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Truth hurts
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:05 PM
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Men? Bro, if you or any other dude on the forum spoke to me like this in person I would slap the shit out of you. There's no need to insult people to get your point across.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:02 PM
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Tough love and insults are two different things my friend. Show me the way but don't disrespect me. At the end of the day i'm still a man, and if anyone here were to say some of this shit to me in real life shit wouldn't be so smooth.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:00 PM
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Based on the responses this thread is getting, I'm right...
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:59 PM
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Yawn You treat everyone like shit
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:33 PM
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The trolls shouldn't be coming from the higher ups though. They should be coming from everyday users not "respected" admins.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:32 PM
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I had another name before this one. See ya.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:33 PM
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Let me ask you something... Are you learning more from the sidebar or the fucking assholes who are so called experts?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:11 PM
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Fuck you and fuck your two cents. Who the fuck are you? Who asked for you to talk out of your ass? My point exactly. This is how a "TRP Endorsed" member acts towards his community? Sad lol Son, you're a joke.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:09 PM
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That's not what i'm trying to say at all. My success rate sky rocketed after I stopped giving a fuck tried to be me after all these guys told me I shouldn't.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:04 PM
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I'm speaking in generalities, that's all. Some of you guys think you're leading guys down the right path and it's fucked up. I feel for the guys who feel they need to force themselves to be something they're not in order to cultivate some success. The financial and personal health advice is great, but the dating advice is fucked up. Just my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:01 PM
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I'm not butthurt at all, I feel good. Just a little worried.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:29 PM
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I don't know, that's how I normally am about these things haha.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:09 PM
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Ok i picked out a few venues in the area we can go to. Tea place, food, walk in the park, then home (maybe).
/r/askTRP26/09/17 11:24 PM
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That's all y'all think about. I don't wanna be home today.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:19 PM
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Ill leave that for the 3rd date (if there is one)
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:17 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:29 PM
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Yeah but what do you do during that time, ignore her completely?
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:12 PM
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No I scheduled it
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:23 AM
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She has family from her country here for the week and said we can go out Tuesday, but I don't trust when bitches say that
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:36 AM
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Ofcourse I have better shit to do, but it's only been one date how is one suppose to keep the attraction up? By not saying a word? I texted her earlier and now it felt a little awkward because...wtf am I suppose to do? SMFH
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:18 AM
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Makes sense, I just wanted to get people's thoughts on this situation. Some people believe not talking to them at all makes them want you more but I've never experienced that after a 1st date.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:08 AM
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We've been texting since the first date, but sometimes I feel like a pest just texting for the sake of texting you know?
/r/askTRP22/09/17 02:58 AM
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Gotcha
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:37 PM
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What about the cheese??
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:48 PM
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That's exactly what I mean. This chick asked me about other girls I'm probably talking to. I told her, "I don't kiss and tell, however if you have to know 1 thing its this: Pussy and sex that's no big deal, that shit is easy. What's hard is being a person who demonstrates values and creates an environment that empowers everyone in their circle. Now THATS powerful!"
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:22 PM
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You believe your own lies, that's not lying lol
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:13 PM
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I totally get that, but how would someone know if I am?
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:50 PM
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I noticed something about my game. I noticed that I get more results when I just be myself or when try to teach a girl something. Its like there needs to be a healthy balance of playfulness and authority.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 05:19 PM
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So the girl texted me this evening. She asked me how I was doing and that she had a great time with me. I told her I had a great time too and when is she free again? She said she has family over this week from the Dominican Republic visiting and it's going to hard to make time. I just said, "Family is more important, we can just hang out next Tuesday again after they leave. I don't have free time until next week anyway since I have plans this weekend". She said, "ofcourse, i'd like that".
/r/askTRP20/09/17 04:20 AM
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I'm not inexperienced, but I've had instances where women would give me good IOI's and wouldn't want a 2nd date. I feel like this might be one of those situations, especially after not kissing me.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:26 PM
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Well lets see.... Her eye contact was above average direct She reached out to pinch my arm (once) We were teasing each other a bit She let me touch her arm and hand when I was looking at her bracelet She said, "If you were boring I would have left already" in a jokingly She said, "I'm going to start calling you to help me with my English" jokingly Overall, I think the IOI's were neutral nothing to call home about. She didn't text me when she got home but then again I didn't ask her to.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:05 PM
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What exactly is a positive reaction though?
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:44 PM
