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NewbieX2/r/seduction01/07/14 02:32 PM
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I apologize if this comes off as bitter or anything like that; that's not my intention. It's just something I've noticed in the sub's culture lately that I wouldn't mind having a discussion about. It's interesting to see the complete shift of focus from outer to inner game in this sub's culture. Not long ago it used to be "It's all about the inner game", but now it seems to have shifted even further to "It's all about the inner game and if you try any of that outer game shit I'll cut you." I rea…
/r/seduction27/04/17 09:44 PM
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How did you get that from him saying he's tried the material over the years and gotten good results from it?
/r/seduction25/04/17 07:07 PM
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He says, "Figure out what you're thinking or feeling and transform it into a question or statement." If it doesn't sound interesting to you, then don't say it. That's pretty much the entire point of his post: don't get caught up in conversational trivialities.
/r/seduction16/04/17 02:15 AM
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While I agree with you, that this is a well detailed and explained approach that deserves some praise, I think you're misrepresenting the current conventional wisdom. I don't think it's that they're either interested at the start or they're not, but more that it's going to be the best use of your time to ONLY pursue those that are interested from the start. That being said, kudos to OP for providing all this content.
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:58 AM
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Nothing wrong with adapting to the times. Of course, you don't HAVE to use Snapchat to get results, but then again, you don't really HAVE to do anything. Let people do their thing.
/r/seduction28/11/16 05:33 PM
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On a related note, if you have to get someone's attention like that, tapping doesn't usually go over well. Instead, you can lightly lay the back of your hand on their shoulder or back. It's much less alarming than tapping or grabbing them.
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:08 PM
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Tall can definitely be used to your advantage. I'm black, so I know the struggle there. The most important thing to always keep in mind when you go with online dating is that you shouldn't expect anything. Nothing at all. Because that's when disappointments happen. To me, sometimes it can feel bad because you'll get rejections like you described, and you feel like you didn't get a real chance. You feel as if you had talked to her in person and got to express yourself face to face, that she would…
/r/seduction15/07/16 04:17 PM
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I won't discourage you from starting day game, because that is ultimately the best option, but I do think you should reconsider the online scene. With minimal effort, you can start getting results, and it's so easy to keep up with! Just send a message whenever you have a bit of free time or you're bored. I've actually found Tinder to be the least promising. Girls get so many matches and messages that they don't really have to invest any effort in the conversation. It used to be alright, but it's…
/r/seduction15/07/16 03:49 PM
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That's just Tinder, mate. We've all had that experience. I just swipe on their for fun now, and chat up matches I get, not expecting them to be interesting or contribute to the conversation at all. I'll send about 5 or so messages, and if they surprise me, then cool! If not, I'll just stop messaging. You just straight up cannot have any expectations when it comes to Tinder. Your best bet is to just be self-amusing. Bumble, on the other hand, has gotten me much more promising matches. The girls h…
/r/seduction01/07/16 04:33 AM
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What part of Florida did you come from? I grew up in a small town below Sarasota and the people there were pretty ok, but I've been in Tampa the past 6 years and it's a hell of a time trying to talk to a girl out here. But go 45 minutes across the bridge to St. Pete and everyone is nice as can be! Florida is strange.
/r/seduction13/06/16 04:51 PM
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I actually just came back from 3 weeks in Europe, and I fit your description of not "urban" or "ghetto". In Germany, people sometimes stare. But take this with a grain of salt. I've been working out for 8 years, so I'm pretty muscular, and it's not easy to tell if they're staring because I'm black or because I'm muscular (lifting weights isn't nearly as popular overseas as it is in America). From what I hear, German girls love black guys, and I can believe it. I couldn't really hit on any due to…
/r/seduction05/06/16 07:31 PM
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Yes! I'm in Tampa right next to USF. I've been dying to find people on the same road as me. I'm open to getting drinks most nights of the week, and I'll actually be in St. Pete today for First Friday. Send me a DM, maybe we can even get a group going between us and the Carrollwood poster down there.
/r/seduction03/06/16 12:27 PM
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I'm definitely in the second camp, but I believe it's natural to sway back and forth between them from time to time. It CAN be frustrating because of reasons you mentioned above, but you just can't be too invested in it. Outcome independence goes for online as well as in person. It's mostly pictures, but your profile itself does play a part as well. How big? Depends on which dating platform we're talking about.
