don't argue the topic, you argue based on "teams". You try to appeal to the fact that "as a whole", "the red pill" has bad eggs, and since you group them all under the same flag, you dismiss all of them as a group. In essence, you're doing exactly what you accused Tywinlol of doing. You overly generali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:14 PM |
| 2 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?You know what's wild? Accusing someone of overly generalizing a group and then generalizing them in the same breath/paragraph. You're the one that brought race up, just now. "Actually, you're racist so your opinion is invalid." That's wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:09 AM |
| 1 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?They know what women want but refuse to give it because somewhere some chad was able to get it with some random woman for free So women see relationships as transactional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?You live in the year 2024 where you have access to more entertainment than ever before. Play video games, watch something sexy or romantic, write original stories, literally just live your life. If you live for sex that is a choice. You are choosing to live for hedonistic pleasure. Pretty much everything you listed is a "hedonistic pleasure". You have a brain. Use it. Do something with your life. Feelings are not an excuse for these choices. Get up. Tell me, how do you decide what you want to do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:03 AM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menSome men will take their own lives (just read about the suicide issue and it's not driven by classic mental illness). "Men have a suicide epidemic only because they're bad at being alone" is certainly a hot take. But I feel like you're downplaying your own loneliness (you're posting in these forums after all, which definitely indicates you're not totally fine with your lack of romantic success), while being very reductive about what causes male suicides. I mean hell, your username is "it's not g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: For the men here who have suffered with dating struggles where they want to find a partner but can't, were you able to open up to your male friends about your struggles? If so, how did they respond? And do you believe we should talk more about this as men?I see people who've been doing therapy for fucking years. At what point do you decide that a course of treatment just isn't working? Therapy isn't just about fixing problems, it's about maintenance. If you're doing relatively ok but still going to therapy you might catch bad thought patterns before they become worse. Or if you've been working on improving some aspect of yourself but "see no progress", maybe you'd be even worse off if you didn't have therapy to mediate your efforts. That said, re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Men who claim that "we men are so horny and would fck anything with a pulse" are horrible and feed misandrist mythsSure, but the idea that this is a uniquely male aspect is baffling. It's like people ignore the fact that things like butt sharpies used to be a thing. It's also like, acquiring a vaguely phallic object is far easier for a woman than generally acquiring "vaguely vaginal" objects is for men. Horny as a woman? I've heard stories of hairbrush handles, half the selection at the produce isle can work, table corners, pillow humping, not to forget the aforementioned butt sharpies. Most of these are bot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 05:08 PM |
| 9 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?I always find this idea that women are better at masking to be highly suspect. Especially when using things like "autistic women are more likely to be in relationships than autistic men" to support it. When the men are the ones that are expected to initiate any and all courting rituals, it stands to reason that women can get by more easily while dealing with something like autism. An autistic woman gets past the issues of being shy merely by the fact that the man is going to have to approach her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:53 PM |
| 3 | CMV: A man who has done extensive research on women and relationships but has not really been involved with them knows FAR MORE than a man who has lots experience with women without looking at studies and research.What you're not considering is that you were evaluating 23 years of experience through a concerted effort of study. If you lived for 23 years in a vacuum, then read for 5 months about something, you'd have nothing to base or tie your newly acquired knowledge to. I.E. Your 3-5 months of reading builds upon your priror 23 years of experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:24 AM |
| 6 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBut that's largely because a) incel is an extremely recent term, even the original coinage is less than 40 years old and b) the dictionary definition for feminism is just the most concise definition without going into the history and baggage, and c) no one would dare redefining feminism as anything other than the PRd version that is portrayed in the mainstream. I don't... General/plural "you", sorry. I've seen so many people make this argument that being egalitarian is the same as being a femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 10:19 AM |
| 13 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHow do people still maintain that it's as simple as "the dictionary definition"? If it's that simple, why do you throw up metaphorical hands when someone refers to themselves as an "egalitarian" instead of a "feminist"? If they're synonyms, why do you care that they don't call themselves a feminist specifically? It's because it's a charged word, there's more to the definition than just the surface level definition. Pretending otherwise is just disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 12:21 AM |
| 27 | CMV: A man who has done extensive research on women and relationships but has not really been involved with them knows FAR MORE than a man who has lots experience with women without looking at studies and research.You learn that they're just human. If all you do is read about them like they're some exotic species, you'll build the wrong idea in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 12:02 AM |
| 12 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Men seem more desperate because they're the ones that have to make things happen. Women can act coy and pretend they don't care while they wait for the right man to come along and make a pass at them. Until then they turn down everyone and that gives the illusion that they aren't desperate or that they think "men in general" aren't worth it. But their desperation just manifests differently than actively chasing dick. That's why there's constant complaints like "where are all the good men?", "I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:49 PM |
| 2 | People are way too obsessed with finding happiness and it's one of the reasons why relationships are in such a poor place.There's a stark difference between a person who can't appreciate what they have, and a person who doesn't have things and pines for them. Not to mention a lot of those people who "have it all" and are still not happy have clinical depression. Saying "you can just choose to be happy" is woefully ignorant. And those people who "swear they're happy" despite living in "squalor", by what metric is that? "Oh, I'm living off 2 dollars a month and working 12 hours a day in a factory, but at least I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 11:56 PM |
| – | Do you think this audience reaction is representative to how society sees domestic violence against men?I want to say that the core of the meaning still revolves around the idea of doing something "because you're angry". It's an idiom, not the literal definition of the word, and therefore you can't say for certain what way is being used here. But considering the context, I'd say it's very probable Phil is actually using it to mean "hit someone because you're angry". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Would men do the same in the current dating market?Casual sex to most women is nothing. It isn’t desirable. (I’ve slept with lots of men. Most of them were not worth the trouble.) It's easy to dismiss something you have as being unremarkable, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Would men do the same in the current dating market?Even though I think most people prefer a relationship over casual sex, they also tend to like sex in general. And for women it's easy to dismiss the value of "casual sex" because it's presented to them as an option, while for men it's something they need to actively pursue. So whether it be men on this sub or men in general, they can easily come off as prioritizing casual sex because they're lacking that as the baseline option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 11:05 PM |
| -1 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itMen do war No. Individuals do war. Trying to blame "war" as a concept on the entirety of the male gender is ludicrous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagThere's also the possibility that he misread the reaction. We're hearing here third hand about how this interaction went poorly and that he had to vent on reddit. But what if they were just ribbing back and he felt he was being pressured for making a risque joke? But yeah, again, I agree that I don't think there's anything inherently about the joke that suggests that he's "harmful", like AngeCruelle wants to imply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagEhhh, I can see it both ways. Being ND they may not have assessed properly whether he had the rapport to actually make that joke. Some dudes are completely fine with friends joking about racial stuff to their face, casual ribbing so to speak. But if that same shit comes from someone they don't know? That can come off as plain racism and those same guys wouldn't be cool with it. Depending on charisma you can also get away with these jokes earlier or later on in a friendship. With confidence you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?I feel like "abundance of options" is the key factor. You're less likely to jeopardize your friendships if you know you have a plethora of other options anyway. Meanwhile for guys, they won't generally even know if they really have other options, let alone how many since they're expected to initiate. And since the man is expected to initiate, if there is a mutual thing going on, nothing will generally come of it unless he acts first. And then we develop a certain survivorship bias. Successful re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:24 PM |
| 6 | What is a deal breaker you think the opposite sex should adopt?Just to add to this the perspective from the current top comment; she might be into you, but if she's playing these games where she's pretending to not care, she probably isn't worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.“internet bubbles” My man, at some point you have to wake up and smell the manure covered roses; the internet isn't some alternate reality, you're living in it. I know people love to tout how all of this is just chronically online people blowing things out of proportion, and to an extent it's true, but at some point you have to be extremely deluded to not notice the global trends on the rise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:54 PM |
| 2 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.You have such a wildly naive worldview. "It isn't explicitly stated in real life therefore it has no influence outside the internet". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:29 PM |
| 2 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.This is just the "no real Scotsman" fallacy. You're arguing that we should ignore people with more nuanced opinions because they "aren't really redpill". But if it's "evolving" as you suggest it should, then would it even still be called redpill? Would it necessarily even have a pithy title? You can't realistically quantify the total sum of redpill influence by just considering the modern podcast grifters and ignoring the broader conversation going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:10 PM |
| 2 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.If it weren’t it would have evolved into something different. It has. You just don't notice the difference because you overly simplify the entire concept under the idea of "podcast grifters", and refuse to apply nuance. Although the conversation as a whole - not just the RP side of things - has largely stagnated, it doesn't change the fact that there are more facets to "red pill beliefs" than just scam influencers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:43 PM |
| 7 | Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real lifeMaybe not, but I'd wager those women on reddit that say "you're just not nice enough" are only saying it to justify to themselves that good men wouldn't face dating struggles. They're not saying "having a good personality helps", they're saying "you have a bad personality and therefore deserve your lot in life", with no knowledge or understanding of the people they're judging. ETA: And when I say "women on reddit" I mean "people on reddit". I followed your verbiage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 12:48 AM |
| 16 | Men's self worth and general perception in society is tied to their success with women.I love how the very start of the wikipedia article is a very charged claim of "mostly white,[2] male, and heterosexual[3]", and then you check out that first citation and the fucking title of the citation is "'Incels' are not particularly alt-right or white". I think this is one of those articles where you have to be extremely critical of the information being presented. And like Novice said, let's be real here, the roots of the term will always be the literal definition; "involuntarily celibate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:51 AM |
| 0 | She has to like you moreWhat do you think an anecdote is? I'm refuting the evidence you brought to the discussion. What is the purpose of bringing up your case as anecdotal evidence if you're just going to say "this isn't the point of discussion"? You've made it the point of discussion by bringing it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | She has to like you moreIt’s not supposed to be conclusive But it's supposed to have a point, a conclusion that we can draw from it. Otherwise it's just a thing that happened and the value in your sharing it is irrelevant. We’ve never met, but I’m not a doormat Again, just extrapolating on the limited info you're giving. But it sounds like you let them dictate how the household was managed. getting to know them continuously isn’t mind games No, but expecting this push-pull dynamic of pursuer/pursued is a form of mind g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 07:11 PM |
| 3 | She has to like you moreSeems wildly inconclusive as an anecdote to me. Yes, and I'm saying that your anecdote doesn't really support any single conclusion, because it clearly lacks information. Her liking the man more will drag the relationship on way longer than it should go I'm just reading between the lines here, it's impossible to go by your narrative alone since you seem biased. But you are the one that tried to insinuate that the man becomes disinterested because he's lacking the "thrill of the chase". And I'm j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:13 PM |
| 11 | She has to like you more"Trope" doesn't automatically equate truth. Especially in this case it seems like a very black and white way of looking at things. You say the woman was more into the men, but then when the man stops trying, things fall apart? Why? Something doesn't add up in this scenario because if she actually likes him more than vice versa, isn't the onus on her to make things work? More importantly, back to the trope, the flipside is just as commonly touted, and just as toxic of a mindset, where the woman n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 02:50 AM |
| 14 | She has to like you moreOr those men were getting comfortable because they didn't feel a need to constantly maintain a relationship they saw as stable? Seems like the "they like the chase" could be projection, and what you're actually talking about is "the woman wants to be chased". Seems wildly inconclusive as an anecdote to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Opinion: You need to develop your data literacy if you’re going to use data/studies/statistics to make broad claims about society!Reading the abstract isn't always enough. Researchers have agendas. We like to think scientists are somehow above all of this shit and have perfect data literacy, but they very often interpret data to suit the point that they wanted to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesAgain, you're arguing for a statement that says "people who have less romantic success than abusers are worse than abusers". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 04:37 PM |
| -1 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesLife generally isn't so simple as black and white. You're trying to reconcile a very complex topic into a very pithy idea of "bad vs good". In the worldview you're painting there is only the "bad abuser" and the "good victim". But the victim isn't without agency. At some point they have to take responsibility for the choices they have made. This is a complex topic and I'm not in the mood to delve too deeply, but let me suffice to say that your idea that abusers having "max charisma" and that thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesThat's not what they were doing. They responded to a statement saying that men who have less romantic success than literal abusers are worse than said abusers, by calling out the sheer cruelty and backwards logic. You're now bending over backwards to justify that anyone that doesn't agree with that cruel logic is a "POS". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesWomen who openly disrespect men (usually but not always) have only had experiences with men who disrespect women It's always men's fault, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:53 PM |
| 0 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.How many men would stay in a relationship with zero sex? This is, once again, this implication that women don't get anything out of sex and that men need to earn sex rather than it being a mutual expression of affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Men suck at non-verbal communication, Women suck at Verbal communicationEveryone sucks at all communication. People that think they're good at "non-verbal" communication think they're being slick sending messages, but if the other party isn't picking up on them, then it's not that the recipient is bad at non-verbal communication, you just suck at communication. Communication implies communication after all, not just sending signals. If you're "sending signals" but aren't picking up on the fact that the intended recipient isn't picking up on them, you're just bad at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working?The implication here being that humanity will adjust to become a worse species. Survival at any cost. The ends justify the means. Humanity's always considered themselves closer to the enlightened elves of fantasy, but clearly we're the brutish orcs. If we ever make it into space, other species will consider us terrifying, kill on sight, we're creatures that will sack and raid your ship under the justification that it's necessary for survival. "Hey, if you wanted to survive the hostility of space… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?You're misconstruing what I just said. Ignoring any study that shows a high probability of poor methodology, for instance because it's being peddled by a known untrustworthy source, is just pragmatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?The "result" of the studies is often extremely biased takes from the researchers. So actually, it sort of does. They could look at the methodology and acquired statistics and refute those, but when you have a blatant sign that the results are probably of poor quality such as the site being untrustworthy, it's easier to just not waste time doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 05:49 PM |
| 21 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sI feel like there's a good chance she's leaving crucial context out. "She's a NEET" but is a 10/10 lookswise. "She's a NEET" because OP doesn't recognize whatever niche vocation she has to be "a real job". "She's a NEET" but inherited a bunch of money, so while she's "living frugally in her mother's basement" (what is a basement in this scenario even? Some people call entire apartments "the basement" just because it's below ground floor) she's actually living a lavish lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.bandage on your face "what's with the bandage?" I put it on my face to pick up chicks. [Deception] I was just fighting this guy outside the bar, you should see his face! [Warlock][Persuasion] I'm the chosen vassal for the dark lord's powers, if I do not contain my vast abyssal might, everyone in this club would suffer a fate worse than death as my horrible karma would ooze out and suffocate them in its miasma... that is contained by this plastic bandaid I stuck on my forehead... leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to assume that being a pushy asshole works enough of the time for some men to continue behaving that way?Men by and large keep their wits about them with very attractive women You keep telling yourself that, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to assume that being a pushy asshole works enough of the time for some men to continue behaving that way?The men in that example weren't paying for nude pictures. They're paying for the delusion that these women care about them. Anyone that doesn't understand the exploitative nature of this business model is woefully incapable of discussing these topics to be honest. Those men ostensibly aren't getting a "legitimate benefit". They're being lied to. They largely know they're being lied to, but they fool themselves into thinking this isn't the case. If what they want is pictures of nude women, there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to assume that being a pushy asshole works enough of the time for some men to continue behaving that way?paying money for a legitimate benefit conferred Just lol my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Is it fair to assume that being a pushy asshole works enough of the time for some men to continue behaving that way?This isn't exactly a "female exclusive" trait. All people tend to treat attractive people better in general. Look at how men simp over women online. They'll donate thousands to a mildly attractive woman's onlyfans just to hear her interns tell them through a text message that they're special. And I'm pretty sure that, rationally, they know they don't stand a chance with the instagram model they're pestering with donations. But they'll argue in their heads that "I'm special, I'm not like the othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionThe problem with your analogy is what you assume to be the cause of this desperation. Yeah, a man might be more desperate and settle for "stale food", but that isn't necessarily because he has inherently lower standards biologically. It just means that culturally he has access to "worse food" or whatever. This is largely due to men having to be the hunters. They need to persistently chase "prey" in order to land anything to eat. A woman's "hunting strategy", under this analogy, is to wait while … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 01:30 PM |
| 0 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionI'll keep saying this until I'm hoarse, but a lot of the supposed "concrete proof" that women are less horny than men is merely based on behavioural patterns that don't definitively prove horniness. The fact that men are forced to be the pursuers under modern cultural standards, means that women will generally come off as less aggressive and as a result, "less horny". People also love to quote trans experiences as definitive proof of "biological difference in horniness", but fail to consider tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageSweet, when the cities are uninhabitable, the dispossessed peasants can work the fields! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageThe world has been warm and glacier free in the past and survived. Yes... The planet survived. Life survived. But species went extinct. Human's are far more fragile as communities than we think we are. We may adapt as a species, but if the planet gets warm, billions will be uprooted and probably die when coastal regions flood and infrastructure gets destroyed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageSo we'll have no clear superpower within a few years. China and Russia being a house of cards doesn't mean America isn't one as well. ETA: A funny coincidence, actually. I was just googling Brian Cox for entirely unrelated reasons, and stumbled upon a thread about him on r/darkfuturology. The top post of the sub is pretty much exactly what I'm talking about: https://old.reddit.com/r/DarkFuturology/comments/e8ahfs/why_the_future_is_really_grim/ Some of those "facts" seem a bit dated, for instance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Society is finished, terminal stageRussia and Israel are examples of how the balance of power is far more precarious than we pretend. "Peaceful" might go out the window at the drop of a hat. The US is slowly losing its position as a superpower, if it falls, then who's to say how the balance of power might shift? You're arguing that we're "living in the most peaceful period of human history", but ignoring the fact that a genocide is happening right before our eyes, and we're only 70 years removed from the greatest conflict in huma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:58 PM |
| 16 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsit can encourage the weird kid(s) to change so they fare better in the group dynamic Except it doesn't. At best it makes the weird kid become a doormat that masks and struggles because they don't get to be who they are, and at worst it'll isolate them and exacerbate their mental conditions. This is just a bully's rationalisation for why they weren't actually the bad guy. No it was entirely a selfish endeavour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Society is finished, terminal stageI literally just read an article about how upto 60% of the worlds food is "overprocessed" and cheap food that is associated with a number of health issues. Conditions are only getting worse and food quality is very likely to only go down or become unsustainable as eating healthy is already a middle class privilege. Don't pretend we're not treading water already. The world may be superficially "better" than any other time (sure, social media has us all isolated but the convenience of having a piz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.That was the second half of my clause, yes. You're making a claim that it's entertaining beyond being smut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Are you actually honestly making the claim that 50 Shades of Grey is a well written book that was entertaining beyond being publicly acceptable smut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."It means that you're latching onto a single word and extrapolating the least flattering image possible of your opponent. You've doubled down on this caricature you've drawn on him based on a single, potentially ill phrased, word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Why are we glorifying doing normal adult thingsI never thought to myself “I deserve a gold star” Why not though? Why not praise yourself for holding it together? Like, putting the gender politics aside, and looking at it from a more just general mental health aspect, why not acknowledge that you're doing a good job? Doing well is all relative of course, but for one person, getting out of bed to do one chore can be like running a marathon while for another scrubbing the dishes won't even register as a day to day activity. Taking a step back a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?It seems to be a case of someone taking the bluepill ideology to an extreme and refusing to acknowledge that there are nuances to all of this. Is redpill wrong? Maybe, but not having a prenup in this situation seems exceedingly naive. Are open relationships doomed to failure? Not always, but the personality traits required to be comfortable with your partner sleeping around aren't found in everyone, and ignoring your own feelings on the matter in an attempt to be as progressive as possible is ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:41 PM |
| 1 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantThose influencers are as, if not more, mainstream as red pill gurus. And how is the red pill rhetoric not an example of the "most extreme things men on the internet say"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 12:05 PM |
| 4 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantand [men] are less likely to have mental illnesses This is a very debatable statistic. The fact that men are diagnosed less often with mental illnesses doesn't preclude men in general from having mental illnesses. It just means they might seek help less, the condition might be less apparent in a man, or so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 12:01 PM |
| -2 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantThe problem is that people claim women are happier single, while those same women complain that no man worthy of them is approaching them. There's an apparent contradiction to these statements. If they're content with being single, then finding a partner should be a bonus, and they wouldn't be complaining, right? It's fine to have standards, it's even fine to have high standards, especially if you genuinely don't mind being alone to achieve those standards. But the problem arises when these beco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:58 AM |
| 7 | Why is categorical thinking so prominent in these spaces?you left out the fact that autistic women are taught to mask more No. The idea of masking is exactly what I'm talking about. People keep talking about how autistic women "mask more", but isn't it just that since autistic social traits are less debilitating for women, they're attributed "better masking skills" since the autistic traits just inherently stick out more in men? Women being socially seen as the object of affection is not a romantic advantage It is an advantage insofar as actually acqu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Why is categorical thinking so prominent in these spaces?Considering that the "life script" these "cultural elites" have handed to people over the millennia have boiled down to basically "keep the status quo and generate resources for the elite", I don't think this point is as astute as you think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 06:58 PM |
| 11 | Why is categorical thinking so prominent in these spaces?It's largely that autistic women don't have to suffer as hard during courtship as autistic men. Since the onus is on men to pursue, autistic women, as long as are at least approachable, will still have a chance at romance since men most likely will approach them. For autistic men this first hurdle isn't going to just go away like it can for autistic women, because they generally have to actively overcome their autistic traits to have that same chance. Secondly, this insinuation you have that "th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Do women understand that not all misogynists are incels and not all incels are misogynists?The fact of the matter is that "incel" is at it's core a technical term. Lower case 'i' incels i.e. virgins will still identify with the word to some extent because they do after all fit the technical definition. After all, what's the most common way of shitting on Incels? Attack their (often alleged) virginity. So when the technical definition is being used as the derogatory part of the term, how are men who are "minding their own business" not being referred to in a derogatory manner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 10:44 AM |
| 8 | Reddit and the gender war.To an extent you're right, but it's not a fault of theirs that they didn't experience this trauma. It just is. The converse is choosing to undergo trauma, and that isn't exactly a healthy 'choice' either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 09:13 PM |
| 12 | Reddit and the gender war.The 'war' is imperceptible to them because they just flock to each other naturally. I don't think it's so much that they don't perceive it because they "know to avoid it", rather than that due to not having the trauma that most of us have that serves as a pull factor. That is, they have a certain privilege in never having had to experience first hand the strife and struggles of some of the darker sides of humanity in this way. Similarly I don't think many of them have such conscious opinions on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The talking point that "older men prey on young girls because older women are less willing to put up with their bullshit" misses the mark.He’s could just do better I agree. He could live his life by appraising his partners based on their compatibility rather than by judging what some terminally online person thinks it says about his "socioeconomic worth". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:55 AM |
| 1 | I think the gender wars (division) in the West are inflamed by a psyop campaign from Russia/ChinaWhat I'm saying is that the things AI is optimised for right now is fueling rage content for instance. The feedback loop includes the fact that by feeding you ragebait, you get more susceptible to the rage bait. The algorithm also knows that rage content is more likely to garner engagement than by suggesting DIY content for instance. The corporations have the statistics on all of this, but they clearly consider the monetary gain from this system more important than the harm its clearly inflictin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:58 PM |
| 1 | I think the gender wars (division) in the West are inflamed by a psyop campaign from Russia/ChinaOne thing to consider about algorithms is that they are controlled by corporations to some extent. They do have some influence on the content spread to the masses, so the fact that the algorithms work the way they do today shows that a) they are valuing the monetary gains from the current designs of algorithms over the very clear harmful effects on society, and/or b) the harmful effects are beneficial to these corporations and their beneficiaries in some way. It's like 90+% category a, they're t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:18 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierWhile men probably are hornier than women, the difference gets way too much emphasis and is used by shitty women to shame men for their behaviour and stupid men to excuse their behaviour. Most statistics that paint men as "overwhelmingly hornier" is more easily explained by the societal pressure on men to initiate. Men are forced to seek out sex/relationships and cast a wide net if they want any success. Women can bide their time and feign disinterest until it suits them. Giving the illusion tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kidsWhat exactly makes it obvious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kidsShe* OP is supposedly a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 02:39 PM |
| – | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.One issue with those "horny teens" is that they're misrepresenting their own problems. Everyone knows that sex isn't actually the solution or what people are ultimately looking for, but rather companionship. But people that haven't properly analysed their issues (90% of people arguing on both sides) come in and argue the superficialities of the problem. No one is willing to look at the very obvious subtext between the lines and afford men the benefit of the doubt. Detractors would rather derail … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:42 AM |
| 1 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sFair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20smaybe there are things we should prioritize before putting all of our self worth in the attention of the opposite sex This isn't wrong, strictly. But you have to realize the cascading effect of how lack of romantic/sexual success affects a person's psyche. In regards to confidence, it doesn't just affect your confidence in regards to attracting partners, it affects your overall confidence. So even if you only ascribe a tiny portion of your self worth to sexual success (or the lack thereof) it ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:36 PM |
| 8 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?I hate the term "skinnyfat" so much. Nevermind body positivity. Being "skinnyfat" is just "not obese but not fit" aka normal body weight, but it's just such a blatant shaming tactic directed at men. "Oh you're not actually putting in effort to be healthy. Sure you're skinny, but you're 'skinnyfat'". Nevermind the fact that the same body type on women is seen as objectively attractive. It is the ultimate hypocritical double standard on beauty. Society keeps talking about the pressures on women to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginbecause trying to defend a position like that usually makes it harder to continue believing in it Not in internet debates, dude. If you've spent any time reading internet arguments you should realize that no matter how outlandish the opinion, people are more likely to bend over backwards to facilitate an opinion under attack than actually considering the other side of the coin. But I'm also gonna address "why this matters". The term comes from a technical definition rooted in virginal status. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:25 PM |
| 13 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virgin"Perfectly good people" don't exist. We're all complex, usually extremely flawed individuals. But Incels are fairly unique in that demonizing them entirely based on (ultimately rather innocuous) behaviour has been completely normalized. I imagine the vast, vast majority of Incels are for the most part fairly regular people that have an unhealthy habit of divulging in unhealthy coping mechanisms. But these coping mechanisms are prevalent among far more people than just incels. The thing is that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:14 PM |
| 3 | The average American man is much more redpilled than you thinkYou said that "red pill ideas inherently paint themselves as dumb because 'blue pill' ideas are so obviously false". Which is just nonsensical. Sure, a lot of more "developed" red pill ideas are erroneous conclusions, but you were specifically saying that red pill ideas are inherently nonsensical because the core of the ideas - that "blue pill" ideas are false - is self evident. Except if they are so self evident, why are people arguing that they aren't? How can you argue that it's stupid to "ob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be willing to entertain having a relationship with a man that spends alot of time online explaining to people and arguing with them about how his decisions have nothing to do with why he can't find sex or a relationship? Why or why not?Sure, but you're not ignoring the "strawman" that OP proposes. I'm asking, if you ignore this part: he spends alot of time online explaining to people and arguing with them about how his decisions have nothing to do with why he can't find sex or a relationship. Where OP presupposes why and what they're arguing (because that is not something you can generally easily discern) how do you decide that they're an emotionally immature person? Is it simply based on their presence on these forums? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you be willing to entertain having a relationship with a man that spends alot of time online explaining to people and arguing with them about how his decisions have nothing to do with why he can't find sex or a relationship? Why or why not?Counter-question: why do you ostensibly feel like you're not pathetic compared to this hypothetical pathetic man? You are here, participating in these discussions after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Would you be willing to entertain having a relationship with a man that spends alot of time online explaining to people and arguing with them about how his decisions have nothing to do with why he can't find sex or a relationship? Why or why not?Why do you feel this way? Ignoring the blatant strawman OP proposes, why does them participating in these discussions preclude him from emotional maturity? Consider that you are here participating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:41 PM |
| 5 | The average American man is much more redpilled than you thinkSo you're saying the red pill is so self evident that people that believe it are stupid? Basically these guys are stupid for revealing that they've realized these "delusions" they once held are wrong? Isn't that a red pill talking point? That succesful men usually hold red pill ideals but smart men don't reveal it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 11:27 AM |
