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| 1 | It would be the best timeSinto muito em saber pelo que você está passando. Eu sei que esse fardo é pesado para você, mas, por favor, não faça nada permanente. Não faça nada que não possa ser desfeito. O que eu gostaria de dizer, e espero que você considere, é que a escolha que você tem o poder de fazer pode tirar sua dor, mas passará essa dor para seu filho e outras pessoas amadas (pais, irmãos, amigos), que nunca se recuperarão disso. O que você precisa fazer agora é colocar você em primeiro lugar. Essa dor é temporári… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/26 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Does this happen to anyone else?I'm sorry you're going through this. Anger is a normal reaction to situations of pain and betrayal. It's part of the process, and it's a completely justified emotion in the situation you're in. The problem with anger is that it takes over all rational thoughts. It increases your adrenaline, which increases your heart rate and gets your body ready to fight. It needs an outlet. The challenge for you is to keep the anger under control, otherwise you'll go overboard. Remember that any violent act, c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/26 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Well, now I am in the clubMost of us men weren't caught off guard out of nowhere. It only seems like it came out of nowhere because the "shutting down" thing started years earlier and we didn't see it. Not because we're stupid or careless, but because men carry the weight of everyday life. We assume everything is fine unless someone says otherwise. Meanwhile, she stays quiet, withdraws, compares you to an imaginary version of her husband in her head, and accumulates resentment without ever really saying anything out loud… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/26 05:09 PM |
| 2 | I lost it tonight guys. I’d been pretending to be ok since I discovered her cheating. Tonight I snapped.I'm so sorry this happened to you. You're grieving, and grief doesn't follow a straight line or a reliable timeline. Emotions will come in waves. This is totally normal. Give yourself a lot of grace right now and allow yourself to feel what you need to feel. Give yourself permission to grieve for as long as you need and don't let anyone tell you that you're doing something wrong or that you're not recovering fast enough. It's awful, but there's no shortcut to healing. Prioritize yourself. We men… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/25 03:28 PM |
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