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| 8 | Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORKExactly. Once men stop dating women is when things will change. KINGS, realize your worth! You don't need them until they need you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.Absolutely true, King. Until WOMEN start paying for dates and taking ME out they don't deserve what I have to offer. I know my worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:21 AM |
| – | If you found out your great great grandfather owned my great great grandfather would you let me fuck🤔?It's crazy how many people can not identify shitposting in this subreddit. A lot of you are so in your emotions when you come here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to sexual equality too>Men should state a list of stuff they want sexually before dating us so we can decide not to date them after seeing it I agree. Lying, whether directly or by omission, about ones sexual needs is a recipe for a sexually incompatible relationship. Men, please stop lying about your sexual needs and level up. If she can't meet those needs then she's not worth it. It takes awhile digging in the dirt before you find your diamond in the rough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:33 AM |
| – | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.that's all WE have to do? No, respecting men is all Y'ALL have to do. I know my worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:55 AM |
| – | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.yeah but there are bigger losers than others. If all of us men, or at least enough of us, got together we could turn the tides. just cause y'alls wasn't a strategic decisions doesn't mean ours won't be. We will be ruthless, we will be cunning... WE WILL BE PRUDES! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:15 PM |
| – | Would you get into serious relationship with a girl who has done ONS/FWB before?if it's 100% guaranteed she'd be loyal and good to me then sure if we're compatible in other ways too. My main reason for being cautious about higher body counts is that it's linked to higher rates of cheating statistically and also im of the opinion it's an indicator of a lack of impulse control too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:51 PM |
| – | A lot of men would rather be with a woman who they know is using them than be single.I understand, the low volume issue is definitely what's making third party spaces less appealing. Even when there is a significant concentration of attractive girls, if the volume is too low and you ask one out and she says no you've basically ruined the chances within that group (some women also say not to enter hobby groups for the purpose of dating). When I said irl environments, I was picturing churches and other religious centers at the time as a lot of my friends who do OLD in the way I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:45 PM |
| – | A lot of men would rather be with a woman who they know is using them than be single.>There're more men who pretend than are actually attracted Very true for both physique and personality. Im a college guy rn and I notice a lot of my friends on dating apps who aren't doing as well will match with women they don't find attractive just to get some action. Crazy thing is a lot of my friends are imo attractive it's just online dating is extremely competitive and they're too lazy to establish connections in irl environments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:53 PM |
| 1 | It isn't fair to think autistic men have it worse than autistic women in dating or any part of lifeyep if only X group understood this and realized how easy their life is compared to Y group, which I happen to belong to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Men: would this be a dealbreaker for commitment?I'd find it odd she's had multiple encounters with famous people, that's gotta be pretty rare. I'd rather take a non-virgin over that although I don't really care about body count within reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:01 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.Absolutely true, King. The day men have higher standards is the day we'll see progress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 01:35 AM |
| 1 | “OF detected, opinion rejected” and why this pov is both incorrect and toxicyour mindset of not having pity for idiots is why they will continue to be idiots and we will still live in a world where they exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Instead of generalizing an entire gender, just admit you have a type and you’re annoyed with your type’s flaws.u/LillthOfBabylon we all care about you deeply and hope you're life is going okay! If you ever need to talk about anything, you know r/PurplePillDebate will be here for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:22 AM |
| -1 | Having kids and pets is the main cause of relationships between men and women not lastingI didn't gender anything, lady. Assumptions make an ass out of you and me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:26 PM |
| -4 | Having kids and pets is the main cause of relationships between men and women not lastingDid I say anyone was??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:18 PM |
| -1 | Having kids and pets is the main cause of relationships between men and women not lastingAnd that's $50/month too much. We know our value now, ladies, and we won't settle for anything less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:49 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?Are you not gonna change this comment: Why are you using marriage rates to justify what determines an incel? Because in 1960, that was pretty much the same thing. I don't even know why people are still disagreeing with this. Every month there's a new study that just further adds to this claim. No there is not a study that supports this. https://ifstudies.org/blog/theres-no-huge-gender-gap-in-being-single-among-young-adults It looks a bit weird when you have that edited comment, I address you r s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:14 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?yes that's exactly what i mean, do you not see that as a problem? From this study 45% of men have never approached a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:48 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?It’s not the 1960’s though is it? Also that study was taken at the peak of covid vs mine which was after. Do you think covid wouldn’t play a role in social dynamics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:44 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?"It doesn't affect me so i don't care" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:06 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?Do you have the study for the first mentioned stat? I cant find it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:03 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?I don’t think this at all, I think their perception of the market is warped because their social circle only consists of people that are not affected by this issue so it seems hard to fathom, especially since this issue is only starting to hit mainstream so it’s not a widely recognized issue yet. Also women don’t live in tutorial mode, they have an advantage in the dating market which is indeed a big boon but there are other large societal that are oppressing everybody that aren’t financially we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:52 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?The ambiguity of the wording does not point to either of our sides as we can’t discern what percent is looking which choice. Are you gonna provide a study for your claim btw? Because if we are just using personal anecdotes i know plenty of men who dropped out of the dating market because they feel like it’s a waste time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I’m convinced online dating doesn’t work for the majority of peopleYou’re right, I didn’t mean strangers I should’ve been more specific. I think there’s a level of caution you should still take, especially at work. Depending on