NetherworldMuse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	any men regret their vasectomy? Had one when my kid was under 1, best thing I did. Couldn’t get hit with that “I want another kid” BS, and post-divorce it’s the best thing I ever did. 5/5⭐️highly recommend.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/25 11:14 AM
3	How long did it take you to get over a divorce? I was over it a year before she asked for the divorce. It ran its course. I changed my place into what I wanted the day she moved out and I felt freedom and relief during the separation. I could be me, do my own thing, have the neat house I wanted, and not be subject to “you really need to…” on a daily basis or all these bullshit ass “events” and shit with people I didn’t give the first fuck about. I started dating 6 months after the divorce. I was nervous at first but it was fine; a year later …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/24 11:39 PM
6	Wife wants me out of house by 11/1/24 “They want me to…” nobody should give a fuck with you stbx or their lawyer want. The only thing you should give a fuck about is what the judge says and what your lawyer advises you to do	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/24 12:13 AM
22	Ex sent me this tonight Just hit her with the 👍 or “ok” and move on; ignore her rant.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/24 12:41 AM
8	My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talk The insight was that you should have not sent her your writing if it was “begrudgingly”.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 11:19 AM
6	It never ends So, just ignore her. Once the ink dried on the divorce, what you do is no longer her concern and how she feels about what you do is no longer your concern. The best skill I ever learned is how to shrug, walk away, and give zero fucks simultaneously.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/24 11:19 PM
14	Moved out. Filed. She doesn’t want kids sleeping at my place She doesn’t make that decision, the court does. Imo, even a law school D student could get that bullshit slapped down with ease	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/24 11:55 PM
6	No more dates with girls that have no kids This has nothing to do with women who don’t have kids or not. This has to do with you dating shitty people who are unreasonable. Imo, Make it known that your kid comes first and that your kid is your primary responsibility the other person either accepts that or moves along. (Div dad with wonderful childless partner)	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/24 09:59 PM
7	Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce? God no. That’s a recipe for catastrophic disaster. Zero good things can come of that, IMO.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 12:51 PM
2	Where do these things fall in priority to you? 36m — 1. How they make me feel 2. Sexual willingness 3. Positive personality 4. Looks 5. Career 6. Money 7. Education 8. Homemaking skills 9. Femininity	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 12:43 AM
5	The things people say to single dads. I have a reputation for being a douche, so those assholes don’t come within 10 feet of me.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/23 07:00 PM
8	How to handle ex wife dating someone younger? You don’t, it’s not your business or your concern. Just get out there and do you own dating.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/23 03:30 PM
19	What did you gain through divorce? I didn’t lose anything. And honestly, the 50/50 split of kid time is a nice happy medium that gives me time to have a life. Child support I pay in my own volition the state was only mandating $70/m, so I choose to give $1200 as long as the money is only used on the kid Things I gained: - my own place decorated how I want - freedom to find partners i sexually align with - freedom to do what I want when I want - Im not “busy” with dumb shit on weekends anymore - I’m not having “talks” about some d…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/23 01:40 PM
1	Christmas Alone My exw takes the kid to grandmas in a different state which I’m not mad at and my partner visits their family, so it’s just me. I purposely don’t drink during the ~3 weeks because I don’t like the way the alcohol makes me feel during this time, but I also make the most out of it; I took 2 weeks off from work, am binging trash tv, going on long hikes, doing a museum crawl, , doing cooking projects and otherwise enjoying myself and taking my kind off it.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/23 03:40 AM
4	How did you manage your relationship with kids post divorce.? I got a lawyer — got 50/50 custody, equal parenting rights, and if she moves more than 20 miles she has to give me 3 months advanced notice so I can have an opportunity to dispute it with family court. I’m the bio dad, you can’t force me out of my kid’s life, and if you try, I’ll go through the courts to fight for my rights as a lm equal parent. I pick up my kid from school nearly everyday, and we split 50% of each week.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/23 09:35 PM
1	35 year marriage with long term dead bedroom, contemplating divorce, I have some questions for those who pulled the plug. Lol, downvoted for answering the questions… douchebags.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/23 12:30 PM
0	35 year marriage with long term dead bedroom, contemplating divorce, I have some questions for those who pulled the plug. We kept all our assets completely separate, only thing we had was a single investment account that we split in half. She made. Ore than me, I told her you leave my $$ alone I’ll leave yours alone (I have no desire for her money). I pay heavy child support by choice with the stipulation it’s only used for him, and have 50/50 custody of kid. Yes, she irritates me, but I don’t make that known for our kids sake. If we didn’t have a kid I would never have spoken to her again, there would be no need t…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/23 10:06 PM
8	Name one of the best things that has come from your divorce. My house is neat and orderly. It’s decorated the way I want. I’m not being complained at for “not listening”, being lazy, not doing X, forgetting to do Y. Don’t have to have to sit down for this fking talk, or that fking talk, or some other fking talk. I don’t have to think about “growing a family” when I made it clear I never want kids (got snipped after my first kid 😌), don’t have to think about buying a house or think about what is going to be won in a divorce. I am at peace, I can do what I …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 12:35 PM
1	Advice on sex after divorce Go on dating apps, make non-douchy profile with decent pics, meet people and Don’t talk bad about your ex when you meet someone. I went from divorced to dating in about 6 months once I took the first step to get on Bumble. Another good place to find a partner looking for similar whether it’s ONS, FWB, or LTR where you can be open about what you’re looking for is Reddit’s R4Rs for your area, tbh, ive been in an LTR with someone I met in an R4R and it is far more successful of a relationship emoti…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/23 05:37 PM