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Looks are the bottom line for success in dating. Anyone that has any experience or intuition has noticed it by now.
/r/seduction28/05/21 05:12 PM
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I have severe PRS (Parry Romberg Syndrome). Think again.
/r/seduction28/05/21 05:01 PM
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Yea dude, sorry to say but it's probably looks. If you are a normal dude that otherwise has pretty decent and normals friends and a good relationship with most people in your life, but for some reason, women want nothing to do with you, it probably isn't your approach for "personality". Dating nowadays has really been reduced to a beauty pagent where women are able to pick and then share the best looking men rather than give average looking guys a chance. Right now, there are many cities in the …
/r/seduction28/05/21 04:59 PM
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Looks like girls never want me to approach LOL
/r/seduction28/05/21 04:31 AM
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There's always a bigger fish bro. If a woman is even remotely attractive in 2021, she has probably half a dozen guys she's working that look like male models and are totally out of her league. She only keeps guys like you around for money and attention.
/r/seduction28/05/21 04:31 AM
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Everything works if you're a 10/10 lol. You could literally cuss at them and flip them off and they'd follow you asking you for your number.
/r/seduction28/05/21 04:29 AM
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I can't believe that some of you guys just have this shit fall into your lap while there are guys like me that have never had a women show the slightest inkling of attraction towards me despite regularly being social and outgoing and meeting people.
/r/seduction28/05/21 04:27 AM
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I'm 22 and have been working on myself since I was probably 16, but have been focusing on my looks and approach since I was 18. I'm still a kissless virgin that has never even gone on a date with a girl and regularly gets harshly rejected if I even try to have a conversation with a girl. Can't just "flip a switch" and not be fucking ugly. You obviously weren't ugly or were just telling yourself that you were, because I'm ACTUALLY ugly and it's fucking hell dude.
/r/seduction28/05/21 04:25 AM
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Yea not very close. I'm ugly. I have a weird unattractive face and I've been reminded of it constantly. I was just dealt a shit hand. You don't have to live with it, so saying my issue is one thing or another doesn't really resolve the fact that I'm objectively unattractive and I'm judged harshly for it. I know for a fact because of the experiences and ways I've been treated. I know for a fact that I've never had a girl show interest in me, and I've never had someone reach out to me first to be …
/r/seduction26/05/21 04:52 AM
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I'm in EXCEPTIONAL shape, and I honestly have never approached above a "6", meaning I haven't approached anyone ever really above average or higher. I've only approached average looking people and below. I really seriously care about the conversation over everything else. It doesn't matter how attractive a girl is, if she's giving me all negative signals and being very stand-offish and punctual with me, I'm just going to leave her alone because she clearly wants to be left alone. If someone ever…
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:43 AM
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I'm already very well aware of this sub. It's the truth.
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:15 AM
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When it's the only thing that most women judge by, it sets a scary standard. Basically a eugenicist dating market that is equatable to what Hitler wanted. Women want tall white guys with aryan features unanimously across the board for dating.
/r/seduction26/05/21 01:24 AM
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Trust me bro. Wish I could, but I've actually gone out in the real world and have experience socializing and meeting people. Sorry to say, but there are plenty of guys out there just like me who have their lives together but are completely unable to get attention from the opposite sex because of their appearance. It's a FACT that is agreed upon. There are ABSOLUTELY people who die alone and never have sex because of their appearance. It's actually insane that reddit refuses to acknowledge or eve…
/r/seduction26/05/21 01:22 AM
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? It's the only REAL advice you're going to get on a subreddit like this if you're a 24-year-old who is a virgin and has had no success dating. The ONLY reason you or any other 18 year old would get attention would be because of their looks alone. Younger adults are way more looksbased than older people.
/r/seduction26/05/21 01:12 AM
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You're only attracted to your coworker because of his appearance? Superficial standards are a recipe for disappointment and thinking that all men are terrible when you're really only dating the terrible ones.
/r/seduction26/05/21 01:08 AM
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The girls in my area do as well. Just like they do everywhere else. The only issue is that they fiend of the dick of the top % of men, and ONLY the top % of men. There are so many guys on my campus that can't get laid just because a small % of the guys on the top take up ALL of the women.
