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| 2 | Today's Woman is Yesterday's ProstituteThe thing that always bothers me about that study though is they didn't control for religiosity. Seems to me that a woman who has sex with 0 partners before marriage is highly likely to be strongly religious, and committed to no divorce. Which isn't a guarantee of marital enjoyment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Today's Woman is Yesterday's ProstituteGetting a professional maid and cook is far cheaper than a wife, and takes zero emotional energy. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/21 03:28 PM |
| 18 | I don’t remember her name, but I know that she had herpesI had the same experience. I ended up in bed with a really sexy 5'11" buxom blonde who would have tickled anyone's Barbie dreams. Gave her a nipple orgasm during foreplay (WTF, that was cool - didn't even know it was a thing until she was screaming in pleasure). But then, being a good person, she broke the vibe and told me that she had kind of a bad case of genital herpes. Not breaking out at the moment, was taking drugs for it, but it was present. She got it from slutting it up with one of her … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/21 10:56 PM |
| 7 | The attack on males and testosteroneThanks for your actual scientific knowledge man. There are too many broscience people around here taking on complex science and getting in too deep for their backgrounds. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/21 04:50 AM |
| 2 | (19M) Is it bad to expect disappointment?I'm not just telling you to stop, but explaining how to go about it such that, in a few years, you'll be proud of yourself, and starting to feel accomplished and worthwhile. Stop worrying about your feelings and just work. Working towards goals that are valuable to you is the ultimate therapy. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 05:45 AM |
| 5 | (19M) Is it bad to expect disappointment?You may not have much apparent value right now (maybe no real skills, no muscles, no game, no whatever else), but you have to believe in your own potential. If you make yourself into the kind of guy that this forum espouses, you will understand that hard work will pay off, and you are going to be the kind of guy that achieves and brings value to those around him. So you should carry yourself as a man who knows he's going places. I'm not talking about empty braggadocious bluster; I'm talking abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 4 | watching porn | playing video games | scrolling social media | watching sportsYou are "quite literally" a cuck if you can't satisfy your wife and she has sex with other men. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 08:22 AM |
| 6 | Five years ago I was about to kill myself..I'm in your same age bracket and am delighted to be single. I don't know of anyone who has sneaking suspicions about me. Seems to me maybe your being single isn't the issue, but perhaps feeling bad about yourself for being single is making people feel uncomfortable for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/21 07:21 AM |
| 7 | If You Hate Women…I've never hated women. But the more deeply I learned their romantic ways, the less I respected them on an equal level to men, and the less I deeply wanted them. They almost never bring true value - they bring cost and effort and some good times that can be debatably worth it. Like going on a big expensive vacation, or owning a boat. As much as I want to believe in true equality, and I do still to some extent, in many respects, women are definitely the lesser being. I still enjoy them well enoug… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/21 06:09 AM |
| 32 | You Should be Better than Your IdolsAre you aiming to be better than Marcus Aurelius by coaching dudes on how to get easier sex from women? Come on man, this is like classic high school coach pep talk that the smart kids see through and roll their eyes at, and the others are inspired by because they don't think too hard about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | I just lost my virginity at 21 years old. Wanted to share my experience and thank you allDude, you're obviously not an athlete. Lying around doing nothing while on a caloric deficit will not give you a body that women will want unless they're into scrawny emo rockers. Your muscles need stimulation to grow and even a little bit even to stay the same, especially if you're on a more dramatic caloric deficit. If you're not using them at all and you're on a deficit, yes, you'll lose fat, but you'll also lose muscle. Now I'll grant you that if someone is a sedentary fatass with not much m… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/21 01:18 AM |
| 3 | NARS: The Real EpidemicSigh. Some of what OP said is kinda right, and a lot of it is mostly wrong. This isn't a nuanced enough place to have this discussion. But I'll jump in with one valuable addition on one of his points. If you want to read most any published STEM paper ever put out, you can find it at: scihubtw . tw (without the spaces) Find the DOI handle of the academic paper you want to read (by finding the paper online and copying the DOI identifier from the abstract), and paste it into the search bar at the a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | She doesn't like you because you're weak.If you can get it at a college library or Barnes and Noble it’s probably not worth reading. Don’t read trash that makes you a slave to the very system that made you weak. Everything you’re told not to read by the masses, read. Everything you’re told to read by about 99% of people, throw it away. Only listen to people in your tribe, people you take advice from, and people who have what you want. This is maybe 10% true and 90% bullshit. Yes, read banned books. And of course, don't focus all your t… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/21 05:55 AM |
| 3 | The result of my 20's with just escorts/prostitutesFor guys who've used prostitutes, the biggest thing I wonder is: I really enjoy making out with women, going down on them, and going raw (with birth control). I really enjoy giving women pleasure and seeing their eyes roll back when I hit it just right. I probably wouldn't be super interested in any of those things with a prostitute - I guess maybe making out, but even that seems less appealing. So if all you're doing is getting sucked and then having condom sex, it seems like it's totally a sel… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Women and “icks”: A confirmation of alpha/beta dichotomyYou cultivate interests and personality for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/21 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Just lost a plate to erectile dysfunctionLol, effeminate is a description for a man who acts like a woman. You just mean feminine. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Are You A Winner? — Concrete Reductionism Part IIf you mean game in the sense of stuff that makes women want you, I think women are generally much less impressed with intellect itself than with the luxuries it affords. Perhaps an exception though, is referential playfulness in conversation. If you make playful and joking reference to earlier moments in the flirtation with a woman, just as a standup comic would do, she will be delighted if she's smart enough to notice. Men will admire this too if you do it with them (and don't flirt, ha). But … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Are You A Winner? — Concrete Reductionism Part II've gone without women for some extended periods by choice and really enjoyed it. Not because I was in "monk mode" trying to become impressive so I could seduce women more effectively later, but because I had things I wanted to spend my time on without being distracted by women. I have a powerful sex drive, but at the same time, women are like drugs, and generally feel like a neutral to negative influence in my life. Sometimes, I just want to live for myself, without any bitches trying to get m… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Are You A Winner? — Concrete Reductionism Part IRead a little more about Newton. It's widely suspected that he was autistic, and generally agreed that he probably died a virgin. That's ok. He's the poster boy for what a great intellectual can accomplish without the distraction of bitches. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/21 07:01 AM |
| 4 | Stay Tiger Analogy-Fereally RedThis is the wittiest thing that's been written on this forum in years. Excellent work! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 17 | Is Marriage Good For Men? - Video I mentioned on the Discord Last Night.I know a few rural traditional men who married women that grew up farming and ranching who seem like they may be happy, and whose women seem like actual good partners. I think it's wonderful for a woman to grow up in that environment where she absolutely needs to pull her weight and get over her emotional bullshit and manipulation because her vagina is meaningless when there is actual critical work that must be done now for the sake of the family's livelihood. They also generally had strong mess… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/21 07:36 PM |
| 52 | Why its cringe to categorize your actions as alphaWhen a woman says "I'm not crazy!" or "I'm strong and independent!" or "I'm pretty!" or anything like that, does it reinforce your belief that these things are true, or does it make you think that the girl is actually unstable, insecure, and has self image issues? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/21 07:03 PM |
| 34 | Is it better to live alone at 26 years old?Living with good roommates > living alone > living with bad roommates | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | What is there to life besides lifting, working and getting girls- what’s the point of life?Hell yeah. Never met a great climb that wasn't more fun than a woman. Even women in the community will sometimes acknowledge that climbing is better than having a man. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 05:05 AM |
| 4 | What is there to life besides lifting, working and getting girls- what’s the point of life?That's really cool too. I've enjoyed it with the little ones I'm in contact with. Not sure the sacrifices of being permanently with a woman are worth it though... | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 05:03 AM |
| 21 | What is there to life besides lifting, working and getting girls- what’s the point of life?None of those three things are the best things in life. Honestly, I think the most satisfying things in life are: Solid male-bonding time doing risky shit with my guy friends who go way back Learning challenging intellectual subjects and solving intellectual puzzles Experiencing the great art of the world that expresses profound things about human existence Ok, maybe lifting belongs here, but I prefer a mix of lifting and adventure sports that work your body in a more primal, real-world way. Bei… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 02:24 AM |
| 26 | The more I understand female nature, the more I want to avoid females completely ?Worthless women only provide sex. Those women are completely interchangeable except for their sexual persona and their body shape. If you can find a woman who hasn't been destroyed by society, she can also provide feminine charm and sweetness and light frivolity as a foil to your hard masculine edge and drive. There's value to be had from letting your archetypes mingle. Then if you manage to find a self-aware, accomplished, intelligent, emotionally healthy woman, she can actually contribute inte… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Do I Apologize after bad ending to date?You can give a little period of contemplation after preparing her for it with some poetic conversation about the beauty of the sunset and poignancy of life, but then you have to jump back in after your short pause to tell her some of what your reflections are. Women are with you to be included on your journey. You didn't include her. Treat silence on a date like silence is treated on radio. A few short ticks of silence can be effective if they're really carefully prepared, but any extended silen… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 06:59 AM |
| 2 | As the average American woman is a whopping 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 135lbs and a size 4 to 6 now considered "high standards"?Who cares what anybody else defines things as man? You have your standards, and you will not relax them. If a woman meets your standards, she gets action. If she doesn't, she has no chance with you. Work hard to be a good enough man that some women who meet your standards will be interested. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 2 | My LTR has issues with me following new girls on InstagramYour approach is correct. It's her responsibility to deal with her own insecurities. It might feel like an insignificant hill to die on, but I think it's an important boundary to set that shows her your ability to set boundaries in general. Since it's an LTR, it's important to communicate to her clearly that you're not shopping around looking for new partners, and that you're a man who will bring up issues to her if you have any. But at the same time, her insecure mate-guarding won't be accepted… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 05:30 AM |
| 38 | Can Someone Explain Why Women Are So Hellbent On Deflecting Responsibility?Evolutionarily, their weaker physical ability vs. males who want things from them, the biology of pregnancy, the war bride phenomenon, etc, have all been examples of external loci of control that females had to face in their existences. They evolved cognitive processes that helped them manage this. Today, many of those concerns are gone or at least substantially muted vs. their impact over anthropological time, but females' mental processes that externalize culpability are still there. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Should I move to new city with LTR?If she's broken up with her boyfriends in the past due to cheating, she'll do the same to you. Past behavior is future behavior. Also, don't move in with her. Unless you've vetted a woman for years and against everyone's better judgement and in defiance of the odds, you want to marry her, you should never live with a woman. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Need some adviceMeh. Sounds like she might not be worth the effort. 6 times meeting with no sex and just attending to her neuroticism and ego sounds like a big waste of your time (assuming she's not a legitimately worthwhile and interesting person, which it sounds like she's not). | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever slept with a girl who claimed to be a lesbian?I fucked one who was uncertain how exactly she identified, and has since come out as mostly lesbian, with an occasional taste for guys. Liked her a lot and she's still a really great friend, but honestly, it was kind of disheartening how much she didn't openly enjoy sex with me. She kept saying she enjoyed it, and kept coming back for more sessions, but she never made much of any noise or facial expressions, and I'm not sure she ever came, despite me throwing all my tricks at her. That's not my … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do I not have any work ethic?Look into the Big 5 personality test. It's possible you might be low in trait conscientiousness. This is the domain that describes someone's innate tendency to be careful, diligent, make schedules and follow through on them. If you're high on trait conscientiousness, this stuff will come naturally to you. If you're low, it won't come naturally, and you'll have to build up systems that hold your feet to the fire and make you get your stuff done. Know thyself. It's useful to know how you score on … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 10:43 PM |
| 9 | Am I the only one who feels like the idea of financially sustaining an adult woman simply because she's a woman very uncomfortable?I don't object to your overall statement, but check your definition of bastard. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 05:23 PM |
| 8 | What girl would you value more?Sounds pretty clear that you know the answer to your own question. Don't immediately jump into an LTR with the 31yo - make her work for it and impress you. But she sounds like a legitimate human. 24yo sounds like a pretty worthless person who would only take away value from your life. 31yo might possibly add value. There are also other women though - dangle possibilities in front of the 31yo and see if she's worth anything, but keep screening others. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneMaybe you're still too young to have observed your adult priorities and motivations change. Hard to fully predict the future. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Apply RP To Household Chore Shit In A LTRDon't ever move in with a woman. When you're over at her place, you follow her house rules. When she's over at yours, she follows yours. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 08:04 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with a woman who says “she feels bad” for you when your trying to bang?Condolences man. From what I know, that shouldn't affect your T levels too much in the long run. Don't worry about women at all now. You've got some recovery time before you should really be shopping for a serious partner. Dunno if you went for it, but in your place I might get a prosthesis to replace the one missing ball so you can control the conversation and a woman doesn't learn you lost one the first time you have sex with her. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneYeah, like I said, I doubt I'm interested. But I'll allow for the possibility that biology may drive me harder in that direction when I'm older. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 07:35 AM |
| 11 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneYou probably need to wife up a 33yo post-wall woman if you're looking for the life you're describing. Most 27yo's aren't yet ready to stop playing the game. It's not until most women lose a good chunk of their beauty that they'll play the long game. I doubt I'm interested, but if I ever go that route, I'll probably wait till I'm 50-55 and then snag my 33yo, so she'll still comparatively be a win for me. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 03:36 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with a woman who says “she feels bad” for you when your trying to bang?Did you have to have one or both of your balls removed? Were you able to preserve some sperm? If you've still got at least a ball, you should get a sperm count done now and then again in 6 months to a year so you know the status of things and to what degree your sperm count may be increasing as you return to health. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 03:24 AM |
| 6 | How do you deal with a woman who says “she feels bad” for you when your trying to bang?You'd probably do better with women who don't know you had cancer. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 12 | Need some adviceYou shouldn't have responded. Women texting at 3am when you're asleep don't get responses. Respond in the morning: "Sorry, I had been asleep for hours when you texted. Hope you fell asleep alright. See you Friday." | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:42 PM |
| 12 | invited a girl out for drinks. she replied "how bout dinner and drinks!" smh"I'll make you dinner at my place next time if you play your cards right." | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 3 | How to be Dominant and ChallengingFor situation 1, meaningful words aren't needed. A simple "come here" with a quick embrace followed by a paternalistic pat on the head or swat on the ass followed by a "I think I'll still keep you" will do fine. She's probably not making a legitimate rational statement, so responding as if it is isn't right. You give her a quick emotional pick me up, and you make the energy light and playful to get her out of her stupid head space so neither of you has to spend more time there. For situation 2, … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/21 09:38 PM |
| 21 | How to give better head?Dude, "giving head" is sucking dick. I legit thought this was going to be a question from some lurker girl. There are a lot of websites out there that have good advice. But ultimately, women are so different that there's no approach that works best on them all. Read a lot and learn a big bag of tricks, and then try everything on each woman you're with. You judge based on their words, sounds, and movements what feels good to each woman. However, it sounds like your current woman is young and inse… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Birth 'control'I went on a couple dates with this girl in her early 30s last fall. She had a fabulous ass and a very sexy eastern bloc accent. But there was something about her that triggered my spidey senses, so despite how hard she pushed for me to come back to her place and have a little fun, I didn't and I went with other options. What do you know: somewhat recently, she posted social media pictures of herself with her new infant, listing its birth date. 38 weeks earlier was just about a week after our las… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Which skills should every man have? Also how to raise testosterone levels naturally.Yeah, I meant if drinking beers was their hobby. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Traditional Stoic Game vs being Passionate?The way I live my life, I fully embrace and revel in the positive, delightful things in life. I let those feelings wash over me, and I share those feelings with others around me. As a man, I feel like my native experience of those emotions is perhaps a little more muted than a small child or a young woman, but they still feel strong to me, and I fully enjoy them. When negative emotions happen, I treat them philosophically, with a layer of distance. It's like: "my vessel is feeling sad. I should … | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Totally freaking out over my future because I can't make my mind up on a job...Sales is often touted around here as the ultimate job. Sure, it's a great skill in life, but it requires a certain personality to really be good at it. I have had enough limited experience in it to know I'm not good at it and I don't enjoy it. Certainly not in the high-failure-rate door-to-door way you're working. Professional success in life comes from recognizing what your natural predilections are, nurturing and developing them, and then picking a lucrative job that you can use one of them on… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 08:55 PM |
| 36 | Which skills should every man have? Also how to raise testosterone levels naturally.Hiking is pretty great therapy, and the financial barrier to entry is lower than in hunting and fishing. If you're in an area with mountains, you can escalate more towards hard hikes that finish with rock scrambles. I've never not felt ecstatic after that kind of day, no matter what else is happening in my life. I don't know about abandoning your entire friend group. If they're all partying losers, maybe, but surely there are some that are valuable men that have some traditional masculine abilit… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 08:28 PM |
| 20 | is it beta to be proud of my daughter even though shes a hoe?Of course it's possible to view women both as players in the mating game who are in some senses our adversaries, and also as contributing humans in our societal network outside of their sexual role. OP, it sounds like you raised a smart, conscientious woman who is a valuable member of your family. The idea promulgated around here that the only good woman is a virgin who gets married at 23 is kind of silly. That's one way of optimizing a woman's life (especially if she has limited intellect and a… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 10:24 AM |
| 21 | Coming from a relationship sub I know my post is probably going to be beta as f. Please give me some raw feedback from a trp perspective. I'm new to the sub and need to learn.No matter what women claim they want and no matter what society says about how women should be treated, you should actually always treat your woman like your silly, ditsy younger sister. You do ultimately care about her, but you tease and sass her a lot, you'll cut her down to size and not hang with her for a while if she disrespects you, and you're ultimately doing her a favor by letting her spend time in your life. When she's seriously in need, you'll help her, and you'll take control and prev… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 01:04 AM |
