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GeneralNew_Builder8597/r/MensRights16/08/23 12:35 AM
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This is classic, your best in the whole thread.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 02:24 PM
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when I was in rehab in group, one bloke was talking about how he deliberately got out of filling the dishwasher by putting cups upwards. I guess you're not supposed to get cranky in group therapy, but nobody did, some people laughed.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 11:26 PM
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F57 risking it to explain. Men often respect other men more than women. If a popular man says "raping a woman is not good," maybe the men who didn't listen to women saying "no" will listen to him. Obviously, women (like me) who have been raped know WE can't change a rapist's mind, we're hoping you can. Myself, I don't think this plan will work. People who rape (male or female) seem unable to empathise.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 12:09 AM
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great ideas! you should talk to your local gallery!
/r/MensRights19/05/24 10:30 PM
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I would love to see men in more diverse clothing. Some celebrity guys are doing it, and it makes them much more interesting to look at than the guys in tuxedos. I reckon, start small with masculine-coded garments like a kilt or a sarong. Get your eyelashes tinted. I believe there are some male-support organisations suggesting awareness with particular nail colours. once you've have educated your social groups on the history of masculine clothing, take your next step: a glam handbag, floral updat…
/r/MensRights15/05/24 03:42 AM
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I didnt intend to be misleading. ah, it was just my experience. probably social conditioning in the small country school in our 2nd-most redneck state. The death certificate was in lieu of his signature, which was unavailable. I didn't get my passport until my 40s and there was no requirement for spouse approval (about 10 years ago). About the DV, again, this might have been small town cops, but I knew a number of women who were bashed by their husbands, who had given up on calling the cops. The…
/r/MensRights10/05/24 11:33 AM
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I had no idea. thank you
/r/MensRights10/05/24 11:19 AM
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In the 70s, in Australia, when my father died, my mother had to produce his death certificate before she was allowed a passport (without his permission). There was no protection from DV or marital rape. girls were not allowed to choose trade classes at school, and boys were not allowed to do Home Economics. Many positions still required women to resign when they married, leaving a job open for a married man to support his family. For a lot of you, this is a long time ago. For me, a 57 year old l…
/r/MensRights10/05/24 03:22 AM
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You know, circumcision is banned in Australia except under a narrow set of circumstances. You got to be talking to your gov reps, get it on the table in your democratic process. There is something you can do about it. If it's important, do something!
/r/MensRights05/12/23 11:22 PM
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I'm not sure if you're serious or not. I am not a monolith. While I belong to that community, I've never posted there. I may not agree with every opinion in Men's Rights but I do agree that there are issues. If I wanted to be difficult, I could easily enough create a new account with a male profile but I favour the more genuine approach to let you know where I'm coming from. Men being perceived to always be predators IS a problem. Children miss out on positive male role models, and relationships…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 05:04 AM
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A humorous anecdote about a couple married in the 90s who managed to stay married for 24 years: She said: I need to know about your emotions, start a sentence with "I feel"... He said: I feel that you are wrong.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 11:33 PM
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"Not to mention that they do not even know what they are missing. It is like asking a deaf person if he misses music": surely you don't think circumcised men don't miss their foreskin, if they don't remember having it.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 03:40 AM
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This is true. However, many circumcised men are happy with the functionality of their sex organ and are able to orgasm. I think cutting off the clitoris and sewing labia partially together to ensure a tighter fit would reduce a woman's ability to orgasm and may cause intense pain during intercourse. It's a moot point and I shouldn't have referenced it in my earlier post. I am vehemently against genital mutilation without informed consent of the owner of those genitals (if adults want piercings, …
/r/MensRights05/08/23 03:58 AM
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There is a difference in what is lost but I am vehemently against circumcision, or if you like, genital mutilation for anyone. (F, 55, mother of adult non-circumsised son).