| 17 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menConsidering how the female side of the "manosphere coin" is basically just bitching about guys never committing, I think it should be obvious that you are at least being partially ignorant about the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeOne issue with modern 3rd spaces is how specialized they tend to be. Like, ok, I can hit up my local game store and play some Magic with people. That's fun, I make some connections with peeps but the odds that we have anything more in common can be fleeting. So you can often drift from one space to another only ever making superficial connections with people. Tangentially related, if you have many different hobbies, trying to find the time in the week to do all of them while attending school/wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicThis feels like a "symptom vs cause" kind of thing. These aren't mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyThe implication of your comment is that they might be more than average if anything. If they consider themselves average, according to the logic of your reply, they're probably undervaluing themselves due to comparing themselves to better people. The further implication being that lack of self esteem makes you inferior to others. Which is kind of an absurd way to assess people because a lot of awful people have sky high self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle?No, I'm not. You are though. "May" is a key phrase in the guys reply, that implies nuance to the situation that you're omitting by summarizing the comment as "men have it worse". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyThe problem with your follow up and Jazz's, is that the guy says "I'm average and have no luck", Jazz says "you're not average", but then you say "yes, he's not average" and then bring up an example of an above average person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexYou're sorely lacking actual statistics for body pillow ownership. As well it matters what the purpose of that ownership is, yeah some guys own body pillows, but what percentage of those just own one "for the meme"? I think you might be straight up wrong in thinking that women are in a great minority of body pillow ownership. Just consider the fact that it's far less taboo for women to own one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 09:57 AM |
| 2 | We live in an age of equality but women's sexuality still hasn't caught up.Likely just a me problem though Nah, I think this is a wide-spread issue. Even if it's largely unconscious. Consider the prevalence of cuckoldry/netorare porn, or the term cuck as an insult. I think it's a deep rooted insecurity that stems from the fact that these guys both desire a progressive woman and desire to be progressive themselves, but they have doubts about female desires, the nature of women, and what being progressive even entails. They worry that being "progressive" (willing to show… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 02:20 AM |
| 11 | The only reason women have the extreme upper hand in dating is because men are way hornier; simple supply and demand.I keep pointing this out, but the fact that men are the pursuers is not an indicator of how much hornier they are. Women can act demure and claim that they "aren't that interested in sex", because - regardless of success - sex comes to them. If men want any they have to seek it out. This will give the illusion that men are always horny and looking to fuck. But the fact of the matter is that they have to seek it out constantly just to get it once in a while. Meanwhile a woman will just sit back a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.scouts for modeling agencies wouldn’t have a job They're catering to a very elitist market of people whose job it is to convince you beauty is objective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | It’s crazy how often you hear the argument “not all men” when men everywhere demonize women and everything about women as wholePeople, this is low effort bait. "All men are always generalizing about women." This thread has literally zero value besides being fodder for dissent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexAnd in this situation, where women constantly crave companionship, you're telling me they wouldn't want a robot for comfort? Or are you agreeing with me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 11:40 AM |
| 5 | Why don’t men just do what women do?I used to get pretty upset that I was missing out on these things, sometimes I still do I think for most people that lack romance this is how it is. I think it's weird that you assume that because some men will voice their dissatisfaction over their love life, that means they don't also try to fill their lives with other hobbies or whatever. We also see plenty of women voicing their displeasure with how their romantic lives have turned out, are we to assume that they too are just wallowing in mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Shitty Bluepill dating advice creates entitlement, not Redpill talking pointsBlue pill is a term. A term that is used in discussions on this site. Albeit with a nebulous definition. Your argument that it doesn't exist, however, is pointless and doesn't serve to further any discussion whatsoever. If the only reason you're arguing here is to yell "red pillers are losers", then you're doing a bang up job. But as far as furthering discourse, your arguments don't hold any water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenI feel like it's kind of unfair to argue there are no benefits to having kids when you're willingly ignoring the main thing about having a kid. You have a kid. Like, I get you. With how the world is these days and how easy it is to fuck up this little person's life by fucking up even slightly as a parent. Even if I weren't a loser loner and had the option, I'd still be hard pressed to justify bringing a life into this state of affairs. But you're still just rapid fire listing off the cons and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent.Ha. Haha. Hahaha! This isn't even a gendered thing, people are awful at communicating. And you want to maintain women are always forthright with their intentions? That's the most blue pilled take I've ever heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.It's also not fair to "blame men" for the the situation they're thrust into with dating, where almost all of the pressure of making something happen is on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:35 AM |
| 1 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThat... isn't how dialogue works... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 01:58 PM |
| 6 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingExcept it isn't "woman centered". It's "gender dynamics in society". When claims are being levied that men are "inherently untrustworthy", responses like his to point out the imbalance are entirely justified. Your responses are exponentially more petty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:42 AM |
| 6 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingWe are talking about women, not men That is exactly his point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveThe people 50+ and ultra wealthy live in another reality from the average person. Neither one in a relationship like that is marrying for a "relationship". And they probably arent even fucking each other. I say this without having a clue who she is, and not really agreeing with the RP take you posted anyway. But like, come on, this isn't exactly a statistically significant example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys even like women? Why?They could be* projecting that other people hate themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:36 PM |
| 12 | Do you guys even like women? Why?Or you might be projecting as well. Just a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 01:56 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?It's not a game of pure skill. There are so many factors involved that often times the self-selecting "advice" from people who "succeeded" is so shallow as to be useless. This advice is from people who often times are blind to the difficulties and struggles of those who haven't succeeded. You can see it in their tone, there's often an air of superiority in how they approach the discussion. I'm not quite as deep in this corner as OP, but there is still very clearly a bias that they bring to the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:12 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?Ooph. This is about the most tone deaf comment I've read on this sub. Not only is it hateful and full of spite, oozing with "just world" justification for your own place in the world, but it also completely ignores any and all discussion that actually takes place in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.That's not even remotely what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.It seems like there's this fantasy in this sub of finding a girl and suddenly never being lonely again I'm fairly certain this is a conclusion made by the bluepillers and not a fantasy anyone actually has. I constantly see threads about how "a girlfriend won't fix your issues!!" but that's not what anyone is saying. Sure, a partner isn't going to magically fix every issue a person has. But this claim that you need to fix everything else before finding a partner is just trying to imply that peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:06 PM |
| 3 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I don't mean that it's a problem these women find love. It's a problem that when men don't find love, people bend over backwards to justify it, usually by putting the blame on the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 16 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"The problem is they're exceedingly likely to become partners, despite these social inefficiencies. That's the crux of OP's problem. Saying that men struggle because they're socially inept, when the same ineptitude in women doesn't hinder them at all, is just misandry. It's the just world fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types."A demographic known for conservative leanings isn't interested in dating within one of the most liberal subcultures in society. More at 11." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:35 AM |
| 5 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?This thread stems from the idea of "sticking with it" in regards to a hobby one doesn't like. To a degree I agree, you don't always know right away whether you like a hobby. But for the intent of making friends, sticking with a hobby you don't enjoy is not good advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?Then those people are not my friends lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:52 PM |
| 10 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?It is. Because then you're selecting for people that have at least one hobbie not in common with you. If you want friends you need to socialize with activities you like doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?Takes effort. Most people don't like effort. Not to mention convenience. A good hiking path isn't readily available to some people. So a subsection of people that do effort, will have other avenues than hiking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?A lot of people don't like hiking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:47 PM |
| 9 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?I should have clarified "just do hobbies you don't like". Which is stupid for a number of reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:45 PM |
| 22 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?"Just do things you don't like doing" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityIf by "one particular subreddit" you mean "mainstream media and entertainment", then sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:10 AM |
| 2 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualitywhich we don't teach enough, particularly to men This is exactly what OP is talking about. We literally won't stop hounding men in western society about how demonic their "urges" are and how all the onus is on them to be better. But then you pretend we aren't doing exactly this. And you have to be acting obtuse by saying "both are criticised by some and uplifted by others". You know full well that one is a socially acceptable opinion while the other is vilified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:16 PM |
| 2 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityThis argument is asinine either way. It assumes that society progresses after a predetermined linear path. Their point that it's a matter of perspective is to point out that it doesn't matter what year it is. Perspectives of people don't consider what year it is, they consider their experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveIt's not that men are becoming more image conscious. It's that we (as a society) are finally becoming aware that the idea of the perfectly stoic male that isn't phased by anything is a myth. Same as how there isn't an increase in certain mental conditions, we're just getting better at spotting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveNot having your sense of self so wrapped up in your outward appearance is a blessing Yeah, you clearly don't know shit about the male psyche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:22 PM |
| 3 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”"I shouldn't have to maintain my health for my whole life." I'm sorry, but those people are very clearly just not health conscious at all. Our bodies are machines that require maintenance. That includes watching what you eat. If you don't want to do that, then feel free to find an early grave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynistMaybe you should feel bad about your terrible advice rather than worrying about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynistBuild your great cake of a life, enjoy it, have fun and women will want to be around you This is the trash advice people mock blue pillers for. If* you want love, sitting around waiting is never going to work. Especially with the increasing isolation of modern society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:38 AM |
| 14 | Loneliness in Men is different to Loneliness in Womendon't need as much emotional support from others as women This is some recessive bullshit. Proof of this is how hermits are almost always men You mean the people often associated with unstable mental health? Yeah, that totally proves men don't need emotional support... You have the causation reversed. Men don't "deal" with emotional crises by isolating, they're forced to isolate when they have a crisis. This is one of the main issues being raised in mental health awareness. This post is honestly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 11:09 AM |
| 0 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?Everyone wants casual sex. What they don't want is the stuff surrounding casual sex. Be it the effort required or resulting consequnces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.At this point you're just acting obtuse and ignoring all nuance. There is a difference between hyperbole and a strawman, but you won't acknowledge that in a vain attempt to save face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.You can scrutinize it for being hyperbole, for being flippant. But your comment is far closer to being a strawman argument than theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.This is closer to actual strawmanning. You're intentionally stripping nuance from the discussion and acting like the hyperbole comment is a legitimate argument being made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:19 PM |
| 5 | Being a woman was not easierBut you're confidently asserting that the abject loneliness a lot of men feel is preferable to the exhaustion from an abundance of choice, which I feel has been demonstrated is an assertion you can't make with authority. I don't think anyone disagrees too hard with the idea that the "constant assault of dicks" is tiring. But to then go on to claim that it's worse than abject loneliness is a rather tall leap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 09:38 PM |
| 11 | Being a woman was not easierWhy? Because I was just significantly less likely to be a threat to their bolidy safety than the men they were actually sexually attracted to. What the actual fuck lol. I feel like this is a whole can of worms on it's own that you really shouldn't be using to justify any of this. There are so many factors that could actually explain why these women slept with you, that it makes absolutely zero sense for you to confidently assert this as the cause. ETA: Also, a couple points; 1) as a lesbian, you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:26 PM |
| 11 | Being a woman was not easierNeuroticism and complain. Pretty sure they're typing on autocorrect or something. But where I disagree is in the implication that men don't feel that "self preservation instinct". You think men don't worry about getting assaulted? Not every man is a trained navy seal capable of fighting off a surprise assault. Pretending this fear is somehow unique to women is absurd, and really speaks to the expectations on men. That is, the expectations that we're supposed to be stoic and perfect protectors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolEvery preference men have is vilified and called a fetish. It's a tired shtick at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming doesI would render a guess that if you built up your self esteem you would no longer be a virgin. This is what I'm talking about. You have come to the conclusion that insecurity is the ultimate decider of whether someone is a virgin or not, ignoring the fact that most people lose their virginity while they're in the most insecure state of their entire life, as well as the plethora of other factors that go into someone losing their virginity. You are implying that there's something wrong with people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming doesYour comment is basically just virgin shaming and shaming them for feeling insecure about it. Not to mention how fucking stupid it is to say "proud of your virginity". Unless the person is holding out for some specific reason, there's almost no way that they'd be "proud" of their virginity. Which I also why ChadChasingB doesn't really understand why virgin can be such a potent insult. Obviously "virgin" as an insult hits a lot harder for someone that is involuntarily celibate as opposed to someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:00 PM |
| 5 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?Because at some point it's pathological to always be seeking to improve your standing in society rather than forming an emotional bond with someone you're spending time with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Modern men are NOT protectors or providersOP probably being a prime example. Check out her history. She posts in r/marryrich where she laments that her boyfriend isn't rich. The comments on that post are unhinged as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Modern men are NOT protectors or providers>the economy is in shambles OP: "How dare men do this to women?!" This is some deep rooted misandry taking place. And holy shit, look at her post history. Yesterday she posted in r/marryrich, complaining that she wants to be a housewife but worries about "her boyfriend not being rich". And then she has the gall to shit on men for everything she can think of. I sincerely hope you either grow up, or that your boyfriend leaves you to find someone that actually appreciates him for him, and doesn't o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:45 PM |
| 0 | The mockery directed toward's peterson's crying on live Tv is proof of women's loathing of weak emotional men.The crying isn’t funny. The context? A little funny I'd actually be more willing to concede the opposite. The context was him weeping for the grave state of mental health among young men. That's not even a little bit funny. The fact that JP would be caught crying on TV at all? That's worth a chuckle. That's also why the whole situation when it happened pissed me off a bit. It was just more of the usual bullshit from the anti-Petersonites. Instead of arguing against his points (of which there are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Taylor Siwft's "You Belong with me" is simply complaints men have about women but since it is gender flipped it is respected and celebrated instead of mockedI don't know about OP, but I don't really follow up on Taylor Swift lore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexI'm just gonna tap the sign: The thing is, even though the conversation with the robot is "less genuine" than a conversation with a real person over the internet. To your brain, the difference is muddled, and it's wired to engage more with things that are tangible than reading text for instance. And regarding the "stuff in a closet" scenario, humans will form attachments to anything. It's incredibly cynical to assume people won't form an emotional bond with their bots, even if they're "only obje… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexYes? I'm sorry, I'm kind of lost on what your ultimate point is supposed to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexbut they can filter out those men This is still effort, my friend. Point being, modern society is isolating everyone in droves, not just men. If people have the option of getting a "dream" partner for "no" effort, then wouldn't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexThen those men are replacing women with nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexI mean, it just sounds like you're describing a man that has nothing. Sure, they might not care to get a sex robot either, but then it's replacing nothing with nothing. It's not not replacing women with sex robots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:38 PM |
| 9 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexYou're making rather grand assumptions about female courtship. Getting companionship can in many cases be just as difficult for women as it is for men. And in the scenario I highlighted, men are largely opting out of dating. What men are these women then supposed to be dating? And regarding the bot not being an "ATM", one of the bigger talking points on this sub is that women are starting to earn as much, or even out earn men, causing an imbalance in dating dynamics. If a woman who is content be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:24 PM |
| 11 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexBut if the alternative is just not available, and men start to largely use sex robots instead. Even if it's just coping, isn't that them replacing women with robots? Like I agree with your take that it won't replace the ability to acquire a woman as a status symbol. But even that part will become debatable when/if robots become the norm. Getting a "real" woman could just be seen as a weird way to devote your time. There's a lot of factors that start to affect dating dynamics. For instance, it pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:13 PM |
| 8 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexInternet communication isn't exactly a great counterexample. We're only first now beginning to see the full scope of the effects internet socialisation has had on mankind, and they're not exactly positive. On the other hand, sex/companion bots might actually make a good solution to some of the negative symptoms of social isolation the internet has incurred. I disagree with astronautloveshack and the idea that it'll make social outcasts worse. I think it might provide a way for them to mitigate t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:03 PM |
| 11 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexIf men are already dropping out of the rat race without the incentive of sex robots, what makes you think they won't happily take the alternative to nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worthI've been saying this for a while. The conspiracist in me thinks that all these gender war topics are just a smokescreen by the elite to distract from the true issue behind it all, class inequality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 12:36 AM |
| 2 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesIt's not just "the opposing side" that does this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 10:33 AM |
| 2 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesBecause it isn't a red pill sub, but rather a meta sub to discuss the impact and merits of the red pill. I think it used to be more critical of the red pill once? Maybe? In the grand scheme of things I haven't been here long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesYeah, that too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:12 PM |
| 3 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesOh yeah, for sure. I just mean to explain why so much of the discussion here tends to not be actually based on studies. Be it when people ignore studies or when people do as you said, google for studies that affirm their beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 06:41 PM |
| 5 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesHow does finding a tribe of cannibals be affirming one's beliefs? Do the people the write sociology textbooks like cannibalism? I don't know why I should engage with your comment when the very first thing you reply is this disingenuous. You know full well I'm talking about topics that don't have easy to study metrics like the topics discussed in this sub. And note that I never said sociology is worthless or not useful to some degree, I said that it's a problem with sociology (in my opinion the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 05:44 PM |
| 14 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesacting like personal experience trumps actual studies. The problem with sociology studies is that they're often performed to affirm a belief. If you read some of them this becomes abundantly clear. That the conclusion is often just the researcher interpreting the data to fit their own narrative. That's why a lot of the arguments in this sub are people arguing the validity of cited research. but it's surprisingly more toxic then I was expecting I don't know what you were expecting to be honest. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:20 PM |
| 3 | I feel like only the Purple Pill is valid.[Toxic masculinity] There are other ways to frame these issues that I consider to be both more accurate and less harmfull to men I think the coining and popularisation of the phrase "toxic masculinity" specifically has set discussions about men's issues back dozens of years by devolving the conversation. Imagine if alcoholics anonymous tried to convince people to admit they have a problem by calling alcoholics "toxic drunkards" or something similar. A majority of people would refuse to take the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | I feel like only the Purple Pill is valid.socialism requires a racist class I'm curious, could you briefly expand on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Practically no men are "obsessed" with sex, they just can't satisfy their healthy, normal desires... You're the one saying they're equivalent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD.I think the core of every age gap disagreement on PPD is predicated on the fact that the "gap" isn't clearly defined at any given moment. Like, someone will define it one moment, but then going forward everyone has the best/worst case scenario in mind for their/the other's argument respectively. And then there's the issue that "age of relationship" isn't defined and some people probably consider that while others are just considering the numbers as if they just entered the relationship. I don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 03:52 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themBoth are cases of outside observers being judgemental of the choices of consenting adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 03:34 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themNo one was saying that they think that people in age gap relationships are persecuted. They were very clearly just talking about the judgemental aspect. You read the oppression connotation into it all on your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?Methodology is also important here. As some have mentioned above, some people will lie about their intent to get people in bed with them. Maybe you're just more upfront about your intentions while modidlee plays it more vague. This is just conjecture, but perhaps modid uses hints, or maybe just says things during sex that might hint at there being a possibility of more. Might not even be intentional, maybe he just doesn't realize that he's using, for instance, overtly affectionate language or so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 07:16 PM |
| 8 | current trends in Purple pill subredditWomen never came up with an insult for virgin men No they just use virgin as the insult. ETA: and by "them" I mean both men and women. But it's kind of silly to argue "no one made an insult for virgins" when "virgin" is already a ubiquitous insult on its own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 01:15 AM |
| 4 | current trends in Purple pill subredditAnyone who isn't red/black pill ends up leaving or taking long breaks... Agreed, but I'd say it's not limited to red/black pill. Some of the most prolific members of the sub are staunchly anti-manosphere. Basically, the only people that are left are willing to argue about inane shit into perpetuity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:20 AM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?Philosophy is about the application of logic. If you're refusing to "over analyze it", I think it's clear that you're the one that doesn't understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:49 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?I'm talking about the logic of the saying. Not the reality. There are scenarios where everyone comes out ahead, everyone has won and is better off. The saying doesn't make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:35 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?You're in a superior position to what you were in previously. Everyone has won. Everyone is a winner. There were no losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:33 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?Everyone is in a superior position. Winning doesn't mean being in a superior position relative to someone else. It just means success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:31 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?In this scenario "being a winner" is finding love. If everyone finds love, everyone is a winner. So I ask again, in that scenario, how is everyone a loser? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:29 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?I'm talking specifically about the presumption that if everyone is winning then "no one is". A track meet where everyone gets a participation award in the form of an ice cream coupon. Everyone is a winner. Can you tell me how "no one" is a winner in this scenario? What does that mean? Everyone has won ice cream. How is EVERYONE losing in this scenario? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:24 PM |
| 3 | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?Let's suppose a perfect world. Where everyone is a 10 out of 10 supermodel and everyone has ample resources. Everyone has a mate. Everyone is a winner. How would they be a loser? I'm not going against tio's premise that not everyone will find love, I'm specifically asking you how your statement is supposed to make sense. It's one of those sayings where it sounds profound, but it isn't. There are definitely scenarios where everyone can be the winner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:04 PM |
| 3 | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?Not to mention how weird it is that we keep acting like the two are exclusive goals. As if a person being horny precludes them from also feeling lonely. Or that feeling horny somehow excludes them from deserving contact with other humans, be it for sexual or emotional fulfilment. Most of us have sexual urges. To pretend that makes people bad is just absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?“I want to have sex” or “I want to get a gf” These are two very different criteria. I don't think it should be a surprise to anyone, the person included, that pursuing sex doesn't yield meaningful relationships. But that's ostensibly not what they're after. But more to the point, as someone else already pointed out, this criteria for dating is hardly exclusive to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?"So it's like, Dun dugga dun dun dugga dun, not Dun dugga dun dugga dun dun, the way Meshuggah does polyrhythms really redefined the genre" I don't know shit about polyrhythms or Meshuggah, but this mental image pleases me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 11:56 PM |
| 16 | Where is all this "men are lazy, useless, losers" rhetoric coming from?It's crazy how single minded these discussions sometimes get. As if this is just about whether men have stopped caring about being "date-able". The world is crumbling around us. Just yesterday there was a post on the front page about how a majority of people don't believe hard work affords you a better life anymore. Yet some people are reading that men becoming dejected and falling out of the rat race is just "men being losers"? Some people are just prejudiced and it shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Male Delusion Calculator!But... The statistic is meaningless if the pool changes based on the variables... Who wrote this crap? And what is any of this even supposed to signify? Dumb post tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:27 AM |
| 13 | Even after a lot of self-improvement and personal growth, adult single men are increasingly entering the dating environment with a lot of resentmentThis is such an unbelievably boomer take. Don't pretend to know the circumstances of every person you see on the street. "Happily" bagging groceries my ass. If that person was frowning while doing a job he was probably forced into by circumstance, people like you would probably be whining instead about how he's ungrateful to even have a job in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoredidn't do anything for Valentines day. Such a guy deserves to be single. "You don't subscribe* to arbitrarily decided dates to show affection, pushed by corporations to sell consumer junk. Therefore you are unlovable." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:34 AM |
| -2 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subkill for you.. You yourself just admitted that there's a murderous aspect to why these characters are attractive. Also, for most people idolizing serial killers, the subject of their admiration is far removed from their own reality. I would actually go so far as to say this fascination these women have is normal to an extent. It only becomes abnormal if they don't acknowledge how twisted the fascination is. Same with the "male" equivalent people are using in this thread, pedophilia. I wouldn't s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 05:01 PM |
| 6 | How would you react if your (potential) girlfriend/boyfriend saw your posts and comments on this sub ?I mostly stay away from this place lately, but still click through once every few days. Just to see that, yep, nothing at all has changed in this sub lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseSo you're saying that calling him "Nostradamus" wasn't sincere? Since if you're sincerely calling him "Nostradamus", then that implies that you think this will happen... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:28 PM |
| 2 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseI mean, I guess there's an issue of semantics going on here. What are you considering "AI" in this case? True sentience? The thread is talking about "AI" produced material. As in, shit that's produced with rudimentary neural networks. Not sentient AI beings. If you're not being sarcastic by your "Nostradamus" remark, then obviously my comment doesn't make sense. But who uses Nostradamus unironically and then starts critiquing the rest of a person's comment? Your word choice is just odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseWhat? ... What? You don't see the connection between "being against sex bots" and making remarks that are anti-sex bots? What? You made a sarcastic comment (or I assume you're not being sincere when you call them Nostradamus, at least) implying that the quote won't happen, and I pointed out that this is already happening. People are already concocting a narrative where AI sex is immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 04:48 PM |
| 4 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseWomen will start supporting Roe vs Wade when AI come outs and there'll be narrative in the MSM like 'AI Isn't your slave or sex bot' or 'AI lives matter' Nostradamus, we'll talk when it happens. I mean, this is already happening. There's a loud minority online that disparages the idea of sex bots. I don't think this'll get any legal purchase, but it's definitely a fact that a lot of people online, largely women, are staunchly against the idea of sex bots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from?So because a fraction of all men held all the power in history, while the vast majority of men were right there down in the pits with the women, you equate "injustice" today to "equilibrium"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:40 AM |
| 1 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termMy looks may have gotten me in the door but other traits are why we long termed. You say this, but how much do your looks alleviate your bad traits? You can't conclusively say that your looks aren't a major factor in why your long terms lasted as long as they did. Of course it matters how you treated your partners, but how much more wiggle room did your looks afford you? How much more gracious did your good deeds seem because of your looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?So you're basically admitting that deep down you're just as selfish and immature as the men praising "manosphere gurus"? Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:26 PM |
| 11 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?Just as there are women in those spaces that are pretending like this is totally acceptable behaviour to dox and/or even lie about people in these closed spaces. You're acting like one thing being bad negates the shitty behaviour of other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 01:33 PM |
| 15 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?The internet literally would not shut up about Andrew Tate just a couple weeks ago. These places are constantly being called out. So this logic of not calling out the "female equivalent" to these spaces because the "male spaces" aren't being called out is ludicrous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?It's not demonstrably wrong. Neither of you have solid evidence to support your case. So while he isn't provably right, it's basically impossible for you to demonstrably prove he's wrong. That's ultimately the whole issue with the "purple pill debate". All of it is based on conjecture, incredibly flawed research, and a whole lot of personal anecdotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.They're making an argument on how "government" (society) supports some over others. You're arguing that "society" (a nebulous mass encompassing all people) doesn't care about anyone. Different terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 02:59 AM |
| 0 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.Then you're arguing on different terms than the russian bot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 02:34 AM |
| 2 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.Personally I think it was how he beat the shit out of his little brother. (For tax reasons; this is a joke) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 02:29 AM |
| 0 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.Except in the example he gave, society clearly "cares" about single mothers by providing subsidies, while it only "cares" about what men can offer to make that happen. Of course society doesn't "care" about anyone. But society clearly "takes care" of some over others, and "cares" about losing the means of doing so. It's obviously not as cut and dry as just those two demographics, women gain from the system in one place while men might gain something different. But your argument doesn't really wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 02:27 AM |
| 2 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.Let's not pretend Itachi wasn't hot both before and after the reveal. It's a shit argument for OP's case, but Itachi was always hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy favourite thing about shoe is how her detractors always accuse her of being a crazy person from the other side of the political spectrum. To the nice guys, she's too feminist. To the feminists, she's too apologetic of the right. She regularly gets called a Nazi despite being rather firmly left leaning. By both sides I guess, but we're talking about how pick-me is a meaningless term, not nazism, ayoooo. That's what nuance gets her. She gets torn by all sides almost constantly. But nah, she doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problem is, similar to the term "simp", it's applied so liberally, and usually so frivolously as a pejorative, that it starts losing any meaning. When any act that other men deem "cringe" becomes simp behaviour (buying flowers for your crush? what a simp). Or any woman that doesn't subscribe to the exact same ideas about dating dynamics as another woman becomes labelled a "pick-me" (you're just saying women play games so that men will like you, you pick-me). Then the two terms become such we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | The Purge Concludesthe funny part was that Tate was obliterated by such a lazy joke That came after. Just Greta's "small dick energy" post got upvoted to the top of reddit by itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 03:57 PM |
| 2 | The Purge ConcludesI haven't really been paying attention to Greta, but was that really that far out of her "witty quip that goes viral" norm? Wasn't it just par for course for her, but because people like to circlejerk about "Andrew Tate bad" they signal boosted it to the moon? (Just a note, I despise Tate. I just don't think anything about Greta's reply was at all interesting. Tate's meltdown over it was funny, but Greta's reply was lukewarm at best.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Why is that some men are into SPH?Holy shit, you weren't kidding. "Ok, she's into cuckolding, ok whatev- aaaaaaaand she literally cheated on the guy..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | The dirty work of moderating PPDIt's Chainsaw Man. First season just concluded which adapted the first third or so of the manga. What kind of annoys me about this meme is that it's a bit of a spoiler. Keeping in with the tradition of Chainsaw Man fans being the worst in keeping spoilers under wraps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:44 AM |
