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Grown children makes me think you are in 40's-50's and provides more context. Crazy she would want a divorce at that age, single life for a post 40's woman is rarely exciting. Like you said the finality of it is starting to settle in her head. Still stand by what I said, but you know her best. All the best OP!
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/24 04:26 AM
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Finalize the divorce sounds like she is trying to backtrack to appease friends or family who may disapprove of divorce, instead of working it out. In the end smarter move is to cut ties and move on from someone who has shown they are not loyal to you.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/24 11:50 PM
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So using your logic a competent lawyer would know how to avoid/abide by the law. Hence why I said “correctly written”. Clearly it is more difficult than you make it otherwise you would never hear about trust being overturned.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 01:38 AM
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I doubt there are many correctly written trust in the USA that are contested successfully. If your lawyer is good you will be as well
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 11:23 AM
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Only thing is this business has a high likelihood of having insurance fraud. You can file a divorce for almost anything these days. Whats stopping a crafty couple from getting married and divorced for money. Hell they already do it in the Military😂
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 12:46 AM
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Ok thanks. This has worked splendidly for me and obviously it's not for you. Keep C.A with a 3% success rate ill stick to what I am doing which has netted me a 70-80% success rate while not looking thirsty by approaching 30 women a night. Again Name 1 man of importance who approaches 30+ women or plays the numbers game.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:56 PM
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You just said "that’s exactly what a cold approach is meanwhile what you’re proposing is: you… you uh… build your value and then you get IOI’s once it increases!" ​ I clarified for your dumbass that the difference between Cold and Warm is IOI. Do you understand now because clearly you didn't.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:54 PM
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No idiot. I didnt mention them because they are celebrities I mentioned them because they have achieved success in life. Which you can to. Ask yourself would a woman chase the boss or employee of a business? Why is that? Success is relative to the level you are at. She may not chase the doctor at wholes food but I promise you when he is wearing his lab coat he gets IOI's. Does that make sense he can wear his labcoat wherever to indicate his status idiot. cold approach (plural cold approaches) (s…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:53 PM
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Cold approach is randomly approaching a stranger as my title says C.A vs W.A When a woman gives you IOI's that is a WARM Approach. Do you understand? I may not be him but the principle works I have achieve success in my life and the women on my social status know that. I own my own business and thus am my own boss. Ask yourself would a female rather date the boss or employee? Exactly. Success is relative on the level you are on. Does that make sense?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:48 PM
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No you don't that is what I am trying to get through your thick skull. DO you think Donald Trump approaches Hoes. Or my previous example where KIM KARDASHIAN ASKED SNL for Pete Davidson's number. Why do you think that is? Because they built a name for themselves. You ever seen a rock group or any musical artist. What do they have at all time's GROUPIES right? Those groupies aren't with them because they cold approached, they are there because those men achieved a level of success. You should try…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:45 PM
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cold approach (plural cold approaches) (seduction community) The act of approaching a stranger (usually female) and asking them on a date -- This is the LITERAL DEFINITION of COLD APPROACH. Look it up you don't get to change it in order to win a discussion on the internet. Again I have OPTIONS and PUSSY at home meaning I never leave my house with a hungry gaze looking to go talk to women. Meaning I can focus on accomplishing my goals and getting important things done.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:43 PM
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Are you dumb or stupid. I already stated this is for MEN who have options and do not put pussy on a pedestal. ​ Again Name 1 man of High Value who is approaching 30 Women in 1 night? None because they ALREADY have OPTIONS, you would know this if you were a man at high value. Why would I be focused on pussy if I already have it at home? Does that make sense? This mindset allows me to excel in business because everywhere I go I am focused on accomplishing my purpose not looking to go chat up some …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:41 PM
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I already said I understand I am missing out on opportunities but again IDGAF because my balls are already drained when I leave my house. This is advanced game for when you already have options and a rotation. Do you not understand that. I am more focused on my career and legacy than any opportunities to have sex. Does that make sense? This only works once you stop gaf about new pussy I have had my share and am focused on building my business that is all. Meaning I already know I have pussy wait…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:38 PM
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I had already linked 3 YT vids in the discourse see if you can find them if not I suggest looking up choosing signals on YT.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:36 PM
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What you just said "Everything you do in life as a man is to “get women”. You might as well go directly to the source" I just denied that and I don't watch AMS I just looked up random youtube videos for choosing signals stop assuming.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:35 PM
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Prove what exactly? Go to my other post I posted a imgur link with my physique to show I get choosing signals.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:28 PM
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I love comments like yours. The RedPill is supposed to be full of GROWN MEN. Im assuming you’re a teenager as you instantly resorted to Name calling which is childish instead of listing any disputes you have with the points I made. Lets act like adults, what parts of my post do you disagree with?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:24 PM
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Where in my post did I ever state you needed expensive clothes or shoes? Or even Instagram? Come on now😂😂
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:15 PM
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See that’s the difference between you and me and why I said this is advanced game for when you are older than 25 or get to the point in life when you realize pussy is last. Everything I do in life is to build a legacy for myself and set my kids up for the future. We aren’t on the same level. Once you realize the a 10’s pussy feels the exact same as a 3’s. It changes your perspective. Looks like you still have some learning to do young buck, this is for the men or at least those who aspire to be.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:09 PM
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You sound dumb asf. Working on your purpose is the manliest thing you can do. When did we get that confused with approaching random women for sex. Read that again you just said Approaching random women in hopes of getting sex is the manliest thing you can do. So where does being on your purpose and making your name mean something rank😂😂
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:02 PM
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Did you not read what I just said. Obviously they aren’t high value otherwise they would have fucking social skills. High value is not just money or being a CEO. And I just gave you a solution to that, I flirt with women daily, both to practice my social skills and for fun. Your clients obviously don’t or they wouldn’t need you now would they?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:50 PM
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I’ll try once more to explain if you don’t understand God Bless. I never cold approach as my balls are empty before I leave my house because I have options and a rotation. So even when I see a fine girl I am in post nut clarity and dgaf. Meaning the only time I give a fuck is when a girl I find attractive sends me IOI. Otherwise I just FLIRT with woman for fun not in efforts to bag them. Does that make sense?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:48 PM
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Again if you are High Value you would have options correct? What man with options and a multiple girl rotation is even THINKING about pussy when he leaves the house. I know im not as my balls are already drained😂 My point is when im out and about I have post nut clarity. So the only women I notice are those giving me IOI. Does that make sense? I already stated I have no problem with Cold Approach from the ages of 13-25. So how does that make me insecure about it. Fucking idiot
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:46 PM
