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CMVNeutrinoParticle/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:39 AM
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That's like saying both McDonald's and their obese customers are equally at fault for putting a strain on the healthcare system. Unmarried women willingly letting in a jobless nobody inside them is, in fact, their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:21 PM
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Yes, it takes a man to genetically contribute in the transaction/creation of a baby, but it is entirely the woman's decision to get pregnant unmarried with a broke person. This is the same thing as how it takes another person at McDonald's to make the burger and transact with the customer, but ultimately the customer chooses whether or not to become obese by eating the slop. Don't wanna be fat? Don't overeat. Don't wanna be an alcoholic? Don't drink. Don't wanna be a broke single mom? Don't let …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:40 AM
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nice b8 i r8 8/8 But really though, that's like a fat person blaming McDonald's because they made the food that made them fat, or an alcoholic blaming bud light. Nobody forced you. You chose it. Same with dating. If you willingly give all your money away to some random person and now you're poor is it that person's fault? Same goes with giving away your body to some nobody and getting pregnant, also your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:53 AM
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Blaming yourself for your own bad decisions/actions, not others. Everyone should take full accountability for their decisions/actions When an unmarried woman has a child with a jobless man then goes on to blame all men and collect welfare, she's externalizing the blame of her poor decisions as 'all men are trash' and puts the financial burden of her poor decision onto the taxpayers. A version of this with accountability would be admitting the decision was all her's to make, it was her own poor d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:51 AM
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You keep saying "my content" like you wrote that AI slop yourself, go back to gooning or whatever else you do on your free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:08 AM
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Cope, stop posting AI slop if you don't wanna get called out. Also you post gonner cringe "18+" slop as well, seek help bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:13 AM
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Congrats on posting AI slop
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:56 PM
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Nice Em dashes — you used AI to make a crap post congrats. Your other posts are all the same slop, reported. On windows you need to hold Alt then press 0 + 1 + 5 + 1 on the numpad each time you write an Em dash, or on macOS it would be Option (⌥) + Shift (⇧) + Hyphen (-) there is no way in hell you do waste time doing that. None of your replies to other people use the Em dashes: https://www.reddit.com/user/Glass-Somewhere-1424/comments/ Ctrl + F for "—" yields no results But this post itself has…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:42 AM
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I'd argue the entire concept of marriage is generally a transactional contract, men bring resources and protection in exchange for sex and offspring. The unfair part IMO is being able to break the contract while still enjoying the some of the benefits (alimony and half the assets after divorce).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:17 AM
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Men and women face the same penalty, but women generally only marry men that significantly out-earn them which leads to divorce being a financial punishment mostly for the men. Men have no issue marrying a McDonald's or Starbucks cashier but the opposite scenario is generally not true (most women wouldn't marry a McDonald's cashier). The problem with how the current system is configured, a woman is generally incentivized to divorce since they get a golden parachute. What I suggest is making it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:06 AM
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I disagree with you regarding the "it's just money" considering it is essentially your time converted into money. The way I see it if someone steals $100 from me and I work minimum wage, it's like they stole a day of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:59 AM
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Your point is completely correct, however there are many (especially men) that no matter how hard they try they will never be generally attractive to the opposite sex. For example, what can a man that is 5 foot 5, balding, can't grow facial hair, weak chin/jawline, ever do to improve their looks apart from major reconstructive surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:17 PM
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Yes, that's one of the main reasons why I exercise 1 hour every day and diet (6 foot 4, 190lbs, 12%bf). Also people treat you better in general when you look good, I noticed it myself after losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:16 AM
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It depends on the gender, look at swiping data/statistics for dating apps. For a man to get many matches on dating apps they basically have to be a greek god.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:32 AM
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You just described the average experience of a 9.5/10 man on dating apps... AKA: The dream life for most men. Why would you ever stop? If 99% of women are after the top 10% of men, let them share lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:37 AM
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No, I am just assuming that every man wants a fertile looking woman (i.e: hourglass figure, youthful face, healthy hair, etc) since men (even in their late 50s) have a strong sex drive. Men aging from 30 to 50 isn't as drastic as women aging from 30 to 50 due to hormones disappearing during menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:12 PM
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The wall is nonsense? Can a 57 year old woman get pregnant and give birth? Look up this new thing called 'menopause' it's quite interesting... This image may help: https://themillsinstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/estrogen-testosterone.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:30 AM
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Runtime is O(nlogn)?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:29 AM
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You're actively presenting the other person with an ultimatum regarding their behavior, wouldn't that be somewhat considered setting a boundary for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:55 AM
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You can definitely set boundaries for others, and leave them if they don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:43 AM
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This just leads to women making the 'good guy' wait while fooling around with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:03 AM
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An anonymous survey with pictures of you at 20 vs 30 in the same pose would show 99% of people prefer how you looked at 20 assuming same weight and no surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:00 AM
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You can't negotiate attraction, and older women get less attractive especially with poor diet. Sorry, not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:12 AM
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kek
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:27 PM
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Dating without sex is like going to a restaurant that doesn't serve food.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:11 AM
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This is da wae
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:10 AM
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I'm talking average female height
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:42 PM
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What if 'your girl' is 250lbs and loses some weight? Still gonna try to fatten her up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:49 AM
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And usually the more you do something the better you are at it... So there's probably some correlation between looking good and being good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:35 PM
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Looks can compensate for a bad personality. Why do you think attractive gold digger women are able to be with rich men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:04 AM
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I don't know how old you are, but my gf is 27 and I'm 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:33 PM
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Not every rp man wants to be with multiple women. For example, I'd rather eat one high quality NY strip steak rather than all you can eat tofurky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:12 PM
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My gf of 3 years now already moved in two years ago, sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:43 PM
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I don't care if a woman has a job or not, I only care about how she looks, and how she behaves. If she can't afford to live on her own she can stay at her parent's house or mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:39 PM
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if a women has a job and is healthy Men don't care if a woman has a job or not, because they don't get access to their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:41 PM
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It's all ogre
