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DiscussionNewWayNow/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 12:56 AM
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3

pretty much destroy their own relationships But not their wives' vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:19 PM
6

If you want to be Beta Brad the Dutiful Provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:18 PM
0

Because it’s fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:37 PM
-1

Pretty much true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:07 PM
1

You don’t know what you’re talking about. You are taking a guess based on what you’ve heard on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:27 AM
15

Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:36 PM
3

You can’t miss him. Just look for the jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:30 PM
1

Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:26 PM
3

Highly unlikely. Such a man would choose a 20-year-old virgin, not a married woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:21 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:14 PM
9

I call BS on the story. If Pat’s jawline is really that good, she never would’ve cheated on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:11 PM
3

Age. Women’s window of opportunity is fairly short. A man’s choices rise steadily and become extensive as he nears middle age, if he has anything at all going for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:26 PM
2

There are sexual haves and have-nots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:16 PM
3

Don’t deceive yourself. People are fucking their asses off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:25 AM
2

A LOT would suddenly be up for casual sex. Way more than most people would think. There’s a red pill for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:35 AM
1

Any bangs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:08 PM
0

Can confirm. Am a man. It’s NICE.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:40 PM
7

Depends on what you mean by market decline. If you are a man who wants to date women around your own age bracket, or a few years younger, then the dating market continuously gets better as you age. Bear in mind that the women will have kids, exes, and other features that occur as people get older. Guys who look decent and have their stuff together become increasingly rare, so it’s easier to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:33 PM
3

Dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:50 PM
1

They will continue sleeping around a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:46 AM
4

Um, ever tried actually being in a relationship with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:42 PM
1

LOL sad but too fucking true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:53 PM
1

1.) 80% 2.) 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:38 PM
7

Who told you all this? Sounds imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:36 PM
0

If he had a cool haircut and dressed well he could be a slayer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:18 PM
1

Yes. I would just be careful about Islamaphobia though. Not saying that you necessarily are that way in purpose, but just have to be careful about what one says and any unrecognized phobia. It can be hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:15 PM
1

I just don’t think we should be shitting on anybody’s religion. Especially the Islamics, as they are quite oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:10 PM
1

Two wrongs don’t make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:05 PM
1

Seems a little disrespectful to Islamic folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:01 PM
5

Read the datingoverforty sub. People do not stop caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:27 PM
1

That is a nice anecdote. Not sure it merits a generalization, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:35 PM
-1

Have you not been in any women’s houses? The shower and toilet gunk is not male-specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:33 PM
-1

Why are you Islamaphobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:09 AM
2

Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:13 AM
0

Married women cheat a lot. Players know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:00 PM
1

Clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:27 PM
0

I have had quite a bit worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:42 PM
1

And this apple is better than 90% of oranges. You don’t compare women to men. You compare them to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:36 PM
6

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:27 PM
1

Why do women suddenly become unable to share anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:13 PM
1

This is a question without a real answer. -as women get older, they are attracted to older men. Women tend to be most attracted to men around their own age. -As men get older, they are still most attracted to women in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:07 PM
1

A little compassion goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:36 AM
1

Yes. Wife them up bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:28 PM
3

Why look to tear people down, though? These females didn’t try to hurt you personally. Nothing wrong with building something up with her and taking care of her kid. That lifts everybody up. Or are you not man enough to man up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:39 PM
11

No. The manosphere is tiny. There is absolutely no shortage of beta bucks in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:22 PM
-2

If they’re truly sorry and they see the error of their ways, then you should have empathy for them and wife them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:21 PM
1

I do not believe those government statistics at all. That is just too far removed from what I have experienced, and what any guy know has experienced. It appears that people lied on the survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:27 AM
0

Just be yourself. Take a shower. If you aren’t doing well with women, it’s because of your personality; specifically, you’re a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:30 PM
1

I also want to be treated like a spreadsheet formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:49 PM
1

But does he know about the other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:22 PM
7

No way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:37 PM
4

Then what are they even doing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:21 PM
20

Your post title pretty much describes Reddit. Yes the site is huge, but the users are in no way a representative sample of the population. Sometimes it amazes me just how different Reddit is from the real world that I live in, for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:20 PM
1

This is the kind of post that makes me wonder if guys have ever left their parents’ basement. Go out into the real world and experiment a bit with this and report back with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:36 PM
2

What is the secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:52 PM
5

RIP inbox
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:02 AM
5

Not all heroes wear capes bro. Thank you for your service.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:01 AM
1

Male commitment is actually a libido killer for women. In her mind at a subconscious level, the fact that he committed to her means she’s the best he can do. The guy who won’t commit to her is perceived as being in a higher realm. Therefore he is sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:59 AM
1

I’m not getting on your case. It was just a suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:37 PM
2

Where are these women who make men wait? I don’t see women making men wait for weeks or months, regardless of the type of relationship. Maybe that happens when people are like 19 years old. But for most of the dating market nowadays, things move really quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:18 PM
1

Damn. Eye-opening post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:18 PM
1

Varies a lot by location. In the US it’s state by state. Splitting assets 50/50, including retirement, is not unfair even if some men feel it is. Some states start with a presumption of 50/50 child custody and some don’t. Family courts in many states probably do suffer from a “women are wonderful” fallacy. But the biggest reason that men feel things are unfair is that they usually earn more. The higher earner will often feel hard-done. Some states do indeed have ridiculous child support formulas…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:40 PM
1

Seems like it is causing issues though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:37 PM
1

Couldn’t hurt to get it checked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:50 PM
1

Might want to get that T checked bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:29 PM
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Ask to inspect her labia and vulva for signs of past promiscuity — prominent folds, loose skin, hyperpigmentation, overall disorganized look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:00 PM
71

She wore that same top for me on the first date bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:21 PM
1

Cumming in a stranger from Tinder is about as good as it gets this side of heaven, in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:38 AM
-2

I can’t answer the question. But I can say that when you see women in action during their ho phase(s), it’s astounding. It’s like they get into a whole other mental state and are more reckless than anyone would believe. And like OP said, it can be very well-educated people with professional jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:30 AM
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0%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:40 AM
0

Having had a lot of penises will never be considered an advantage for women in the relationship marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:19 PM
0

This is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:21 PM
-2

Harder to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:00 PM
0

What if the other 23 guys wore condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:58 PM
1

I’m with you. What I like most is their femininity. And also their vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:00 AM
3

Adam could get limb lengthening surgery so that he’s 6’2” and he’d probably do pretty well. He could at least lock in a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:01 PM
3

Then I have good news for you: they already lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:44 PM
1

I think it’s a useless topic to think about. People (male or female) are not going to tell you the truth about what they’re doing anyway. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Be glad you’re getting a turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:26 AM
1

Experienced players quickly learn that one of the best markers of a girl down for a ONS is the “no ONS” comment in the bio. Some women put it there for plausible deniability in case random members of the community come across her bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:46 PM
-1

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:06 AM
3

Sometimes less than one minute, in my case. Not a flex, just sayin’
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:22 PM
1

I’ve lain with a woman or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:44 PM
1

I have a broad definition of “game.” Figuring out where to be and when, what to say and what not to say, what to wear. All of that is game to me. None of it is genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:50 PM
3

I think they believe that you’ll like the sex and stick with them for a relationship. They fail to understand that men don’t think like women. They have one major weapon, and they deploy it. They aren’t sure what else to do in order to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:52 PM
2

But is any of that really casual sex? I’m almost your age, and what I find is, yes, the women will have sex very early. But “casual“ is not their intent. They are hoping to use sex to snag you into a relationship. I tend to pass, because I don’t like disappointing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:53 PM
-1

How do you get them off?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:47 PM
1

Exactly. This is almost 100% of FWB. Women don’t like to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:43 PM
4

As a blue pill man, you should probably ask women what they think and try to do whatever they advise on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:22 AM
3

The Hi-C. That stuff is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:03 PM
24

I’m a man and I’ve been asked for nudes from time to time. People advised me not to send them, as “what if the woman gets mad at you and sends them to everybody?” I’m like, well, I guess people would see my dick? So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:25 AM
1

What about hepatitis? Seems like that would be a worse thing to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:43 PM
2

It was obviously a mistake you online simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:20 PM
1

Does he really need to say the same false assumptions twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:45 PM
1

I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:21 PM
1

What is age pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:09 PM
2

Like I said, it depends a lot on age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:39 PM
7

This is nothing to do with women specifically. Men behave in the exact same way. The modern dating world is very inefficient — there’s a high signal to noise ratio. The behavior you describe is what happens when somebody feels they have a lot of options and they’re not convinced you’re the best one. Maybe women are the main perpetrators of this behavior in the under-28 age group or so. Beyond that, it’s usually the men being flaky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:43 PM
2

I can usually get a good idea of n- count based on how she comports herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:36 PM
1

The heart of this question I think is: what would it be like to be chased by women? You can find out in a couple of ways. One, go to a country where people of your nationality have higher sexual market value. You’ll get on Tinder and find that you have tons of matches and they initiate the conversations. Or two, just wait until you hit your 40s. The market shifts at that point, possibly earlier. Men become more of a commodity. In my experience, it all boils down to the same thing: women want hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:19 PM
-1

