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What do you mean? Sold out as booked on many shows? Or he's a sell out?
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:21 PM
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Models - Mark Manson
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:39 PM
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probably 4/10 I dislike this classification, but if you don't consider yourself as an attractive women, what steps can you achieve to become more attractive? Gym, makeup (try not to overdo it), sunbathing, wearing clothes that enhance your best features? Work on these. The other advice is: be social and be in social settings. It's much easier to meet people in social settings than in tinder, even though it's a bit skewed towards women. Final advice: don't be so subtle, many men may not understan…
/r/seduction15/07/26 05:05 PM
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I always try to ask something related to the context at hand. Just today I approached two girls going towards Santiago de Compostela (El camino) and asked what were they were doing, I've been seeing many people hiking, etc. However, sometimes I see a pretty girl and I can't think of anything to say, So I just go and say: "You caught my attention and so I came here to say hi!" Sadly, it never paid off, so I need to find another default opener..xD
/r/seduction17/05/26 08:41 PM
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You guys clearly do not have to work. I never understood how you can meet with multiple people (in those terms) during the week when you also have work, sports, time with friends and social events, etc..
/r/seduction09/02/26 10:10 AM
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She will lose interest over time, and will not regain it afterwards. Just bite the bullet and go for it. Even if you get rejected, it will be better than not having tried at all.
/r/seduction09/01/26 04:22 PM
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With confidence and the inner belief that you're not a creepy guy, and the girls would be delighted to get to know you better. It's all inner game.
/r/seduction27/05/25 09:52 AM
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Hey there. Just some feedback on what you've shared. I don’t have any erection issues when I’m with her, kissing hugging fingering ext. And she is very happy about iy but as soon as I pick up a condom, I start losing my erection. I'm sure this is performance anxiety. And picking a condom might be triggering it for you. The same thing happens even during masturbation when I try to get used to condom. Whenever I hold a condom, I lose firmness. I don't think you need to get used to a condom, especi…
/r/seduction12/05/25 10:45 AM
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I think I can help a lot here. Been through a phase where I was drinking and partying quite a lot and it was affecting my health and reasoning. Got increasingly harder to do my job (where I have to think quite a bit) even. I reached a point where I decided I would stop drinking altogether. However, I was still out gaming with my bros. At first it sucked. No social lubricant meant everything was harder. But with time and perseverance, I eventually got comfortable at social settings without a drop…
/r/seduction10/04/25 12:27 AM
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Yes, I agree. If they like you, you could say almost anything. Anyway, I was coming from the point of view that, if you're into a girl, and her friends know you do this, they could label you as creep and influence her away from you. My point is: be mysterious regarding your seduction, no need to say you train by approaching women. At least not until you find a wife.
/r/seduction03/03/25 02:47 PM
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Sure, but I'd argue most expect you to know how to talk to them, without going around approaching girls for "practice".
/r/seduction03/03/25 12:37 PM
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I think it's a fine line to tread. You definitely shouldn't be ashamed of cold approaching, I'd even go as far as you should be proud. But many women don't look too kindly into this kind of thing: they think it's creepy. No all though. The thing is, all women would love for a prince charming to randomly and organically meet her and seduce her while out and about on the street. However, these same women would find it creepy to know their prince charming has been rejected multiple times before app…
/r/seduction03/03/25 09:48 AM
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To answer this type of questions, I often like to present hard facts. How many ladies have been cold approached and later developed a romantic relationship with the guy? Tons, right? So, obviously, at least some ladies like it.
/r/seduction25/02/25 07:05 PM
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You should've owned it, with confidence. "Well, like a kid with their hands in the cooking jar, I just let curiosity got the better of me ;)" It's kinda flattering, no? Means you were thinking about her. Chicks dig that. But you really needed to play it off as harmless / confident. Like you said, it's been a few hours, don't stress so much. If it doesn't work out, lesson learned (I mean not being confident, not necessarily searching her).
/r/seduction17/02/25 09:58 PM
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The same sort of advice also comes from women. It's normal, when people didn't experienced the struggle, nor have the emotional intelligence to empathize with others. I've since ignored those type of comments whenever I struggle with something, and look for people who can give me genuine advice.