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:52 AM
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If you go on vacations and dinner dates on a fast food worker salary you'll never own a home, retire, etc. Also don't forget living expenses are rising (rent, groceries, utilities, etc) and there's also income tax to deal with. If you go on 4 one-week vacations per year that average $1000 per person, you're gonna be paying $8000 per year. Even as someone that makes 6 figures I only go on one vacation per year since I'm trying to save up for a house to buy. Basically my point is, just because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:49 AM
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A 'lifestyle' of going on many vacations every year and expensive dinner dates requires you (as the provider male) to be rich. And yes, I agree a woman simply being young makes her valuable, as was always the case throughout human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:02 AM
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The supply of young woman is not proportionally limited as the supply of rich men. Maybe 1 in 100 men are rich, however around 30 in 100 women are young so it is not proportionally limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:19 PM
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Don't women want to date older, more mature, and financially successful men? As long as you keep yourself fit, even in your 40s you'll remain at a similar attractiveness. Men and women don't age the same, and women are valued for their youth and beauty, men aren't. Rich men will always be in short supply because to be rich you have to be doing financially better than the vast majority of people, and therefore by definition the vast majority of people can't be rich at the same time. As for young …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:48 PM
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"Men act as if there was an infinite supply of younger women to date soon or later." I mean... Technically correct? As long as people keep having kids, this remains true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:23 PM
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As a software engineer at AMD, can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:25 AM
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I never said it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:44 AM
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It does, but not to the extend that eggs decrease in quality. Look it up. Also a 60 year old man can still have kids easily, while a 60 year old woman can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:05 AM
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For men seriously considering starting a healthy family it is 100% something they strongly consider. Not to mention the fertility window closes relatively quickly for women, making it harder to get pregnant, increasing chances of miscarriage, and as stated earlier the higher chance of birth defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:24 AM
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Parental age as a determinant of birth defects plays a much larger role when the woman is older (35+ years old), not so much for the man. This makes sense since women do not produce eggs, they slowly run out and their quality degrades over time whereas men do not have such an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:21 AM
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Also, lower chance of birth defects with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:57 AM
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A man's ego may be a small factor, but the main thing is that men peak in SMV at 35 since they need to be 'financially stable' (like a high paying job, nice house, car, etc) and that takes many years to accomplish. Same goes for physique, most men are not naturally gifted with a 6 pack and muscles, they have to get that through hard work at the gym, which can take a decade. Also, women like to date up in terms of age, they just naturally prefer to date men that are older than 18 when they themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:54 AM
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Isn't the least filtered out height by women on dating apps 6 foot 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:59 PM
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Those aren't the only types of men in relationships, but those ARE the type of men on dating apps like Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:35 AM
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I disagree, women are generally much more shallow than men regardless of whether or not they know them already. Many women have a 'shopping list' of minimum requirements that only the top 10% of men can satisfy, and these minimum requirements don't change just because you know her for a while. It usually looks something like this: -Must be at least 6 feet tall -Must be muscular (6 pack is a bonus) -Must be facially attractive (strong jawline, hunter eyes, good facial hair, etc) -Must be at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:15 PM
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Or surgery (some men get $100K+ surgery that literally breaks their legs over and over just to get a couple more inches in height). I'd say the underlying issue men face when dating is that the bottom 80% of men are rated as 'below average' looking by women, which basically means most men are SOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:51 PM
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given many marriages succeed In the US around 50% of marriages end in divorce, with the average time to divorce being around 7 years. Many in the other half that don't divorce are not successful either since in many cases at least one of the partners is unhappy but are only staying together for financial reasons or until their kids go off to college. There's almost no marriage material women, so the red pill advice is to make the best of this situation. If the game is broken you can't fix it, mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:44 PM
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Lets say you have an older sibling, and your parents give the older sibling tons of money to buy a house and pay off their college debt, then you come of age and your parents are just like "sorry, we don't do that anymore." You'd feel something, no? That's a great analogy, however maybe you should add that they still have more than enough money to easily provide you with the same support they gave to the older sibling but choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:07 AM
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Ask a fish how to catch a fish, 10/10 best idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:48 AM
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Most people on tinder care about looks more than anything. Look up chadfishing on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:50 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/mbf6wg/oc_despite_being_far_more_selective_women_still/ That's proof enough^^^ Women reject men 95% of the time. Also, they must all be swiping on the same pool of the top 5% of men since they only match 36% of the time that they swipe right(1.8/5=0.36), whereas they should be matching 52% of the time if they were going for the average guy. Most women on Tinder are extremely picky when it comes to looks, ESPECIALLY when it comes to height. Try ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:15 AM
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The side effects women have from the BC pill can vary drastically, and there's many types. Some of them even get it prescribed for treating acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:30 PM
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They would probably lie about that too... And weight isn't a good measure since it could be higher if the woman is tall, fit (some muscles), or curvy. I wish there was a way to sort by bodyfat percentage instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:27 AM
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Pullups are insanely difficult... I've been training doing them every other day for 2 years. I can do 3 sets of 7 pullups with a 40 pound vest, but when I started off I couldn't even do one bodyweight pullup without resistance bands to assist me. Above average is never good enough for women when they see 7/10 guys as average lol... You gotta be top 20% minimum to even get a slight GENUINE interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:23 AM
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Not really, some of these guys expect to be respected as a partner sort of like how you don't continue using dating apps WHILE you're in a relationship you don't keep advertising your body sexually on social media without the partner's consent unless you want to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:00 AM
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That doesn't stop just because someone is in a relationship It doesn't stop, but it should. Posting food pictures on insta? Sure, whatever keep at it. Posting pics of your butt bent over in tight yoga pants as a 'workout' photo for horny simps to drool over you in the comments? Sure, if you are single or would now like to become single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:01 AM
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Yea, that was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:00 PM
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Yes???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:12 PM
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Look up 'chadfishing' on youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:21 PM
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I myself am 6 foot 4 and noticed that I got almost no matches for a few weeks until I updated my bio to include my height, and the matches that I did get prior to updating my bio all asked me how tall I am. Sure, in the 'real world' women may be less picky, but considering over 40% of relationships (at least in the USA) start from meeting online I feel like it is a very important place to look at. If you've got around 10 min to spare I really hope you watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:07 AM
