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Field ReportNeuroentropic_Force/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 02:23 PM
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Truthfully you should dress in a way that's authentic for you. Like be un-apologetically you. Don't worry about fitting in, or what other people think, just dress the way that brings you the most joy and comfort. People pick up on that and respect that, and even admire it "I wish I had the courage to dress like her" is something I'm sure plenty of ladies are thinking when they see you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 08:15 PM
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I think it's important to recognize first that there will always be someone more physically attractive, regardless of who we are, what gender, or what age. Secondly, it's important to recognize that men also deal with anxiety over physical attractiveness factors that they cannot control, such as height. And yet, the average and the short men of the world can do just fine, by excelling in more important areas. So it's okay to feel anxiety about this, but just understand we all do. We are all in t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 02:25 PM
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lol he probably doesn't know his likes are public. I had to tell a friend about that and he flipped out. I agree with the others, it's pretty weak that he can't own up to his own behavior and lies to placate you. It would be more addressable if he just owned it. Hypocrisy is extremely distasteful. Another component of this is whether or not he is just casually consuming erotic images as entertainment or if he is actively on the hunt to interact with other women. Huge difference there. In my expe…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 05:34 PM
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I wouldn't jump to that conclusion without more info. It's likely he has a VR headset for video games, and got the porn as a curiosity. I mean, c'mon, if you have a VR headset wouldn't you at least be curious? Now if he had like a dozen porn programs and was using them every day, that's a different story.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 08:01 PM
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This is a really interesting idea. As someone with a GF who's more of a perverted deviant than I am, she'd probably love this lol.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 05:07 PM
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As someone who has casually consumed VR Porn, I'd say it's not much reason to be alarmed unless he spends an inordinate amount of time with it or is otherwise generally addicted to pornography. In my experience both men and women can and do use porn while in a relationship. Pornography is not intended and cannot replace what a real-life flesh and blood partner provides. A partner has hugs, makes you breakfast, rubs your back, helps you with your insecurities, supports your endeavors, smiles when…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 05:06 PM
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People behave this way because they are either insecure or jealous, or both. All of these comments reflect on them and not you. I'd remember that, feel bad for them for being so miserable, and move on with life. Use that kinds of behavior as a way to see who is and who isn't worth your time.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 05:32 PM
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Congrats! That sounds super fun. You could have your BF ask his family if there is anything that you could bring, that they need for dinner. Otherwise wine is an easy go-to. Other specialty food items like chocolates work. Flowers would be appreciated as well. They probably won't let you help but will appreciate your offering. Showing a willingness to help is all you need to do, chances are they will have everything under control. Thanksgiving isn't much of a tradition heavy celebration. There w…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 05:06 AM
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RP knowledge is an understanding of male/female dynamics that is different that what is presented explicitly by society and media. How one uses that RP understanding is completely up to you. For men, taking the RP can include dealing with a lot of bitterness and anger regarding how they've been misled. Some men might use RP knowledge to try to get what they want out of women, be it casual sex, or whatever. The point is once you understand how the dynamic actually works, you are in a position of …
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 04:47 PM
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Men are looking for more fundamental things first and foremost. Things likes body type, physical fitness, hair color, facial structure, and temperament. All of these things are largely unchangeable (except fitness), and are subject to men's personal preferences. You can learn more about why this is if you look up research articles on scientifically measuring beauty and attraction. If you happen to meet these criteria for a given man, then he will likely find you attractive regardless of what you…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 05:43 AM
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Yeah I think both gender's struggle with this for similar and different reasons. Similar in that we are all human and all stuck in our own heads/perspectives. We default to having a high opinion of our own opinions and reflexively share them. This is not a good impulse. Men also have a hard time with the "I hear you" because they want to fix things, solve the problem, find the solution.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 12:01 AM
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One question you might want to ask is, why do you need this sort of feedback from him? What exactly about this is not meeting your needs? What exactly are your needs? And more importantly, why? IMO, emotional connected-ness, is a deeply shared bond, forged by mutual respect, love, and shared experiences of both joy and suffering. Not simply validating or mirroring your partners emotions. It's one thing if he is callous, as if he's suggesting your emotions aren't valid, but it's another if he jus…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 03:51 PM