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Nope, I just decided to go for it at the very end. A lot of light kino touching (mostly by me) she reached over and pinched my arm lightly once or twice and alot of light flirting as well. Eye contact was good and she never seemed bored. I didn't spend much at all, so I'm not too upset about that. Her english was rusty (she's from the Dominican Republic). She used several jokes that alluding that we're going to see eachother again.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:21 PM
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No they won't, you guys are always saying this shit. It never works out that way, ever. You obviously didn't read my response to his comment. If people are the by product of my value then that means I have nothing to offer. What if this is the best ill ever be and no ever wants to "compliment my life" or share anything with me? Do you think that's healthy on the human psyche? Are you people that sucked up into this bullshit that you honestly believe people especially men don't need love? If so m…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:56 PM
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So never get puss. Gotcha
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:01 PM
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I have a better job, I exercise, I eat well, and dress well too.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 01:50 PM
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It still doesn't make it any less of a fact. And yes, a lot of them do complain, TRP is just to blind to see that 'having your shit together' is not a real solution. If you're not getting girls who cares about their life. Its boring, lame, lonely and garbage. Fuck this shit
/r/askTRP09/09/17 01:22 PM
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Its whatever, I watch porn every day and you're right it will never leave me.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 12:44 PM
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Man shut the fuck up with this new age woo-woo nonsense. People love lying out their ass about this stuff. I'm doing pretty well in my life right now and I'm not getting pussy. People keep trying to sell me that stupid idea, its bullshit. There's plenty of people who have their lives in order and can't get pussy, who are you fooling bro?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 12:42 PM
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Fuck these bitches. Just gotta face the facts, some have it and some don't. This is not something ever man can obtain, I have no idea what the fuck i'm doing, and I have no idea where my mistakes lie.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:45 AM
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How can anyone know where to improve if every approach attracts different women, what exactly am I suppose to be improving?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 03:54 AM
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Maybe I do, but I don't know what that means
/r/askTRP07/09/17 10:14 PM
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I tried that that's why I'm back at it
/r/askTRP07/09/17 10:08 PM
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Sarcasm, much?
/r/askTRP07/09/17 09:35 PM
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Yes, alot.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 09:12 PM
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Look, I don't have time for your nonsense...
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:16 PM
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That's the problem, I don't want to be suited for MGTOW, but i can't help the way I feel.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:11 PM
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Well she does go to the gym I go to so that's a plus. I think I've even seen her there or in the mornings around my bus stop a couple of times.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 03:56 PM
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I don't care about that, she's a bank teller. Also according to what I hear here money isn't the end all be all.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 03:30 PM
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My biggest problem with flirting is that I know when i'm doing it. It's like I need to have a guideline in my head when I do it otherwise I don't know what i'm doing. Also when i'm around people who tell better stories than me I feel like that might overshadow me in a sense.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 01:56 PM
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????
/r/askTRP27/08/17 10:26 PM
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Because the women on there are garbage, I want something better and i'm definitely not going to find it on there. However, I feel like I need to settle for the scraps I get since my ego is far more precious to me than getting my dick wet.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:56 PM
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That sound good, but while i'm working on myself what should I be doing about my insecurity issues when talking to women? Everything you said takes a lot of time to work towards. Also isn't it alarming that in my 27 years of living I have only asked out 1-2 women in person during my lifetime? My ego and pride is vital to me.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 08:34 PM
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I understand that, however during my interactions with women i'm usually the one who's not giving anything back. I just want things to stay casual and end ASAP. My friend holds a strong frame towards women, calls them out on their bullshit, and teases them a bit. Which you tell makes them incredibly wet. I could never do that if my life depended on it. :'(
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:45 PM
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I see, thanks anyway...
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:34 PM
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Nothing does...
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:26 PM
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I'm not depressed anymore, I just don't like putting myself out there. Nutrition isn't going to help me get laid, I feel fine.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:14 PM
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Yes I do. You know I hear that alot. People I meet tell me I shouldn't have an issue with this dating thing, that it should come easy. Its like telling Lebron he should be Michael Jordan. He can come close, but he'll never be MJ. I can come close but maybe ill never be good at this dating thing. Mind you I'm only saying that here because I need help. I NEVER express this side to people in my personal life, even my best friend. I don't want my friends to know I suck at getting girls. I rather the…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:00 AM
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That's now though. I never thought about my moves until I was only pulling 1 out of every 20 girls. The thought of it is frustrating so i'm now at a point where I don't trust myself. Maybe i'm just not likable? Who knows...
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:12 AM
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This idea on here that we're supposed to be the silent strong type does not apply to me at all. That doesn't apply to me neither, I like to talk. I think it's topic worth delving into since it happens so often. I'm now at a point where i'm calculating my every move on a date because i'm so scared of messing up again, I don't trust myself anymore. I wish I knew what the problem was but I don't shrugs
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:06 AM