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Look up swipe statistics for male vs. female and you'll see the truth: Women have a much narrower range of what they consider attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:49 AM
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You haven't been on dating apps it seems, it's the first requirement (the 6 feet part).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:31 AM
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OP is completely correct, women care about the man's virtues and the 'actual important stuff' such as: -6 feet -6 figures -6 pack -6 inches And other important virtues like strong jawline, full head of hair, hunter eyes, and inverted triangle. Both genders care about looks, it's delusional to think otherwise. If anything, women are much pickier considering they swipe right on less than 15% of men's dating profiles, while men swipe right on around 50% of women's dating profiles. Clearly something…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:15 PM
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It doesn't matter how much you micromanage your looksmaxxing, there are primary unchangeable parts that you either have or don't. For instance: -Your height. Many girls on dating apps refuse to match with men under 6 feet tall. I'm 6 foot 4 and whenever I removed my height from the bio I got basically no matches. -Your Face. What if you've got an asymmetrical face with a weak jaw/chin? -Your hair. What are you supposed to do if you have a receding hairline at 20? Studies show that women find any…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:58 PM
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'Just drink more water and get a haircut bro, instant 10/10' -Some reddit guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:11 PM
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Free speech > Hurt feelings. We got enough censorship already with every large sub having overzealous mods that ban you over the slightest thing, especially if it involves criticism of the mod's behavior on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:15 AM
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Men riding the P**** carousel? No. Maybe the top 1% of men, yea. The other 99% of men? No. The difference here is that any woman (even below average looking) can easily ride the C*** carousel if she so desires, but unless you're a gigachad you're not gonna have an easy time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:04 AM
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Damn, imagine if there was no child support or taxpayer support probably it'd be 2/5 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:43 PM
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Exactly. Abortions would be very popular right now if there was no mandatory child support. I personally believe that child support should only be mandatory for married couples, and only if the man signs the birth certificate taking on the role as the child's father.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:03 AM
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And what if she decides to divorce you somewhere down the line? That's what a prenup is for. Prenups are not bulletproof but they help. Or you can just have a ceremonial marriage without the actual paperwork. Marriage gives women a golden parachute every time because they are much less likely to marry a guy that is below their financial level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:21 PM
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I'm not rich (making 6 figures though) and I don't care how much money a girl makes for a long term relationship. In fact, my gf of 2 years makes around minimum wage and it doesn't bother me at all. Go read the study I linked earlier here: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/09/150916162912.htm Do you have anything to refute it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:39 AM
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Men don't realize this until that poor hot waitress embarrasses him in front of his friends. If she's a hot waitress I'm sure the man's friends won't care one bit. If anything, they'd be jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:20 AM
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Rich men who have their own money don’t care about a woman’s income. In studies, it has been demonstrated that it comes among the first criterias women have in mates, while, for men, it’s far from being as important. Income: People with higher incomes had stronger preferences for partners who are good looking -- and this was true for both men and women. Men with higher incomes showed stronger preferences for women with slender bodies. Wealthier women had stronger preferences for men who had a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:02 AM
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Where is your pic? Your argument is now invalid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:59 PM
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You are 100% completely wrong. Rich men marry girls of any class/employment status. A male CEO of a company has no issues marrying some cute barista making 1% what he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:57 PM
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Not to mention half the time those girls have kids from other men... And almost 50% of them will divorce when they get bored, taking half the guy's money. The current marriage system is broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:11 PM
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Just myself and two other guys I know personally that I met at my workplace's indoor gym. (To be fair, only the top 4 out of 6 of my 6 pack are clearly visible, the bottom 2 not so much). I think there's this really good website to give you an estimate: https://igotstandardsbro.com/ Putting in my personal values (25-30 years old, exclude married, 6 foot 4, exclude obese, 100k/year) you get '0.013%' lmao... That's 1 in 10 thousand men my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:08 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:22 AM
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Only if he's a tripod too apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:15 AM
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Yes (almost 2 years now). Yes, 100%. Any other questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:31 AM
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You mean faceonality and heightfidence? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:16 PM
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If you are mature enough to consent and are physically developed why would you restrict someone from that? What makes 21 the exact number to be arbitrarily chosen? Why not 25? Why not 30? The vast majority of 18 year olds are mature enough (mentally and physically) to consent, and the average American loses their virginity at the age of 17. Your viewpoint doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:14 PM
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My body count is one, and I'm still with her (around 2 years now, I'm 25).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:51 PM
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Be civil? Meanwhile people literally cursing and swearing at me on the same thread saying things like "incel/virgin/etc" and no warning, yet I can't say something like that? Edit: nvm seems like you nuked them out of existence lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:49 PM
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I don't mind if she's had sex, I mind if she's had hookups/one night stands/many partners/etc. Look at divorce rates of women with 10+ previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:45 PM
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The more partners a woman has had, the higher chance of divorce. What's wrong with wanting undamaged goods?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:55 PM
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Not looking for details, just more like how many guys she's been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:54 PM
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That's totally fine, I wouldn't want to be with someone that is so easily offended. I'd imagine it'd be like walking on eggshells every day, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:19 PM
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I don't want to 'be slutty' I'd pick a high quality woman over 100 low quality women any day. I'd rather be with an 8/10 rather than have a harem of 5's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:01 PM
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Nope, but it's definitely a red flag since she might be ashamed of her past. A girl that's a virgin or only had 1 previous partner won't hesitate as much as a village bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:10 PM
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So AF/BB is just in my imagination and doesn't exist? Also who is getting revenge on who in that comment? What makes it 'revenge' exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:09 PM
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I'm not judging a woman for having sex before, I'm judging if she makes me wait but didn't make others wait. I'd have no problem waiting for a woman that's made other's wait, and I'd for sure wait even longer for a girl that's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:05 PM
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So I'm terrible at having sex if I don't want to date a the village bike? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:03 PM
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Soy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:03 PM
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I'm saying the only way you can be 100% sure they aren't lying is if they say they had ZERO partners and have their hymen in tact. Willfully lying to someone to deceive them into a committed relationship isn't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:00 PM