| 2 | The incels vs Inceltears meetup is the funniest thing.But you're extrapolating literally the most extreme case to be indicative of a majority of incels with little to no supporting evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 04:07 PM |
| 7 | The incels vs Inceltears meetup is the funniest thing.You're acting like these things are immutable aspects of these people, rather than the result of their sexlessness. Which is exactly what I'm alluding to in the last part of my comment. Trying to decisively determine what causes sexlessness when the factors are as complex as they are, is extremely silly. Relationship advice was just an obvious example, stop being obtuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Women strategy to get a husbandA fact I never see mentioned regarding the Venus of Willendorf discussions is the fact that it's a piece of art made from the same period in history where humanity was doing crude stick figure drawings on cave walls. To take her crude shape as conclusive evidence that humanity "has always worshipped fat women" is just silly. We don't even know conclusively what the purpose of these idols was, or even who made them. If they're supposed to depict a pregnant woman, is that then the ultimate symbol … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:39 PM |
| 16 | The incels vs Inceltears meetup is the funniest thing.It's largely just circumstance. A lot of the factors that people love to point out as causes for incel celibacy (lol) have little to no actual correlation with whether a person is celibate or not. A lot of misogynists have plenty of sex. A lot of people act like social retards and still do fine dating wise. Just look at how many people end up in relationships after ignoring a plethora of red flags only to come to r/relationshipadvice baffled that their partner turned out the way they did. Just f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt was also such a shit reply from her. "u have small dick". If he weren't such a small brain red pill sigmoid, he could so easily have turned this around by just pointing out the body shaming aspect. But instead he outs himself for how fragile his ego really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: "Snowball effect" with personality and attractivenessThis sounds like a case of exactly the favouritism that OP is talking about. Perhaps the ratio of "shitty ugly guys" and "shitty attractive men" is pretty even, but you perceive the interactions with pretty guys more favourably? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably guesses based on location data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadif YOU are going to ask somebody When the man is the one obligated to make the first move 9 times out of 10, this line of reasoning doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is. And polygamy is clearly not a thing that everyone is capable of. But it strikes me as incredibly immature and/or insecure to be incapable of seeing someone you love sharing love with others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're not restarting your 'love' with this new person though. Edit: Or rather, you're not restarting your 'love' with the old person. Your relationship with your established partner doesn't go down just because you gain a new friend for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut you can commit to a partner/best friend/soul mate/confidante/whathaveyou but still give love to others. It baffles me this idea of love as a zero sum game. And even if we're talking about "maximising the love profits", surely there's a diminishing effect on the returns from a single person, no matter how much you work to cultivate their love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think the idea of monogamous love is rather limited. Who we end up with is more often than not entirely circumstance. If there are billions of people worthy of love, why limit the love we give out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think you're severely underestimating how easy it is for people to just not bring up things that bring them guilt. In fact, it's generally rather difficult for people to bring up things they're ashamed of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 11:35 AM |
| 2 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad advice"Love of your life" here implies that none of the bad traits you ascribed to the 30 year old woman are true, or at the very least, that they're part of why you love her as a person. The type of regret being discussed here is far more idealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe core premise of the sub is that "not like the other girls" is a false premise, and that it's generally people trying to assert their individuality by stating very common personality aspects. Of course that doesn't mean that this post couldn't be a post from someone that doesn't understand that, and/or that it's actually a somewhat "unique" person being displayed. But your rationale doesn't actually work for why this wouldn't be indicative of "all" women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat Megathreador more like “Yikes that sucks” I feel like more of this as opposed to kneejerk "women don't owe you shit" and dismissal of male struggles would go a long way to reduce the vitriol in these spaces. That being said, it's a two way street and these men are just as used to the kneejerk dismissal as the women are to them being callous or even misogynistic. Everyone kind of expects the worst out of these discussions and will go into them kind of debating extremes and with closed off feelings. You can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | a lot of high value men did not work for itI think you're conflating what a "HVM/W" and "valuable person" might be, if you catch my drift. Trump by many metrics, ticks the boxes of the elusive "HVM" that keeps getting discussed in these circles. He's rich, famous, holds power in the form of massive influence (even if it's only over idiots). He gets what he wants even if he doesn't deserve or earn it. That's kind of why I think the discussions that try to make people into "high value this" or "high value that" are kind of retarded. Becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.But modern times being a blip in human history means that it's not exactly a good marker for what's normal for humans. Which is why I'm trying to make you question normalcy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.But by the same token, a woman who showed a lack of agreeableness and couldn't find a suitor was also considered a failure. I don't know how much we want to use historical precedent for our modern morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | What do women gain from having relationships with red-pilled men vs. blue-pilled men?Fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What do women gain from having relationships with red-pilled men vs. blue-pilled men?But it's a chicken and egg problem, no? A lot of guys become redpilled because of their bad experiences. So of course it self selects for people with bad experiences. A common thread I see with a lot of bluepillers that argue in these spaces is that they dismiss the negative experiences of other people citing that neither they nor anyone they know have had those experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Age gap discourse will never not be interesting because it's the best topic for exposing hypocrisy from all sorts of anglesTo fix the formatting of your comment (so that 4. and 7. doesn't appear as 1.) you can use a backslash, as such: 4\. 7\. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.Even the leaving the house part varies from civilisation to civilisation. All I'm saying is, Barney's claim isn't as universal as they imply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.This is technically a rather modern way of thinking. People didn't leave their tribes when they partnered up. It's a rather novel idea that you need to "leave the nest" to find yourself as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOne of the problems of this sub is that a lot of the discussion actually revolves around the lowest common denominators. People say HVM this, HVW that, but from the context they give, that is they keep referring to shitty people as the basis for any given gender, it's apparent that they're all talking about fairly trashy relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 11:40 AM |
| 6 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.I don't think it's either, really. It's more just the fact that men are expected to pursue so the "shy" women don't have to out themselves as socially awkward until after the at least the approach has happened. Meanwhile the socially awkward male will have trouble even getting to that first step. Just having the access to that first step means statistically things will favour socially awkward women over men because it is one of the bigger hurdles to get over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipEven narrowing it down to pre-25 doesn't alleviate the glaring issue in how you phrased the data. The biggest point of contention wasn't with the time frame, but the vagueness of the data being presented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipYour numbers mean literally nothing when you consider what I said. If you lump in "all relationships, sex, and dating throughout their ENTIRE lives" then the number doesn't mean anything. Of course it's going to become an almost universal number like 98% when it's that broad and vague. Like I said, this means that you're lumping everyone that happens to have had a single date at some point in their lives, with people that never spend a moment single through their lives and have consistent sex li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipNot entirely wrong. But it's a self perpetuating cycle. People expect hostility at every turn and preemptively shield themselves from attack by turning up their own negativity. I also think that a lot of people who are outright hostile in these spaces wouldn't have found themselves down this path if they'd received a bit of empathy early on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipWe’re not all here to sing and hold hands, we’re here to have internet slap fights, make no mistake I know this is what some people claim to be here for, and pretend to be all self-aware about it. But unironically this is making the world a worse place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipI think most people just want a comfy relationship. Most actionable advice for men tends to be "become a go-getter and start putting in extraordinary effort to maybe meet someone that aligns with you personally". Like, I don't think this is bad advice per-say. But it's telling that "actionable advice" is largely about becoming extremely performative and expending extreme amounts of effort just for the chance at meeting women. Meanwhile admonishing red pill advice that tells men basically the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipthere are more men who are introverts and more women who are extroverts I don't think this is strictly true. I just think that our perception is skewed because even female introverts will get dragged along with social groups while male introverts tend to self isolate more and no one goes out of their way to force them out of their shells to the extent female introverts get forced to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipThis is largely because of the unflattering way people tend to read the "other camps" messages. Especially in regards to that phrase "getting their dicks wet". It almost only gets brought up as a way of dismissing men's sexlessness. Or worse, to trivialize their general lack of intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipThey're more broadly meaningless than that. Saying that 98% of people will participate in human relationships in one way or another in their entire life time gives you little to no frame of reference. This could mean that 98% of humans go one a single date but then experience zero intimacy for the rest of their lives. Does that mean the same thing as what Rocinante clearly meant to imply? Of course not. But to assert the opposite is just as stupid with this phrasing. Not that it matters because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:05 AM |
| 9 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipBasically just rephrasing the answer and frame of mind. A lot of the answers to griping posts kind of take any posts of this sort as an affirmative claim or something of the sort that is demanding something of them (and this applies to a lot of posts on the internet in general, regardless of gender or demographic). So they fixate in their reply on the more negative tone and the demand they perceive in the post. But if they reframed it as just a rant that's ultimately seeking empathy, and even ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause you have nothing I already waste far too much time arguing with your nonsense. I'm not gonna start compiling a dissertation on why all of your comment history is a spout of misandrist drivel. And you proved my point by dismissing women's suicide attempts as being attention-seeking I said that they were different issues. But if you weren't so deep in your own biases and cognitive disfunction, you'd realize that you're the one that started off trying to dismiss the male talking points in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Being critical of feminism" and "being supportive of men" aren't the same thing. I don't really have to prove anything. Anyone that reads your posts will come to the same conclusion as I have. You prove it yourself, pretty much every day. You repeatedly demonstrate a misandrist worldview. Just in this comment thread you talk about men's issues as "woe is me". Like, if you genuinely believe that you don't hate men. Then I don't understand how you can live with the cognitive dissonance you must f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean, that's basically what all of your posts are crying about in the first place. You just want people to worship women and don't want to do anything for men in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt was filled with "Look how bad us men have it! Look at our statistics!" This is your bias informing how you interpret the film. I don't think most people that have been around this sub for more than a minute need to have it pointed out, but your opinions are extremely unreliable. high suicide (won't mention it's because of method of suicide while women attempt it more). It can be argued that "attempting it more" is just a "cries for attention". There's a distinct possibility that these are two… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHave you actually watched the film? Because I remember it being extremely positive towards MRA movements and critical of the backlash towards MRA. In fact I'd say Lillith's interpretation of the film is probably off base. I don't remember there being "woe is me" men in the film, in fact, I remember there being men going against a lot of pushback and meeting it with great optimism despite it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:48 PM |
| 5 | How do redpilled men view lesbians?As far a RP's view on lesbians is concerned, they don't have one. I've seen some RP posts on this sub that use lesbians as a case study for how women can end up in a crisis when all of them expects everyone else to make the first move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.I said it was a big factor, a bigger factor than one thinks. Ok, fair. But still a fairly strong assertion to make. And as I and at least that one other dude pointed out, diet and exercise probably play way more part than porn ever would unless the person is straight up addicted to porn. dealing with D's I mean I deal with my own D on a rather regular basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.You really think porn does not factor and is a negative for some? That isn't what I said. Of course it's a factor. But it being the undisputable main factor is a strong assertion that you can't back up. 10 year old boys are finding porn today, you think this wont factor? This is an issue, but whether it's an issue due to ED is another matter. Do you have sex with men? You can just go off on whatever tangent you mean to go on without asking for my permission, you know? It's not as if my answer ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:49 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean sure. But the work to get there is a rather steep peak to summit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.A search that has info on how porn is a factor A search with a whole bunch of non-peer reviewed "research" in a whole sea of opinion pieces. And as people have been discussing in this thread, even the peer reviewed stuff isn't exactly stellar. What you're doing is akin to an anti-vax mom forming a conclusion because her friend Becky told her vax is bad and then going on google to confirm what you already "knew". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:17 AM |
| 4 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.I imagine there's a lot of things that you "know". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:13 AM |
| 6 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.Haha. Funny emojis go brrrrr Guess you win the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:11 AM |
| 7 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.You're literally just linking to a google search for the topic of this thread. Which is filled with comments calling out the flawed methodology of said "research". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:10 AM |
| 8 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.People often find it insufferable when someone points out they're being unreasonable or illogical. You're in a "debate" sub and you made an affirmative claim. That is arguing a case lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:07 AM |
| 10 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.A huge reason why is porn. Citation needed* Especially when you consider that our eating habits tend to be absolute garbage, most people are far too sedentary, drink way too much alcohol, far too little water, are often coping with numerous mental issues and often on a cocktail of pills to tackle those in the first place. "A huge reason why is porn" is a very strong assertion and you have no data to prove so, but a plethora of reasons to consider that are most definitely more applicable to consi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:05 AM |
| 10 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.Your 'simple statement' is reliant on the context of the thread. If you can't consider that context while making your comments, then you have no grounds to stand on when people counter your arguments. If you can't argue your case in a more structural way than "it's obvious bro", then don't be surprised when people wholly ignore your opinions. So far what you've said is; "It's obvious bro" and "it's not a conspiracy thing". But you've shown neither evidence nor reason for your case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.Consider the greater context here, please. You're speaking in defence of what is stated in the OP and the articles cited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:29 AM |
| 31 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.I've gotten to a point of "boy who cried wolf" with most porn related "studies". In the ones that I used to actually click when someone cited them, they were pretty much always blatantly working backwards from their preconceived conclusion. Self fulfilling prophecies galore when they'd select a sample size comprised entirely of of "ex porn addicts". The more honest ones basically flat out admit that they literally could not form a control group because it pretty much does not exist. Modern acade… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:27 AM |
| 17 | Many blame feminists, and some blame men but rarely do people mention porn and low testosterone effects on men and long-term relationships.Being addicted to anything isn't a good thing. But trying to make broad assertions about the general effects of something on the average consumer requires considerably more robust methodology than "it's just obvious bro". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:20 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadevery crucial invention you use, was built by men Extremely arguable, considering that for a large part of history women had to publish under male pseudonyms or their husbands name, or often had their discoveries stolen by their male colleagues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 11:19 PM |
| 3 | How has your relationship with your own mother changed after discovering the red pill?Blindly worshipping a person because they hold an arbitrary position in your life can be dangerous. It causes you to develop an even further blind spot to your own biases. It's how hate propagates. For people to break the cycle the very least first step they have to take is to become at least somewhat critical of their parents. And you can love your parents while acknowledging their flaws. But even further maybe one needs to consider that they aren't worthy of any of your love if you find that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 11:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLillith my dear, your craziness spins at such speeds that everyone is consistently to your left and right, in front of and behind you on the political scale at every conceivable moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreador they can deal with it like an adult? This can entail coming to terms that your relationship isn't sustainable. Acting like you can just ignore a blatant incompatibility in the name of "love" is extremely childish, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair. I think at that point it might be about preserving virginity until you "know" you're in it for life. It's reasonable that if you hold this opinion, that you consider it unfair for all parties involved if you lose your virginity before marriage and then end up not making it. In that case you've ruined both your prospects for future marriages. (Unless of course you do as most humans would and shift your stance to be "well now promiscuity is fine because now I am promiscuous.") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou constructed this whole scenario where one person HAS TO have sex when they don't want to. Because if they don't, then the other person will grow to resent them for not fulfilling their needs. It isn't a concocted scenario. It's an anecdote that many, many people cite regularly. It's one of the main reasons people go to couples therapy. Let's cut off extreme and unlikely situations Why do you think they're unlikely? There are plenty of people who find it a requirement to do it multiple times … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJob one hates might be insidiously terrible. If by your definition, doing a bare minimum constitutes sabotage, then what you're describing is basically slave labour. How severe is the hate we're talking here? Because I've worked jobs I didn't like even while doing the "bare minimum". But I can imagine cultivating passion for the job would be possible if you know you're locked in and have a loving partner at home thanks to it. Will the job destroy me physically? Mentally? Does it matter if I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWanting someone with similar experience? The guys that maintain this stance while they themselves are promiscuous however make no sense to me. At that point it seems like a pure need for control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour tiny fraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou seem stuck in dealing in absolutes. I'm not saying all people that call others bad at sex don't understand sexual incompatibility. But it's extremely likely that there exist a not-insignificant population of 'experienced' people who don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean just reading discourse online this should be apparent. Unless every person online always lies about their sexual experience. Which, to be fair, is a possibility. And I mean, a good chunk of people are honestly dumb as rocks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt will put a strain on a relationship if they're incompatible in bed. Being compatible in every other way doesn't mean that their libido lines up perfectly. But if one person person has to constantly have sex to keep up with their partner's libido when they don't feel like it, they'll start to develop exhaustion. It will put a strain on the relationship and the people will realize they just won't work long term. This doesn't even require experience to reason out. You can't compromise on this be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThose people also exist, sure. But I'd say it's a further leap to assume that everyone that displays this lack of self awareness is somehow still perfectly aware of compatibility. A lot of promiscuous people will simply maintain that everyone they fuck is bad in bed rather than that it might be compatibility issues, or even their own fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHer comment makes a lot of sense, actually. And if it makes so little sense, you should be able to point out at least a single logical flaw in her argument before resorting to trying to discredit her points by attacking her character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think that's strictly true. Considering the accounts of many men and women online about how lazy and selfish some people are in the bedroom. It shows that even experienced people can have a complete lack of self awareness regarding sexual performance, and by extension, compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow about you actually debate the points Eulen put forth then? Instead of just going for a straight ad hominem and attacking her character in order to dismiss them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFrom what I hear from women on this sub, "experienced" men don't really have any better knowledge when it comes to sexual compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 3 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.I disagree with your take on the symbolism of the red pill, although since it's a literary device, it can represent more than just a singular thing. But in my opinion, at it's core, the red pill as a concept symbolises awakening to a truth, becoming aware of reality. Or more specifically, the willingness to observe reality. Neo doesn't change when he takes the red pill. Reality doesn't change when he takes the red pill. He simply becomes aware of the reality that was always there. At the very le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 09:12 PM |
| 3 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.The concept of the red pill has nothing to do with change. Be it the matrix or the manosphere. The concept of the red pill is to become aware. To awaken to a "truth" of one's circumstances. The second part of your comment is just straight up sexist. There were plenty of Karen's that shrieked on video about not having their liberty infringed on by masks or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous.Again. You're unfit to have this conversation. You keep harping on about the same issues while repeating the same logical fallacies over and over. Have a nice life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous.Because it's conjecture. The fact that this even has to be explained to you shows you're not fit to be having this argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're demonstrating yourself, time and time again, to be solipsistic and uncaring of others. You unjustly try to argue that you can use your anecdote to extrapolate and justify your hate for an entire demographic, and then when others rightly call you out on your hateful rhetoric, you act like it's a personal slight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe're arguing that you're an unempathetic person and a misandrist because you keep vehemently arguing against showing men empathy. An anecdote of getting hurt once doesn't excuse your arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous.Jesus fucking christ lily... The inverse is more true. That's our entire point. Just because he happened to be socially awkward, doesn't mean all socially awkward men are heinous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous.I'm sorry, but using Chris Chan, a case of a deeply mentally troubled individual. what makes you guys think that isn’t the case for a lot of guys who are just being labelled “socially awkward and ostracized by evil women”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, you're acting like because a few men are like this, you should treat all men like they are this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, whenever I call out anyone for their vile behavior and they're of the male gender, You extrapolated that because of a few extreme anecdotes, all socially awkward men should be exempt from empathy. this subreddit gets pissy. Shocker... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOf course there exist socially awkward men that are also heinous monsters. But there is zero correlation between the two. It's unrelated. But what you've advocated for in your thread is to treat all socially awkward men as heinous monsters. It's a massive fallacious leap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 05:10 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair enough. I just thought I'd clarify that her "I'm not being unreasonable" stance in this comment is not the stance she's been holding for the past couple of days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:29 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf dudespeople would stop staring at Social media so much and focus on the real world they’d be much happier in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is not what she was arguing in the thread and daily thread comment she posted. She argued that all socially awkward men don't deserve pity or empathy. And then she acted shocked when people said "hey, uhmm, that's extremely sexist". Not to mention her gross attempts at using Chris Chan as an example for why sad lonely men don't deserve empathy across the board. An extremely troubled individual who was bullied en masse by the internet. Pretending like that is a representative example of "all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd I'm telling you that your logic is still fallacious. You're extrapolating that since there exist heinous cases of socially awkward men, then all socially awkward men don't deserve empathy. And I'm going to say it again, using Chris Chan as a justification to hate on socially awkward men is extremely gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour first comment was literally just you shouting "FALLACY!" And again, the very same fallacy you are committing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven supposing they are committing that fallacy, you are still purporting it to a far more egregious degree. Furthermore, shouting out names of fallacies is not a conductive way of debating your point. Especially considering how badly you seem to understand them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 11:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think you understand that you're the one committing the No True Scot fallacy. You're the one making a sweeping generalisation. And when others point out that there exist awkward men, a majority of the demographic you're making a sweeping generalisation about, that don't fit your definition. You move the goalpost and claim that they don't fit under your definition of "mentally deranged lonely awkward men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 11:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe’s rich and (in)famous. That screws with your head and adds a whole extra element. Don't forget that he had actual mental issues that were pushed and prodded by an entire cult of assholes online. Chris Chan is far from an average example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous.*Points to all of your post history* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHah. Denial. Classic weeb syndrome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 10:20 PM |
| 2 | the whole notion about average men getting dismissed is wronga lot of them would just go on coffee dates and then ... Ok. Now, how many "just coffee dates" do men get on tinder? Women may not get the results that they want, but at least they get results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous.Even for men that it's applicable, his case highlights the necessity for kind and appropriate treatment. His condition was clearly exacerbated to an absurd degree because of internet trolls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCompletely agree, but I also want to add: 4. Even for the guys where it only revolves around sex, what they're seeking isn't necessarily the sex itself, but the validation that it brings. I've seen so many posts of incels regretting their decision to go to a hooker just to "get it over with". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 03:45 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: If dating apps largely favour women, why is it disproportionately men who are on them?You're glossing over the part where women can join a dating app, generally find what they want within a fortnight, and consequently leave right after. The user base among women never grows because they don't need to spend as much time hopelessly swiping as men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 03:34 PM |
| 37 | Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous.I'm sorry, but using Chris Chan, a case of a deeply mentally troubled individual. Who was further egged on by the internet, to the point of ruin for him and the people around him. To advocate that no socially awkward man deserves sympathy or pity. Is deeply fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 03:26 PM |
| 10 | Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behaviorBut for real. There are some commenters here that will bend over completely backwards trying to justify how absolutely everything in society is men's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWatched it as a "so bad it's good" movie. Ironic, given the title and theme of the movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen you gotta work on your tone bro. Because you come of as admonishing him and then later you even comment "how are you dudes not comprehending that". You don't seem like you were agreeing with him. In fact, you came of as if you were trying to contradict him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't know if you realize this. But the commenter you reacted to speaks against going to brothels. Like, even IF your dumb side-tracking rant was relevant. It's not a counterpoint to his underlying message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. But apparently analogies are like rocket science to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou seem incapable of arguing at the abstract level. It's not irrelevant to the broader discussion. It's irrelevant to the specific point he's discussing. It's like a team of engineers is designing a rocket, deliberating on how to solve electronics issues and you start blithering about the aerodynamics of the shuttle. Yes, the aerodynamics are relevant to the process of building a rocket. But they're irrelevant to the specific process of designing the electronics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIllegal things can be immoral, and immoral things can be illegal. But there isn't a strict correlation between the two. But that doesn't fucking matter because as I said, legality AND/OR morality are irrelevant to the specific facet to the issue that he just mentioned. Your comment is a non-sequitur. How are you not comprehending that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNone of what he was arguing was in relation to whether it's illegal or not. The legal and moral issues with it are an entirely different facet, that he was not discussing here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust reducing the amount of hate in the world is a massive first step. One of the driving factors to their isolation and further radicalisation is just how much hate there is at every corner of society towards them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey won't grow out of it if you keep directing hate towards them. That's generally how you end up radicalising them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI see a lot of people arguing that they've "given incels a chance", but very clearly went into their spaces already apprehensive, and at the first sign of any sort of hostility, took it as a sign that they are justified in hating the incels. Not their rhetoric, but the people themselves. Most of the discourse I see online regarding incels barely even talks about the rhetoric of the incels. But rather just how disgusting and awful the incels are. And usually then try to justify that hatred with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven if they were raised to think like that, hating them as people is misguided. You should be looking at the systems that made them like that. And again, the way futurewineaunt talks about them, it sounds like she's using the current actions of a few to justify dismissing and hating all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're still looking at their current selves and deeming the entire demographic as unworthy of existing. Not saying those people are like this guy You really kind of are though. Here's a hot tip, you can have empathy for people without necessarily needing to be the one that goes out of your way to help them. Just reducing the amount of hate in the world is a massive first step. One of the driving factors to their isolation and further radicalisation is just how much hate there is at every corner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut to continue the analogy, it's often about the specific boobs. Maybe the boobs in the free strip club don't entice them. So they're willing to pay a little to see what they want. Especially when you consider that some of the highest earning OF models are otherwise popular simp magnets. For those simps, it doesn't matter that they can see tits, they want to see her tits. It's more to do with obsession in most cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:40 PM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not about showing their current toxic selves sympathy. It's about trying to understand what pushed them to where they are today. If all you do is look at the horrible misguided shit they say today, and use that as justification for why these people deserve to be cast out of society. Then you're ultimately no better than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:34 PM |
| 0 | If women are so attracted by a man's looks and six pack, can you riddle me this...Women buy these magazines because they like the content It's considerably more complex than that. People don't necessarily like the news articles that tell them what the current trends are. They read them because they want to seem trendy. And what magazines are, are basically committees that are payed to tell you what those trends are. And because they sell, people believe they're popular, and the cycles becomes self perpetuating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | If women are so attracted by a man's looks and six pack, can you riddle me this...And they were still written by committees in the fifties. In fact, those committees had less titties and were mostly ruled by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just don't know why I still spend any time online anymore. There's so little value to be found online these days. Everything is fake or at least exaggerated for clout. And what isn't fake is the outrage over inane or outright false shit driven even further by algorithm's meant to keep us miserable to drive on engagement. Any attempt to engage with other people is colored by the 50 people they engaged with earlier in the day that were just shouting in tune with the timeline algorithm. Fuck man.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | If women are so attracted by a man's looks and six pack, can you riddle me this...Aight. You go on believing that corporations have your vested interest at heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?Serious question: what's your solution? Not everything is a discussion about finding solutions. Sometimes there's just a search for truth or understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe doesn't need my defence. She's turning tricks in heaven now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDiss him, not his grandma. Lady knew her worth! She got a comfortable life and a legacy! Too bad that legacy is him... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho are you to disrespect her life choices?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah, he's saying pussy got hit by inflation. It was worth it when grandma did it, now the market value of pussy is below the baseline so sluts are not respecting their self worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthink Daemon from HoTD I haven't been watching House of the Dragon, and I forget it's a thing, so I was extremely confused that someone would unironically try to use "Highschool of the Dead" to argue gender politics lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 17 | If women are so attracted by a man's looks and six pack, can you riddle me this...First off, this should clearly be marked as a 'CMV' and not 'discussion'. But secondly, those are two, extremely different types of magazines. First and foremost, men don't read magazines nearly to the same extent women do. And more importantly; who the fuck still reads magazines in this day and age? And I mean, are you seriously gonna argue that magazines are a true mirror to women's hearts? Those little pieces of paper written by committees to appeal to their vainest sensibilities in order to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 10:08 PM |