Some of your premises are wrong. Muslims do have sex before marriage. Ask any player who has been to a place like Indonesia. You can find many Muslim girls who will come straight over from Tinder and fuck you while wearing a hijab. It just has to be discreet. Then they go marry faithful Muslim men who think they’re virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:34 PM
5

I agree. There are a lot of fantasy versions of selves on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:40 PM
0

I bet you’re lots of fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:38 PM
5

Male all the way. Starts out a little rough but for the long term, accept no substitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:42 AM
2

Short guy with great face is still out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:01 AM
1

Herpes has zero to do with exchanging fluids. It’s a skin infection. I feel like you’re just putting random words on the screen without any cohesion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:11 AM
1

Delusional. What evidence do you have that “most“ STIs are among the groups you mentioned? STIs are extremely common even among educated people on their 30s and 50s. By age 49, among unmarried women the rate of HSV-2 is 55%. And that doesn’t even account for genital HSV-1. Even among Redditors, I doubt the rate of condom usage and STI testing is very high. It’s a vocal minority who like to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:20 PM
1

In the Land of Reddit, everyone supposedly “ALWAYS uses condoms” and “gets tested regularly.” In the real world, from what I see, it’s exactly as you said. Rawdog all the way, not a care in the world. Women hate condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:22 PM
3

I know what people should do, but my curiosity was about what is actually going on in the real world. It seems like not many are asking for tests of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:42 AM
3

Do you find that most women ask for an STD panel? What do they ask that it include?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:17 PM
6

Sounds like somebody got on mama’s bad side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:26 AM
1

Dude. Don’t be a metrosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:57 PM
-1

I question the “predatory“ thing. Young women hold enormous power in the sexual marketplace. Older men don’t. When a younger woman and an older man get together, he might have certain advantages such as money and life experience. But at the end of the day, she knows that she could easily replace him. He cannot replace her so easily. She might well be calling the shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:49 PM
7

We clicked like on those by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:40 PM
1

Hahaha highly-quality comment. I’m a guy and this comment is a funny little window into women’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:32 PM
6

But the baseline is $62,500 and at 6 foot 6 they can earn $63,000 less than that. So the woman needs to pay that guy $500.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:41 PM
2

So if you’re 6’6” or taller, they’re willing to pay you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:15 PM
1

What do you mean by push your claim,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:51 AM
6

Many people assume that older single men are gay. There is still a lot of suspicion or disdain for gay people. At minimum, straight families may not feel much in common with them. If the guy is a bachelor who dates, travels, etc., then families may see him as a threat. Wives don’t want their husbands hanging out with that kind of guy. Husbands certainly don’t want their wives hanging out with him. If he is straight but just awkward or socially inept, then people probably treat him weird because …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:35 PM
2

Dirty little secret: women ask for dick pics a LOT
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:58 AM
4

Everything about humanity would collapse and we’d be extinct almost overnight. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:20 AM
1

You sound a little unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:36 PM
1

Nobody wants to watch your racist commentary. Post it to a Trump forum. You also should study some basic logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:07 PM
0

Most are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:16 PM
17

Saying that something’s a tautology because it’s a tautology is also a tautology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:55 PM
2

Your racism and misogyny are painfully obvious. I’m pretty sure anybody that knows you is aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:30 AM
2

You’re making blatantly racist statements and then acting like you don’t know what racism is. I think therapy could help you be more grounded and tolerant. Hate doesn’t JUST hurt others. It hurts you, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:01 AM
2

Have you thought about therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:04 PM
2

Nice gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:26 PM
2

I’m not messing with you no more bro. Don’t you have a Trump rally to attend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:18 PM
2

Covert racism, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:15 PM
3

I just think you should tone down the racism a bit. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:45 PM
1

Sorry but I’m not gonna give you racism training. They have classes and degrees for that, or at least Wikipedia. Sounds like something you should look into, because you’re acting pretty racist right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:52 PM
1

There are other types, such as systemic racism, structural racism, and casual racism. Your definition is outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:36 PM
2

The thing is, I know some Latinas who are of a very peaceful character. I don’t think it’s fair to paint them with a broad brush. Or any other group. Because that is called racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:14 PM
2

Applying a negative stereotype to Latinas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:47 PM
3

I don’t think you can generalize about a whole group. Each person is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:54 PM
2

Let’s not be racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:40 PM
1

Humans, including female humans, don’t always understand why they feel compelled to take an action. The drives may occur at a subconscious level. Evolution dupes us into all sorts of behaviors. At a basic level, clearly the endgame is to make themselves more reproductively successful. In other words, to attract the attention of the best possible males. Women may say “I’m doing it for me“ and believe it. It doesn’t really matter. Her loins call out for hot-guy DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:04 PM
3

Because women lie their asses off on the surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:48 PM
1

This sub, purple pill debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:20 PM
9

All these PPD women trying to paint a rosy picture of female behavior lol. As a man if you ever find yourself in the mix with some options, you’ll see just how much sex is going on and how shocking the patterns can be. I’m sure these “good girls” exist, but there are also a lot of the other type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:07 PM
3

Very astute post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:46 PM
2

Betabux defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:16 AM
21

What are they supposed to do? Give free hand jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:13 PM
3

I didn’t mean you. Just talking in general, because I see this come up a lot. This situation you’re describing is not one I’ve seen personally, although I don’t dispute that it happens. Generally in my experience if a woman is willing to have a sex with a guy, she’s willing to have a relationship. One exception is middle-aged women letting young guys, in their 20s, come over for uncommitted sex. I think they like the validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:41 AM
1

More or less. This seems so obvious to me. I’m amazed that PPD women seem so perplexed by the fact that most men are repulsed by this. I don’t know if it is willful ignorance or honest ignorance or they just don’t like the answer. To be fair, men are very hypocritical. We push women to be promiscuous when it suits our desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:28 AM
2

If I’m going to consider investing my time, energy, attention, and commitment into a woman, one of the things I get in return is sexual access. If some other dude came along and didn’t invest anything, but he too got sexual access, then I feel like a chump. If she’s throwing it around “free,” why am I paying full price? 50 Cent captured the idea in his 2003 song “Patiently Waiting.” “Your bitch a regular bitch, you callin her wifey. I fucked and feed her fast food, you keepin' her icy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:02 AM
3

What is aerial dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:49 PM
7

Do we have to get this autistic about it? It’s when somebody is getting run through. Or being a fuckboy. It’s not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:48 PM
2

Women hate monogamy. They like to get into relationships but they’re bad at them over the long term. They are very prone to get restless and resentful. That’s a breeding ground for cheating on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:30 PM
2

I do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:03 PM
2

They’ll hear it dripping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:16 PM
3

Not just pre-cum. Full-on loads of glistening cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:16 PM
9

Getting run through. Sex with strangers, or FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:51 AM
1

I’m here to pick up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:50 PM
2

That is what women tell themselves after they’ve slept with 1,000 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:52 PM
2

She’ll have that look in her eyes. Kidding, kind of. In all seriousness, you seem to have your mind made up and if I were to list specific factors, I think you would try to discredit them one by one in a “gotcha” fashion. I won’t give a checklist of specific “tells.” Promiscuity falls into the general category of “things you can take a fair guess at by observing and getting to know a person.“ Other things in that category would include social class, education level, political views, etc. Everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:03 PM
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Keep telling yourself that. A woman with a high body count isn’t fooling anybody, except the very naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:24 PM
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It’s not particularly hard to tell, if you’re a guy who’s been around a lot of women and had sex with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:23 AM
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Experienced men easily pick up on the signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:21 AM
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Beard is good for a recessed jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:35 PM
1

I think you’re exactly right. The scales really tip at a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:33 PM
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Men Getting Their Orifice Wangled
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:15 AM
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they always think women are sleeping around with 100s of chads every year Many are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:23 PM
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When done properly, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:09 AM
3

Ejaculation you clod
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:53 PM
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If you're short or average, you gotta hit the gym. If you're tall, not as much. You get way more leeway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:58 PM
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It just depends on what you're going for. If you want a LTR, I'd suggest not making the woman hate you. If you want hookups, having a polarizing personality may be a good thing. Many won't like you, but some will, and perhaps they'll really like you. Disagreeableness, disrespect for authority, contrarian outlook -- these traits may work in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:04 PM
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Women need to be asked "wanna go to my dorm" instead of "let's fuck" This is not lying. It's a euphemism. Decorum, tact, and reading between the lines are important social skills in all realms of life, not just romantic relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:23 AM
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I don't think it's about sowing wild oats. I think men need to be with quite a few women -- maybe 20 to 30 -- in order to really understand what they are all about. Their motivations, their patterns, and most of all, their not-so-nice side. Nature built women with a very attractive veneer and some rather irresistible features. They've also had a great marketing campaign for many centuries. It's only with plenty of experience that you can see the full picture. So I would not recommend that a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:04 PM
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an insane amount of power, but little ability to actually use it Then that's not power.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:25 PM
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Two points: -Women are not wired to be satisfied or even "happy." This built-in restlessness is healthy for the species but is kind of unfortunate for women, and their men. -Your quote: "His bar is different and his partner set it." Why did his partner set it? Women very much do set the parameters and establish the narratives these days. That's life in a gynocentric society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:06 PM
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The trick is to never focus on only one girl at a time. I got strung along by a girl for 3 months and 13 dates without any intimacy, but at the side I was banging an older overweight woman and got my needs met that way. Failing to see how that's a win in any aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:49 PM
2