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I'm an incel? So I guess I must have been imagining the past 2 years with my GF. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/E_IGl02XsAYhNaU?format=jpg&name=small ​ "Do you also believe that because she tried anal once with someone else and didn't like it, that she is now obligated to try anal with you too, even though she knows she doesn't like it?" Trying something once and not liking it is not the same as doing something over and over while enjoying it, then not doing it with you. I guess to make you underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:16 PM
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But I don’t see sex as a matter of reward or prize. That's the right view to have, and women that make some men wait while hooking up with others clearly see it as some sort of reward or prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:10 PM
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That comic conveys AF/BB perfectly. I don't date promiscuous women for many reasons, and you're right about one of them. Why would I want to be with a partner that either consciously or subconsciously thinks about and compares me to previous partners? Not just in terms of sex, but also looks/money/status/etc. Also look at divorce rates vs. previous number of sexual partners. It clearly is a negative if a girl has 10+ sexual partners before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:51 PM
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Too late for that, I don't care. Making me wait weeks or months for sex and letting all the previous guys get in your pants the same day? Not relationship material, period. Pretending to be a good girl won't magically turn you into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:42 PM
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You can be inconsistent about waiting slightly more/less for different guys you're dating, that isn't the same as one night stands and hookups. I'm saying I wouldn't date a girl that has done stuff like that and expects me to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:39 PM
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For a relationship I expect at least a couple dates (3+ minimum). Sleeping with attractive women who I don't know? Sure. Getting into a relationship with them? Nope (unless she was a virgin or something). Being attractive enough to have casual sex as a man means you're 8/10 or higher, but for women even a 3/10 girl can get casual sex with even less effort than an 8/10 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:25 PM
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Can you please explain what's stupid about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:03 PM
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Women are gatekeepers to sex and men are gatekeepers to relationships. Only high SMV men are given the chance to have flings and hookups, so they can't be low value by definition. A 3/10 girl can sleep with 100 men in a week if she wishes to. Do I believe that promiscuous men deserve relationships? Sure, why not? It's their choice. Just because I wouldn't get into a relationship with a promiscuous girl, that doesn't mean she can't lock down some betabux loser to wife her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:58 PM
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Never said she's obligated to, I'm saying if she didn't make them wait but makes me wait it's a deal breaker. Also sleeping with a guy she doesn't even know is low value behavior, I can't take a girl like that seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:46 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:42 PM
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Yes, I judge a woman's sexual history as an indicator of her value. I'm not gonna date a girl with no self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:41 PM
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You can ask, and their refusal to talk about their past is all the information I need. I usually ask on the second/third dates as tactfully as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:37 PM
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Why would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:33 PM
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Yes, I would treat a woman based on how she let other men treat her in the past. I'm not gonna wife up some promiscuous party girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:26 PM
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That works
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:42 AM
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Pretending to be a high value woman with self control and won't make you one. Edit: Reminded me of this meme I saw a while back: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EV_mjHhX0AETfl_?format=png&name=large
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:42 AM
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I'd say that I am, yes. I'm 25 years old, 193cm, 80kg, 10% body fat (I workout daily) and facially attractive. All it takes is flexing my abs and biceps a little and my GF gets in the mood instantly. Also, I make 6 figures as a software dev for the past 3 years at a F500 company. I'd put my current SMV at around 9/10. If I found out that my GF slept around and had one night stands in the past I'd leave her instantly. Why would I have to wait & pay for 5+ dates, talk/text for weeks, and get emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:21 AM
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Unless she's a virgin, you wouldn't. However, starting a relationship with a foundation of lies isn't the best idea no is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:03 AM
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No, it's about consistency. If she made other's wait, I got no problem waiting too. If she's had one night stands with chads at parties while drunk, I'm not waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:42 AM
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This should be the top comment^^^ It's about consistency. Imagine a girl tells you this: "Normally I sleep with guys on the first date, but for you I'll make an exception and wait." I'd leave instantly in a scenario like that, it means she sees you as a betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:47 PM
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As a mod of /r/REEEEEE I think they should go there instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:03 AM
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No, that's not a red flag that's a strobing red warning beacon with hurricane sirens going off. I wouldn't want a potential partner to know that I make 6 figures until I'm seriously dating. I want a potential partner to like me for who I am and be attracted to how I look, not my wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:14 AM
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/r/FIRE
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:32 AM
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Considering that 80% of divorces are initiated by women, I'd say yes, that lines up perfectly. Also, we have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors (I.E: sharing chads).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:23 AM
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The 9:1 ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:05 AM
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I honestly think B is basically the same as D, age is the largest factor in attraction IMO. Basically guaranteed an 18-35 year old woman looks better than a 50+ year old woman. I'd order the factors from most to least important like this: A - It is a statistical fact that most dating apps are around 9:1 ratio men to women C - On these dating apps, unless you're chad you get nothing D - All men are generally attracted to women that are in their early 20s B - Basically the same as D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:52 AM
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I'm sure religion is part of it, but the statistic is still factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:28 AM
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You also said "Marrying a virgin would sound like a marriage headed straight to divorce" so I just wanted to point out that it is statistically improbable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:30 AM
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Also even if that is the case, I'd rather earn a little less money being unmarried if that means there is zero risk of losing half my money upon divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:59 AM
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automatic asset transferral Especially after divorce when you lose half your money. Big OOF
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:56 AM
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Exactly wrong. https://ifstudies.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/wolfinger-sex-partners-divorce-figure-1-1.png Zero previous partners (i.e: a virgin) is the lowest chance of divorce. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:48 AM
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The importance of virginity isn't the real issue for me, it's the NUMBER and TYPE of people they were with in the past. Look up marriage statistics based on number of previous partners. Here's a sample graph: https://ifstudies.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/wolfinger-sex-partners-divorce-figure-1-1.png
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:44 AM
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Common English? I understood it just fine. Everything was clearly written and simple to understand. You need more reading comprehension if you misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:06 AM
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Except for the fact you can control the body count and number of kids... Height, face, size, etc not so much... Therefore not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:06 AM