/r/seduction30/01/25 12:45 PM
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Two points: - 1, we should be aware of the social norm - 2, you should reframe your thinking regarding "taking risks". If you're a confident and self-assured guy, you shouldn't be as invested in the girls' opinions of you, as your own opinion of yourself. Hence, you should follow your ideals and beliefs, not compromising them depending on other people's opinions. In that case, you just say things you think should be said (within reason, see point 1). From this viewpoint, you're not risking anyth…
/r/seduction20/01/25 03:53 PM
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Communicate, say you like this or even just grunt a bit. Girls love knowing their man is having pleasure. Focus on her pleasure first, lots of foreplay, kissing, sensual words whispered into her ears: "You look so hot right now.."
/r/seduction11/01/25 12:54 AM
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Elegantly put!
/r/seduction10/01/25 05:02 PM
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Then work on those situations, don't focus so much on texting skills.
/r/seduction10/12/24 02:08 PM
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You don't build much of an emotional rapport through texting as you do in person. I'm terrible at texting as well, I've gone more than a day without replying. I always let them know, tho, and suggest we instead have a quick phone call to set up our date. From what I've experienced, girls respond positively to that. Besides, texting is hella boring. I'd much rather flirt in person, or through a phone call at least.
/r/seduction10/12/24 02:03 PM
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That's funny as hell, but it seems like a high risk high reward move.
/r/seduction10/12/24 10:18 AM
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Rather inconsequential dilemma, wouldn't you think? Why waste time dwelling on this when you could invest in something much more important and productive?
/r/seduction10/12/24 01:35 AM
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Learn spanish. Spanish people don't really speak that much english.
/r/seduction09/12/24 04:37 PM
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Like in every situation, context is important.
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:53 PM
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Damn, you do not think like most guys at all.
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:12 PM
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In these cases, you can try to flirt and see if she responds to it.
/r/seduction25/11/24 11:31 AM
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I don't think it's too much hassle to send a text. But I wouldn't expect much. If she really liked you, she would've stayed with you. She probably doesn't remember you.
/r/seduction08/11/24 02:53 PM
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Hey, thanks for the advice. I was there with my cousin, who I haven't seen in a while.
/r/seduction25/08/24 07:06 AM
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Well, you're wrong, my room is quite sunny.
/r/seduction24/08/24 07:24 PM
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How do you understand how women think if you never had to deal with them romantically?
/r/seduction15/07/24 08:20 AM
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who then suck the will to live out of you. Not the only thing they suck, bro. Jokes aside, you might want to take a look at yourself. Honestly almost every girl I've been with is just like that. If every girl you date is like so, then the common denominator is you.
/r/seduction11/07/24 12:59 PM
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I didn't really wanted to discuss the situation itself, only the phenomenon..
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:20 PM
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I see your point, yes. I don't think I lost this girl, but you make a fair point.
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:20 PM
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Not sure I buy that.. Plenty of fat girls that are pretty sad they can't get any.
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:18 PM
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That seems acurate
/r/seduction01/07/24 09:11 PM
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That's a possibility, yes. Maybe cause a bit of jealousy??
/r/seduction01/07/24 09:10 PM
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Her goal in that conversation was to get a sense of where you guys are at before she goes away for a while. Are you going to be seeing other women? Do you care if she sees other men? Where is this all going? That came before, tbh. She didn't quite enjoyed my reply. But I'm not sure it was a shit test, as I've said, we had already talked about those things. It seemed to me she was trying to retain some "pride". But that's not the point, anyways.
/r/seduction01/07/24 09:09 PM
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That's the whole point, I didn't buy it when she said she had options..
/r/seduction01/07/24 09:06 PM
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Hey. I get that, but to me it seems that it only serves to soothe the ego. What does it matter that I have other chicks that I can booty call, if when I'm alone I don't call neither of them because I don't like them? Seems like the same happens with tons of chicks that have told me similar things over the years. When push comes to shove, they don't want nothing to do with those guys, so are they really options?