What kind of local celebrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:20 PM
5

Then you have a lot to learn about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:29 AM
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The RP explanations would be that: -The women were never sexually attracted to these men in the first place, as they settled on betas. Or: -They lost attraction to them men for various reasons, especially supplicating behavior on the part of the guy. Women will almost universally offer another explanation: The guy doesn't do enough housework, and that kills the spark. Marriage is funny. Making a "honey do" list and washing more dishes helps to keep a wife "happy" in the short term, i.e. it can r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:35 PM
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Genetics is genetics -- it's not that different throughout the animal kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:53 PM
0

Traces of DNA of each guy that ejaculates in her imprint into her genetic code. If you have a child with her, the DNA of her former partners will be within the child. That's science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:01 PM
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This is the answer. I'm trying to move toward this mindset. It's hard. I try to just not ask. If she tells me the truth, I won't like it. If she tells me a low number, I won't believe it. So the discussion is a no-win. If she's sleeping with me, she's probably done the same with a fair few others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:54 PM
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People in general are as picky as they can afford to be. If, as a man, you ever find yourself in a position where the the scales are turned around -- such as by gaining some level of celebrity or status, or relocating to a country where your looks/background/national origin give you a marked advantage -- you'll find that you become much pickier. It's called Golden Penis Syndrome -- look it up, it's a thing. The fact that most guys aren't picky is because they can't afford to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:00 PM
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Not even then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:11 AM
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The majority of straight men will not date or have sex with a trans woman. That is a niche market -- and a rather narrow one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:54 PM
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Propinquity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:31 PM
5

Might even end up fertilizing some, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:31 PM
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Or just shut down the wishful thinking by being completely transparent and forward. My point is that this frequently does not work. That's why I called it wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:30 PM
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This is correct, but the fact is that many women are very prone to wishful thinking. As such, many get into situations where they are basically leading themselves on. If you're a guy and you see this happening, the kinder thing to do is end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:01 PM
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I don't make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:15 AM
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Then you shouldn't sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:11 PM
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Children don’t work as bait when you’re a woman. Unfortunately they do for predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:01 PM
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This is exactly it. Men develop bad behavior when they have a lot of options. It's called Golden Penis Syndrome. Men have a lot of options when they have characteristics that a lot of women like. Thus, the men that women disproportionately like, have the worst behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:55 PM
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Being 6'2" probably makes up for the weight more than the money does. At 6'2", 240 is not that fat, necessarily. Note: If you attract women with money, you'll find that they don't have much sexual proclivity toward you. You'll end up with a dead bedroom, she'll have a bad attitude, and she will probably cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:25 PM
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This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:51 PM
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Women want the best. How does their brain determine what the best is? One important way is by taking note of what other women want. Which guy is popular? He must be the best. When a guy is the best, what does he do? He plays the field. His commitment is hard to procure. When a guy commits fully, it can suggest that he has no other options, or at least not good ones. Guys without much access to sex are eager to find a steady girlfriend and commit to her. Finally, consistent sex! As such, a fully …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:52 AM
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I want to add, though, that I agree with this comment that you made: This is basically the situation that a guy needs to be in if what he wants is a long-term relationship. I believe that the most stable relationships occur when the guy is higher than the girl on important measures, such as looks. People might then look at the couple and say, "He could do better." True. But for a long-term relationship, she needs to admire the guy. It works best that way for both partners. I've dated hot women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:19 PM
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If a woman wants to be with a guy and she is intelligent enough to realize that all of the other men whom she could actually lock down into a relationship will have just as many issues or be worse than the guy whom she is already with, then she is likely to not be so “nitpicky” that she’ll leave the guy. Not necessarily the case. People lose perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:46 PM
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Women's naturally high anxiety (citation) will make them always look for "what's wrong with this picture." I do believe that women have a type of existential anxiety that makes them prone to dissatisfaction in relationships. It served them well evolutionarily, preventing them (and their men) from getting too complacent. And in their constant attempts to nitpick, they will find SOMETHING wrong with you, however small or tangential it may be. This happens when you completely give yourself over to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:45 PM
2