| 4 | 22 year old with little to none sexual desire. What's wrong with me?Sound like you may not have a very strong sense of self or explicit set of goals that you're working towards. "I wanna be a successful rapper" might as well be "I wanna win the lottery". Are you explicitly taking actions to do that? Are you spending time with the dictionary, building lists of words that rhyme, studying rappers' songs and types of meter in poetry, working on your freestyling or your album, and working to build connections in the industry? Or are you just thinking how cool it woul… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Anyone noticed this?I've had pretty good luck with Hinge honestly. I don't know how the algorithm works, but I assume it's collecting data on every single thing you do. So instantly reject anyone it prompts you with who's fat or otherwise unacceptable. I'm talking a fraction of a second. Only continue looking at profiles or sending out messages to women you would certainly bang. I've only every been recommended uggos maybe 10-15 times over the course of many, many months. Most have been attractive enough for a mode… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Should I even bother with girls over 30s?I'm in my early 40's. I more often prefer girls in their 20's but there are girls in their 30's who are worth spending time with. This group does a lot of overgeneralizing. Yes, there is a general trend that as women get older, they're more likely to be emotionally damaged, and they're part of a group from which many of the best ones have been removed. But there are also a lot of trash 20-somethings out there. The thing about 30-somethings is that they've mostly developed their adult life-mainte… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I feel like a soft personMen (with all the stereotypical strengths associated with them) aren't born; they're made. You have to invest in yourself. Some things come more easily to some than others. For example, I've always had a predilection towards outdoor adventure that could kill me. From the time I was small, I was pushing my fear limits and building competence. I'm still doing it now, and of course I'm far beyond the average person. My natural abilities to penetrate a big social group and be dynamic and win them ov… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Affirmations With a Plate.That seems like it would be an extremely skewing selection method. I'd wager you get mostly very religious girls and girls with low sex drives? What are your findings? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/21 10:17 PM |
| 14 | Red Pill Affirmations With a Plate.Maybe you should tell the next woman you date that you want to wait to have sex with her until you're pretty certain you'd like to start a family with her. Let us know how that goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/21 05:55 PM |
| 2 | In a common position a lot of men find themselves in, I could use your advice.We know that what women value generally doesn't mean shit. Sure, validation feels good and lack of validation feels bad, but keep in mind that the values of women are like cotton candy - tasty but ultimately meaningless. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/21 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Anyone have experience with LTR’ing lower SMV girl?Lol bro, homely literally means the opposite of pretty. https://www.dictionary.com/browse/homely | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 36 | How do you deal with such power disadvantage?The thing is, they don't actually value the same things you do. You're describing a woman's life from a man's value system. No matter how brainwashed the leftist doctrine gets them, fundamentally women want a strong relationship with an alpha male who supports them and guides them. That's super hard for them to find. So yes, they get lots of easy sex when they're young, which is kind of fun, but they know deep down it's eating them up, especially when the alphas they truly want pump and dump the… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 23 | I need help prioritizing my lifeDon't worry about online dating or women at all for a good while. Just build muscle, mental health, and your dude friend group. Re-invest in hobbies that are productive and make you feel good - reading, sports, art, adventure, crafts, etc. Crush it at work and build finances. It'll probably take you a couple years, but you'll realize after a while that you're really quite happy with your new life. That's when you can start thinking about women in a meaningful way. If some bitch falls into your l… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 03:11 AM |
| 3 | The Obesity Crisis and the Inflated valuation of the American WomanThe concentration of hotties is genuinely quite high. Who knows how many of them are actually worth dating though. Combine high rate of wokeness with the high rate of depression/anxiety/imposter syndrome among professionally successful women, and it could be that most of them are only worth a pump and dump. I'm not saying my situation is a fundamental solution to the market dynamics involved. Just that the major metro areas are a sandbox where fun can still be had. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/21 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Should I ever ask a plate "what are you looking for?"That the question she asks you. Don't be a pussy. It's on her to make sure the relationship is what she wants it to be. If she's afraid to ask, that means she is worried you might not be on the same page, but she's enjoying you so much she doesn't want to jeopardize it. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 11:23 PM |
| 21 | The Obesity Crisis and the Inflated valuation of the American WomanYes, it's a really serious issue. However, if you live in a wealthy, successful city and stick to the women who are within that wealthy, successful demographic, there are still good pickings. I live in a major US metropolitan area, and when I use public transit downtown during commuting hours, I'm constantly impressed at how many professional-sexy women with good bodies there are who are in their 20s and 30s. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/21 11:12 PM |
| 6 | Leveraging high net worth to pipeline womenDude, you don't seem to know about FIRE. If OP has $3mil invested, and the stock market returns 6%/year, which is average, that means he has passive income of $180k/year without depleting his principal. OP, I think you should be more transparent with women that you travel permanently for fun, and then you should find good ones to bring along on short trips. That should be chick catnip. Just don't let them push your budget. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 05:14 AM |
| 2 | I think I dived into lifting too fast, and not sure what I should do nowPeople make too big a deal of bulking. Yes, you can gain muscle a little faster if you're also letting yourself get a bit fat for a while during a bulk. But you can also gain muscle almost as fast if you just eat the right calories and macros for your body and activity level, without the overeating and extra blubber. I fell off the wagon a little bit during COVID with eating less healthy food, and tracking nutrition like this, along with a new dedication to lifting, is what I'm doing now to reco… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Men that grinded, played a field, worked hard and yet no fruits? How do you do?The guys in here may have failed at work in some field at some point in life, but then they redirect and find something else to be successful at. That's the whole point. Women don't want you if you fail and go cry. If you fail and pivot to something else and find success and you can tell it with masculine zeal and pride, women eat that up, because it speaks to self-awareness, drive, and capacity for hard work. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:06 PM |
| 11 | Men that grinded, played a field, worked hard and yet no fruits? How do you do?Geesus, I'd never seen that page. Losers reveling in their failure and mental illness. I might have to go take a shower to wash away the grime of pathos that rubbed off on me from just a minute of exposure to their prose. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:02 PM |
| 116 | Should I end a great LTR over partners sexual past?Hard to say. In an ideal world, you should get rid of her and find another better one who has few previous partners. But there aren't that many great women out there, and it's hard to find someone you're genuinely compatible with. That being said, don't be ridiculous. You don't know anything about your compatibility with her. Two months is nothing. You have to date a woman a minimum of a year, or perhaps two years or more to really vet her for thinking about marriage. There need to be lots of ch… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What is a good reason for getting marry?I'm not genuinely considering this. I'm loving living childfree. I'm just thinking theoretically, if there were some way to have a child without a woman being involved. Doing it alone sounds way easier than doing it with a wife. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What is a good reason for getting marry?There is absolutely nothing worse than raising kids as a single parent. The funny thing is, I might consider raising a child myself. Maybe in theoretical space, a good wife could be found who would make a good mother and still be a good romantic partner. But I have yet to date one who struck me as a valid option in that respect. Barring that, I'd rather raise a child myself than raise a child while also dealing with an increasingly fat, nagging wife who may divorce rape me and take my kid and re… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with other menBust their chops right back and remain unphased. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 02:34 AM |
| 4 | i feel like i’ve become too good for herYou're the one who sets the tone for what's acceptable in the relationship. Respond to the text messages as often as you actually want to. If she makes a fuss, tell her you're working / hanging with your boys / whatever, and you think it's a matter of respect to others and yourself to be present rather than playing with your phone while you're supposed to be doing something. You'll give her attention when they two of you are together in person. Then text her to arrange logistics. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 05:32 AM |
| 1 | GF Letting Herself Go: What Should I Do...What you describe is the reason for dread. If you have something long-term enough for a typical woman to get comfortable and stop trying as much, it's essential that you work hard to be as attractive as possible, and to illustrate to her to whatever level won't cause too much drama that she's easily replaceable. Flirt with other women and make her jealous. Women are inherently very competitive. If she sees other women drooling over you, it'll ramp up her sex drive. The classic study shows that w… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 05:01 AM |
| 3 | GF Letting Herself Go: What Should I Do...They'll stop trying as much. Especially for you. They may still put on appearances when they head out into the world. How much they'll stop trying with you physically is completely dependent on how much of their femininity is their self-image vs. how much of it was just a ruse to snag a man. This is why traditionally feminine women are so attractive. They're not faking - it's actually their identity. But regardless of the type of woman, they'll stop trying as much in some domain as familiarity s… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Lifting feels counterproductive to my careerDon't be dumb. Keep lifting and working hard to look good. It's part of being a generally competent man. Others will respect you for it. Dunno where you got this idea that you have to be a skinny loser to be a successful programmer, but I bet it was from your classmates, not from some experienced professional who's involved in hiring. That dude does't give a shit. He just wants to know if you're a good programmer. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Fellow trp experts, in todays generation i cant find a woman which i would consider high value, should i lower my bar? Or wait for my "unicorn"?Your standards are reasonable (but don't get fixated on virginity). Don't drop your standards. Just keep playing the game and try to meet women in places where more traditional, feminine women would be. You're not going to find quality women in clubs or bars. Go to intellectual and cultural events. If you get yourself set on a timeline, you'll be disappointed. You LTR a woman when you find one who's worthy. There's no other way. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 6 | GF Letting Herself Go: What Should I Do...Never live with a woman. They will stop trying as much 100% of the time. If they have a tendency towards weight gain, this absolutely means they will get fat. And you will always get less good sex over time. IMO, if you're looking at long-term options, it's completely non-negotiable to find a woman who's personally committed to lifetime fitness and nutrition. Otherwise you'll be with a fatty in not too long. That's just the way it is. Not easy, but honestly if I were you I'd end it. And/or I wou… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Even if an ltr is good, in what cases would you still end it?Well, the only variables you leave are one's individual desire for novelty vs. desire for continued companionship. But the question isn't really fair, because there is no woman who is 100% green flags and no drama. Women are the source of drama in every man's life. In some senses, that's their function. Also, over time, they always become more entitled and give you less in return. So your real question should be more along the lines of "how much less good does it have to get with a woman vs. whe… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Soon graduating with PhD in Math/CSAs someone with vaguely your skills, IMO, AI/machine-learning would be much more spiritually stimulating. Ultimately banking/finance is all about money, with literally zero contribution to society. You're gaming a system for your own and other's profits - effectively extremely technically complex gambling. Cool I guess, but in tech, you can bounce around making actual contributions to different fields that help society. Spend some time working in medical diagnostics, then bounce over to computat… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 11:45 PM |
| 27 | How do guys get laid at clubs?Could be clubs aren't for you. A good general rule is you should pick up girls doing what you want to be doing anyway. If you really don't want to be drinking and dancing, and you're just there to try to quickly find a woman, that's not a good use of your time. We all know the probability of randomly picking up a woman isn't 100%. So a good chunk of your effort will be spent on something you don't like. Personally, I don't much like clubs. They don't play music I like, and I don't really express… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 11:26 AM |
| 3 | If I were to buy a popular night club and post pics of myself with women as a promoter, does that make me “high status” in women’s eyes?Do you really think women who covet nightclubs are high status women you should be spending your time thinking about? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Ltr career pathThe ideal is something that requires enough brainpower that it stimulates her and makes her feel good and serves as a filter for her being a smarter than average woman, but not something that requires much killer instinct or has very much stress, because women are awful at compartmentalizing, and she'll bring that stress home and make it your stress. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Depressed.The biggest issue with high school if you're someone who's a little different from average is that you don't really have full agency to select your own social circle. I mean, of course, you have your pick of the people in your school, but that's not really the full spectrum of life. And everyone is insecure and playacting at life. I'm in my 40's now, and a few years ago I briefly passed through a social circle of guys who I thought I might have some things in common with, but it turned out they … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Am I being utterly irrational? Trying to spin plates for the first time but at the same time red flags can be a huge turn off.Haha! Savage. But surely there was a lot more than her bed and her art that turned you off. She must have been hot if you reached that point. What else did you see that put you off so much? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Why does the Western world hate successful people so much?Sounds like you're too affected by the opinions of people who shouldn't matter to you. Enjoy your success and spending time with others who share your values. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | In LTR, how to handle expenses with dates and what not?Some women enjoy the implicit subservience of a waiter catering to their needs. I was briefly seeing a girl last summer and we were hanging out at her place. She said she wanted to go out and get some wine. I pointed to her 10 bottles of wine she had in her wine holder in her kitchen, and she said "yeah, but I want to be served". Also, when we had our second date and I implied that it was her turn, she said "Oh, I believe the man always pays for everything, because that's manly." LOL. Got rid of… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it safe to say I’m getting her best?It's a dumb question to ask. Get what you want from her and enjoy her for as long as she gives you good behavior. Once she stops giving you good behavior, get someone else. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | You guys think I can pull a hot missionary or is this a ‘no-go’?Soaking | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 14 | You guys think I can pull a hot missionary or is this a ‘no-go’?LOL, I've heard the nice mormon girls are all about anal. But while they're on mission, the whole system is set up so that they get extremely limited time alone, and they report on each other when anyone gets up to any suspicious activity. So good luck with that. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:15 AM |
| 5 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?After my last serious breakup, it was sad, but at the same time, I was overjoyed, because she had crimped my style so much for so long. I wasn't even particularly interested in women for a good while after that, because I just wanted to spend all my time catching up on doing exactly what I wanted. Rebuild yourself into the man you used to be or you've dreamed of becoming. This is the best time to do it - when you don't have a bitch's energy holding you back. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | She wants to Film a pornoIt's your future. There may be changing social mores around porn given what's happening with OnlyFans, but I wouldn't count on it to fully protect you. Most of society is pretty judgy about porn. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 02:05 AM |
| 3 | She wants to Film a pornoI've done stuff in this vein. It's fucking fun. Just ignore the guy - he's a NPC who's there to capture the energy you create with her. A girl filming content is doing her very best to act maximally turned on the whole time and to indulge in maximum depravity, so it's awesome. I wouldn't trust them to blur out your face though. Consider wearing a mask so there's no chance that your face will get out there. You can stop by a fetish store or something and pick up a mask that will be suitable. Cial… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | All my past plates and relationships I can only count on a few of my hand where I’ve received actual compliments from? Do chicks just don’t give compliments?Yes, it's normal. The energy flow of man>woman>child always applies. I've had a few women who were so into me that they constantly showered me with praise. But that's highly atypical. Mostly, I get a random compliment every week or so from a lady friend, and otherwise I'm just expected to be awesome by default. Also, in chill hookup situations, everybody's trying hard to be unnaturally uninterested, so even if they're thinking compliments, they are likely to suppress them. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Is being jacked ever counter productive?There are beautiful women out there who are nuanced worthwhile people. The ones who have just been molded by society are more likely to be the worthless coasters, but ones who had a strong father who modeled for them how to be a complete person are the ones you need to be shooting for. Your muscles will match their SMV, and your intellects can also match. Not saying there are very many of them out there. But the screening process is pretty enjoyable anyway. Just don't lower your standards and ke… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Is being jacked ever counter productive?The real question is, do you have a nuanced personality and varied interests outside of lifting? Worthwhile women are nuanced people, and they're looking for the same from their man. The gym creates great aesthetics for women to look at and touch, but it's completely uninteresting for them to talk about. If it's your whole life, that's a problem. If you can talk science and philosophy and the arts, and you have an expressive hobby or two that intrigues women, and you're an interesting conversati… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Dumped by unicorn LTR. Need some help becoming the Alpha I used to be.This is why she wasn't a unicorn. Just another temporarily well-behaved girl. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Beating myself up over not getting a girl to finish?Eh, it's hard to know. Really situation dependent. Seems like many guys don't go down on women, and honestly, I love doing it, but if I were into random hookups, I'm not sure I'd do it until I found a steady plate. Don't be too needy beyond what you've done already and just see what happens. Could be you didn't give it to her quite right, could be you weren't as attractive as she thought, could be she felt too slutty in retrospect, could be there's another guy you don't know about, could be that… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 04:47 PM |
| 7 | Beating myself up over not getting a girl to finish?Beyond what the others have said about women often not cumming the first time (they get in their heads more than guys do), women genuinely vary a lot in orgasmic capacity. I've been with several girls who were just orgasm machines - one who cummed more than 100x in one of our sessions. I've been with a number of girls who could cum 3-5x in a good session. A few others who really could only cum once. And one or two who could only cum weakly or inconsistently no mater what moves I threw their way.… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 61 | Just lost my virginity at 26We all live by the ethical code that feels right to us. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 06:29 AM |
