| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Wife and I are splitting, what to do about the home?You could always cut the house down the middle and you take your part where ever you go and she takes her part where ever she goes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Reminder to my fellow man.Yea, I cancelled the power, water and the internet as soon as we separated. I had to wait until the next billing cycle, because I had just paid for that month. She lived there for a month and then bam no more anything at all. It wasn't my problem and my kids were safe. Good message! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How much did divorce cost you?5k | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Video Games in your 40s?Definitely don't play games for self-improvement, because not everything has to be done for improvement. You might just want to start walking solo with some music until you get into the right head space. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 01:19 PM |
| 2 | UnsureAre you sure there wasn't another person and this person no longer worked out for her? NEVER and I say NEVER save the marriage for the kids, because it will fail and the kids will be hurt the worst. The only way that you save a marriage is if you both are 100000% in to fix it together and truly want it. If you are emotionally checked out, then probably not worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Ex requests parenting time on my time during my birthdayStop being a doormat for your ex, because that is exactly what you are. If your child is above the age of 4, then they can understand that you have Dad time and you have mom time. THIS IS FOR YOU TO EXPLAIN TO THEM. You have to be a father first or else you will just lose what you have. If she picks him up or constantly keeps him on your time, then she can log that and show a judge. Bam you lose more time with your child BECAUSE OF YOU. Not your child and not your ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/23 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Would you marry again?Of course! I am never opposed to it, but it isn't my priority. Right now I aim to finish up my B.S degree and providing for my children. If something happens or someone comes along, then I am game. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Sex with ex?For a while, yea. In the end, not worth it at all. The time was fun and better then when we were married, but overall it wasn't worth it. Mentally it keeps you behind where you need to be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How different is your wife from before when you were dating compared to after you got married?The biggest difference is that she is my ex-wife. Big change | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/23 05:22 PM |
| 13 | My views afterward becoming Red Pilled.Wait, so you fucked another guys girl and she was the problem? People like you and her are the problem, with that perspective on life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | I need to leave the homer/legaladvice is a better place for this and they will say the same thing. Stay, don't leave and attorney up. I would even goes as far to taking pictures of everything that is yours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Answers from my STBXW and womenShe can't control if they have contact with women while with you. I would simply ignore it, since she has no control over who is around the children during YOUR time. I would consult with an attorney to simply have an even playing field and know YOUR rights with YOUR children. Edit: Looked at your post history and it seems that you do have an attorney. Consult them on this and make sure you get a straight answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/20 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Married 24 years and getting readyNa, gotta chick on the side. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Are we the Hero?Be the best that you can be for your children and then nothing will ever change. The family dynamic is different and that is something that will have to be accepted, but your child's view of you only changes when you let it change. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/20 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever feel like there is a bias against fathers when meeting with teachers/ judges etc?Yea, single dad here and they just don't want to talk to me at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/20 11:38 AM |
| 10 | Anyone ever feel like there is a bias against fathers when meeting with teachers/ judges etc?Yea, single dad here and they just don't want to talk to me at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | The reason women get the kidsThey said a "strong mom and a strong dad", so your mom was not strong. Mine wasn't either so I understand your plight. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/19 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Working out custody and child supportSame lol I got the children and everything. Though it's not really funny it's sad. I'm a single dad now with sole custody and the house, but things still suck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/19 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Working out custody and child supportI paid 5k for an attorney and got 100-0 :\ | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Planning a budget for after the D - Feedback appreciated:I spend about 150 or so on food for me and my children... Bills then money back. I have 2 children with full-time custody. Simple imo | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Based of your own experience, Has getting divorced change your outlook on marriage?It hasn't. I've been through too much to let something like divorce make me expect the same outcome to another marriage later on. I spent my life watching my mother cheat on partner after partner(with a few marriages within the cheating). It softened the blow for me when it happened and maybe that is what hasn't turned me bitter on marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/19 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Based of your own experience, Has getting divorced change your outlook on marriage?You can't lose half if you don't have anything to begin with! Win for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/19 06:35 AM |
| 3 | [OH] Ex-wife gets to decide if our child can stay the night with me.I would ask an attorney. It would probably have to go back to court though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/18 03:34 AM |
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