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AMS Choosing Signals MJ Choosing Signals BOA choosing signals Here are a few from a quick youtube search.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:35 PM
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I would but their are many videos on youtube that explain them better than me. Ill tag a few here good idea
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:34 PM
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Did you read my post? None of this works Unless you continue SPEAKING TO WOMEN DAILY. What good is being Billionaire CEO if you are scared to speak to women? I already stated I FLIRT WITH WOMEN DAILY. Just for fun though, I usually Never ask for their number or a date. They end up offering it after a short conversation if they like me, if not idc because I already have OPTIONS.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:33 PM
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Good for you take that 3% chance if it’s what you want. This is for men who value themselves more than that.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:31 PM
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Think about what you just said “Ridiculously confident mentality”😂😂 Thank you. I view myself as the prize because I know I have OPTIONS meaning I don’t have to Cold Approach. Men with any options in life don’t HAVE to cold approach. Does that make sense? Again as I have stated MULTIPLE TIMES you still HAVE TO SPEAK TO WOMEN. Not sure where your misunderstanding that. I SPEAK to Women DAILY. In a FLIRTING MANNER, however I just do it for fun and practice.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:31 PM
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There you go, Im not preaching any shortcut. You HAVE to still put in the work. It’s just a lot easier once you have built VALUE. If you were to look at any of the men on the Argentina Soccer Team’s DM I promise it’s filled with Super Models. Why is that? They built themselves into men of value and success, through winning the world cup. These men will NEVER have to Cold Approach ever in their life and their cup will remain overflowing with pussy. Its harder this way but those of you who are tir…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:28 PM
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DING DING DING. This is NOT the easy way that so many of you guys are after. You still have to put in work daily.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:15 PM
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Does that make sense? The same way you encounter new male friends, go out of your way and do the same for women. You shouldn't only be talking to women for sex go get some female friends. They will help you as you have social proof.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:14 PM
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You did not read my post. I already stated that I do speak to women daily. I flirt with them all the time, however I am not doing this in order to sleep with them. Meaning I don't ask for their numbers or to go on a date. This usually ends in them being surprised, i've gotten " Oh your not like the other guys, they usually just try to hit on me" and shortly there after she gives me her number. If I choose to i'll pursue. YOU still HAVE to talk to women, NO avoiding that. Build your game through …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:12 PM
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Also ask yourself this, Does it really make you a man to be constantly rejected by something that is beneath you? I mean that in the most non-sexist elitist way, as men we are the leaders of our households. Why would I accept being rejected continuously until some women takes pity on me? "Just to prove how much of a man I am, that I don't care if this lady say's no I am going to CHASE her and hand her the power to accept or deny me. " - is what many of you have been saying. Women KNOW men with a…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:06 PM
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Exactly but again have you ever seen Donald Trump cold approach any of his SuperModel wives or when Kim Kardashian Asked SNL for Pete Davidson's number. These guys have that confidence from who they are not from Cold Approaching. So while they can they don't. Same here while I can I don't because I don't have to and the girls I want are only those who want me. NEVER throw away a girl with high interest in you because she may not be up to the standard looks wise. That is vain. If you find a 6 tha…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:55 PM
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Thank you bro, I had to clarify this is past 25 yrs old as I get the need for woman before that. But at a certain point you have to realize there is more to life than approaching 30 women for 1 to say yes. I'm past that point and am trying to help others get here as well. Chess not Checkers!!
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:43 PM
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I see gorgeous women all the time. And if you read any of my post this is post 25 years old meaning you should've already hit a couple of 10's. If seeing a gorgeous girl gets your panties in a bunch still this is not for you. Im used to it already, her pussy is the same as any other female I promise. :P
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:41 PM
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I wouldn't be so adamant about it if it hasn't worked wonders for me. I get to focus on my purpose in life and only deal with high interest woman. Sign me UP!
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:39 PM
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Well why don't you be the first?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:38 PM
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Yea a millionaire in this subreddit but continue. Even a 5 woman gets more attention thana 10 man, TINDER has proven this go watch any video. If your girl is actually an 8 there is no way you get more attention than her. Somethings not adding up.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:37 PM
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My success rate with the Warm Approach has been 70-80%. And of those I succeed with I can usually keep them in my rotation for 3+months as again they chose me not the other way around. A lot easier to string a broad along when she chose you. If you truly had no ulterior motives you wouldn't be asking for mobile details. That is the entire point. You are only speaking to her in order to improve social skills nothing more nothing less. I have had women offer me their number after I was finished as…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:36 PM
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It makes you a man to be rejected by something beneath you? When have you ever seen the prize on a game show offer itself to contestants? I view myself as the prize as I have worked to build my lifestyle into something women would want to be apart of.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:30 PM
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I talk to plenty of women daily without Cold Approaching. It’s called being social and striking up conversations with men and women. Try it with a female and watch the look on her face when you don’t try to get her number. I promise you it humbles them first and lowers their guard. My point is if you know a game at the Casino has a 3% win rate would you play it? I went through my cold approach phase and looking back don’t regret it as I have stated in the post. This advice is after 25yrs old or …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:03 PM
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Any man can cold approach a female but not any man can have women chase them. Does that make sense? I keep trying to word it different as you guys have a certain way of misunderstanding what I am saying.😂😂 Focus on making yourself the guy women chase instead of the chaser. Im surprised as a Senior Endorsed member I have to explain this to you. Just goes to show the blind are truly leading the blind.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:55 PM
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Men of importance NEVER cold approach so when you do it you automatically let her know you are not important. Please name 1 man of importance who regularly Cold Approaches women. Please tell me that you understand that? Not saying never Cold Approach as we all start somewhere but if your past 25 or whatever age and that is still a priority in your life. Congratulations you’re in for a long ride
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:53 PM
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When is the last time you seen, Floyd Mayweather, Donald Trump, Mark Cuban, Joe Burrow, Tyreek Hill or any man who has some semblance of success in their life Cold Approach? They don’t have to because the most beautiful women SEEK them. Same reason any Championship team gets the most pussy. Or when you were in Highschool the QB got all the attention. Women HAVE always CHASED men of importance. If you aren’t being chased you haven’t become important enough. Which sucks but not you know and can fi…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:51 PM
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What game at the casino do you plat with a 3% chance of success? Where’s your sense of pride I value myself more than giving myself a 3% chance, if that means waiting for a year thats fine, why? Because like I have state multiple times I have ALREADY went through my Cold Approach phase and left with my nuts and pockets emptied. Wrong again top 9’s and 10’s do put in less effort but only to average men. You do realize supermodels DM men right? Check the DM of Floyd Mayweather, Drake, or Donald Tr…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:47 PM