But how is this related to hygiene?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:05 AM
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How does this relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:03 PM
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won’t do those same things for them I've always wondered: What are these "things" that people talk about? Anal? Oral? Bondage? Urinating on each other? Many women will have tried anal and not liked it, and that is understandable. Bondage isn't my thing, so I'll be delighted if she doesn't want to do that with me. I tend to believe that many times, blow jobs are the true topic at hand. She might do them readily for a guy she's attracted to, and not so much for Billy Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:54 PM
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Women think they want relationships, but then they cheat a lot. Women are highly prone to being dissatisfied in their "relationships." They are wired that way. Throughout the history of the species, getting too comfortable was not conducive to survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:34 AM
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It would take me zero time, as I've had several standing offers. But I agree with your point in general -- the process would take more time. But it doesn't matter much. With a bit of dedication, an average guy could still have unlimited options -- more vagina than he could ever hope to keep up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:28 PM
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As an average man, if you want to date women whose qualities are in low demand in the dating market (obesity being a key factor), your options are also unlimited. How is this different?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:47 PM
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I do feel guilty, for what it's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:29 PM
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I actually did all of your girlfriends, sans condom. Then sent them to your house directly afterwards. Sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:31 PM
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You should see what your girls were doing with me, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:30 PM
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Thing is though, If I were as open about this IRL as I am on here women who would want me to see them as relationship material would simply lie. I have bad news for you: They lie anyway. As a man, if you gain enough experience, you can pretty accurately guess who has the high numbers. You won't need to ask. You have to be able to read the signs yourself; you can never depend on a truthful answer. Pro tip: They all have a number higher than 3 unless they're very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:25 PM
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we pulled it off out Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:31 PM
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You should see them when they're cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:50 AM
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Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:16 PM
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The whole female selection hypothesis is wildly exaggerated for humans. If there is a species-wide effect at all, it is mild. Demographics are a far more important factor in influencing mate selection, in my opinion. Where there's an excess of men, women get very choosy and behave poorly. And vice versa. Men have plenty of agency -- in the right circumstances. The conditions of modern Western countries are, for most men, not those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:05 PM
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I am curious abut this. When average-looking women have showed me their online dating accounts, there were a lot of matches and messages. Like, I could sort of emphasize with the cool attitudes and one-word responses, because there would not be time to carry on decent conversations with everyone. Did this not happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:44 PM
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Their wives don't love them. It's duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:34 AM
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One who orbits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:50 PM
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What is the point of your post? To convince women that the RP "deserves" to exist? The RP doesn't need anyone's approval to exist. Men can get together and discuss their strategies, outside the earshot of women. You're allowed. You don't need permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:14 PM
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Women overlook/turn a blind eye to red flags when they like a man Being attractive to women causes men to develop entitlement and therefore red flaggy behavior Women are more attracted to entitled red flaggy behavior because it signals high value Three sides of the same coin. The underlying principle: This guy is valuable and has a lot of options (or comes across that way).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:52 PM
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others fall off quicker. People tried to say Dre fell off. But he was in the lab with a pen and a pad trying to get his damn label off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:19 PM
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That's like 95 percent of married men. If men really understood how their wives view them, society would probably collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:02 PM
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Datingover40 And you're saying this is especially prevalent in that particular sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:22 PM
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I would not say it's "really better." One might argue that it's a function of decadence in society, and quite a bad thing. What I'm saying is that they're making a choice. It's not a choice they like to admit to making or take responsibility for, but it's a choice nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:19 PM
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Why do you say this? I read that sub, too. I probably agree with you, but your comment is a little cryptic, so I am trying to figure out what you are specifically getting at regarding that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:14 PM
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Ha ha so true. Painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:44 PM
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They aren't stunned. At a deep level, they're OK with it. They just don't admit that to anyone, sometimes not even themselves. Better to be smash-and-dashed by Chads than commit to a chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:43 PM
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RP men: No shit. Guys who are experienced with women know that at a certain point in the month she'll send you that "hey" text. While her boyfriend plays video games that night, she'll be "working late" at your apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:36 PM
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exist strategy You don't need a complicated strategy. Just be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:19 PM
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I don't think they'd deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:41 PM
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The numbers for men and women are very different. Somebody is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:58 PM
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Yes. It's not to say that women are inherently or broadly more dishonest. They just have more incentive to lie in this case. On other topics, men may be more likely to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:19 PM
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It's a hypothesis based on a common-sense reading of the facts. Even researchers are allowed to do that, believe it or not. Women have lots of incentive to lie on this matter because for millennia, in many places, they've faced harsh consequences for sexual behaviors. Men have what I'd consider a very mild incentive to lie: to make themselves look cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:17 PM
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At least they smashed though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:18 PM
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These are the dudes most people here are mocking I bet they cry themselves to sleep about being mocked. When they're not having sex with dozens of women, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:43 PM
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The standard line has always been that men exaggerate upward and women minimize downward. I really doubt that. Men probably give an accurate count, while women lie their asses off about this. The researchers will never tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:31 PM
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In my opinion, a minority of men are demisexual(requiring an emotional bond prior to or concomitantly with sexual attraction) whereas a supermajority of women functionally are. It's a myth. Get close to a college athlete, a guy with model-quality looks, a semi-celebrity, or other high-value dude and watch how women behave around him. Or get on Tinder in a country where your look and nationality put you at the top of the pile. Then tell me if women "require an emotional bond prior to or concomita…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:22 PM
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-Women are very prone to a kind of existential discontent in long-term relationships ("Is this really the best I can do?") -Men are more anxious about whether they'll have other sexual options. -Men often stand to lose more financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:20 PM
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A lot of guys want sex on the first date. But if we actually get it, that kind of rules the girl out for a serious relationship. Sad but true. (Speaking for some guys, not all.) I've seen cases where the girl, at some level, knows this but she catches feelings. So she'll try to reframe the whole experience. "I had NO IDEA sex was on the agenda when I came over with my toothbrush and overnight bag. This has never happened before! I got swept up in the moment ..."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:45 PM
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Ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:18 PM
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Women don't like anything that brings down their stock price. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:23 PM
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As a man, in certain areas that are important to maintaining a relationship you can even become "locally best" with minimal effort. Can you give examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:12 PM
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You can look at this from a different lens. At some level, the women are happier fucking a series of fuckboys versus settling down with an average chump. They don't truly expect commitment from the fuckboys. Of course, they don't admit any of this, even perhaps to themselves. For a male at the top of the dating heap, the women hardly screen at all and they are willing to sleep with the guy almost right away. So it's hard to believe that the women are being tricked into anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:31 PM
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Curious: What do you get tested for? Like, where do you go for the tests and what specific tests do you request? People always say "full panel" testing when there isn't an agreed-upon set of things that a "full panel" would include.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:27 PM
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Women will tend to have a type, so it's hard to generalize. The factors all work together. As a rule, for a shorter guy, better have some muscles. Tall guys get away with a lot more leniency on body type. Lanky goes over just fine with a lot of women, and for some it's a preferred type. Big and burly (and a bit overweight) can work OK, too. As for beards -- these used to be a niche thing that turned off a lot of women but were a "type" for a select few. (Kind of like long hair.) Now they are mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:05 PM
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I'm a guy but ... I think it really is just that hard to lose weight and keep it off. If your genetics make you prone to weight gain, and you live in a land of abundant empty calories (modern Western countries), then guess what? You will probably be fat and stay fat. Yes, there are exceptions. But they are just that. The majority will find that it's a losing battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:21 PM
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Not me, that's for sure. You can still get lots of sex even without all those supposed markers of high value. Plus, a lot of guys have all that and they still get no sex or they get cheated on. Some broke guy with swagger comes along and -- boom -- there goes your girl, on the back of his Harley.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:53 PM
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It ain't. I smashed and dashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:04 PM
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top tier men then ABOVE average men at LEAST deserve their equivalency OK, so they deserve it. Who's going to enforce that? The dating police? Back to square one. It's a market and it works on supply and demand. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:53 PM
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A lot of the time, the guy may have trouble with condoms, even though he physically works fine. Even though they are necessary, they are hard for a lot of people to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:10 PM
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I don't see how this helps. Many (probably most) women who participate in casual sex will never tell you. In fact, they will vehemently deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:23 PM
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And if you say fuck it, lets fuck, the men have sexual dysfunction of some sort and can't actually have sex. So you actually showed up, with your orifices?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:10 PM
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I can only tell you what I've seen with my two eyes. Are the girls "rejected by local men for being ugly or weird" or "sub-4"? Debatable, and doesn't really matter. All I said was that the guys do better than they'd do at home. In other words, let's say a guy is getting absolutely nothing in his home country. Then let's say he goes abroad (to a wealthy non-Western country) and gets an unlimited supply of "sub-4" girls or "those that were rejected by local men for being ugly or weird." Then I'd s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:37 PM
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"Worshipped" is a loaded word, and not one that I used. I have seen Western men do well with women in certain fully developed non-Western countries. (I am not going to name countries, but you can likely guess which ones, as there aren't many.) Worshipped? No. What I can say is: I have seen average Western guys have much greater dating success in those countries than they could ever have in their home countries. These are places where the women have basically no incentive to emigrate and probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:34 PM
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Some non-western countries are first-world and do fit the bill here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:52 PM
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Women seem to be pretty perceptive and intuitive at some level. If presented with a friend's relationship troubles, a typical woman may have great insights and be able to pick up on subtle cues. She may be able to make reasonable speculations on each party's true motivations. To me, it almost seems like women can read minds, sometimes. HOWEVER ... in their own relationships, this often goes out the window. Women become prone to: -Willful ignorance. -Wishful thinking. -Seeing what they want to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:33 AM
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It literally functions as a market. If you aren't getting enough of what you want on the market, it's because what you're supplying isn't in all that much demand. Why are men devalued in the West? I am not completely sure, but it's clear that they (we) are. Mainly I'd say it's because modern Western women don't "need" men in the way that women did in centuries gone by. We're more of an accessory. As a Western man, you'll find that there are places outside the West where your value is much higher…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:00 AM
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You are over-emphasizing looks. For men, there is a constellation of factors that play into attractiveness -- looks, status, charisma, money, etc. If you are average-looking but have status or swagger in a certain realm, you can absolutely clean up in that realm. It could be as simple as being a bartender at a popular nightspot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:47 PM
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In actual practice in the U.S., it is nonsense. Men are VERY happy to date a 29-year-old woman. Men are actually very happy to get any match on online dating or any interest from a woman of any sort. The stuff about the wall is armchair sociology. In real life, men are desperate for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:14 PM
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Sure is fun, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:47 PM
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I need somebody like that in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:28 PM
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Change locations. Go to a place (probably another country) where your SMV is higher because of of your nationality or other characteristics. Everyone will say "the women just want your money!" or "they want a green card!" but that's not always true. It does not have to be a poor country, just one where you look different from the local population and where your look is valued. Sometimes they are attracted by things about your appearance and demeanor, qualities that may be scarce in their own pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:56 PM
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and still take you for half your stuff, regardless of what she brought to the relationship. That's just not true. You split marital assets -- things you accumulated during the marriage -- on a 50/50 basis. You and she will have the sole rights to the assets you had before marriage. There are some things that are unfair about divorce laws, but this is not one of them. If two people link up their lives in this way, then it's only fair that they divide marital assets 50/50 upon divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:50 PM
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Their albums after Invisible Touch left me kind of cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:03 PM
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Hadn't noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:13 PM
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"Loser" is just a word to degrade or diminish someone. It means what you decide it means -- whatever qualities the speaker decides merit degradation or diminution. To me a loser is someone with a track record of problems caused by arrogance, lack of self-awareness, or compulsions. I tend to put potheads, chronic thieves, and sex offenders into this category.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:02 AM
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Great post. Saving to refer back to in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:05 PM
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I am talking about objective physical attractiveness Doesn't exist and wouldn't matter if it did. We operate in a market, and the market is governed by supply and demand. If every man on the market were "objectively" gorgeous, then those great looks would not have much value. It would be like saying his blood is really red or he has a perfect number of toes. Standard issue. Currently, Western women simply don't "need" men in the way they did in generations gone by. Therefore the demand for men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:04 PM
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Depends on who you are. Depending on your nationality and other characteristics, women in some countries may be MUCH more interested in you than those in your home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:34 AM
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His location. Go where you're wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:52 AM
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They're very sensitive to social hierarchies in general -- where they stand, where everyone else stands, what factors are important to the rankings, etc. The marketplace concept is intuitive to them. Men can be pretty dull about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:34 AM
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The average woman is more red-pilled than the most red-pilled of men. A core feature of RP thought is that male-female relations are a marketplace -- a brutal one -- and that you have to be somewhat ruthless to function effectively. An average 16-year-old girl feels that in her bones. Many men go to the grave never having grasped it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:13 PM
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It's a video called "Jada Pinkett Smith breaking Will Smith's heart for 4 minutes straight" but maybe it's not available in your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:13 PM
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I bet he takes showers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:07 AM
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Must have an excellent jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:06 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOTe0\_Z0vlc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:46 PM
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If you consider legalized prostitution to be abuse of women. You could go to /r/SexWorkers and ask them if they feel abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:44 PM
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A generation or two ago, the John Wayne character was held up as a model of masculinity. He was cool as ice. So that model is definitely out there. Other models might be growing more popular nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:41 PM
1

To some extent, having legalized prostitution achieves the same end. It should theoretically keep "abusive, entitled girls" in check. Which is probably why many women and blue pill men oppose legalization of prostitution. I'd be curious to know how this all plays out in real life in places where prostitution is legal (or at least tolerated) and common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:54 PM
1

Secrecy is still cheating in an open relationship. Jada was banging August behind Will's back -- she told will on national TV and you could see the pain on his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:51 PM
1

I like the way it feels on my peepee.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:13 PM
1

I fail to see how anybody respects Jada more at this point than they did before the Oscars. Will and Jada both look like a total joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:50 PM
1

So changing the topic, misdirect and continue talking is more often used because it does not sting as much. I was thinking of all of these as a form of "ignore." In other words, just don't acknowledge the shit test. Skilled communicators use all of this stuff constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:49 PM
5

Did you watch their red table discussion? Jada slept with August behind Will's back. Even open relationships have boundaries and "rules of engagement," and when they're violated, then that is infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:46 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:26 PM
2

