| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Outstanding Resource: Rachel Sloan - Divorce Coach for Men | NeverEndingConquest | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/24 05:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | “If he wanted to he would”, “bare minimum”, “girl’s girl”, etc. Red flags or simply internet memes?Total red flag. Everyone’s algorithms get fed with similar content and that easily creates confirmation bias. Find a woman who’s states viewpoints can observably be tracked back to social media, yeah, she’s getting fed the same shit over and over and that, my friend, creates a limited viewpoint kinda woman, which equates to a giant pain in the rear for you because they’re the same tired ol arguments, lack of understanding & compassion, and, maybe even a bore of a partner. I’ve learned my lesson. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 10:24 PM |
| 2 | One month for each year?Yeah man. Whenever you want. Keep it light and casual at first. Coffee dates maybe. Try keeping the convo on her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/25 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and splitting up assets - this sucks.What’s QRDO? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Trying to move on... It's fucking hardThis helped me get out of my funk- especially the list-making idea. https://youtu.be/I8u6Ad5lc00?feature=shared | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Trying to move on... It's fucking hardGym. Self study. Spiritual growth. Positivity. New women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Moved on in 10 days after 10 years.Yep. Slow burn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/24 07:44 PM |
| 12 | Moved on in 10 days after 10 years.My man. I’m sorry. Our ladies can rip our hearts out ruthlessly and not give a single thought to the devastation they’re causing. Sounds like that’s what’s happening here and I’m sorry. Humans do human things which means some good hearted folks are gonna get hurt. Try your absolute best to keep your cool and start plotting the path out. If you’re in a man-friendly state, take advantage as much as you can, otherwise, use her ambition to be with him against her to craft terms favorable to you and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/24 07:42 PM |
| 5 | My son wants me to take care of my sick ex-wifeThink about the future you. Looking back, how will you feel about this decision? Another major consideration… do you have another woman in your life? How will this affect her and your relationship with her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/24 02:28 PM |
| 17 | Social media infection.Yes. It was the primary tool and conduit that ended a 20+ year marriage. It wasn’t me with the problem and incessant need for external validation. Not my doing, no. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/24 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Ex wife got arrested tonightWe’re all accountable for our choices. She chose to push the boundaries and put herself in this position, then, she continued choosing to make it worse. We all do this. What’s needed is a dose of reality to inspire growth and wisdom. This may be that for her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 02:06 PM |
| 9 | Ex wife got arrested tonightIt’s not your fault. Don’t best yourself up about this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 05:39 AM |
| 9 | I talk a tough gameMy mans. Message me. I was right there where you were just weeks ago and after some hard core focus 🧘 in the right areas, I’m right as rain now, and, my enthusiasm for future me is through the roof. I’m having a wildly fun time, just on the other side of formally divorced. I’ll help you. Message me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 05:16 AM |
| 4 | Got ghosted by fiancéeYou’ll be fine after a bit of time passes. Getting closure is a luxury that not everyone will receive. Head up. Focus forward. Keep grinding. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 05:07 AM |
| 1 | What does everyone do to keep their mind off their ex?Sorry you’re dealing with this. I filed in march. Final in July and I’m not looking back. It took a few weeks to work the bugs out but intense focus on mind, body, and spiritual enhancements has me feeling peachy. Just had to put a new woman in the friend zone because im not interested in a relationship with her. 🤷🏻♂️ Focus intensely on mind, body, and spiritual development. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 05:03 AM |
| 4 | It is FINALHorrah! I can feel your excitement and enthusiasm! Wishing you absolutely nothing but the best of outcomes and future joy! 46 years sounds like a long haul but perhaps the freedom and joy you have in your near future make it all worth it. Hats off to you for hanging in there so long! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 04:51 AM |
| 10 | There is always someone elseLet her go, bro. This shit will eat you up. Don't let it! You must actively train your mind to LET HER GO and surely your emotions will begin to follow. I've been through this very thing. Astonishment, anger, resentment, and more. What you need to do is find peace and to do that, you'll have to let her go. Focus forward on your path, your desires, and your dreams. Let lie what you had with her. Everything changes. Let her go and focus on your growth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife?Sorry, brotha | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife?Good luck 🍀 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife?The day after Xmas!? What a grinch she was to do that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Do I let her gohttps://youtu.be/idQnEgxzNBk?feature=shared | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/24 05:14 PM |
| 0 | Do I let her goFound this today…. https://youtu.be/idQnEgxzNBk?feature=shared I highly recommend her content on assisting men with navigating through divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/24 05:14 PM |
| 4 | I'm slowly but surely feeling betterSounds like you’re making wonderful progress. Keep that can do, positive attitude and keep moving forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Do I let her goThat's the thing, man. It's not too late to turn that ship around. It may take space, time, or collective intentional focus in counseling, but it's not too late to turn things around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Do I let her goIf you feel an ounce of love left and think she may, too, explore that in therapy. We all say things we don't mean when our emotions are excited so try allowing space for grace when those emotionally rooted words hit your ears. Consider saving it if there's something there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Do I let her goNo judgment, of course. Just curious. Were you holding onto hope of reconciliation? Even after divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 05:16 PM |
| 0 | STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon.Can you advise your ex against the intro? Maybe a lil bit of logic or appeal to her instincts to protect your daughter? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Something that is helping me through the divorceWhat a great outlet! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Should I get a divorce?☝️ you’ve got a point. Always good to evaluate what you’ve got, vs what you need / want, and whether a bit of fertilizer would spruce things up. If she’s honorable, loyal, and honest, that’s a great foundation for maintaining a great looking lawn. You’ve got to have those same qualities, too, though. Two way street. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/24 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Why don’t men go on “healing journeys”?Men do. And at more rates. This is a major point in the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. Good read. Highly recommended. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/24 01:44 AM |
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