| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 39 | Just curious to know. How many of y’all had people who thought you were a lucky guy because your wife was attractive but in reality the only thing you were getting was starfish sex and she never initiated ? | New_suite | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/23 08:05 PM | |
| 5 | LL wife cheat? | New_suite | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/24 03:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | 443,000 is gone what should I do?What do you mean "you should right" ? A grown man asking another grown man if he should get a job | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Last day as a married manYou said that like you did public service lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 06:41 PM |
| 9 | Dead Bedroom & Divorce LoomingBrandi love is a big claim | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 05:20 PM |
| 24 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!Getting perspective from the opposite sex is one thing. Never being wrong, always the victim, and not being able to take accountability is another another thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 6 | How long did it take you to get back to dating after divorce ?Im sorry. This made me laugh. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 03:41 PM |
| 8 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?Never been married and dont plan on getting married but that last sentence 🔥🔥🔥 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are?Thats the problem. It's just D and nothing else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Should I get a divorce?Yes I wish people would stop thinking like that but thats more of a woman's trait not a man. Not saying its men that dont think like that but mostly women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/24 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Would you take her back?You put this together really well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 10:48 AM |
| 22 | Just found out that my exwife lied to me about another man that she loves during the entire duration of our relationshipCheated on you and had another's man child and your response was to marry her. She told you who she was and you accepted it. I dont understand what the post is about. A cheated lied. What a shocker. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 10:49 AM |
| 7 | This shits hardBe wary of people who get into relationships so quickly; 9 months post and she'll already pregnant with another man' baby. On top of the fact that shes was still seeing you (a fact that her new guy probably wouldn't be ok with). So we got a cheating lady who's pregnant 16 months post separation. I wouldn't say shes winning in life but thats just my personal opinion | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/24 02:43 PM |
| 7 | M23, and I don't think I'm getting marriedI just dont see the point of it. Marriage is more cultural than anything. Its ok to go against the norms. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/24 09:01 PM |
| 10 | This hurtsSeems like you won to me. Shes that dude problem now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/24 11:31 AM |
| 8 | Ex wife circles back 5 years later.Your only leverage was the price she had to pay you to own the house and you gave that away. Ill never understand that. She paid you 100k for a million dollar house. "I just wanted to be done with it" Not me she screwed me out of everything but the house she wouldnt have gotten away from it | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/24 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Marriage insurance for menOr people can just not get married. Sorry but people know the risks of getting married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Over the shockPaying that 2k rent will come out better in the long run than buying a house while married to someone who doesnt know if she wants you or not | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 03:56 AM |
| -6 | Walt was your real the first move towards separation and divorce?!Ill never understand the SAHD role | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/24 11:23 AM |
| 3 | LL wife cheat?That i know but my point was have you ever had your wife refuse to have sex with you citing Low libido only for her to turn around and have sex with someone else | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/24 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Wife and lover not working outYour heart doesn’t say anything. The heart isn’t involved in any decision making youre brain is so if your brain says no thats the answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/24 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileNo, i believe i mentioned that in my post. No law can enforce people to stay committed. If thats the case explain the no fault states and the divorce rate | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/24 01:34 AM |
| 2 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileThats not what the contract says. Whos gonna enforce it? No one. Just like the law cant enforce commitment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/24 01:27 AM |
| 2 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileI meant you could have just been in a committed relationship. A marriage doesnt make your love any more official. If youre getting married for benefits i can tell you that the worng reason to get married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 07:28 PM |
| 0 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileCant you lock them down without marriage and also is it really locking them down when divorce is always an options. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileOh chill out “funny” as in crazy that they can do that. Dont take your hurt out on me. I was actually seeing your point. Relax i did nothing to you. Im not the reason you lose any of those things. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileFunny how they can pretend for so long lol. Its cause they think the landed a sucker, and a lot of times theyre correct, and once youre in love with them you arent going anywhere | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileMan thats tough. How long did you know her before marriage | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhile“Its not going to happen to me” not to be rude but what made you think you were special. Its like saying ill never get in a car accident. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 03:28 PM |
| 3 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileIm not married but i want to ask the ones that are. Why get married when you know theres a possibility you could lose it all or a lot if things dont work out. I know no one thinks theyll be in that situation and their relationship will work out but are the risks really worth it | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 02:33 PM |
| 23 | Ex Wife Hooked UpYou asked you found out. Cant handle the info don’t ask. Eventually she was gonna find someone just like you did. I think the problem is that some college student is smashing your ex. Good for the college student, I guess, but for you ex I don’t think it’s gonna end well with him so I’m hope she isn’t looking for anything substantial | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Wife thinks she's coming in my house tomorrow to take inventory of things after not being here for 15 months.“Women all think police will dish out their personal perception of justice then cry misogyny when it doesn’t work out” WOW | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is undefeated in killing libido and it appears there's nothing I can do to stop it1-2 times a month is decent. Even with kids. You’re telling me sex 24 times a year, at the most, is decent? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Kevin Costner divorceLike the saying goes “show me a fine girl and I’ll show you someone tired of fucking her”. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Girl (F38) that I've been dating wants me to be step-dad (M28) should I run?😂😂😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/23 01:44 PM |
| 3 | I am debating getting a divorce because my wife’s ambitions and mine do not match anymore. I’m convinced she is a narcissist that loves taking advantage of my personality.Get the nail on the head twice | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 04:51 PM |