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Or in the rare case she doesn't like me I get ghosted or slow faded. That's my problem, it's a rare case for you but for me it's 90% of the time and I don't know why, that's the most frustrating part. I do enough kino, I escalate, and I try to have fun, but eventually I end up getting ghosted.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:53 AM
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Yes, but it's difficult when i'm not suppose to show or express desire. At least with the transaction method i'm at least showing the girl that she's earning her way into my life. I've had one too many dates where I felt things went well and then the girl won't answer back when I text her later in the week.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:46 AM
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Wait so you suck with people AND you can't read? Where did I say I didn't want advice? I j7
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:57 PM
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Dude, re-fucking-lax stop acting like a piece of shit. If you don't want to give me advice then go on your way. Stop crying like a little girl every time someone asks you something. You sound like a pussy.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:46 PM
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Sidebar or not some of this goes against what I see working for my friends all the time. My friend clearly shows desire to every girl he comes across and he's able to get lays often. I'm not saying you or the sidebar are wrong but it's hard to believe what really works sometimes.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:06 PM
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I agree I need work on that. What do you do on first dates to build up sexual tension?
/r/askTRP15/08/17 11:56 AM
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The sex game lacking part is true because I typically clam up Alot during sex. I don't say much and I try not to get too nasty due to fear of STDs or girl finding out about my fetishes and kinks. I know it sounds lame but I now see I'm definitely lacking in that department. The needy part I don't know if I can really fix. If I desire someone then I can't NOT show it.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 11:54 AM
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She's cute and I felt bad lmao But yeah, I'm not wasting too much time on this chick, she better shape up quick.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 11:57 PM
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Even the bartender was like, "bless your heart for sticking around" lmaooo
/r/askTRP12/08/17 11:52 PM
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Well I mean I did give her a hug when she started crying, but after a while I changed the topic to something more fun. The pinball arcade was fun, I should do more physical stuff during dates.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 11:14 PM
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Cherish your mom bro. There aren't too many women like her.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:01 AM
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I left it alone... I told the girl I don't want to jeopardize our friendship and told her good luck.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 09:52 PM
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Idk he's probably gonna ask, "why would you even swipe right on her??" Mind you I didn't message her first and the date on Saturday was her idea, this is awkward.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 05:10 PM
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But you have to understand something: I never met this girl (even when they were dating) I haven't spoken to him in over 4 months Its been 9 years, they dated in HS I didn't even know it was her until I checked her Facebook
/r/askTRP09/08/17 04:53 PM
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Can i just play stupid and act like I didnt know? I never personally met her. This is a girl he use to tell me about. She was never in our circle at least not when I was around. I haven't spoken to him in over 4 months but I still consider him family. This is a weird predicament because I feel like I shouldn't be asking permission about this, but you might be right...
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:35 PM
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My mom has her moments when she's over protective (because she's a mom), but for most of my life she's kept it 100% with me. She told me she married my dad because he wasn't a pussy When I was at my heaviest she said, "you're getting big you need to drop a few pounds (I did)" "Your shoes are getting worn out. Please get a new pair, it's embarrassing" "I love you, but don't ever let that get in the way of loving yourself" After my painful break-up years ago: "Don't call her, and don't beg for her…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:53 PM
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I haven't even taken this girl out yet. If we eventually start seeing each other then ill def. tell him.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:14 PM
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He will probably still hate me if he knew.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:13 PM
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Ummm
/r/askTRP09/08/17 01:55 PM
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So bitch hit me up, right? She asked me, what am i'm doing and I said I just got home from buying groceries. Then she asks me if I could meet her and her "friend" for drinks not too far from here. I told her, "I just got home, come through after you and your friend are done hanging out." She said she has to leave soon since she works tomorrow. I said,"that's fine, come through and I'll get you an Uber before you leave". She said, "I can't do that tonight, they're waiting for me at home". I said,…
/r/askTRP06/08/17 10:57 PM
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So I shouldn't hit her up at all?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 06:12 PM
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I've done ok with online dating. Most of these women are just straps, but hey, you got to do what you got to do.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 12:29 AM
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I totally get what you're saying and it makes alot of sense. However, this further indicates that I should just stick to Tinder. I don't really specialize in anything, therefore it's going to be hard for me to gain status.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 12:15 AM
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I think i'm attractive enough, younger girls have told me so. I would post a picture, but I don't think that's appropriate here.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 11:48 PM
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You're fucking 30 year olds. Thats your problem. Most attractive women after ~23 are taken. There aren't any cute, sexy women under 23 on Tinder so I don't really have a choice in the matter. I'm 27 and live in NYC, the women you're talking about are in clubs and rave bars not open to dating.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 11:43 PM
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No brag whatsoever, honestly 3 girls ain't shit. I don't try though, the first girl wanted me to "like her". The 2nd was a throwaway for me, and the 3rd I want to plate, but i'm going to lay low. How can you keep someone if you don't reciprocate interest? She's probably going to think I don't want her anymore.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 11:28 PM
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No, im serious. Broken women are more fun.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:51 PM