C) Ignore - what you said is not worth addressing, it makes her feel awkward. It can be used on someone who is lower on an established pecking order. You can ignore and misdirect if you want to be polite, change the topic but don't acknowledge the shit test. You can just laugh as a response. I think "ignore" can be used on anyone, no matter if they are higher or lower in the social order. It's actually the easiest way to sail past shit tests. Works in many, many settings, including the workplace…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:25 PM
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Masculine is just a word, and it means what we as humans agree that it means. There is always room for different takes on it. To me, self-discipline and a tendency toward rational (versus emotional) decision-making are hallmarks of the ideal masculinity. A man should strive to be calm, cool, and collected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:13 PM
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I don't care what the Asian internet says. Nothing can make Will Smith not be a cuck. Coming unhinged in public and then giving a tearful speech where you claim to be a "vessel for love" does not make you alpha. Being in control of yourself is masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:44 PM
1

Therefore, because you as a man went to such lengths and ACTIVELY pursued sex outside of your relationship, it says a lot more about your interest in the relationship than someone who has sex available to them at all times and decides to accepts the offer. As a man, you're aware that she has a constant stream of opportunities (they're always there, even if not stated directly). If she shows even a hint of not being able/willing to shut down all offers, then she is not worth much to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:11 PM
1

Interesting how some find that getting bulked was helpful and others didn't. I would say that height factors into this equation in a big way. (Facial looks do too, to some extent.) When you're taller, you can get away with a lot more in terms of body type. You can be skinny or a bit overweight and still get some interest from women. Being tall and not obese might be enough to "get you into the game." At the same time, being built could potentially have outsized benefits. If you're shorter, you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:06 AM
3

Nope. It's all jawline these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:44 PM
8

Underlying the hypergamy narrative is the threat that she'll gladly leave you if a better guy comes along. In other words, women ain't loyal. The anger comes at the notion that we've been told all our lives that women are wonderful, but that they are actually disloyal, manipulative, etc. It's probably exaggerated. But there are definitely a lot of naive men out there and it pays to wise up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:26 PM
2

Just sounds like a typical North American woman under 30. What's the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:43 AM
1

Women cheat a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:01 AM
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*:I'd argue that being tall was pretty much always a peacock tail outside of very specific environments but let's not get lost in the weeds. When you're tall, you don't get lost in the weeds as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:37 AM
1

You're talking about initial attraction and you're pretty much right -- a guy whom she feels "hell yes!" about gets a lot more leeway, a lot more margin for error. He can play "just show up" game and do well. However. Long-term attraction is a different story. It's hard to keep her attracted long-term. Those tingles will, without a doubt, start to fade. She will start to seethe about those socks lying on the floor and that HGTV gazebo that you can't afford to build. And that's where the trouble …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:43 AM
7

Validation. She had a boyfriend sitting at home all along. For her, mission accomplished -- she can still pull! For you, pulling would mean actually having sex. For her, that's superfluous. She got got attention and validation. Score.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:07 PM
59

He can't tell you. You'll unmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:05 AM
2

Almost every single study in the thousands that have been done has concluded that most women have an average of 7 sexual partners in their lifetime. Thousands, eh. I suspect this is more of an exaggeration than the N-counts. Anyway, the N-counts reported for men and women never match in these studies. The party line is that "men exaggerate upward, and women exaggerate downward." I suspect that in fact, men basically tell the truth on the surveys and women lie their asses off. (Women have more mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:27 AM
1

Can't agree with this. I'd say that the fundamentals of marriage come down to what is in writing in the marriage contract, state marriage law and what is enforced by the courts. Just depends on how you are defining "fundamentals" and how you want to frame the debate. I was looking at marriage essentially as "monogamous pairing with some kind of endorsement by the surrounding society." And I was asking myself, "What has caused this to be a fairly enduring aspect of human civilization of the past …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:16 PM
0

Considering all this, and that the courts have a “cash out”-button disguised as divorce available for women to press at the whim of an emotion’s whim’s whim, and it becomes abundantly clear why a woman would get married. This is somewhat exaggerated. Most divorces are resolved with a settlement between the parties, not a court order. The party who earned more, and with a lesser share of custody, will tend to feel cheated. Anyway. At a fundamental level, marriage (theoretically) provides a man wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:09 PM
2

Here's the thing. Beards can do a lot of the same function for guys. It used to be that beards were a very niche thing -- they were polarizing such that by having one, you were ruling out the majority of women, while strongly appealing to a niche market. Nowadays, beards are mainstream -- a few women hate them, while the majority feel neutral or somewhat positive toward them. And there's still a niche market of women who are crazy about them. If possible, just grow a beard, my guy. Things are lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:39 AM
1

They'll invariably go for the younger dude. "His older brother climbed the ladder, so he surely will too."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:52 PM
0

This is a tautological thing. If we accept the premise that "grown women consistently act like teenagers," then we have defined the normal way that grown women act. So we might as well say "grown women act like grown women." Or "teenage girls act like grown women."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:55 PM
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So they want to be a baby adult. The interesting thing is that women are the ones who complain loudest about alleged "man-babies" and say they "don't want to be married to a toddler who can't pick up after himself."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:50 PM
6

RP misses one thing: Men get older too. The men who created RP were around ages 18 to 30, so women over 30 seemed "out of the question" to them. But when you're 45 to 50 as a man, the 45-year-old woman might just look pretty good. And if you're 60, she'll look like Christmas morning. There's no wall, except from the perspective of a young guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:48 AM
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Yes, this kind of settling is common and to some extent normal. But as to your seeming assertion that it's not a bad thing, I disagree. In my experience, she grows to hate that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:12 PM
2

Most everything about dating is written from a young person's perspective. In real life, as you age, things change dramatically. In the 30s, that "Average Joe" starts to look quite appealing to many women. In the 40s, even more so. Call it beta bucks if you will, but getting older is the only way some guys are ever going to get laid and get into relationships. It's highly effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:28 PM
1

I bet Chad Thundercock never had to be quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:13 AM
1

It's just another expression of "women are wonderful" theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:38 PM
1

For men with zero game, compliments are the main way -- the only way, basically -- to express interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:16 PM
24

Many of those "friends" being men hoping to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:14 AM
3

It's the same with those who have spent years abroad. What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:10 PM
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Society as a whole improved when romance became a thing. I'd say it's the opposite. Romance became a thing when society as a whole improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:47 PM
1

Universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:45 PM
2

I am posing this as the man’s problem to get out of a relationship if his woman has in this past has had someone at a higher level than him. Well you have to clarify: Along what measures? Looks, wealth, status, intelligence, etc.? You can't be top guy in every category. So it depends on what the woman finds important. That can, of course, vary over time. But generally, yes, for a relationship to function well over the long term, the woman should admire the man. Both parties are happiest that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:05 PM
1

Also, just shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:47 PM
1

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:09 AM
1

So? Don't be phobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:55 AM
1

It's a no from me, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:28 PM
1

Virgin. 30 to 40? Think about all those dicks. That's like 15 to 20 feet of dick. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:56 PM
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-Some of the redpill tactics such as "Agree and Amplify" are very much cringe inducing to me. If I was as at a meeting, on a date, or any other social event and a woman or man challenged me in a rude way I would just ignore and walk away not respond in some bizarre amplification of what they said. You are building a strawman here. (Your post is actually full of strawmen.) Agree and amplify is not a big and bold thing. It's a conversational tactic that you'll find almost universally among people …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:54 PM
1

Why don't you check out the Philippines? Go where you are valued. Average heights are quite low there for men and women. I doubt your height would be an issue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:46 AM
1

Just shower, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:00 PM
1

I believe that women are wired to become dissatisfied with their partner over time. Women are, for the most part, serial monogamists. (Humans are behaviorally flexible, so there are exceptions in some cultures.) In prehistoric times, it did not benefit a woman or her children to be loyal to a man as he became sick, old, or injured. She might nurse him back to health for a while, but if it goes on too long, forget it. Plus, many times her partner would die in a hunting accident or warfare, so it …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:53 PM
3

See, men are not naive, we are not fools. I disagree. Most are incredibly naive and foolish. While RP ideas have gained some attention online, they have not taken hold "out in the wild." The blue pill rules the day and keeps society running. If RP ever full takes hold, the world will be a very different place. That would probably be a bad thing. It's better to be a RP male in a blue pill world, as that is a type of arbitrage. Kind of like being a short seller in the stock trading world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:05 PM
3

ball breaking Please be more gentle with my testicles. No homo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:20 AM
8

You are the one missing the joke, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:55 AM
17

Stop being so misogynistic and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:23 AM
3

Her strategy is, at its heart, deceptive: -Be willing to have sex on the first date, with some guys. -Pretend you're not willing to have sex on the first date. She was silly to explain her strategy to you and to tell you she had shaved. It's your call as to whether she is truly girlfriend material. I would not be impressed with her strategy or logic. But if you're dating in a western country, it's par for the course.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:35 PM
1

Literally none of them were horny or creepy I bet they were actually pretty horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:31 PM
16

I think limiting the pool to Asian men skews things. What you're observing may not represent the average Hinge user's experience. First of all, does limiting the pool to Asian men mimic the real behavior of Asian women on apps? Quite likely not. Second, wouldn't Asian men be disproportionately educated and accomplished as compared to the general population? Finally, do Asian men put more effort into their profile, photos, and behaviors on apps because things are more difficult there?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:08 PM
9