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Yup, pattern recognition is a good sign of intelligence (that's why most IQ tests have questions of increasing difficulty that go like: square, circle, triangle, square, circle triangle, square, circle, What shape goes here? _____ ) Much of what is considered 'racist' and 'discrimination' is simply noticing the patterns around you and adjusting your behavior accordingly. Animals that don't do that in nature get eaten first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:47 PM
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Don't say facts, that's hatespeech here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:47 AM
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The truth hurts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:59 AM
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I was wondering why that point was made, but now I get it lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:10 AM
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For the venn diagram part I'm obviously not talking about multiple times with the same person, I meant an overlap between multiple females having relations with a small subset of males (the 80:20 online dating ratio).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:29 AM
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Fewer sexual partners? Or do you mean a stronger venn diagram overlap of sexual partners between females all going for the same males? Two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:00 AM
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Ah yes, the classic make rules for betas, and break them alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:58 AM
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Your* ideas. Anyways I don't make the rules, I just play the game. I don't care as much about my GF's past as long as she treats me the same as (or better than) her previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:03 AM
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Women lie all the time to deflate their n-count and make beta men wait before sex (to seem higher value) while men try to inflate it (also to seem higher value).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:28 AM
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You need to consume excessive amounts if you want to get muscular. You know 100g of tofu has 8g of protein and 100g of chicken breast has 31g of protein. You would need to eat 3x more tofu by weight than chicken breast to get the same amount of protein.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:50 PM
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What's a myth? That the hymen gets broken the first time?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:28 PM
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Not saying it's negative, just saying it's physically destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:25 PM
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Well, isn't deflowering technically a destructive act? (I.E: by rupturing the hymen)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:13 AM
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It's about height-mogging the other males in the group, i.e: AMOG (alpha male of the group). Women don't care if a guy is taller than them if he's shorter than all the guys around her. As a 6 foot 4 185 pounds (10%bf) guy I've noticed this myself, I usually get MUCH more attention than my shorter male friends (around 5 foot 8ish) in social gatherings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:58 AM
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It's difficult to be vegan, muscular, and low bodyfat. Whey protein powder isn't vegan, and the alternatives usually have more carbs/fat and aren't as protein dense by weight. Also most meat 'substitutes' have the same issue, along with being overpriced and usually having tons of phytoestrogens from soy. (FYI, when phytoestrogens enter the body, the body's estrogen receptors treat them as if they were estrogen hence the whole 'soyboy' trope). My dad is vegan for the past 5 years or so, and he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:41 AM
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so if I have kids AND... doesn't want kids What? muscular AND... vegan What? I don't understand how you can type those things out in the same comment without realizing the conflict of interests lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:13 AM
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idiocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:14 AM
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Can you elaborate? Is sappy romantic gestures a requirement for you? I personally wouldn't want those kind of gestures done for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:38 AM
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On this episode of destroyed in seconds...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:28 AM
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You forgot to add height to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:21 AM
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Women make rules for betas and break them for alphas, just look up some 'chadfishing' videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:09 AM
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Look up some 'chadfishing' videos, you will see that literally none of that list matters as long as the guy is attractive. The bottom 80% of men in OLD struggle to even GET a match (let alone a date), so what you said can't possibly be true at all. For example: https://youtu.be/8nkLOXicHKc?t=424
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:08 AM
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The mealprep is purely a time saving measure so I don't need to cook and clean everyday, trust me I don't like eating the same meal everyday for a week. They just don't realise that it's killing sex altogether. They'll find out the hard way unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:56 AM
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Healthy physique is important not just to look good, but to feel good and live longer with fewer health issues. Having less energy for sex as you age sounds like something someone with bad cardio would say, I find it therapeutic and relaxing in comparison to my workouts lol (especially when compared to running). I'm not saying everyone should be a health nut like me (1 hour exercise daily, keto meal preps, protein shakes, vitamin pills, etc) I'm just saying there's plenty of time every day to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:34 AM
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I don't really enjoy quickies either, we usually go 3-4 rounds per 'session' and multiple different positions usually while having some netflix running in the background. Not having time is only an excuse, if you have time to sleep then you can sacrifice an hour for it. Same goes for diet and exercise, I work full time but I still exercise daily for an hour and mealprep for the whole week on weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:08 AM
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Yea if no effort is put into the act it shouldn't be done either. Same goes both ways, I wouldn't want to do it with my GF if she just starfished until it was over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:03 AM
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I did NOT miss the point, that WAS the point I was making. If either one of us DOESN'T enjoy it enough to do it at a healthy amount, it won't work and should end right away. Nobody should stay in a sexless relationship, and married men only do so because they get financially destroyed for leaving. More often than not, a decrease in LTR sex frequency is the woman's choice. She says 'I do' and then 'I don't' lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:59 AM
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I treat it as a given in any relationship and made it very clear to my GF. If either one of us aren't attracted anymore or don't want to do it in a healthy amount we will leave. For me personally, anything less than once a week and I see that as a bad sign that something is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:52 AM
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My dad only paid like 500 per month per kid for daycare (which included lunch), don't have so many kids if you can't provide for them. Can't feed'em don't breed'em. I'm 24 years old making around 80k but I won't be having kids because I know it's a huge time and money sink. You can't have your cake and eat it too, you gotta sacrifice if you're having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:04 AM
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The average adult male spends around $250 on groceries per month. Children consume around 50-75% the calories of an adult male. The average cost of diapers is like $500 per year. Why do you need so much money to raise a kid? I'm sure it can be done on the cheap if you're smart. You can also put the kids in daycare/babysitter/etc and get a job instead of thinking being a stay at home mom is a full time job. When my parents got divorced my dad had to take on 3 jobs to pay child support while shari…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:36 AM
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Women usually don't contribute nearly as much financially towards assets. Also I'd be fine with child support if it was only used on the children, and had an upperbound limit of 500 per child per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:37 PM
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Alimony isn't the only thing, it's also child support, assets split, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:25 PM
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Men don't initiate divorce as often due to unfair financial consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:06 PM
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Sex should be a given in a marriage, not some sort of reward to be withheld.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:05 PM
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Who stays married in a sexless marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:16 PM
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I hope so too... Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:06 PM
