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| 2 | Petition for Protection from Abuse, wants me to leave the house.Please DM me, I just went through this 16 months ago and still have not set foot in my house since the divorce isn't finalized. I was married 19 years. I'd be glad to quickly coach you on what you need to do ASAP. Don't delay, get your valuables out NOW. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 02:34 PM |
| 3 | AlimonyYou're definitely young enough to recover if she gets half the retirement if you were to retire in your 60's. I can see why you're debating this due to your planned retirement age. I always say it's worth it to spend $3500 on a CDFP (Certified Divorce Financial Planner) or a skilled general Financial Advisor when weighing these options. Sounds like a lot of money up front, but the long term savings could be significant. Above all, protect your mental and physical health, be a good dad, and alway… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | AlimonyAlways speak to a financial advisor before taking Reddit advice, but here's my take on the matter: Depends what you value more at this point in your life. Your age is a factor. A judge will usually award half of everything, home and 401k if you go to court and don't settle via mediation. If she gets half of the retirement, it will likely be via QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order). This may not be as attractive to your spouse, because she will have to roll that $150k into a plan she can't t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/24 02:09 PM |
| 7 | We’re all in the same hell, just different levels. We’re all fighting the same evil, just different devils.Uffff, the mountain bike part really hit home. I had to once nearly commit fraud to hide the fact that my 2019 Santa Cruz 5010 was double the price that I told her. All because my hobbies, which brought me joy, were something she could never begin to comprehend. I've been on the journey for 6 months now and have never felt more free. You only get one shot at this thing called life. Make it good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 07:49 PM |
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