/r/seduction01/07/24 09:05 PM
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Life takes too much time and is no guarantee... Being social and having friends is part of life.
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:31 AM
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Social game??
/r/seduction27/06/24 09:26 AM
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Yes, I agree with you. In truth, I made this post because I'm struggling right now with a specific aspect: I don't want to come across as the "older" guy that messes with young girls at the residence where I'm staying. So I'm not sure how to approach the situation. And you seem to be the only guy that even addressed my issue..
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:36 PM
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Don't really give a shit if the title annoys you. But I appreciate the sentiment. But it's genuinely what I feel, since I'm used to taking a more active part in these kind of iterations. What I did was going to the gym, taking care of my appearance, etc, and then also smile and be friendly. She did the rest.
/r/seduction05/06/24 08:50 PM
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Regarding being perceived as a creep?
/r/seduction30/05/24 07:11 AM
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To be fair, I think all this happened mostly due to her actions, I just spotted the cues and responded to them. Literally, this girl fell on my lap. I don't know how I can more explicit than this.
/r/seduction29/05/24 10:07 AM
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Overall, I'd say it does increase your prospects if you know the language of the country...this should be a no brainer. Other than that, I'd say most people would be pleased if your making an effort to learn the language, this includes girls. This should also be a no brainer. Regarding your particular case, spanish people overall don't know english. Younger people are more fluent, but it's not uncommon to find a spanish girl that doesn't speak english. So learning a bit of castellano is a good i…
/r/seduction13/05/24 09:36 PM
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I'm a computer scientist, so I know how to code as well. I also saw that video and some of the lines were super cringe, at least to me. But the video was entertaining. What I got from it was mostly point 1 and 3. It's cool to think you can go out, and mess with some girls in a carefree way. I've done it and its tons of fun. But I don't think I would be comfortable saying those things he says: he's just talking garbage to pick a girls curiosity, I'd prefer to be a bit more honest and true to myse…
/r/seduction26/03/24 02:13 PM
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You mean pay-to-win?
/r/seduction04/07/23 03:53 PM
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beast, congrats on the iteration. You made the night a little more fun for both of you.
/r/seduction21/06/23 07:56 AM
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Car racing, aren't you a wild one *weird emoji* I think for guys to succeed on tinder, they must know "how to talk to women". And not just the normal kind, but the tinder kind, where you grab her attention and tease her at the same time. They check hundreds of messages per day, you must be able to be different and unique. I'll give you an example. I matched with a girl with some gym selfies (good quality, not those shitty bathroom selfies). I sent the following: Not a single low quality gym bath…
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:20 PM
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Truth be told this friend cut-me-off abruptly a while back to hang out with some rich kids at school(university). I noticed his appearance was untidy and his breathe stung like smelling-salts. I wouldn't give him the chance. But maybe that's just me.
/r/seduction27/07/22 05:35 PM
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First impressions matter a lot. It's safe to say you flopped it. Just move on
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:01 PM
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She said that her and a lot of women she knows purposefully make a guy wait for replies and not express interest in his life, either so as not to appear too needy / clingy / annoying if she's super into the guy I always find it more rewarding and overall a better experience if the women I'm interested also shows her interest in my. My previous (casual) relationships evolved because we were both showing interest. Had they not showed interest early, I think I wouldn't pursue it further. I'm not go…
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:01 PM
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The way I view it, you just had poor boundaries in that specific situation. That's something I struggled with when I was younger, and it's still something I'm working on right now. But sometimes we have to be a bit "rude" or selfish. That guy is not your responsability, especially considering he ditched you for his rich friends. Your responsability is to increase your chances with the ladies at the venue. Clearly that guy lowers your chances, so you need to find a way to get him off your back. I…
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:43 AM
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Most people go to bars and nightclubs, and I'd say depending on the day and you, it can work pretty well. Another good alternative is to have social hobbies, like dance classes or even gym classes, public speaking courses, language courses, etc. Besides learning something useful and meeting people, you might also meet someone you find attractive. Finally, you can also day game. Just pick an appropriate place, and listen for IOI. It can be a park, waterfront walk.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:53 AM
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Why not post this on r/AskMen?