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There's plenty of good advice and perspective in this thread already. I would just stress above all else that communication is key. I find its better not to play the guessing game, just ask. It doesn't have to be a big deal, just ask some questions. "Do you think my libido is too high?" "Are you annoyed when I initiate sex?" If it's a pattern of behavior, then you may have slightly mismatched libidos. Many men don't have high sex drives. If it's not a frequent issue, there are a million reasons …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 10:01 PM
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It sounds like he is trying to restart your relationship. It takes quite awhile to get over an LTR, especially if you are younger, at least a year I'd say. When you break up, if it was mutual or if it wasn't, you are focused on why the relationship isn't working. But when you've been apart for a few months, or awhile, it is easy to remember only the good times. This, paired with an oxytocin/emotional withdrawal of not having the physical comforts of the other person, can lead to an almost drug-s…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 03:13 PM
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There are always people with better things, better husbands, better jobs, better children, better lives. You can't live your life comparing yourself to the rest of the world. You can however work on improving yourself, your marriage, and play what cards you have well. Compare yourself with who you were yesterday, not with who someone else is today. Life is unpredictable. Those who have it well right now, may find tragedy soon or in the future. Those who are struggling now, may find fortune or cr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 01:04 AM
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You should be honest with your friends. If they really are your friends, then they will still love and accept you. If they don't. They were never really your friends. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. Be fully self-expressed and don't be afraid to live like you want to. PS. People don't need to understand you. Most of them barely understand themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 04:26 PM
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This is a very interesting breakdown of male psychology that I have not seen before. Thank you for sharing. In my experience forming friendships with men, these masks tend to act as both tools and crutches. The positive aspects of the masks allow men to integrate into society in expected ways, and there for reap the advantages of functioning well with others. The negative aspects come from when men's strength of character is weak and they rely on their mask for their identity rather than just a …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 01:43 PM
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I can't exactly help you with regards to regulating your emotional volatility beyond recommending seeing a therapist. For myself and many of my friends and family, talk therapy has been extremely helpful. (I'm not suggesting talk therapy will help with an obviously biological issue, but it can help you cope and minimize it's impact, and orient you towards achievable goals that will make life better) What matters most is that you are aware of your situation, what's in your way from getting what y…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 04:40 PM
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Fair enough! I like the Captain/First Mate analogy because it helps women who are new to RP ideas and possible hostile to them, understand that just because there are things like submission, obedience, deference, does not mean the man is a tyrant, or the woman a slave. The Captain/First Mate are a team, and they work together and work to support each other in unique ways.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 12:45 PM
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I think it is better to think of obedience in the context of the Captain and First Mate dynamic. The Captain sets the course, he calls the shots, and he leads by example. The Captain has the final say, but also carries the responsibility for the decision. A good and wise Captain will seek council with his First Mate, listen to her advice, her preferences, her point of view. He will then, once taking all relevant information into account, make his choice. A good First Mate will offer her council …
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 11:00 PM
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You sound like a good candidate for therapy. You are aware that you are experiencing anxious and depressive episodes surrounding this issue, and that it's negatively affecting your relationship with your boyfriend (who by all accounts seriously plans on marrying you). There might be a lot of value in talking to a clinical psychologist about your emotions, fears, and insecurities. These kinds of issues are usually rooted in some deeper issue that you may not be fully aware of, and that may contin…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 12:13 AM
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I think a large part of this is distrust. Young people especially, who lack the maturity or wisdom to engage responsibly in romantic relationships, often find themselves or their friends in manipulative and unhealthy situations. Young men might see women as competitors in a game, opponents with different objectives, rather than equals or comrades in relationship. (Which is true in some RP fashion, but not totally true) Another angle is that we all like to complain to each other about our romanti…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 01:18 PM
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I'd highly recommend you read Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote for Chaos. He has gotten a lot of press for resonating with young men, but his advice is deeply pragmatic and applies in everyone's lives.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 01:28 PM