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That's what my friend says but I have yet to see or experience that.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:26 PM
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I need them to be broken to want me or else it's not fun
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:19 PM
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There's alot of truth to your statement
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:42 PM
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You must look like a young 47 year old, with a full head of hair...
/r/askTRP04/08/17 07:10 PM
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Wow, you're a better comedian than you are a consultant. You're probably in the wrong field buddy.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 02:22 PM
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Yeah, it shows how retarded this place is. Starting with you lol
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:51 PM
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Honestly, I had a pretty chill, awesome, and pretty chick when I was in my last relationship (over 2 years ago). Since then I've chosen to just see and fuck sluts because it's way too hard to find chicks like my ex.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:56 PM
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You can't even give half decent advice but you're TRP Endorsed? LOL
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:43 PM
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Some of them can't, you're delusional.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:13 AM
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Doesn't take away from the message. I'm sorry that you're too autistic to understand satire.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:52 PM
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Go fuck ten other women is great too The fact that some of you think this is realistic is baffling to me. You know what's hilarious? That you guys preach abundance mentality, there's more woman than men, 8 billion people blah blah blah. However, if we had to narrow down the "decent" model of a woman, that would only leave us with, what? Don't fuck fat chicks Don't fuck post wall women Don't fuck women with kids Don't fuck women with STDs (ofcourse, I agree with this one) Don't fuck women that ar…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:36 PM
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My exaggeration was to be taken in jest, not seriously. However, some long time members and even moderators have this terrible habit of telling guys in here to next every girl for a multitude of retarded reasons. Granted the reasons you laid out are good reasons to next someone, however I believe most guys in here have developed a head high off of their own success. They think just because THYE can next 60 chicks a day the average joe can too, yeah no..lol
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:24 PM
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Nope, I make great points. Guys like you take the whole "abundance mentality" talk to a whole new level. You message is not for everyone, I'm just simply telling people to think for themselves. Don't be a dictator, you're no genius either my friend.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:12 PM
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I'm trolling, really? Maybe you guys shouldn't give such shitty advice shrugs (the moderators are the worst btw). You guys take the "abundance mentality" talk to a whole new level.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 07:59 PM
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?
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:49 PM
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I completely agree. I also find that some of the casual advice about women here is awful at best. The sidebar will have all the advice you will ever need about women. However here it's like: Woman said hi to guy at work* "DUDE, SOFT NEXT HER!" Girl didn't call back after falling asleep "D
/r/askTRP03/08/17 04:10 PM
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It's all just sex. Anything else you add to the act is on you, it's your head, your ideals, your emotions, your expectations and misconceptions. Yes, ofcourse it's just sex when you're on the outside looking in, but it's not when you're involved in the act. People like to say it's JUST ideals or it's JUST emotions. Emotions and ideals are very powerful precursors. They can cause: genocide, war, your immune system to weaken, diseases etc. I'm not saying you're wrong, however I do think people lik…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:03 PM
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Oh, but I never told her anything. Once I started feeling a little limp I just started eating her pussy. She liked it so much she wanted to suck me herself and it helped to get my dick hard. Never once did I say "I can't get hard" or "Damn, lets just do something else since this is not working".
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:43 PM
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All chicks are whores AWALT
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:32 PM
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Huh?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:29 PM
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It was much easier to get hard when she was sucking me, but more difficult to keep it up when I was Fucking her.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 05:52 PM
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Its a huge red flag that I don't want to look like a creep and get yelled at in front of everyone? Hopefully this is something that a few new decent photos can fix.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:48 AM
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But how does one just stop a girl walking in the street and start a random conversation? I don't know what I would talk about. You said saying, "just wanted to stop you because I thought you were cute" is dumb but wouldn't it be easier to put your intentions out there?
/r/askTRP26/07/17 12:11 AM
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How long did it take you to get a date like that? And how long did it take you to get good?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:58 PM
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Daygaming is time consuming and 9/10 girls you meet like that don't remember you or don't text back. I doubt it would work well with my personality.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:55 PM
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Nice, enjoy
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:50 PM
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You must look like a god my friend. My genetics won't allow me to have the luxury you have.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:43 PM
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Bro, I know that already, stop regurgitating TRP logic and making my situation seem more serious than discribed. All I said is that I want a girl, that's it. I don't want to go rock climbing or sail the 7 seas. I just want to get my dick wet with someone I enjoy to be around. Lets start there...
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:06 PM
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Sucks, but i guess that's what i have to do. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:27 PM
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I agree with some of the things you said, but I don't want to hear that whole "you should be enjoying your own time" nonsense. Humans are social creatures and we don't belong by ourselves. Pussy and girls are fun and that's what I'm craving right now.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:26 PM
1