| 97 | Just lost my virginity at 26Congrats man! When I lost my virginity, I also couldn't cum. Eventually had to stop because the girl was worn out. Condom sex SUCKS. It's the main reason I'm not really interested in random hookups. I have to hit it just right and as hard and fast as possible, and even then it's a bit of a challenge, and it's not that great of an orgasm. You can improve it a bit with better, thinner condoms, but there's legitimate variability in dick sensitivity, and some of us just need more stimulation than ot… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Xenoestrogen free personal hygiene list/blog?Except the thing is, he knows what he's talking about. I used to do some work related to this, and can confirm a lot of the examples he cites. We're all doing a huge natural experiment by exposing ourselves to all these xenoestrogens. I suspect xenoestrogens in our food and water plus obesity are the three main culprits of dropping sperm counts in the western world. It's worth a little extra effort to try to avoid high exposures to these things. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How can I be successful as a very short (4'10), balding, Asian guy?Honestly man, the most you can hope for romantically is probably a very short gold digger or a pretty unattractive woman who has no other options. If you think you're psychologically damaged from being unattractive, it's very much more so for a woman. I don't know how much snagging an attractive woman vs. any woman at all matters to you, but that's probably the state of things. Your life might be one of those situations where maybe investing in good friends and just using prostitutes for sexual … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | I feel a void/emptiness in me I cannot fill or satiate. Sometimes I feel like I am not who I am supposed to be. How does one overcome this?Pursuit of material success is a common mistake that many people make. Ultimately, you make a lot of money for two reasons: doing things others don't have the skills or risk tolerance to do, or dealing with bullshit. Being an MD requires a lot of both skills and bullshit tolerance. Maybe you're finding that the way you're doing medicine isn't the right kind of satisfying. Maybe you'd prefer to work in a teaching hospital. Or do research. Or supplement with expert consulting. Maybe work with a di… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 04:17 AM |
| 2 | I feel a void/emptiness in me I cannot fill or satiate. Sometimes I feel like I am not who I am supposed to be. How does one overcome this?This is an excellent answer. No other responses are really necessary. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a woman with great sense of humor?I've had several who were quite funny, very intelligent and beautiful. They had serious mental health issues though. In women, active humor is almost always a compensation for something. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a woman with great sense of humor?Haha! Somehow I never saw this clip. Excellent and dryly hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 02:46 PM |
| 86 | When you strive for perfection in every aspect of your life, how do you keep an imperfect LTR?Read about Terry Crews. I read an interview where his wife said he's like a walking self-help book / inspiration meme, and it's really hard for her and the kids to exist in that constant striving energy he creates. The interviewer also talked to him about how he balanced his need to optimize himself vs. the need to create calm, stable energy for his family. I don't remember all the details, but I think the conclusion was that it's not fair for him to force that on them, and that ultimately he ap… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get matched with so many single moms on online dating sites?If you instantly swipe no for every one who is a single mom, the algorithm will learn. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 11:35 PM |
| 26 | What are things you wish you knew in your 20s?Invest as much money as you possibly can. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach a College TownAmbiguous comment, lol | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 06:16 AM |
| 2 | LTR asked me if I think she needs to go to therapy...Yes, definitely encourage her to go. Your response was too wishy-washy. Almost every young woman I know well genuinely needs therapy. Bring it up, but very importantly, be chill about it. Your statement before was kind of schizoid, because you at the same time normalized it but also kind of made it seem like a big deal by refusing to offer your opinion. Just tell her, "Hey, I was thinking about what you asked me before about with you going to therapy, and it seems like it would probably be a goo… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 01:25 AM |
| 8 | Am I dealing with a psycho?Agreed. Never sleep with a girl if she didn't have sex with you. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 12 | What to realistically expect from women ?You need them for their reproductive capacity, if you decide you want to go that route. And the sex and perhaps other romantic intrigues that last for some indeterminate period of time. Otherwise, women are much better as friends. A lot of guys around here don't believe that that's possible, but in my experience, some women can provide a lot of long-term value as friends. Some of them, you can occasionally have sex with, others, perhaps you don't want to. But all my women friends are rational, r… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the struggles of surgery?It really depends on the details. With medical issues, you have to be your own researcher and advocate. Is the surgery really necessary? What are the long-term complications of having it done or not having it done? Is the surgeon you're talking to the (reasonably) best surgeon for the job? Have you gotten a second opinion? If you don't have the background to dig through the research literature on this topic, find someone who can help you. If you do go through with it, just be a man and adapt. Ac… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Handling conflict: dealing with overly assertive/obnoxious bitches in a public settingBe a truly competent man and trust that you have assessed the situation correctly. The spare table was originally on its own, spaced out between the other tables. Someone moved it, and you moved it back, doing your best to optimize its placement so that it was as far away from other tables as it could be, which is what you were told you could do. These are the only factors that were under you control, logistically. If a random woman was yelling at you about it, you can ever so briefly consider w… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Staying busy to avoid falling into depression?The thing is, flow is consistently the one thing that makes most everyone happy in most stages of life. Hard to know whether you're suffering from depression at a clinical level that should be dealt with, or just recognizing the ennui of everyday life that can get a person down if they ruminate too much. Do you have longer-term goals that you're working towards and feel meaningful to you? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 07:47 PM |
| 3 | How to Get Over the Feeling That It’s Too Late For You?Too late? Kid, you've barely started. Your glory years are still at least 4 years away at a minimum. Put in the work now - you'll be rewarded in your 30s. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you decide how much energy you invest in the various areas of life (job, fitness, social life)?That's a great pithy quote! Agreed completely. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 07:57 AM |
| 3 | How do you decide how much energy you invest in the various areas of life (job, fitness, social life)?This is my solution. My "soul" knows what I need in my life. It's hard, because if you're really in touch with yourself, you'll realize that a lot of the standard expectations of society are wrong. But if you listen and take action, even when that's in the opposite direction from the crowd, you can build a life that fits what your psyche actually wants. Grinding 120 hour weeks, for example, isn't for everyone, as much as it may be lauded for making you bank if you do it. There's no price on livi… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 07:32 AM |
| 3 | Why do married men intensify bachelor men to marry?I don't wanna get too specific, but professionally I do science, and in my spare time I go hard into a variety of nature adventure sports, as well as a couple pursuits in the fine arts, and I love learning about most fields. The fine arts especially is something that you can continue developing and refining into your 80s. If/when my body can't perform well enough anymore to enjoy the physical stuff, I'll just do arts and learning more. Yes I live in a big city. Besides a limitless new supply of … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Why do married men intensify bachelor men to marry?I'll offer myself as a counter-example that perhaps proves the rule: I'm in my early 40's, and honestly, my physique is basically the same as when I was 23 or 24 - a little more muscle and strength, but not substantially different. My 5k road race times are as fast as ever, my lifts are somewhat heavier (I don't go for ultra heavy, because I've always been in it for the long game), and I have as much physical ability as ever in the assorted specific sports I pursue vigorously. I have a variety o… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Is what I'm doing in the gym optimal for losing fat quickly and building muscle? I'm extremely new to working outBig picture: you've got about 80 pounds or more of extra fat on your frame vs. the ideal of what women would want for your height. That's a lot of fat, and it's going to take a complete overhaul of your eating and activity. Lots of people have lots of perspectives on how best to gain muscle etc, so you're not going to get consistent ideas from people on here or any other forum. My own perspective is that, whatever program you're doing, you should be doing it at high cardiovascular intensity, bec… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 01:01 AM |
| 16 | Seeing GF currently once/twice a week; advice neededCounter-argument: twice a week is the perfect amount to balance your woman and you mission. A woman who needs more than that is excessively needy, and will hold you back. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 09:34 PM |
| 7 | What RP truth changed your entire life for the better?Almost all "good" women are almost completely interchangeable. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | If a woman hits you?For once the stupid bot got a good one. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 05:39 AM |
| 7 | Spare timeIf your lifting breaks are long enough to get quality studying done, you're resting too long. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle when your girl starts venting to you? I want to be supportive but not sure how to handle these situationsPlus, if there's ever room for interpretation (and there usually is), they'll choose the worst possible interpretation and cause a fight about it. Phrase it as being about her: "Baby, I want to give you proper support, and I don't feel like I can really do that over text while I'm also bringing home the bacon. Let's talk later when I can sit with you and give you quality attention." A woman requiring absolutely constant texting attention and causing fights about not getting enough qualifies for … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 6 | How do you handle when your girl starts venting to you? I want to be supportive but not sure how to handle these situationsI have a rule that no emotional conversations of any significance happen by text. Especially not ones about your relationship. Offer a short phrase of commiseration, and offer to talk in person. But in person, let her vent, tell her that's hard, and then transition to fun. Tease, make a joke, etc. She has expressed her emotions, and now she needs you to keep her from ruminating on it. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Has Anyone here started as an absolute incel but ended up becoming a chad through the teachings of trp? I would like to hear your storyI'm also "very smart, deliberate, and calculated", but I discovered going out to bars when I dated a very beautiful and cultured girl when I was around 31. Up to that point, I hadn't even really learned to enjoy alcohol. As a musician, she was into the bar scene, because it was kind of a necessity after gigs for networking, and I learned to enjoy it. It's still not something I covet, as it's expensive and sometimes annoying. I haven't missed it at all during COVID times. But it's important to kn… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Has Anyone here started as an absolute incel but ended up becoming a chad through the teachings of trp? I would like to hear your storyWow! What was the time scale of your turnaround? Did you already have a law degree? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Still Not Over my Ex After 6 MonthsHah, good one. Except that, no, she was really much smarter and more cultured and more intellectual than average, and all those things are hard to find and valuable to me. But not irreplaceable. The more time passes, the more I realize even the best of them are completely replaceable. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with high SMV chicks before they get invested enough?Different people play the game differently. I don't have sex with girls who I don't think are at least moderately interesting and are essentially worthwhile humans. Agreed that worthless humans aren't worth investing any time or effort into. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Plate went apeshit after cancelling plansI agree with all of this. This kind of emotional lack of control is the worst thing that can emerge in a woman. When I encounter it, I'm done. There are plenty of other women out there. Some of them aren't unhinged. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 9 | Still Not Over my Ex After 6 MonthsIt's been about 5 years since my last significant ex too. I never dream of being back with her, because her mental health is too shit for me, but I still sometimes think about the good times and wish that her brain wasn't messed up so we could have continued. If it weren't for that, I might have been willing to consider marriage, even with it being the bad deal that it is for men. She was everything I wanted in a woman. Except for being a neurotic, crying mess 1/3 of the time... | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | RP I need help, no idea what I should do with my lifeSounds like you failed out of something that's relatively easy twice due to not having your shit together. You need to do some serious reflection about why that happened. Could be that both of those things weren't right for you, but a typical successful person could probably have succeeded at both. You probably have some self-destructive patterns. Consider seeing a psychiatrist and trying to fix these issues as you also seek your goal. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Why are girls so much more concerned about guys than guys are about girls?Lol, I was going to comment on this. The Bechdel test is bunk as a metric for judging movies, because movies that have women spending most of their social energy focused on their guy and their friends' guys and who has options with whom are an accurate reflection of the world. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with high SMV chicks before they get invested enough?You're only committing to 20 min to get her. The 20 min to take her home is if it turns out well. If it doesn't, she can get herself a taxi. Doesn't seem like too big of an investment really. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | How do you do it?Once she isn't facing that energy from you, she'll manage to take care of herself, just like she somehow managed before you came along. Try to do better with the next one, and choose someone who you can accept as a competent, autonomous person who you can just enjoy spending time with rather than protecting. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 05:00 PM |
| 7 | how do you enjoy life if you're not an idiot?Go live a life in the woods next summer and get a mega-dose of that natural stuff. People are dumb, but you might find that you miss them after spending a long time by yourself around only nature. Also, try to cut out your exposure to stupid shit. Cultivate worthwhile people. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | How do people fuck the same person their whole lives?Read a great world heritage novel that explores philosophical depths through gripping narratives. The amazing journey that the novel takes you on came from some human's mind. If you find an interesting human, you can talk to each other, and start to learn their philosophical perspectives and personal narratives in real time. And they'll listen to yours too. Together, you can build and explore ideas that you maybe wouldn't have come up with on your own. Many people's perspectives and stories are … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 09:05 PM |
| 2 | How do people fuck the same person their whole lives?Dude, getting to know interesting people deeply is one of the great pleasures in life. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have experiences of moving out of state with your LTR because of their schooling/profession?If you move with her, that implies that you'd be moving in together with her. I probably don't ever plan to live with a woman again - it's immediately caused the two great relationships I tried it in to get way worse to the point that I needed to escape pretty quickly. I certainly would never move in together with a woman who I'd dated for 7 months. At 7 months you're still in the honeymoon phase, so she's still on her best behavior. But as soon as you move in with her, "she's won" and her incen… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | From anyone who has kids....is it worth it?Fair. The first one was accidental at like 21. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Just heard my 11 year old sister sing WAP...She's about the right age to actually tell her the truth, that men have two modes of associating with women: -Recognizing a woman who's only worth is in her body, using her body for sex, and then leaving her. Women like this lead with their bodies and their aggressive, sexual nature. Men can tell right away. -Recognizing a woman who has an attractive body and also a worthwhile personality, and actually caring about who she is and giving her full human interactions along with sex. Women like this… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | From anyone who has kids....is it worth it?Female experience is obviously different, but one of my non-sexual lady friends with two teenagers says that the whole "kids give your life meaning" thing is bunk, and she feels like they've taken away meaning since they prevented her from living a self-actualized life where she followed her own dreams. She said she might not have them again if she had it all to do over again. She's a great mom who has raised some solid kids, so not some deadbeat. And women are much more directly programmed to b… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 7 | Simp to pimpI spot them and treat them to my departure. Some men enjoy having a pet viper because of the sense of accomplishment of handling something that would so heartlessly kill them if they made the wrong move. I'd rather have a dog who does still take training, but under the hand of the right master, really wants to be good. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Career details on Hinge ProfileIMO you're a grad student now (very limited money), so if anything, that keeps away the gold diggers. That kind of woman mostly isn't targeting marks that might become wealthy at some distant time point - they target marks who are currently wealthy. I agree with you that it'll just help draw in smart women, which is a plus in my book. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Lifting weights and nutritionIf you want to lose a fair amount of body fat, cardio is king. Unless you're running more than ~8mi per day (or equivalent for whatever cardio you prefer), there's not really a risk of losing much muscle. Do 30-45min of medium intensity cardio most days of the week in addition to lifting in whatever way you want, and you'll drop that fat. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Why more women than men watch the more extreme forms of porn today?Amazing how the article is trying to pass the blame onto men rather than give women agency over their own decisions. Haha, we all know how easy it is for us to wrap a woman around our finger, completely remove her agency, and make her do every single thing we tell her to. In fact, every single bad thing a woman ever did was because her toxic man was forcing her to... | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 16 | Simp to pimpGiving your time and energy to toxic, unhealthy people damages you. It's not worth corrupting yourself. I'm willing to have a short fling with a damaged but good-hearted woman. But if she's a cunning, manipulative bitch, I'll take a pass no matter how sexy she is. Pussy is just pussy - I have my personality standards too. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/21 07:20 AM |
| 2 | What are some red pills you frequently tell yourself to snap back to reality real quick?For every hot woman, there's a man who's tired of her shit. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | TRP helped me get laid consistently yet it leaves me unfulfilledDoctor counts as STEM. Do it. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | TRP helped me get laid consistently yet it leaves me unfulfilledAlmost all 17 year old girls are totally vapid. It's to be expected, especially these days. I think the youngest girl I ever dated who had any depth of personality was 22. They have fantastic bodies though. Shag lots of them and treasure those memories. Right now you should be learning as much academic stuff as you can and going to college exploring STEM majors. Pick the highest paid one that you enjoy, and make that your mission. On the side, develop your personality with reading and hobbies. C… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Those of you with girlfriends: what do you do with them, mid-week, during covid to keep things varied and interesting?I only see mine about 2x/wk. Even during COVID I still want my space from a woman. She's very intellectual, as am I, so our midweek hang is only nominally about "what we're doing at that moment," and mostly about the good conversations we're having. I keep her on her toes bouncing around between deep topics about the state of the world and big ideas, wordplay and playfulness, heavy flirting, and treating her like the annoying kid sister. Honestly, I kind of want to do more things for "entertainm… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 5 | I’m now too jackedIs that a bad thing? You can either be the short guy, or the short guy who's very muscular. I know a chick who's 5'4" who really likes tall guys, but dated a dude who was also 5'4" because he was so muscular that he still felt sufficiently big to her. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Spent a weekend with LTR. Bored out of my fucking mind+Multiple other issues.Another vote for don't be with her if you don't like her. However, it also sounds like you have zero boundaries, and she has your balls in her purse, completely setting your agenda for you and holding your schedule hostage with the threat of fights. I don't think this dynamic could have developed just because she's that manipulative. You also need to man up and learn how to step up to your woman and assert your own agency. She doesn't tell you when you're hanging out together. It's mutually deci… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Should I become homeless to escape modern societyEvery generation is filled with complaints of degeneracy. Doesn't mean that the current complaints aren't valid, but it's a universal feature of humanity. Use the internet and your library to experience the creations of the great minds in history rather than doomscrolling all day. I spend more time one-on-one with the minds of dead men than I do with living humans these days, and my life is richer for it. Meanwhile, go to and do well in college. Don't be an idiot. You can find meaning there if y… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Giving girlfriend ultimatum to lose weightIf a woman doesn't respond pretty seriously to indirect comments about increasing fitness and losing fat, that's it - there's nothing you can do. The current social narrative has poisoned womens' minds so that many of them believe that it's toxic for men to want their bodies to look certain ways, and many of the rest of them have accepted the "beautiful at any size" bullshit enough to rob them of any agency in the matter. If you push any harder, they'll just spin it so that you're a monster who … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Losing interest in sex, barely maintaining bonerThis is the biggest reason I'm not really interested in pump and dump. Condom sex totally sucks. I'd rather just masturbate. I've played around with different sizes and that's not the issue. So I have raw sex with women who I know and trust and aren't fucking other guys and are on birth control. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Following passion = success (or) following $$$ = successFor all intensive purposes For all intents and purposes Find something that you're highly competent at that's satisfying and can result in reasonable pay. If you completely optimize for work doing your very favorite thing, you'll likely not make much money at it. If you completely optimize for the highest paying thing, you probably will hate your life as you do it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 57 | Ungratefulness to the MAXCue JBP | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl has too much burning desire for you?TRP makes more sense for guys who have some experience really. Some youngsters want to take up spinning plates from the very beginning, but I'm not sure that's the right approach for every guy. It sounds like you genuinely want to form a connection with this girl, and it sounds like she genuinely wants to form one with you too. That's not an inherently bad thing. And I'm sure most guys on here would agree that it was a good thing in times past. The issue is that the social milieu currently encou… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl has too much burning desire for you?Visit her once or twice a week at most and enjoy it. I don't see the problem. Sounds like you don't have experience with plating and maybe don't really want to. So fine, be committed to her if you want, but just tell her you can't be super serious with her, and don't let it get more serious. Man, these young girls who really fall for you and haven't been corrupted by society yet aren't very common. They're quite an experience. Treat her right and enjoy it while this works for her. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:56 AM |