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One thing to consider is that he is likely doing it because it is a fantasy of the forbidden. It is the fact that they are familiar that makes the fantasy work, not that these women are who they are as individuals. It's a perverse fantasy (a common one that I think many people engage in, thinking about friends, coworkers, etc). I don't think this behavior alone indicates any of the following: He doesn't love you or value your relationship. That he is or would cheat on you. That he likes these wo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 07:39 PM
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You did really well. You responded with gratitude. Something both partners should show for eachother when they provide for the needs of the other.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/18 03:53 AM
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You might also consider that it could be a good thing to learn to be comfortable in silence. Regardless of your relationship. You might ask yourself "Why don't I feel comfortable with silence? Do I feel some sort of anxiety or irritation in social silence? Where is that emotion coming from?" It could be a productive line of reasoning. I've found people who have to fill silences have a degree of insecurity and fear that is unaddressed. People who enjoy or at least don't mind silence are typically…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 06:28 PM
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In my experience silence can become problematic when either communication needs to happen, or silence appears as apathy. For example, my lovely parents, my Father is very quiet and conflict-averse, my Mother is a fiery passionate person. When my Mother get's angry or "excited" as we say in the family, she needs someone to push back, to get "excited" too. Someone else's proportionate emotional and verbal reaction confirms that they care. My Father ends up not reacting and this just pisses her off…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 03:30 PM
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Frame has meaning outside of the context of TRP and romantic/sexual relations. I recently read a post where the author characterized frame as one's viewpoint. "Frame is your point of view on the world. We all have one and we’re all competing." Essentially, if someone is telling you how it is. They are exerting their frame, their viewpoint on the world, and are asking you to conform to it. If you resist, you are testing their frame, they can either hold it, cede some of it to you, or concede it c…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 01:23 AM
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Great post, thanks for contributing to the community. A very straightforward piece. Frame is your point of view on the world. We all have one and we’re all competing. I think a lot of newcomers underestimate the importance of or fail to comprehend the nature of Frame. This is a good way to approach it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 03:30 PM
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I'm glad you like it! I think the reason men communicate this way, and why your method of sharing info with your man, works, is because there are always multiple solutions to the same problem. The more information that is available, the more possible solutions that can be discovered. Men share the puzzle pieces in the hopes someone else will find a solution he didn't see. And as any engineer or physicist will tell you, some solutions are better than others!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 11:11 PM
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What a great observation! I found myself nodding vigorously when reading your post. I like to think of it like men are puzzle solvers, as you said, they don't know how the pieces go together, or even if all the pieces go to this puzzle, but they just dump everything they have on the table and look at their friend saying "here, you have a go". Women I find are more angling for validation and approval as you have said, not that men are free of guilt for doing the same. They manage to conveniently …
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 08:48 PM
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You shouldn't give something up that makes you happy, that keeps you healthy, and keeps you in action in life. Yes, fewer men out of the massive pool of humans out there will be interested. However, in my humble opinion, you shouldn't compromise yourself to cater to people who probably won't appreciate you, or come to love you, for you. God I hate to sound that cliche, but I believe it applies here. What's the point in attracting people you probably wouldn't be compatible with anyways?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 08:07 PM
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One of the most quality posts I've read here in a while. It is noteworthy because it presents an alternate strategy to achieving sexual and relational success with red pill tools and a red pill understanding of relationships. Personally, this is how I do things right now. I'm a busy guy, I don't have time to spend on Tinder or chat people up. Working new plates is time consuming, and sometimes frustrating, and it hosts it's own array of risks. This strategy is not for anyone with any remaining b…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 06:53 PM
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Never underestimate the power of confidence. Women are human beings. Insecure, anxious, and responsibility-averse human beings. If you can gush confidence, IDGAF, and navigate conversation flawlessly with innate humor and genuine emotion, you can wrap people, not just women, around your finger with ease.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 04:07 PM
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I find that men are more concerned with the tangibles. He asks himself, can I provide my future wife the wedding she deserves? The home she deserves? The fiscal and emotional security she deserves? If the answers to this question are shaky at best, even if he is madly in love with her and can imagine no other partner, he is cautious and holds out for more certainty. It sounds like you have a rather intelligent and conscientious partner. Keep being a great support and strong advocate for him, and…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 01:53 PM