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:11 AM
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How is your post related to /r/seduction? From what I see in the rules (link below), this seems more like a rant / asking for advice, which is not allowed or should be posted elsewhere, respectively. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qcinum/updated_seddit_rules_posting_guidelines_102121/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:51 PM
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where the hell are the mods?
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:24 PM
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Nice FR. Glad to see a proper value post instead of all the stuff about OLD.
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:20 PM
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Sweet, quick and dirty guide, loved it. The stuff about looks is super true, it just makes everything easier. And by looks, I mean a sense of style, grooming, having a fit body, etc (which are things you can control) besides just your face.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:38 AM
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Your reasoning is flawed. OLD plataforms are not a good way for a men to convey his attractive traits to women, who mostly look for confidence, social status, a sense of security, humor, etc, besides looks. OLD reduces all to looks, more or less, you can still display confidence through photos, but in a reduced capacity. That's why it's more favourable to women, since men are mostly interested in looks. Besides that, by focusing on OLD, you're also limiting your pool to women that match you. Man…
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:57 PM
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Who tf does this? /u/StainedShip81 must be a god damn loser..
/r/seduction14/07/22 08:04 PM
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In many situations, women won't just go to bed with a guy they met, even if he has a really high level of game. I can think of some examples. Maybe her friend is visiting and staying in her room, and she wants to show her the local spots. Maybe she has an important event she won't miss latter in the evening. Maybe she's just tired from pulling a all nighter and just wants to go to bed and sleep. Also, many women, regardless of the situation, just won't go to bed with a guy they just met. So, wha…
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:43 PM
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I could see someone like that, yes. Obviously, the best way to get that level of volume is simply high status, e.g football players, actors, etc. If you mean just a "random guy" working a corporate job, I guess it takes a bit more effort, but I'd imagine there are guys out there who practices game like no other and are real life Barney Stinson's.
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:39 PM
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Try both, don't depend solely on tinder. Try approaching, try having interesting conversations with people in general.
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:51 PM
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I do not agree with this idea. Both men and women have some "power" when it comes to others, in the sense that they can show they are attractive to other people, have options, so they are higher value. However, this works both ways. Such as women can respond to other guys's DMs, you can also slide into other women DM's, it's the same thing. However, women may have several options, but not all of them can be viable or desirable. It's the same for guys, you have tons of options (approach every gir…
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:23 PM
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I'd say the best experience you can have is going out. However, some books really helped me in my journey. I'd say the most influencial was Models by Mark Manson. The book advocates for a more genuine and true to yourself approach rather than using gimmicks and tricks. Give it a try.
/r/seduction10/07/22 10:36 AM
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I wouldn't say out of reach. It becomes harder to grab her attention, but once you do so, and show you're more fun to be arround than those insta simps, she will be all over you again. Good luck brother!
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:56 PM
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Maybe it's just my friends that say that. But I've heard it many times..and now I'll say it as well.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:15 AM
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I'd say pretty high on that 1-10 scale. She had an amazing body, was too much into me and I really enjoyed the things she said.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:14 AM
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Always assumed that girls with so much followers online get this inflated ego and sense of entitlement that just make them insufferable. And tbh, most girls could do what they do. It's enough to show a bit of skin, dress provocatively and spend a shit ton of time until you get that perfect photo.
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:54 AM
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Then don't approach.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:28 AM
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Not an expert, by far. But I'd say something situational after you get some IOI. If you're in the chocolate aisle, something like "This chocolate is too good.", poiting at a particular brand you like. You can also ask for help "Do you know where the chocolate is?". But you have to follow up on that and make conversation, otherwise, the lady will help you and move on.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:37 AM
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You don't need a surgery to get taller to get busy with women. Despite what women say or show, they are primarily atracted by social status. Just focus on being social, making friends, have interesting hobbies, a strong personality and women will fall on your lap. Many women, specially tall women, don't care that much about height.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:17 PM
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I like curvy girls, as in they have curves. But nowadays curvy is just a "nice" word for those who are fat and can't own up to it, so I'd answer no. Although Ashley Graham is a quite attractive model, I wouldn't call her curvy. In my eyes, she is indeed a bit overweight (not judging or using the word pejoratively, just stating a fact).
