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No. If I wasn't married, I would want to date someone within a non-toxic age range. However, it's much harder to have a positive impact and help someone gain a bit of direction once they are locked into their 30's. You're pretty much set in terms of your trajectory unless you work really, really hard. In my twenties I might have considered it, as they would have been more likely to be fundamentally a decent person. However, if you have nothing going for you in your thirties and multiple failed r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:02 PM
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Just saying, the MAOA gene predisposes you to certain behaviours. There's a thin red line between a guy that ropes out of Blackhawks for a living and a gunslinger working for a PMC.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:24 PM
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I can get that, as my wife is soppy and likes it when guys are. However, there's a sizable minority of women who do like violent, domineering or criminally minded men - otherwise these traits would not be as widespread as they are now among the male population. That a police officer made such a comment, is rather fitting with an evolutionary biology take on it....and the stereotypes regarding the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:51 PM
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No they shouldn't. At the same time I wouldn't want to be a meal ticket for an attractive 30'sish woman with nothing else going for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:34 PM
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Well turns out, Physiognomy is making a come back with AI. Make of that what you will. Are you sure they aren't criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:30 PM
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I've been told by a female police officer with C-PTSD and BPD, of all people, that she would rather date a killer than a guy that cries or is sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:26 PM
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What if your rescuing involves playing rabies chicken with a stray Belgian Malinois? Am I both proper manly and fostering and caring?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:58 PM
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For us biologists "surprised when they find out that the woman is fit" would have been funnier. Fit doesn't mean what people think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:55 PM
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I don't know about that. But one woman and supposed friend did have her male friend sexually assault me once when I rejected her advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:21 PM
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You stated that drones do most of the heavy lifting, they don't. They kill people, the people dieing to them are the ones doing the heavy lifting. Reece and ISTAR comes under airpower and bodies. SIGINT if you want to go more detailed. Most of these involve being in harms way in a real war as command centres, surveillance centres and pathfinders are all high value targets. Again, you are putting people in harms way. The gulf war was a combination of sheer brute force/rushing the enemy across the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:17 AM
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Complete bollocks. It's only evolved from that because we've been involved in COIN ops. At the end of the day the things that take land in a real, conventional war are: Bodies Logistics Airpower Artillery You don't win a war by sitting behind a desk launching expensive cruise missiles. You win it by occupying territory that your enemy wants and sending more of their boys back to their mothers in body bags than they can handle. You talk about drones further down, but at the end of the day, drones…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:10 PM
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Hard agree here. My closest female friend got so close it got weird and felt like cheating. Friends for twenty years, flipped out because I asked her to stop texting me at 11pm whilst I was in bed with my.....wife, complaining about men every time I saw her and sending me tinder screenshots of guys she matched with. Apparently I was the jealous one after twenty fucking years and got blocked. I think she was projecting. Properly shook me up as well, as I felt like I lost a piece of my childhood. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:53 PM
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What about those of us who were perfectly willing to be friends with women, were once kind to the point women noticed it and cougars took advantage of it....but had women become outraged on repeated occasions because you weren't showing interest in them. "Bro, are you gay or something" etc etc "Who the fuck does this shy boy think he is" etc etc To the point one slowly became an unmitigated bastard after years of being told you had to make lots of money to be useful anyone and getting chased aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:43 PM
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Yeah but having a better job allows you get away with a higher class of fuckwittery. Can't spend all your money on aviation, mountaineering and booze if you're poor. Apparently I might stop one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:20 AM
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You don't think men have danger filters? Do you think gay men are willing to go home with axe murderers? You can't vet personalities on apps like tinder except when it comes to making very general assumptions on obvious markers that would flag up to most men as well. The majority of the issues relating to women not knowing whether a man will actually settle with her boils down to them not realising that men will fuck downwards. Guys that have choices don't settle, just as women who have choices …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:59 AM
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They're often worse. At least all but the steroids dude look natural. On OLD.....the amount of botox infused duck faces with fake tans, blonde hair and a thousand yard stare that combine in a way that makes them look like our lizard overlords is unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:35 AM
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The assortive mating part explains my cluster B BPD ex best friend consistently falling for cluster B ASPD types. Decent people attract other decent people and vice versa, which is why I used to laugh when she complained about not being able to get decent men. - only scumbags or pushovers. I always wanted to say, "love....you are a scumbag....the only people who will put up with you are pushovers and sociopaths"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:16 PM
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Precisely. It helped me narrow down what solutions I wanted to implement and work out was I pissed off about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:56 AM
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Could be worse. Could be stuck with a....stops to compose himself and exhale...a submariner.....bleughhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:15 PM
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Agreed. I swear to god this sub is full of guys with cuck fantasies or something. Go to any infantry or marine base and the average guy there looks way, way better than your average civilian.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:40 PM