| 8 | LTR mad at me over girls on my feed, but has dozens of orbiters on hers.I don't look at my Instagram when I'm around a woman I'm involved with. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:49 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a kid when I talk to adults even if I'm 28; what to do?OP, I once had a new to me roommate who turned out to be pretty low IQ. I don't know what his actual score was, but he was definitely not very smart. He still had some things to figure out in life, but he was actually reasonably successful. He knew he wasn't particularly smart, and he had learned over the years never to make big decisions for himself. He had a network of friends and family members he trusted, and he'd talk to them about his big decisions. Effectively, he was using all of their s… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a kid when I talk to adults even if I'm 28; what to do?His IQ is too low to get into the army. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a kid when I talk to adults even if I'm 28; what to do?I'll go one step further and say call all older adults by their first name, even if they're a doctor or a professor or a lawyer. Unless they're clearly insecure assholes who lord their title over others and will throw a fit if you don't use their title. Guys who have titles that people often defer to can appreciate it if you have the self-confidence to address them on a man to man level, rather than as an inferior to a superior. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How can stop looking at women?A beautiful woman is one of the most valuable assets in the world. And when you eventually achieve the success you think you're looking for, I'm sure you'd be happy to have a few around for your entertainment. I'm not sure why you would not want to notice them now. You can stop and smell the flowers without losing your life purpose and becoming an obsessive gardener. You can admire a passing Ferrari without turning to a life of crime and becoming a car thief. You can also recognize that smelling… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 9 | Do females really like being treated poorly, or is it rather that they are more likely to put up with mistreatment from somebody they are highly attracted to/ into?Women are primarily attracted to behaviors that get men to the top of dominance hierarchies. But those behaviors are also associated with being an asshole to them, or at least not treating them like they're special. So they're programmed by evolution to like those behaviors to some extent, even though they're frustrating and disrespecting behaviors, because being attracted to those behaviors gets them the top man that they need. In bodice rippers, women sometimes read about fantasy men who someh… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 06:34 AM |
| 7 | What does your daily schedule look like? How do you combine work + lifting/sports + cooking + dating/plates + sleeping in one day?Ever notice that guys who are in LTRs who spend every day with their woman, or guys who are married, typically don't have all of these things in balance, and are often fat? That's because women take away your valuable time when you spend time with them. I think it's useful to think of time spent with most women as if it's a video gaming session - yes, it can be very pleasurable, but ultimately, it's kind of a self-indulgent waste of time that takes away from your mission. If you recognize this a… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Is smoking an alpha thing to do?These thoughts are stupid. There you go, you know the answer to your own question. Yes, your smoking is stupid. Stop it. I literally don't know a single person in my extended network who is both a smoker and successful. It's really bad for you in all the ways that you know about, plus it's a common sign of low socioeconomic status and poor impulse control. People who do it are either fakers who are trying to use it to seem cool and edgy, rather than putting in the hard work to make their lives a… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 08:58 PM |
| 20 | She's not yours, it's just ...Yes, men are the prize, but women are the more inconsistent party, who are always out change the dynamic of things and manipulate the situation. When men have something good with a woman, they want to keep it in that good space as long as possible (this is what most men think will happen by marrying a woman - they marry the woman for who she is now). When women have something good with a man, they have to push it and try to escalate it into something that's less desirable for the man (when women… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you unload emotions sometimes?"I don't have feelings, 'cause feelings are gay." | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 8 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?IMO, a high value woman who values her sexuality and is looking for serious relationships should be able to assess who you are and know whether you're the kind of high quality man she would like to have a serious relationship with by the third date. She recognizes the market dynamics of how quickly guys need to have sex in order to feel like the relationship is going somewhere, and she also has a high sex drive herself, so she wants to have sex. But she's really only looking for sex within a goo… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Feel like a loserDamn, what an amazing story. Good work man. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Things FemaleDatingStrategy gets right:Agreed with others about FDS's long wait for sex being a really bad strategic idea for the woman. I'm not really a pump and dumper - I'm much more interested in plating or LTRing women who I respect and am interested in as people. That, along with other features about myself that are desirable would classify me as a HVM by a lot of their standards I think. But there's no way I would consider dating a woman who doesn't put out by the third date, or soon thereafter if she's really a catch. A woman… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I make this very hard life decisionAgreed. Dunno what his condition is and what the long-term issues are, but I work from home and can do it on a sleep wake schedule of my choosing while lounging on the couch. That can accommodate a lot of possible diseases. There are many such jobs. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 33 | How do I make this very hard life decisionThis isn't really a RP focused question per se, but I have some relevant background, so I'll opine: I have postgraduate training in relevant medical research, and in 2017, I spent 5-10 hours deep diving into the research literature on these topics. What I learned was that PRP genuinely works. Yes, as you say, its results are more modest, and in many cases, the results are temporary. But it works. Stem cell treatment, on the other hand, mostly isn't really advanced enough to do what it claims. I'… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 05:09 AM |
| 3 | The Sex God Method claims that your LTR has no reason to cheat if you are the best fuck she's ever had in her life, is this true?Hyperbole. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 03:36 AM |
| 4 | Argument & Dilemma with LTR. Advice be much appreciated.You're doing a lot wrong, but on a more fundamental level, you need to change two things: 1) You can't just immediately react to women. You have to build a referee inside yourself to assess what your woman is doing and saying, and make judgement calls on how to respond before you act. Sometimes she's making a fuss and it's something that's legitimate that you actually need to have an earnest conversation with her about. More often than not though, she's just testing you, being bitchy, uncontroll… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:14 PM |
| 6 | Girls staring at me in the gym. Lots of eye contact.Chill about your smile man - just own it. There are plenty of famous people who have crooked smiles and people think are hot: https://www.wonderwall.com/entertainment/celebs-who-have-naturally-lopsided-smiles-31587.gallery | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Argument & Dilemma with LTR. Advice be much appreciated.You have a lot to learn man. You remind me of myself in my last long-term, serious relationship years ago. You're still operating from a perspective of men and women being essentially equivalent players in a romantic relationship, deserving equal, fair, clear, rational communication. That's not how it works. Women don't fundamentally want that deep down, no matter what they say. Things will improve a lot for you once you realize this, and learn how to manage a woman. Read the sidebar and the lar… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 06:42 PM |
| 14 | Why are men sex drives so slow in 2021 ?I find that my libido goes down a fair amount when my life isn't going well. If I'm feeling like a failure, or like I've lost my sense of mission and my masculine edge, or like I'm trapped in a bad situation, my libido drops. When this happens, it's just Maslow's hierarchy kicking in. Your body knows that your mission is more important than fucking women. Consider whether you're attending to your personal masculine needs, and you feel like a satisfied man who has agency in life. If that's not tr… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Observations on Oneitis and Jungian ArchetypesIt certainly seems that way to me. But men are more logical than women, so we're better able to analyze and recognize our programming, and then overcome it, which is what we're all doing here. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Incredibly frustrated with women, will take any advice no matter how uncomfortableThere are a lot of women in this world man, and not all of them are vapid 22yo sluts. Talk to everyone, including older women that you encounter in life. They may not be interesting sexual prospects, but they can still be genuinely interesting humans, and talking with them as a genuine human can give you some insight into their life trajectory and what they were like when they were younger. I have a woman friend who's 20 some years older who is a really sweet, kind, interesting woman. If she wer… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Nervous seeing people from highschoolYou've dropped them. Their expectations should mean nothing to you. You're holding yourself to your own standards now. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 44 | Observations on Oneitis and Jungian ArchetypesI've been dipping my toes into Jungian archetypes, but I'm not deeply aware of them of their literature yet. I can't actually tell whether your commentary is insightful or mere navel gazing. But I'll reflect back your thoughts from an evolutionary biology perspective, which is a more familiar approach for me. I'm just reflecting on general behavioral trends that men fall into, which I'm arguing we have somewhat pre-programmed into us. But we're all complex humans with agency, and we can opt in o… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 5 | “Coaching app” that lets you stay disciplined and motivatedIf you think this is really necessary, there are personal coaches you can hire who will do exactly this. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill talks about making a lot of money, being self-employed, etc. What if you are just an average IQ guy and can't run your own business or make a shit load of money?I could live anywhere with my work, but I choose to live where I do. It has a lot of what I want. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill talks about making a lot of money, being self-employed, etc. What if you are just an average IQ guy and can't run your own business or make a shit load of money?Cool idea man, but it looks like they already designed the system to avoid this loophole: "The property must meet FHA loan limits, which vary by county. In 2021, that’s generally $356,362 for single-family homes in low-cost areas and $822,375 in high-cost areas." In my high-cost area, even finding a single-family home under that threshold leaves out a lot of options. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Female nature makes me depressed about future. Judgement day comes for me.They probably do know the flipside of the story. You think their relationship is perfectly loving and satisfying when they were surely married in a more traditional and arranged way than you may be? If your father's open enough, you could try to discuss this with him. But he's probably too culture-bound to have the conversation. You may be facing a situation where you're forced to choose between family love and a relationship you don't want. Start stating your case and declaring your boundaries … | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Ideal rate at which to have sex in thrusts per minute or bpm if you like music [serious]What's the optimum number of chews per bite? How does it vary based on the food item you're consuming? Seriously dude, some things don't need conscious focus - your body will take care of things. Pick a rhythm that feels good to you and won't get you off too fast. If the human female who you've tricked into believing you're not purely a red pill algorithm gives you feedback, modify in accordance with the feedback. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 08:17 AM |
| 71 | Has anyone achieved "top 10 percent of men/high-value man" success after years of mediocrity *AFTER* the age of 35? If so, HOW did you climb up from rock-bottom? Would appreciate specific examples andI started my current business (my first business) when I was about your age, and it's a 6-figure business now. I'm only just getting started, and I see some serious growth potential in the near future. Here's what I think about this issue on a meta level: Most people do tend to set their life trajectories in their 20s to early 30s. But that doesn't have to be. Most people also build up life responsibilities during and soon after that time, removing much of their life's flexibility, including not… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone achieved "top 10 percent of men/high-value man" success after years of mediocrity *AFTER* the age of 35? If so, HOW did you climb up from rock-bottom? Would appreciate specific examples andAgreed that OP sounds potentially actually bipolar. OP, have you seen a psychiatrist about these issues. If you are bipolar, you can get on meds and create a more functional life. There are plenty of successful bipolar people across history, but they've typically worked in creative fields where long stretches of non-productivity interspersed with fits of genius is a valid existence. If you don't manage your demons and/or get diagnosed and on proper medication, this will be your only option. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Good paying job, but opportunity to go back to school with my best friend, and would break up with my GFUnless you're actually married or nearly married to a woman (which in itself is a bad idea), I think you should never include the presence of a particular woman in your life as a factor when making big life decisions. I've dated a lot of "amazing" women, but no matter how impressive I thought they were, I always realize in retrospect how easily replaceable they are. As far as your actual question, you definitely shouldn't be making the decision of whether to go back to school based on a desire f… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about video games?They're designed to be addictive and to satisfy your reward circuits better than real life. You don't want that kind of influence messing you up. I quit years ago and I'm better for it. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 01:54 PM |
| 13 | Advice for making a girl finish?I agree with this somewhat. On the other hand, I've observed that women who orgasm really easily are more likely to be easy sluts. Makes a lot of sense, because they're likely to actually really enjoy a random hookup, unlike a woman who takes a few sessions to warm up to a guy, and won't get that much out of a hookup. For LTRing, I think the sweet spot is a woman who you have really good sex with after getting to know each other sexually, but maybe don't have great sex with the very first time. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Anyone go completely off the grid to get better?You might need to ditch your partying friends. No need to "go off the grid," just create a new friend group filled with people who are more responsible and focused on self-improvement and hard work. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 05:18 PM |
| 9 | What else have we being lied to about?I'm afraid that the average person needs a religious belief in order to have a sense of meaning. The rise of atheism has left a void in the left that's being filled with Wokeism, which is its own sort of religion/cult. See John McWhorter's writings on this topic, which I find highly illuminating: https://www.persuasion.community/p/john-mcwhorter-the-neoracists | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Luck is Bullshit - Start taking responsibility for your lifeThere is an element of luck to many of these things, but as Louis Pasteur said, "Fortune favors the prepared mind." | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Advice on finding my ideal career?There's a lot to be said for really enjoying the work you do, but you can take that excessively far into a field that doesn't pay a living wage. IMO, the best approach is to study the most rigorous STEM field you can succeed at, which you also still enjoy. No need to pick just one to start - take a swath of math, physics, chemistry, biology, etc, and see what speaks to you. There's a really high rate of translatability from those majors into a wide range of jobs - typically the most translatabil… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 22 | Would you stay friends with your friend if he decided to transition to female?I think I agree with this. I know at least one autist who transitioned. Don't know them well, so can't comment on their progression, but the sister says she felt that her autistic sibling was taken advantage of by people who were hardcore into the ideology. I have another good friend who's autistic, and the thing about true autistics is that they're hyper rational, and you can present a clear, well-reasoned argument, and they'll really listen and consider, if your logic is sound. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | How would you treat old "friends" (who were in fact bullies) after you've stopped being a recluse and gained some confidence?I don't think my bully was cluster b - he was just a high school kid who maybe had some insecurities that were temporarily relieved when he took easy targets down a notch. I think a lot of people today pathologize their enemies inaccurately. But anyway... I grew up in a very earnest family with very earnest neighbors and friends. Everybody communicated politely and clearly, with the goals of helping and informing everyone else. That probably contributed to me growing up emotionally healthy and b… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Fixing performance anxietyIn addition to what others said, don't wank it between now and when you next see her. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | How is your relationship with your mother?Mine's really great. One of the best people I know. Dad died when I was young, and she took care of everything really well. Still very close with her. 99% rational and reasonable, and on the rare occasion when she gets distraught and frazzled about something, she knows it's silly, and gets over herself within a few minutes. She was never overprotective, but she gave me an unreasonable expectation of how well-behaved women are. I came to TRP when I really understood that most women aren't emotion… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk money, are you guys doing any side hustles after your regular job?My main job now was my side hustle a few years ago. It was always much more stimulating, and after a while, when I had built up the client base, I decided to make it my full-time thing. On any given day, I basically can work as much as I want, so I no longer need a side hustle. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 07:18 AM |
| 7 | What to do when you know girlfriend is upset and you're both going silent?A) Most women aren't capable of having an intellectual debate with you without pretty quickly starting to feel personally attacked. That's just how they're built. Occasionally you can find one who can do it, but they're generally less sensual and feminine. So try to get into the habit of not actually drilling down into this kind of stuff with a woman you're interested in. Save it for the boys. B) Don't air your dirty laundry in public. To her, because of point A, this felt like a fight. That's u… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Why you don't do anythingThe important point is that it has to be something that adds an element of color to your life. It can't be your whole life. There have to be other things about you that are traditionally attractive. And it can't be something that reeks of arrested development. If you still sleep in your kiddie bed and still have your transformers collection from when you were 10 proudly displayed on your desk, it's going to be unattractive. But if you like making kintsugi pottery, or your feel passionate about i… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/21 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Why you don't do anythingAlso, being completely unflappable and confident about your interest in something arcane or uncool gives you points for women, even if it doesn't make them wet. They're not generally capable of going against the flow, and when they see you enjoying and being good at your own thing despite what others say, just because you want to be, they envy that ability, no matter how it actually manifests. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/21 09:46 PM |
| 7 | How would you treat old "friends" (who were in fact bullies) after you've stopped being a recluse and gained some confidence?I recently met a bully from my high school years. I was a lot smarter and more academically accomplished than he was back in our time, and I also could have kicked his ass if we ever had a fight, but he had loads more social intelligence around dominance games, and he just constantly taunted me. He probably had a strong dominant father who taught him those tricks, and I didn't, so I didn't know how to play the game, and I didn't understand how to escalate with violence or potential violence if I… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 12:17 AM |