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:29 PM
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What if I already do that and get zero results? EXACTLY Just world fallacy...
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:24 PM
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I wonder what part of his "personality" could possibly make you want to do this to him... 🙄 It's all so tiring seeing people reveal their shallowness and not even realize it.
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:23 PM
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This only really works if you're in the top % of men considered attractive lol.
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:21 PM
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Reminder: You are your appearance, and usually fill the mold that society and people make for you by judging your appearance. The 18 year olds that have stuff like this land in their laps don't have it happen because of luck... well, I guess the genetics you are born with is considered luck, so yea, it really does come down to luck for the most part, at least with dating younger women nowadays. I'm 22 and have made nearly 4 years worth of concentrated effort towards improving myself and approach…
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:18 PM
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Congrats on the genetics bro. You have no idea how lucky you are.
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:13 PM
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I’m done tryna help You started?
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:10 PM
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I’m 6’4 and I’m an attractive person but I still had to work hard 😂🤣😂🤣😂 Holy fuck this is hilarious. Just World Fallacy
/r/seduction25/05/21 09:59 PM
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Except, I've literally had 2 therapists, my own family, and friends all acknowledge and casually accept that I am probably never going to get married or have kids because of my appearance. My grandma literally said that at least I won't have to worry about girls bugging me when I went off to college... Like I KNOW I'm ugly, it's not a debate, I'm not deluded, and if I was, I believe that people would've suggested that I have something like body dysmorphia or self esteem issues.
/r/seduction24/05/21 03:12 PM
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So, basically it's over and I never had a chance?
/r/seduction24/05/21 04:59 AM
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The reason you're getting laid is either because you're paying for it, or you're good-looking enough to have success with approach in dating. None of that has worked for me AT ALL in the last several years with WELL over 100 approaches, the number is actually a little over 200 QUALITY approaches in the last 3 years. I mean not just approaching total random strangers, but with the odd 10-11 guys that I socialize or keep in touch with, I've been invited or brought out to a party or bar with these …
/r/seduction24/05/21 03:13 AM
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my bitter? 😕😕😕
/r/seduction24/05/21 03:07 AM
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Wow bro, it's not like I've already spent YEARS going to the gym, exhaustively dieting and counting calories/macros, going to the barber twice a month, showering daily, following a skincare routine, developing my wardrobe quality and variety, and more. I have quite a bit of experience and time spent on self improvement and typically have a lot to teach people that think they know a lot about self-improvement.
/r/seduction23/05/21 09:08 PM
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Lol, I've literally watched girls that could be considered 8's+ approach guys I know and initiate a conversation with them because of their looks. I've been out with friends and they've gotten free stuff from girls working at places while I've never gotten something like that in my life. I literally know guys that just gravitate attention and ALL of them have one thing in common. They're all tall and good-looking. None of them are exceptional in terms of personality. None of them are incredibly …
/r/seduction23/05/21 09:05 PM
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Thanks for the worthless bullshit platitude that is essentially humble bragging.
/r/seduction23/05/21 09:00 PM
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Yea dude, it comes down to looks but people will deny it because then it depresses guys and makes them give up. All you can do is really just try to forget about it. Dating right now is insanely brutal and even most average guys are having a REALLY rough time. Male suicide rates are at all time highs and male celibacy rates have increased over 200% in the last decade while the number of women having sex has remained virtually unchanged. It's really sad to see and acknowledge, but the brutal real…
/r/seduction23/05/21 08:59 PM
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Yea, it would take a long time saving up, and it would be hard to get into a decent paying job in the first place because of my appearance. Even though I would be graduating with a 4.0 GPA and tons of job skills, I would still struggle to find a job because of my looks, then I would still have to work for half a decade, suffering every single day, the entire time. I don't know if I would be able to survive it. I'm already nearing the end of the rope with how hard life is currently. Also, seeing …
/r/seduction17/05/21 10:24 AM
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Just save up tons and tons of money for surgery that has a high risk factor associated with it. It isn't something I would be able to afford and is comparable to telling someone to just go buy a house if they're homeless. Not everyone is a trust-funder bro.