| 3 | bro the recent posts on the sub are so low qualityAgreed. And I want to add that it depends heavily on what threads you click on. If you routinely click on threads with the most instigating titles, then don't be surprised if you feel that the hostility of the sub is going up. I've been here for a few months now, and even within the first month I started noticing how cyclical a lot of the discussion is. And when you start seeing the same things being repeated ad nauseum, I imagine it gets easy to start ignoring the content and just start focusin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEverything there is to know about dating is already out there Yeah. And another way to frame "human knowledge" is "advice from humans." A way to learn and separate the wheat from the chaff is to ask around and find different points of view. I agree that experience is king. But having an idea of what to expect is something most people prefer in any situation, not just dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 12:11 PM |
| 23 | If you were good at sex, you'd be having it.You kind of disprove your own theory within your own post. You argue that the men you're having sex with are terrible at sex. But you also argue that if a man is good at sex he'd be having it. Except now you've demonstrated the exact opposite. The men that are bad at sex, are having sex. You can't prove that the men that are good at sex are having sex. And you can't prove that all men are bad at sex because that's conjecture. and don't learn from disgusting misogynistic YouTubers and tiktokers w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?You're the one positing that the sexuality of the genders is fundamentally different. I'd posit that it's the opposite of what you claim. Women generally have it too easy and don't realize that their sexual needs are mostly met, and therefore they wrongly conjecture that their sexuality is completely different from those "bitchless men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 11:52 AM |
| 0 | Why is porn hated by so many women?You're speaking actual nonsense at this point. This isn't a yes or no question. It only becomes one, as I said, if you reduce it to one, due to a narrow worldview that is incapable of seeing nuance. Which is an incredibly obvious logical fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:46 AM |
| 8 | Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof.Just gonna point out though, that "self made billionaire" is not a thing that exists in this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof.I'm gonna argue a third point; neither of them deserves most of their money. They're both colossal pieces of human rights violating shits. But once again we're here arguing gender wars instead of seeing that this is a monumentally fucking retarded discussion about "which of the two trashbag humans is the bigger pile of garbage." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Why is porn hated by so many women?Only because you're reducing to that because of your narrow worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:07 PM |
| -1 | Why is porn hated by so many women?And again, just because you don't share these kinks doesn't mean there aren't people who consensually share in them. Narrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:49 AM |
| -1 | Why is porn hated by so many women?Again. Very narrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?Honestly, I'd argue a majority of the women on this sub are outliers, just by the sheer fact that you're posting on this sub. Just like how the men here are generally outliers as well. Lets be real here, this place isn't exactly flocked with normies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:47 PM |
| 3 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?I don't doubt that it happens. But I don't think it happens with nearly the frequency you and these commenters mean when you refer to yourselves anecdotally. I think you're largely outliers, and like I said, I think many of you heavily exaggerate what "asking men out" means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?Trauma isn't limited to childhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?Crippling social anxiety doesn't just happen, generally. One cause is probably just fear of failure while approaching. Which if that doesn't happen when they're young, they won't develop social anxiety later in life. Like I said in a different comment, just statistically speaking, women approaching would almost definitely reduce the amount of incels by some factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 07:27 PM |
| 3 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?One thing to consider is that a lot of them become shut ins because of their past. If they're afforded chances earlier on in life, basically a crutch for their lack of assertiveness, then I imagine there's a strong possibility of them being more outgoing later in life as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?I think that if women were approaching more, their standards would automatically go down as they start to get real signals of what their league is. (If you subscribe to the notion that women have too high standards). They wouldn't be able to live in a delusion that chad will eventually notice them. But also, one of the main reasons Incels get left behind in the dating sphere is just lack of assertiveness. The reason autistic men face way more troubles finding love than autistic women, is because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 06:58 PM |
| 4 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?Yeah, AstronautLoveShack basically admits this in the original reply. or sending IOIs I've noticed a few times lately when this question pops up, that women in the comments will say "women do approach" and then at some point basically imply that "sending hints" is the same as approaching. Here's a radical notion, if you're pussyfooting about, just sending "strong vibes" and avoiding actually just saying "hey, you wanna have a drink?" to avoid a blunt rejection. Then you're not approaching. You'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 06:52 PM |
| -1 | Why is porn hated by so many women?The problem here is that you're taking it as a given that all of these acts "hurt" the recipient. In a responsible relationship it's fully possible to perform acts such as choking or spanking without "hurting" the other person. Your worldview is simply too narrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Why is porn hated by so many women?Yeah, the hotel rooms are a big red flag. But even then, there shit like the Amouranth situation. Even multimillion dollar streamers apparently aren't safe from being abused in this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Why is porn hated by so many women?But I'm fine with amateur porn, where it's obviously a couple who care about each other and are having fun uploading their sexual playtime online for others to enjoy. There's a difficulty here in ascertaining when amateur is truly "amateur". And not a trafficking situation for instance, or just a production meant to "look" amateur because amateur is a big category at this point. It sucks for some creators. Because there are clearly people that post stuff because they enjoy it, both financially a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:39 PM |
| 9 | Why is porn hated by so many women?Men usually are hornier and can get stimulated much more easily by random women on the street I swear, men's libido is starting to get absolutely mythical. The way some people talk about male sexuality is as if we can't walk past a woman without physically restraining every muscle in our body just to not pounce on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Why is porn hated by so many women?No female doctor/nurse wants a patient who tries to turn the whole thing like it’s a porn scene I feel like this is misplaced anger. The sort of people who would sexualize a situation like that are the sort of degenerates that would have done so regardless of whether porn had a "nurse" category or not. Most men, I like to think, are capable of having seen "sexy nurses" without acting inappropriately at a doctor's appointment. They want people to see that women can have respectable and high profi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Why is porn hated by so many women?They’re not having sex because of porn addiction likely A very confident assertion about a very hard to argue "chicken and the egg" scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Why is porn hated by so many women?I do view it as a good vetting tool. If the guy is into it, stay the hell away from that flag. So you're just outright dismissing something like 90% of all men? We can instantly tell when a guy is pornsick Depending on how loosely you're defining "pornsick" (and it looks to be very loosely), just lol. Sure you can, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:17 PM |
| 7 | Why is porn hated by so many women?It's actually very important to be clear in this discussion. We've established that what you said was understood as something you apparently didn't mean. So it wasn't obvious what you meant. You corrected yourself in a comment. Your original comment, despite being edited, still has that line about these things being "violence and abuse". It not only makes light of true violence and abuse some women face, like chibs mentions, but it also implies that women who are into these things aren't allowed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:11 PM |
| 25 | Why is porn hated by so many women?And even then, these are kinks shared by all genders. It isn't there because men "want to do violence on women". Calling it violence is rather disingenuous and even exclusionary towards fetish communities who perform "extreme" sex acts with love in mind. Like yeah, there are cases where it's just abuse. But the blanket labelling because they personally aren't into it is kinda dumb imo, and speaks of an inability to accept that people's love and care can manifest in different ways for different p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enoughNotice how I nowhere mentioned that women should do anything about this situation. What I'm commenting on is OP's specific phrasing of "it doesn't get talked about nearly enough". Which implies that these men should be actively outcast from society, even further than they already are. It's telling however, that you would go straight to the idea that these men just straight up don't deserve a loving partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:02 AM |
| 12 | Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enoughWhat I'm commenting on is the fact that you apparently don't feel like these already socially low rung men are downtrodden enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:00 AM |
| 14 | Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enoughWhat do you mean it's not "talked about nearly enough"? Society generally doesn't let men forget at any turn that if they're failures by any standards that they're unworthy of relationships. Do you think these men that are probably by and large dealing with financial constraints of this absolute shitstorm of an economy, need more discouragement? Is that what you're saying with your title? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Except for sex, men are doing better than everIf these men are part of society. And they're clearly not fully content with their lot in life. At best being sated by their hobbies enough to not start the violent revolution you mention. Then that's not a win win. A huge portion of the population is just being told to eat shit, and you're saying that it's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Except for sex, men are doing better than everI swear you have to be a troll. "Society is fine for men, they should just be free to kill themselves if they want to." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Except for sex, men are doing better than everIt feels extremely reductive and wildly disrespectful to just men in general to frame society telling men to eat shit as "they're just manchildren and get to reap the rewards of that". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Except for sex, men are doing better than everThis is worse than just entertaining the idea that the RP world view is correct. This is justifying it. Somehow OP found a way to make the worst of both worlds with this take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Except for sex, men are doing better than ever"Men are doing better than ever. They just have no purpose and spend their days distracting themselves from that sad truth." What the actual fuck? And none of this even touches on the facts that suicide rates are still terrible and that men are dropping out of education at alarming rates, along with all the other horrors modern capitalism has to offer all genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Except for sex, men are doing better than everYou described male personalities as being defined by "porn" and "social media". I don't think you have a leg to stand on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSerj Tankian is definitely up there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Women put virtually zero effort into dating, and certainly far less than menI feel like you're exaggerating a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI exist in a superposition of liking it unironically and ironically at the same time. Dearly Beloved will make me weep but I will never not find edgy Mickey Mouse to be the funniest thing to have ever existed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeezy was honestly just a stand in for any sort of music. I should be the only thing she listens to. Anything else is heresy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's true. My standards are just too damn high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've finally worked out my top 3 dating requirements. Has to love Kingdom Hearts. (Ironically or unIronically. Either is fine.) Doesn't listen to Yeezy. I will not tolerate false prophets. She can't be better than me at video games. This is a tough one because I'm very bad at video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf Saitama wasn't drawn in his goofy style but in his "serious" style. For sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt reeks of extreme confirmation bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??You're still refusing to acknowledge the fact that men need to seek out relationships. The pressure to find a relationship, rests almost solely on them. The women (and men) who are content without it have no pressure. Men that want relationships will always be under pressure because they need to actively seek out relationships or they will never have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??Therefore, “biding their time” is not an explanation for why women are happier being single. If they want to have marriage and kids, they have the pressure. If they do not they are not biding their time but just not caring You're still arguing that a fraction of women being under time pressure to have kids is grounds to ignore the fact that women generally don't get put under pressure to find the relationship. I’m blaming the theorizing about women’s and men’s feelings about being single being s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??I have said that women who want marriage and kids would be under more time pressure. I did not say all women. Notably, more women are happy not having that. Which isn't contradictory to what I've said. It does however contradict your own point. If more women are happy about not having that, then clearly women aren't feeling more pressure about having kids. The redpill community trains people to think that all people are not much more than products seeking sex market value. I mean, this specific … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??I think you're refusing to acknowledge possible unconscious biases. What hypothesis have you posited that might explain why women are reportedly happier than men being single? All you've said is that you think women are under more pressure to seek relationships because of kids. Well I'd wager most women that feel under that pressure will be in relationships early and often. They probably won't experience long bouts of singledom to lower the happiness quotient of single women. The single women re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??I do wonder, when it comes to self-reporting, if there might be a gender gap between young men and women in what they consider ‘casual sex’ to mean though. It's hard to take a lot of these studies at face value because people aren't always honest. They might have different ideas regarding what constitutes a sexual encounter like you said, or they might want to fudge the numbers in their favour, be it increasing them or reducing them. Anyway, I don’t suspect that sex-availability is why women are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 02:24 AM |
| 8 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??I wasn't really talking about timelines. Just that a man has to be proactive while a woman generally can just wait and bide her time. She's free to not worry about it while the man has to actively pursue or worry that he'll never find a relationship. If the man chooses to forgo the pursuit during this period, he's not getting any affirmations that he's wanted. And if he wants that affirmation he'll have to seek it out, and if he wants just the affirmation. Well. There's no way for him to get tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWatch her flop when her crush likes the pic lol. "It's actually just a sign that he cares!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSuch a Mario thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can fall for any hair color. It depends more on context than the color itself tbh. Bleached hair for instance can look really good, but I'll think it looks tacky on "basic bitches" for lack of a better term. The type to have way too much tan, way too much make up. You know, everything about them is fake. But it won't really have much to do with the hair colour itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 12:25 AM |
| 26 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??I was gonna say something in line with this. Single women are just coasting. They probably get approached here and there so they know they have options available. They can decide in their own time whether they want to just milk their free time or start committing socially. A single man is under pressure. He knows that if he doesn't actively do something, he will stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?If you actually read the study, you'd know why the trivial supposition that occurred to you in a few minutes was absolutely controlled for by scientists who do this professionally. Again, a study of 14 people is anything but conclusive. Any "control" they might have introduced is still too trivial and low sample size to be worth considering. You're submitting your opinion as "fact" by supplying a single, extremely inconclusive report as evidence. Which is extremely unscientific, by the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?There is fundamentally zero room for social aspects in understanding how a tiny minority of people may be idiosyncratic. Except people argue about what is more attractive all the god damned time. And a single study on *checks notes* fourteen men isn't really conclusive evidence that neuron activation is consistent across entire populations regarding objective beauty. I'm not gonna look deeper into the study because it's a wall of text honestly, and I don't have time. But shit like this can easil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Has PPD made anyone realize how bad dating could actually be?Nah, I'd think it's more that this place congregates people willing to spout their shitty views i.e. they're overrepresented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Has PPD made anyone realize how bad dating could actually be?I theorize that a lot of people on here are much more agreeable in real life and this is just a space for them to vent their frustrations in a safe space. Agreed. Though I do see some vile people on here. And some absolutely wild takes that make me wonder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive?At that point it's hard to argue that they're still identical. And if you find someone with perfect symmetry, a lot of people would be put off by that since people's brains are used to a set amount of imperfections. According to you and many others, some models are "objectively" more attractive than other people. But some people still find them off putting because they often barely look human at that point. It just goes to show that even "objective" ways of "measuring" beauty are still relative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | When it is said that women want less sex than men, what exactly does it mean?I think it's largely society not taking into account the differences in social dynamics between the genders. For men they come off as more horny because they're required to pursue in order to get any. For women, they can kind of just hang back and wait for it to happen, they don't have to tip their hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned.I don't think they're all wrong though. A lot of humanity gripes about what they can't have. And a lot of people have no idea how they'd act in a given situation until they're actually in it. We also know that people's political alignments often shift to become more conservative as they age. Which goes to show that a lot of people that fight for social improvement only do so because they'd benefit from it. Once they're older and have their lives more sorted out, their whole stance changes to "fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What are your top 3 dating requirements and do you believe you meet them yourself?Fair enough. I think what you're looking for is extremely rare. But nevertheless, I wish you luck in your endeavours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:45 PM |
| 7 | What are your top 3 dating requirements and do you believe you meet them yourself?No offense. And I do mean, no offense. But your way of speaking sounds exactly like every computer science major with total lack of self awareness that took an online IQ test and now thinks they're above everyone. Your comment right here reads like a copy pasta. This is not to say that you're not allowed to have your preferences or anything, but I've met and seen a lot of guys that boast of their sky high IQs and excuse their lack of ability to small talk as "not caring about the mundane". Have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationDoesn't it get tiring doing these mental gymnastics convincing yourself that these things are comparable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | What are your top 3 dating requirements and do you believe you meet them yourself?by high IQ i mean 130+ Now I'm extremely curious to know whether you actually meet your own standards here. That's a really high requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What are your top 3 dating requirements and do you believe you meet them yourself?For a lot of people's main dating requirements, you just have "matches me in x regard". So yeah. For most of them I'd wager people will meet their own requirements. For things like looks, which I assume is the main thing you were fishing after. Or more specific things like "works out", things are a little bit more subjective. Working out is a lifestyle compatibility. If you want someone that works out, then that's probably because you work out as well. If you just want someone that looks like th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationSee? You're just trying to be as mean as possible, and you justify it to yourself by saying "they're just misogynists, so I'm allowed to be as much of an arse as I want to be!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationI think you're just a generally hateful person that convinces themselves they're in the right because the other person "deserved it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationWomen aren’t making and following accounts like this. Because they can generally just shit on men in public lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 08:13 PM |
| 3 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.But then I realized that he was probably a shitty human being long before anyone broke his heart. That's a rather extreme assumption to make... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:04 AM |
| 3 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.Ah, so you're saying that if you didn't respond you'd be acting like a child. Sorry. So you think poor impulse control isn't childish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh my god. It finally happened. The cuck guy replaced SmarmyPapsmears and is wearing his skin like a suit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.So in your head, you mocking someone, and them refusing to deal with your childish antics, makes them the child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.What argument are you presenting? Because I've laid my case that all you're accomplishing is fanning the flames of dissent. You're acting like a child because you want to act out your own sense of justice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 01:42 AM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.especially in a debate sub Because what you were doing constitutes a "debate". Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.You see, there's this concept at play here. The fact that he's not in the right here. But you're still acting like an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 01:08 AM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.Nothing at all, for instance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.That doesn't make your behaviour right dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.You aren't. But again. "He's doing it so I'm allowed to" is fucking kindergarten logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.And are you to be the arbiter of their justice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 11:00 PM |
| 3 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.I'm not surprised you'd be so conceited to consider yourself an arbiter of justice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.Whatever dude. If you don't want to face the fact that you're just excusing your shitty behaviour. Then that's your prerogative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:32 PM |
| 3 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse."It's ok for me to be an asshole to others because others have been worse to me". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:13 PM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.I wouldn't sit back and watch him get his ass kicked No you'll just actively seek to emotionally hurt him. Sure is empathetic behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 6 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.You're just excusing your own hateful behaviour by saying "he did it first". Why are you even engaging in this discussion if all you want to do is further incite derision? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf guys are seriously waiting till their 40s in hopes of being a millionaire There's some obvious copium going on. But you have this backwards. They're not waiting 'till 40 because it's an "optimum strategy" or something. They're waiting and hoping that things improve for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreada lot of these subs showcase how misogynistic men are Don't assume men are a monolith. i and every woman I know do not think or act like this You have to realize that a lot of the talking points on this sub are about unsubstantiable claims of unconscious behaviour. You can't really say "well I'm not like this so it's not true" because by definition you wouldn't be aware of it. That doesn't mean that it's true of course, but I want you to keep this in mind. You may very well just be falling blind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:30 AM |
| 8 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.What came first then if it wasn't simping? It feels a bit like you're trying to find a single convenient explanation rather than acknowledging that it's a massive fucked up tapestry of causation. There's a million little things that come into play, simping is both a cause and an effect of the whole thing, and has always been a part of human culture to some extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:23 AM |
| 14 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.Like, I agree that this dude is taking it too far. But I want you to see that he's speaking from a place of deep hurt. And you're here. Mocking him. With emojis. Like yes, he clearly has issues to work out (if he's emotionally capable of even taking the first step). But you're literally affirming every toxic little thing he just stated he believes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.Not gonna argue the actual content of the post as such, but; Yes, negative behaviours and dark aspects of society, often based in sexism or negative gendered behaviour exist. However, "patriarchy" and "toxic masculinity" are far too nebulous terms to be afforded any credence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Most male sexual attention is fake, performative and overblown. Toning it down would be *hugely* beneficial for men in datingBecause between games you have the ability to punish them yourself to ensure that they have the right incentives We don't. Especially considering the men that are simping don't give a shit about male opinions. And what incentive do women have for participating in this song and dance? There's also the issue of what constitutes "one game". What period of time do you play a single "match"? Again, any man that tries to contribute to this idea is taking a massive leap of faith that they aren't just r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Most male sexual attention is fake, performative and overblown. Toning it down would be *hugely* beneficial for men in datingBut what happens if you account for playing the prisoner’s dilemma game multiple times? That actually changes your strategy completely. Actually, I'm taking this into account. Sure, 1 move into the future we may have a slight improvement in conditions, but then 2 moves later there might appear actors that seek to exploit the new state of affairs. Or as previously mentioned, nothing really changes and all that happens is the "guys with foresight" have now removed themselves from the equation. Try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 04:13 PM |
| 15 | Most male sexual attention is fake, performative and overblown. Toning it down would be *hugely* beneficial for men in datingThe problem of this scenario is akin to the prisoner's dilemma. Yeah, sure, it could be beneficial for men if everyone displayed a modicum of self control. But if only one dude is doing it. Then all that dude is doing is removing all hope he has of getting romantic/sexual attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause DBZ has that sort of ridiculous bulk type of muscle that I just don't find appealing. Show me an episode of Kuroko no Basket, however and I'll start twitching to play some basketball. Even though I'm fucking garbage at it lol. Also, this is better wholesome workout inspiration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 07:21 PM |
| 2 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)I mean you scoff but humans are very prone to attributing meaning to arbitrary cut-off points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)The weirdest thing to me about meeting other tall people is just how much I don't realize that I'm generally tall. I'm so used to looking "down" at people that when I meet someone even relatively similar to my height, as soon as I have to look straight to meet their gaze I feel like the person is just towering above me. Let alone when I meet legitimately tall people where I start to have to look up. Those people are freaks man. Freaks I tell ya. And I'm "only" 6'2". I can't imagine how much of a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 12:57 PM |
| 13 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)Becoming 5'11" does mess with his mind a bit. I imagine losing height is the hardest on guys that are exactly 6' beforehand. With all the weight put on "6" being that arbitrary magical number where you go from "normal" to being "tall". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Political polarization is a big factor in women and men being less compatible these daysi just think that left-leaning people tend to be more vocal because it's less controversial than to be vocally conservative This is a big one to me. Not only do a lot of people clearly just not speak up because the current discourse dictates an either/or sort of mentality, where people aren't allowed to foster more nuance than "left or right" because they'll be branded "the other". But that means that the only places where these people will ever feel comfortable talking about their more "controv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.So the woman in the video doesn't exist in real life? Oh thank god, I couldn't live if such a scary person was actually real. :(( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.We're here to discuss societal trends and norms, so it's a relevant data point. And it's not "just what some girl on video says". It's the response it received in the comments. So at least considering this tiny fraction of human society, men don't seem to be allowed to consider body counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 12:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.Of course it isn't a "personality". But it can be a result of personality traits that favour less sexual activity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 02:18 AM |
| 0 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.So you're arguing that personality is all nurture and zero percent nature? And that every woman with time will reach 100 body count if left to her own vices? Any woman is capable of having a high N-count. There is no innate “chaste” behavior I just straight up disagree with your assertion. People's personalities aren't so malleable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onPutting people on the spot with a very obvious agenda question. "Nah, the answers they give are totally reliable and honest." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:42 AM |
| 5 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.has been used in a pretty wide variety of news sources, both left and right This isn't really the medal of merit it used to be though. Considering the state of modern media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:35 AM |
| 12 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onWomen that aren't financial dependents don't want to date men that don't make more money than them. So these men end up dating the only women that will date "up" to their level. The financial dependents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:20 AM |
| 0 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.Sure, but do both women have the same capacity for potential partners? Like, it's not that being with 100 men changes the girl (though it does affect her to some degree, all our actions impact who we are), but she from the start had a personality that was capable of eventually sleeping with 100 men. Comparing her to the chaste girl before she starts sleeping around is simply obtuse. This is not an argument for or against body counts. It's simply a statement on the fact that these two women clear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.That sounds like absolute conjecture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.I mean, considering that there's a video at the top of this thread where a woman being asked "why men care about body count", and her response of "get fucked" is hailed as "intelligent" and "appropriate". Then I'd posit that men are not allowed to care about body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:03 AM |
| 9 | Political polarization is a big factor in women and men being less compatible these daysI'm liberal, but I'm critical of the left. And often times that feels like it might just as well be the same thing as being a conservative to a lot of people. The lack of nuanced critical thinking in modern society is scary. And not just in a "I can't get laid" kind of way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut then I'd like to point out that a majority of people have little to no understanding on what's actually going on with this phenomena. Which is demonstrated by the fact that the average layman that opines on the subject thinks it's fine to ridicule them, mock them, show them no empathy and further drive them to the outskirts of society. Being afraid of their "ideology" shows that they really don't try to understand what their "ideology" even is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah but in comparison to the airplane analogy, what proportion of the total incel community do these outliers present? Because if you're afraid of incel attacks despite them being carried out by fraction of a fraction of these communities, then congratulations, you're afraid in the same way someone afraid of flying is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just think it's funny that she's clearly upset about this idea, but still asks "do people actually care about that shit?" She's way to emotionally invested in this to act like this isn't something people think or care about. He also asks her "do you think men care about body counts" and she interprets it as men "asking" about body counts. Which is like. Not really what he asked, and she clearly doesn't have the ability to entertain thoughts like this with any sort of nuance. The comments are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou seem very preoccupied with the sexism. You removed the wrong half of the quote. "The happiness of man is: I will. The happiness of woman is: He will. Surface is the disposition of womanshallow persons: a mobile, stormy film over shallow water. Man'sA stoic person's disposition, however, is deep; their rivers roar in subterranean caves: womanothers feel their strength but do not comprehend it." If you can't appreciate the poetic language then you can't really appreciate quotes like these anyw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's very poetic. If you remove the sexist connotations it could be a great quote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterIt depends on whether they were so drunk that the couldn't express consent or nonconsent. Simply being fucked up doesn't take away our ability to consent. Lots of adults hookup severely intoxicated. No you're misunderstanding them. According to Farabel's school of thought, being drunk inherently renders you incapable of consent. Which is a school of thought I disagree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadKite Man feels a lot like Jerry and Beth except without the justification that he got her pregnant to lock her down. But then that was kind of the joke. He's kind of an incredibly unremarkable guy in pretty much every respect. And even Ivy questions why she fell for him in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean it depends on context. By itself I wouldn't consider a blowjob to be intercourse. But in context of cheating for instance? It's still infidelity. Edit to add: But for instance, if a girl tells me she hooked up with a guy in a party and gave him a blowjob but never saw him again after that. Clearly he meant basically nothing to her and so doesn't really amount to much in the grand scheme of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI swear it's impossible to guess what hot take Lillth is gonna say next... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHoly fuck this Carbonara I just made is the fucking shit! Someone should wife me up real quick, you don't need any other benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair point. Still definitely an issue to be resolved though. Rather than just swapping exercises to avoid it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 03:44 PM |
| 3 | If all good people are "taken" by their 20s and 30s, why do so many relationships that start early tend to fail?Meanwhile, those who ignore the odds and go for their dreams are busy living life. I find this a bit dishonest. Like yeah, the demographic for this discussion self-selects for the "rejects, autists, losers, or overly analytical". But that's largely because the people "too busy living life" just happened to never hit this roadblock and therefore never had to think about it. That's one of the main distinctions of "blue pill". They're either completely oblivious to the discussion or take a "denial"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadand fucks all my joints Isn't that sort of the point? Like, if you can't go jogging without massive knee pain, then it's an issue to be dealt with. It's definitely one of the reasons I took up jogging/running at the start of the summer. Just gotta ease into it so you don't do more harm than good. If even just going for walks at the start rather than actual runs. Work your way up. The boring part is harder to deal with. I think most cardio will be boring to most for the most part. Just gotta find… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?I think the biggest part is actually exposure though. Unless you have friends or family that are into gaming you’re not likely to be introduced to it/be able to really try it since computers and consoles are expensive. I think this is the largest factor. For some reasons, from early on gaming has been marketed as a masculine/boy's hobby, and that had a compounding effect when most online games became male spaces. That combined with the mainstream being fairly hostile towards gaming in general, m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPromiscuous doesn't mean they're raw dogging it every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Battle of the Sexes or Battle of the Egos?I don't think it's quite strawmanning. That implies an intentional misconstruction of someone's stance to debate it. This is more of an internal bias. They have a worldview that informs their interpretation of everything they read. Strawmen are also generally a poor or oversimplified version of an actual take, that is easy to burn down. While this is just a straight up misconstruction. Though I guess there's a thin line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:57 PM |