your HR department and who you are approaching it could end with pretty bad consequences. Getting to know these people extensively first takes priority over getting a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:34 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?It is alarming when 50% of men are stll looking for dates and a committed relationship as well as the ratio of young men to young women is a 2:1 so if these uninterested men did enter the dating market it’s not that easy (same source as before btw). Also do you have anything to back your claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I’m convinced online dating doesn’t work for the majority of peopleWhy would any dating app want to be successful? If a dating app had a high success rate pairing people off, the amount of people using the app would be significantly lower. The current online dating market is ideal right now for dating apps. The top percentile of men have an abundance of women so they don't feel pressured to be in a relationship, the women only go for the top percent of men because dating apps only appeal to what you can show and not who you are, and the men at the bottom are pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:13 PM |
| – | Standards are increasing at an alarming rate... What is the future going to look like?Why are you using marriage rates to justify what determines an incel? Being an incel means you can even get laid, there's a good amount of steps between getting laid and getting married. Also, there is an alarming amount of young men not in relationships compared to young women. I don't even know why people are still disagreeing with this. Every month there's a new study that just further adds to this claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 06:58 PM |
| – | As a man with low confidence and LOw value inspite of high technical achievement, women seem to be ... HedonisticI think the concept of whether not your existence is worthy of continuing as an individual is flawed. Healthy people are by nature designed to live as long as possible so it’s seem to be more of a fundamental objective than an objective that needs some requirement before continuing As a member of society I think that there is some requirements that we need to bring which is to help the system functioning to some capacity whether that is being a stay at home mom to replace the plummeting birth ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 05:40 PM |
| 3 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?AI can only learn within the constraints that it has been given, so if you hard code to not injure a human or hate one, it won’t do so. Also you absolutely can unteach an AI, all of it at the end of the day is just software functioning on hardware, erase whatever file is holding the data for the AI and boom you get a new slate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 09:53 PM |
| 3 | The SAME man can be a nice guy to a woman and a f.boy to another womanYou need to lighten up, no wonder you seem like such a Moody Maragret throughout this post lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | The SAME man can be a nice guy to a woman and a f.boy to another womanBlack pills, red pills, purple pills, blue pills, my doctor said I needed to stop taking every pill I find but I didn’t listen and now I simultaneously hate both women and men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 04:31 AM |
| 8 | The SAME man can be a nice guy to a woman and a f.boy to another womanI feel like you just posted this to brag dawg. We get it, the pussy’s poppin and you’re using it to save the day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:21 AM |
| 12 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Absolutely true, men need to stop acting as though they have a “hard” time in society when the real oppressed class is gamers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 08:13 PM |
| – | Maladaptive Social Cognition & Pattern Recignition in DatingI usually know when girls flirt, I’m just very afraid of misunderstanding their intentions and making a move in an environment that is deemed socially unacceptable to do so. Even if they lay it on thick, my fear of that possibility stops me from doing anything and I kinda just pretend I don’t know she’s flirting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 05:27 PM |
| 18 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenI don’t think they pretend, it’s just that when they see one of the top guys the blood starts to flow from their brain to their uterus and they don’t see how things obviously are. It’s like when a big tiddy, third-world girl marries a guy for the visa and then dumps him afterwards. It was obvious to any onlooker as they can see what was happening but the guy only sees the girls tits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 03:48 PM |
| 3 | We need to start teaching young men a philosophy of "persistence" instead of "success", this would drive a lot of young men less crazy and actually show them the very important of patienceIt’s important to have the awareness, but I think a lot of people get hung up on these things and never start because they’ll never have what could be there true potential so they think why bother trying. I think a better outlook is to focus on what could be instead of what could’ve been, and only compare yourself to who you were yesterday and who you want to be tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Where have all the good men gone?I don’t think it’s so much about happiness and contentment as it is that it’s just so much of an easier option. Most of these guys are in a pretty deep hole. They didn’t have the conventional upbringing that would teach them to apply themselves, and now that all their issues have been stacked on top of each other, it would take a huge amount of effort to get themselves out. It’s just easier to lounge around get quick dopamine hits from porn and games | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:25 AM |
| 6 | The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage.Anyone can be bad if you frame it the right way ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you think people can have meaningful relationships with AI?Although it’s true AI doesn’t exist and it’s really only a concept right now, our deep learning models for syntax are advancing to the point where you won’t even be able to tell it’s not alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:16 AM |
| 6 | Husbands should be allowed to CHEAT on their wives...I know for fact your mom’s one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 07:30 AM |
| 3 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?Because getting into college is a competition and it’s a lot easier to compete when 50% of the population is discouraged from getting a higher education. It’s not just the U.S too. We are seeing this trend affect all first world nations that advocate for female equality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?It didn’t reformat it, it just exposed the problems that were already present. Before title IX, woman’s education wasn’t seen as a thing to invest in. Now that it is we are seeing a shift towards encouraging women to get higher education and also discovering the current classroom setting, when marketed equally to both guys and girls, girls seem to have a natural advantage in. This is not bad news, if anything it’s great, but it has left an unequal gender ratio greater than the one in 1972 when T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 07:32 PM |
| 0 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?I agree with your points but to play devils advocate, it seems like since title IX was passed we’ve slowly come to realize how ineffective the classroom environment is for boy’s and how much more effective it is for girls due to having a more well developed pre frontal cortex at an earlier age. I’m not saying a guy couldn’t succeed right now, but if we wanted to bring up the total number of men succeeding in our education system, maybe it’s time we thought about restructuring it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 07:06 PM |
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