| 7 | I feel overwhelmed, angry, tired and lostI see this a lot on this sub. It seems like a lot of you give up friends and hobbies when you get Married and your whole life becomes your marriage and kids and once she leaves with the kids you guys don’t know what to do. Having a identify outside your marriage and having some hobbies are essential. The best I can tell you is to stay focused and even thought it seems like a lot just take it day by day. It will be great days. It will be good days. It will be ok days. And it will be bad days. Jus… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Anyone going through this with young kidsWell let me ask you a question. Would you rather Have a child with someone who are known to have mood swings and deal with the crap he’s dealing with or live in peace. It’s not my responsibly or yours to keep the population at bay. Being emotional doesn’t necessary make you a moody person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone going through this with young kidsThe fact that he brought it up means it was a problem. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Anyone going through this with young kidsMay I ask what made you have kids with someone who has mood swings. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/23 03:43 PM |
| 7 | If there is any human that is literally the devil, it’s my soon to be ex wife.Stole you money and flew somewhere to cheat on you with three people and you took her back. Cheated on you again and had a baby with drug dealer and you were still open to taking her back. My guy you gotta have some self respect. She’s only treating you like a person with no boundaries or self respect because that’s what you have shown her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/23 02:53 PM |
| 11 | She now regrets her choices after her new man is treating her like shit.Damn I’ve never heard that. I like it. No need to worry if I plan on stealing it. I am lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 07:44 PM |
| 5 | She now regrets her choices after her new man is treating her like shit.The problem was more than just paragraphs | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Just curious to know. How many of y’all had people who thought you were a lucky guy because your wife was attractive but in reality the only thing you were getting was starfish sex and she never initiated ?Good for you man | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Just curious to know. How many of y’all had people who thought you were a lucky guy because your wife was attractive but in reality the only thing you were getting was starfish sex and she never initiated ?Funny or relatable ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Just curious to know. How many of y’all had people who thought you were a lucky guy because your wife was attractive but in reality the only thing you were getting was starfish sex and she never initiated ?It was a direct question I asked. How you got trolling or wanting attention out of this I’ll never understand and to be honest don’t want to | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/23 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Just curious to know. How many of y’all had people who thought you were a lucky guy because your wife was attractive but in reality the only thing you were getting was starfish sex and she never initiated ?Damn rude reply. I’ve never been married I was just curious about other people experiences and so what if this was my life and biggest problem. Are you telling me it should be downplayed because you feel you have bigger problems. Someone woke up hurt today. Probably because it’s Father’s Day and you can’t see your kids. Anyway happy Father’s Day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Time to throw in the towel?I hear ya. Remember love is about logic not feelings or infatuation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Time to throw in the towel?What made you marry her even though the sex had pretty much stopped? Sex is a vital part of a healthy relationship not something that should be supplemented | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Married for 6, together for 7. Wife 28) wants to divorce me (32m) because we’re incompatible.Marrying only a year after dating probably wasn’t a good idea | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 03:58 AM |
| 2 | I have tried to have a normal/good sex life with my wife, but…She was never attracted to you. I say go back and reevaluate why she was with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/23 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Are these good enough reasons for me (31M) to divorce my wife (31F)?How will this ruin her life. You would rather go on like this than to end a relationship | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | She's not in a hurry to get divorced all of the suddenHow did she pay your fees if she doesn’t work. Did you mean she used your money to pay? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Info: STBX thinks she’s getting $$$Where ? I don’t see it | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Info: STBX thinks she’s getting $$$Keep us updated on this. I too would love to see hear about her reaction. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Back child supportSome people shouldn’t be able to do adult things | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Single mom is an "equal-opportunity dater", as long as you're tall and professional.So one of the rules is telling that I can’t compliment someone’s dating profile. And please tell me how I’m whiteknighting. Boy I tell ya some of ya should take this energy and work on yourselves | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/09/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Single mom is an "equal-opportunity dater", as long as you're tall and professional.Some of these posts I don’t understand it’s like some of y’all have a distain for women in general. Nothing about her post is wrong. We all are allowed to have preferences even if they’re outrageous which in her case isn’t. Sure your preferences can be ridiculed if they are outrageous and often they are. Also just because someone is a single mother doesn’t mean they now have to take whatever is thrown their way or they can’t have standards like everyone else. I like this sub but some of you are … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/09/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | What credit score do you need to be a stepdad?She forgot to mention her qualities!! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/08/22 10:19 PM |
| 16 | Overweight mom won't "settle for some scrub".Ok I’ll nick pick something else. Just say mother of (# of kids) and leave out the adjectives. We know you think your kid is adorable, wonderful, cute etc. Also don’t understand why the profile pic has to include the kid. Honestly don’t know why kid pics have to be included at all you’re marketing yourself for dating not taking family portraits. You include that you’re a mother you don’t lead with it. Also. Always notice how most don’t mention their occupation and what makes them valuable as a p… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 43 | What happens when FemaleDatingStrategy festers on social media.I just want to know what’s the difference between women with this mindset and escorts? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/08/22 03:19 PM |
| 13 | Who wants a pregnant mom with a fucking gun tattoo?Her age say 20 but her hands say 42 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/22 03:50 PM |
| 11 | This gealtán deserves every pump and dump she gets along with the single motherhood she's destined forNot every1 with a motorcycle had a Harley. She’s correct. Also not every blonde is cute. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 5 | Friendzone Fiona makes her guy friend the stepdad to her kid, then shows her appreciation by reiterating that they're still "just friends".Wait what ? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 8 | You need to be "special as fuck" to date this single mom.Were the guy(s) she had kids by special? I would say no since she’s a single parent. I see how all these dating profiles are I’m looking for love and you gotta do all work and be special while I just sit here. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/07/22 05:50 PM |
| 27 | Short chubby girl demands a man over 6ft while offering preeeetty much nothing in return except a hefty groceries billHealth care assistant is so general | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/06/22 02:53 AM |
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