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New_Flounder6372/r/Divorce_Men04/07/21 02:47 PM
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I would say give it a little more time and see how things get. If your still feeling the same you'll need to have a good long talk with your wife to come to a solution. It may be that one of you may be miserable
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 07:59 PM
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How long have you been in this foreign country? When I married my ex wife I moved to the US, initially I was happy there for about 6 months then the homesickness kicked in. It honestly took me 3 or 4 years to adapt to the way of life and feel settled. Although I got divorced I stayed in the US for another year or so but I eventually returned back to the UK
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 03:54 PM
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Make it through one day and then make it through another day. Stay away from alcohol and drugs they make things way worse. Lean on family and friends of you can but one thing that helped me the most was seeing a therapist like once a week for a few months then bi-weekly then once a month. It's hard very hard, find something to distract yourself, don't hide away get out and do things
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/22 06:38 PM
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Initially I kept mine because at the start I didn't know what was going to happen. I was an emotional wreck for a long time. It wasn't until like a year after seperation and a few months post divorce that I was ready to deal with it. In the end I seen no point in keeping mine because she was my now ex wife and the life I had was over. I gathered all the cards, letters and pictures and burnt them all. Only thing I kept was my wedding ring, don't know why but for some reason I can't seem to throw …
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/22 12:16 PM
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Sorry to hear that man. But a positive I can see is that you reconciled and tried NOW you know that you don't need her EVER again. Stay strong my friend good times are ahead
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 07:25 PM
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That's awesome man. Good for you to turn your life around and it seems like your happy again. Nice to hear of good coming from bad
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 12:54 AM
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I would also add what friends they have. Like divorced women, party girls or going through divorce. They play a big impact on her mentality and if she goes to them for advice your done for
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 07:13 PM
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I would say how she is with her parents. My ex wife got along decently well with her mother but she had some sly digs at her at times to but nothing too serious. With her father that was a different story, he was a piece of shit. My ex would complain all the time about him and he would guilt trip her about things even when it came to her talking to her grandparents. He had mental disorders and just weird all together. She always told me that she hoped she'd never be like him but as time went on …
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 07:02 PM
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Best thing to do is going into different companies around you talk to the people in charge get a feel of how they present themselves and ask to see if they are willing to hire you
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/22 06:43 PM
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This is the way
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/22 06:26 PM
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I wish you all the best man and I hope it works out for you. It will be hard at the start but learn as much as you can early on and don't be afraid to jump in and do things
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/22 05:37 PM
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With any trade job, work can be inconsistent at times depending on where you live. Hours can be up and down. Also there can very days where you'll have to work over the normal time just to finish a job or being on call after hours or weekends. While I work as a plumber I did normally finish work around 4.30 5. It can be a good career but you'll need to way up the pros and cons
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/22 01:48 PM
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That last sentence is good, I like that alot "The darker the night, the brighter the stars."
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/22 03:04 AM
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I like that first sentence "There is no failure, there is just life".
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/22 09:13 PM
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When one chooses to walk the Way of the Mandalore, you are both hunter and prey
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 02:46 AM
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I get that man and everyone has their own opinions on what they want to do. Once I figure out what I want to do and where to go, my communication with them will probably dwindle down to not very much I say. They are great people, not their fault that my marriage failed haha.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 05:45 PM
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It's good that you have a great bunch of friends. I've got 1 good friend near by but all my family are 3500 miles away. Funny thing is my ex in-laws still treat me like we are still related. I still go out to my ex father in laws and chill with him and have beers
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 05:12 PM
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It sounds good that your doing alot better man. That's good for you and your kids. I'm a little over a year into my separation and divorce and most of the time I'm like a zombie just existing. I didn't want the divorce she did. I'm doing better than what I once was but the sadness and depression still lingers. It's hard to keep going when there's nothing that makes me happy. I have the odd good day here and there but good for you man that your happy again
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 02:52 PM
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I think my biggest problem is that I have idolized her I a way and remember all the good stuff. Where as if i think through the past 1.5years she didn't offer me anything in terms of a marriage. I was always there for her and tried to work on our marriage whereas she didn't want to really. I think we we're at 2 different stages at our life, mine has not changed since I got married. I think since we were young when we married I think she changed and her outlook on life changed and I wasn't part o…
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/21 03:54 PM
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