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4 months of work (which you haven’t even done) to try and erase 50 years of suck. Truthfully though this would be the kindest thing you could do for HER. I've been working on this problem for two years, just started lifting in Jan, and discovered MRP 2 months ago. I'm not perfect, but I am a catch. Not only because of what I've accomplished in my life already, but because I'll never quit working to be the best man I can be (in my own eyes). The kindest thing I can do for her is to address my una…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/25 08:48 PM
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Michelangelo's David I have never compound lifted and never tried to max the weight training I do. The exercises I do target specific muscles. Until Jan 2025, I never lifted weights in my entire life. She basically asked me to stop talking to her (in her nice girl BS way). I don't have a metric, my goal is to practice. But later when I saw through her BS, I reflected on areas I could improve. I wrote this after I read lesson 11 in Book of Pook: "Failure is being in a marriage where she has no tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/25 04:30 PM
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Why do you think that is? Is it because it feels rude to not respond? Who has conditioned you this way, and does it server you? That is a great question. I've always been good at talking and getting what I want. It has served me well everywhere else in life. I do know that saying nothing is sometimes best. To answer your question, I think in this moment I've being using it to create dread -- see this comment below. u/Ambitious_Buddy_6723 has explained it to me nicely in this thread "STFU, your g…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/25 01:17 PM
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Overt dread is not your friend, Thanks, that is what I was wondering.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/25 01:10 PM
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Thanks. The challenge I failed at was engaging in the talk she started. Not responding, when that's what I've done my entire life, isn't easy. I've always been able to talk myself into or out of almost any situation. I think that I need to find other ways to respond that are attractive, that would be easier for me than not talking at all. I'm going to research other options beyond STFU. This and this are the first ones I found, if you have any other's handy you can share, I'd appreciate it. I'll…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/25 02:14 AM
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I appreciate you guys holding me accountable, I know I need to STFU. I regretted my response as soon as I said it. I posted it here to own my shit. To clarify, she accused me of threatening divorce, I did not mean it as a threat. I told her what I was thinking, which I regret. At that moment, I wanted to create dread. I was disappointed in myself that I failed to STFU, I was not mad that she didn't desire me.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 09:42 PM
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Man you need to STFU more No doubt
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 07:17 PM
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OYS #4 47yo 5’9” 158lb. Married for 20+, 3 children. Goal: To be as physically and mentally attractive as possible by identifying unattractive behaviors, and building my body to the ideal man’s physique Physical: Lifted weights 5 out of 5 days, increased total volume every day, 18% volume increase week over week for same routine. Snowboarded with friends one day, 17 runs 23k vert. Reading:. Halfway through MAP. Stated book of Pook, reading posts shared by others in this thread. Social: Reached o…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 02:41 PM
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I'm confused. Why did you say you are unable to gain muscle if each week you are lifting more than the week before?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/25 12:08 AM
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And every week the numbers are the same? And there is no way you could push harder? You maybe even feel sore the next day from the effort?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/25 11:20 PM
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I've been going to the gym for years and have been unable to gain muscle This means you either aren't trying hard enough, or there is something medically wrong. I agree there is nothing magical about squats or deadlifts. Have you considered exercises that make it easy to do progressive overloading? This basically means that every set, you either increase weight or a rep. You track your volume (sets*reps) every single set and ensure you are progressing week over week.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/25 03:07 PM
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Challenge accepted! Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 04:57 PM
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I hear that is very common, but it hasn't been my experience. My wife has has almost always orgasmed, but admittedly up until 2 weeks ago, I was always seeking good lover validation. She doesn't own a vibrator (I bought her one last month and she wouldn't talk to me for a week after I refused to return it) and claims she doesn't masturbate. She tells me to stop foreplay before she orgasms because she says she can only have one (I've challenged this) and would rather have it vaginally. Based on w…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 04:32 PM
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You say you really enjoy when your wife orgasms. Do you enjoy it because you feel like a good lover (hint: would you enjoy it as much if you weren’t involved?)? If you would have asked me before I read this, I would have said it is definitely because I really enjoy it. Now I am uncertain. I am the kind of person who genuinely likes to help people (not nice guy, covert contract style). I have spent time thinking about this question, which is why I started to focus on myself first. Her not having …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 04:01 PM
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The hardest part seems to be shedding the need for external validation and recognition. Why is that hard?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 01:42 PM
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This is the way, you choose to do what is most important, and then there won't be time for the things that aren't.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 07:22 PM
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OYS #3 47yo 5’9” 158lb. Married for 20+, 3 children. Goal: To be as physically and mentally attractive as possible by identifying unattractive behaviors, and building my body to the ideal man’s physique Physical: Lifted weights 5 out of 5 days, increased total volume every day, 35% volume increase week over week for same routine (volume=reps*weight) — second week week with same routine, which made it easy to increase reps/weight. Rode MTB twice, total: 3 hours, 24 miles, 2800 ft elevation. Readi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 07:10 PM
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thanks for those links, I also found them helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/25 08:10 PM
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That video is hilarious.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/25 08:06 PM
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Great feedback, thank you! Especially the game tips. If she wants to fuck, she’ll fuck. Remember that. She never wants to fuck if she thinks one of the kids will knock on our door or walk in the living room at any moment. She never said it, I bet she walked in on her mom when she was a kid or something. Get out of this habit where you get in her head first and base your libido on what she’s thinking before initiating. Consider it your job to initiate sex from your frame. Not hers. If you wanna f…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 08:24 PM
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OYS #2 47yo 5’9” 158lb. Married for 20+, 3 children. Goal: To be as physically and mentally attractive as possible by identifying unattractive behaviors, and building my body to the ideal man’s physique Physical: lifted 3 days last week ~45 mins per day (missed 2 days, sick). DOMS from the new routines kept my overall progress down, but felt fine at the end of the week. 1 hour MTB w ~1k feet of climbing. Will do better next week in all areas. Reading: Rational Male, year one. Sidebar. Finished N…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 05:35 PM
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I’m getting better, but that doesn’t change who I am now. I wouldn’t have found this place if I didn’t realize I was a faggot. I would never self deprecate in front of a woman. I’m not that much of a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/25 03:24 AM
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I’m here to learn how not to be a faggot. I STFU in my OYS to avoid getting banned for being a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 06:02 PM
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OYS #1 47yo 5’9” 158lb. Married for 20+, 3 children. Physical: lifted 4 days last week ~45 mins per day (missed one day because I felt sick). Swapped out a few workouts, lifted more than the week before. 2.5 hours MTB ride (first ride in 6 months). Reading: Finished MMSLP, reading Rational Male, year one. Sidebar. Professional: Won a new project at work that will help finish March strong Social: Met a new person on BFF, went for a MTB ride. Going to schedule beers with someone this week and go s…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 03:28 PM
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