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Not assumptions. So you are telling me College aged girls 18-22 are being approached ONCE every 2-4 weeks. You do realize they go clubbing almost 3x a week. Are you really telling me they never get approached at the club? That's a fucking lie and a retarded one at that. They get approached at LEAST 5x every time they go to the club, as that's the main reason most men GO. COLD APPROACH SUCCESS RATES OF PUA's I took the liberty of giving you a link which estimates the average man's success rate at…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:32 PM
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******\*"I've been asking around other dating coaches about cold approach and here is what came out: If you're a hard-case shy guy, you can expect to have sex with 1 out of 600 women. If you're a regular guy, it's anywhere from 1 to 5 out of 300 women. The best at this can sleep with 1 out of every 30 women they approach" - https://www.zirby.co/blog/tinder-or-cold-approach#:~:text=I've%20been%20asking%20around,every%2030%20women%20they%20approach My question to you is assuming you are the best a…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:27 PM
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"I've been asking around other dating coaches about cold approach and here is what came out: If you're a hard-case shy guy, you can expect to have sex with 1 out of 600 women. If you're a regular guy, it's anywhere from 1 to 5 out of 300 women. The best at this can sleep with 1 out of every 30 women they approach" -https://www.zirby.co/blog/tinder-or-cold-approach#:~:text=I've%20been%20asking%20around,every%2030%20women%20they%20approach Not about being Too High Value even though that is true. M…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:24 PM
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Also Cold Approach literally means The act of approaching a stranger (usually female) and asking them on a date. How is dm’ing a random stranger not this? Hell its even worse because all you have to judge her on is her looks. And women HATE feeling objectified.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:11 PM
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Also here is a website with info on Cold Approach success rates, AGAIN 10% was being VERY generous. https://www.zirby.co/blog/tinder-or-cold-approach
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:06 PM
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Everytime I get rejected I have a visceral reaction. Obviously it’s not the same for you as you seem to be numb to it. Well that 10% was being generous. But lets make this a case by case basis, what is your success rate with Cold Approach lets use your numbers.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:04 PM
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Take notice how you are the only one who is debating that.😂😂 The gurls ive been with SHOW me daily multiple men who shoot their shot
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:57 PM
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Ya thats how I know you get no pussy in real life. Anyone who has dated a 8 or above knows guys try EVERYDAY. Especially college aged women as they goto the clubs danm near 3x a week. Are you seriously telling me you’ve never seen a 8+ be approached in the club by at least 5 guys every night. You obviously need more experience
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:54 PM
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Are you dumb? If you dm a random girl you don’t know how is that not a Cold approach. Its literally the exact same as talking to a random girl on the street. How are those different?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:50 PM
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Well shit Ofc I would this is my Post. Tinder doesn’t work unless surprise surprise you are physically attractive which is what I have just said this entire time. Its not a cold approach at that point because she has to swipe right and choose you. Just proved my point. You don’t just ignore women on this journey, you should continue to be social just don’t go out looking to Cold Approach. I speak to women daily without the intention of getting sexual
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:46 PM
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How would I be black pill in the slightest? Never said that looks were the end all be all. Just said to focus on building them the best you can until you are getting IOI’s so you can avoid the 5-10% success rate. What other area of life do you accept a 5-10% success rate? If that was your closing rate in business would you accept that then why do it with women?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:37 PM
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Also let me again say this is Advanced game, meaning you are PAST the stage where getting pussy is a priority. I can employ this strategy because IDGAF if I don’t get laid for the next year. As I am TOO focused on improving my life. No one here will be able to convince me that Cold Approaching women doesn’t take away time which could be spent on anything better. I place women at the BOTTOM of my priorities and see myself as above them. Now ask yourself why I would seek rejection from someone ben…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:34 PM
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Bro commented twice on a post, and you’re saying Im invested. All you have to do is ignore it and keep it pushing. You commenting lets me know that your feelings are hurt in some way. Not sure why if you wish to Cold Approach BE MY GUEST. Im speaking to those willing to accept a difference of opinion and try something different in order to avoid an abysmal 5-10% success rate which if we’re being honest is lower than that.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:29 PM
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Goto a bar and talk to people. When you cold approach a female her first thought is not “Oh he is trying to learn how to be more social and not be a dumb fuck” is it? No she thinks “Just another average man trying to convince me to give it up” All the dudes that were considered life of the party were never frequent cold approachers your confusing that with being an extrovert. The difference is they approach EVERYONE women or female without the intention of getting anything from the interaction. …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:27 PM
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Dumbass 10% is male model results the PUAs you guys follow are at around 5-8% and the average man less than that. I should note this is advanced game meaning it won’t work unless you seriously place yourself above women and see cold approach as beneath you. If you can’t see that fine. I happen to get at least 1 IOI living my regular life. So Personally my 70-80% 1x a day is better than the 10%. Get yourself to that point and we’ll talk
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:22 PM
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If you don’t understand then it’s not for you continue to be the average man.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:20 PM
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Why do you care? lol, if I have knowledge I believe I should be able to share it you can ignore the post and move on with your day. Bye
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:19 PM
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I just told you do what works for you lol. Just had to counter your point about IOIs not being based on physical attractiveness
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:18 PM
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So a female can tell im confident when I am wearing a jacket and baggy sweatpants and the only thing showing is my face while I have headphones on while riding an E-scooter down the street? This has happened to me personally I got an IOI. Cmon now it’s ok to be wrong. Most IOI’s are based off of physical appearance. The only times confidence play a major role are when you are in the same place for a prolonged time and she has the time to watch how you interact with other men or women. Most of my…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 01:13 PM
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The reason I disagree with that is because most of my IOI’s come from me being in a public place, i.e. buying coffee or groceries. And a woman will send me IOI’s either as she passes by me or from across the room as our eyes lock. I wasn’t doing anything to display confidence in most cases. I mean how can you grocery shop confidently😂😂 Confidence plays a major factor in whether you have the nuts to approach or when you approach how you speak to her. It is an immense part of the equation of cours…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 01:02 PM
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So approaching 100 women with a 10% success rate if we are being honest doesn’t make you numb to rejection? What other area in life does a 10% success rate not make you stop what you are doing and reevaluate? PUA’s tell you guys to play the numbers game which is danm near impossible to do without being numb to her response. Otherwise your confidence would be shattered by number 50. When a female tells you no that means assuming you just weren’t her preference and she was receptive to the approac…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:57 PM
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Answer the fucking question. And you’re really telling me a confident version of an average man is getting more IOI’s then that same version of man but swole. The only difference is that the swole guy would be rejected once she realized he had no confidence. Women don’t send average men IOI unless they have had the chance to see that confidence in action. How is she going to see that 20ft across the coffee shop? You must not get IOI’s in real life as you would know most happen the first 5 second…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:49 PM