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Holding that initial stare communicates so much with so little. It says you are confident, you notice her, you don't care that you are staring, that she is worth being looked at. I can second your experience with having women become immediately receptive and interested after opening with this kind of encounter.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 12:52 AM
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I apologize, I didn't see the context of your comment. I'm inclined to agree with you that emotionless and objective leadership is very important. Both types of leadership strategies are very useful, just depending on context. Working on a small team? Use Strat A more than B. Managing 100 people? Use Strat B more than A.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 05:09 PM
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You clearly have little practical experience in a leadership role. And if you do, I doubt you excel at it. Being tactful and harnessing the nature of human psychology to your advantage is not weak or foolish.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 05:46 AM
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Thanks! And thank you for your excellent post and content. I see where you are coming from. From the woman's perspective she is appreciating her man. But from his perspective, he is receiving validation in the form of affection/appreciation. Men are seeking the validation principally. If a man wants affection/appreciation only, he can get a dog. (and many do)
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 05:23 AM
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What is it about sex that's so deeply ingrained within a man?...I don't think you can pinpoint any one element and say that this specific element of sexuality is a need so great, it lies at the core of his being. I think the key here is that men are conditioned both socially and by evolution to measure their own value through their sexual success. Women (in general) can get sex considerably more easily than men, they don't necessarily realize how important the validation from positive sexual con…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 04:59 AM
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Thanks for the quality post and your service to the community. It is good to remember not to overthink things, and that most of the game is passive. Holding frame is 90% of equation. I've had girls tell me they hate being around me because they run through underwear too quickly. I mean these girls are getting that wet just from normal non-sexual interactions, that just goes to show how arousing self-confidence and leadership qualities are to women, and I'm like a 6 or a 7.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 03:01 PM
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If you are snapping him daily and aren't already close friends, and he's not gay, he is definitely into you. Get face time with him, talk to him, learn what the chemistry between you two feels like and then escalate from there.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 02:41 AM
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He sounds like he might be an alcoholic. Get some books, do some reading, maybe he needs to go to AA. I'm an alcoholic myself and trust me when I say it is a disease that only gets worse and worse unattended. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/16 03:01 AM
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Yeah I've had a FWB situation for awhile and she told me recently that we are basically OLTR. I really can't tell the difference from my perspective, and if I'm her main guy then great, more sex and affection for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 01:54 PM
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This is great right here, good for you man. It gets easier with time and confidence. Just remind yourself that all those things you really wanted to do actually turn women off instantly and violently. However, though you have applied red pill ideas, you may have done it in a still blue pill way. As few others have mentioned, there is a fine line between mate guarding and boundaries. What I just read came across as an overreaction and mate guarding. Personally I think LTRs are a complete waste of…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 06:16 AM
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Loved the part where you got the guy she blew up at to mess with her again. Pure fucking gold. Well done sir.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:53 AM
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Of course, but generally speaking women tend to watch less. If nothing else, this is true of me. I would like to challenge the notion that women, in general watch less porn. I read an article earlier today (I can probably find it if you like) that women ages 20-25 either watch porn more frequently or are more likely to be a porn user than males the same age, I'm not sure which one it was, not necessarily both. I understand you are not a porn user. However the assumption that men are more sexual,…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 10:50 AM
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Something I haven't seen in this thread is that both genders enjoy porn. Plenty of women watch porn, fantasize, and masturbate for extended periods of time. They can also have healthy sex lives. The two are not mutually exclusive. I think he might try to hide it from you because he knows it bothers you. Having an open conversation with him about it will help you understand his point of view, and then maybe it won't bother you so much. In my experience porn is about fantasy, not reality. The sexu…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 07:54 PM