From what i remember I can't recall displaying any beta characteristics; however, I can see the first option being true. Telling me to kiss her on the cheek was a good sign of that, I was never going to do that shit anyway. I'm just going to leave this bitch alone, someone else can be her provider and "try-hard" dude. Not me...
/r/askTRP25/07/17 03:46 PM
1

Willing to bet you messed this up before the date even began. How?
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:32 PM
5

Eh, ill let just let this one go. Its not worth it lol
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:53 AM
2

Guess I should be on my best behavior
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:48 AM
1

Ghost her?
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:46 AM
1

I don't shake under fear when i'm in the presence of these cute sheilas, but if I had to take a guess then they rather not be with me.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:48 AM
1

Well you don't know how to solve that then I know even less lol. But thanks though.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:39 AM
1

I don't know man. All the nice feminine women I go on dates with are fucking ugly. Whenever I go out with a cute chick who's company I enjoy she turns out to be very masculine and shit tests galore. Damn if I do, damn if I don't...
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:19 AM
2

I'm 27 She has more male friends than female friends. She has a kid. The text she sent after I left. I don't know what i'm looking for...
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:17 AM
2

Well, I didn't kiss her on the cheek, but yeah I'm not putting too much effort into this woman.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:14 AM
1

Yes, But I just moved into a new apartment
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:45 PM
1

I live in New York City, I'm pretty much at the hub of everything.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:23 PM
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I didn't take anything, it was just a question. Besides you don't need to be attracted to the person giving you a blowjob to get hard. The thought of a possible sexual release is enough to get anyone hard. Even people who experience rape get hard and/or wet in the process.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:31 PM
1

Ideal- First date. Get to know each other. Establish some sexual attraction. Depending on the sexual attraction meet again then have sex or end it with high attraction. High sexual attraction and sex. Ok, i'm starting to understand what you're saying now and I agree with everything you're saying. However, this is how the first 2 dates went with me and her. There was alot of kissing, alot of petting, she did most of the talking, etc. I would say the first two dates were a success. My initial prob…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 11:34 PM
1

Honestly idk what you're trying to tell me because from my end it seems like you're saying I'm wasting my time every time. People like you are so far gone you don't even know what its like for everyone else. If you HAVE lack of options than you're going to FEEL like you have a lack of options. If you're sick, you will feel sick. If I'm operating from that frame then that's my life at the moment there's nothing I can do about that.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 09:56 PM
1

Cool, so ill next have sex again. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 09:46 PM
1

What do you mean? Hit her up and tell her "meet me here we're going to a hotel tonight"?
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:44 PM
2

Next date I want to hint towards getting her to spend a night or a few hours at a hotel. It's all I have at the moment.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:37 PM
1

The biggest problem is I have nowhere to bring her back to and she doesn't have a place of her own either. So it's going to be super hard to get this lay.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:34 PM
1

Sunday was our 2nd date
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:30 PM
1

What if they're not blowing up your phone and they agree to meet you again? I know some girls like free meals and shit, but this girl is actually chipping in on dates and she takes an hour long bus ride to come see me yet she's not blowing up my phone. Last time I spoke to her was the night of our previous date which was Sunday night.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:28 PM
1

But does it matter who initiates the convo first?
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:22 PM
1

We've been on 2 dates so far, so I don't know how I should weigh this one. Every time I text her which is probably every other day she responds quickly. Every she gets home she texts me goodnight first. So i'm not sure what to think lol
/r/askTRP09/05/17 02:52 PM
1