The standards have gone way up. What was popular 10 to 15 years ago was the top end of what can be achieved naturally. What's popular today can only be done with steroids or studio enhancement. For some real contrast, look back at the glam rockers of the 80s and very early 90s. Most were merely skinny and were considered "hawt!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:08 PM
2

Does it really make that much of a difference? And where do you find a good photographer for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:46 AM
7

Porn is a male fantasy. If you think you can have porn sex with women and turn them on, give them orgasm, or make them want to keep fucking you...you're a clown Have you met any women lately? Many ask for porn-like activities by name.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:44 AM
2

Similar experiences. Completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:00 AM
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In what way(s) is he below average? In our 40s, men generally have a lot of options and women's standards for looks and money seem to decrease, as long as you're willing to commit to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:22 PM
3

Like what kinds of things are the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:18 PM
1

Usually it's to bring the bottom jaw forward, in the case of an underbite. The ideal is to have something like a George Clooney jaw/chin. Unfortunately it's a very expensive and involved process. A nice full beard creates some of the same look, and is a lot cheaper lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:26 PM
2

Is jaw surgery really that risky?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:34 AM
3

Because there's not one awkward or non-native phrasing in her long post. It's rare to reach that level, especially for someone living in Russia and not in an English-speaking country.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:17 PM
2

How do you write English like this, if you're from Russia?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:02 AM
15

Go where you're valued. That's what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:00 AM
1

I would argue that it's much simpler than all that. If you want to be open and vulnerable, make sure that your SMV is much higher than hers (or that she perceives it as so). As in all other areas, you'll get way more leeway if you have the higher SMV. On the other hand, if you want to be with a "pretty girl" (one whose SMV is right up there with yours) then you'd better bring your A-game and not show any weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:48 AM
1

I personally don't want to rely on someone financially to the point that I, or they, can't leave should the relationship sour. Sure, it would be nice to run a household, but I've seen so much financial abuse, folks destroyed from splits with nowhere to go... and the one with all the money blithely move on to the next one. What I meant was, he could retire and you could continue with your career. Not that you should get with him if you don't want to. I just don't think people necessarily have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:45 AM
1

Why do your careers need to line up? If one partner is working and the other has time to run the errands, cook the meals, meet the plumber in the middle of the day, etc., that actually sounds pretty good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:38 AM
1

The dad joke thing doesn't happen (just) because you get old and lame. It happens because you spend a lot of time with kids, and corny stuff is what makes them laugh. A lot of women around value a man who knows how to take care of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:37 AM
3

That is not fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:32 AM
2

The best part about this is that the 40 something ex-fuckboi knows that most of the scorn that women wants to heap on the likes of him will instead be directed at the 40 something virgins instead. Tee hee hee.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:21 AM
3

It's not just about assets. The majority of over-40 men in the dating pool have been married and it didn't work out. So, many are in no hurry for a repeat of that. More divorced women seem open to giving marriage another try. I'm not sure the reasons. I suspect it's that they crave security in a way that isn't as prominent for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:19 AM
1

I'd say this happens approximately never.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:09 AM
3

A man who outshines other men along the dimensions valued by his target demographic. As we age, this becomes easier to do, assuming you are trying to date women roughly in your own age bracket. This is because so many men let themselves become chodes. So at middle age, if you've avoided obesity, kept your hair, avoided personal bankruptcy ... and if you dress somewhat decently and don't act autistic ... then congratulations! You're a high value man. If you are trying to date significantly younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:17 AM
3

I don't think the roots of the issue are at the individual level. It's a population dynamic. Historically a lot of men died off due to hunting accidents and warfare. So there was a surplus of females compared to males. The surviving males have a pretty good time in those circumstances. In the modern era, males don't die off in such high numbers. But women still only want the cream of the crop. So a lot of males are left out of the reproductive pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:31 PM
7

Which car bulb are you guys talking about? If you are talking about headlights, they are sometimes a bitch to get to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:02 PM
5

The celebrities you're talking about are a bit of a caricature of masculinity. They don't have a lot to do with the real world. For one thing, it's very hard to look like that unless you are on steroids and have several surgeries. So this type of "chad" is not really found in the dating pool. Second, many times these guys are very beta in their behaviors. So they are a lot less impressive in real life, in a relationship. True masculinity is indeed in decline. These caricatures are kind of a reac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:56 PM
2

What have you done to improve your appearance? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:57 AM
19

A good solution, and increasingly the only one I see as viable for 21st century dating/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:45 AM
1

you can't always get what you want. But what if you try sometime?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:14 PM
5

I would assume she's a prostitute or scammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:32 PM
4

Wow. I believe it though. The sad thing is, when you start a relationship with somebody, they are not going to tell you about past deeds like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:36 PM
0

The same two women who in their 20s went to Sao Paulo and engaged in raunchy fun with a teenage favela boy then turn around and demand so much more from their American male counterpart, offering much much less in physical passion and lust. Oddly specific fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:04 PM
8

If you've been with a woman who is truly smart, educated, and capable, it is kind of hard to go back to women who are less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:02 PM
1

I have an opinion you don't like, therefore I must be into porn? Nice attempt at shaming, but why not try reason, logic, and facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:40 AM
10

Not narcissistic at all, not even a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:08 PM
2

Are there not cheap bottles of wine? Here in the U.S., the sky is the limit for wine prices, of course, but you can also find some for $5.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:38 PM
0

This is hard to pin down. Women who already have defective love circuitry will tend to sleep around. It seems likely that "sleeping around" and "fried love circuitry" don't have a cause-effect relationship. Rather, they have a common underlying cause: childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:33 PM
1

Who wants a seething alpha widow as mother of their kids? Billy Beta. So he can finally know the touch of a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:26 PM
1

Where are you meeting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:26 PM
3

What if he has a bad jawline?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:24 PM
4

Which sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:53 PM
5

Billy Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:45 AM
2

Seriously? “Just get a six pack, be a chess master and be socially dominant, bro!” Also shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:21 AM
1

Yes, an average man can starve himself down to be a stick figure and get that six pack. That will really drop the panties. Some women are really into the tall skinny look.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:20 AM
8

What are women supposed to do? Make a full-time job of chatting thoughtfully with every thirsty average dude who swipes on them? As a guy, try this. Go onto an international dating site or use Tinder Passport, and hit up a region where your type is highly valued. For example, if you are white, try a dating site focused on Africa or Southeast Asia. Your inbox will quickly fill up and you'll see what it's like to have tons of "options." I bet you start ignoring most of them and they'll think you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:12 AM
12

"JuSt ConQueR JerUsaLem!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:31 PM
8

I don't understand the final panel. Why do they look mad at the teletubby?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:52 PM
2

I've been on the campus of a historically black university before and it looked like marriageable women as far as the eye could see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:49 PM
4

Disagree. Even factoring out weight, they are somewhat invisible to a large share (possibly the majority) of white men. A great untapped market, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:45 PM
5

Chad gets more lays
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:27 PM
3

Wanda Sykes had some good stuff. Anjelah Johnson is pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:59 PM
-1

Leave them where you found them. At the crackhouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:54 PM
4

I get all my lays from PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:53 PM
0

One shares things because they want to, not because it is to build attraction. Sometimes you have to run comfort game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:51 PM
2

Well, this was an underlying principle of the RP all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:47 PM
1

Because Women Are Wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:17 AM
3

Super insightful comment. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:04 AM
2

It's all kind of nonsensical. It's a question of value -- but value to whom? You can't directly compare women to men, because the target audiences are (mostly) different. The important, and overlooked, factor is supply and demand. In a given group of people, are there more women or men? That will tell you a lot about who has to chase whom, and how high the standards will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:58 PM
1

Pretty much. Many RP guys see modern society as sinking ship. In this hopeless situation, the idea is to make the best of it, not to try to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:33 PM
6

Then they're in luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:39 PM
2

BPD is a construct of a certain time and place -- mostly Western countries in the late 20th and early 21st centuries. Women showing their bodies and using sexual behaviors in exchange for money and resources existed long before the first case of BPD was diagnosed. I'm pretty sure these behaviors were entrenched even in earlier hominid species, before we were Homo sapiens. Even if you could somehow cure all cases of BPD, I think OnlyFans would be alive and well. It just capitalizes on tendencies …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:02 PM
14

Because women have for decades and decades claimed to be "just looking for a nice guy" and "not too concerned about looks."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:31 PM
1

I hard they were a bunch of man-children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:03 PM
2

Muscles and weight are factors within the broader category of looks. Other factors are height, facial structure, teeth, hair, race, etc. All of the factors interact with each other and balance each other. The more factors you have going in your favor, the better. That said, muscles are not necessarily the most important of these. In fact, they may be among the least important.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:02 AM
1

NONE of the unattractive women do. Which is offcourse not the literal none. All-caps automatically makes it literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:02 PM
4

You would almost think marriage benefits once gender dramatically more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:10 PM
2

Do you run a credit check?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:39 PM
5

Exactly this. I would like to retire somewhat before the normal mid-60s age, and I wouldn't want to hitch to someone who will make that impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:38 PM
4

Why do you have maple syrup in your book? Doesn't it stick the pages together?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:07 AM
19

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:37 PM
2

Tell that to the simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:35 PM
47

So in other words, exactly like now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:49 PM
4

It's not something the RP invented. Read about the Women Are Wonderful Effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:28 PM
6