| 4 | Should I F a girl whom I'm not at all interested in given that I'm a virgin?For FWB, her personality doesn't matter much (as long as she's moderately psychologically stable). If her body's attractive enough to be enjoyable, go for it. If not, don't. It's not that complicated. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:23 PM |
| 11 | Girl giving the “exclusivity talk”Sometimes older women can be talked to rationally: "Honey, you're great, and what we have here is really enjoyable for us both, but don't fool yourself - I'm still figuring out my life, and I'm years away from being a man who's got everything in order and is ready to be a stable contributor to a relationship. Let's just enjoy this for what it is. If you need to hunt for a husband at the same time, that's fine by me." | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEMIf you understand TRP principles, you're less likely to be taken advantage of, because you'll be making yourself into a genuinely more attractive man, and you'll also be consciously following behavioral patterns that women are more attracted to. You'll be able to recognize when women's subroutines are starting to wonder if you're not their best choice, and take action to change that subroutine's analysis of you. But don't forget that women are also nuanced humans with individual interests and va… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/21 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEMIn order for women's dual mating strategy to function, they evolved a lack of awareness of it. They have the built in, subconscious assessment of whether a man is good enough, which I mentioned above. Then they also have a built-in subconscious subroutine that optimizes the type of mate they should choose for a given situation. In a resource poor environment, they need to quickly choose any man who has enough resources to support them (but who may or may not genetically be a very good catch). Bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/21 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEMI'll conjure JBP here and say that behaviorally and psychologically speaking, men and women are more the same than they're different. Women are fully capable of being rational, reasonable creatures in many aspects of their lives, just like you. A lot of that software we share. But in the sexual marketplace, we're extremely different from each other. And of course we are, because the reproductive pressures on males and females throughout evolutionary time have been very different. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/21 05:35 AM |
| 2 | It just feel like it's all about looks?There are no shortcuts there man. Your emotional setpoint is what it is. Get a therapist to train you in CBT if you need help with that. But also recognize that our society has a lot of bullshit in it, and opting in to the default things will make you soft and weak and depressed. Really consider what you do in society that adds value to your life, and what you're doing that is just the default thing, that doesn't give you anything, or maybe takes away value from you life. Stop doing all the thin… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:05 AM |
| 2 | It just feel like it's all about looks?Ok, fine, but don't be defeatist. You're not Brad Pitt, and you can't equal him, but you have control over some things. Optimize those. But to my point, here's a poppy summary of a research study showing that women have a more athletic, lean ideal for men than men have for themselves: https://www.maxim.com/maxim-man/perfect-body-shapes-according-to-men-and-women-2018-1 | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | It just feel like it's all about looks?The expressions you hold on your face reflect that you're an innocent, nice guy with a gentle soul. See about changing that. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | It just feel like it's all about looks?Don't be stupid. Roids are short-term gain, long-term loss. Be in it for the long haul. I'm also 6'4", and yes, we have to work harder to show it than the short guys do with less muscle, but don't forget that women mostly want a lean muscular aesthetic, not an enormously ripped aesthetic. Brad Pitt in Fight Club is most women's ideal. It's not that hard to achieve that level with about 6 months of consistent work and good diet. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:24 AM |
| 24 | Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEMWomen don't actually know what they want. Most of them aren't consciously aware of their dual mating strategy, and as such, couldn't describe in full what they're attracted to, even if they truly wanted to share it with you, which they of course don't. Their mating strategy subroutine mostly operates below conscious level. I've heard some admit to being consciously attracted to a guy who's approaching them, and wanting to go home with him, and saying inside their head to him, "oh god, please don… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | When were your happiest times?Sure, call it that. My point is that it's highly unlikely that she'll ever occupy a more significant place in my life, and she's not going to take up more of my time or cause more drama than this. If she does, that's it - the commitment is light enough that I'm ready to end it whenever. Yes, she brought up exclusivity, and I'm fine with that right now. I'm not trying to sleep around while the pandemic is still about. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 12:32 AM |
| 1 | When were your happiest times?LOL, sounds like a great arrangement, right? Funny typo. "I'm not fucking anyone but her..." | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you form the willpower to wake up in the morning and go to the gym when you're supposed to?The stuff others have said and the references they've shared about developing good habits are certainly valid and good. But I think it's also useful to know yourself. I find my ability to get good work done and hard exercise in varies with my circadian rhythms. I can go on a 20-30 minute jog in the morning if it's not too early, and that feels really good, but my body isn't really ready yet for the intensity of lifting. So I lift in the afternoon. Likewise, I don't do great professional work fir… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | When were your happiest times?I'm not fucking her and she's not fucking anyone else. We see each other a couple times a week. Typically once to do a fun thing that I would enjoy doing without her, and once at her place with her cooking a good meal for me and us sharing in good conversation (she's interesting and smart). Each followed by sex and spending the night together. Outside of those days, I mostly don't talk to her - maybe a text or two at random downtimes. Little to no possibility of it escalating beyond this level, … | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Are you supposed to not care about plates fucking other dudes?Yeah, that's part of what I meant. Both their damaged psyches and their higher chance of carrying disease. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 07:48 PM |
| 3 | When were your happiest times?That's too much drama for me man, but I guess we all write our own stories and find the happiness in them. Hope you manage well. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | When were your happiest times?Hang on - some of us can do math. Two children from two different women in less than a year? Or do you mean you just got the pregnancy notice about the second? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 07:48 AM |
| 8 | Are you supposed to not care about plates fucking other dudes?Of course, you can trust a fork that has been in 10,000 people's mouths still to be clean and just as good as ever if it's been washed enough. Women who've been used by lots of men eventually become less good. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 03:13 AM |
| 14 | Approach your oneitisCongratulations on embracing your inner moron. I hope you learned something in the process. Now hopefully you can see how immensely you need to improve yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 5 | When were your happiest times?Honestly, my very best times were summers in undergrad, hanging with my guys. We were all single, so there was no bitch energy dragging us down or distracting us from having 100% awesome, playfully destructive, manly, adventuresome fun during all waking hours. Second to that, since those halcyon days are essentially unreplicable, is following my mission to build my professional and personal abilities and success while getting as much good socializing with my friends as possible, and getting a li… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | [25] Lost my job, restarting my life any advice?I had a similar experience to you some years ago. I reached out in my network, and found a guy with a second house who had really struggled to find someone responsible to live in it and care for it. He offered to let me live there for free if I would do a little maintenance. I didn't hugely want to do it, because it was far from my friends and the jobs I was applying to, but it would have made a good stopgap if things got desperate. In the end, one of the many jobs I applied to came through, and… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Knowing my worthDo you still remain masculine when you have deep conversations, or do you turn into an awkward, asexual nerd? I've had regular, deep conversations with every woman who has ever passed plate status. I'm intellectual, and require my women to be at least moderately intellectual too. Hypergamy applies to a woman's sense of your intelligence and verbal ability too, as long as you're still a man about it. I've had a lot of smart women really appreciate my mix of traditional masculinity and open-minded… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Plate made a 20 slide PowerPoint show on why I should promote her to LTRSounds about right to me honestly. I don't date "foodies" because I'm not interested in wasting my time and money at fancy restaurants. I also don't date girls who want to go out to bars. I date girls who are interested in things I'm interested in. When we go on trips, we do things I would have enjoyed doing even without them. So those things don't really count as costs. The only added costs are a couple of gifts per year, plus raising the bar slightly on takeout or fixing slightly nicer food fo… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Plate made a 20 slide PowerPoint show on why I should promote her to LTRHonestly, she sounds sweet and funny, persistent, and respectful. If she's low in red flags, you might consider giving her the LTR. As a plate, she's probably gonna break after not that much more time anyway. LTR's aren't marriage. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain my fiances reaction to my investments?Also, if it turns out that it doesn't work with this one, I'd recommend that you never tell another woman about your wealth. If you must, go ahead and marry some woman, but keep working some job (that's enjoyable for you), and don't give her any clue that she's marrying money. Not ever, for the entirety of your lives together. Do your taxes separately. Have separate finances. When you decide you want to treat her occasionally, play it up like it took effort on your part, not that it was a small … | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Can someone explain my fiances reaction to my investments?Look into the psychology of socioeconomic status and the behaviors it causes in people from different status levels. When there are arguments in relationships around money, very often they're not objective arguments about whether or not there's enough money to buy the thing - they're arguments stemming from a person's innate sense of financial security or lack thereof. Even if a person is rich now, they can still feel the fear from their childhood years that there may be a bill that can't be pai… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 11 | Any other guys just feel content with being single?I think the sweet spot is a committed relationship from about 1 month through about 6 months. Getting to know a new high-quality woman deeply while she's still on good behavior is really enjoyable. Beyond around that point, almost all relationships go downhill quickly as she starts with the woman tricks. But I definitely have had several-year stretches at lots of times in my life when I just did my own thing and occasionally hooked up. A mix of that plus sequential mid-length relationships is pr… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 10:12 PM |
| 6 | LTR stopped using pet namesPet names are cringe anyway. They put your relationship communication into a feminized, lubby-dubby dynamic. I like calling my woman "sweet ass" or "honey pot" or something else sexualizing. Or I'll use a playfully patronizing "woman!" or "shorty". Otherwise I just use her name. If you set the tone of the relationship, she will follow. In my earlier days, I recognized that I fell into my women's frame and allowed things to get mushy and boring. Now I don't do that anymore, and indirectly communi… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 4 | How to get over your own securities about your body and have more sex?Normally I'm not a fan of tattoos - personally I feel like they generally make people look like they don't manage their mental health well and are too impulsive. But in your case, they might be useful. If you cultivated a more ruggedly manly aesthetic, some scarring would work with it, and the tattoos would both augment the rugged aesthetic and distract from the scarring. Also, you need to own it, and stop worrying about it. Apropos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7St9TtLzoLk | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Blowjobs make me softIn my experience, I have to teach almost all of them what feels good. They're usually way too gentle and slow. The first few times I have to just let them do it for a little bit so I don't lose my erection, and then quickly move to other things that are more stimulating. Then gradually as I build comfort with them, I properly train them. Lots of explicit verbal guidance. If you have your masculine frame, they'll be very happy to please you by doing what you say. After a month or so, they'll be g… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 02:17 AM |
| 13 | An Unconventional Approach to Time ManagementYour 2x2 table approach to things is certainly a useful way to conceptualize things, and I try to implement it regularly. Something else I do that's highly useful is use time-tracking software throughout my day any time I'm on my computer, whether I'm working or not working. This kind of thing would feel extremely annoying if it represented big brother employer spying on my every move, but for my own self-reflection and analysis of my business practices, it's highly valuable. I have the rates I … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/21 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Ever feel like just doing the bare minimum at work to avoid getting fired but also have time for other hobbies?In my own business, I do the same general kind of stuff I used to do in a corporate job, except I'm in charge of all aspects of the business now, with no asshole idiot managers, the projects are more mentally stimulating and creative, and I make more than twice as much per hour. Don't think of your job as an end goal. Use it to pad your resume as necessary, and then bounce to something better. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I've recently discovered how a woman's body changes after pregnancyThey can still look great, but they have to actually work for it with good diet and nutrition. And their early experiences with men being interested in them simply because their bodies have ripened, plus the cultural milieu telling them they're beautiful no matter what, create mental blocks that interfere with most of them recognizing the work is needed. And/or most of them are just lazy. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | So when do you cash out?Single life is only empty if you measure the fulfillingness of your life solely by the woman you manage to marry. I think that's a mistake, and most married men would support me in this. I own my own business that provides valuable services to the world, is really mentally stimulating, and pays me well, where I set my own working hours and schedule. I have the flexibility and time to learn about anything I want, develop my artistic pursuits, work out hard, and have lots of adventures. I have a g… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | The great revelation of manhood during a fishing tripHell yeah man, you're speaking my language. I do stuff generally like this as often as I can. It's more satisfying than almost everything in modern society. Glad you're going out again soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/21 07:47 AM |
| 8 | So when do you cash out?I got a "unicorn" when I was your age and she was 25 (so don't write yourself off - you're just reaching your prime). Totally beautiful, virgin but curious and ready for me to teach her, feminine, extremely intelligent, healthy Christian family, classy, and a number of shared interests and activities with me. Swapped her out for someone else who I had a deep friendship with (and undeclared attraction to) who I thought would become my wife, back when that seemed like a good idea. Ultimately, the … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to wear condomIUD | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Ex reached out a year later asking me to delete photos/videos of her... Why?She's drawing your attention to it, hoping you'll think about it or watch it if you still have it, and give her positive affirmation about her sexiness and how much you enjoyed her pussy. Maybe she might be willing to get some sex from you again too, if she knows she might be passing through your area. But don't bother. Always better to get it from someone new who hasn't re-conceptualized you as a bad human at some point in her past. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:28 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else thinks virgins are a big turn off and more difficult to get attached to you?Exactly. Not enough people recognize this. Optimum number of partners in a secular, healthy girl depends on age, but if you're shooting for mid 20s, somewhere around 5 is ideal. A little bit experienced with having a few relationships, but no slutting around. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Do I need to be a “woke” millennial to have a successful relationship with a girl in today’s time?I only ever LTR women who can have genuine thought provoking conversations. They exist. It's just important not to make it a necessary feature in your initial pickup because they're rare, and if you want to have shorter term fun times, you'll miss lots of opportunities. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What is your main source of information?Daily news is mostly useless - it's barely different from tabloids anymore. Significant stuff rarely happens on that time scale. Learn more deeply about bigger ideas that are in the news. Long-form podcasts are good, as are essay sites like The Conversation. The have guest experts write deep articles in their area of expertise explaining all the relevant information about a topic that's significant in the news now and will continue to be significant months from now. And while you're at it, do a … | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | My mom is dying and I blew all my money gambling emotionally last weekend, I’m crushed; can any RP brethren in CA land me a job?I do stats for work. I was looking at ways to expand my income using my skillset. I took a hard look at online poker with an eye towards taking easy money from chumps. But it's a grind man - in order really to make consistent money that's enough to live on, you have to play lots of games in parallel on multiple monitors, and work long hours. The dollar per hour rate in my main work is substantially better. And honestly, my work is more stimulating, an actual contribution to society, and I'm guar… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Question for everyone here who has kidsOne of my good (non-sexual) lady friends says that, although she certainly loves her kids, if she had it all to do all over again, she might not have them. In her experience, they've contributed nothing to "meaning in life" that kids supposedly give you. And ladies are supposed to want them more than we do on average. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a girl with an OnlyFans account? Elaborate your answer!Yeah. We like to think we're always selecting on behavior itself. And to some extent we are, because, there are certain fundamental behaviors that are innately feminine, and are attractive to our deeper evolutionary programming as men. A woman with a 0.70 WHR who is nurturing and sweet will be attractive to men across times and cultures. But we're also selecting on more incidental behaviors and interests that are only important to the extent that they reflect how a woman interacts with the mores… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with fear?In my late 30s, I'm honestly not afraid of very much any more. I do adventure sports and occasionally get a glimpse of death in them, but that's thrilling as well as fear inducing. But beyond that, nah. I mean, sure, if the world goes to shit and I'm using guns and knives to keep myself alive against the mob, that would be scary as fuck. But when you analyze it from a detached perspective, most things we're afraid of in this cushy bullshit late capitalist life are things that are related to our … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Would you date a girl with an OnlyFans account? Elaborate your answer!I'd be willing to have an ongoing non-serious relationship with her if I got to help her make content (we'll assume I'm wearing a mask). Constantly pushing the envelope towards freakier and freakier acts while she's doing her damnedest to look as hot as possible and enjoy herself as much as possible sounds pretty great. That way I'm not the only one responsible for escalating towards the freaky stuff, and I can just coast on the simps' energy. For an actual LTR that's serious, it would be a case… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | A huge fight over something with ltrI'm with you - I've dated way too many anxious girls and at the first whiff now, I'm likely to leave. I'm sure I could have managed some of their anxiety better knowing what I know now about bitch management, but I really just don't want that hassle. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Is this what being “respected” is like or am I doing something wrong??You probably haven't intended to swing this far, but it sounds like the alpha demeanor you've come to is too intimidating. Don't let your logical behavior try to speak for itself - for the people where you want or need there to be fair feedback, you need to work to create energy where they realize they can bring things up. Think of the models of strong successful fathers you've witnessed in life. There's the type who's typically more conservative and lower SES who is really authoritarian and "do… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 16 | Is it worth to fuck below average woman?Doesn't matter if they're "below average". A given girl is either hot enough for you (+other enjoyable features), or she's not. Reflecting back, most all of my women have been hot enough for me to be proud, and to enjoy the memories. There's maybe one who was dissappearingly basic enough that when I was walking home after, I literally said out loud to myself, "Hmmmmmm...well, I didn't have to do that." She was an interesting person, and I thought that would compensate, but her sexual persona was… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 11:55 AM |