Someone told me it takes several dates/weeks for a girl to start calling or texting you first.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:43 PM
1

So it depends on the girl?
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:27 PM
1

I'm also starting to realize that sex isn't really a big deal so why not just show girls you want it, you know? This weekend me and good friend fucked this hot lawyer chick. No train, we just took turns on her. And at the end of it all it was fun and in my head I passed no judgement, it was no big deal.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:09 PM
2

According to TRP I feel no woman is dateable
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:00 PM
1

My only fear is if she says no. I would feel like I completely wasted my time with this chick even though i'm feeling her.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 12:13 AM
1

I have 2 friends that have apartments, but they have a shit load of roommates living with them. The girl doesn't have her own place either she's still at home with her parents. She's known from the beginning that i'm currently living at home (planning on moving out) and she emphatically agreed to a 2nd date. How does she think sex is 'just going to happen' when neither one of us have a place of our own? Do girls ever think about shit like that when they're out on a date with a guy or do they exp…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 07:03 PM
1

Oh, I see what you mean.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 04:15 PM
1

27, living in NYC. Rent is ridiculously high here but i'm working on getting a better job and moving out by the end of the summer (I have about 10K saved up). The odds aren't in my favor now but i'm working on it.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:51 PM
1

How do you sexually escalate when you have nowhere to bring her back to? :(
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:28 PM
1

Why? I don't understand. Isn't that what I'm suppose to do?
/r/askTRP08/05/17 09:18 AM
1

Damn but doesn't that make It 10x harder for me if I want to get a hotel so we can 'do things'?
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:47 AM
1

I have no problem getting a hotel room but first things first I need to be able to talk about sex with her. I don't know where to start...
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:27 AM
1

Maybe I should rephrase that. PDA isnt a problem, we kiss and make out anywhere, but heavy make out sections are tougher to engage. Based on what she tells me, how she kisses, and how she reacts to certain things I can tell shes inexperienced. She does like me though, I can easily get a 3rd date but Idk what to do next time. I'm lost...
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:48 AM
1

I always looked at hooked up as making out and shit. This sucks because I don't have my own place and she seems like she gets very uncomfortable with public display of affection. It doesn't seem like she has much experience to honest.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:31 AM
1

I grope her and stuff but she seems uncomfortable with the idea of sex based on how she reacts. However she likes making out and when I grab her close to me and shit.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:23 AM
2

This has got to be one of the dumbest post I've seen
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 09:51 PM
0

I don't think anyone learns from getting bashed all the time
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:55 PM
0

They don't come back after the first date. Most bitches feel ashamed when they fuck a guy on the first date, so in order to avoid further embarrassment they stop talking to them completely.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:05 PM
1

Those bitches don't count, they were fucking crazy. Not every girl is going to want to do that, some of them might even stop talking to you after suggesting it.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:03 PM
1

Point is I didn't shove the bitch into a secluded area and rip her clothes off like some people in here endorse. Second, most of those posts were about my struggles/slump, not my progress.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:01 PM
1

And laying it out on the table like that isn't going to hurt my chances? I feel like 90% of girls say no to this type of shit. How the fuck are bitches going to feel safe sleeping with a guy on the 1st 3 dates let alone go to a hotel with him to do it?
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:59 PM
0

That's basically what they're telling me to do.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:48 PM
1

I'm not a 10% man shrugs
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:47 PM
2

So in other words sex is STILL important afterall...lol
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:47 AM
1

I live in New York City, I have a valid excuse. 50% of the men in this city live with their parents until their 30s. I know for a fact i'm not going to be able to afford my own place here for another 5 years. If I stop to "focus" on my living situation i'm going to waste alot of time and i'm going to hate myself to the point of suicide. Don't act like you know the whole story or how things work around here.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:25 AM
0

Yeah i'm going to nut in a bitch in a city of 9 million people with no place to go. We don't all live in some backwoods middle America town like you hillbillies.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:22 AM
-2

Archwinger is a piece of shit. I hate all his garbage content lol
/r/askTRP04/05/17 01:22 AM
1

Nah I'm good
/r/askTRP04/05/17 01:21 AM
2

Personally, if I could I would take a chick to a hotel 9/10 times. However how do you even bring that up to a chick without sounding like dick or desperate for sex? That's why I almost never suggest it because I feel like the girl will never be down for it. Granted, the last 3 chicks I fucked I took them to a hotel.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 01:05 AM
1