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:19 AM
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Because nowadays, with social media, porn, video games, etc, people are becoming more isolated and antisocial. That didn't happen a few decades ago, or at least not that the extent it happens now. It's not about genetic or procreation, it's about seeking those things. Let me ask you an honest question. You have hobbies and go to the gym, from what I've gathered. What effort do you put towards meeting partners? Do you approach new people? Do you go to social events? Do your friends introduce you …
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:59 PM
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I read the original post, and found it useful at the time, so I saved it. So I naturally remembered.
/r/seduction16/11/21 10:09 AM
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This is a repost, the original is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/220cuv/ive_been_a_good_girl_a_slut_and_everything_in/ OP didn't even bothered with the formatting. Low effort.
/r/seduction15/11/21 03:40 PM
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Welcoming, and helping, exchange students during their time in my city.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:45 AM
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Oh yes, for sure. I met many ladies due to game, but also because I put in the effort to achieve things in the volunteering and people noticed. In fact, the first gal I was with only noticed me because of the work I was doing.
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:33 PM
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This right here. Russel is confident in his sexuality.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:55 PM
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Obviously there are places where the expectation for those kind of relationships are higher, so it's easier: night clubs, beach parties, concerts, etc. However, if you just met a girl irl, it could be a bit confusing, as you'd need to be asking her on a date, with may indicate the desire in a serious relationship. But I've found that to not be true in every case. I'd say just treat it as any other kind of relationship. The relationship could just develop from spending a lot of time together whil…
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:17 PM
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Read Models, by Mark Manson. It'll help you a lot.
/r/seduction09/01/20 04:29 PM
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Incredible book, the only one you need actually!
/r/seduction06/11/19 09:00 PM
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First off, let me just explain how you should be treating the situation, from my viewpoint. If you signed up to the dance team just to pick up women, then I'm afraid it won't work. Most women will sense that you are really not that interested in the dances. Now, if you enrolled because you are genuinely interested, then you will come to more classes, and you will meet those women again. So, asking straight away for their number in the first class makes them think you just came there to pick them…
/r/seduction17/09/19 03:08 PM
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Getting a number is easy, you can just straight up ask and most girls will give it to you. The thing is, why would you want a number of a girl who is not interested in you?
/r/seduction15/02/19 02:03 PM
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You shouldn't think about duration. Just talk to her, be yourself and eventually try to know her a bit better. During the interaction, if you are attracted to her and she seems attracted to you, then you should ask for her number with the focus on getting together some other time.
/r/seduction15/02/19 10:58 AM
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I can relate to what you are experiencing, because I never thought of myself as an attractive guy while I was young, one I know I am now. ​ At least you realize this is just a mental block of yours, and not the reality. I think what you really need is either to change your outlook on yourself, or some outside confirmation that you are an attractive guy and women are attracted to you. ​ As changing your perception of yourself might be hard, I would recommend you to try to leave your comfort zone …
/r/seduction02/10/18 08:11 AM
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I feel like this may be above my pay grade, but I hate seeing people feeling like shit, so I will try to help you the best way I can. I also have great respect for people who realize they are not happy and take efforts to change their situation. ​ Let me first just say that I hate the TRP, MGTOW and Incel philosophy. I feel like these men who turn to these philosophies only destroy themselves instead of finding the satisfaction they are craving. They are misled and guided to dark places, places …
/r/ExRedPill12/09/18 09:26 AM
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I have never been in you situation, but I can understand where you are coming from since I have met people in similar situations as yours. Let me just reassure you that with some willpower to change your present situation, you will find enormous fulfillment in life. ​ It seems your main fear/concern is about your social/love life. However, you also worry about your physical attractiveness, professional/academic life, financial life and basic skills everybody should know (you mentioned driving). …
/r/seduction12/09/18 09:06 AM
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I see... I thoroughly agree with you.
/r/seduction11/06/18 07:07 AM
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I think you did well, it was thoughtful of you. However, from a seduction point of view, countless other books would have made a better gift, models for once.
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:45 PM
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