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Exactly!! Once you start improving yourself you realize how outdated Cold Approaching is. I mean how many of you here would play a game at the casino with a less than 10% chance at success? Maybe for fun but not something I would base my social game off of. Put in the work to improving yourself to the point you get IOI’s from the women you like. No shortcuts and hoping you have enough game to finesse her out her panties.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:46 PM
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Yea your smoking dick. But whatever allows you to avoid hitting the gym. I know this as I used to have low confidence and I got a lot more choosing signals as I got into shape. But i’ll ask this granted Everything is the same confidence and face, who gets more choosing signals? Your relying on yourself having more confidence than someone who looks their best physically that hardly ever happens
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:44 PM
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Your appearance IS based on your confidence. I see what you are trying to say but thats already included. When you are confident you stand up straight with your chest poked out. But let me ask you this who gets more choosing signals a gym bro with 8-10%bf or average but very confident man? Counting their face looks the same?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:20 PM
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Yea that's a load of bs. Your looks get you in the door all that other sh*t is what keeps you there. That is basic RedPill 101 hence why they tell you to start a skin care routine and hit the gym. If you were doing that you would know. You're not going to get me to accept that majority of choosing signals women send strangers is based off some internal state of mind. Women are visual creatures just like us they love muscles and traits of masculinity such as facial hair.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:14 PM
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Yes I am insecure for trying both methods and as I have matured realized pussy isn't worth the abysmal success rates cold approach offers and now just go for the warm approach. Sound's like you are upset I am downgrading the Cold Approach, which is fine to me take your <10% chance I'll keep doing what I am doing it's been working splendidly
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:12 PM
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For women who are 8's and above yes. I would know as I have dated a couple of 8's and especially the ones between 18-25 as they love to party and goto the club 3x a week, not even including instagram DM'ing a random girl on instagram is cold approaching. Your telling me 8's+ don't get 5+ guys a day dm'ing them and cold approaching in person? I want whatever you're smoking.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:10 PM
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Here we go, anyone can get choosing signals.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:08 PM
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Then what are they based on as 2 strangers who do not know each other. Is she supposed to know your personality without knowing you first. I said Majority not all
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:06 PM
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Say's this without providing any justification. Please tell me where I am wrong. I do not cold approach women as I am too focused on living my life and don't see the value in a method with less than 10% odds of success. When I was younger, hell yeah. But as I have gotten more pussy I realized it wasn't worth the effort and so instead place my time and energy in bettering myself and only go after women who show me IOI in order to waste as least time as possible. Is the Red Pill not in order to se…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:18 AM
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Why tf would I do that, I already took a risk posting my real self. Not going to expose them as well in hopes of appeasing some anonymous dude on reddit. But if you go first and i'll do it as well:)
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:16 AM
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What gameshow have you ever seen where the prize goes after contestants? No with Cold Approach you have to put your best foot forward as you are approaching a complete stranger in hopes she likes you. Don't get that confused you give all the power to her as she is under no obligation to entertain you.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:08 AM
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Narcissism in the #1 trait of an Alpha male. You have to put yourself first in this life, I appreciate that compliment as I used to let others be placed in front of me. Your comment just confirmed to me I have been placing myself first in life and if that comes off as Narcissistic so be it. I would rather be that than what I was before. Thank You
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:01 AM
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I don't know why don't you go ask them :)
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:57 AM
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If you say so, shit's been working very well for me that's why I created this post. As someone who has done Cold Approach and Warm Approach. I will never go back. Do whatever makes you happy bro, and i'll do the same. We can agree to disagree as what you eat doesn't make me shit and vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:56 AM
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That's fine. Do whatever makes you happy. I see myself as the prize and thus only give my efforts and time away to women who let me know through IOI. That is all. I don't think a dime is worth the Cold Approach anymore I value my time to much to try and convince a female to like me. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:54 AM
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Are you purposely acting obtuse. I clearly said THIS is the best ive looked my entire life. There is always room for improvement but as of right now this is the best. If I were to gain 30lbs I would not look as good as I think I do. Doesn't mean I am not at my best right now. Your best is dynamic. Fuck shouldn't be this hard to understand.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:51 AM
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If you are such the prize wouldn't women chase you? Meaning you wouldn't have to cold approach? lol your almost there buddy. When have you ever seen the prize give itself away? People always have to earn it correct? So if you're such a prize why do you have to give yourself away? Cmon now shouldn't be this hard.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:49 AM
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I'm confused how is me being at my strongest and leanest in my life not also me at my best? In this very second I am the best version of myself physically. I don't understand how difficult that is to comprehend. At this very second I am the strongest I have ever been and my physique is the best it's ever looked as I track it. You're not making much sense. Obviously there is still work to be done but I am my strongest which means the best I've ever been. Does that make sense?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:43 AM
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Well shit obviously you don't know that otherwise you wouldn't be Cold Approaching. By Cold Approaching you put her on a pedestal. Do you not comprehend that? You are basically telling her that her beauty is so immense that you had to stop whatever you were doing to go shoot your shot. Does that not sound like placing someone on a pedestal? Vs me living my normal life and if a girl chooses me via IOI I have the option to pursue or keep it moving. When you Cold Approach you give her the power to …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:41 AM
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As of right now I am the best version of myself. I am stronger than I have ever been and more cut then I have ever been. I know this as I take progress pics and track myself. I am not saying this is the best I will be obviously if I continue training I will reach my peak eventually. But as of this moment right now yes I am my best version.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:36 AM
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You are not understanding. I already stated I went through my Cold Approach phase. I am past approaching random women in hopes of getting laid, because that's the only reason to cold approach. Now I put my focus completely on building my life into the best version. The women that come into my life have to send IOI's or else I won't waste my precious time. You only get to this point once you realize pussy isn't everything. Will I Cold Approach a dime if I want her. Yes I will . That's not the poi…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:34 AM
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If that's what you call it fine. I just don't see the point in doing something with less than a 10% chance at success. I used to, when I was younger and dumber and placed pussy on a pedestal. But now I realize there are many more important things than pussy. I can tell you are not at that point yet or else you would realize how much of a waste of time cold approaching is. And I never once called myself Alpha, preciate that though since that's what you think of me :)
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:31 AM
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Well I know this is my best version as only I have been with myself my whole life. Not something really up for debate. I put in the work and my physique is a testament to that. Im not worried about the next guy out there more ripped than me. That's a lot of you guys problem always worried about what some other man is doing instead of putting your head down and grinding..