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Ever heard of the Illuminati? I'm not joking, all redpillers should read the original text that reports on the goals of the Illuminati. excerpt Proofs of a Conspiracy, by John Robison, [1798] (Keep in mind this is from over 200 years ago) "There is no way of influencing men so powerfully as by means of the women. These should therefore be our chief study; we should insinuate ourselves into their good opinion, give them hints of emancipation from the tyranny of public opinion, and of standing up …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 04:54 PM
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As terrifying as this is, it's not enforceable. It's an unfunny joke symptomatic of how diseased the state of affairs is in the UK, the brits have no balls, at least they are trying to make it illegal too. This would not and never will fly in the U.S. no matter how hard the feminazis scream. I doubt it will fly for long in the UK either.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 04:48 PM
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Haha, no. Lying to your partner is rarely advisable. Just urging caution on when and how something like this is discussed. It happened a long time ago, and if its not actively interfering with your relationship why bring it up? Why does she need to talk about it? Does he have a 'right' to know? No. But if she NEEDS to talk about it, then she should. If he brings it up then its at her discretion. If theres no real reason to bring it up, then why complicate things further? As with any human relati…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/15 08:51 PM
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This. Unless this experience is truly interfering with your ability to be intimate with him, or comfortable with him. There's no need to bring it up. If you do, he'll think it is a problem for you and want to 'fix' things. Bring it up when you think its appropriate, down the line, and not out of the blue.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 06:30 PM
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Here's the email address of the principal. Speak up. Let them know this isn't right. [email protected]
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:39 AM
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I've talked to numerous individuals both male and female about this specific topic, and it seems to be one within TRP community about which there are diverse opinions and varied theories. The reality is, there is no cookie cutter strategy, no simple plan for understanding sex and commitment. You have to learn to rely on your instincts. Personally, I believe sex in a committed relationship is about mutual respect and love. Therefor it logically follows that the level of sexual physicality in your…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 02:36 AM
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Honesty in communication is important. Tell him you feel bad for being moody, nagging, and jealous. Tell him it was a bad reaction to feeling like you were being ignored. Explain your needs clearly, asking to stay in touch once a day isn't necessarily asking too much. Tell him you will do your best to not use those behaviors, and if you do, ask him to help you by pointing it out when you do. Its a two-way street, get both your and your BF's needs out on the table and work together to meet them w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 10:16 PM
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Her hysterical laughter, frowning, and full on tears, all betray her inability to control her sadness. The grandmother comment was clearly hamstering - 'it's okay i'll look like this because my grandmother did' (who wants to look old anyways?) and deflection at best. imo
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:19 AM
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I'm inclined to agree with OP here. At the first age change, her surprise is clearly sincere, and quite quickly you can see the gears clicking into place in her head as she begins to cry and more closely examines her face. When confronted on her emotionality she deflects in an arguably insincere manner, her tone, her laughter, both help to cover up her real feelings. She is visibly very uncomfortable for the rest of the video, unable to control her sadness and frowning. She continues to try to l…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:16 AM
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Holy fuck, the hamster is real.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:21 AM
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This sounds fuckin awesome! And there should be a female equivalent! Why not just classy servants of both genders you hire to do whatever the fuck you want for 80 bucks an hour!? Hot chicks, studly men, both will strip and dance on command. This is how you get a real party started, hell I could hire a servant for each guest.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:45 PM
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This is an incredibly well written synopsis of many of the sociological factors and rationales involved in the troubles of modern feminism. It is a little harshly termed and a bit over the top, but not in bad taste, quite fairly so actually. Preach!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 08:26 PM
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It is because we sincerely believe non-STEM majors to be comparatively useless to humanity, sort of an earned and somewhat justified superiority complex. Where as looking down on STEM is just plain stupidity.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 01:00 PM
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I had an all male high school education and I can sincerely say it was the best thing I could have been through. In the all male environment there is no competition for females, so all the machismo, douchebaggery, and back stabbing, ie general high school drama, nearly ceases to exist. I felt that spending my high school years in this considerably less bullshit environment, while still having plenty of time to socialize with females at dances, and outside of school, made me much more resistant t…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 12:57 PM
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