/r/seduction17/05/21 10:14 AM
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Hair is the least of my priorities. I could have a perfect head of hair and women would still want to kill me on sight.
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:34 AM
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Meanwhile, there are guys out here that couldn't ever even dream or imagine a girl looking at them with anything other than disgust. Can't wait to die so I can leave this hellscape.
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:23 AM
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Only works if you're in the top 1-5% of looks really. Otherwise, get ready for disappointment.
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:22 AM
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Step 1: Be good-looking Step 2: Don't be ugly.
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:21 AM
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Want to know the only one that ACTUALLY matters? Your looks. If you're good-looking, you could be high on meth and covered in mud and girls would still be crazy for you. If you're ugly and totally composed and confident, women will want you dead.
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:21 AM
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You could say the same thing for men. If you aren't being incredibly disingenuous or have been outside of your house in the last 20 years, then no, you really can't. That's just being sexist. Sure, the MOUNTAINS of empirical data collected, some of which is done by literal WOMEN researchers, points to the conclusion that women are more looks-based than men and that a LARGE majority of women admit to rejecting a man for his looks ALONE.
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:10 AM
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There is no “ugly” person on earth that this wouldn’t help. Seeing as you're speaking from a position of EXTREME ignorance and your comment was in good faith, I will just tell you that this advice is worthless for me and most people that have put in ANY time or effort into self-improvement. Thanks?
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:06 AM
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The idea that it’s 90% looks is projection Probably an understatement depending on what age group you're talking about, but I think you need more real-world experience bro. What’s wrong with being picky? When 80% of women are sleeping with only 10% of the men, that becomes a HUGE problem. Want to know what gave rise to terrorism in the Middle East? High celibacy rates among young men without a purpose in life. The same thing is happening now in Western countries. The end result is the inevitable…
/r/seduction17/05/21 07:54 AM
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Women can detect if a guy is a douche or undesirable once they talk And yet women still continually end up in relationships with shitty guys who are at least good-looking? It really comes down to looks over everything else.
/r/seduction17/05/21 07:50 AM
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Men aren't entitled to sex though. If you'd say the same for women, they would freak out and laugh at the idea that they aren't entitled to sex or pleasure. Just look at how most ordinary people reacted to the covid lockdowns and being away from people for WEEKS, not even MONTHS or YEARS. Neither gender are more superficial than the other. Blatantly disingenuous and not at all backed by the actual empirical data that's present. Women are far more picky on apps like Tinder than they are in person…
/r/seduction17/05/21 06:59 AM
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Yea, attractive people are basically handed everything in life while ugly people have to work twice as hard and many still fail. It sucks, but with the extremism in looks and superficial dating requirements, something BIG is going to happen in the next few decades where a lot of men just have had enough and decide to start destroying stuff. It's sad how looks are really all that matters to women nowadays and is incredibly depressing for the future of humanity. It sucks that we can see the inevit…
/r/seduction17/05/21 04:59 AM
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Bro, all of this has nothing to do with my situation. You wasted all of that effort and none of this even applies to my situation and most of it is just pure delusion and not at all based in reality. I am ugly. Nothing is going to change that. I can't just make shit up in my head and other people will believe it. I'm probably at the far end of the extreme when it comes to ugly people, and that's even AFTER already doing next to everything possible to make a difference. It's over for me.
/r/seduction17/05/21 04:58 AM
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... "JuSt DoN't tHiNk AbOuT wOmEn bRo" Okay... now ask two magnets to not attract! Thanks for trying bro, but I think I'm good. XD
/r/seduction17/05/21 02:32 AM
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But i had to work for it to make myself better looking (was probably a 6 before i started to lift weights, probably closer to an 8 now Yea, you have no idea what my situation is. I'm probably starting as a 1 and right now I'm a 3. And that's doing EVERYTHING except for plastic surgery. I have really poor genetics dude. I can't say anything other than I was probably never meant to be alive. I'm not even going to spend the 30 minutes going through your entire post and detailing each point as to wh…
/r/seduction17/05/21 02:26 AM
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Bro, the guy in the video is WAYYYYY better looking than me. You never see these guys using a genuinely ugly dude because even they know that it would never pass or sell as being real. I've literally had people tell me that they would kill themselves if they had to look like me.