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:29 AM
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lol, don't need to cold approach as I they give me IOI. Speaking from experience not from what I heard. That's what im trying to get through your hard head. I've tried Cold Approaching and Warm Approaching, I will go with the later everytime as the success rate for me is personally 70-80%. If it works for me why do you care? Seems like your upset, as you came through childishly name calling. I've put in the work and earned my IOI and surprise surprise the women who give me these IOI are some of …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:24 AM
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That's where we disagree, I love rejection as it teaches me something everytime. I believe the Cold Approach and numbers game has made a lot of people numb to rejection which means they don't feel the need to improve. As I define rejection as not right now for xyz reason. Pick a reason go improve and try again. ​ Social circle dating is the best and my preferred way of getting women but this method I listed above is secon up.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:20 AM
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So me looking my best isn't becoming the best version of myself? Which version of me do you think gets the most respect the one I just showed you or me without all that? You sound dumb. I have game, as I get choosing signals, still haven't seen a picture of you yet waiting on it. I get enough choosing signals to where the strategy I just posted works for me guess I should've prefaced it with that. Still no picture of you, let's see who's behind that keyboard other than a loser.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:18 AM
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Didn't even want to flex on you, just had to let you know don't make assumptions on the internet and avoid name calling. How are you Red Pill and resort to childish insults. Loser Still waiting on a comparison picture. Let's see who's the loser out of both of us.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:16 AM
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See how easy it is to make a judgment on the internet without knowing shit. Taught you a lesson huh.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:10 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/AS6edGT Here's a photo of me. I promise you the last thing people call me is lacking self-confidence. Hell I get called pretentious and egotistical more. ​ Which now that I think about it makes sense as I see myself as the prize and don't see the value in approaching random women for sex. Please upload one of yourself .
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:09 AM
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I understand that, and agree that people use it more than it should. In fact it is seen as the premier solution to attract women when it should be used more as a social lubricant for us too focused on our purpose to interact socially which leads to rust.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:07 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/AS6edGT heres a photo of me post one of yourself for comparison lol
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:05 AM
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I agree, however I would say that your friend gets way more confidence from actually being successful in life than he would get from cold approaching. Think of any Superstar athlete like Deion Sanders, or Floyd Mayweather. Their confidence stems from them being elite at what they do. Same goes for your friend as long as he is doing great in business he should theoretically trust himself more and gain infinitely more confidence than sleeping with women. The reason I say this is any man can sleep …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:10 AM
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I see what you mean to clarify It's only worse if the girl is someone you would Cold Approach. Meaning if you noticed she sent IOI and don't approach due to a lack of confidence. Because now you look scared. Also any 7+ you don't approach, as I feel like even if she is not your preference as long as she is a 7+ her beauty is undeniable. (You don't have to though as everyone has the right to only like their preference) So in essence it's only worse if you didn't approach her due to lack of confid…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:57 AM
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If a girl gives you IOI and you don't respond it is worse than Cold Approach as she believes you to either not find her attractive or lack confidence. That's why I made it definite that he would respond. But I see your point.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:39 AM
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"I think the fallacies that I can see with your rant is that it boils down to waste of time and rate of failure." - Neither of which are fallacies https://blog.hubspot.com/marketing/common-logical-fallacies - here's a list. We can agree to disagree as you have stated you love the chase and that's fine I have no problem with that. My problem with the Cold Approach just stems down to the simple fact that it makes you appear lower in value and average. Why? You think you are the only one who notice…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:35 AM
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:) I don't think you understand, You still HAVE to approach her. Only difference is you know she finds you attractive and thus are her preference. You can look amazing but that only get's your foot in the door. Your confidence and mouthpiece still have to be there. And no the difference is I see myself as the prize not what's in between her legs. So I would never lower my value by Cold Approaching. The average 8 gets at least 5 guys Cold Approach her daily, why would I want to appear average lik…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:26 AM
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To clarify my point summarizes to this. MEN of value receive IOI's. Put you effort into becoming a MAN of Value over Cold Approaching. It WILL be more difficult not IF, WILL but the reward is WORTH IT.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:22 AM
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Yea but let's be realistic as bro above had said 10% is at PUA level. Most men are sub 5%. Different philosophies as I don't value pussy that much to get rejected 90x. I value my sense of self worth more than that momentary pleasure. But we can agree to disagree!
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:18 AM
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But a 1% return in my eyes does more bad to a man's sense of self worth than good. Could you imagine getting told No 99x for 1 Yes? Imagine how that feels. I would rather have men work their asses off in the gym and increase their chances of getting IOI's which have a Way higher success rate as she is inviting you to approach her. I just think Cold Approach should be done away with and instead men should focus on becoming the best version of themselves. I thought that was what the RedPill was ab…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:15 AM
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" You are the one that can’t accept that cold approach is a viable strategy for some men" My question for you here though would be how is Cold Approach a viable strategy when PUA have a <10% of success? Especially for the average man. Is 10 out of 100 a viable strategy for you? I can't imagine getting rejected by 90 women to get 10 but if that is a viable strategy ok.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:12 AM
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Also for those who selected Cold Approach in the polls can you please explain why?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:07 AM
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lol don't forget it's just the internet no need to be upset. I misinterpreted your reasoning as to defending the Cold Approach as anyone who ACTUALLY does Warm Approaches would never go back to Cold Approaches. But if you say you do then fine. I'm just telling men to stop looking average as only the Average man Cold Approaches. Instead they can separate themselves.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:05 AM
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Exactly I was just saying 10% to be VERY generous, your numbers are correct. I posted a body pic and my number is less than 10% not to seem egotistical but I believe I look better than 90% of men at least muscular wise.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 04:00 AM
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lol instead of acting sarcastic you could just say thank you for offering a different perspective. No need to be salty, never said I had it all figured out. Im in my 20's and still get flaked on and rejected. Just don't want guys to make the same mistake of Cold Approaching when they should be focusing on themselves.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:59 AM
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No one here thinks their Giga Chad. I just said men of Value have better things to do than Cold Approach. Women KNOW this, if you had 2 or 3 girls in your rotation would you be Cold Approaching? NO, why is that? Because you are already in abundance. That is the why I only go for women who show IOI, I already have 2 girls in my rotation, so I do not go out looking for pussy. Once you adopt this mindset you stop looking thirsty and average. Same reason you get more IOI when you have a Girlfriend. …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:49 AM
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Let's get one thing straight men can't tell if another man is ugly unless you are gay. Next thing is I promise you no matter how outgoing those guys are their success rate is less than 20%. If you are ok with constantly being in random women's faces trying to get some pussy, ok the Cold Approach is for you. There is no reason to do both if the Warm Approach work's even once bro I promise. It's just something you have to experience for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:46 AM