I live in an apartment with my family in New York City. I live with my cousins, mother, and share a room with my brother. I haven't moved out because rent is crazy expensive here and I save so much more staying here (I've saved over 10K in a year). I'm 27 years old and no I'm not a virgin, at all.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:21 AM
0

Clearly your sexual strategy doesn't work because when I use it bitches stay dry but when I don't I get results lol
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:17 AM
1

Well, I'm not going to get one between now and when I see her again. This has always been a problem for me.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 11:24 PM
1

She doesn't have her own place either
/r/askTRP03/05/17 11:09 PM
1

Because I'm right, foh Yeah because nothing is ever right in here. Its either "OMG YOU SAID GOODNIGHT? THATS SO BETA BRO! YOU SHOULD OF FUCKED HER IN THE STALL!" or "GO READ THE SIDEBAR, YOU DONT KNOW SHIT".
/r/askTRP03/05/17 11:04 PM
1

I'm not mad because I didn't get laid I'm mad because this is a horrible community for men, even for the men who want to escape the blue pill matrix. You people talk about guiding men into the right direction and showing them the compassion that the world refuses to give them due to gender differences, but here you guys are shitting on men who make progress. Tell me, how is that suppose to make me want to stay and learn more? Don't give that whole "this isn't for the faint of heart" excuse this …
/r/askTRP03/05/17 11:00 PM
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Everything is alpha or beta for you fuckers huh? And y'all wonder why this community gets shitted on? There's no such thing as alpha or beta.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:36 PM
1

I got nowhere to bring her so idk how that's going to happen shrugs
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:25 PM
0

And you're a dude who gets no pussy basically telling other dudes how to do it. Anytime I see success is when I do what I want to do, not when I listen to clowns like you. I don't need your fake machismo nonsense to do well with bitches. What works for some doesn't work for all, people like you ruin this community. Not one word of encouragement just, "did you fuck or not"? I hate people like you. Fucking on the first date is a sure fire way to not see a bitch again.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:23 PM
0

I sent a "me too, goodnight wink face" Idgaf, showing interest shouldn't be a problem. If any girl reads it as such then she can kill herself. Straight up.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:15 PM
-2

See this is why this group is corny. I'm unsubscribing you faggots are basically telling me to rape this bitch in public. I'm done.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:07 PM
0

I don't like fucking chicks on the first dates
/r/askTRP03/05/17 10:04 PM
0

I don't have my own place
/r/askTRP03/05/17 09:58 PM
-1

See this is why people hate this community
/r/askTRP03/05/17 09:45 PM
1

If what I say doesn't matter than what does?
/r/askTRP02/05/17 03:05 AM
1

How could a man who values his time not want to confirm a date? I understand the premise behind the idea but I can't do that. I'm not going to take a ride downtown for 45 mins just to get stood up when I could be using that time doing something else.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 05:22 PM
1

No, not all of you.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 02:05 AM
2

So basically I can never speak to her again, she's DEFINITELY never texting me again.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 02:05 AM
1

The rich
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:57 AM
1

Constructive advice: fix your shit attitude and unhealthy feelings towards women. That's interesting. Where in this post did I demonstrate unhealthy feelings towards women?
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:48 AM
0

Dignity means absolutely nothing to me. Dignity isn't going to get me laid.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:19 AM
1

And that's exactly what hungry people who can't find food do! They lick at every opportunity that comes their way.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:19 AM
1

I'm just saying, abundance mentally is stupid. If i'm hungry i'm not going to wish food into my hand.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:05 AM
1

So much cringe. If your friend and you had plans at 7pm and he said he was going to take a nap at 2pm would you have sent that text? Umm yes I would have. It's a 5 hour gap, no big deal... Why would someone text this at 2PM if they weren't laying the groundwork for cancelling the 7PM appointment. She's trying to let you down without having to actually tell you. I'm assuming this is someone that you see on a regular basis at school or work, otherwise she probably would have just ghosted you. Nope…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:02 AM
-1

I do all that stuff already so i'm proof it doesn't work
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:50 AM
-5

Yeah, I just figured it wasn't a big deal since she told me early on... But I guess for the millionth time, i'm the fool...
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:47 AM
-11

Blah blah blah. I refuse to listen to anyone bashing me without constructive advice.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:33 AM
-15

Please, spare me the abundance mentally talk we're not all white, rich, trust fund babies like yourself. Some of us don't get a million chances a week, hell some of us don't even get a chance PER YEAR so you have no idea how people like me feel. I respect your opinion, but nobody is going to crawl through broken glass to be with me lol. I got burned...again. It is what it is...
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:26 AM
1