1.) That they are not very sexually attractive to women flys over some guys heads, so they don't get mad over it; they just think "WhoA SHe Chose mE, I WIn!" I suspect this is true for some guys, but only a minority. ^The answer in almost all cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:22 AM
5

Oh, he's breaking it off alright ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:19 AM
38

I will only speak of the RP, as I don't know that much about FDS. The RP is not a well-defined ideology. There is not even strict agreement on what its basic tenets are. At the core of it, to me, is this: Women are not as nice as you think they are. When I took this to heart, a lot of events in my life started to make sense. Notice I didn't say that men are any better. The difference is that the word is already out about men. Everyone already knows (believes) that they're dogs. Women, on the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:16 PM
1

The term "low value" only has meaning when given context. Value is in the eye of the beholder. If we're talking about SMV or RMV, then I don't need to tell you the traits that work against "value" in a general sense. Beyond that, we're mostly talking about preferences. I might value something that you don't, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:00 PM
7

and then tell everyone else he is horrible at sex so they can avoid him and not waste their time. Or, graciously keep quiet and leave him be, like a mature adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:24 PM
3

At least they smash though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:45 PM
3

Bikers pull mad vajayjay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:51 PM
6

I see a few possibilities: -He's had bad experiences with relationships in the past. -He wants to have sex with various people and not be tied down to one. -He's just not that into the particular person under discussion. (Not emotionally available to her.) These possibilities are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:06 AM
0

This, all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:06 PM
1

Women get away with height-shaming. And a lot of other stuff -- phrases like "that's small-dick energy." What if a guy said something like "oh that's smelly vagina energy" or some other negative comment related to sexual parts, in everyday conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:05 PM
9

If you're the kind of guy whom women want to marry, then I'd say it's not worth getting married. Marriage made more sense in earlier periods of history when it had additional functions as a way to cement family and community bonds and to produce children who were not just "nice to have, maybe" but were absolutely expected and needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:20 PM
3

This is one reason I avoid long-term relationships. Adult humans often disagree about how to load a dishwasher, how often to do the laundry, how much clutter is acceptable, and various other aspects of daily life. I don't need or want input on any of those items.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:35 PM
1

Do you know how many guys she can have in her dms in 3 hours just by posting a pic of her face?? Those guys would generally be better at taking care of their space and of her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:32 PM
15

Women usually spend weeks/months after internally deciding to breakup; grieving the relationship. Why do women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:44 PM
1

RP men don't typically use the term HVM. That is a Female Dating Strategies term.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:55 PM
1

I've known women who had anal sex and then still said they were virgins. I always found that disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:02 PM
1

I'm surprised it's only 2/3. Thought it'd be closer to 75%. I thought it would be closer to to 66.66%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:40 PM
0

When was this in question? All through human history, and even in earlier species, sex has been traded for provisioning and security. Over the past few decades, for the first time in our species' history, women don't have to rely on men for survival. It's no surprise that marriage rates are falling. Women are finding that it isn't necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:37 PM
2

Women don't want men to be able to have sex with a 10/10 giga-Stacy whenever he wants. There's another element that I believe is much more important than this. As long as women control access to sex, they hold the cards. This is true in general and it's particularly true in a monogamous relationship. Will must do as they're told, or they won't be provided sex. If a married couple have an argument, the unspoken threat is that she can withdraw sex at any time. He'll be "sleeping on the couch." As …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:15 PM
4

There are guys who sucks dicks for living, or take them into their buttholes. Males do have a choice. Prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:59 AM
10

Some people are more able to value looks in a partner than others. Depends on one's own appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:42 AM
3

When the muscle tears, anal fissures, and hemorrhoids get to a certain point, she may no longer enjoy the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:11 AM
1

Not necessarily. That act is not a big deal to me -- too much trouble for no particular payoff. But if she is really into you, she'll be highly motivated to do things she guesses will keep you around. Hence the butthole offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:43 PM
-2

In my experience, women who are really into you will, in many cases, freely and aggressively offer up their butthole. And if she's not that into you? No butthole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:19 PM
0

I think I have missed out on more lays than I've gotten. Many times all you need is "don't fuck it up" game. Female attraction is a fickle thing. Not exactly a reliable platform for building anything permanent. For a man in a long-term relationship, I would recommend being quiet. A man of few words provides fewer opportunities for her to get pissed off. In particular, don't try to tell jokes or be funny. It's funny till she decides it's not. Incidentally, I think that's partly why marriage in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:50 PM
2

And unicorns are preferable for racing. But good luck finding any,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:18 AM
1

Sounds like a guy with a good jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:13 AM
13

Men are not just women with dicks Then why do all these websites come up when I google "chicks with dicks"? Answer me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:11 AM
-3

I don't think the wall concept is necessary to explain this. The dating pool is smaller at 35. And by that point there are slightly fewer men than women, as men have a higher death rate across all ages. That's enough to fundamentally change the market balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:40 PM
1

But there are still millions of men out there that would throw themselves at her, regardless of age or level of fitness. There is no way a 7/10 woman could date, or even meet all the men in her available dating pool. No shortage of dick out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:33 PM
1

On the other hand - if you are 6'2" or so, sporty (do not need 6 pack), big frame and maskulin you will develop that syndrom as they chase you regardless of education or money as long ad you can form a few words into a sentence without stutter... What if you are skinny?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:44 PM
7

Their options don't diminish, but the quality of their options absolutely does. The quality of men in general declines with age. As has been said elsewhere in the thread, most middle-aged men aren't looking so great. The few who do hold it together have a lot of options. But then again, a hot woman in her 40s/50s really stands out among her peers, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:12 PM
5

gob-swalloped I like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:10 PM
5

There's a lot of truth here. But I wouldn't say the wall is the key factor. Women in general can't get what they want, in part because they want self-contradictory things. The female of this species is not really wired for contentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:09 PM
1

Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:49 PM
3

I agree with this for the most part. There is one factor that does make dating harder for women as the years go on, and that is death rates. Males have a higher death rate at all ages than females, and that difference adds up over time. In the latter years, we men are thin on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:48 PM
12

Women just don’t treat their beta husbands like they treat the men they truly want. I’ve literally heard a woman say “ehh, no, my husband isn’t the love of my life. I like being with him because he is a good father and takes care of me and the kids, but my old FWB is really the love of my life.” That’s hell on earth for most men. This is a crucial point. A lot of infidelity occurs in these situations, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:00 PM
13

I don’t know how to make it fit here. That's what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:21 PM
10

After I sanded off some rough edges to her argument, her main contention ended up looking like this: My bro mansplained her own argument to her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:32 PM
1

Of course. All throughout the agricultural and industrial revolutions, women married guys who turned their vaginas into the Sahara Desert. How do you think K-Y Jelly became such a popular product? Things have begun changing only in the past few decades. The effects on society are profound, and they're only just beginning. It's not a pretty situation, but I'm not sure what can be done about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:06 AM
8

And also, the year is 1814.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:59 AM
4

thrust of the question I see what you did there. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:57 AM
4

Porch probably wetter than the shower
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:37 AM
20

It's a way to dismiss your arguments and put forth a narrative they prefer. Usually more of a blue pill narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:47 PM
2

Not often, but on occasion. When it happens, it's worse than male betabux. While the male betabux will take whatever woman he could get, the female version specifically chooses a man for alpha traits that are incompatible with monogamy. According to Rollo: When a woman is in fact capable of her own provisioning all that’s left wanting for her hypergamy is Alpha dominance. Most breadwinning women are condemned to being frustrated by this dynamic. The majority of elite earning women simply lack th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:22 PM
15

Rollo of The Rational Male addressed this. He posited that some women are "buying alpha." Essentially, some high-earning women find that they don't need a betabux. So they pair up with an alpha cad who arouses them. But he is, of course, prone to cheating. Article: https://therationalmale.com/2013/06/04/cant-buy-me-alpha/ Excerpt: As elite earners, women tend to want to pair off not with the the guy who’d otherwise be a loyal, respectable Beta provider under other conditions, but rather the men …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:37 PM
118

Just shower bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:40 PM
1

If I feel a woman is "out of my league" in terms of looks I guess you could say I'm intimidated. You could also say a lot of guys are intimidated by women taller than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:06 PM
6

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:57 AM
3

I support this message.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:27 PM
3

"Women aren't as nice as you think they are."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:26 PM
1

Women have that P though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:38 PM
12

This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:45 PM
1

I would, but then I'd ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:54 PM
1

Maybe there could be an app to keep track of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:53 PM
5

^Found the Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:51 PM
4

the opposite gender. Scrotes, as I like to call them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:07 AM
2

Having unprotected sex with an affair partner while the spouse is out of town.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:15 PM
-1

Exactly. You don't even know for sure what's going on in your own partner's head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:12 PM
1

I believe that in most cases the men are still sexually attracted to the women. But the women are no longer attracted to the men. Female attraction is a fickle and fleeting thing. So your final point is correct. Her attraction level needs to be sky high from the beginning. And even then, there's an excellent chance it will fade and that will cause problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:11 PM
0

Slumming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:54 PM
2

There's some truth to what you're saying. I would argue that loyalty is less common than people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:13 PM
16

Simps are gonna simp, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:18 PM
8

I don't like the fake look much. But it's very common in porn. Sounds to me like you've watched a lot of porn and it has affected your preferences. You're porn sick, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:10 PM
2