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Your face looks decent, what is your physique looking like. I am currently at <10% BF and will post a pic to confirm and show you guys I have put the work in and am not talking from a place with no experience.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:42 AM
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Where did I say this? "y u should never get the balls to basically talk to a women is pussy shit " I am saying to stop accepting LOW success rate's with Cold Approach and instead focus on becoming the Man who get's IOI's. Your quality of women will increase as you do this. Ever heard the saying "First you get the money, than the power then women"? There is a reason Women come LAST. Women have preferences the same way men do, most of the time you get rejected it's just because you were not her pr…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:40 AM
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I don't know about you guys but I would rather be that 1 guy she sends IOI's to and then I approach. The only way to get IOI's is to hit the gym and improve your Skincare, get a better haircut etc. This is because IOI's for the most part are STRICTLY based off physical appearance. Same way we don't Cold Approach Ugly Women. Women don't give IOI's to average men only the top 20%. Hence the 80/20 Rule. This is NOT I repeat NOT easy to do but once it is done you will be very thankful YOU put in the…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:37 AM
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Only smashing, numbers doesn't mean much yk. If your not getting IOI's you need to hit the gym more. IOI's are strictly based on physical appearance for the most part, I didn't get many until I started a skincare routine and hit the gym. The Cold Approach is the EASY way, it's much harder to build yourself into a MAN who get's IOI's.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:33 AM
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Exactly, that's the point. The one's who DO send IOI's are a HIGH success rate personally 70-80%. What world do you take a 10% chance over a 70-80%? Sure you may not get as much different pussy. But if you have any ounce of game you can convert these HIGH interest girls to long term hookups. Again that is because she gave YOU the power instead of the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:31 AM
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Bingo there you go. Never said they didn't but you just proved my point. ​ "They're just not hungry for pussy like the rest of dudes that treat it like a number's game." By cold approaching you risk immediately being grouped in a category of dudes 'hungry for pussy', those are your words. I'm not saying Never do it, but that should not be the primary way you meet women.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:29 AM
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Using this definition of Cold Approach -To approach and start a conversation with a total stranger, usually with a romantic intention. Yes I would consider that a cold approach unless she gave off some IOI. What is your success rate if you had to estimate?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:27 AM
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No one I have ever known has had a 20% success rate with Cold Approach unless they were a male model. A realistic success rate is less than 10%. Why not build yourself into a better version of yourself so that you can receive more Indicators of Interest? Also what CEO or any man of importance do you know who is constantly Cold Approaching women? I don't know any because they are too busy building their lives into the best version they can. High Value men wait for Indicators of Interest, than pur…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:25 AM
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But you may be right im starting to realize based off most of you guys responses this content may be too advanced for most of you guys. If you like Cold approaching with at most a 5% success rate, be my guess. I promise even the best of us men only have a 20% chance just because women have their own preferences. So when you Cold Approach you don’t even know if you fit what shes looking for hence the low success rate. My method allows you to be very positive she finds you attractive and thus have…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:07 AM
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And noone has been able to debunk any of the Logic I gave. Check out the replies they always end with me being right. You can try, go ahead
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 03:01 AM
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No one has yet to explain to me why you would want to be one of the 5 guys who approach the same girl daily vs being the 1 guy she chooses. When someone does ill take this down.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:59 AM
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You didn’t name a single fallacy. My whole point is women get approached by 5x men daily, and may choose 1 guy that day. Who do you think she respects more, and is more receptive to?? The guy she chooses. I only go for woman who choose me first and otherwise go about my day not being a fiend for pussy and needing to Cold Approach 100 girls to get maybe 5 lays. Does that make sense? By doing this she automatically associates me as High Value as she CHOSE me not the other way around. I don’t think…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 01:16 AM
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In a sense however, Ill try to summarize. The Cold Approach is dumb and a waste of time. I live my life getting what I need to get done done. Any interaction I have with woman in hopes of getting laid is always started by THEM. I never approach a female who has not shown IOI. This results in 70-80% success rate for ME personally. Trying to get guys to understand Cold Approach is outdated and lowers your value. Woman get approached by 5x men daily, and may CHOOSE 1 per day. Who do you think she r…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 01:09 AM
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Great commentary instead of noting which points of my discussion you disagree with you resort to name calling. Im guessing your still a teenager however i’ll give you a second chance. What points exactly do you disagree with?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:36 AM
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It really comes down to thsi. When you die what do they talk about, How many woman tou slept with? or what you’ve accomplished in life? At some point you got to ask yourself when have you had enough pussy? I reached that point earlier than most at 20yrs old. And now am focused entirely on building my life to the best I can. The pussy i’ve gotten now has essentially fallen into my lap as I never go out of my way to Cold Approach and instead let woman Choose me. Saves a lot of time and money.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:18 AM
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You either are very young or very dumb. Pussy will always be there. I realized that at 20 and haven’t cold approaching since. Tell me 1 thing of value you gain from sex? Other than a nut😂😂 Focus on building your life into the best version and pussy will come I promise. Ever heard the adage “First you get the Money, than you get the power. than you get women” They are the LAST aspect of life to focus on. When you Cold Approach you place them first. My method allows you to focus on your life and b…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 12:15 AM
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So being focused on getting what I have to do in life is butthurt laziness. You sound like you’re still at the point in life where you think Pussy is the priority 😂😂 Im focused on building my life and don’t have time to be cold approaching random women. I value my time more than that. It should be used making money not for a 10% chance if getting laid😂
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 11:57 PM
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Im 6’3 210 and a former CFB player at around 8% BF. I wasn’t always this way it took about a decade to develop my mindset of putting myself first instead of woman. I’m not going to lie to you you will have to do the same in order to utilize this method. You’re not a loser unless you think you are. I had to go Monk mode as you would say but involuntarily as I would’ve much rather been having sex. Its going to take as long as it takes unfortunately that time period is different for everyone. My ad…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 11:40 PM
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Yea same here through both Cold Approach and my method. At least my way you have a Higher chance of converting to a lay. With cold approach you just wasted time and energy and shes much more likely to play with you as she knows you like her. Your point?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 11:19 PM
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No, you only Cold Approach women who are physically attractive correct? Women aren’t stupid they know this meaning she knows when you saw her the first thing you thought of was sex. What you’re saying is not in line with cold approach, you don’t cold approach someone looking for a good personality correct? My method allows you to deal with ONLY women who have shown IOI which now means she is trying to IMPRESS you not the other way around. You are in control and have all the power with my method.…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 11:13 PM
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Yea you will miss out on those who potentially would not have sent you IOI. But im at the point in my life where I already have a rotation so I never am in a drought. Meaning im always satisfied and don’t care about adding more woman as I use my time to further my life. Again this is only for those who are past the pussy fiend phase and have built themselves into someone of status. Whether that be financial social or physical, either works.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 10:45 PM