Whatever that means
/r/askTRP30/04/17 11:43 PM
1

My vibe? I'm not bonbarding her with messages if that's what you're wondering.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 05:14 PM
1

Its far, its Sunday, and I got shit to do. Ill just text her before I leave. Its common curiosity to respond "yes I'm going" or "no".
/r/askTRP30/04/17 04:53 PM
1

So if she doesn't text me before meeting up should I text her? I don't want to show up and find out my time was wasted.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 04:24 PM
1

Every girl does this shit. If I don't hound her slightly then i'm just wasting my time.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:18 PM
1

Actually, I don't have a template for my dates. I usually just take them out for drinks and if I feel like staying out with them then we'll go get something to eat. But I never really thought about it to be honest with you. The most I do for an "activity" is a walk in the park.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:01 PM
1

I do it for both. If I don't really like her then I just won't go for the kiss. However, I did like this chick she was cool and nice to have around, but I was being too much of a pussy by not touching her enough. My initial thought has always been if I don't kiss-close on the first date then I have no chance at a 2nd date. And that's how i'm feeling right now.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 01:24 PM
1

Well it's been 2 years so idk
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 11:56 PM
1

Are you talking about the wounds?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 11:41 PM
64

Reading this piece opened up a lot of old wounds, wounds that will probably stay with me until my dying day. I totally understand where you're coming from because I was there, just over 2 years ago. It was probably the toughest time in my life and till this day I still feel like it yesterday. I may sound like a bitch for what i'm about to say, but i'm just going to come out and say it: My failed relationship completely turned me off to future prospects. I don't think I can ever be in a relations…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 05:35 PM
1

So what do you do when you're speaking to them? You 'fake' interest in what they're saying?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 01:09 PM
2

Are you kidding me? I'm definitely one of those people who hate women. Everything about them makes my fucking skin crawl. I practically write all women off the moment I see them, my mind starts to remember what it's like dealing with one.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 01:05 PM
8

You must be a sociopath because I don't know how anyone can conceal that infront of them. I hate women with all my heart and sometimes I can't have a decent convo with them due to triggering rage of wanting to punch her in her face.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:50 PM
4

Deep down, I truly hate all women. I like sex, but I have such a festering rage towards them that my mind can't allow me to enjoy the company of one. Hating women makes me want to avoid them completely and I do.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:38 PM
1

Lol and you answered
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:10 AM
1

Lame
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:02 AM
1

Well I guess I am a shitty person. Today my buddy blocked me on all social media including my phone number. I'm on an island all by myself now, but its cool, I don't give a fuck. Everybody wants me to be something I'm not and its starting to bother people. Fuck bitches and fuck "friends".
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:06 AM
1

I asked a simple question. If you don't like my rants then don't answer.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:52 PM
1

That's too bad
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:19 PM
1

Just wanted to know if people felt the same way about women.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 06:39 PM
1

What exactly do you think i'm lying about?
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:15 PM
0

When people don't understand you you're a victim, when they do you're a patient...
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:14 PM
1

I'm never a fun guy. My idea of fun is playing basketball with my friends, working out, and staying home.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:55 PM
1

It's pointed at both. I don't like any of the women I meet online, and I don't have a social circle to meet other women. Approaching never works because women don't date guys they meet on the streets (I don't want to hear bullshit about SMV). I just hate dating, and I hate the women I see out in the open. It's incredibly frustrating and annoying.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:54 PM
0

How can I game a girl I don't like? I've been in the anger phase for 10 years now.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:32 AM
1

Also you clearly haven't read the core TRP philosophies on the main subreddit, I'd recommend taking a visit over there and read some of the sidebar. Not trying to make assumptions are you assuming I didn't read the sidebar because of what I said about TRP? Are you going to tell me the dark triad isn't something that is normally discussed on there? Aren't those the traits of what someone would call a cold hearted dick? I think people like masking TRP for what it really is.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:19 AM
1

I'm only pulling shitty women so I guess I get what I deserve.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:16 AM
0

What is DEER?
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:30 AM
-5

Really i'm the only one? I highly doubt that. Wholeheartedly I admit that I am an asshole. I've been an asshole my entire life, but that's what happens when people kick you down. You turn your back on the world and tell everyone to go fuck themselves. Not only that, but you have communities like TRP that tell you to be a ruthless cold-hearted dick in order to put yours inside of a woman. They tell you to perceive women as second class citizens, and to acknowledge they're only good for cleaning, …
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:20 AM
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