| 19 | Battle of the Sexes or Battle of the Egos?When people are honest and the ugly truth occasionally slips out There's also the opposite extreme happening. Someone will say something with a rather innocuous phrasing. Maybe because they're not good writers or English isn't their first language. Whatever. But then someone will swoop in and use their ill considered word choice as "undeniable proof" that the "facade" is slipping and their true intentions have been revealed! Most recent example I saw was someone talking about how men can get dej… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?So by your logic you shouldn't include cunt in your list up. If dickhead is "not male specific" in a single location and therefore not worth mentioning (otherwise, why would you criticize his inclusion of the term), then "cunt" not being a "female specific" pejorative in Australia it shouldn't count for your list. My point is that you're just cherry-picking what "counts" for these lists, and that it's completely arbitrary. As I mentioned to cruelangelgradthesis below, the reason the "female spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?"Cunt" isn't considered a serious insult because it's used all the time. It's considered a serious insult because denigrating women is a lot less socially acceptable than denigrating men, and as such "cunt" doesn't get used much except with truly scathing intent. The words never die off because they never lose their potency. Just consider that if you call a man a "cunt" it's not really thought of as noteworthy. "Faggot" is (or was for a time at least) an almost meaningless term in gaming communi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Dickhead In Philly everyone is a DH And in Australia, everyone's a cunt. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm sorry, but I gave up on my genetics degree. I guess I'm just too stupid to deserve my kawaii neko girl uwu~ waifu. -___-" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat if I supply you with an eleven foot pole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat being said categorizing him as the focal point of inceldom reeks of someone just simplfiying their worldview to "everyone I don't like is everything I don't like." Yeah. I find it immensely interesting, that despite all of Peterson's numerous flaws and mediocre talking points. His critics never fail to attack his character or misconstrue his points rather than just actually, you know, debating his points. Like this whole crying thing, he's very clearly not crying because he got insulted. Ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 02:26 PM |
| 11 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?I'll mirror these sentiments and add a couple worries of my own; The dubious legal/moral nature. I worry that there is basically no way of knowing for absolutely sure that it isn't a trafficking situation or as roseonyxa mentions, a disenfranchised woman that I'd basically be taking advantage off. I worry that it'd only make me feel less worthy of "actual" love. Basically serving as invalidation of my self worth. Another poster cynically mentioned that soliciting wouldn't work because "they'd st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:01 PM |
| 14 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?And I think most of the anger OP talks about stems more from the lack of validation rather than the actual sex itself. OP is conflating the emotional need for validation, intimacy and/or physical comfort, with the mere act of having sex. Paying for sex doesn't provide validation, in fact it might even have an adverse effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:42 PM |
| 10 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaYeah. Magic Mike made millions mostly monetizing the male gaze. Sure buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 12:58 AM |
| 13 | What happens when people "give up"?Because that one guy decided to kill some people. He was an incel. And "Incel" is just "involuntarily celibate". So anyone that doesn't have sex is a terrorist, and we don't have empathy for terrorists! The logic is foolproof and we don't need to scrutinize it any further! Calling people "virgins online" is socially acceptable and anyone that gets called a virgin is a terrorist! So they're automatically in the wrong if I disagree with them! It's perfect! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe only thing it did change was I immediately became 10x more confident around women and have no problem treating them like men.. Zero impact life event. Didn't change the guy in the slightest... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's also the fact that 202 is not a huge sample size. Especially when you consider that their sample size for each group was increasingly smaller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problem with your argument is that if a man has issues getting it up in the bedroom. He's ostensibly to blame. Woman didn't get aroused? The man didn't get her aroused. Trying to argue against "tight pussy"/"loose pussy" as a metaphor by saying it's men's fault for not getting the woman horny just reaffirms that men are supposedly responsible for any and all success in the bedroom. I've read some men say that they prefer a tight pussy This is self evident, the physical pleasure largely stems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean, that's just this sub reddit in a nutshell. I'm amazed no one has tried to serialise this place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:18 PM |
| 5 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.One of the issues with this debate is that one can't ask. People will lie to make themselves look good. That's why this subreddit keeps arguing in circles. People experience one thing, but the people they're arguing with claim another. That's why some people end up clinging to "studies" and "statistics" to try to make their case objective rather than just anecdotal. (But said studies are often horribly flawed and in the worst cases fall for the exact same issue, people make for unreliable accoun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen I did edibles, we waited 40 minutes and we weren't feeling anything. One of us ate an entire extra slice, and I was literally bringing the second slice up to my mouth when I realized that lifting my hand was taking too long. I look over at my friends and we're all just exchanging nervous glances. Then the giggling started. I think we sat there barely functioning for like 2 hours before one of us just meagerly went "I think I'm heading home..." Shit was an experience. Riiiiight on the verge … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot a woman. But mornings fucking suck. You mean I have to leave my soft warm cocoon and face reality?! Worst deal if I ever heard one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.I just want to point out that the only reason their dating pool shrinks is because women always seem to want to date up. As far as the "women's standards are too high" crowd goes, this is one area where I'm inclined to agree with them. If you're a successful business woman and you refuse to date anyone that isn't making more money than you. Then you don't really have anyone to blame for your lack of dating prospects but yourself. Especially in an age where men are less educated and starting to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?He very explicitly mentions that human and lobster nervous systems are similar and that this can warrant an exploration into how and why hierarchies form and whether they're inherent to our biology. If his detractors are saying "he thinks humans are lobsters", then that demonstrates that they haven't put in even the rudimentary research into what the fuck he's saying in the first place. Which is exactly my point. I mean a whole lotta women got a very raw deal out of enforced monogamy, it can be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingBut not to the point where they consider an attractive man unattractive. Especially if it holds true that women consider the average man's clothes unremarkable, they won't care that "Chad" wears baggy clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingFit people look even better in well-fitted clothes that accentuate their form. If he wears some formless baggy t-shirt, she won't even be able to tell he's Chad, his physique won't show. You really need to go out of your way to have clothes so formless as to utterly remove a person's physique. But another aspect I keep forgetting to mention is that all of this ignores the fact that there isn't just "a fashion" in the world. Depending on what community/ies you're a part of, baggy might literally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingThe epitomal "Chad" doesn't need to worry about the quality of his clothes. It's a plus if he does. But he doesn't need to. Good looking clothes can enhance your appearance, but a good looking well built person will look good in most anything. One of the main things that debunks this idea that "Chad" cares about quality, is the fact that a lot of "fashionable" garments are made out of the lowest quality fabrics. It's not about the quality of the clothes in these circles. It's about appearances, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo Nut November is a meme. No Fap is the cult of zealots who will proclaim that not jerking off for 2 weeks will give you super human will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe are not animals and we shouldn't lower ourselves to the level of animals. A lot of people will argue with you about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicThey are and they aren't. As rsvpxo is touching on, redpill didn't really start out as this. But now redpill seems to exist on a spectrum where on one end it's purely about self improvement. While on the other extreme it's about getting laid at all costs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:11 PM |
| 3 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicBut that isn't easy to hear when you already have shit self-esteem, so people started to say modern women are the problem I think another issue here is also just how much division tends to flanderize arguments with time. Some guys start talking about how modern dating dynamics are kind of fucked. And point out stuff like the tinder divide, or how men have to put in most of the effort to initiate, and how that makes things difficult for men. And people will take that as a slight towards women, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:09 PM |
| 14 | What is the worst thing about being a man?You go back on the front page just to see a twox post with 9 rewards and 20k upvotes that just talks shit about men for a couple paragraphs straight. But that’s fine right, Says who? The fact that it's on the front page with half a months salary worth of awards on it. Like really, that should be self evident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingSorry, I hate clubbing. I don't desire the admiration of lesser beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingSure thing, Patrick Bateman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 5 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingNo, I won't be caught dead in a pair of $10 jeans thank you. Because your self worth is apparently all tied up in corporate marketing lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:16 PM |
| 15 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingChad isn't shopping anywhere other than Levis/Topman because those are the only affordable jeans that fit worth a damn Man you really are a slave to advertising, aren't you? Even supposing you're right. And that the only place to find acceptable clothing is within brand name stores. Then you still don't have to set aside any monthly budget to buy "what's currently trending", unless you're bulking up so fast that your clothes stop fitting you within a month. If you're not retarded, you'll buy per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:57 PM |
| -1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookinga good fashion sense with a decent budget set aside for the latest seasons designs So 'good looking' to you involves being a slave to trends? I'm sorry, but I think your standards for what constitutes 'good looking' are just ridiculously high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:42 PM |
| 10 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?This. I think it's rather obtuse to think that it's "men failing to come together as a collective", rather than the obvious "men used to objectively be better off than women, women had to fight for their rights, but now men can't fight for the rights in the modern age because men complaining that they might have issues is considered sexist". It's only fairly recently that feminism will concede that men actually have real issues in society. But even still they always frame it as "but it's still m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think it's universal from the male perspective either. Although I think it's probably harder for men to grapple with the feeling of helplessness or even emasculation that might occur in such a scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree. But on the other hand, those people don't strike me as the sharpest tools in the shed. So I wouldn't be surprised to find them subscribing to such gender norms as described by fjbhboy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re prolly mad though cause it reminds you you’re old enough to drive yet. You having a stroke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....You're watching bad porn lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean I guess in this instance "only neuroatypicals fail in romance" is a self fulfilling prophecy then, because once you've lacked romantic success for long enough, that becomes a trauma and yay, you're no longer neurotypical. Which once more raises the question, what was your point in your earlier comment anyway. Are you just mocking neurodivergent men? Are you mocking them for trying to make sense of a world that, frankly, doesn't make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo they just either kill themselves when they don't experience success, or after enough lack of it, end up right here in the pits with us. Then there's the aspect of undiagnosed mental issues. On either side of the fence, successful or unsuccessful, there are probably scores of guys that have never been diagnosed. Do you mean to say "neurotypical" guys always experience success? Will a neurotypical dude without success never look up "statistics"? What does he do then, when he's feeling so lonely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....I've NEVER heard a woman say that emulating porn behavior, is a good thing for men, or makes men better lovers. Because the men that emulate the right things from porn aren't mentioning where they learned it. But it's rather obvious when men try to emulate the wrong things from porn where they got the idea. I don't know if I'd go so far as to say porn is a "great" way to learn how to perform in bed though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"The comment you replied to implies personality. And the point was to criticize these women for seeking out toxic personalities because a decent person is, as you put it, "boring". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"I didn't bother responding to your reply because the very first thing you said in it was "notice how it doesn't say anything about personality", when the very first thing you did was MAKE it about personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi don't like tate because i find the cars/romania thing to be cringe and he doesn't really attract women that i'm all that interested in..... Like I said, I think this is the main thing. He presents himself as this crass asshole, so people are responding to him like a crass asshole. KS may have been less HVM than he actually presented himself (although I do believe he was actually rich, but I cba going into specifics of what constitutes an "objectively HVM"), but he still presented himself with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:48 PM |
| 8 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not MY fucking job to clean up after you at the end of my shift because you were too fucking lazy to do something that takes a minute to do. It literally is though. I agree those people are douchebags, and this is one of the reasons why I hate customer service. But this is still very much in the job description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've never watched much KS and probably even less Tate. I've seen like a piece of one video of Kevin's or so. But he clearly presented himself far more eloquently than Tate. And his content seemed to actually interact with women rather than just preaching over men. He would talk with women, and while he was critical of their behaviour and would tell them in no blunt terms to their face, he wasn't too rude about it. And he had, not just a successful image to back up his claims (he's demonstrably … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think it's largely just momentum pulling them through. The early phases of the MCU were really well pulled off. They managed to make some rather good movies and that generated massive hype for the big set pieces like the first avengers movie and such. But you're right, they're starting to come out so frequently that it's getting noticeable how interest is waning. But because the early phases were so successful, people are still kind of swept up in the hype of the phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"In the context of what dafiro responded to, it reads that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:38 AM |
| 12 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"I'm looking at it in extremes because the person described a well rounded guy and you compared it to being a doormat with no personality. In contrast the guys those women "in the same league" as the well rounded guys were after, were amoral womanizers with too much money. So in context, it really sounds like you're saying "having a personality" is "being a toxic person", or "being fun" is "doing amoral stuff". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI highly doubt women would be topless all the time or something Of course, same as how men aren't topless everywhere despite it technically being allowed for them to be so. It's a rather weird, puritanical double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBreasts can become less taboo without being desexualised. It's not really the same thing. Just consider male toplessness. It's completely normal for men to go topless, but a shirtless photo of a man can still be a thirst trap. That is to say, I think breasts will always be "sexual", to some extent. But they can probably become normalized despite that, although it will probably take a couple generations at least after it "stops" being taboo to become fully normalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:24 PM |
| 19 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"But if you're a doormat with no personality and you're boring then yeah good luck out there lol "If you're not an abusive douchebag that has unhealthy attitudes towards relationships, good luck". That's what this sentence sounds like in regards to the comment you replied to. They described good looking, well rounded dudes, and you compared it to being a "doormat with no personality". Really driving home how toxic these women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think calling out a man's red flag statements is the equivalent of being a bum on the "other side." Making grand assumptions about the poster because you assume of him every fault and flaw you've seen in every other poster you don't like doesn't mean you should immediately post a comment with reductive statements that ignore any nuance in their post. That's why this sub is generally just a huge shouting match between the loudest people that see the world in the least nuanced terms of bla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe're talking about the general vibe the comments that use "bang maid" as a term usually give off. It's a general issue in this subreddit honestly, that everyone always goes into every discussion full blast. Lumping everyone into "teams" and tearing OPs to pieces over things they often times never said, but the commenter attributes to them because they're on the other metaphorical "side". People are extremely lenient of posts from "their side", giving them the most flattering interpretation, whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is advice that should go for everyone honestly, regardless of what number club you're swinging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLast minute flights Wait, I thought last minute flight were more expensive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're assuming a lot of responsibility on the part of men that actually isn't necessarily happening. And when people use the term "bang maid" you're assuming a whole fucking lot about the guys you're openly mocking. Which is exactly our point. The term is generally only used by people who want to shit on men. Like yeah, there exist people who will abuse their relationships and won't pull their fare share. But you only get to complain if you're actually in a relationship with one. But most often… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe're talking about how 99% of the time when someone uses the term "bangmaid", they're just mocking men. They ignore any nuanced discussion about what constitutes "equal share" in a relationship, and just fixate and assume that men don't contribute to relationships. I find it rather telling that in your first breath you excused exactly the sort of mentality that should be vilified from the people that hold this opinion. "It's not the same as being married", and what does that matter, really? So … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"You want someone who will lessen the burden of every day mundanity? By doing some chores around the house and sharing each others responsibilities? What are you, some sort of mommy loser boy?" Basically what I read anytime these people complain about this. Not to mention the types that generally complain about this are the type to generalize like crazy and will attribute this to all men. And they're also the same people that seem weirdly ok with the notion that the man is supposed to do all the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overallListen buddy, we have enough division and derision in these spaces without jerkwads like him intentionally stoking the fires. Whether it's a joke or not is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 08:05 PM |
| 19 | Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overallThis. I'm fairly sure anything good that he's said has been said before by people that don't spew as much shit to go along with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | People on ppd need to start speaking on their own behalfLol at the op for going against their own thesis statement before even posting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah bro. I'm an ass man despite those two. Oversized to the point of comedy is clearly not it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's regarding the scale between the suitor and suitee. The ranking system here is for people who are discussing their tastes within a social setting. Which can be useful to give others in your social circle a sense for what you find attractive. Which can be relevant if they want to set you up et cetera. Or just to get to know others better, for sake of interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI personally think it should be the grading definition, and kept to informal discussions about personal taste. Trying to use it to determine objectively how beautiful or attractive someone is, is just idiotic. TrueRateMe is a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problem being that nature may impose a distribution, but you're trying to define it by arbitrary boundaries set by man. Especially as it relates to beauty, we can't set a scientific standard because it's too subjective. If person A finds person B attractive, but most other people deem person B below average in looks. Are they at or below 5/10? You'd think IQ would be more objective, but it's an extremely rigid measurement for something as multifaceted as intelligence. And since IQ tests give… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is kind of the issue with this whole number scale bullshit. People have no standardized objective definition. Some people will argue that 5/10 should be the average person, while others will argue that 5/10 is passably attractive. Is it a grading system, or the average distribution of attractiveness? Even then, both systems are extremely subjective and fluctuate wildly from person to person. The people who call men here delusional for calling "literal models" 6/10 don't seem to grasp this a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:21 PM |
| 11 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestI mean I won't pretend that there isn't a significant faction that is just straight up misogynist. But I hate the kneejerk reaction that western spaces and media tends to have to this discussion like the OP points out, "incel rhetoric". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:40 AM |
| 10 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestIt's not saying "feminism bad". It's saying "gender wars bad". Which is objectively true. There's a divide that's been growing ever wider year by year. And pretending like modern feminism isn't at least a part of why that division is getting worse is just delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | 80/20 is common sense and it appears the mainstream is getting it...If 40% of couples are meeting online. And the amount of people meeting online isn't actually that substantial. Then it stands to reason that your "50% of people are in relationships" stat is unfounded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 02:43 AM |
| -1 | Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women.I keep saying that the "libido gap" isn't measurable. When the onus is on men to do 90% of all pursuing, then women showing "lack of interest in sex" isn't indicative of their actual libido. If a man doesn't pursue, he doesn't get laid. If a woman doesn't pursue, she's just following the standard courting practices. There's still a good chance she'll stumble into being propositioned and all the while she can act coy and pretend sex doesn't interest her. Resulting in society coming to the conclus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | ComicCon has a sex worker problemSex workers couldn't give a damn about the fandom It's really hard to prove intent here. Maybe they're just another 'corporate' entity floating through geek spaces and marketing a product. But even then, I imagine it's hard to be immersed in these spaces this much and not develop at least some appreciation for the stuff they're peddling. Like yeah, you can call them "fake fans" or whatever. But maybe they sat down and watched a season of some anime and had fun with it. And like, what more do you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | To those who want virgin partners - why?My point is that if you're going blind into a marriage because of obsession with virginity, there's a high chance for volatility. That volatility, regardless of whether it manifests in low or high happiness, is less conducive to properly raising children. The most extreme example being a marriage with lots of shouting because the parents are stuck in an unhappy marriage and refuse to just end it. And in many cases, should have been ended before children even entered the picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 11:23 AM |
| 2 | To those who want virgin partners - why?But you are projecting a bit too much I'm exaggerating to make a point. I don't think he's being pragmatic in the context of the conversation. The crux of this comment threads topic is "does virgin marriage yield a higher chance for a successful marriage?" And the definition for a successful marriage isn't set in stone. But generally people would expect that definition to include your own and/or your spouses happiness. This guy set a rigid condition of "raising children without my wife leaving m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 11:18 AM |
| 2 | To those who want virgin partners - why?And so your kids will be raised in a broken home. Because their parents would rather shout at each other than remarry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 10:45 AM |
| 15 | To those who want virgin partners - why?I mean yeah, but at that point what I mean to say is the lack of divorce doesn't mean the marriage is a happy one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 05:26 PM |
| 28 | To those who want virgin partners - why?There is a correlation between virginity and a lesser risk of divorce, cheating and relationship dissatisfaction. I think this one doesn't control for demographics. The most common "virgin marriages" are probably within conservative communities. And within conservative communities, divorce is frowned upon, or even downright blasphemous. So I'd take this statistic with a grain of salt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 05:13 PM |
| 11 | Where did you get your opinions about women?It’s hard to say when this started exactly, but sometime between 2015-2018. I think anti-feminist youtube content peaked around 2012 to 2014. A lot of previously atheist youtubers started shifting to anti-feminist content in the early 2010's, and the "debate" escalated until around 2014-2015 with gamergate. I think it simmered down quite a bit since then. The actual "debate" that's going on that is. And now, as you mentioned, we basically just have these rather extreme echo chambers on all sides… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEast a girl out. Is that a slang for human trafficking or something? I don't think I approve of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:41 PM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.You very clearly have some issues to work out lady. Decrying these imaginary strawmen isn't going to solve them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:21 AM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.because they can’t use women as masturbation tools And you're still here being grossly reductive about the actual issues being discussed here. Yet you don’t understand expecting someone to care about your sexlessness is entitlement and not a real problem. Coming to a public forum explicitly meant for a discussion surrounding these topics isn't entitlement. Expecting humanity from your fellow posters isn't entitlement. And even hoping for romantic success is not entitlement. Coming here, and atta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:02 AM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Dry dick and not having harems of women to shove your dick in Your issue is your inability to look at this discussion with any sort of nuance. To see the commenters as anything other than a mass or blob of dissenting opinion. To see them as individuals with emotions. Do you know what that's called? A lack of empathy. *You're still reducing the strife of romantically unsuccessful men to "they can't get their dicks wet". A gross misconstruction of a complex issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:30 PM |
| 4 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Expecting empathy for dry dick You're conflating. I'm not asking for your empathy. I'm telling you that you lack empathy. In general. And this behaviour. Coming here. Just to fuel your own and others derision. Is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:25 PM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Again, you're lacking in understanding of the fact that not every man here holds the same opinions. And just because one man says AWALT, doesn't give you carte blanche to treat every human being on this board like a dirty rag. And if the only reason you're here is to shout vitriol against vitriol, then I again, insist that you're the one that needs therapy. And I mean that sincerely. This is not healthy behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:14 PM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Oh I’m fine. You're very clearly not. You have severe empathy issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:09 PM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.You men have zero empathy and sympathy for women on here Lady, you're the one lumping all men together into a single homogenous group and showing literally zero empathy, if not straight up maliciousness towards said group. If anyone here is in need of therapy, it's you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:03 PM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.shove his small dick Is this the extent of your opinions on men? You really are a disgusting human being to be quite honest with you. want emotional labor disgusted as “discussion” No one is forcing you to be here. If this is your opinion on "discussions on the internet" then why the fuck are you even here? You clearly just get off on being an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:50 PM |
| 4 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.I love how in your deranged view, voluntarily engaging in these discussions online constitutes emotional labor for you. What's the age old saying? "If you aint got nothing nice to say, don't say nothing at all". Yet she chose to be an asshole. And when the person that instigated the thread was attempting to express themselves within the thread they started. She chose to double down on being a horrible human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.unhinged You're projecting now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.I think they're horrible people You told a guy he's unlovable for having a small dick and then when he replied - on topic, mind you - about how that makes him feel, without even mentioning you or the horrible shit you just said, you call him the bad guy. I think you could learn a thing or two about empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthese sculptures were created by Sigurður's daughter, Þorgerður Sigurðardóttir, and were based on her own experience rather than any knowledge of the team. The team's goalkeeper denies that the sculptures are casts So basically just a funny sculpture with no basis in reality. But this implication that these rather large sculptures are fitting sizes for these "HVM" betrays a rather toxic idea of penis size being linked to a man's worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.You're missing the point. You'll write off anyone you don't agree with because it's "not your problem". Society shouldn't, and can't function like that. You'll condemn people to the outskirts of society and offer them no way back. A sure-fire way of ending up with huge swaths of dangerous disgruntled people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.But I think they're a lost cause when they become evil A man sat down personally with 200 KKK members and by appealing to their humanity, convinced them to give up their cowls. Did I mention that man was black? True evil in humans is rare. We're selfish creatures, sure, but most people will reflect on their self centred nature if given the chance. Yes, not everyone is capable of change, but this black and white view of humanity's capacity for "good" or "evil" is extremely limiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't concern themselves with being "Good" as seen by societyI still don't think the message of the movie justifies making actual child porn. Especially since at that point the creator might literally just be hiding behind that excuse. If you can make inherently unethical media but then get a free pass by saying "but it was all for the social commentary!", then you've set a precedent for others to do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Men shouldn't concern themselves with being "Good" as seen by societyOh wow. When OP mentioned MrGirl's opinion on Cuties, I thought he was being critical of the film. But if he thinks it's a good film on top of holding that opinion. Then I have a harder time rebutting Sneako's claim that he might be a bit of a pedo. Like, I think it's an objective fact that Cuties sexualizes those girls. But generally people have been of the opinion that the angle of "criticizing society's sexualisation of young girls" doesn't justify the existence of the movie at all. Like, Sne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Men shouldn't concern themselves with being "Good" as seen by societyA bit of a digression but; [MrGirl] would not violate his value system even if by doing so the world would benefit, as doing so would make him far more susceptible to corruption If you refuse to alter your value system, even if it would improve the world because you fear corruption. Then congratulations, your value system is already inherently corrupt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 07:13 PM |
| 7 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?he was hiding things to protect those women because he knew that they, being women, wouldn't be able to emotionally handle the blow any other way. I mean he's not wrong. Women, being the way they are, wouldn't be able to take the fact that this colossal piece of shit is cheating on them well unless they straight up don't know about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair, but in case of labour jobs, especially for garbage men or sewer diggers for instance, these are demanding jobs that very much fit in with a classical definition of masculinity. They require a fit body and a willingness to put up with conditions that not many are willing to put up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut I don’t think people see garbage men or sewer diggers as particularly masculine. These are generally well payed jobs. So it becomes a case of "willing to sacrifice his time to be a 'provider'". So I think it can be argued that these are also masculine labour jobs. Not to mention the aspect of "high tolerance to adverse circumstances" that is required of some of these less glamorous dirty jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 01:25 PM |
| 2 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?And how does this sub 'help'. It's a single dude in the comments that's trying to call it a black and white situation. Almost everyone else is approaching this with nuance and care. But of course being residents of the manosphere (and this being a post that honestly doesn't belong in the manosphere), they respond by erring on the side of "caution". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 01:09 PM |
| 4 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?First off, they're all far removed from this scenario, so it's not a surprise that they would go all analytical. Second, we don't know the first thing about what actually went down. You taking her side unequivocally is also very short-sighted. We generally shouldn't be 'taking sides' here. We should give advice on how to handle it as if it were an actual case, and then tell them to sort it out in real life. I don't know why the fuck OP decided this was the board to post this on. I don't think it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 01:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The manosphere bastardized decent traits into the "The Dark Triad"One man's asshole is another man's average joe I think one of the issues is that on average, humans can be kind of pieces of shit. So in a sea of assholes, being an asshole basically just brings you up to baseline. When everyone is being hyper assertive, you need a bare minimum of aggression before you're even noticed, and therefore "niceness" can go unnoticed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The manosphere bastardized decent traits into the "The Dark Triad"The term has also been used by feminism to demonize men. I feel like I see equal amounts RPers lamenting the fact that women are attracted to DT as I've seen women lamenting that DT dupe them into unhappy relationships. I'm really curious which came first; whether it was women lamenting about how dating isn't all peaches and roses for them either "DT men actually make for unhappy relationships"; or whether it was RPers making the point that DT are what women are truly attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The manosphere bastardized decent traits into the "The Dark Triad"so the dark triad , true masculinity's sick cousin, gets idolized. I don't think 'idolized' is the right word here. In the RP discussions around here they seem to be disgusted with this idea themselves. But it's a case of "if women pick DT over genuine niceness, then I guess we just have to adapt and become what gets us results". If they 'idolize' it, it's not because they see it as virtuous, but rather because from experience, that's what got them results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh, so because the men don't like how western society is starting to show its hand how it considers them disposable fodder. They should do a complete 180 and move to a society where women are considered property? It's so absurd how many of you are working in just absolute extremes. "You don't like how western society mistreats men? Then you clearly want to mistreat women and should just move to a society where you can!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:33 PM |
| 3 | "Niceness" is not as positive as people think, *especially* in relationshipsIf you're not getting niceness in return, that person is not a good person. It shouldn't need to be stated. As much as I am for improving communication, you shouldn't have to explicitly tell someone to be a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 01:36 PM |
| 2 | "Niceness" is not as positive as people think, *especially* in relationshipsbecause we have just defined an expectation of reciprocation embedded within the niceness. Stopped reading right here. Of course I expect reciprocated kindness if I expect the person to be, you know, not a total douchebag? What kind of psychopathic bullshit take is this on niceness? "You expect people you're nice to, to be nice back?! Ugh, that's gross". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk. But what does that have to with the blatant misrepresentation of male victim perpetrators? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 11:15 PM |