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:58 AM
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Life isnt always about women. When you've been working at something for years and it's the only area of your life that you actually struggle or fail with, then yea, it can be incredibly disheartening to constantly fail and get rejected by people for something entirely out of your control. As for the advice of your therapists, I would tell them that I am already doing all of the things to improve myself and get confident from, but I cannot be confident while approaching women and getting harshly …
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:57 AM
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Keep trying and if you don’t ever succeed you can leave this world knowing you tried until the end. Not really worth it if you know you never had a chance. It's like choosing to do a foot race against a bunch of guys in ferraris. I never even stood a chance.
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:49 AM
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I'm probably 3-4 years already deep in doing all of that stuff with nothing to show for it all. I am nearing the end of my ability to keep trying. I have tried so hard and haven't seen a slightest budge in love life.
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:48 AM
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This is like a billionaire crying about not being a trillionaire. Lmfao. You deserve nothing.
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:46 AM
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This shit only exists for ugly dudes. She's just grilling you before rejecting you. If you're good-looking, she hits you up and is the one to initiate sex.
/r/seduction16/05/21 09:50 PM
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social anxiety Meanwhile, there are those of us who have no real inhibitions or anxiety, we're just ugly as all help and people treat us awkwardly because of it. Yes, already go to the gym, barber, wear fashionable clothes. The brutal reality is that women will not settle for anything but the best nowadays. You cannot be anything less than extraordinary nowadays if you want a chance with a girl that isn't 300+lbs.
/r/seduction16/05/21 09:49 PM
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Totally false. If you're actually attractive or a catch, there's virtually no one in the world that would say no. There are even plenty of women that would not claim to have a boyfriend even if they did when you would ask them out. Actually seeing an attractive person in public and understanding how much power they have dating really changes your actual outlook on life. So many people have no idea how easy it is when you're good-looking.
/r/seduction16/05/21 09:48 PM
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Some of us were just dealt a losing hand in life man. I'm planning on killing myself sometime this Summer. I'm done with this shit. I can't take the loneliness anymore. I am constantly rejected for my looks and things outside of my control. It seems like even chubby or below average girls nowadays want or go after guys that are way out of their own league of looks. It's just so disheartening seeing guys better looking than you getting rejected by girls based on their looks. It's like I never eve…
/r/seduction16/05/21 09:45 PM
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Do you have any major facial disfigurements? I do.
/r/seduction14/05/21 03:46 PM
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I don't want to get the cops called on me.
/r/seduction13/05/21 10:41 PM
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Reminder: very few of these girls were actually in relationships or had boyfriends. Almost every woman will tell an attractive guy that she doesn't have a boyfriend even if she does. What makes you think she's going to be honest with you when you're approaching her? She isn't going to shallowly reject you for your looks, but saying that she has a boyfriend instead makes it look like she's already taken, and she doesn't look like a shallow bitch. Seriously, none of this girls probably had a boyfr…
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:58 PM
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I can't approach any more as an ugly guy or I'll go to jail lol. Women HATE ugly guys approaching.
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:54 PM
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Bro, I still approach knowing that most women want me dead for being ugly. It's over.
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:53 PM
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Okay... but what if we're ugly? Lol. I cannot even fathom ever doing something like this and having a woman not want to kill me or call the police as soon as she sees me.
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:53 PM
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Meanwhile, here I am getting laughed at and eww'd at by at least 25% of the women I approach. It's so over bro. Any day now will be my last.
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:51 PM
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God, I wish I was good-looking. Can't even imagine doing some shit like this lmfao. Not even out of shape or anything either. Stay on top of all of my hygiene and go to the gym 4-5 days a week. Just sucks being ugly I guess. Have zero chance.
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:48 PM
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