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I know it might seem like simping, but I should probably clarify some details: I earn 4x what she does pre tax (80k vs 20k) and she's still in school paying her own tuition so she really doesn't have much money left over. when it comes to cooking I'm very strict (keto meal preps measured to an accuracy of 1g). As for the cleaning, I might be a little OCD but I like to put the dishes into the dishwasher after manually washing for sterilization. As for maintenance I just don't think she's strong e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:13 PM
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But muh wage gap and le sexism 😭 Seriously though, my gf never paid for anything (groceries, dates, fuel, utilities, etc) but when she gets a better job I'll ask her to pay her fair share. I usually end up doing the majority of the cooking, cleaning, and maintenance anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:53 PM
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A sexless relationship is just a friendship at best. It's a requirement for me, I'd leave my gf if she never wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:02 PM
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Your life is worth living regardless of what women think of you. If they don't want you then just go your own way, you'll be happier doing that rather than chasing after someone that isn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:30 AM
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Yup, I agree. I'm 6 foot 4 and decently facially attractive, whenever I go anywhere I can see women turn their heads to look at me, and if they're in a group they usually whisper when I walk by. I have a short friend and women don't even seem to notice his existence when he walks by them, it's like short guys aren't sexual beings to women. I wouldn't trade my height away even for a million dollars lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:13 AM
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why are men so preoccupied if a woman is fat or not as the main component of attractiveness? Because big isn't beautiful to the majority of men. Being obese is a sign of bad health and negatively effects fertility. Why would you even bother asking such a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:52 AM
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I know they would sleep with me the second I let them but they know its not going to happen That's called having a roster. I would not be comfortable being with my GF if she were to hang around with guys she knew were just sniffing around for a chance. I made her choose between her male friends and me after the relationship got serious. I know it's a long watch, but I recommend this video: https://youtu.be/uedZZ638IDw
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:19 PM
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"Men being labelled studs for sleeping around while women are seen as sluts" Which one is easier? "Older women being rejected in favour of younger women" That's biology, women become infertile as they age so are less desirable naturally. "Men avoiding educated, empowered women in favour of naïve, supportive women" Men don't want to date another alpha, that's obvious. "Men idolising virginal stay-at-home women" The more partners a woman has had the more likely she is to divorce. "Men lying about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:08 PM
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You're really contributing to this discussion, amazing insight!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:03 AM
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M'lady *Tips le fedora*
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:01 AM
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They probably don't realize this, and I think they want a guy that can overpower the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:14 PM
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Just drink water and groom your hair bro it's that easy... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:23 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:31 AM
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How is it immature to rate people's subjective attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:27 AM
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That's a messed up idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:02 AM
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Only if it's been around for a while and the risks/side effects are known. To me it seems like it isn't as feasible for male birth control since men are supposed to ALWAYS be producing sperm, whereas when women are pregnant they do not ovulate which makes it much simpler. I'd trust a vasectomy before I trust some experimental BC pill, especially when us men have no say in abortion whatsoever and usually get screwed over in the courts for child support, custody, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:56 AM
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So what is an example of a guy in the top 1% for you? Also are you a prize (in the top 1% of looks)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:36 AM
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What women look for in an ideal partner: Looks/money/status What men look for in an ideal partner: Looks/personality I personally couldn't care less how much money my partner makes or what her social status is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:50 PM
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For the past year (and most likely this year) you won't have the chance to meet people IRL without OLD due to lockdowns/restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:15 AM
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I'm in a LTR with my GF I met on tinder almost a year ago, I'm good looking and 6 foot 4 so it isn't an issue for me. I'm just saying it doesn't matter how good your personality is if you don't get the chance to express it on dating apps which require looks to get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:48 AM
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Charisma/presence/personality/game/etc won't help you when you get no matches on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:48 AM
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Putting on makeup/showering/etc may be time consuming, but it isn't difficult. Going to the gym, running, eating healthy, etc IS difficult and requires strong willpower. Worrying about your appearance is normal, but makeup isn't the solution. Makeup ≠ Self Care If anything, makeup will clog your pores and make your skin quality decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:37 AM
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Then she can switch to condoms...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 10:48 PM
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and still get the occasional guy desperate enough to try and message them. You're really underestimating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 10:23 AM
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but why is it no one seems to acknowledge the failure on the bio dad who ditched and barely ever sees their kids while skimping on child support? Well, why doesn't the woman have any blame in this situation? The single mom could have used the pill/condom/IUD/abortion/etc. I think you should only refer to them as a deadbeat dad if they intended to have a child in the first place (and no, sex does not imply intent to have a child). When contraception fails it's up to the woman to keep/abort the fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 10:05 AM
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This seems like it could be narrowed down to this: Would you rather be BB or AF, and I think we all know the answer to that. Unfortunately not everyone can be wealthy/powerful/successful/attractive/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 09:58 AM
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Personality won't help on getting dating app matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 09:11 AM
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"but i would contend there are few or none who find a satisfying LTR, which ended in happy marriage/lifelong partnership with children." This is not something everyone wants, I don't want to get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:03 AM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:35 PM
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Yea because all shy guys are clearly angry incels... *Sigh* I had several female friends that I studied with in University and I didn't pursue them for anything more than just friendship (even though most of them were attractive). If it worries you so much then don't talk to any man because it's POSSIBLE that MAYBE one of them will be an angry whining incel. Nobody's stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 12:41 AM
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What are you getting so angry about? I just said that they can talk and/or be friends, they don't have to have sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 12:29 PM
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I said if you did, not that you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:27 AM
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I'm nearly certain if you initiated a conversation with one of those 'isolating' people they'd be happy to talk to and/or befriend you. Also some people are just really shy/introverted and will never initiate a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:52 AM
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I was one of those that spends all breaks with my phone... It wasn't because I didn't want to make friends, I just wanted to relax and/or review before the next lecture instead of making smalltalk with some randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:43 AM
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I plan on moving away, but first I need to save enough for a down payment...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 10:26 PM
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Some people look good bald (especially if you can grow a beard), but generally women prefer guys with hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 09:15 AM