| 11 | Girl said "I don't want to have sex"Usually when they say this, unless it's said with a really aggressive tone and a stone face, it's just ASD. What they really mean is "I'm already imagining having sex with you, and I just need you to toy with me more and not act too presumptuous until I can't take it any more and it 'just happens'." | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | About Teenage Virginity.Looks like 16 is the average age for virginity loss among Gen-Z. So 50% of your peers also haven't had sex yet. Don't worry about it at all. If your psyche says chasing women isn't the right thing to do yet, definitely don't worry about it. I think there's a lot of value to developing yourself outside of the influence of women. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with loneliness?I think there's validity to the idea that it takes about half the length of a relationship to get over it. You're probably still emotionally processing on some level. Try to make some male friends. In the long run, they're more meaningful and enjoyable than romance. A good female friend who's interesting and you aren't interested in is worthwhile too. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually become a "Masculine Man" late in the game?I changed myself in some significant ways in my early 30's. It just takes work. You need to seriously lift hard and learn a combat sport. Granted, COVID blocks combat sport options, but you can lift now. It matters more than anything else. Doesn't matter that gyms are closed - buy gear for your home. I've built a very good home gym over the last year. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Trying to get to the fundamental biological reason why women have abundance?Hah! We'd be living in a MUCH better world if women who looked like that were the actual average. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend is hot and cold, but she is BPDI assume you mean borderline personality disorder rather than bipolar disorder (sometimes people shorten both to BPD). I've never dated a borderline but I've dated a bipolar girl. The manifestations of the two are rather similar for a partner, and honestly, by descriptions of borderline relationships, I experienced a lot of borderline behaviors out of her even though she was diagnosed bipolar. At any rate, it was literally like being a drug addict. When she was up, she was the most mentally stim… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Have you cried in front of your LTR? What happened after that?Sparticus on Starz. Some have complained that the production quality in the first few episodes isn't that great, and that the excessive and obviously computer generated blood splashes are distracting, but once you adjust to its style, you realize that it's not just a sword and sandals slasher, but something that actually explores a lot of interesting philosophical questions. Add to that its pretty solid historical accuracy in the larger sense, its gripping storyline of underdog rising, plenty of… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Is anybody here in med school or have experience with it? (America)I was poised with the option to go to medical school and ended up deciding against it. Went with the research track instead. IMO, in the US, dealing with all the behind the scenes insurance and other paperwork would make it not worth it to me, especially when I know patients need a particular treatment, but their insurance doesn't allow it. I had a friend who was very happily working as a PA in SF making about 80% of what the doctors who employed her made. They all told her that if they had it a… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 2 | “Do you think we will last?”"For as long as you keep me satisfied." She's got to know in her heart of hearts that you enjoy her, but she doesn't fundamentally matter to you. You need to know that too. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Have you cried in front of your LTR? What happened after that?I did in front of one once after I finished watching the conclusion of an awesome war series that really deeply explored combat brotherhood and the quest for justice against overwhelming force. That kind of shit hits me deep. I only cry once every couple years, and it was the only time she ever saw me cry. She was a little confused and tried to comfort me, but I told her I didn't need anything from her - I was crying because of the beauty of what was portrayed and how deeply it hit me as a man. … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for redpilled hobbies?Most of all, as others say, you should do what calls to you. But if you like the idea of rock climbing already, then I'll definitely put in a vote for it. Especially if there's a bouldering gym available (no ropes and low top out). Here are the benefits: •You instantly get to see how good her body is and especially how good her ass is. •It's socially acceptable to stare at people for an extended period of time (check her out) while you watch them climb to "get beta" for the route yourself. •If i… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so incredibly helpless?They evolved to be annoyingly needy when it's unnecessary so when shit hits the fan they have tested men they can lean on. The behavior varies from girl to girl. If the negatives outweigh the positives for you for any particular one, stop hanging out with them. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Nofap and scarcity?I don't get you guys - this whole nofap sub-community is steeped in doublethink. "Master nofap to truly free yourself from women." "Once you master it, you become hungrier to game women." My sexual desires are what they are. The woman or two I have in my life at any point satisfies my needs up to a certain point. Maybe their drives match mine and I'm truly satisfied. Usually my needs are more than theirs, in which case masturbating takes care of my excess needs so I'm not begging them for more a… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Ex/fling just died. Just feel "off".Sometimes the feelings can't be analyzed and just have to be felt. This song really touchingly describes a woman like her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DrAyNn0PtJg | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Should I leave a good girlno one with any semblance of experience wants a naive starfish that wipes forward. LOL, awesome expression! | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 01:42 AM |
| 0 | I'm fucking exhausted. Anyone else that's felt/feeling a same way learned to cope with this?Don't spend all your time with women. They're an enjoyable dessert for when you've got nothing better to do. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with people like thisI have a buddy who is sometimes like this too. One on one he's awesome, but sometimes, especially in a larger group with multiple ladies, he gets loud and postures a lot in a way that seems a little false to me. But he's funny when he's doing it, so what the hell. Sometimes I'll give him a little shit in the moment, but I'm happy to laugh or play straight man when he's on. The way I figure, our personalities are different enough that we're not really fishing for the same women most of the time. … | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 07:16 AM |
| 12 | Dealing with the post first date lay hamster"I think the safest thing would be for you to make me dinner." For the "what are you looking for" questions, I answer honestly that I'm openminded, and depending on the match, a range of options could be on the table. I don't get into the details that in all likelihood, given the low quality of most women, the only value she can offer is probably a short term fling, or that I have a hard time imagining any woman providing enough value that living with her would seem like a good idea. I'm still o… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 03:21 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being so damn agreeable?Stop being so insecure and worrying about what people think. Don't go to that group anymore - the bitch Jane has poisoned those waters for you. Your lesson: never fuck a bitch that's part of some organization that's really valuable to you, because this is what women do. Maybe after some time you can reach out to a few people in the group if they're real friends, but a low profile is necessary now. Join a different group and just be a valuable, fun person in that group, without doing what you thi… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 03:08 AM |
| 3 | TRT in your 20s?About 3 years ago I had ED for a while. I'm very fit and active, without any health conditions. Eventually I realized it was due to the changes I needed to make in my professional life. If you know deep down that your mission isn't being satisfied, that can affect a lot of things, including your mental health and, I'm personally convinced, your testosterone levels. Now that my actions are aligned with my mission, I feel awesome almost all the time, and I'm ready to bang with an iron rod at a mom… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Why can some guys be dumb, work a dead end job, have drug habits, and be completely unresponsible but still date really attractive women?Around when they feel the wall coming.. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 08:23 PM |
| 8 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?I came here to say this. OP, if you're really drawn to true accomplishment, the lead acts of today's circuses are not the men to emulate. In all likelihood, every one of us reading and writing here will have historically insignificant lives. But leading your life in an attempt to belong at the table with the great men of history is the best route to a life of meaningful achievement. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Insecure about being smart and being perceived as nerdyYou need to recognize that your "smart person" persona is an act in exactly the same way a "jock" persona is an act. Not doubting that you're smart - you probably are. But I'm guessing you've built an identity around being "the smart guy", and you've internalized a lot of the social cues of that persona as your default in all circumstances. It's as dumb of you to apply it in all circumstances as it is for the "ditsy blonde" girl to apply that persona in all circumstances, including when it makes… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Trouble finding purposeIt's not an easy question man. When I was starting college, I was interested in and good at almost all academic subjects. (I guess it bears mentioning that my family background pointed me in that direction to start, so at least that choice was effectively made for me, but I'm pretty intellectual anyway, so it wouldn't have made sense for me not to go to college). I always took an overload of classes in a diversity of subjects and graduated with a lot more credits than I needed, which was a great… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Inherited 20k from grandpa at 18 - What do I do next?This is the correct response. Don't bother reading anything else. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 07:56 AM |
| 9 | What do you guys think of this male/female compatibility calculator I made using red pill theory?He's...definitely neurotypical. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Injury depressionI get you. I had a similar thing happen a few years back: Reduce your calories a bit to account for you lack of lifting. Get into running if it works with your cast. Crush core workouts too. It won't change your physique that much to run for the next couple months instead of lifting, and it will keep up your fitness and mood. It may even keep all your muscles from atrophying as much, because any exercise creates a whole wash of hormones and other signaling molecules telling all your muscles to s… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 08:57 PM |
| 41 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringYou're the architect of your own life. If you're bored by it, make the changes you want to see. But don't be peer pressured into clubbing, partying, and street racing just because your old friend does those things. Do what you want. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Asked girl at uni out, she said yes, but when i set up date, she wants it as friendsYou need to do work on yourself to reach a point where you're 100% comfortable with every girl you meet clearly recognizing that you are interacting with her because you want to fuck her. Absolutely don't communicate this energy with neediness, and it shouldn't be aggressively over the top, but girls all innately know that we interact with them because we want to fuck them. If you're clear about that with your nonverbals, they'll respect you for that if you're attractive enough, and keep you in … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Asked girl at uni out, she said yes, but when i set up date, she wants it as friendsDon't be a passive aggressive pussy. Just say, "Oh, friendship isn't what I was looking for. I guess I'll see you around then." A man is forthright, and she'll respect you more if you're just straight with her rather than seeing that you're hurt from this transparent behavior. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 14 | “Don’t shit where you eat” still applicable to short-term job?Depends on whether the job is totally a throwaway, or whether you might use references, etc, from it. If you're working as a cashier at Target, bang away. If you're working in a temporary internship with a company in your future field, behave yourself. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Cant find purpose in lifeFocus on your favorite one and work hard at it, while maintaining the others enough that you could maybe nurture one as a side-gig, and your awareness of the others remains relevant. There's a fine balance between committing and working hard towards a particular career, and also being self-aware about whether it's rewarding for you. There's a great sense of purpose to be had from building competence in a professional skill. So don't give up when you're faced with small setbacks. But if you feel … | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | What was the catalyst in your life that made you Red Pilled?Tell me more about what you mean. In the case of my last serious ex, we rarely see each other because she rethought her concept of me to make me a villain, but honestly, I respect her and enjoy her as a human, and I could really enjoy being friends with her again if she could avoid spilling her neuroticism onto me. I have no shame or anger towards her. For me at least, those feelings of shame and regret just come from wasting time to lay a woman who's actually a worthless human. I try to avoid t… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Is "no fat women" a bad standard to have?Watch standup comedy clips that fit your sense of humor and general life views. Try to watch them on a meta level to realize how the comic is doing what they're doing. Watch some other clips of people being funny in less structured environments too, like Craig Ferguson on his late night show. Charisma on Command on Youtube is good for comedy as well as other desirable traits you want to project in your interactions. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 11:08 AM |
| 3 | What was the catalyst in your life that made you Red Pilled?I did well enough when I was younger, but never really snagged the extra hot women - it would be more the 6-7 range, and they were selecting me. I always wanted to develop the ability to get the 8s and 9s. So I spent some time working on myself, learning game, etc, and became aware of the RP world. I crushed it for a number of years, laying a good number of sexy ladies and LTRing the occasional one who appeared to be extra high quality. Ultimately though, they all ended up having hidden serious … | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Is "no fat women" a bad standard to have?I used to be the same as you, and that's still my natural inclination. But you can learn. I spent a year or so of intently reading about these topics on the manosphere and putting myself into social situations to practice. It doesn't feel comfortable at first, but you get better, just like with any other skill. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Is "no fat women" a bad standard to have?If everyone around you is introverted and awkward, that lowers the bar for you, because everybody actually wants to have interesting, fun social interactions. You'll be providing something others aren't. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Is "no fat women" a bad standard to have?Well, maybe. But I'd say game doesn't work if you are sending out covert contracts. If you're genuinely being fun and interesting (best measure: in some senses, you'd have almost the same playful interaction with a dude, minus a little bit of flirting), it works. You might also have aimed at girls that had too many options. But there are plenty of plain Jane's with good bodies who aren't too incredibly hard to snag. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 07:32 AM |
| 6 | Is "no fat women" a bad standard to have?Stay away from the fatties full stop. But I don't like the way you phrase things: "virtually no woman approaches me out of romantic interest." That's because it's your job to approach them. It'll take you a few years if you're an incel, but read the sidebar and learn game. Eventually you'll be able to get attractive enough girls to say yes to you if you learn how to be fun and playful and confident. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of 3+ years, DM'ing some dude. Told her to stop. Immediately kept doing it ..on a week long trip right now.If it were your car, I'd say you should just pack up and drive yourself home in the middle of the night. Since you say it's her car, I'd genuinely recommend that you follow the same plan via Uber -> airplane or Uber -> rental car. Don't answer any of her calls or texts. You're done with her. If that's really not feasible, then hop on Tinder or similar, and find a random hook up for tonight, or if that doesn't immediately work, get a motel for the night and make it seem like you were out on a hoo… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Is the red pill popular now?Lol, I once found myself on a date with a girl who described herself as an alpha female. She was the team captain of her sports team, and I guess she maybe had a little bit less neuroticism and self-hatred than the average girl. Meh. Whatever she thought it meant, it wasn't enough to compensate for her marginal real-life attractiveness vs. her hot OLD pics. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I can't handle a relationship because I don't know how to share my lifeWhat you describe is actually a serious challenge in relationships. The problem is that most women have no internal resources and no drives towards achieving any major personal goals outside of their working hours. So as soon as they're attached to you, you're the source of their entertainment. You can have fun with them for a little while, but ultimately they present a tremendous burden on you if you have personal goals and hobbies. Though they're more rare, you can find women who are more inde… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I start my own company?Science/research consulting. I was working full-time at a related job on a standard corporate schedule, so I had a fair amount of time outside of work to consult. When I reached the point where I had troubles fitting in all my client requests in my free time, I knew I couldn't expand any more without getting rid of the main job. After the switch, I was definitely making less while I continued to build things, so I guess it was hard in that sense, but at the same time, it was so nice to be in cha… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Is The System Rigged for Women?I'd say the system is rigged for women more in the way a casino is rigged. You're riding your emotions during the process, thinking that you can beat the odds even though you know how many others fail to win the game, and at the end of everything, more often than not, you're screwed out of your money. In the stock market, anyone who buys index funds makes a profit in the long term. If only women worked that way. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Should I start my own company?Save up your money, build up your business plan to the extent you can in your limited spare time, possibly line up a more chill side gig for when you quit your main one, and when you've got enough money saved up, go for it, and remember to live really cheaply. Different businesses take different amounts of time to become profitable, but mine took about 1.5 years before it was making true career-level money. I did it as a side gig to my main job while it was building momentum, and then switched o… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Do girls try to "destroy" guys who alpha widow them or what is this about?This is exactly what happens. With my last serious ex, we had kind of a tapering off period after the breakup where she actually consciously realized she was rethinking her narrative of me to make me the villain, and she told me she was sad that she was doing it. She could just not have done it. But that's not in their nature. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Veteran redpillers, what are some of your regrets you wish you had (not) done when you were younger?I've mostly followed the life trajectory that I wanted, and things have worked out pretty well for me. Just a couple regrets I can think of at the moment: -Staying too long in relationships with beautiful girls I loved, trying to make things work after it was clearly not working any more. In my life, these have been the most destructive things that have happened to me. Don't underestimate the really seriously damaging influence of a chaotic woman splattering her negative neurotic energies all ov… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How do I grow a spine and a pair of fucking balls?This might be a really good idea. If you've struggled to find any purpose for so long, having one imposed on you by a military organization might give you just the kick in the ass you need. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Is this grounds for breaking things off with my LTR?Good comment. Keep communicating that kind of thing to her always. Women need the constant reminder that they're primarily sex objects to you (couched in playfulness so it's not too intense). I donno how you can get over her past. It sounds like it's not that you're worried she's had sex before - just that it bothers you that your friend hooked up with her. I guess this means one of two things: 1) You're worried you don't compare favorably with him. 2) He got good sex from her with little to no … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 08:41 PM |
