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| 3 | 6 Month Field ReportMeetup . Com If you live in a bigger city, they have random events you can go to Coffee on Sunday morning Craft beers on a random night Really nice to meet people and hang out with others Almost everyone is single or without friends I had no one to hang out with on Christmas and my birthday, so went to Meetups Everyone is very welcoming | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 11:15 PM |
| 9 | 6 Month Field ReportAwesome post! I was lucky? Married for 14 years The last 3-4 years my ex withheld love, affection, intimacy - I thought it was due to something other than myself (depression, work, menopause) Her adult daughter basically made her choose: me or her She chose the daughter and grandson Since we basically already had a non loving relationship, her choice to divorce blindsided me, but it wasn't a huge loss Fast forward 3-4 months I went to Meetup and this little hottie 18 years younger than me (I'm 6… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so much work!Love Meetup! Doing one tonight | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/25 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Ex-wife friend reaches out to me with this belowDamn!!! Solid answer | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | What was the point when you realised "everything is going to be OK"?Went to my first singles Meetup Separated, not divorced, but working on it Way too soon to be dating This hot, young, tiny, cute little girl comes up and starts talking to me I'm big (6'4", 270#) and old (over 60) nothing to look at She's tiny and young (low 40s) cute as hell - reminds me of Katie Holmes I'm over the moon She's loves verbal sparring - gives as good as she gets I'm remembering this girl for 6 months from now (divorce will be settled, time to adjust) I'm going to ask her out for c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Me wanting it to be “50/50” is why she refuses to reconcile.She told me I was hurting her with death by a thousand cuts I've got theories about why she is leaving me, but I'll never really know | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/25 12:21 AM |
| 5 | Me wanting it to be “50/50” is why she refuses to reconcile.So sorry When my stbxw suggested it, I thought it was a great idea because I had been taken advantage of (monetarily) in a previous relationship I have some expensive hobbies, and she's telling me I can spend as much as I have - and she won't say a word??? Next time, before moving in together, insist on it | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Me wanting it to be “50/50” is why she refuses to reconcile.My stbxw had a great plan Figure out how much we need to have in our joint account to pay all joint expenses + buffer+ savings We then divided our take home pay by the others take home pay to get a percentage If she made 60% to my 40% - she would need to put in 60% of what we needed in the joint account The remaining money is ours to do with as we want We never fought about money She could show me something she bought with her money and I honestly didn't care how much she spent - it was her mone… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 02:13 PM |
| 13 | Who is she?She's doing this to hurt you Stop looking at these pics - mute her social media, if you aren't comfortable blocking her - or cancel all sm You need to get to a place where you stop caring | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Lets say you have rock solid proof that your wife cheated with a married man. Do you tell the wife of the AP or keep silent to maintain the peace for the sake of your kids?Do everything in your power to have a divorce without lawyers Don't budge on the kids - fight for what's fair If you can reach an agreement, without lawyers and without getting fucked over - do it She wants the big screen TV and all the other TVs in the house? Push back to make it fair, but if she won't budge give it to her The cost of a big screen TV is less than the cost of your lawyers sending the initial paperwork to her lawyers My wife and I reached an amicable agreement She took things tha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 06:50 PM |
| 6 | For recently divorced menI'm 61 went to a Meetup Had a 40 something cutie get very interested in me - checks a lot of boxes I'm separated, not divorced, and too new to this - told her this Maybe 6 months from now I'll look her up Either way - what an ego boost!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | When did life get better?That is quick How long after you filed until you started dating? How long after the first date with Mrs Right (congrats BTW!) until you remarried? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 04:42 PM |
| 2 | When did life get better?Would you mind telling us the timespan between each stage? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Anyone attribute COVIDs lock down to the down fall of the marriage?It actually brought us closer We had pool parties (just the two of us), movie nights, in the house dates, movies on the porch - it was really nice After COVID it started to unravel | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 04:16 AM |
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