| 7 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?Your comments aren't even internally consistent dude. "it's rare for women to cum from penetration" Then why the fuck are you making such a big deal about penis size!? Hahaha! Oh my lord, you're a riot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadchivalrous behavior HA HA HA! I find it amazing that some women here constantly complain that they don't want to date "manchildren" and don't want to be a "mommy fuck maid". But then the prevalent attitude towards dating is that men are supposed to take care of abso-fucking-lutely everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe's not being honest though. "I'm not here to hook up or whatever" Then why the fuck aren't you seeking avenues that properly facilitate that?! Why are you looking to "just talk" on a god damned dating service?! Because she's thirsty and doesn't want to admit that to even herself, that's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 12:14 PM |
| 4 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceI’m sorry, if you don’t want to make friends for the sake of making friends then it’s hard to care if you struggle to find friends to use as a means to sex. The whole discussion revolves around "finding a friend circle" as advice for someone looking for romantic companionship. Dismissing his points because you think "making friends" should be its own reward is downright idiotic. Because as I previously mentioned, OP probably already has friends in some capacity. But that's not what they're looki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:45 PM |
| 4 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceIf making friends past 25 is the most challenging thing you ever have to do then you’ve lived a charmed life beyond anyone’s wildest dreams. This is another wildly dismissive statement I regularly see in these discussions. Men complain that they're lonely and that finding love seems like a doomed endeavour "Oh wow, so this is the hardest thing in your life?! Then you really must be a priviliged SOB!" Ignoring the fact that no, that is not what they said. Nowhere did they say that they haven't fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:15 PM |
| 7 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceI said BEFORE we can focus on women. Except this is just the toolbox fallacy. The idea that you somehow need to become a perfect person before you're worthy of experiencing love. Is anyone levying the same requirements at women? Why are the scores of imperfect men in happy relationships exempt from this idea? What happened to the idea of a partner being someone that improves your life and helps you improve as a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:01 PM |
| 6 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceNo. You were mocking someone for stating that making friends past 25 is hard, in an attempt to dismiss the difficulty of finding viable social circles for matchmaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | What some women think a mature man dating a young woman looks like vs what it really is like.Him being "uglier" has nothing to do with this. And you seem kind of hung up on sperm quality. I'm fairly certain the correlation for sperm quality and age is not so strong that this is a legitimate concern of yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I believe the reason men are so resentful about the dating scene is because men have to deal with a shit ton of social coercion and pressure to be in a relationship like 10x that of womenFor sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:06 PM |
| 3 | What some women think a mature man dating a young woman looks like vs what it really is like.What does it matter to you how attractive your child's potential spouse is? As long as they find them attractive, what fucking business is it of yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:58 AM |
| -1 | What some women think a mature man dating a young woman looks like vs what it really is like.So you just lie to yourself all day? So you just think about your mother sucking dick all day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealYou kinda did though. The OP talks about how terms that are defined as "toxic" actually exist on a spectrum. And that on one end of the spectrum those traits are deemed virtuous, while on the other they are deemed dangerous and/or destructive. You, by saying "it's almost like they're only deemed toxic when they're toxic", blatantly misconstrue the nuance of the OP. Because the general discussion around 'toxic masculinity' doesn't take into account the nuance. It simply frames these traits as eit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealWhy do you go to the most extremes examples to prove a point? That’s extremely disingenuous. She blatantly disregarded the entire nuance of the post in her first reply. You should have seen this coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealNot to mention "unwarranted advance" can often be defined retrospectively by the advancee if they deem the advancer unsuitable. Displaying "toxic masculinity" in this case is entirely at the whims of the woman being 'accosted'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | I believe the reason men are so resentful about the dating scene is because men have to deal with a shit ton of social coercion and pressure to be in a relationship like 10x that of womenYeah, I know. But based on context clues, the biggest one being his very poor writing, I surmised what he was probably talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | I believe the reason men are so resentful about the dating scene is because men have to deal with a shit ton of social coercion and pressure to be in a relationship like 10x that of womenI'm pretty sure he's talking about the pressures of the relationship it self. Rather than the pressure to be in a relationship. He's talking about how men have to prove themselves above and beyond what is actually required from being in a relationship, because that's the only way to get into one. (Mind you I'm only paraphrasing his text, not stating my own opinion.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:09 AM |
| 3 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.I mean, we can argue about what constitutes a "fight". Kids rough housing isn't necessarily something I'd consider a fight. But even then, I think most people I know didn't end up in 'fights' even in primary school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 7 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.Honestly out of the two of us, the one that's mad is very clearly yourself. Your projections are unbecoming. I believe the term you used was, 'stay mad or die mad'? Yeah. Good luck lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 06:02 PM |
| 8 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.I'm not putting anything in your mouth. I'm merely mirroring your own sentiments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:43 PM |
| 5 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.No idea of sexual chemistry. No instinct. No clue how to get a woman off Again, you straight up expect the man to have perfect knowledge from the moment you drop your panties and to perform all the work. You think those scores of men you've apparently slept with and were all amazing in bed were just born that way? They probably learned from being in bed with greater women than yourself. Women who actually value communication and reciprocating pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 5 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.The problem here is that you're putting all the responsibility of sexual encounters, squarely on the man. Somehow you want a man to know exactly what he's supposed to be doing, without ever being told or communicated to what to do. You claim that men that don't know what they're doing are "worthless" and that you shouldn't have to have sex with them. But somehow fail to realize that this means that if everyone followed your inane advice, no man would ever become an experienced lover. Just note y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:54 PM |
| 3 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.It’s like asking a man if he’s ever been in a physical fight in his life. Most will say yes. I don't think I can name a single man off the top of my head that I personally know, that has 100% guaranteed been in a fight in his life. Most men are actually civil... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?That is not what the topic of discussion is here. The topic is ostensibly about the perspective of society looking down at the 'loser'. The thread asks why society (or rather these online discussions) expects men to just implicitly understand social relations, and when they don't, they get shunned from said society. You didn't look at society negatively when you were at your lowest? Great, good for you. But you're projecting your own insecurities at this discussion and not actually adding to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 11:20 PM |
| -2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?It seems very clear to me that you're not actually considering any of the ideas being written down in this thread. Nor even the drivel you yourself are writing here. Pithy one liners that you don't actually believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 09:39 PM |
| -2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?This you? So you're telling me you earnestly believe humans require socializing, but at the same time don't realize that depriving those same humans of that socialisation will break them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | most blue pillers and blackpillers give lonely men a very grim view of dating kifeYour statement was that bluepillers are right about them being misogynists in 80% of cases. When in reality, misogyny has little to nothing to do with the success rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Because when this happens today, there's nothing to eat you. And then society tells you, while you're metaphorically being digested after being cast out of society, to just "get over it", "it's not a big deal to not have romantic success", "stop complaining". The men don't even get the decency of an early grave. They get told to shut up, slave away as a cog in the machine of societym while accepting that that same society considers you subhuman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Male VS Female Fitness Mega-ThreadNo cardio (because I'm not a masochist) The masochism of this routine just sets in later in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadtraining and getting stronger It's because the "training" portion is a 5 minute montage at the very start which doesn't really show the struggle. When Saitama mentions he does a 100 pushups, a 100 situps, 100 air squats and a 10 km run. That's one line of dialogue, and it doesn't really show the struggle and perseverance required to pull off a consistent training regiment. Deku of My Hero Academia cleans an entire junk heap and goes from a scrawny twig to ripped heart throb almost entirely off s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:21 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadsacrificing all of your happiness & sexual gratification I feel like you guys are missing the part where these dudes get off on this. At that point they're deriving happiness and/or sexual gratification from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Redpill seems to be exploding in popularityI'd argue this bullshit war of the sexes is just running cover for what should be a class war Been saying this for years. I mean, why else are highly financed publications talking about shit like "manspreading"? Why are most of these discussions about the most inane shit imaginable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBeing physically attracted to them is one thing, but most people eventually start finding themselves to have little in common with people that are much younger than themselves. Especially the mental mismatch of maturity. That and people generally being terrified of being labelled a pedophile to any extent means that men especially will completely refuse to acknowledge any attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 8 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe [12 year old] victim decided to keep the child as she did not want the “baby to be a victim too” Thereby assuring that the baby that should not have been will absolutely become a victim. Because I can see no situation where this plays out nicely for the baby. Why is an actual child being allowed to make this decision? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?I seriously doubt most men have been followed by (older) women because they rejected her Well obviously, since men are expected to pursue 99% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsSingle women who choose go be single usually spend their time posting about their hobbies, vacations, pets and kids I don't know how often it needs to be said in this sub but being single as a woman isn't remotely comparable to being single as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree with the idea that relationships for the sake of relationships are worthless. Why invest time into something that doesn't bring something positive into your life? But I don't agree with the assertion that women are somehow better at dealing with loneliness. I think they simply have better outlets to stave it off while being "single". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problem is you're drawing conclusions that you want, rather than actually critically analyzing the data you've been given. What does it mean that married women don't understand what's being talked about here? You take it as solid evidence that what the men here say is bullcrap with no basis in reality. But the more realistic interpretation is that they're simply out of touch with the lived reality of these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf they're getting the results they're after, eating whatever junk they prefer, then clearly, they're more right than you are on this matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?The problem for men lies in the prisoners dilemma. Like yeah, maybe we could decondition women from feeling like the world revolves around them if a majority of men stopped dancing around them like their farts don't smell. But that would require a massive revolution. It can't really come from a small gradual change, because that would necessitate a whole lot of selfless men willing to forgo sex/relationships in lieu of potential societal change. And unlike the prisoners dilemma, men can always s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 11:08 PM |
| 5 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?Step number one, get the hell out of the hellhole that is online dating discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?It's a chicken and the egg question. How can you negatively effect the mental state of an already down and lonely man with advice that just tells him what he already knows/thinks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 08:37 PM |
| 4 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?Except the lightbulb is a necessity that requires replacing. So they can get away with planned obsolescence. Even then, if the lightbulbs don't ever work, or work too little, then the consumer actually doesn't return. They'll find a manufacturer that makes a better product. Also, what rootsnyder was trying to say (I think, his writing isn't all that clear), is that redpill advice has to be at least somewhat effective. While yours implies that it isn't effective at all. Maybe redpill advice doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Parasocial Relationships Mega-ThreadParasocial* relationships kinda fascinate me. I don't know if saying that it's entirely one way is accurate. Because the lives of the celebrity are also fucked to a certain extent. Mainly in how performative their whole lives become. For instance Michael Reeves and LilyPichu. So much of their relationship is just broadcasted online through streams and vlogs and whathaveyou. And in every interaction you just have to wonder, how much of that was just done for the camera? Michael does something fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Parasocial Relationships Mega-ThreadHad this with League. I was a TSM fan for the longest time, largely because Dyrus joined. You learn to like the team as a whole, and then it becomes a bit of a ship of Theseus situation. One position gets replaced, but with a little bit of time you'll learn to like that addition to the team as well. At some point none of the original members were still on the roster, but I still liked most of the current roster because of the slow introduction of the change. But then I stopped watching the espor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 12:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe chump who ultimately learns This part may or may not happen. If we suppose that it's not just "toxicity" that makes the red pill, as decoy insists, then the red pill is simply learning the truth of how the world functions. A red piller may be an ex blue piller, but that's not necessary I think. Some people just learn early on or are more intuitive and pick up on how people and society think. I think one of the issues with "red pill" stuff is that a lot of it isn't actually 'enlightened' as t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 17 | Women really dislike autistic menHowever I do think autistic people can be appealing to other autistic people The problem here is that autistic women are still attractive to neurotypical men for the most part. So that just leaves autistic men to suffer in the dating market with even fewer prospects. Autistic men are less likely to initiate. This doesn't matter for autistic women because neurotypical men will still hit on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Women really dislike autistic menif you drop behavior You're still ignoring the part where OP says that he has zero luck when he tries to just be himself as opposed to the limited luck with the mask slipping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor one I never said I wouldn't feel the same way with the genders reversed here. But also, as I've said at least twice now, I agree with OOP's confliction. I don't think she 100% cutand dried deserves condemnation from us. Mostly because we don't know the full details and never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's not what I said at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah it aint that cut and dry. We simply don't know enough about her to fully pass judgement. I also agree with the comments that her victims don't owe her jackshit. Be it forgiveness or condemnation for catharsis. But if she truly has grown as a person, I don't think she should have her life ended or taken away necessarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s also not nearly as dangerous as you may be thinking You're just straight up laughably wrong on this front lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm with OP on this to be honest. People can deserve second chances. We don't know the specifics of how fucked up her past is, so I don't know if she's past redemption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadjust have fun shooting the shit The atmosphere in the daily thread is generally way more casual. People become way more entrenched in the formal threads where someone has taken a casual idea and forged it into a concise version of their own pills viewpoint. A casual comment on the daily thread might be "anyone kind of find tinder brings out the worst in women/men?" while a 'fully thought out and articulated post' might be a thesis on why the opposite gender is inherently sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 01:05 AM |
| 6 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menMaybe she is more prudish now. Maybe she "values" this guy more and is more careful. Except from the OOP's tone, it's implied that he's being kept in the doghouse as it relates to sex for the most part. She's unwilling to experiment much with him, she kept him waiting despite him clearly wanting more, and a faster progression of their relationship. Meanwhile the comments are acting like she's somehow "valuing" him by doing this? How the absolute fuck does that make sense? Even by the logic of "t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do you mean? A freshly cut lawn is its own reward! What else do you need? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 02:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI try to focus on the hopeful aspect lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 02:07 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUuuuhhhh... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 10 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsThe problem is that you're looking at this as if there is something called "objective beauty". A guy can find a super model to be unappealing while considering Sally from the grocery store to be a 9/10 bombshell. His buddy thinks he's insane and that Sally might count as a 5 on a good day. We're not judging people on the same scales here. And context matters as well. A guy might find an actress to be "unattractive", but if he saw that same woman on the street he'd be raving to his buddies that h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPossibly wrong. One of the ways people are told to take control of their eating habits is to chew your food more thoroughly. Some fat people will gullet down their meals causing them to eat more before they realize they're satiated. They also tend to eat food that's more heavily processed and therefore less tough to chew. I imagine there's ultimately low correlation between weight and jaw strength. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | The fact that in almost any discussion about dating there is an overriding implication that women are the prize and men are lucky to win them suggests women are superior to men and is symptomatic of the misandry and gynocentric sentiment that is rampant in western cultureSo you admit that red pill men see women as fully realized human beings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:32 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's the exact same dude pushing his gut out in one pic and sucking it in in the other... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreaddo you internationally feed your SO Sounds expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Jealousy drives much of the resentment displayed hereBut this is the standard state of affairs for women. They generally don't have to worry about approaching, but still somehow when men complain that dating is difficult and demoralizing, they're "not trying hard enough". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Jealousy drives much of the resentment displayed hereHe straight up acknowledges this in his comment but remarks that this is just something that irks him. That women can kind of just exist, and they'll more often than not have romantic/sexual success. Meanwhile women, especially in spaces like this sub, will still make claims that if men aren't getting laid or having romantic success, then they just "aren't trying hard enough". Well what constitutes as trying hard enough? If a woman showing up to the club and hoping that a guy will hit on her is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:09 PM |
| 5 | Jealousy drives much of the resentment displayed herethey didn't define their self worth by their ability to fuck strange women. Do you know this for a fact? I bet you they never brought it up because they feel like that would make them even more pathetic. I agree that it's sad that they would think like that, but we can't really help it. When you see your friends have sexual and/or romantic success while you have no luck whatsoever, you can't really help but start wondering what the fuck is wrong with you. To start feeling like "the omega" or wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Jealousy drives much of the resentment displayed hereI'm not jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 4 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.There’s bigger things to worry about and first world “dating issues” don’t compare. Then why the fuck are you on this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.R: Of course not, we merely want acknowledgement that it is a problem. Herein lies the issue though, I think it's obvious to any observer like myself that acknowledgement does not create any sort of satisfaction. This is not true. Receiving empathy can definitely create satisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingIt's not about whether that's the only way, but they don't know how the advent of edating has affected the dating sphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:26 AM |
| 1 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingthey actually know how to pull this shit off without an electronic medium But only in an environment where that electronic medium wasn't poisoning the well. I think they have valuable input to compare the modern sphere to, but I don't think they necessarily have the slightest idea about how the modern world truly functions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 05:18 PM |
| 5 | There is a core misunderstanding of what "average" is.People's preferences aren't that set in stone. Consider music, people generally need to learn to appreciate more chaotic, discordant or complex styles of music. That comes with exposure, where the brain learns to appreciate the patterns it didn't recognize before. Likewise, the more we look at "perfectly symmetrical people", the more the brain will start to adjust itself to consider that as the baseline of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingYou don't care what our personal preferences are, instead basing your "objective looks scale" on what some rich snobs define as beauty. Compare it to the Oscars. The Oscars have been wildly out of touch with what is considered entertaining or even just good film making for years now. It's a club of assholes that like to jerk each other off and claim that they know better than the "common folk". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 05:09 PM |
| 6 | There is a core misunderstanding of what "average" is.I agree that words can be fall prey to alternate interpretations, but you also have to consider that the "figurative" average also moves with the "literal" average. And one problem currently is that due to social media and the internet, our "figurative" average is artificially inflated due to people constantly being bombarded with images of only the most beautiful people day in and day out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?dating subreddits You mean reddit greentexts? Are people actually taking those at face value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:18 PM |
| 9 | It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-relatedBecause the idea that a man can create attraction with a woman who isn’t attracted is ludicrous Is at odds with: sending men out to get rejected 99 times for one phone number is brutal Your first scenario implies that RP is imploring men to badger women until they break, while the second implies that RP tells men to play it fast and loose. typically developing people will not face more than a dozen rejections in a lifetime This ignores the fact that in the real world, finding chances for romanti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Would you take a bcp for men if it was on the market ?mild (very mild) secundary effects like headaches, or mood swings. Which is honestly what women go through all the time with their own contraception. Actually women go through way worse. This ignores the fact that a) pharmaceutics have come a long way since birth control pills were first invented. The standards are a lot more strict. There's a chance that the pill wouldn't make it into market if it were invented today. B) Women don't take birth control pills exclusively for contraception. There … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Societal Expectations of DicksThey were already planning on just, you know, having sex with him. There shouldn't be anything "pity" about it. They apparently meshed well enough to get each other in bed. I feel like yeah, it's kind of an asshole move to not just enjoy a "mediocre" sexual experience that you were already planning on having, and instead deeply wounding the guy by very explicitly making it about the size of his pecker. Unless the guy had been explicitly lying and penis size was somehow a part of the allure of be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLiterature recommendation! One, None, and a Hundred Thousand. I think the message encapsulates this sub quite well. The main character, Moscarda, slowly drives himself mad after one day realizing that the image that he holds of himself in his head is not the same Moscarda that exists in everyone else's head. He becomes obsessed with trying to discover some objective truth about who he himself is. This comment got me thinking how a lot of people seem to be driving themselves half mad on this sub … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Was PPD helpful for you in any way?I wouldn't know. All the threads are gone before I get to them, and the few times they weren't, they were fairly tame discussions about incels rather than their messages. And even that's gone when I return to the thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.dominant vs. submissive. It's just porn addicts on Reddit who can't differentiate between porn and the real life You're not considering that a lot of shit we do is governed by the unconscious mind. While the vast majority of people might not discuss or think of the world in terms of subs or doms. That doesn't mean that they aren't subconsciously attracted or repulsed by these traits in their potential partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.This has nothing to do with opinions. Male or otherwise. There simply exists the fact, that there exist people, male AND female, that have periods in their day where they're TOO BUSY to reply to texts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 07:37 PM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.it's true It isn't. and these guys should move on as quickly as possible This is literally insane. But honestly, if you believe this, then holy shit, bullet dodged for that other person. You're probably the definition of clingy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.The OP said someone is never too busy to respond to a text If OP is arguing that someone is never too busy to respond to a text, which is what I have been arguing he did say, then he is simply wrong. This is not a fact. Let alone an ironclad one. And in fact, it's provable that the opposite is true. People are often too busy to respond to texts. And pretending that someone isn't interested or is somehow being rude by not responding to your texts the moment you send them one, is paranoid and path… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Was PPD helpful for you in any way?I mean obviously. That's what I'd expect to fall under 'banned incel content', but often I just see vague references to sexless men, as in discussions about the people who would say these things, getting deleted. And its weird to me that this is what 'no incel content' would curtail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 09:21 AM |
| 4 | Was PPD helpful for you in any way?All of it is a giant circlejerk pretty much because of moderation steering it into circlejerks despite having a rule against it. It's also kinda weird how adamant they are about enforcing the "no incel content" rule, considering how closely related it is to the subject matters being discussed here on the daily. I've even seen some comment threads disappear that only tangentially mentioned incel stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Was PPD helpful for you in any way?At first it was nice finding people with more moderate takes that aligned with my own, as well as the moderates on the "other side" that I don't necessarily agree with but put their opinions in more palatable terms than normally. With time I'm finding the moderates getting drowned out by the batshit crazies though. The first few weeks were fun and gave me a nice perspective on how little people in general seem to know about the world. It's nice knowing that you're not alone in not having everyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.Anyway, my point stands. You don't have experience prioritizing a mate and being prioritized yourself. This point is entirely besides the argument dude. Even if I'm not in the position of having experienced love (thanks for your repeated underhanded attempts at attacking my psyche, by the way) the fact remains that there exist people who do not have the luxury of "prioritizing love" to the extent pro-op advocates are describing. That is, the ultimatum of ever being busy being a null excuse. Desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.That's not what OP specified. While it's been fun listening to your repeated insults, I think I'm going to move on from this worthless conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.And I'm telling you that this is an extremely privileged way of thinking. Lower class jobs, most customer service jobs, often don't give you any time to so much as whip out your phone for hours at a time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 04:12 PM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.You're claiming that a person being busy is always a bullshit excuse, yet your holding firm that you're "not claiming that work is not a valid excuse"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 03:07 PM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.The thread title is literally "never too busy". And you're arguing that this still applies even during working hours. You're therefore arguing that a person should always, at every moment, be ready to answer your texts at a moments notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.What? You're projecting super hard there, buddy. What I'm actually saying is that working adults often simply don't have the literal time to be replying instantly to everything you send them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 09:33 AM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.That's literally what you were saying, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 09:29 AM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.And anyone with a shred of experience in demanding jobs knows that sometimes you don't get to your phone for hours at a time. You don't have the option to communicate with the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.We're not talking about a person leaving you on read for weeks on end. We're talking about not needing to reply to every single text the moment it appears on your screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | There are multiple seducer archetypes who succeed with different types of womenThe idealist in me agrees with you. But as kinhk is referring to, the real world doesn't really work that way. Especially once you get older, opportunities for love to organically come about are rare. If you find someone and you want to have the chance to love them in the first place, you'll have to put in work "seducing" them to get your foot in the door. Not to mention, seduction isn't just about pick up lines. It's about selling what your offering. The art of seduction is the art of getting s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.When you love someone you can accept that they don't need to hang on your every word. Expecting someone to respond to your texts the minute you send them isn't love. It's pathological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.What? You think it's better for their mental health to interpret any delay in her response as "she's not into me, I blew it, I said something stupid, she thinks I'm a loser" etc? I think it's far healthier for everyone involved to not obsess over the minute timings of everyone's response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 09:32 PM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign."The dinner rush just hit and there are 10 tables waiting for me to take their order." "Oh what the fuck ever bitch, if you didn't want to talk to me you could have just said so" "What? I really just can't be on my phone right now, the customers are LITERALLY breathing down my neck trying to get their orders in" "Fuck you bitch, I know when a female doesn't actually have interest in a man she pretends to be busy" This is what you two sound like. Absolute fucking twats. 'No one is ever that busy'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadKevin Hart without the fame isn't a professional comedian I mean sure, but at that point you're arguing "is a person that is fundamentally different from Kevin Hart going to have the same success?" Like, you gotta make the assumption that he'd at least have the charisma of a professional comedian or otherwise you're just comparing two completely different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen are hornier than men but contraceptives keep women down at baseline. CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 0 | It's less women are "more content being single" than men, and more women ARE "more okay choosing single over choosing a relationship that doesn’t net positive."Look lady, I'm not the one triggered here. You spent an entire comment thread trying to assert your preconceptions of me while I was making claims about the state of the average modern male singledom. I hope your "male youth" pet mentoring project goes well. I can really feel your compassion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 06:28 PM |
| 0 | It's less women are "more content being single" than men, and more women ARE "more okay choosing single over choosing a relationship that doesn’t net positive."Love this reply You do realize that they're saying the exact same thing I was saying, right? I wasn't making a "men are like this and therefore we can't get happiness outside of relationships and shouldn't strive to change" claim. I was making claims for why things are currently as they are. You also make these claims that my preconceptions are out of whack yet you seem to assume that I'm putting all of this shit on women. I think it's hilarious that you claim that I'm ignoring your direct quest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Does the whole "Ask the fisherman not the fish" thing limit useful discussion on this sub?Oh definitely. It should always be kept in mind. After all, the fish only ever sees the world from the same perspective as the fisherman when it's taken the bait. Or something lol. It's not a perfect metaphor. But it shouldn't be used to detract from discussion as much as it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 11:38 PM |
| 13 | It's less women are "more content being single" than men, and more women ARE "more okay choosing single over choosing a relationship that doesn’t net positive."Where was I putting it on women? You need to get your preconceptions in check man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 11:23 PM |
| 12 | It's less women are "more content being single" than men, and more women ARE "more okay choosing single over choosing a relationship that doesn’t net positive."What’s stopping you Years of social conditioning. Again, men are discouraged from showing emotion from a very early age. Expected to just "grow a pair" and learn to deal with their pain on their own. That means that not only are they fighting the instincts bred into them by society, they have to risk social stigma to even attempt to break away from it. It's only fairly recently that it's been properly recognized that there is a serious mental health crisis going on especially with men. And even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 11:14 PM |
| 21 | It's less women are "more content being single" than men, and more women ARE "more okay choosing single over choosing a relationship that doesn’t net positive."I don't "believe" it, it's a common observation in society. That men are generally expected to bottle up their emotions and just deal. Seems like women invest in building and maintaining community and rapport and thus have family and deep friendships they can rely on as well. This is all a matter of how you frame it. But yes. Women end up having a social network that provides emotional support. While men are just expected to ride out the storm. It feels rather dishonest to try to dress it as "wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 09:59 PM |