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Honestly if I were balding and medication didn't work I'd probably go for one of those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:56 AM
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Yea that's what I'm saying. Not everyone has such great results with hair surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:56 AM
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Yea he's a great example of a success story...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:11 AM
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I don't know how much it costs, but if I were ugly you bet I'd save up for it... In fact, in some places like south Korea plastic surgery is VERY common even for average looking people, not just edge cases of ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 01:48 AM
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As long as they save up for several years I don't see why not...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 01:45 AM
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Just stop being poor, ezpz jk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 01:42 AM
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Surgery for balding men: Take existing hair and move it elsewhere (only works if you have enough existing hair)... Surgery to make you taller: i.e: Break and regrow your bones multiple times to get a tiny bit of extra height at the cost of bone strength and health... It will still mess up your overall body proportions since it will basically look like a midget on stilts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 01:35 AM
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Fortunately I've 'won' the genetic lottery when it comes to that (tall/strong, not balding, and 'handsome' according to others) so I'd put myself at around 8.5/10. However, a 6.5/10 girl probably still has an easier time on dating apps than me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:26 PM
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However, being a woman, and having only 20-25% body fat is actually pretty difficult to achieve depending her genetics. If you think 20-25% body fat is difficult for women to achieve, you should see what it takes for men to look 'muscular' with 10-12% body fat. Men expect women to be around the 15-25% body fat marker, in order to be considered “attractive” I personally see 15-35% as attractive, with 20-25% being the most attractive. Men simply believe they need wash board abs (below 20%) to be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:06 PM
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You shouldn't worry about making a 6-figure income; but you should worry about living with your parents because you can't afford to live on your own. Even if you have a 6-figure income it's still difficult to buy your own place to live in unless you get a huge mortgage (at least here in Toronto). Source: I earn almost 6 figures (pre-tax) and choose to live with my parents since the 'cheapest' condos in my area start at like 800k, and homes are like 1.5mill. I hope the lockdown continues for as l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 03:47 PM
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Allow me to elaborate: Birth control is something quite recent in human history, and it is genetically advantageous for a women to have kids with men who are 'alpha' but can't and/or won't support them with resources while also at the same time find someone to provide for them and their offspring 'betabux'. There is a theory I read about recently which explains that (unlike female apes/monkeys/chimps/etc) human females have concealed ovulation to increase their chance of successfully cuckolding …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 03:32 PM
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My current gf is a little overweight and it doesn't really bother me that much either, but I would be more sexually attracted to her if she was thin like me (I'm 180 pounds, 12% body fat, and exercise 5 days a week). If all their personalities were the same, I'd date the one that 'loves the gym' since exercise is a big part of my life and I'd love to have a partner to exercise with. It might make me sound like a misogynist or something, but IMO women have it easier when it comes to exercise sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 03:12 PM
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If she was 4 foot 8, no problem (my gf is 5 foot 2 and I'm 6 foot 4, it doesn't bother me). Balding is something that is usually linked to high testosterone and old age, so I probably wouldn't find a bald girl attractive. However, if I were a girl and I were attracted to guys, I probably wouldn't mind a bald guy that's tall and muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:39 PM
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When I say equally, it means that if you lack any of those 3, you are equally fucked. Yea I agree, but I think if you list those 3 and ask a women to rank their importance it would probably be like this: 1. Physique (height and muscles) Hair (not bald and/or grey) Looks (how well the face conforms to the 'phi mask') (And once they're older [like 30+] and had their fun a 4th point 'betabux' comes into play, usually ranked higher than all the other points).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:31 PM
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I'm not really singling out men, I'm saying that as a man I'd rather be a little ugly instead of a little short and/or balding. I used men in this example because it doesn't really matter how short a woman is to most guys (like even though I'm 6 foot 4, I'd date women regardless of their height).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:24 PM
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Treatments for balding exist somewhat I'll agree (with many of which having potentially fatal side effects like heart attacks), but height isn't really 'curable'. If you're 4 foot 8 guy and you want to date women you're gonna have a bad time. As a test I removed my height from dating apps (I'm 6 foot 4) and got almost no matches for a month, I put it back in and within a day I get several matches... I think most women care more about a guy's height and having hair more than being slightly ugly. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:21 PM
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Honestly most ugly men can get plastic surgery... I feel worse for short and/or balding men, not much you can do to fight that...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 12:53 PM
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heterozygosity I had to google that lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:05 AM
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Posts about your dating preferences without justification would be pointless. Imagine a post like this: 'I like women that have brown eyes but not green or blue eyes. Why? Because I prefer it.' Would there be any point to a post like that? No. Now if you rationalized it that you want your kids to have the same eye color as you, and you used studies which show parental eye color combination data (like this: https://www.familyeducation.com/sites/default/files/inline-images/Baby%20Eye%20color%20cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:01 AM
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I'm not a woman but I think cheating to get good looks (like plastic surgery, rogain, hair implants, liposuction, etc) only matters when you have kids with the person since they will likely inherit whatever unfortunate genetic configuration the partner has.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:52 AM
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If you don't plan on having kids or abusing it for gold-digging then there is no purpose to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:41 AM
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When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags. (Bojack qote)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:34 AM
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ah...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:25 AM
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HB8-10 What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:05 AM
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That's what I was thinking... lol
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 12:43 AM
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I miss my gym so much that I built my own home gym lol I agree with what you said, generally someone who exercises regularly is more likely to partake in easier self-care things such as wearing fitting clothes, grooming hair, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 12:08 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:51 AM
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Get ready to have your post removed by a mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:59 AM
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You have just committed a thought crime for pointing out censorship. Prepare to be terminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:00 AM
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Maybe stop being a brainlet and read my comment before replying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:27 AM
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Yea, no. One is so painful and destructive that many women report looseness and urinary incontinence after 1 year since it destroys the muscles internally, and the other one is comparable to very bad period cramps. One FOR SURE sounds much more invasive and destructive than the other, you must really like kids to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:25 AM
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" it’s a decision between child an invasive medical procedure. " Shooting a football through a garden hose isn't nearly as 'invasive' as suctioning out a pingpong ball through a garden hose... Is that what you're implying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:18 AM