/r/MensRights30/07/23 07:22 AM
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In Australia, in the 50s, ~80% of males were circumcised. Now for new borns, the rate has dropped to 10%. You have to ask for it - it's not done by default. When I had my son in 1991, I was adamantly against it as it is often performed without anaesthetic (safer) in the belief the baby will forget the excruciating pain. So, yeah, some countries care and they are most likely the most secular, because without religion driving it (and why would God attach it if he didn't intend to be there ??!) bec…
/r/MensRights16/07/23 05:04 AM
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I suspect there always was, but it was over coffee previously and misandrists didn't use critical thinking around their behaviour. I'm glad people are calling it out now - I hated ads that portrayed men as helpless domestically when I was raising my son (he's in his 30s now). It was supposedly a good giggle at how men couldn't do things that were (again) supposedly in a woman's realm of "natural" capacity, and men who chose to go along with it so they wouldn't have to do things like change nappi…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 02:14 PM
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"During a hookup". The bait has been taken, not getting the fish will result in "hell having no greater fury" because, in my opinion as an ugly woman, there's this idea that many men will stick their dick in anything warm and wet - like a pie. So there you have the woman expecting sex, and having the concept of "all men want sex all the time, and have low standards" but the guy decides no, he doesn't want to chew his arm off in the morning to get away from her. He is certainly entitled to refuse…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 01:11 PM
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F55. In high school, in English class, I was the one who had to read out the sex scene between the pretty French teacher and the protagonist (The Mango Tree) and way back then, as you might imagine, that sort of activity was written as if the boy "got lucky". As a parent of one of each, who had the benefit of sex education from school, and their parents, I would not have hesitated to take every step I could, if either of my kids had been (groomed and) raped by a teacher (or anyone else) to make …
/r/MensRights03/06/23 06:14 AM
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I think action movies and some sports (boxing, football etc) re-inforces the stereotype that men are so tough, that "you're not a real man if you can't take a slap from a woman" (stereotype, I said. I'm a pacifist and don't believe that statement) PLUS the age-old recommendation from fathers to sons "you're not a real man if you hit a woman" (this is, I believe, at least partially due to the biological fact that most men are stronger than most women - of course there are outliers - and are more …
/r/MensRights29/05/23 01:50 AM
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F55 here. When I was younger, even covered up, some of (non-creepy, relatively attractive) colleagues couldn't help talking to my breasts. I'd say "my eyes are up here" and they'd say "I wasn't looking." As my circle of male friends and colleagues aged along with me, they became a lot more discreet. Biology, I suspect. The looking, I mean. And to be fair, genetically I was given more than my fair share. Some of my gal pals would look and express envy. I would have been happy to donate 75% of the…
/r/MensRights24/05/23 07:23 AM
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Report! No-one deserves to be harassed at work.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:31 AM
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F (55). Always paid at least half but most often all for the date. Some people (m & f) think you owe them if they buy you food. Only had to escape through the kitchen once. Anyway, anyone using dating to pay for all their food is unethical.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 02:18 PM
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I'm interested in your ideas, but I wonder if as humans, removing hierarchy (in some circumstances at least) isn't possible. I'm not certain. I can't think of an example where it's worked, but other human traits (kill a rival, for example) have been somewhat tempered. I am 55 F and most of my relationships have had me socialised to be submissive (to a degree) to my male partner, and a big part of that has been as you propose, I had the greater need to maintain the relationship. But I have one (u…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 12:04 AM
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I think it's faulty logic. If you meet an arsehole today, you met one arsehole. If everyone was an arsehole, the common factor is you (generic). Some people don't know how to pick partners or how to be a good partner. I avoid people (any gender) who claim all their exes were crazy.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 08:40 AM
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F (55). I think it's time for a new system of laws to be written for domestic partnerships that include automatic prenuptial agreements, including options for renewal (or not), equal child custody or pre-agreed upon custody arrangements, how the domestic partnership (of 2 or more people) will divide earnings during partnership and afterwards (e.g. A puts B through tertiary education while being only income source), domestic responsibilities, legal authorisations as next of kin (maybe A prefers t…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 08:17 AM
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I think if you use the word "woman" or "women", the replies may include "not all women".