| 40 | It's less women are "more content being single" than men, and more women ARE "more okay choosing single over choosing a relationship that doesn’t net positive."It's not the same, being "single" to a man as it is to a woman. Women generally have more available sources of emotional support. Arguably will have easier access to casual sex to scratch whatever itch there exists. Easier access overall to physical and emotional affirmation. For a man to get any of these reliably, a relationship seems to be often the only way. Thus they'll settle for a "piss poor relationship" as you mention. Women will have men throwing affirmation their way whether they want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Women are shallower than menAh, so we're only generalizing about men. I get you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are shallower than menWhy do women go for ONS's when they all claim to hate them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Men are a niche since we don't buy that many things. Gaming rigs are like 90% fluff these days dude. I don't think it's true that gals buy more "stuff" than guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAttention seeking doesn't need to necessarily be about wanting attention from social media. Attention seeking might also just be about the cry for help. I still think it's kinda fucked to try to make the claim that it's for attention. It obviously isn't possible to concretely say that this is why women make more attempts, but conversely the fact that they do make more attempts doesn't necessarily mean they're more suicidal. There's a lot of nuance and a lot of factors at play. Are women attempti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadKind off topic but your comment reminded me of this oldie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah. Of the two articles I've seen pop up on r/all about this, one of them went out of its way to remind us to call them an incel. And then the comments are all talking about how he was radicalized by 4chan and 8chan while missing that reddit is pretty much just more of the same, just more segregated and compartmentalized. And if they do mention reddit as being a potential factor in their radicalisation, then they mention subs like pcm, calling them hate subs while unironically calling shit lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven if the actual statistics are way out of sorts. Let's say the actual number is 1%. Isn't it still kind of fucked and lacking in empathy to just assume that these guys are all just totally fucked up losers and that all they have to do is "become productive members of society" and that "sex will follow"? Just world fallacy and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:18 PM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"It's not about getting them laid, it's about encouraging them to be well adjusted members of society. Sex will follow." Do people actually believe that 30% of young men are unadjusted members of society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHoly shit that is the most obnoxious podcast I have ever listened to. Do you really need a soundboard of shitty stock sound effects to play over every single little thing you say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Being "fwb zoned" is much better than the commonly stated equivalent of being friend-zonedWe men just don't understand. Women never enjoy sex. So for them to have an easier access to it than the average male doesn't mean anything because they don't like it anyway. They just suffer through it because they don't have any other choice! If a woman suffers through being "fuck zoned" by a guy, it's always because she hopes deep down to convince him that she's worth committing to! And never because she enjoys physical intimacy or simply the pleasures of erotic stimulation! Women just don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Sex is actually a key milestone in life that helps guys see girls as more than sexual objectsHowever they probably don’t fully open up to you I think you're conflating correlation and causation here. It's more likely that they can't get sex because they're not capable of opening up i.e. they're introverted, shy, socially awkward, etc. And there's no guarantee that they're any more likely to open up post coitus than before. A great counterexample is Skippy on youtube. He's open to a fault. But that hasn't helped him get laid ever. And rather than make a separate comment to address this p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe current systems actually generally aren't in place to do anything about evil people. In fact, most systems toady are pretty vulnerable to evil people. Especially the big one, capitalism. It's kinda why the world is going to shit these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Blue pill" doesn't exist in the same manner that RP exists. 'Blue pill' is simply the antithesis to RP. People who aren't "woke". It's not a movement or anything, and most people don't identify as 'blue pill'. The few who do, mean they aren't red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionAgain, you're conflating your "single life litetm " with people experiencing abject loneliness. Then you act like the reason they're unhappy is because they're basing their self worth on female opinions rather than the simple fact that they're lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionAs someone said elsewhere in the thread, being single for men isn't the same as being single for women. Not only do men have a harder time getting casual sex, there is just less physical intimacy in general. And often little to no emotional intimacy. It's kind of odd having this opinion that being single for these men who have basically access to zero intimacy in their lives should be "fun", because you have/had an extremely abundant access to intimacy in your single days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Guys who do not have a stable life (income, social circle); should they even bother finding a long term romantic relationship?It's both, really. You can't really expect a person to want to join you in your life if all your shit is on the floor. But conversely, so many people take for granted how much easier it is to have your shit together if you've had someone to lean on from the start. Which is probably why OP talks about shit being harder for the "leftovers" in general. It's harder to get your shit in order because you're trying to function in a system that is easier to navigate in co-op. And it's harder to find som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Guys who do not have a stable life (income, social circle); should they even bother finding a long term romantic relationship?It is useful actually. A lot of complex topics would be inaccessible otherwise. 90% of discourse, both on the internet and in the real world, uses simplification to discuss more complex topics. Compartmentalisation is important so that we can actually try to wrap our, honestly rather limited, monkey brains around broader topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionBeing single is completely normal and honestly fun. Sure. To an extent I agree, but this however; However men here act like being single or not getting sex is an awful tragic thing It is a tragic thing. Because even if being single can be fun. Most people crave emotional and/or physical intimacy to some extent. Because the latter half of your sentence; because they do base their worth on what women think of them isn't the case. It's not about them basing their self worth on female attention. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues between men and women can be boiled down to demisexual trait frequency among womenI'm not talking completely cold here. But compared to a man's role in the dating dynamic, a woman can hold her cards a lot closer to the chest and will therefore seem, relative to a man, to have a lot lower libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Most of the issues between men and women can be boiled down to demisexual trait frequency among womenIt's not necessarily a conscious choice. But for one, society has been hammering into women for decades that women that enjoy and seek out sex are "sluts". So women generally want to avoid that label and will therefore downplay their sexual escapades. But again, you might not be "acting aloof" consciously, but rather just the nature of the dating game doesn't demand that you do anything more than that. Since the man is the one expected to pursue, you can just sit back and bide your time as the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:05 PM |
| 12 | Most of the issues between men and women can be boiled down to demisexual trait frequency among womenAs I was arguing in a different thread. Women can get away with claiming lower libido/demisexuality because of the dynamics in the dating world. When the man is expected to display his sexuality just to get his foot in the door, while the woman can just act aloof and decide based on the man's signals without sending any real signals of her own. Then of course the men are going to seem like their sexuality is higher and/or based more on simple attraction. OP speaks of lesbian's specifically as if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.You talk about data being obfuscated but you tend to just ignore that there is actual science on explaining why. But is the difference quantifiable? And is the difference as extreme as, especially this sub, insists? Again I don't understand why this matters Because again, for the difference in libido to be quantified, we'd have to observe the behaviours of each gender and how they display their sex drives. You mention "the science", but how was the effect of these chemicals on human libido measu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Again, if women had to be the ones to proposition for a chance at sexual gratification, then maybe things would be reversed. There's also the fact that in many of those cases a person doing that job can be considered an act of horniness. How many girls post nude selfies on reddit literally just to get their own rocks off? Or do you mean to tell me every single one of those girls is hoping to make it big on onlyfans after "advertising" on gonewild? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.But what does it matter how one is perceived Because how can you confidently assert that women have a lower libido when all we can base it off is behaviour? If men and women, hypothetically, were exactly as horny, but modern dating dynamics persisted, then men would still appear more horny. And so how can you make the assertion that women are quantifiably less horny than men when the data is this obfuscated? I already conceded that men almost definitely are more horny, way back in my first comme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:00 AM |
| 3 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Jesus Christ dude. The main point I'm discussing, is the perceived horniness of the genders. Nowhere was this about anyone being entitled to sex. But the fact of the matter is, men will appear hornier even when they aren't, simply because of how the onus is on them to make anything happen. A woman can play coy and have her sexual impulses taken care of while claiming to not actually really want sex. Sort of like you're doing. You claim that you "never had any desire for sex", but you've also men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Ok. But again, a similarly horny man, that "never felt very horny", will either be celibate or will have to be perceived as hornier than you to end up with the same perspective. Because since the burden is on him to pursue sex, he'll have to "tip his hand" for anything to happen. Up to which point he doesn't have any firm confirmation that he doesn't enjoy sex. Meanwhile you basically STUMBLED into an experience that CONCLUSIVELY determined for you that you don't like sex. So when these two simi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.It felt just like brushing teeth, it was just an action. But this is sort of my point. It's easy to say afterwards for you as a low libido person, that sex doesn't matter to you with the power of hindsight. A similarly low libido male will almost never have a chance to have sex as easily as "brushing one's teeth" to have that same perspective on sex. So that male will either have to "act" considerably hornier than he is just to obtain the same perspective you have, or experience the world with l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 10:23 PM |
| 3 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.But do you think women's libidos are as low as often portrayed on this sub? I'm not looking to "blame" anyone for this. I just find it odd that people consider it a foregone conclusion that women are just "not horny" compared to men when it's clear that it's based on incomparable datasets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Celibacy is not commendable or respected anymore, this is a problem.When people call guys on this thread virgins, they're not insulting virgins. They're saying something to hurt a man they see as sexiet against women and filled with hate at society Except they still use "virgin" as the insult. So the intent and opinion is clear. "Virgin" to them is something to be looked down upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Celibacy is not commendable or respected anymore, this is a problem.These castes were also expected to be celibate, while in reality they often weren't celibate. It was important for them to appear as such, for many reasons, but many of them would then have concubines in secret, use loop holes of many sorts, and so on. But don't quote me on this, IANA historian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 09:02 PM |
| 7 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.we have different libidos While this probably isn't wrong, as such, I do think the difference probably also gets blown way out of proportion. The thing is that women can seem like they have a lower libido simply because they don't have to be the ones to advertise their horniness. If a woman is horny she doesn't have to start propositioning a hundred different men hoping that one of them will eventually say yes. Because that burden is already on the men. Men are forced to do the mating dance and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadpeople don't publicize their flaws Exactly. How many politicians have been brought down because their "pure image" was tainted by someone digging up dirt from their past, often relating to sexual activity? I don't know what world this person is living in where politicians don't care about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadpoliticians You mean the demographic that exists largely of ultra conservative turds that take turns basing their policies on corporate sponsorships or their clear disdain for sexually liberal young people? Yeah those guys seem extreeeeemely well adjusted and totally not obsessed with making everyone suffer the same ultra stifling upbringing they had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeTo be fair, IncelExit was specifically created to be a space to counteract inceltears. It was meant as a more sympathetic space where incels could vent in a more constructive manner and people could give give advice in a more structured dialogue. I don't really follow that sub so I don't know how it is these days or how it evolved after its initial creation. But I remember it being a fairly sincere attempt at broaching the subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Is there ever a point when finding a sexual partner is easier for the average man than for the average woman?And most of the men are dead. As pointed out in a comment above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?"Dude, can you keep your dick in check? It's kind of revolting seeing it bouncing around while I'm trying to pound your sweet ass". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds like a very cheap knockoff of Avenged Sevenfold. And A7X already kinda skirts the line of frat bro pseudo-rock. And the video. Holy shit. That's some of the most forced macho bravado I have ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 10:57 AM |
| 7 | TrueRateMe's "objective" attractiveness rating scheme is easily debunkedA lot of the "objectively beautiful" people they list are in the sort of "uncanny valley" of beauty. Like yeah, they're beautiful. But not necessarily attractive imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel like "want to fuck my roommate" could have been entirely coincidental. But the fact that she used HIS room as a prop. And even went so far as to use his fucking bed shows that there was at least a little bit more to it than just a convenient marketing angle. If a marketable storyline was all there was to it, then she could have just used any door at all and implied it was her "roommate's". But she went out of her way to use him as a prop. Which, even if she doesn't feel anything towards h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI dno man, doesn't seem like rocket science that if you have a bit more body fat, then your margin for gains in any given day is more forgiving than if you're walking around cut all the time. Especially for us skinny folk who generally struggle to gain weight. If I go lazy for a couple days and don't eat properly, it'll cut less into gains if I have a bit of energy surplus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | PPD’s Top 5 favourite fallaciesSoon enough you'll realise that your lack of a sense of smell isn't a character trait. It isn't a sovereign sense of smell either Hey, maybe everyone actually likes the smell of dog crap but I'm just the only one brave enough to actually admit it! I mean it's fine, really, more steam for me. Standing here alone on the living room rug, basking in the fragrant cacophony of delight! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm honestly a lot more surprised at the people who manage to stay in this hellhole for more than a month or two. I've only been here about a month and I'm already sick of reading the same shit over and over. N-counts and over-generalisations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are women more likely to be victims of romance scammers?These women are generally older, not privy to online scams and possibly widowed or divorced in need of companionship. Easy targets. Three of the most prominent romance scam victims right now, the women that appear in The Tinder Swindler, are aged 26-35. As far as I know they were younger when the actual scams took place. I think the average person is just a lot worse at detecting scams than they would like to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How much backup men do you have?Let’s be honest this is entirely the fault of the men in the “friendzone" It's neither's fault in the scenario SiotRucks describes. The man might not pick up on the signals that he has no chance, and the woman might not be willing to give a firm 'no' for fear of ruining their friendship. But that doesn't mean either is doing it maliciously. I think the woman (or the man if the genders are reversed) in this case should be the one to put down a firm boundary. But I acknowledge that this can be ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe issue with the greentext is the fact that it's also possible to describe her as a pretty loyal "tradwife". She fell in love with a dude and never truly moved on? She "moved on" out of necessity but her heart always belonged to her one and only? But even beyond that, it's not like she decided consciously "I'm lying here dying and so I'm gonna think of that one fuckboy from 70 years ago instead of my husband". She's just going to bed after someone brought her out to the site of the Titanic wre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Fds is now gone, thoughts?Man the articles I saw on the front page of their new site are like, buzzfeed tier awful clickbait. The few times I skimmed through the FDS sub in the past I struggled to find any of the truly awful posts. But on that site they seem to already be concentrated on the front page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 07:01 PM |
| 0 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusWhy do you assume he's doing this for amusement rather than just bringing it up as a point of discussion? Not everyone on this sub is here to just "watch the dumpster fire". It stands to reason that if a doctor feels he has some insight to bring to the table, that he would do so, and that there might not be any malice involved. That is, if he even is a doctor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below.Regarding the "merits" of poly as it relates to having low energy to display love; Just as how a lover/partner can make up for your weak points (such as cooking if you're a bad cook, car maintenance if you don't know mechanics, etc), a third in a relationship can fill in the gaps for whatever you feel like you can't bring to the relationship. Be it sex, constant need for attention/affection, indulging in hobbies your partner has that you find uninteresting, listening to them vent about their cra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How seriously do you take the debate on PPD, and why? How seriously do you think people should take the debate here?I generally try to argue in good faith, because if the person on the other side is taking it seriously, then I consider it an asshole move to be a flippant jerk for no reason. But I fully expect a good majority of posters here to be shitposting to some degree. So I'm not personally super vested in any given argument. But if they are, then the result is basically the same because it's all just venting into the void anyway. I'm writing fewer and fewer serious replies though. I've only been skulkin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis. Because then you're actually fit, just clothes hide your potential, possibly even make you a bit more approachable. Meanwhile the other case probably just means you're chubby and clothes just happen to make you seem more fit than you actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI... Already did? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's rare for accounts to sit idle for an extended period of time, since people usually make an account because they want to comment. I don't think it's common for lurkers to make accounts in the first place. It is however a feature on this site to restrict what and where accounts can post based on age and activity. And buying "aged" accounts is pretty cheap, or so I've been told. I mostly find the story hard to swallow because it's hitting so hard on the whole "ugly men bad, attractive men good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have a hard time believing that story is true at all. A year old account that suddenly posts this rather flaming take on how all the ugly men she's dated are rude. No prior activity. Not a single comment. Also I noticed more attractive men usually were better in bed This honestly has to be a troll lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 09:29 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI disagree that these people are here for arguing. They ultimately just want a circlejerk echo chamber. Like sure, they probably want some dissent, but they value controlling the conversation and narrative more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn an ideal world I'd be able to change my height based on my mood, whether I'm feeling sub or dom at any given moment. But I'm pretty ok with my height. If I can pack on around 15 lbs and tone up a bit I'm golden. (currently 6'2" 170 lbs, 189cm 77kg) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problem with this analogy is that in your hypothetical scenario the person won't ever experience music. So why cry over spilt milk? It would make more sense if it's a person who maybe lost their hearing at some point when they were young, so they have a sense of what music is. But they won't ever stop talking about the cochlear implants that they wish they could get, and all the music that they're going to listen to once they do. To the point where it's negatively affecting their relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean I get where you're coming from. But it's hard to tell without the full context whether you're not just harping on the subject too much. Possibly even to the point of self sabotage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor the vast majority of strip-club customers, this isn't even remotely feasible. And on the flip side, there are people who end up becoming personal with e-girls and then escalating from there. It just usually entails becoming part of the community beyond just "showering her with singles". I obviously don't have numbers, but I think in both cases the chances of finding anything "real" are just as fleeting. And in both cases, the average person who would actually 'simp', is also the kind of pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThese priesthoods are also a position of power. And we all know what sort of people seek out positions of power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair. But it seems to be warranted in his case. Not that I keep up with the case or whatever, but I mean, 30+ allegations. One of them from a 15 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think they mean save as in how a lot of women fantasize about "saving" a bad boy from themselves. But Ron Jeremy? Don't you know he's been cancelled? You have your work cut out for you lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah. Don't have an issue with female twitch streamers. Don't have an issue with cam girls. But once you start pushing your cam girl business on a platform largely targeted at minors? Yeaaah, that gets sketchy real quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlike 'virgin' with the same so-called sexist notion surrounding sex A lot of people always used incel as a standin term for 'virgin'. The problem was that it isn't really socially acceptable to look down on someone for being a virgin. Calling them an incel however? To these people basically the same thing except now it's socially acceptable! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor me, I'd rather find out they're trans. But for some guys that might be an issue because as far as I know, trans women are infertile. So unless you're talking about a scenario where they're magically transformed, or where science has advanced to a point where they could get pregnant, then I don't think these two scenarios are comparable. A bi man in a heterosexual relationship can be the exact same thing as a straight man. A trans woman, unfortunately, cannot emulate everything a cis woman co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"If you out there sucking dick like, where we going from here?" So by the nature of this question, it precludes your man from also being a cheater. So "where we going from here" is a normal, committed, monogamous relationship? Just because a dude could suck a dick doesn't mean that it will have any bearing on your relationship unless you choose to include those elements. Man the amount of people who are saying they'd rather have a cheater than a person who "happens to also be attracted to men" i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Men and women’s looks decline at the same rate, men just idolize parts of mens appearance while also hyper-fixating on parts of woman’s appearanceMasculine features can get enhanced with age. Looking rugged probably isn't as much of a detriment for a man's appearance, as wrinkles and sagging skin are for women. Ultimately it's all subjective, and any specific man might age better or worse than any specific woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds like a shit company/boss anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadgetting stoned isn't You don't sound very fun and chill. ;( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel like this is a very male centric dilemma. A woman reads this and hears "You mean I actually get to cum during sex?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female PrivelegeWe weren't just talking about romantic intimacy though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female PrivelegeThis is just demonstrably false, dude. People divorce all the time because they come to realize that their relationship wasn't what they thought it was. And I wasn't saying that the red pill was for figuring that out, but rather that one of the main facets of why "red pill" exists as an ideology, is their paranoia of being the "beta bux". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female PrivelegeYou can't comprehend how people starved of one of the things most people consider necessary for balanced mental health could go a little off their rocker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female PrivelegeI mean at that point then it sounds like it isn't a question of "why is it so important for men", but rather, "why is it so important for neurotypicals". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female PrivelegeI mean if we knew that, then the red pill wouldn't exist, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female PrivelegeAs a counterpoint to your question; it's rather easy to dismiss something as 'unimportant' when you have a considerably easier access to it. And it's just a fact that men have a harder time getting access to any sort of intimacy. Be it romantic or platonic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female PrivelegeYou're right. Not every man in an LTR is a "Chad". But neither has every man that's in an LTR been "genuinely" chosen. Or at least, not according to the "BBAF" rhetoric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Men who can’t recognise or understand sarcasm are gonna have a rough time when approaching womenYeah, I agree honestly. Even a lot of the people that are arguing "down", and are relaying their "successful experiences", have such binary, simplistic world views that it's bordering on insanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:11 AM |
| 5 | Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female PrivelegeDoesn't fit his rants to be honest. Not a single mention of women's N counts or virginity. No talks of cuck culture. Considerably better written than any text he put out, a lot more structured. A fair bit more nuanced than anything he ever offered. Not that this text is flawless or anything, but I'd be amazed if coochies improved his prose this much in such a short amount of time. Edit to add: If coochies wasn't just a troll the entire time, then there's no way he'll be able to not bring up n-co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour personality and lifestyle says enough. If a woman goes out drinking every weekend, complaining about fuck boys on Twitter, posting inspirational quotes on Sunday, back out in the club the next week, she’s a high n woman. Have you considered that the guys that don't go for these women aren't really thinking about the N count, but rather just that their personalities regardless of N count is shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of you have Hero/Adventurer/Conqueror fantasies?and the prize/topic that they fight over (often a girl), and i believe this problem becomes pervasive since men are very often raised and inspired by it. I generally take issue with this common line of reasoning, that is; "men feel entitled to women because fiction told them they deserve them" The fact that this is often framed as "men think they're entitled to the princess" or whatever, and not just a loving partner, is even more egregious. It's not as if this isn't just how everyone thinks, re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 02:56 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Romantic relationships with women are exhausting.i’ve had 2 separate woman say that they were trying to get me angry so i’d rip their clothes off and manhandle them and that made me feel sad I feel like some people just didn't understand that the consent discussion isn't just directed at "the guys". This is why MeToo was a fractured movement rather than people just cracking down on sex offenders. Those women need a serious head check to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah, they're right, dude. That was an extremely transparent "humble"* brag, coming out of literally nowhere. You sound like Pierce. "Oh by the way, did you guys know I have an extremely large penis?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe second one is a mountain of muscle. Calling him fat is kind of laughable tbh. Not to say that you aren't allowed to find him unattractive. But I don't think "fat" is a term that's fair to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf I'm understanding this correctly, you can't choose just one boy because they share a sac. Choosing all three will pose a risk to her life. That's the "risk of complications" being high. Thus the dilemma, 2 boys, or 1 girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 5 | What are some apparently contradicting claims espoused by the same people, that you want to point out?that women don't get along with each other & stab each others backs more than men do, BUT also that women are less lonely than men because they enjoy better support networks & have better social groups than men and that women have intra-group preferences unlike men This isn't inherently a contradiction. You can have a "better" support net for women even if women constantly stab each other in the back. It just means their social groups are dynamic and more fluid. Probably just generally more dram… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 11:19 PM |
| 0 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?Listen, I have no claim in this particular argument, I simply wanted to point out to the guy why the other commenter might expect them to provide "hard data". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:49 PM |
| 50 | Men who can’t recognise or understand sarcasm are gonna have a rough time when approaching womenMen who lack social skills are gonna have a rough time when approaching women Hot take alert! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was with you until you started talking about social media addictions, and then you plunged off the deep end when you started comparing the average man to violent psychopaths. And even the "women perform better in school", while technically true, ignores the underlying causes for why that is. Society is largely starting to leave boys behind in the education system. This is a huge talking point and I don't think it's 'fair' to imply that this is somehow the guys' fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:12 AM |
| 3 | It's possible for you to become a high value manThe idea is to be more social with your hobbies, or to get "constructive" hobbies that will net you some social merit (crafting, creative work, fostering a talent, etc). Although I mostly agree. It seems that any time a man is struggling and wants to vent, the go to response is to just tell them to keep improving themselves and/or to "get a hobby". And the problem is more in how it's purveyed than with the advice itself. Like yeah, the only thing you realistically can do is just keep working on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?A woman who will come along, approve of them, tell them they are okay, make them feel better about themselves All of this falls under emotional support, and not even very substantial emotional support, but rather as you said, the basis of a romantic relationship. (The "solve all their problems" bit is clear hyperbole, so I'm omitting it). Yet cocobabe excludes these from being the traits of a lover by attributing them to a "mommy" figure, and claiming that a 'mommy' and a 'lover' are contradicto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?First of all, I never claimed to have "hard data from dating sites". No, but the first comment in this chain did claim that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 7 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?So you don't believe a lover can provide emotional support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Most dating problems can be solved by a looksmax or putting oneself out there more.Even with this, do you think the guy on the left would look better with tufts of hair on the sides of his head? Shaving one's head can be a better haircut. It doesn't mean you suddenly become an action star. But it can be an improvement. If you're unlucky and have a head shape that looks bad bald, then picking a hat and adopting it as your "signature style" is probably still better than just leaving your hair unkempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:06 PM |
| 18 | Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP.If you're considering your worldview from a black and white "red pill" view, then I'd argue you aren't actually red pilled. You're just listening to the most radical propaganda of the most vocal red pillers. It's ironic because a lot of red pillers claim to be "awoken to the truth" as per the origin of the term, but then don't ever stop to consider what nuance there possibly might be to any of these matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?I'd expect her to shave every once in a while. If we're just being couch potatoes and enjoying each others company, I don't think I'd care too much if her legs and armpits are hairy. But I personally shave and groom my hairs every once in a while, even despite being a single virgin. I just prefer it that way. I'd expect my female equivalent to have similar ideals. So honestly I don't think I'm being too unreasonable there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 3 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?As I said in that thread, you won't get a concrete idea of what a "genderswapped equivalent" is from asking the person themselves. Everyone thinks they look better and are worth more than the probably are. Is a tall woman's equivalent a tall man? It seems that a large portion of men prefer shorter women. So then, is the generally positive trait of being a tall male, comparable to the generally negative trait of being a tall female? What if you're a short woman who prefers short men? Is it then f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?Exactly. And what is the equivalent attractiveness of a tall woman? Is it a tall man, or is it a man that is just average height? Supposedly not a short man because apparently a tall woman is not as much of a deal breaker for men as being a short man is for women. But that's my point. It's all muddy. Trying to discern what the "attractiveness equivalent" of a tall woman depends entirely on who you're asking. For some a tall woman is 10 out of 10, they'll worship her like an Amazonian goddess. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?You're missing the point of my comment. What is your male equivalent? You seem to consider it as apparent that your male equivalent would be tall because you're tall, but fail to consider that this isn't necessarily what your "equivalent" might be based on. It's why in my response to the question I suffix that most people probably wouldn't agree on what their "looksmatch" actually is. For another example, would the equivalent of a vitriolic red piller be the trad-wife of his dreams, that shares … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?It depends on whether you consider tallness to be a pro or a con for a woman. Just as many women consider height an attractive feature, many men seem to favour short women. And in your case, seeing as you seem to value a "99th percentile" in height man very highly, I wouldn't be surprised if a male version of you were similarly concerned about a short girlfriend. It's kind of why this question can be kind of ambiguous. Is the equivalent of a skinny (not fit, but just thin) girl a skinny man or a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 03:37 PM |
| 13 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?As someone that isn't really bi enough to consider dating men. I still wouldn't hesitate to date a clone of myself. A female version of me might be my ideal partner. Or at least, for a while. As someone with zero experience I can't say whether that person would be compatible in the long run. One very obvious flaw with dating myself would be the fact that there's a very real possibility that we'd become complacent and stagnate. Whether that's ultimately a bad thing, I don't know. At the very leas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 03:14 AM |
| 2 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?Nothing I've said here has been anything more than conjecture. And not even indicative of my own positions on the subject. I consider basically all sociology studies to be shit. Even studies that 'confirm' my world view I take with a massive grain of salt. And yes, it should have been obvious what poll I was talking about. This is a conversation. You made a statement. I made a response in the context of that statement. Your logical skills simply aren't up to par if you hear "according to a 1500 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?I mean that's just the milking farms except on a bleaker scale. You're talking about abusing men as dispensable cannon fodder. In this case it would be state mandated for a portion of the population to have male children, only for them to be brought up as soldiers for the state. If society dips to a point where the only men being raised are out of necessity to fight wars. Will those men be a privileged class or slaves? But this also highlights the impossibility of trying to predict exactly what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?Again, according to the opinions of a mere 1500 participants in a poll. So excuse me while I scoff. It should be obvious what gallup poll I'm referring to when I say it in the context of "something that you are basing your opinion on". If you can't surmise that much from the context of this conversation, then you clearly lack the reasoning skills to be holding this debate. All your "citations" so far have been articles that have no proper studies attached to them or worse, shitty "studies" attac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?The article you linked that I was replying to. That was based on a gallup poll. Which you would have known if you had done more than a surface level reading of the "data". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?I don't think it would ever reach that extreme. Because then gender dynamics shift so radically that people's opinions on preferred gender will once again turn. Or people will find that men are basically worthless to society anyway and just kill 99% of us off once they've set up their milking farms. You know, which ever comes first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:16 PM |
| 5 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?According to a 1500 participant gallup poll... Your 'reality' is narrow and basically unfounded. And dude, this whole fucking thread is one giant "what if" question. I'm bringing reasoning for why your conclusion is unsubstantiated at best, which includes pointing out the flaws in the data that you're using. You're saying "these numbers are absolute, therefore I'm right". Maybe you should shift how you operate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:11 PM |