| 21 | Should i do my girlfriend assignment just because i can?If I were you, I'd give her guidance, but not do her work for her. I'm not interested in a serious relationship with a woman who doesn't value learning things for herself. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Is this grounds for breaking things off with my LTR?Never ever say that you're with a girl forever. It's even wise to make casual jokes about her keeping things good enough for you that you stay with her. But don't break up with her because of her earlier sexual history. If she's being good to you, she benefits you. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 6 | The Rapidly Inflating Sexual Market Bubble Is Going To BurstOr, farther back in our evolutionary history, when times were particularly tough, like in the last ice age, when more men died, and when resources were generally too scarce for men to support multiple women. It's theorized that male selection in the face of excess female mate options led to the emergence of various novel colors of northern European eyes and hair: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/228627175_European_hair_and_eye_color_A_case_of_frequency-dependent_sexual_selection | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Bored with sexOnly in a very small percentage of relationships does the sex stay fun and frequent. Women create unnecessary chores and schedules and drama that all serve to create artificial barriers to you getting sex and them enjoying it. Also, as soon as you live with them, the sex for attention economy that your relationship previously had is destroyed, as she gets your attention by default. Don't ever live with them, and you can prevent the development of bullshit "honeydo" chores, and you can maintain y… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Do older guys even approach younger women or most are in fear of the creep factor?Maybe I could have; maybe not. Maybe her sweet, young, innocent naïveté was an act; maybe it wasn't. There aren't very many truly guileless, pure young women who make it through modern teenagerhood. I had one once without realizing the extent of her genuine romantic idealism, and I played her like a girl who knew the game. It totally crushed her, and she reeled from it for a long time. If I come across a woman who gives a really solid portrayal of that type, I'd rather play it a little slow and … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Do older guys even approach younger women or most are in fear of the creep factor?I'm in my late 30s, but I look good and am fun. Right before the pandemic, I made some quick, flirty conversion with a sexy young little blonde at a concert, and got her number after chatting with her for 5 minutes. She was a FOB Russian immigrant with a lot of sweet, feminine, traditional upbringing, who was very inexperienced and very young (somewhere between 18 and 20), so I treated her right and moved slowly and respectfully. Say what you want, but having done it before, I don't want to brea… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 8 | PronounsI swipe left 100% of the time too. Sometimes the wokeness is fake, and sometimes it's real. But I don't care to have a conversation with them, even if they're a dime (which, to be fair, they never are). | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | WitchcraftThe best lays of my life were from a crazy girl who "practiced witchcraft" and was a "faerie rather than a human." Obviously there was no potential for anything remotely serious with that crazy bullshit, but I played along with her games enough to spend some good sexy times around her for a while, and it certainly provided interesting psychological observations. She kind of went to boarding school as a teen, so had limited relations with her parents (daddy issues), and she also felt a lot of str… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Change the approach: Stop asking so many questions. This isn't a job interview, so stop treating it like one.There are women out there who are legitimate humans and are looking for legitimate dudes. This forum focuses a lot on a shotgun approach for laying as many attractive women as possible, whether or not they're worthwhile people. You can use the same approach generally detailed here, but just with much higher standards, and find worthwhile women to have something more committed with. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/21 09:10 PM |
| 13 | Change the approach: Stop asking so many questions. This isn't a job interview, so stop treating it like one.They're a clear indicator of openness to easy sex, so they're good for that. But otherwise, yes, they're ugly. Stupid women who get them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Girl’s ConfidenceI've known well maybe 2-3 women ever in my dating bracket who I thought were actually profoundly secure and balanced humans. True psychological security comes from working through challenging problems on your own, building self-reliance, facing your demons, and otherwise learning that you're capable of taking on whatever challenges come your way. Women never have to do any of this, because they can always find a man to do it all for them. It's the double-edged sword of living their existence. Ne… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Maybe a more mature man perspective will change my mind.Never make a life choice for a girl unless you're already married to her, and even then, be very wary of allowing her to influence your major life choices. Do what fits your life mission and find a woman who wants to join you on that mission. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Only seem to get laid at the 2nd dateFor the past 7 years or so, I've always fucked women on the second date - never the first. I'm not really looking for some mindless fuck with some rando who's vaguely attractive. I wanna fuck a woman who I respect as a person and who displays behavior that suggests she's not a gutterslut. I'm the prize, and I'm evaluating the woman to see if she's worth my effort. Sure, sometimes I decide I'm interested and they don't want date two, but plenty of the time the opposite is the case. Makes for more… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 06:30 PM |
| 4 | She takes off her clothes and lays on the bed like a bodybag. The f am I supposed to do?No need to get all intense and "set boundaries" like some of the guys are suggesting. Sounds like your ladies have been pretty passive or insecure in bed. When a situation like this arises, sure, it's kinda lame, but it's an opportunity to show her you can lead like a man. Girls who do this are happy to do what you tell them. You just need to dictate the entire event. Don't be forceful or aggressive, but also don't ask her if she's willing to do the things you think of. Tell her what to do with … | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Which non-athletic hobbies have fulfilled you the most ?I've been a serious musician for 30 years. It's awesome, cause I've reached the point now where I can play basically anything I want. I give lessons also, and it's a pretty high-paying side gig. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Should you be initiating texts in LTRsThe most important thing is never ever to communicate about anything important that's on the negative side of emotions with your LTR through text. Only in person, or via talking on the phone if absolutely necessary. Women will take the worst possible interpretation of everything (like they tend to do in these conversations), and texting is too slow and cumbersome to regulate that bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 07:54 AM |
| 5 | 27, just learnt to walk again....What now?I had musculoskeletal injury serious enough to need surgery a few years ago. Along with it came some amount of job insecurity, etc, although I did manage to keep living in my apartment. I wasn't horny for a good while through that period (honestly, it was a great relief to be free of thoughts of women for a while). And once my body had healed enough, I still had much more important tasks to solve than chasing women, like stabilizing and building up my income. I recognized that chasing women woul… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Where to meet succesful, smart people, and those who want to live an above average life?I'm deeply involved in highbrow arts. Educated, wealthy, successful, cultured people tend to enjoy them too. I have enough other interests and abilities that I think I'm an interesting character in that scene. Resultantly, I've made a large number of much older, influential friends and acquaintances in that world. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Cardio or weight training? Which one is better for body recomposition ?You should always be doing both, but the balance of how much of each depends on what your basic physiology is. I think the endo, meso, and ectomorph body types are considered a little dated at this point, but they still provide good guidance: -If you tend towards being fat, but still thick and reasonably strong when you're not actively exercising (this seems like you), focus more on cardio and a clean diet, but still do some lifting. -If you tend towards being scrawny and skinny when you're not … | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 11:24 PM |
| 8 | I really need advice... im alone.I came here to say this too. We can't diagnose you from our computer screens. You seem at least moderately successful, so it's probably something about your personality that's turning them off. You probably have both external and internal work to do, because, independent of your lack of success with women, your sense of self seems pretty negative too. You really should be guided by a professional. It'll be hard work, but it'll be worth it eventually! | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Is Black Pill full of shit?He was also a universal genius (made scientific and engineering contributions that are still today regarded as remarkable), eventually became quite wealthy (multi-billionaire corrected for inflation), and had legendary game (there were literally spontaneously arising cults of personality dedicated to him when he was the US ambassador to France). | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Getting my needs metSeems like you made an error here. Yes, she wasn't super sexually outgoing this time, but unless you've been with her a lot of times before (doesn't sound like it), she probably wasn't super comfortable with you yet. Girls that aren't total sluts need you to create a safe and trusting environment first before they open their assholes to you. A good whore who vigorously gives you everything the first time is a lot of fun, but there's also a lot of fun to be had from training a less experienced gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/21 05:33 AM |
| 14 | I am a 22yo virgin. When asked about my sexual past, what is better: should I lie and save face, or just own it and avoid being inauthentic?If it's dudes you're talking to, say something like "I don't need to brag about my experiences bro." If they try to drilldown on your response, or imply that you have no experience, don't get butthurt. Amused mastery isn't only for when you're talking with women. If it's chicks you're talking to, say something like "I don't kiss and tell." Women like this anyway, because it shows them you won't blab if they hook up with you. The most important thing is that you say each of these with a relaxed a… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Any of you guys plan to marry a rich girl?I dated a girl from a famously rich family you've heard of for a number of years. She was set to inherit many many millions by the time she was 30. She was actually reasonably mentally healthy, but many members of her family were seriously damaged by the constant sycophants and swindlers who surrounded them, and by the intergenerational manipulation that occurred when the older family members were determining whether the next generation was worthy of their inheritances. Having too much money is … | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 03:34 AM |
| 30 | LTR wants me to text her sometimes at nightComply with her comfort test occasionally while keeping the flow to your masculine advantage: "falling asleep now - will be dreaming of your juicy ass." | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Graduated College with 0 friends.And once you get into your 30s, you just start making friends with younger folk. The younger guys really look up to you, and the younger ladies are always sexy and fun. I have a bunch of friends who are 15ish years younger than me. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Does libido drop past your early 20s?Don't worry man - I'm almost 40, and I still really love sex and have great difficulty finding a woman who wants it as much as I do. Yes, my drive is a little lower than it was when I was 16, but I can still occasionally cum twice in a row without stopping if I'm particularly horny. On the other hand, I don't die quite such an agonizing death if I don't cum every day, so my women have much less power over me. Don't worry man, there's still a lot of time to enjoy the ladies. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 7 | How do you deal with a job you hate?*You find something better and you quit. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Failing at love life, lay down some brutal truths on me.Despite all the objectively good things you describe about yourself, I don't get any vibes that you love your life right now. Fair enough - you're still processing the loss of your old partner. But women want to be with dudes who are really enjoying themselves and convinced that they're winning. Keep processing, and don't worry so much about your attractiveness. Once you're exuding joy out into the world, the ladies will want to be part of your joy. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 04:22 AM |
| 2 | [Question] How would you define a Low Value FemaleI released her back into the pond, so have at it if that's your game. I'll fuck the dumb cheerleader, but the pretty honors student is my game. If we're the prize, we get to choose what we want. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why?Louis CK did a funny bit on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vajoYW9p5l0&t=41s | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 8 | [Question] How would you define a Low Value FemaleOne thing I haven't seen mentioned yet is being intelligent and curious enough to have good conversations. It seems some (I assume younger) guys don't care about this, but it matters a lot to me. If I'm nailing a girl more than a few times, that means she has something going on besides just an enjoyable body. I'm going to start interacting with her outside of booty calls (or at least bookending them), and I want that time to be interesting. Some can enjoy the simple roleplay of being the masculi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Movie / Good Examples Of Masculinity - Papillon (1973)It might be useful to have a list of all the really good movies of yesteryear that feature strong authentic masculinity. This forum is useful for keeping RP principles in your mind, but steeping yourself in classic RP knowledge while also enjoying good art is a better use of your time than reading the standard field report fantasy on here. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/20 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Broke up with ny LTR and it's making me feel like shitfeels like she neutered my balls or something during the entire relationship, slowly and steadily molding me the way she wanted and then getting bored with her own creation. This is a very important realization for you to make. Don't ever let this happen again. It surely contributed to her eventual loss of attraction to you. Women spend a lot of time and effort trying to mold you into something they don't want. They're just programmed that way. They'll be mad if you resist their efforts, but you… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Be resented, hated or used. Pick one.These days, the average person of either sex tends to be a shit person, especially when you engage with them first electronically. What's the surprise? You're not gonna like any randomly selected guy enough to be his friend either. Filter out the shit women, and have fun with the ones who are worthwhile humans. YMMV, but I'm not even very interested in having random easy sex with a super sexy very young thing if she's just a disgusting personality. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 5 | The End of Democracy Part 1: Tech Knights and Machine EmperorsInteresting ideas. Some seem clearly correct, and others a little more tenuous. Do you have any books or other resources you can cite that explore your thesis of "the nature of the most useful military unit determines the degree of freedom in a society"? I've read many arguments that point to less exciting ideas, like supply chain issues and political willpower, being more significant in the downfall of Rome, the success of the Allies in WWII, etc. I'd be interested to read more involved argumen… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 7 | 103 Basics: Play Chess While Everyone Else Is Playing CheckersI drive a sports car that I love driving and that gives me great joy every time I look at it. I don't really care about its status per se - I really just like it because I like sexy cars. Yes it's depreciating, but I also get enough enjoyment out of it that it adds a lot to my life. Everything in life doesn't have to be about making money. You can also buy things that give you happiness, as long as you've explored the feeling and you truly believe you're buying them because you truly want them, … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Too much red pill?You sound like you're going through a quarter life crisis. Bravo to you for backing away from your job that made you unhappy and finding something else. Don't expect nursing necessarily to be perfect - you might find the need to keep searching and go on to another career eventually. But stay in touch with whether you feel satisfied by your work, and keep your mind open to options that might be a better mission if you're not satisfied. Don't be trapped by the idea that you need to just stick with… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/20 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Start your own business. Don’t aim to work for someone.If you don't have the attention span to read five very short paragraphs, you should definitely not try to run your own business. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/20 03:57 AM |
| 1 | 2019-2020 A Year in ReviewThis is the main reason I'm not really into random hook ups. I much prefer pairing up for a while and taking a less-slutty, less likely to be disease-ridden girl on a several month sexual journey and teaching her all kinds of new sexual tricks. If I don't at least get to eat the pussy almost every time, it's kind of boring, honestly. Sex is about a lot more than pounding. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Start your own business. Don’t aim to work for someone.I'm at the intersection of several, doing medical research. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/20 08:16 AM |
| 75 | Start your own business. Don’t aim to work for someone.Enjoyment is relevant. But your other two statements are definitely true. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/20 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Start your own business. Don’t aim to work for someone.I started freelance consulting in a STEM-based field that I have solid educational background in when a job I had suddenly ended and I needed some cash flow as I searched for my next solid employment. At the start of things, the jobs I was getting weren't super interesting, and I was just squeaking by barely making my necessary payments as I looked for a more regular full-time income stream. But as time passed, I managed to snag some higher-paying, longer term clients, and they told their collea… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 22 | Winning is exploiting the system. Fuck em all, go for the win.At the same time, it's important that you do win according to your moral code. You just have to be sure you have a moral code that's truly reflective of what you believe, not some unexplored programming that society fed you. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Alright very simple question for the group. Why not just make money and fuck hookers?I guess if your only goal is truly to put your penis in a vagina, then there's no benefit to attracting girls on your own vs. simply paying. But I don't believe that's true for you. If you're smart enough to be succeeding at a high profile job, you're smart enough to recognize that women can be more than vaginas. Of course, keep your wealth safe from the crazy gamble of marriage. But there's a vast range of options between hookers and marriage. If you're just talking about useless basic bitches,… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/20 08:12 AM |
| 2 | How I Turned A Formerly Low Interest Girl Into A Fuck BuddyMaybe reading philosophy will be helpful to you, but that hasn't been my experience. Reading formal philosophy feels more like mental masturbation than something productive to me, and while stimulating, it often saps my energy. Don't get me wrong - I'm an intellectual who likes thinking big thoughts, but for me, it's much more stimulating and valuable to learn as much as I can about the natural world and society. Learn about everything that seems interesting to you, and also consider where you m… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/20 07:29 AM |
| 11 | [field report] my ex is now obese with several cats and dogs. tragic.It can happen that guys get fat and unattractive by their late 20s. But it doesn't have to. I'm the same weight and same musculature I've been for the past ~17 years (+/- a little bit based on life's exigencies). American culture (and many other western cultures to a lesser extent) is extremely obesogenic. It takes a lot of conscious effort with diet and exercise not to let it happen to you too, because the default is so unhealthy. If you remain single and take care of yourself, you can have a g… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/20 05:52 PM |
| 8 | Why going no contact is the only option - a perspective and guide for when things endThis is generally good advice for most cases, but not all the time. If you're unsure, or if you're in a really emotionally vulnerable place, or you have lingering romantic/sexual neediness targeted at them, definitely follow it. It applies in almost all of my experiences. But I've had two where it doesn't: -A FWB I had last year. She was a very good friend before we started banging, and we clearly communicated about how we would negotiate the banging part after we'd known each other nearly a yea… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/20 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Do you think men are pining for women more now than ever before, because we aren't forming the male bonds necessary for fulfillment?There's a lot of truth being shared by the group, and I have another angle to add: Modern society is much too easy. It's false and manufactured, and it is straightforward to exist in it as a social island. You don't truly need anyone to help you in order to do the basic stuff of life. This is perfect for women, who generally don't really want struggle. But men develop and mature best and bond best with each other by facing adversity that requires teamwork. I'm sorry for all you guys who have no … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/20 06:14 AM |
| 14 | No matter how much she wants you to "open up", she WILL use your sensitivities against you.What the boys aren't making clear in their comments above, Kirra, is that there are two types of emotional openness, as far as women respond to them. The first is being emotionally open about something that was emotionally challenging in the past, but we conquered with strength, resolve, courage, and independence. When we share this with you, we show that we can occasionally be challenged, but we illustrate to you that we overcome using our masculine traits. Ladies who are looking for real conne… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | The Baby TrapHaha, your compliance test is amazing! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/20 06:27 PM |
| 3 | The Baby TrapNever ever ever cum in a woman's pussy unless you're trying to make a baby. It doesn't matter what other contraceptives you are using - not cumming in her is the one that you're 100% in charge of the success of. If you cum in her mouth, make her show that she's swallowed it. If you cum on her body, wipe off her body for her. My one weak spot is I happily cum in chicks' asses. I figure that they won't transfer the E coli-laced cum over to their pussies and risk an infection, but that might not be… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Never Put Kids FirstDamn man - 1st percentile of neuroticism! I dated a girl for a while who I eventually learned was also 1st percentile in neuroticism, and it ultimately was the reason I left her. Women are innately more neurotic on average than men, so it'll be even more important for you to change your neuroticism so she has someone to lean on. Good luck man. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Know Your Worth, Objective measure to be top 20%, Red Pill PerspectiveI am, in fact, a professional statistician. Ultimately, your study would require a definition of rejection. Yes, many women will give you their number if you ask for it. I don't know what the overall average would be, but probably above 20%. But how many of those are going to respond to a followup text? How many of those will meet you in person? How many of those will lead to a lay? I'd wager we'd ultimately be back to the 80/20 ratio. Ultimately though, this is the trees rather than the forest … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Know Your Worth, Objective measure to be top 20%, Red Pill PerspectiveI agree with you - I have no objection to any of what you say in this response or in you OP. I was responding to Wingflier when he said: In reality, women are not thinking in terms of percentages in relation to their dating choice in men. I highly doubt the thought, "Is this a top 20 percent guy?" has ever crossed a woman's mind when evaluating the man standing in front of her for sexual selection. Because women are emotional creatures, they are not performing math equations to decide who they'r… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Know Your Worth, Objective measure to be top 20%, Red Pill PerspectiveI think you don't understand statistics. No, of course women aren't calculating percentages in their head when a guy approaches. The 80/20 rule describes approximately the reject/accept ratio of the average women to the distribution of men that approach her. Math and statistics are approaches to describe the world, not an implication that the world is actively crunching numbers itself. Also, the top 20% aren't necessarily the top 20% by the way you would rank guys, they're the top 20% in the cat… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | There is no "The One". Or: how oneitis can be traced back to the relationship between a man and his motherSolid assessment. I think this is why people get so attached to things/women/situations in life. The shortsightedness that people have though, is that they don't realize how flexible their happiness and satisfaction is. E.g. My 9.5 genius model who's bipolar, my 8 hottie overachiever with anxiety and body insecurities, and my 7 pretty girl who's chill and fun all have their various mixing sliders in different places, but they may actually turn out to be roughly equivalent for my general enjoymen… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/20 09:27 AM |