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I don't think I resent women as a species lol, more that I'm just prideful these days and bristley. I've learnt that I've always been that guy who would be the last one standing, very few people understood that when I was that shy young kid that I had a serious competitive streak underneath. Then I see the people from my hometown who are either dead or losers and can't help having a slight wry smile and I guess that makes me a bit of a bastard. I suspect you're being hard on yourself and the tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:05 PM
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Sometimes as a guy, I think I was actually more mature when I was younger. For example, I had a crazy, hot friend - the girl all the bad guys want etc when I was in my teens. I was able to compartmentalise her, I loved her but she was fucking nuts and out of my league so was happy to leave it at that - loved her as a friend. She was a dick and was never there when I needed her but she was an entertaining dick As I got older, more successful and more confident ....out of nowhere I was suddenly th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:18 PM
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You all really treat sex as a favor you are doing on those men. No self-respecting man feels rewarded by that. then....errrrmahhh gawwwwwd where have all the good men gone. Luv, I'm flying my fuckin airplane, doing voluntary work or drinking beer in the pub with my dog and my mates. I had my fun in my early to mid twenties, can go for months without fucking if it involves the loss of self respect and instead use my hands. Nothing to prove to others or myself. Pulling 7g is more fun anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:24 PM
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Interesting sidenote regarding religion. In prewar Germany, religion had quite a moderating effect on whether women voted for the Nazis. Catholic women were less likely to vote fascist than the men, whilst women from protestant communities often beat the men. Much less likely to vote left wing than men at the time as well, tending towards centerism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:21 PM
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To add, I think it applies to a lot of the manosphere as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:05 PM
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" Mass movements can rise and spread without belief in a God, but never without belief in a devil." "Unless a man has talents to make something of himself, freedom is an irksome burden. Of what avail is freedom to choose if the self be ineffectual? We join a mass movement to escape individual responsibility, or, in the words of the ardent young Nazi, "to be free from freedom." It was not sheer hypocrisy when the rank-and-file Nazis declared themselves not guilty of all the enormities they had co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:03 PM
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Ray is a leading computer scientist and has been on the mark regarding all of his previous computing predictions. The breakthroughs are coming through at an exponential pace. As I said, good luck. It'll be the first major means of production shift that women have been exposed to heavily in the work place - apart from the advent of digitization (which didn't change the need for labour much), so it will have a lot of educational value and will likely destroy many prior held beliefs about the value…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:23 PM
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Nahh, it's a lot closer than that. Ray Kurzwell is only about 5 years off in his prediction. Good luck, it will be happening to you. Men don't feel comfortable as nurses or teachers as the actions of a small minority are used to tar all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:16 PM
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It's not a typo. Reddit has banned lot of highly regarded community members for using the real word.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:05 PM
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They'll probably be the last ones laughing when AI takes most of the white collar jobs. Also, you know - homes, infrastructure and shelter are important, those men aren't useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:04 PM
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I'm baffled equally by both the fantastic femsplaining and internalised misogyny against other women. You'd have thought a feminist might actually be interested in hearing how a lot of women are fucked out something by ignorance or medical bias. But apparently the sisterhood doesn't extend to not using facetious language and conscious ignorance towards women suffering from various diseases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:48 AM
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Clomid 🥳 Stop trying to deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:39 AM
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Wanking in a cup and collecting it for all but more extreme cases, which also makes it easier to diagnose. Make factor infertility starts to occur at 39 as there is range where lower sperm counts don't make too much of an impact. Clomid is ineffective in POI patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:14 AM
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POR is at a twenty percent risk between 30 and 34. You think a 20 percent risk isn't big at a population level? Wow. Just wow. So for every one thousand women you're messaging "it's probably be alright", 200 of them it won't be. A sperm count drop is not the same as POR in terms of difficulty to mitigate. And again, PCOS expression is highly, highly variable clinically. The fact that you keep making unfounded, wrong or facetious remarks tell me that you aren't a biologist. Lastly, I've been givi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:51 AM
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I know that. I'm not talking about idiopathic infertility, I'm talking about idiopathic POR. And any biologist or clinician would know that PCOS is highly variable clinically and can go undiagnosed for years. And I've already just told that 50 percent of UK cases go undiagnosed until infertility treatment is sought.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:26 AM
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Again. Wrong. Conservative estimates suggest 10 percent of women at a population level have undiagnosed endometriosis. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3143230/ Further PCOS has wildly variable clinical expression, 49 percent of PCOS cases remain undiagnosed in the UK until infertility treatment is sought. "Any idiot can walk down the street and see what untreated PCOS looks like: apple shape, flat frog butt and narrow hips, and facial hair." Do you have any idea how ignorant you sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:17 AM
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None of those and she's been tested for everything under the sun. POR is idiopathic in well over half of cases overall and twenty percent under 35. Whilst the range of diseases you have just covered, covers a huge cohort of the population - many of which such as endometriosis and PCOS can go undiagnosed for years and are only diagnosed after unexplained infertility that could have been better treated if caught earlier. Again, you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:41 AM