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"The most known outcome, I hope, from having sex is a child." That's obvious if you're talking about consensual unprotected sex, however if you use a condom while she is on birth control and you pull out, the chances of pregnancy are less than 0.01% after a year so it isn't the 'most known outcome' in such a scenario. Abstinence is not a solution to coerced reproduction, that's like saying if women don't want to be stealthed then they shouldn't have sex, which is a really messed up thing for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:15 AM
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Invasive? Lol not nearly as bad as childbirth if you abort early. Childbirth is basically like shoving a football through a garden hose. The whole point of birth control is to avoid conception, if it fails why should the man be forced to pay $1000/month for 18 years just because she didn't want to abort? It's her decision to keep it, so she should finance her own decisions. Just like if I decide to major in a stupid degree, I have to pay for it (not the government or my parents). If you want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 06:00 PM
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I'm in Canada, $750 USD = $1000 CAD. " Babies need things to survive 🤷‍♀️ " Yes, babies need things to survive, and it's the woman's decision to have the babies so she should be the one to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:03 AM
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Your so called 'damage' is HER decision if SHE decides to keep it. "To not participate in casual sex, use better contraception or be ready to pay child support." So your solution is to blame men even though it's a woman's decision to keep it? Coerced reproduction is only okay when a woman wants it right? Casual sex WITH contraception that failed should not force a man to pay for child support. Change my view. If a woman gets pregnant and the guy is poor (no job/house/etc) she would likely abort …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:00 AM
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Obviously they would support a system that finances their poor decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:38 AM
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me not from the father, but the state. However, the majority of American men oppose this. We obviously oppose it, because that's indirectly causing us to still pay for it. How don't you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:37 AM
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Unfair to men who didn't want to have a kid but birth control failed, are you trolling? " It’s not their fault they need food, shelter, and supervision to survive. " No, I'm not blaming the baby obviously. I'm blaming the women who decide to carry a baby to term against what the guy wants when they are not financially stable enough to take care of it. I bet women would be having a TON more abortions if they changed the laws so that men aren't obligated to pay them $1000/month or more (over $200,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:27 AM
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" men can abandon it " We already can abandon it, I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about CHILD SUPPORT.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:24 AM
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You remind me of that feminist speaking to Jordan Peterson saying how it's "men" in positions of power/law/authority/CEOs/etc when in reality it's an extremely small percentage of men who are in that position, and don't hold the best interest of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:23 AM
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I honestly don't blame men who do in the slightest, good on them. If I were in their situation and had the option I would too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:20 AM
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This. Couldn't have said it better. +1
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:19 AM
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That too, yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:08 AM
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If the woman has final say in the abortion, why would a man need to pay for it (or pay for insurance) if he didn't want the baby? If the man doesn't get to choose if the kid is aborted or born, he shouldn't have to pay if he doesn't want to. You need to provide a counterargument, not a "solution" involving all men to pay for pregnancy insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:08 AM
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" There's a kid in the equation that needs food and shelter, and there are two options: a taxpayer-funded system to make solo parenting feasible even for low-income parents, or child support from the parents. " The WOMAN chose to not abort it, why should the burden of finance be on the man? For example, lets say a guy as a 1 night stand with a girl from tinder and the condom breaks resulting in pregnancy the guy did NOT want, why should he pay approx $1000/month * 12 months * 18 years = $216000 …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:03 AM
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Glad you also see it as unfair, but it isn't really changing my mind on the topic, only reinforcing my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:45 AM
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It isn't equality if we MUST pay for CHILD SUPPORT. Did you even read the title? Or the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:16 AM
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Ummm... Money (legal tender) isn't the same thing as commitment? Explain to me how those two things are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:57 AM
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Most edgelord white knight redditors do NOT think it 'made a ton of sense' as you can clearly tell from the dislikes on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:56 AM
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Yes, you do need to explain. If a guy had sex with a woman and the condom broke (resulting in unwanted pregnancy from the guy's perspective) how is it fair to force him to pay for a child he didn't even want? It makes no sense how women hold the decision of keeping/aborting the baby but the man isn't even allowed to decide if he wants to pay for it for the next 18+ years? Please, do elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:44 AM
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I guess I should elaborate when I say it isn't the same thing... One of them is scamming people out of money The other one is scamming people out of commitment Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:13 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:02 AM
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If you combine both types of people what do you get? Prostitution. lmao Also, it isn't "the same thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 06:45 AM
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This concept sounds like an amazing idea, but in reality women DON'T want this. Just look at the trainwreck of a dating app called 'bumble' lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 08:22 AM
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Have you ever heard a guy say that he would reject a woman he is attracted to simply because she approached him first? No? That's what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:35 AM
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I think lying about something physically harmful should be punishable by law (like you mentioned with STDs, birth control, etc) but if someone lies about something that doesn't bring you harm (like lying about owning their rental sports car, being a certain religion, having millions of dollars, etc) should NOT be punishable since it's almost the same as when women wear makeup and/or get surgery to augment their appearance. Women value power/status, and men value youth/looks. Both genders lie, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:59 PM
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For dating? No. For marriage? Yes. I don't like the idea of taking care of a child that isn't genetically mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:36 AM
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Looks are NOT subjective, look up the "phi mask" for evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:42 AM
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Then I guess we both agree, nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:15 AM
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I think the bill should only be the responsibility of the person getting tested if he is indeed the father. If it makes no sense for her to spend $14500 on those tests maybe she should just pay for that $250 abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:12 AM
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The woman? She's the one having unprotected sex with 29 other men at the same time is she not? Can't blame anyone else for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:01 PM
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No, only the cost of HIS paternity test obviously... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 10:57 PM
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Maybe the woman should have thought of that in the first place if she wanted to figure out who it was? I feel like the guy should have to pay for the entire cost of a paternity test and half the abortion cost if it is proven to be him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 10:43 PM
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I don't see why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 10:35 PM
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I agree with this somewhat, however there is something you are completely neglecting. If contraception fails (like a broken condom or something) and the women decides to keep the baby while the man doesn't want it, I believe that only the woman should have to pay for it. Either allow men to have abortion rights, or allow them to leave. The current system screws over men especially in edge case/scenarios such as intentional contraceptive sabotage (like poking a hole in the condom, 'forgetting' to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 10:26 PM
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