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Very funny, but im sure you understand my piint unless you are obtuse. This method only works once you stop caring about pussy and place your life as a priority. Doing this helps me avoid attention seeking women and I am viewed as the prize because they CHOSE ME. Ask yourself who a woman values more the 5 guys who cold approach her everyday. Or the 1 guy she chose and who approached her? Maybe this game is too advanced for some of you.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 10:43 PM
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Capa lock is only for emphasis im. typing on my phone so I cant bold or Italicize Yes but again that’s because I stopped making pussy my #1 priority which I have stated takes Time usually guys realize this by the time their 25 or whenever they have had multiple lays. It would be a waste of my time to try and convince a woman to like me nowadays through the cold approach. So the only woman I go for are those who show me signs of interest or as you said IOI. This saves me immense time as it leads …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 10:41 PM
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If Caps lock is enough to upset you than maybe you should reconsider what it means to be alpha😂
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 10:09 PM
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That was years ago, wasn’t a star athlete but my physique carried me as I was well above the average college student in terms of looks. I still maintained my physique through college and in accordance to the sidebar where it says to workout. That allows me to get choosing signals and I capitalize off that and maintain those relationships as long as I can.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 10:08 PM
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Why are you going after random women who don’t know who you are? Instead of focusing on your purpose. And if you read what I just stated You Still have to approach women it just lets you know who is there to waste your time and who isn’t. Also I said nothing wrong with cold approach just not my preferred method. As I clearly stated its fine when you’re 18-25 or whatever age it takes you to realize Pussy is meaningless and there are more important things in life.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 10:05 PM
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Well good thing I wasn’t trying to be ALPHA😂😂 I get your point though I typed all this on my phone and didn’t know how to use bold or Italics. Thanks for the constructive criticism.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 10:03 PM
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So everytime you cold approach its a ONS? You are trying to get HER when you Cold Approach making her the prize. Meaning you will want to wine and dine her. Forget expensive date just a date in general. Using my method I dont have to go out on dates 90% because she CHOSE me not the othet way around. You can do both but why would you if you’re living in abundance? Its a waste if time due to low success rates of cold approach
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:56 PM
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Im speaking from the perspective of someone who is living in abundance its a wast le of my TIME which I value more than any female. To Cold Approach. Again this advice is assuming you are already getting pussy and not needy
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:51 PM
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Ok, you obviously don’t understand. Men who are already getting pussy like drake don’t Cold Approach Women. Ill say it again men in abundance don’t chase women or cold approach. Why? Because they already have it. When you cold approach you let her know you are in a drought otherwise you wouldn’t be trying. Foes that make sense?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:49 PM
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Exactly women love to chase guys, but ONLY those that they choose. So when you do get that signal don't immediately give her full indicators of your interest. Make her work for it a little, Women love to do this as it indicates your High Value. Low value men would JUMP at the opportunity but a man who already has women and his life in order can take or leave it. And that attitude shows with how you interact with her You CAN'T fake it, which is why this is for MEN past the age of 25 or who have a…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:36 PM
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My point is would you rather have a 10%< chance at success or 70-80% chance? Cold approach does lower your value as again when have you EVER seen Drake, Future, or someone of status Cold Approach a female? My point is if you have status and are living in abundance you NEVER have to cold approach as you will already have your fill of women. Women know this, same way when you have a GF you seem to magically get more looks and interest from women right? You give off a different energy when you are …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:33 PM
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I noticed that thanks, I included a disclaimer at the top as I understand the need to get pussy at 18-25, so this method should really be for those who have gotten their fair share and don't place that as a priority in life. Thanks. Since I do get at least 1 choosing signal daily I am never in a hungry mindset and instead live in abundance. This allows me to focus on accomplishing my life goals. At this point in my life its a nice benefit but I could go celibate for 1 year and not even care caus…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:30 PM
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Again really depends on the situation. In this one I gave her a smile but didn't do much else as I wanted to focus on my workout first. But usually I will just give her a smile and some sultry eye contact to let her know I understand. But no more than that, you want to play it cool I guess.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:22 PM
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Ok what is your success rate with that approach I'm guessing less than 20% and that's being Generous. My method has resulted in again 70-80% success and I get to avoid costly Dates, and playing the game of seeming High Value. As she already knows I am through the fact I didn't cold approach her. Most women get Cold approached 5x at least daily. So don't you think she places more value on the guy who doesn't do that?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:21 PM
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This post was for people older than 25, thats in the hopes you are out of the phase where Pussy is the #1 thing on your mind. Meaning you are not actively chasing it daily. That is the phase I am at in life, so I never cold approach because that would mean I was taking time out of my day to chase something which has little meaning to me.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:18 PM
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For example this gym employee gave me those fuck me eyes and a wide smile when I checked in the gym. Later when we caught each others eyes during my workout. I approached her as I was leaving the gym so around 1 hr later got her number and smashed that night. You don’t have to rush it but don’t not say anything it makes you not look confident
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:04 PM
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Different on the situation however you HAVE to say something before you leave or else she’ll believe you’re not attracted. My success rate jumped to 80-90% using this method though. And my retention rate is now 3 months at least
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:02 PM
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So what im getting is a lot of you would rather take a 5-10% chance( Being Generous in reality 2-3%) than a 60-80% chance with a 70% chance of converting into A Long Term situationship. My math WORKS. And you avoid REJECTION instead of embracing it. IMPROVE yourself and you wont have to COLD APPROACH.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 08:54 PM
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All the woman I warm approach actually LIKE me from the beginning. Meaning in 60-80% of the time NO DINNER DATES. I can usually get them to the crib that same Day, depending if im in the club or LATER IN THE WEEK. Also MOST OF them end up being LONG TERM HOOKUPS or Friends with Benefits. Meaning I have REGULAR ACCESS to them further REDUCING the need to Cold Approach in general Also as I said in my post this is when you are OLDER than 25 so you can get all the HORNINESS out of you because I get …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 08:52 PM
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Again READ if you work on yourself in the GYM like the SIDEBAR has told you to do you Get CHOOSING SIGNALS daily. I get at least 1 CHOOSING SIGNAL daily when I go out. Mu success rate with these woman are 80% VS Cold Approach 5-10%. If you are looking for an EASY solution this is NOT for you as you have to put in work to IMPROVE yourself first like the SIDEBAR stated.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 08:37 PM
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Waiting for CHOOSING SIGNALS than approaching ahas resulted in a 80% Success Rate for me with 95 NO Flake Rate.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 08:35 PM
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You obviously didn’t read as I clearly Stated COLD APPROACH WORKS its just not the Best Way. What are your success rates i’m assuming less than 10%. I don’t do things with less than even a 30% chance of success. So go READ, you can keep getting REJECTED 80% of the time assuming you succeed 20%(WHICH is A CRAZY high percentage)
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 08:34 PM
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Cold approach is dumb. I get doing it at 18-25 but any older is kind of sad. Women know immediately when you cold approach them that you’re only there for one thing. This raises her Anti-slut Defenses immediately and results in the abysmal 1%-5% success rate most of you have. The women who like you will send you choosing signals, in the form of a smile, fuck me eyes, putting herself in your presence, starting a conversation, bumping into you by ‘accident’ etc. If you are not getting choosing sig…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 08:23 PM