You can't negotiate attraction. And women aren't feeling it so much nowadays. If you're a man, imagine going to someplace full of a type of women who hold zero appeal for you. You can envision your own specifics. Do you feel turned on when you see all those women who don't appeal to you? If someone tells you that you should feel turned on, will that make a difference? This is how a lot of women are experiencing the world today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:45 PM
2

I don't entirely disagree, but I think the more important fact is that modern conditions reveal certain aspects of women's psychology. When women don't need men for basic physical survival, then most men suddenly don't look so good. It takes a very rare specimen to stand out. And if you look at, say, life in the 1950s, when a basic factory worker of average looks could land a pretty well-put-together wife. The untold story is that millions upon millions of women were having duty sex with men the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:35 PM
6

The women are turning down relationships with men, while at the same time complaining they can't find a man? Women have historically settled for men they weren't sexually attracted to, because that was necessary for survival. Today that's no longer necessary; they can survive fine without men. And that's what they're doing. They don't want "a man." They want a man they're sexually attracted to. Not many men qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:33 PM
6

Not many
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:21 PM
4

That jawline though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:20 PM
1

Both
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:29 PM
1

Yo mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:41 AM
3

He's hitting it alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:51 AM
2

Cuck Kent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:42 AM
2

Why would Superman need a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:39 AM
3

Where's my hug?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:42 AM
5

The finger gun is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:41 AM
6

You're top 10 in my book baby
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:50 AM
1

Don't I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:37 AM
3

I still would though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:35 AM
0

AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:53 AM
37

If you aren't top 10 percent, you do look like this or worse in women's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:51 AM
3

Seems the world would be your oyster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:50 AM
5

You'd still invest though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:45 PM
1

Classic alpha widow. Sarah most likely dates above her league. So the guys are lukewarm about her and lose interest. Therefore she would probably love to get back with any of those previous guys. Is John way above her league? If not, he should realize that she is settling for him. If he notices Sarah spending a lot of time on her phone and deleting messages real quick when he comes near, she's probably texting with one of those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:06 PM
2

Has anyone ever in life turned around and said “hey I’m so flattered I think I want to fuck you!” No, right? It can happen if she views him as being way above her in looks/value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:03 AM
4

This is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:33 AM
1

In most of human history, women could not live and raise their kids without the support of a man or men. It's not hard to see why women would develop a drive to lock down a man who would devote himself to her cause. In those days, men were dying at a high rate from accidents and warfare. Strong men were scarce, but a weaker man did you little good. Thus the drive to find a top XX% man. Why would a man commit? He wants a steady supply of sex. In the old days days, a strong man had a lot of option…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:54 PM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:23 PM
9

And how common is this in women? Ubiquitous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:40 PM
1

It happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:59 PM
-1

It sounds like you may be tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:09 AM
-3

Gender at birth is not always the same as gender identity. Don't be phobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:10 AM
4

I saw a smoking hot girl at the grocery store last weekend with a guy who was kind of chubby and very average in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:56 AM
2

You're Gen X. Literally nobody is talking about your generation. I know, because I'm part of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:01 PM
3

ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:20 PM
0

now many women ridicule men Or call for security and file a police report.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:55 PM
3

ok zoomer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:53 PM
3

I won’t say I can’t sympathize with that What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:52 PM
13

One and the same, as far as the tide of evolution is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:50 PM
10

Pretty much right. Keep in mind that women are the way they are for a reason. History and pre-history were not kind to them; they needed a constant supply of resources and protection so that they and their children could survive. As a woman, if your man showed signs of weakness, that weakness could quickly prove fatal to yourself and your offspring. One caveat: None of this means that women of today consistently choose the best or strongest man, or that any group of women ever did. In many cases…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:48 PM
4

I get the sense that these guys feel that there's a hidden world of sexual connections forged in brief trysts hinted at in polite company but never admitted. There is. ​ and every other woman on here will tout that women hate casual sex and rarely partake in it A decent percentage do partake. ​ but how often are people really honest about their sexual habits? On surveys about sex, women can be counted on to lie, while men are probably fairly honest. This is something that social scientists can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:12 AM
1

How will you avoid being lonely, especially when you’re on your deathbed? I figure I'll die. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:37 PM
3

Just shower, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:41 AM
2

anterior pelvic tilt How do you identify/fix this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:39 AM
1

Are people seriously using their left hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:37 AM
1

Russian Brick Shithouse What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:46 AM
1

In what way are they not great dads?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:06 AM
1

In the butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 11:09 PM
1

But, 36-40 year olds are out there trying to get themselves a beta bux with a vengeance. I always say I could get married within 2 months to an attractive divorcee if I wanted. But, these women just want to be married and have somebody to help support their kids. These provider hunters seem like a really bad deal. They can be tempting because many of them still look quite good. But they are motivated by material concerns, not attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 01:10 PM
1

Are you speaking for men, women, or both?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 06:25 PM
6

Do you think that's equally true for men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 01:49 AM
2

Many times when a female partner is having an affair or is interested in someone, she will try to portray that person as gay or possibly gay. That gives her cover for spending time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 07:49 PM
5

I haven't noticed this phenomenon. But yes, wives deplore bachelors, seeing them as a potentially destabilizing influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 12:36 AM
2

I do like Wendy's though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 04:20 AM
2

I think you've hit the mark. Women can make their own way now and find men to be somewhat superfluous. The default or fallback option used to be "marry some guy you don't like all that well." Now it's "live on your own, and maybe hit up Tinder every once in a while if the urge strikes."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:29 PM
1

Many possibilities: -The guy hasn't committed to her (most likely scenario, in my mind) -The guy is married (could be cheating or maybe separated or in the middle of a divorce and needs to use discretion) -The guy is a sugar daddy -She wants to keep her options open -Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:52 PM
1

It's literally just a statement of supply and demand economics. "You're not able to afford the thing you want with the currency you bring to the table. Perhaps you should consider a lower-priced model." And no, women are not happy with it. They hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:24 PM
1

The premise about women being unable to get commitment is flawed in the first place. Women are the gatekeepers of everything at this point. Have you seen how many simps are running around desperate to get with a woman? Women sometimes have trouble securing commitment from a man they think is worthy. In many cases that's because she has unrealistically high standards given what she brings to the table. (Thank the modern culture, social media, etc.) In other cases, she simply sees no reason to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:04 PM
1

I totally agree with this. At least she needs to admire you in some way -- could be status, competence, or other positive attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:55 PM
3

It sounds like you have a lot of life yet to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:34 AM
6

Because having a life partner makes bad days better, good days better, and just overall gives you love and support when you need it the most? In what world? Most relationships are a constant power struggle at some level and do not bring real value to the participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:12 PM
48

They guys you speak of will get a partner when they are a little older and more established. The high-notch-count party girls will retire from the party lifestyle at about age 30 and seek beta providers. These guys fit the bill perfectly. Fifteen years later, the women will have affairs, divorce the men and take all their stuff. At that point the guys will be alone once again. Such is the cycle of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:11 PM
1

I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:32 PM
1

Have you gotten your T checked?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:55 AM
2

I don't think it's that cut-and-dried. Men would like to have sex with an unlimited quantity of young women, sure. But we also really need to feel admired and understood. If you're 45 and she is 21, she might start to view you as an out of touch, bumbling old piece of shit. Unless I'm a Hollywood A-lister, I'm going to assume she will present a lot of the "trouble" you speak of. This isn't a red pill thing to say, but I place value on being with someone who understand my worldview, knows the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:53 AM
1

Age doesn’t help much but if you are around 30 it will help you snag a “time to settle down” kinda girl who would have previously ignored you. It's amazing how many problems this causes. Guys think it looks like a great deal at first -- regular sex with the kind of woman who used to be out of reach! How wrong they are. The woman who lacks raw passion for you, but feels you're "good enough" as a betabux, is not much of a prize. You will not be able to satisfy her long-term in any sense of the wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:57 AM
1

So are you chalking it up to women being more comfortable living alone? Choosier? Or that they have a harder time finding someone to live with? Maybe men are more likely to throw standards out the window?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:27 PM
1

Can I ask how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:34 PM
2

Great way to put it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:16 PM
3

I too like Rollo, but agree with you on this. He has some self-serving delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:14 PM
3

Did you eventually meet a good one? This is a fascinating first-hand perspective, by the way. Much appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:34 PM
2

How does she pester you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:32 PM
1

My point is that it's not a "few areas" like you said. The vast majority of the world goes by the old model.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:17 PM
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Those few areas such as Africa, most of Asia, and Latin America?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:08 AM
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Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:06 AM
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Here I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:33 AM
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What about that dude in Of Monsters and Men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:32 AM
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Have you not ever been in a Walmart? Unattractive men pair up with women all the time. They pair with obese and unattractive women. They reproduce, too. Where do you think additional unattractive people come from? The problem with incels is they think they deserve better than an unattractive woman. They don't. It's like selling your house -- the value is whatever the market says it is, not what you think you deserve. Women are not the only ones who are super picky. The same incels who complain a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:35 PM
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Women of all ages have almost unlimited options for sex and relationships, although that changes somewhat beyond age 65 when there are fewer men due to shorter male lifespans. The issue is whether they want the men who are available. Usually they don't. Perhaps when they were young they could get a look from top-tier males, but now they have to settle for someone on their own level. Unthinkable. Many women in their 30s, 40s, 50s would rather be alone than date the men who want them. They claim t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 08:12 PM
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