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Not really. It happened to my wife - and she doesn't like the messaging and lack of family planning info around when to choose to have a kid. There's lots of people pushing an ideological agenda including those that post comments that "it'll probably be okay". So yeah, ad hom away - but you're just as unhelpful as religious conservatives. The science doesn't actually support your standpoint, any odds that can be rolled on a D&D dice isn't doomerism. It's non-trivial risk. Clomid isn't a miracle …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:35 AM
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And if you're a poor responder to Clomid, it's onto IUI. How many rounds of IUI will your insurance cover? Sweet fuck all in the UK - you have to be trying solidly for two years before the NHS will do anything and from what I've read, maybe half a dozen rounds stateside. And then it's stressing over whether you should just skip that and go straight to IVF and if you're doing it through the NHS you have to go through 12 rounds of it before they will put you through IVF and if you don't meet their…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:28 PM
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"You should be fine", oh well - some great medical advice on reddit here. Must be true. Relative fertility has dropped off a cliff by 35 - and whilst still in the range that makes pregnancy likely, if you happen to be at the wrong end of the normal distribution curve (the 25th percentile) - you are going to have a very shit time trying to conceive and it will potentially cost you more than a deposit on a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:23 AM
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No, but not become a fat, pot bellied angry bastard in your older age goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:16 PM
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Daniel Craig in his twenties is just a kind of average looking guy to me. Could have been anyone at uni. It's in his chiseled and weathered Bond era when you go "jesus, that guy would command a room at a party". If you look at the bone structure of men, their facial bones carry on getting wider and wider as they age - plenty of maxillofacial studies on it. That suits some guys who previously looked a bit meh and weak jawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:22 PM
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Whilst a lot of it is genetics....a lot of that is also drinking too heavily, being angry all the time, having kids and letting yourself get fat. Stress and anger fucks people, have you seen how Rishi Sunak has aged ten years in two? Keep yourself in shape and you can just about get away with being bald, don't keep yourself in shape? Better get on the rogaine and propecia hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:15 PM
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Some guys genuinely don't look good with young faces - Daniel Craig looked way way better in his 40's and early 50's than he did in his 20's. Further, some structural bone changes do take place in men throughout their twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:20 PM
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It probably did. But I know more women who fancy him than Mr boring as shit Cyril Figgis in IT. As I said, things do correlate but the correlation coefficient isn't 1 - it's moderate to high (0.5 to 0.8). Be a good person, have interests, be interested in women because you just enjoy talking to them, throw the probability dice a lot and try to enjoy life. Goes a long, loong way. Boris Johnson is a womanizer for fucks sake and he's a disgusting, bloated blonde mop. Charismatic though. I'm not say…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:23 PM
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Honestly, I think a lot of women are less picky on looks outside of tinder than various Reddit subs would have you believe. It matters - but it's not a linear correlation with dating success. Attitude plays a huge part, don't be boring if you're unconventional looking and whatever you do fucking own it. Don't go through life letting it ruin your outlook, I know attractive women who would fuck Peter Dinklage senseless because he's charming and doesn't give two shits about his stature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:36 PM
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I'm 180.5 cm - missed out on six foot by a smidge. I was quite good looking in my late teens and very early twenties because my youth suited my face and my girly bug eyes. Wasn't that confident though as I did look quite different to lot of people. In my mid twenties I kind of looked like shit due to very slowly receding hairline mixed with a boyish face and in my thirties I became a lot more "Manish" I guess? I'm not classically good looking, I'm maybe a 6/6.5. I have always been told that I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:32 PM
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You see I don't get this. I'm not "conventionally attractive" in a Serge Gainsbourg meets Jesse Pinkman kind of way. Always batted out of my league though and got with stupidly good looking women in my 20's, whilst average women completely blanked me. I was that guy who pissed off good looking athletes because "why the fuck is she with him?" Attractive women take rejection really badly, I've had one shout at me in a bar for not dancing with her, had one tell me to fuck off by text as I just saw …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:59 PM
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Apologies, I didn't really address your main point that leading by example should be the way these things are imparted. I've seen friends who's fathers and brothers were good, decent men - assume that most men would be like that. Maybe its because I'm a rural boy that moved to the city but a lot of my friends growing up were quite naive and couldn't spot bad people simply because they hadn't had much contact with them. I'm not sure simply being a role model as a father, mother or brother is alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:11 PM
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I think men actually do listen to women when they point out the bad qualities of someone they're dating. I would generally shut up and listen to my friends if they had some good points. Society conditions us to assume that women know what they are talking about when it comes to interpersonal relationships. Where I think men in general fail to listen to women, is how to cope with anger or professional setbacks. It's all gendered based on what society tells us what subjects and advice we should li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:57 PM
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Nahhh, the guys that say that are just bellends that are projecting. Having friends that are women is essential - otherwise you run the risk of ending up like some of the angry black pilled guys you see on Reddit, devoid of empathy and compassion. Not only that, having a friendship circle that includes women confers a certain amount of social credibility that helps when you're trying to find someone with long term potential. Introductions to friends of friends etc. I'm not saying they shouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:39 PM
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The problem with that is that many women don't listen to their male friends when we try to help them vet better. You're either jealous or mansplaining. So instead we just sit back and wait for the inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:46 PM
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