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Maybe try more foreplay or let her get you erect through fellatio. If that doesn’t work try one of those ED pills. ED is usually all mental unless your weiner is somewhat damaged. If none of that works might just have to drop her.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 07:52 PM
1

Exactly anyone who’s had any real interaction with women would have their doubts on the validity of this story. Just goes to show the truth of the old adage,” All good things come to an end”
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 07:06 PM
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Glad i'm not the only one who doubt's the validity of this experience. This subreddit is drastically different from 2 years ago. Guess all these Alpha and Beta topics on youtube has lowered the quality of the sub even more.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 03:46 PM
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The fact the father is alpha is more then enough. Think in the past, men would travel around more frequently and having bastards was much more accepted(from a Chad at least) . Those women knew Chad wouldn't stick around, but knew those genes would give that child more than a fighting chance.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 05:50 AM
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That's why you don't get married unless you do have that option. Or unless your net worth is so low that divorce would not matter. The rubric is set as to how you can avoid getting divorce raped, if you choose not to follow it that's your problem.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 08:51 PM
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Should've Could've Would've. You're arguing on bad faith. I clearly provided 2 examples of where the military industrial complex developed revolutionary technology which has benefited mankind. They would not have been developed had there not been a need. It didn't matter that there was no publicly known active conflict(Key word there is PUBLIC) The USA is always involved in covert missions which makes the Research and Development of technology necessary.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 08:49 PM
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Easily the technological advances from research and development of military weapons has incalculable benefits to the civilian population. The best example I could give you is GPS or the internet which was created for military use and is now widespread in our society. The government allowed the widespread adoption of the internet to mask their presence by means of flooding it with users so it was now next to impossible to tell whether a user was the government or your average civilian. Both of th…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 06:31 PM
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So bolstering the USA’s economy is not a met positive. Just for reference your talking with an economics major, who wrote his thesis paper on the military industrial complex. The evidence is there follow the money trail and everything starts to make sense.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 06:16 PM
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https://www.cnbc.com/video/2021/08/12/covid-19-patient-zero-may-have-worked-at-a-lab-in-wuhan-china.html Again no clear evidence or proof. Ask yourself what incentive would be gained from patient 0 being a Chinese Lab Worker. More regulation on Chinese research on diseases. As China is communist run and traditionally is very top secret with this information. This gives a clear cut reason for international investigation on what is really going on behind closed doors.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 06:05 PM
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Unless you have clear evidence of this you are speculating. And even if that was the case we can look back at multiple examples in history where a pandemic has occurred and the same thing has happened. Big business/ wealthy people taking advantage of the situation and bending the lower class to their will.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 05:58 PM
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The difference is the pandemic is a natural disaster.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 05:48 PM
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Then you still don’t understand. Do you really think the most advanced military in the world can’t handle Afghanistan? Its a ploy to continue the facade that advancements in military are still necessary and we need to keep increasing the military budget. If there was no conflict there would be no reason to keep our military budget that high. The USA simply entertains this conflict for its own reasons. In the end its a net positive as they are allowed to keep increasing the budget, which increase…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 05:42 PM
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No respect for cowardly tactics such as holding woman and children hostage, raping and pillaging their own people, and forcing innocents to be suicide bombers. The US could easily wipe out Taliban but one thing stopping them is, why? Why are we sending our soldiers to the middle east when there are plenty of countries in closer proximity which could handle them. If there was complete unity between Democrats and Republicans this threat would have been gone long ago. Its because of the constant fi…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 05:25 PM
3

💀💀 Thats what I call a fair exchange.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 12:21 AM
1

So what im getting is stay in shape to keep her sexual interest high, which also makes her want to stay in shape to look good for you. And look for someone who’s head over heels for you instead of the other way around. Sounds reasonable, thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 11:40 PM
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What would you say was the secret to staying married so long? And what regrets do you have if any about your marriage?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 10:30 PM
2

Just to clarify further avoiding marriage is still the best option. Especially if you are an entrepreneur, or self employed like a Software developer. But I know some of us want that family life, and it is also beneficial in the corporate world as you can relate to people in higher positions than you( as they too have families and understand the struggle of maintaining a marriage) and it also lessens the chance you would be first on the chopping block as you have a family and your employer would…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 10:11 PM
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Read my comment above. You have to put your money in an offshore trust fund that way regardless of a divorce the US will not have the authority to bring it back into the states. Once you get to the level of being financially stable you should not be married without a prenup also. Marriage has its risks and benefits, sure a judge can throw out a prenup but if they do they won’t be able to find any of the money because it will again be in an offshore account This is for extremely high value men. O…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 10:00 PM
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Doesn’t have to be for modern woman. Plenty of foreign woman who would love to play that traditional role(Latinas Especially) That is also for the brothers who plan on getting married in the future for personal or business reasons. As get advanced in some careers and older having a wife and kids makes you seem more respectable and opens a new circle of colleagues. Just like in politics, there are nearly no single men in high positions of power. Don’t take too much of the redpill marriage has its…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 07:30 AM
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Yep but with an iron clad prenup or offshores trust account. She may always find that Chad more attractive but she won’t be stupid enough to risk her lifestyle for a one time fling. Keep in mind this only works if your financially stable enough to allow her to be a stay at home mom and raise kids. Otherwise your already setting yourself up for failure if she has to work( Work husbands are too common these days)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 09:27 AM
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Not really, but that's why taking gear is not recommended if you just started going to the gym. Wait at least 2 years and develop the work ethic so once your off gear you will continue the diet and weightlifting habits to maintain your physique. You will still lose probably around 10-25% of your gains but that's better than losing 50-75% due to a lack of work ethic and understanding of fitness. Basically unless you genuinely have developed a love for weightlifting and taking care of yourself aft…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 11:44 PM
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What made you decide to start showing him more respect and love? Only asking because I feel myself still resentful towards him for not giving me a proper role model growing up. Also it gets hard to do when they never admit they were wrong and instead find ways to put the blame on me.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/21 11:15 PM
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I can see the merit in this post, coming from a 2 parent household however, I didn't have a strong male role model. It wasn't until HS I begin to notice just how manipulative my mother could be and just how defeated my father was. (Keep in mind im 1 of 8, Father knew he would get divorce raped) It is kind of sad to see how little power he has anymore as he is getting worked to death, as my youngest sibling turns 18 when he will be 65(7 more years). This has led to him no longer having the energy…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 12:26 AM
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