/r/MensRights17/01/23 08:49 AM
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For me, only after I became obese. Superthick thighs need more room. I can't speak for other women
/r/MensRights12/01/23 12:28 PM
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I really agree with you. I was in my 20s when I finally realised that the "cute" arm slaps I was giving my ex-army boyfriend was domestic violence and he had been socialised to never hit a woman or complain about pain inflicted by a woman. I regret this behaviour sincerely (and feel free to tell me what a bitch I was/am) and I stopped when we had a conversation about it (90s - can't remember the details).
/r/MensRights12/01/23 09:46 AM
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I'm a woman so I defer to your lived experience but I'm going to use a phrase that isn't normally used in this sort of discussion: NOT ALL MEN. As a woman who takes public transport, how do the guys who cross their legs or keep their knees together do it? Are they in pain? Genuinely interested because guys cop a lot of flack for exceeding sociophysical boundaries.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 09:41 AM
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My kids, one male and one female, are going to expexperience discrimination. I agree that some people are going to experience discrimination; they are privileged. I am trying to engage fairly. Yes, some men always experience discrimination.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:21 AM
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You don't believe that I believe I want equality for my kids? Ok.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 04:56 AM
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I'm a parent to a male and to a female. I want equality for both of them. Systemically it's currently out of whack for different kids and I can't do much about it. But I want both my children to experience wellbeing, and the world won't let me. BTW: I'm 55 F if you want to throw rocks at me. My son is 31.5 and daughter is about to turn 30
/r/MensRights15/10/22 08:44 AM
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Police
/r/MensRights03/10/22 09:57 AM
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Thank you. I hope it will be soon. After the most recent event, I fell apart and my Dr has put me on lithium and my therapist us about to start trauma therapy, which sounds scary, but I haven't give up. It's nice to hold the thought that we two strangers who may never chat again have shared our pain in the hope of each other's solace. Go well.
/r/MensRights16/09/22 01:55 AM
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Ah man, I hurt for you because my rapes were treated similarly: what did you expect, or you're married, you should have sex with your husband when he wants, how he wants. I don't care who's ideology is at play. Neither of us deserved to be sexually interfered with when we were not consenting. You're a man, I'm a woman, but I think we have a lot more in common than two other random people. Living with it. Talking about it and our experiences and feelings being mocked. Living with the trauma and t…
/r/MensRights15/09/22 01:17 PM
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You got me. I think it was onomatopeia for horn sounds, like arooga.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 10:26 AM
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Actually, I had a high libido and he had none. I jumped through every hoop... and it turned out he was a paedophile. But from what I said above I can understand interpretation of it. On the surface though, before I knew, that was the way he'd invite sex and it made me feel like a car or something. We both know "not all men" are whatever. I was hoping to enlighten some young chap who hadn't worked out his wife's preferences, not condemn all men for my desire for sex. Are you with me?
/r/MensRights14/09/22 01:40 PM
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Maybe the moderators aren't on your side on this topic, but I am.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 01:11 PM
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As a woman who is a survivor or rape and incest, I find these statistics appalling. I have every sympathy for boys and men who have been raped, especially when their trauma is ignored due to the fact the rapist was female. I think one way to improve society in this respect is to make sure our stories/legends/books/movies no longer portray a man who has been raped as lucky. The world needs to be told & shown that this is traumatic, not desirable. The world needs to understand that ANY non-consent…
/r/MensRights14/09/22 01:10 PM
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Perhaps people of different genders and orientations face difficult but different pressures until a certain level where a certain-coloured gender of a certain background may be way over-advantaged, and their privilege may impact on everyone else's opinion of their own personal difficulties.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 12:36 PM
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I dunno, I think I'd rather a kiss on my neck to get me enthused than two hands coming from behind to grab my boobs and a voice saying "bars, barp" to get me all excited. In this particular case ONLY, despite discussion, I think there's been a failure to communicate. I mean, if only my ex-husband had told me that "barp, barp" was his only way to get hard, I would have accommodated that, but he never said (you know, apart from "barp, barp" which I havent even seen in porn). I sincerely (literally…
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:50 AM
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I think he should wear a condom if he doesn't want to be a parent.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:11 AM
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