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I wouldn't say tons. I get maybe one match per week. I got ghosted eventually by all, and im not sure how to be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:17 AM
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Old people making stuff up to pretend we "have it so easy". No, it is not "easy" for guys in uni to hookup with girls. I know tons of guys in uni who never had girlfriends or hookups. If it was easier during your uni days, that just means the norms have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:14 AM
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I'm not in a position to be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:15 AM
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But 99% of those women were happy while being single. Why not do online dating? These 'not single by choice' women don't actually want a boyfriend, at least nowhere near as badly as men do. It's different and not comparable. Being completely unable to find any relationship with the opposite gender no matter how much effort you put into it is a struggle only men face is what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:21 AM
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It's not comparable. Men experience more attraction to women, and they set their standards at zero eventually. Incels would be happy with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:53 AM
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That's not comparable to men though. If there are men out there they are not willing to date, then they are not the same as incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:51 AM
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I find this extremely hard to believe. Women gets a ton of matches on dating apps, no exceptions. Most women who claim to "want to get a boyfriend" quickly get their dm's flooded on reddit. If there are men who you would not date, then you don't relate to incels. Incels stop caring about things like obesity, attractiveness, neurodivergence, or anything as time passes. If you don't believe, just make a post on reddit saying you're an involuntarily single woman looking for men. There will be hundr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:49 AM
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You don't know what it's like. Men will lower their standards as time passes. They will use apps and subreddits and anything to find any women. Factors such as obesity, neurodivergence, attractiveness, and anything else stops mattering and they start becoming happy at the thought of dating any woman. They look for "how to become desired by women" courses, and waste a ton of time and money only to find nothing. Then society says "it's your fault for being lazy" and they get pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:43 AM
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The whole reason incels exist is because almost all women want those 10/10s. I have seen multiple posts of women saying they find 95-99% of men unattractive with tons of likes. This works because many women aren't interested, so we get a bunch of unmatched men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:37 AM
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I've done MMA and sparring with women. I've only ran into 2 women whose kicks actually hurt me. There is a long list of men however.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:32 AM
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The only possible reason is her having high standards. Any woman could easily get a man if she really wanted to, unless she wasn't willing to do it with unattractive men. It is not the same. Even ugly, shy, obese, neurodivergent women could easily find boyfriends through dating apps or certain subreddits if they were okay with anyone. A ton of men have no feasible path towards a girlfriend even if they had zero standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:25 AM
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That's why I think gay men have it easy. They can easily use apps or certain subreddits to find all the casual sex they want. I've tried to be open minded, but I like everything about women. I would only do it with women and a few trans women. For me, it's a woman or bust
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:59 AM
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Most gen Z women are bi
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:45 AM
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Just to clarify, I am not in a relationship, but would happily be part of one. Love just doesn't exist, but having a partner can still be fun. Just like having a friend, but you are sexually attracted to this person, and hopefully, get along extremely well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:41 AM
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Just don't give out any offers if you are unattractive. Anything you say will be interpreted as creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:37 AM
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They're not wrong. It's not even a secret. Most women will tell you they find 99% of men to be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:23 AM
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I wouldn't say most. There's been a big decline over the past decade in women interested in such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 09:33 PM
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Well, I don't just start conversations with women, or people in general. Never had a girlfriend before. I can talk to them if there's a clear purpose and I don't look annoying or desperate for friends, so it doesn't interfere with my career, but it does with friend-making.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:07 PM
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I'm on track to med school. In fact, extroverts who went to parties and had gfs probably had less time to study and do ECs. It can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:57 AM
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With me, its just approaching and starting conversations. I don't want to be annoying. Like, if a woman is sitting next to me looking at her phone, I will never start a conversation and distract her from that. I used to never talk to anyone at all, but I've been trying to talk to random people lately, at least when they look bored and I don't look desperate for friends/gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:54 AM
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I could hold a conversation, but I don't just approach them to start conversations since I don't want to be annoying or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:48 AM
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I think I agree. Kids aren't born shy. People become shy because they could have embarrassed themselves in the past or many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:40 AM
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I don't think its a cause for concern. Me and my friends aren't partiers and we usually preferred to stay inside. There were less opportunities so several of us never had girlfriends. It could just mean he is an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:31 AM
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I mean, it just never came up for me. I have friends my age who also never had girlfriends. It's not that uncommon. We just aren't partiers and stay inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:27 AM
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A lot more women are lesbian and bisexual than men. Just download a dating app as a man. Most women will say bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:04 AM
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My entire friend group both online and at university is men in their 20s who have never had gfs or hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:54 AM
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There is no one to be likable to. With the rise of lesbians, bisexuals, and feminists, many women are off the dating market, while men are still almost the same as a decade ago. The ratio isn't one to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:40 AM
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AI girlfriends are the future
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:08 AM
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I don't think being online has changed me. I was always the type to stay quiet even before I had a phone. I simply have representation now due to social media allowing me to share my frustrations. Removing the internet won't solve the loneliness epidemic. The answer is polyamory. The ratio of men seeking women to the reverse is not one to one. Women don't experience attraction the same way. There are a lot more bisexual and lesbian woman than bisexual and gay men. There are probably 5 guys for e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:30 AM
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Sure, but if they can choose whoever they want, that likely means the same 10% of guys getting chosen by 90% of women. The other 90% of men, as much as they would like to feel wanted, realize that will never happen and force them into that relationship because they would rather have that than nothing. It's not a feeling women can understand since they don't experience attraction to men the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:04 AM
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Yes, just like we want to win the lottery, but some things just don't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:20 PM
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Keep lying to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:52 PM
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It happens all the time in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:50 PM
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