| -1 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?The discrepancy is also shrinking according to that data. That article also says that women are more likely to prefer girls over boy, and you can argue that women are getting more control over reproductive rights with time, so their say is going to be weighed higher. Not that it matters because as with almost all of these sociology studies, the sample size is fucking tiny, and the methods are probably mediocre at best. (Calling people to ask them about something they almost definitely have very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Acting/improv classes can help you get womenI'm gonna second this. OP is an idiot and is looking at acting/improv as some way to unironically turn into Barney Stinson. However, acting/improv classes are a great venue for improving your social skills. Just interacting with other people, learning to read social cues and so on. It can be kinda scary if you're socially anxious, but that's one of the main reasons I personally signed up to a local theatre guild. One of the best ways to get over your anxiety is to face it. Teach your brain that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've only been skulking the sub for like 3 weeks now. And even I feel like I keep seeing basically the exact same topics being posted constantly. A lot of the discussion feels like it's just stalling to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Women and their hangups around sexuality are solely responsible for their low-quality sex life.That would be my point honestly. If a dude chokes his dick so much that he can't get off with a woman. Then that's an issue that he should work on. But likewise, if a woman has been using a vibrator so much that she can't cum with a man. That's not necessarily on the man. I'm not saying that this double standard is prevalent. But it is in this comment chain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Women and their hangups around sexuality are solely responsible for their low-quality sex life.Meanwhile, if a dude is suffering from "death grip", that's his problem right? And his fault for not being able to get off with his partner, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed?I was once told that making a good eggs is "easy". Sure, it's easy to make a piece of rubber that taste like nothing. What I do is art. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the post about women being “paranoid” about assault, what are things that women do in this regard that upset you?Pretty much all people do this though. We're more lenient towards attractive people and more critical of ugly people. This isn't a woman thing, it's a human thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Everyone Peaks and Hits the Wall Even A-List CelebritiesNo like dude, objectively, she herself doesn't even look that bad in the photo. The photography is extremely unflattering, but she clearly doesn't look half bad if you just don't overexpose her with the flash and let her put on a half decent smile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that most TRP guys are ugly and bitter at being unable to pull models is a lie. Most TRP men are above average looking and sick of working for and often still struggling to pull girls less attractive than them.That mindset is straight-up immature. Anyone who is seriously "frustrated" that their totally arbirary bullshit self-rating of 7.5 points will land them a girl they rate a 7 (so that's a whopping 0.5 bullshit made-up points!) needs to get real. It doesn't matter, really, does it? To play devil's advocate here, you've omitted the key part of why he's frustrated by this. It's not that he'd be unhappy to be with a 6-7, but with the fact that he has to put in so much effort to even land someone of c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Everyone Peaks and Hits the Wall Even A-List CelebritiesI'd say it's more like 90% the photography. Extremely unflattering lighting and angle. As well as that inelegant pose indicative of someone taking a candid photo when you were mid sentence. You know the ones, where they somehow manage to capture you in the middle of saying some stupid word and your face looks like that one scene in the Simpsons where they pause Moe Szyslak's face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men?Guys are dumbasses, even the good ones Yeah, I feel like the co-worker's comments might have been a misguided attempt at being supportive. Trying to make her more confident in her body or something. But in that case I feel like it's even more important to establish to them that the comments made her feel uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?I also wasn't trying to say that feminism was named after toxic femininity - to my knowledge it was not Nor did I ever say you did. I was making a thought experiment about the idea 'what if' it had been. How would it have been received those hundred odd years ago if it had been named after women being somehow inherently 'toxic' or 'weak' or 'pathetic'? I was trying to explain why men might generally have been reluctant to accept the idea of 'toxic masculinity', and why they, as you said, "threw … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Virginity is a choicebeing poor is a choice Exactly! Just sell your kidneys! Having standards for what you would or wouldn't do for money means that you're choosing to stay poor! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceIt's a question of having the leadership skills to lead a woman to have sex with you And if that man is willing to fuck anything that moves but lacks this leadership skill? You've debunked your own post before you even pressed enter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:21 PM |
| 2 | This might be obvious, but I think many women who cohabit with a spouse or partner are just settling because they don't want to be alone, and are not much different from women who relied on men for housing/security before the women's liberation movementsI think even that is starting to become inadequate. And it's absurd that relationships are considered a net neutral in regards to financial stability. Really hope we can start implementing some proper improvements to the system so that future generations aren't just completely fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:09 PM |
| 3 | This might be obvious, but I think many women who cohabit with a spouse or partner are just settling because they don't want to be alone, and are not much different from women who relied on men for housing/security before the women's liberation movementsMost women don't have enough income to build a decent life for themselves when they grow old and unable to work This is true of most men as well. The main thing they solve in this regard by being in a relationship is splitting rent, which could also be achieved by having a room mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI was with you at the start, but you kind of go off the deep end at the end. I don't think "sex care" could ever fall under healthcare simply because sex work rarely addresses the underlying reasons for why sex can be considered important for mental health. A lot of guys feel even worse, mentally, after visiting prostitutes. Because it's a cold, emotionless transaction in most cases. Sure, it takes care of the physical urge. But it doesn't help with the need for emotional intimacy, which is gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?I've never heard a feminist argue that men are inherently rapists My comment doesn't make the claim that feminist argue this. But rather that poor choice of phrase leads them to make the implication that they do. Similar to how 'toxic masculinity' not only generates derision from the very people who the phrase is supposed to help, but also tells impressionable minds that masculinity is bad, which can cause them to come to harsh conclusions regarding their own gender. I feel like many men, perhap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:24 AM |
| 3 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.Well now I have to see this. You better not disappoint lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:04 AM |
| 6 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.a woman who is a devout Christian right winger Trump voter & her husband is an atheist Bernie loving lib Can you talk them into a reality television deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:42 AM |
| 41 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?Agreed. But to add: As hhhhhhhikkmvjhj or whatever said in a different comment here, the 'reasonable' guys aren't so much against the caution women show, as much as how it's displayed verbally in society. A lot of feminist fronts will take the very real lived reality of women and use it as a justification to make blanket statements about men and society, instead of making a more nuanced message about being careful, or the importance of consent. Again, women's lived experiences here are valid, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.I can watch porn, watch the dude and be like "holy damn, that dude is hot! This is some motivation to keep working out and keep working on my self!" I'm not thinking about the fact that he's fucking this random woman I don't know. I'm just thinking that these are two very hot individuals and my neurons are activating in that nice tingly way. If you're watching them and thinking the whole time through "oh man, he's so much better than me, I'm so pathetic, he's fucking this woman instead of me". T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.Then your "analysis" is flawed because it ignores the greater scope and context of society at large. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.Thanks? I will? Enjoy fantasizing about all the women you know you won't ever talk to, let alone fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.Your premise doesn't hold water. If porn conditions men into "cuck culture", then we'd have all these men bending over to satisfy women with no gain to themselves. Meanwhile, true porn addicts aren't having any relationships, meaningful or otherwise. They're completely checked out of the dating game and are basically the ultimate MGTOW'ers. How can you be a cuck if you're wholly unreliant on relationships? Again, your usage of the word just straight up doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.I would rather pay a couple hundred bucks to bang a hot woman, who knows what she's doing than waste hours of my time and energy entertaining some entitled, uncharismatic, vapid 7/10... Or, hear me out, you can open up an incognito window for free. Splooge one out in 10 minutes and then move on to do more productive things with your time. Like yeah, porn addiction is bad. If you're spending all day cooming then that's not good. Like all things you need to moderate yourself. But acting like just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.I always thought for men the best way to get off is fantasize about women you saw out and about that day that you wanted to approach but couldn't or didn't. This honestly sounds 'cuckier' than masturbating to actual cuck porn. At least in the context of this discussion. Getting off to these women that are just figments in your head, that you'll never even have a conversation with. At least in cuck porn there's the implication that you've attracted a mate before you got cucked. Just to be clear, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the root cause of almost all dating/gender relations problems and everything being discussed hereAlso a variable you have to factor in is ease of getting off and how the different genders get off. For a man to get laid he'll have to actively pursue in most cases. Whereas a woman can feign disinterest in sex all together but can still find a partner because it's expected that the men will come to her. And while it's less normalized for women to consume what the general society considers "porn", romance novels are and have always been a booming industry. Sex toys for men have a stigma while s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:39 PM |
| 3 | The logistics of dating as a man.Dude, they have 2 month progress photos where they've developed literal Chad features just from chewing gum! Ignore the fact that the photos are in completely different lighting and don't use the same angle... And the fact that you still can't see any fucking difference between before and after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:07 PM |
| 9 | Dating is easyDude, what? How the fuck are we supposed to know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | If a single guy is attractive and sociable, warm approaches are all he needs to get women.Barely attractive guys that cold approach will embarrass themselves So what? Part of growing as a person and putting yourself out there is learning to take and deal with rejection. even get in trouble in many places. This is also part of the learning experience, learning to behave appropriately under whatever given circumstance you're in. But generally if you're a well adjusted person, approaching a woman won't really get you in trouble unless you're approaching every woman you see, or if you do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou really need to get off reddit or at the very least, frequent more constructive communities. People for the most part haven't been telling you that finding a virgin partner is impossible, but rather that your obsession with it is weird and pathological. You won't find your virgin bride asking the same question over and over, spiralling around PPD. I'm genuinely hoping at this point that you're a very dedicated troll. But if you aren't, I wish you the best, but you need to leave this place man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDude, what the fuck. You can't hold out on me now. Your word is your bond. I want to see those thick, supple cheeks, glistening in that way only the men's room mirror can provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | It’s simp behavior for both men and women to take back a cheating spouseI mean that couple then falls under "working through the issues". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:06 AM |
| -1 | It’s simp behavior for both men and women to take back a cheating spousebeing able to forgive and forget doesn't make you a simp Very true. It all depends on perspective, really. If your self image is strong enough, you can look at their transgressions and see that their flaws don't define you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:17 PM |
| 8 | It’s simp behavior for both men and women to take back a cheating spouseYou are however painting people who disagree with your opinion as immature. Which ironically, isn't a very mature take. Not to mention, staying in a "failed" marriage, just because you don't want to uproot yours and your children's lives, can be a fairly immature decision. If you try to force a marriage that isn't working because one or both parties can no longer trust or rely on the other. Then there's a good chance that you're doing your children a disservice in the long run. As well as yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Gender Pay GapWomen's Wealth Gap, U.S. women own just $0.32 for every $1 a man owns. The problem with this number, similar to the wage gap statistic, is that the richest men skew this statistic like crazy. I don't know if you realize how much a billion is. But it's a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection50k is above average income in the US. And I wasn't directing this strictly at you. I just feel like a lot of people in this sub talk about dating as if income is the cornerstone of what matters in a partner. Just feels like this weird trend that I feel I'm seeing. Like yeah, I get wanting a financially stable partner, but I feel like a lot of talk here seems to lean towards wanting a financially stabler partner than themselves. I don't know, it's just a passing thought I've had while browsing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 01:27 AM |
| 5 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionI didn’t ignore it You're still ignoring my point about how your 'advice' is just repeated drivel that doesn't actually contribute to the conversation beyond what's been repeated a thousand times. And at the absolute very least, a waste of your own god damn time. So the question remains, why do you bother with wasting your time on people who, in your own words, are just lowly black pilled incels? Wanna know my theory? You do it to stroke your own ego. You're so high on a 'just world', that you'd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 4 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionAnd again, your "truth" is worthless in these discussions. Honestly, you seem to have the 'just world fallacy' stuck so far up your asshole that you can smell it. "If he were actually working on himself, he would be getting laid." You seem extremely desperate to rationalize why you should be allowed to just copy paste the same response to every single guy that's having issues. You ignored pretty much every single point I made in my first response and are still ignoring my very basic assertion th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionIf you're so eager to dismiss any discussion in favour of repeating the same line ad nauseum, why are you here? Even if he's a shitty incel that despises women to the very fibre of his core. Why do you expect that telling him for the umpteenth time to "take a shower" will have any effect? And once you realize that this is a futile effort on your part, why are you bothering to participate in such threads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionI mean ok, fair point. But if you're actually not playing the game then you wouldn't be revealing this anyway, or just straight up don't care that they know. So if you're talking about it and/or still getting hurt by it. I'd say you're still playing the game, just refusing to leave base while the crowd boos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionIf you're outright refusing to play this game you're not involuntarily celibate. You're volcel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionMindlessly regurgitating vague advice about "self improvement" doesn't help people. And I'm with OP on this that if all a person is going to contribute to a discussion is an attempt to ignore any focused chance for growth in favour of inane, worthless, dime-a-dozen self help bullshit. Then that person might as well have just skipped opening their mouth. Most guys have heard this a million times. If they haven't taken it to heart already, then telling them for the millionth and 1th time won't hel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionsub-50k/year I keep seeing people in this sub argue the economic facet. It's starting to feel like people only consider people in the upper middle class to be worthy of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:36 PM |
| 4 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionIt may be just a phrase, but the implication of the phrase remains the same. You're doing literally what OP is calling out as a reductionist mindset in the OP, ironically, right after mentioning that "nobody can reach 100% of their potential. Which, btw, I 100% agree with. But OP mentions that he is above average (let's just suppose that he's telling the truth), and nowhere does he state that he isn't working to improve himself. All he's saying in the OP is that telling guys to "just fix yoursel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?Yeah I probably should have clarified that I still agree with that part. But I just think that the advice in men's health journal is probably about prostate health rather than about sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingSorry to burst your bubble, but just because someone works with kids doesn't mean that they're good with kids. A whole lot of teachers are terrible with kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingI don't think they felt attacked, we're just earnestly curious about what behaviours brokers exhibit that are a red flag. You mentioned "Wolf of Wallstreet" was an exaggerated version of it, so I'm hazarding a guess that it has to do with questionable ethics and chauvinistic tendencies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:46 AM |
| 3 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?Men's health journal literally ADVISES to masturbate, if not having sex for about 2 weeks But this is probably tied to prostate health rather than to "keeping up your sex drive". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:34 PM |
| 3 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?I don't think death grip would affect your urge to seek out sex though. Just how satisfied you are with the sex itself once you have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Women, what are you insecure about?Honestly, as a dude, I don't find it off putting. I'd argue it's varies from guy to guy a lot. But a lot of "gamer bros" for instance I can imagine would love a girl friend that they can just "shoot the shit" with and shares their vocabulary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?So basically all you’ve done is confirm that TRP is common knowledge repackaged for clueless sheltered nerds with no real life experience This was literally the thesis of my comment. Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?That is the idea of the Red Pill, isn't it? Not that there's something new being invented, but rather an awakening to truths that are held to have always been there. I'd say that the idea of the Blue Pill, as it relates to your comment, is a result of modern media demonizing "guy talk", as well as putting forth "misinformed" (according to RP rhetoric) ideas about what women want. Any sort of talk about "female nature" is considered misogynistic by modern media. A lot of modern media claims that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?The idea of the "Red Pill" isn't some fundamentally new strategy that's been invented. But that the veil has been lifted on some fundamental truth about human, and more specifically female, nature. So in the broadest of terms, "common sense" can be considered "Red Pill". And I'd be remiss to not note that "common sense" isn't all that common at all. Whether RP theories are accurate at all, is another topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Is being bisexual as a male a *get out of jail free card*, for all women's bullshit?I don't think deadlock has a chip on their shoulder as much as you were just framing this badly in the first couple comments. You're comparing mild emotional abuse (withholding sex by making excuses), to serious physical and mental abuse (violent assault and death threats). Positing that they're comparable in an assertion that men just need to "grow some balls", while women are basically being left with no option because of the implication of serious bodily harm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.I started reading his "hobbies" paragraph and I was certain he was being facetious. Then I kept reading lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:50 PM |
| 12 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.It's funny because most women on this sub claim that women will need to get to know a man first before being able to develop feelings, but that no man is automatically "out" based on looks alone. Now a man is basically saying the same thing, and both men and women are replying "men are just attracted to all women and can't keep it in their pants". Is it so weird to consider that a man that grows close to a female friend, that clearly has things in common (they are friends after all), could devel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Men on here claim women have high standards, but according to them should be happy with absolute wrecksThey exist, probably in higher ratios than we expect. Because again, we don't notice the competent work. Pretending that this isn't something that exists is a disservice to women, pretending that this inflated "average" is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Men on here claim women have high standards, but according to them should be happy with absolute wrecksI've never seen ass surgery that looked normal. This is because you don't notice good plastic surgery. Plastic surgery is endemic in Hollywood. But you don't notice it because it's performed by the top doctors. So your opinion on plastic surgery is skewed by the noticeably bad cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 08:05 PM |
| 7 | CMV: you do not need to appeal to ALL women. You only need to appeal to ENOUGH women so that you are never involuntarily celibate.It's not about price. It's about what you're paying for. In most cases paying for an escort doesn't satisfy the emotional aspects of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:07 PM |
| 12 | Q4W: At what age did you lose your virginity?In another thread you mentioned you have a therapist. I suggest bringing up how you're spending a lot of time on threads such as this one trying to search for answer to assuage your very obvious anxiety. Ask them for suggestions on a more productive use of time. And as I told you in a different thread, you need to work on socialising with people. Find a hobby space of likeminded people and spend some time with them. Spending your time in RP spaces is only going to drive this anxiety further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:14 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: At what age did you lose your virginity?Dude. You need to stop. You're posting multiple times a day asking vaguely the same question. And I can tell you, you're not going to get a concrete answer to the question you're looking for on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | There is something wrong with RP mentality.good bot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:43 AM |
| 4 | Getting a hobby to attract women is terrible adviceSecond, how is travel a boring hobby? Travelling per se isn't boring. But "travelling" isn't a hobby on its own. You travel to facilitate other hobbies you might have. Be it exploring nature in different continents, discovering foreign culture, visiting conventions that you might not get to attend in your home country, going clubbing, or a plethora of other activities. I think what OP is lamenting is the "basic bitch" tinder profile (which does have a "basic bro" counterpart of course). They all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Is cuck culture prevalent in our society?Is the couple putting in concerted effort? You're missing the point of my original reply. That you're just making up hypotheticals about how a person who stays faithful is probably better at sex than a "slut". Truth is, you don't know. Maybe the slut puts in more effort, or maybe she just has more talent at fucking. Maybe she's rubbish at pleasing anyone including herself even after fucking a thousand dudes. It doesn't matter. Your claim is unsubstantiated and irrelevant, since sexual ability do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Is cuck culture prevalent in our society?Listen, if a person is getting to the 100+ body count, I think it's fairly safe to say they enjoy sex. If they enjoy sex and are having that much of it, there's a good chance that they're improving in one way or another. If only by learning what they like or dislike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Going to the gym won't really change muchGoing to the gym won't really change much It will make you feel better. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinityIt's not even a decade old. What are you on about mate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinityI didn't know who Anya Taylor-Joy was before I watched the Queen's Gambit. Are you telling me I can't find her attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Is cuck culture prevalent in our society?A false equivalency my man. And still conjecture. Did the couple just have sex until the man orgazmed each time? Did they spend 30 seconds flailing on each other before rolling over and going to sleep? Then that couple is not improving in bed. Even with the kick analogy. Did the man lazily kick a stump once a day, with little regard to his posture, power or stance? Then he's not actually practicing his kick. There has to be a concerted effort to improve, or any sort of experimentation to see wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Is cuck culture prevalent in our society?I think they stem from the fact that a lot of the current generations knowledge is one passed down from the older generations. As the other reply mentions, teen dramas are largely to blame for the current generations idea of what constitutes "normal" sexual activity. But those "modern" teen dramas are in large part based on the experiences of older generations. Both because the writers of "modern" media are from an older culture. But also because "old" media is still around and isn't entirely ir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Is cuck culture prevalent in our society?Well yeah dude. She's had sex 500 times compared to the others 100. That's basic math. But your premise, that a woman that has had sex with a single man 100 times, compared to another woman who has had sex with a hundred different men once, is still just conjecture. Did the couple just have plain old missionary sex for a year and a half? Then if even a single one of those 100 men that the promiscuous woman slept with suggests to try doggy style for instance, then she's instantly more "experience… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?Not a woman but I want you to consider how nebulous the answers are that you're going to get to this question. I don't do a headcount on how many people I find attractive in my day to day life. Let alone what percentage of the total people I've seen that day they comprise. I doubt most people do, male or female. Most people also won't notice a huge portion of the people around them. When walking through a crowd, do you scan each and every face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.I just want to point out that in the OP she literally calls cooking her hobby. You're not contradicting her claims by calling it as such. I did however go into at some depth, why I consider her ideas of what constitutes a "legitimate use of time" to be incredibly biased at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.I mean you literally just brought it back up as your main point of contention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.So this is actually, all about your anecdotal opinion on video games? Despite your constant claims to the contrary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.That's a false equivalency to put it mildly. I've actually extrapolated on why I consider your take on what makes a person "undriven" to be superficial at best. While I'm still uncertain on whether you've even fully read my initial comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.And what are you saying then, if not just stating the obvious? And why are you only targeting men with this post? Couldn't women use this wake up call as well if it applies to them? I don't disagree that people shouldn't expect to be able to live like a couch potato and still have a perfect dream partner to show up into their lives. But you have to realize how this post is getting perceived. It's not seen as a wake up call for the men that do this. It's seen as a slight against men for doing thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.but in this case, I’m ONLY talking about men specifically I did read the first paragraph of your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:38 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Yeah, and there's a lot of women who don't have a drive for life either. The problem with your post, is that you're putting the onus on men in total to meet up to the expectations of women in total. You're trying to imply that men are lazy while women aren't. You're trying to genderize the issue for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:17 PM |
| -1 | The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot.I find it ironic that you're calling this sub an inaccurate representation of the wider world, while replying to a comment chain that's using a single study of some 2000 people as basis for their claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.It's painfully transparent that you didn't read a word after the first line. Yes, cooking can be a hobby and even an artform. But does that mean that every person who claims to cook is making high culinary food in their spare time? Is every person that claims to have "cooking" as a hobby spending their time more valuably than a person that "only plays video games"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:01 PM |
| 6 | The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot.I agree. Social studies are generally hard to quantify concretely. The data can give us some idea of what's going on, but it's hard to use it to make any sort of irrefutable claims of truth. It's just the nature of the data acquisition. When it's based on the claims of fallible human beings, you can never be certain that it's accurate and to what extent. People lie. People have differing definitions of what's acceptable to lie about and how much. People have different definitions. When asked "ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:38 PM |
| 8 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.If you have all these hobbies and somehow can't find a man that also does, you are likely not attractive to them. Exactly the point I made in my response. Replying to a comment where someone asked her what she considers an "interest in politics", she claimed she goes to protests and rallies. Someone replied plenty of men also do that and she asks "where are those men, I'd love to date them 'lol'". All the while missing the obvious. They're at those rallies she claims to go to. If she's not mingl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:19 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.I have hobbies like cooking, going to the gym, I read and I love politics. Every single one of your hobbies can be construed as being unremarkable as well. Depending on how invested in them you are they could literally just be considered leisure activities or chores. Everyone needs to eat. Most mildly responsible people go to the "gym" to some extent. And I doubt you're spending 6+ hours at the gym every day. Reading can be, and is in most cases simply a leisure activity. Most people have an "in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then menFair point lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I mean I'm no expert dude. But I think if you're both share a religion that's probably a good start. If you're both of the opinion that sex should be saved till marriage then I don't think it'll be an issue to avoid physical contact for the most part. She'll hopefully understand, and probably reciprocate the sentiment. If you're genuine in your approach to building a relationship with this woman, and you both enjoy each other's company. Then minor incompatibilities in the bedroom should, as you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?Not particularly? It all depends on how you want to live your life. If you want to wait till marriage, and find a partner that has the same values as you, then that's great! But you'll generally want to look for people who have things in common with you outside of your virginal status as a priority. If you wait till marriage and then find out you don't click in the bedroom for one reason or another, and you don't have anything else in common than losing your virginities together, then you're on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I don't like the lock and key theory, because it ascribes value to you based purely on your virginity. But the idea is that it's considerably harder for women to go through their teens without losing their virginity. They only have to succumb to their desires, or succumb to social pressure once, and that's it, no more virginity. And since boys/men are expected to be the pursuers, chances are that women will get hit on and have 'ample' opportunity, even if they're extremely passive in their datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 02:43 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I just want to point out that "actual incels" is such a nebulous term that it can encompass a huge portion of men at this point. "Incel" as a term has lost all meaning. I'm for instance an "incel" but I'm not an "Incel", if you catch what I mean. I just don't get why there's this need to use this word to shame misogynists when virginity may, or may have nothing to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?Dude, stop having this hang up about your potential partners NEEDING to be a virgin. If you want to find a mate that will actually suit you. Go to social settings where you would like to meet someone. What the fuck do you care if the girl is a virgin if you have literally nothing else in common? And just from these comments I'd say your social skills are kind of lacking, I'd recommend working on just being more social before you start worrying about attracting virginal women. You don't have to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 02:23 PM |
| 26 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I find it kind of funny that you're using the word "promiscuous" to describe incels. I hope you realize the irony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then menSome of the people here? Absolutely. But most of the conversation I see happening here is between people that are at least trying to follow the "debate" portion of the subreddit and are trying to some extent understand each others viewpoints. Most of the people you're describing don't bother coming to these "neutral" zones except for brief excursions where they'll vent and just leave. Like most of the toxic people that hold such firm resolutions, I think they're more content hanging around in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketI feel like you're missing the point that in this case, the "quick sale" is being performed using the high value person. The low value person is the one getting a deal, but that doesn't mean that they've suddenly become "worth" more. That is, if you subscribe to ideas of people holding numerical worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketBut how are you going to determine which market you're shopping in at any given time? You claim they're different markets, but they're very clearly entangled in such a way that you can never say with absolute certainty what exactly you're bargaining for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketThat was their point? Just because you go and sell it on craigslist for a quick buck doesn't mean it's all of a sudden worth less on the dedicated site. But on that dedicated site finding a buyer might take more time and effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Almost every woman has a type of guy they'd be willing to make the first move on, so if you had to make the first move to get with your partner, odds are she finds a different type more attractive than youThe problem with your assertion is the fact that a vast majority of women prefer confidence and assertiveness. They value the fact that these men make the first move. A woman making the "first move" often takes the form of her simply making her existence known to the potential suitor. But if you then fail to make a move, then she will deem that a sign of weakness and at that point, why would she pursue you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:44 AM |
| 3 | How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then menYou mean like ethnic minorities have listened to for way longer to this day with greater negative impact in both systemic and personal ways? Why should men not face the consequences of their actions? Why should women larp and pretend to like the people who continue to hurt them? How do you live with the absurd cognitive dissonance that must be going on in your head on the daily? Oh wait, I forgot. You actually consider misandry a virtue. You acknowledge that this is harmful behaviour, but then r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society.just an above-average guy Right, Neil Patrick Harris is "just" an above average looking guy. Sure mate. they need a special occasion and can hardly ever wear that again This is a self imposed restriction by women. Men repeatedly mention how stupid it is to act like you can't wear the same clothes more than twice. And not even true I think. Especially when it relates to clubbing culture women tend to wear a lot of the same items ad nauseum. Seriously dudes, start wearing suits You're about a deca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society.I mean as it pertains to the OP, people then also need to stop pretending that personality has anything to do with a person's attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: At a certain age is it true that people stop trying to improve/become attractive to the opposite sex?Not saying it's right, but it does feel that way. When you constantly hear how women consider zero relationship experience by your late 20s a "red flag", you can't help but feel deterred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv"Sure, but the issue in my opinion stems more from people acting like this purveys fairness. That people get what's fair, proportional to what "they deserve". A lot of anti-incel rhetoric claims that people just need to shower and show a modicum of respect. And if they still don't get anything, then it's because they aren't trying hard enough. And if they still don't get anything after years of effort? Then it's probably because they don't deserve anything! Which of course ignores the myriad of f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:44 PM |
| 5 | The ManChild is brough up as an Insult, Articles are written for Women to avoid him. Yet those ManChildren are prevalent and evidently score relationships. What are their benefits?And even just being a gamer can earn the ire of these types. Even if the husbands are well off and financially stable, if their preferred hobby is spending time playing video games they're often described as "immature manchildren". gamers are the real oppressed minority Yeah, yeah. Ha ha. But I feel like I keep reading people lambasting men for being "man children" when what they really mean is "they aren't abandoning their hobbies and freedoms to pursue being a full time breadwinner". "Man chil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?Aight, you clearly aren't reading any of what I'm writing. Have a nice life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?That's not remotely what I said. What I'm saying is that our reptile brains ultimately run on chemicals that can't tell the difference between our higher thinking definition of success, and being a genetic dead end. I specifically said that breeding isn't the only metric for success. But our brains, for the most part, don't understand that on an emotional level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 08:33 PM |
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