| 21 | Spend Time in the Wild in Order to get a Closer Look at Where Your Life is HeadedI do this all the time. A few years ago, I was going for a multi-day, technical winter summit of a big mountain with a buddy, and an intense wind and snow storm came in, making us change our plans and immediately set up camp. We laid in our sleeping bags in our tent, wearing all of our jackets, sleeping fitfully for 14 or so hours as we waited out the storm, with the wind constantly raging and the tent wall flapping down over our bodies. The sound of the wind on the tent was too loud for us to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/20 05:16 AM |
| 34 | One can see hypergamy at a young ageThat's not hypergamy - that's just caring what someone looks like. You'd do the same thing to the skinny nerd girl who suddenly grows tits and an ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 08:55 PM |
| 2 | What holding frame in the middle of her emotional states is and why it's vitally important.The challenging thing is that, though you're right, what you're saying is an over-approximation. Yes, women are driven by their emotions, but the good ones who I choose to spend my time with are also rational, reasonable people some of the time. And I appreciate that they bring that energy sometimes. It's just hard, because that means I value what they say and really listen to it. And it's still an ongoing process to immediately recognize the difference between them being a real person who shoul… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/20 01:30 AM |
| 3 | TRP is Biology - Only the Truth MattersI like your idea about female beauty being masculine beta. It's not a perfect comparison, but it works well enough. I'd say that beauty is a combination of social skills, personality traits, and physical features advertising someone who's stable, intelligent, healthy (in the present and the past), and has good genes. In contrast, hotness is signals of social receptiveness to sex, combined with physical signals indicating prime reproductive capacity. Who are you going to LTR? The beautiful one fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/20 09:56 PM |
| 94 | Ran into a girl from high school I used to orbitAs a dude in my late 30's, there are only a few of girls from my high school years who I would be willing to fuck if they offered themselves on a silver platter. Considering that my graduating class wasn't super large, I suppose that's probably better than average for the country. But there are a huge number of them who look absolutely horrific. It's the nature of the game man. Making a long-term commitment to almost any woman is failing to doge a bullet. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/20 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Lost my virginity. Thank you TheRedPillExcellent. My only criticism is you shouldn't tell future women that you're not that experienced. I can understand you wanting to share that with this woman, because it was a special moment for you, but most women don't find male inexperience attractive. Don't make up a false backstory. Just don't talk about it, and be a little evasive if they ask. Keep pushing forward man, and don't make the mistake of thinking this first one is going to be your forever partner. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Quarantine has reminded me how comfortable I am being by myself.Joining in to echo sentiments: During undergrad, I was to some extent an incel. I did manage to snag 2 girlfriends and 2 FWBs, but over the course of my 6 years of undergrad (extra years well spent!), there were several times when I went more than a year without sex. But nonetheless, I wasn't really unhappy about it. Having the girlfriends was mostly a pain in the ass outside of the sex. It was a fantastic time to figure out the living patterns that I like, learn about myself, and learn as much … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/20 07:50 AM |
| 0 | For those who don’t have any gym equipment at home, I share with you a Home Workout ProgramDo 100 burpees in a row with good form and tell me they're not excellent full-body exercise. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 4 | How To Get Laid During Coronavirus Quarantine Using Dating Appsfinchfry157, you're a fucking dipshit. I have extensive experience in immunology, virology, and epidemiology, and I can say from an expert perspective that social distancing has nothing to do with politics or virtue signaling - it's the most important thing everybody should be doing with their lives at the moment. PornHub is offering a free premium membership right now. Give yourself that treat and stay the fuck away from real-life strange for the foreseeable future. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/20 09:00 PM |
| 3 | For those who don’t have any gym equipment at home, I share with you a Home Workout ProgramMountain climbers and burpees are two of the very best bodyweight exercises. I'm doing a lot of them now. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | There are no more beautiful girls left in “normal jobs”. If a girl is an 8 or above, she WILL be an “industry” girl.I tried all the whole bi girl thing for awhile, lots of great 3 sum sex, but the relationship was always lacking... Would you say the relationship was lacking because she was bi, or for unrelated reasons? I recently picked up a bi FWB who might be down for threesomes, which is new for me, and can see that we're pretty compatible, so I'm wondering how that all plays out. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/19 06:36 PM |
| 15 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedIf you're a bit fat, she feels like it's ok to be fat herself. Otherwise, your rippedness makes her feel the stress of maintaining her own physique, and the worry of other women potentially stealing you. I've had like 3 previous exes try to manipulate me into working out less and eating shit more often for exactly this reason. It's a red flag I really watch for now. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/19 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Women are bored. Not just boring, bored.I've mostly seriously dated very intelligent women. They're out there, but you have to look hard. Probably the smartest told me she tested at 160 IQ (and I believed her - our conversations were wide-ranging, deep, multifaceted, hilarious, and incredibly stimulating). Unfortunately, without exception in my experience, very intelligent women have pretty serious emotional issues. They all have genius obligé, which makes sense, because they're smart enough that they see the way the world works, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Fuck'em All: How Undifferentiation Creates Unlimited Abundance and Massive ResultsYeah, I mean, I try to mostly go by the "Hell yes! or no" approach, but the whole HB thing is a little bit relevant too. I once had a super sweet, slender but buxom, innocent, Eastern European Christian virgin who decided she was ready to give herself to me. HB8-9 range. Turned out that she also had some vaginismus we had to work through. But I was willing to invest the energy and time, over the course of many weeks, because she was very sexy, and the giving of her virginity was very sweet, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Fuck'em All: How Undifferentiation Creates Unlimited Abundance and Massive ResultsNot sure I agree with your overall premise. I once fucked a girl on the second date after investing maybe 6 hours of time into drinks, chatting, and playing pool with her. The time spent was fine enough - we had some enjoyable enough banter and such. But despite having a reasonably attractive Asian girl face, it turned out that her body was kind of generically skinny fat, and she was clearly not fully comfortable with her body and her sexual persona, and was a kind of boring lay. As I walked awa… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/19 08:09 AM |
| 7 | Affection Without Attachment.Emotional labor is the innate anxiety and regret of being a post-wall woman in a committed relationship to a non-alpha man, trying to work like a man in a competitive job. It's the lifetime distress of knowing she should have played her cards differently when she was at her best, so she could now have a better life. They just pretend it's actually about the unnecessary chores you're not helping them with. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/19 06:43 AM |
| 0 | How To Exude Sexual MagnetismWTF OP, are you for real? You must be in your teens or early 20s and of the generation that's been raised with all the ridiculous "men are latent rapists" and "objectification is misogyny" narratives. I'm in my 30s, and for my entire self-aware life, I've envisioned every sexual thing I could possibly do to any attractive woman who was in my proximity. She's talking to me? I'm thinking about how her lips would look wrapped around my dick. She's bending over in a low-cut shirt? I'm imagining titt… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/19 08:26 AM |
| 3 | THE APA IS A FEMINIST, PARTISAN ORGANIZATION - Jack DonovanTypically, general IQ tests have numerous parts. Pattern recognition is one of the parts. They also test verbal and mathematical ability, which are usually higher in people who've attended (good) school (for longer). Obviously, the verbal skills part has a cultural component - being able to read the threat implications spoken by your gang member neighbors was a vital skill for you, but it's likely that an IQ test would be assessing more formal definitional and usage verbal skills. There are also… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/19 05:57 AM |
| 5 | THE APA IS A FEMINIST, PARTISAN ORGANIZATION - Jack DonovanWhile I might quibble with the idea of "culturally biased" IQ tests massively holding back different ethnic groups of native-born Americans in their scores, I'm sure that concept is totally legit in Africa when you're trying to use the same IQ test on tribal villagers or dirt poor big city immigrants who grew up in tribal villages. I'm all for dispassionate investigation of data, but I'm also for clearly and reasonably accounting for as many confounding factors as possible. Beyond any cultural b… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | A woman's prime directive is emotional conquestI've wondered about this. I have no clear solution yet, but I'm drawn to the idea of simply finding a woman who wants a baby, and selecting her in a contractual way based on shared values and parenting approaches. Never be romantic with her at all, just become parenting business partners with a shared vision. There are businesses that offer this service. It jumps you straight to the "divorced but with good functional relationship with the ex" phase, and you never have to stop crushing new sexy b… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson Is A Beta HypocriteExactly. I'm an academic intellectual. I value working out hard and having masculine adventures and looking good and fucking bitches, but I also absolutely need serious intellectual conversations and thought-provoking books and time to myself for deep thinking. I snag several new plates a year (generally very smart ones, because they tend to appreciate me) and enjoy depravity with them till they break, but I'm by no means putting a ton of energy into finding new ones or managing the ones I have.… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Chatting Her Up: So I Met A Nude ModelYeah, mine was bipolar. She was upfront about it from the beginning, and symptoms were pretty much nonexistent for the first three months. They progressively increased from there, and ultimately, at one year, the opportunity cost of her incredible beauty and hypersexuality was no longer worth the bullshit. Breaking up with an incredibly beautiful woman definitely pulls the rug out from under her feet! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/18 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Chatting Her Up: So I Met A Nude ModelI dated an internationally recognized erotic nude model for a year. It was quite an experience. It taught me a lot about the female psyche. I didn't need to actively play frame games on her a ton, because she made a full investment in me quite quickly, but for the first month or two, I had a lot of behind the scenes psychological work to do. She was outrageously beautiful, as well as having a super hot bod, so she got intense attention everywhere. Guys would ask for her number almost daily. I'm … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/18 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Holding frame [and protection]Studies on effectiveness of various herpes antivirals show that genital shedding is reduced to about 5% of untreated rates. I haven't seen any studies on oral shedding, but without further information, if the drug treatment is a systemic one, I'd guess that it's roughly the same. If you're gonna fuck lots of women, you're eventually going to be exposed to herpes. Current estimates for US prevalence of oral herpes are about 50%, while genital herpes have a prevalence of about 10%. Because most pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/18 03:34 AM |
| 5 | The Obsessive ClimbLife is all about prioritizing the most important things you can improve while also appreciating what you've accomplished. Doing too much of either is bad for you. And don't worry about others. Do it for yourself and compare your accomplishments to your previous self. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/18 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthYeah. There's a lot of resources out there on the Internet telling you how to be a good partner to someone with X mental illness. Don't fall for it. The standard societal message is "mental illness shaming is a problem in our country, and it prevents faultless people from going in for the treatment they need." I totally agree that they don't deserve censure for having their problems, and on an interpersonal level, they deserve arm's length compassion and reinforcement to get the treatment they n… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/18 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthExample 3: Sally has gone several years without having a satisfying relationship where a man really wholeheartedly invested in her, and she's tired of being plated. She goes on a few dates with a new guy who has BPD, and he's different from her previous experiences - they immediately form an incredible connection. He's so passionate and intense, unlike any guy she's ever experienced, and he's a wild animal in the sack. She knows it's very early in the relationship, and she knows she should be ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/18 07:48 PM |
| 6 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthFundamentally, anything that makes you more likely to reproduce is an evolutionary win. As soon as you are no longer producing offspring, you're largely irrelevant from an evolutionary perspective (except to the extent that you help your kin to succeed and reproduce). So mental illnesses that exploit a niche in the sexual marketplace to increase the possibility of reproduction can lead to reproductive advantage (without even considering any of the associated increases in creativity, etc, sometim… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/18 05:53 AM |
| 9 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthBut is there an evolutionary explanation for [women preferring extreme fluctuations of emotion over 'boring' stability]? I haven't explicitly read this anywhere, but I'll submit my own suspicion that a large number of mental illnesses that relate to interpersonal dynamics (BPD, BD, etc) exist and are perpetuated in our gene pool not because they provide survival advantages in a broader, long term sense, but because the illness itself is parasitizing our evolved priority set in sexual relationshi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/18 03:40 AM |
| 12 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthThey will label all men who don't buy their bullshit as "emotionally >abusive". Last summer, I was hanging with several guy friends at a beach party, and we were all rejoicing about freeing ourselves from our relationships, as well as complaining about the bullshit women put us through. I mentioned that the most recent ex several times called me a 'psychopath' because I failed to buy in to her emotional manipulation. That story was met with a chorus of laughter, because all the other guys had be… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/18 03:07 AM |
| 149 | [Field Report] 6 year marriage endedGood job man - keep it up. Don't you dare get into another serious relationship until that tiniest glimpse of purpose is fully formed. A woman will never help you further develop your purpose - she'll just redirect it towards her own goals before it's strong enough to fend for itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/18 05:30 AM |
| 7 | And this is why feeling shame, pity and sorry for yourself earns you no respect. Knowing the masculine way of dealing with pain is one of the largest mental muscles of a strong man.Impulsive rage in a woman is a hard no. Dump her immediately. Screen the next one much more carefully, and manage her so something like this never develops in your life again. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/18 09:17 AM |
| 5 | And this is why feeling shame, pity and sorry for yourself earns you no respect. Knowing the masculine way of dealing with pain is one of the largest mental muscles of a strong man.One of my good friends and I have talked about this a lot. In relations with women, we trade attention for sex. If she's emotionally unstable (which they basically all are), the attention she needs is for you to help stabilize her. In order to do that, you have to empathize with her negative emotions. And in doing so, it's hard not to have them affect you at least a little bit. Men may manipulate women to get sex out of them, but women manipulate us to get our emotional energy. It's almost alway… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | To all the young guys out there.Me too man. Also 37. Have always eaten relatively well, always lift hard as well as running and doing outdoor adventure. I rarely drink, and don't do drugs. I have the same musculature and bodyfat % as I did when I was ~23. To be honest, I don't even feel any difference as far as athleticism, healing, or muscle building ability compared to my early 20s. Most people think I'm in my late 20s. Currently nailing a 19 year old. Aging is really mostly about not letting your healthy habits go to shit. … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineFor anyone other than practicing scientists or very informed laymen, it's safer just not to get down into the weeds of reading individual papers. The practice of science is messy, filled with egos and politics, and driven by non-ideal incentive structures. It is self correcting and works to elucidate truth in the long run though, which is why the larger scale summaries (as in textbooks) are generally correct. One individual paper that everyone should read, or at least read the summary of, howeve… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/18 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineThose sorts of things are why I wrote "generally". But my impression is, this kind of thing is (or at least has been) relatively rare, and is usually shut down by public uproar. That being said, it's important to build your knowledge and apply as much critical thinking as you can to new materials based on your previous understanding. If something doesn't jive, dig in. Unfortunately, detecting politically motivated truthiness is often hard work. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Historically there has never been a more important time in western society to discover positive masculinityMy solution: Personally opting out of much of what is encouraged >from PUA and MGTOW and TRP in favor of a more whole >understanding between the 3. I mean to say that its possible to >learn everything we need from these 3 communities, for example, in >order to have an edge, and then to refuse to play that game, instead >creating a personal, more intimate game that is real and genuine. Excellent. This is my strategy too. And I'm sure it was (effectively) the strategy of many of the traditional me… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 09:33 AM |
| 12 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineAnother PhD scientist here. Don't put much stock into any individual new paper that's published. Even if the fundamental ideas in it prove correct, the media almost always blow its significance way out of scale, and extrapolate its conclusions way too far. Most reporters don't really have the training to report on it adequately, and the ones that do work at science focused media outlets with comparatively low readership. However, what you read in a science textbook or similar style source (that … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 09:20 AM |
| 6 | The Reddit Administration RecantsAnd North Korea is the "Democratic People's Republic of Korea", but it's anything but democratic. TRP is about looking deeper than the labels the powers that be put on things. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 08:57 AM |
| 3 | The Reddit Administration RecantsStalin was far left. Hitler was a little bit right. This sub is sometimes too sloppy with comparisons and analogies, which detracts from our message. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 05:08 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThis is technically true, but "significantly" in this case means "statistically different," not "dramatically different." From an article summarizing many studies exploring these associations: "The researchers in the 2017 study calculated that about 1.5 percent of children born to parents in their 20s will have autism, compared with about 1.58 percent of children born to parents in their 40s." https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/link-parental-age-autism-explained/ Don’t rush into having children b… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 02:17 AM |
| 13 | On Mental ‘Disorders’Lumping bipolar in with codependency, depression, and anxiety is ignorant. The manifestation of the latter three can often be affected by behavioral and thought patterns. Go ahead and lift and meditate and practice positive thinking to try to stop or reduce them - therapy tries to do much of the same. If they're mild, your self-help approach may work. But bipolar is a whole different beast. Going without drug treatments for it dramatically increases the chances of all kinds of bad things includi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 01:44 AM |
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