/r/seduction27/04/16 03:03 PM
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I went through, and still go through, the same thing. It can be frustrating at times, but you can't take online dating too much to heart. Girls have so many options that they can afford to be as choosy as the want. That same girl that would be thrilled you approached her in real life might be on the fence enough to continue a conversation for a bit, but ultimately lose interest. They just have too many messages to sift through and I honestly believe it leads them to become less invested in the e…
/r/seduction27/04/16 02:50 PM
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I also stuck through the whole thing and this is an excellent summary. Only thing I would add is the bit he talks about guys just waiting for a green light as if to say, "OK, you can ask me out now." But the green light is her having enough interest to keep texting/messaging/whatever in the first place. And to clarify about the whole "acting quickly" thing, he mentions that the longer you stay messaging on tinder, the less likely you will be able to take that interaction off of it, either to fac…
/r/seduction14/04/16 03:29 PM
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Why couldn't you be in Tampa! :( Best of luck to you, man. I'm searching for the same thing.
/r/seduction24/02/16 03:12 AM
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Where do you live that McDonald's is $16?
/r/seduction24/01/16 03:49 PM
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First time I'm hearing it, but it seems to mean some sort of pick up artist in training. Saying "I will be a pickup artist in the future" isn't as good as "I'm on the road to being a pickup artist, and I'm actively taking steps to get there." Green PUA is basically a "budding" PUA; they're just getting started but still consider themselves on the path.
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:28 PM
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Tampa
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:17 AM
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No, it's not. From here: Wait, I thought TheRedPill was simply male self-improvement? This is a pervasive concern troll that I've been seeing a lot recently. No, the red pill is a discussion of sexual strategy. That encompasses everything related to sexual strategy. That encompasses learning game, learning about the nature of men and women, learning the nature of communication, exploiting this knowledge, and building yourself into the version of you with the highest chances of sex. Trying to ref…
/r/seduction04/09/15 08:14 PM
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I've found the exact same thing to be true. The issue is that it's just so damn convenient to use the Internet. You can do it from the toilet, from your bed, while relaxing after work. Such little effort involved. Not to mention, swiping through and through and seeing pictures of all these different girls gives you the illusion of some type of fulfilment/satisfaction as if you were actually meeting them. Approaching in real life, even though it's not, just seems to be infinitely more work. The r…
/r/seduction18/05/15 10:50 AM
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I didn't think the video was nearly as bad as others are making it out to be. I expected MUCH worse. The guy is pretty clear, concise, and seems pretty personable. He introduces his points and ideas, shows real life examples, then elaborates further. He hit a lot of points that were relevant to me, at least. Especially when he said that a lot of the times people don't give themselves permission to go after the things they want to achieve. Boy, was I guilty of that. I think he just got a lot of f…
/r/seduction25/04/15 05:06 PM
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I don't know the entire situation as well as you do, but I feel like it's not that serious. You want to know how to differentiate you from him...that's already happened; you're her boyfriend, and he's not. If you're not worried about her cheating on you, then I don't see how having a nice friend could be a problem. Showing him who's alpha in this case is going to do more harm than good, imo. There's just no point. However, if you ARE worried about her cheating, then you have a situation to take …
/r/seduction13/03/15 02:11 PM
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This is exactly what I did, and it helped tremendously. I would write a couple reminders down at a time, work at those few things throughout the week, then eventually they just became habit. So much so, that some time would pass before I see the notes again, I would look at them and think, "Well, duh...why did I even have to write this down."
/r/seduction18/08/14 07:20 PM
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Book by Mark Manson. It really is an incredible book.
/r/seduction10/07/14 09:55 PM
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The past 6 months have easily been the happiest I've ever been, and I don't think it's coincidence that I've inadvertently been cutting out a lot of the things on this list. I'm not sure if it's my new found self-confidence that came before cutting out these habits, or if it's the other way around (maybe they were simultaneous)...But I do know that as a result I now feel more comfortable than ever approaching people I don't know and striking up conversation.
/r/seduction01/07/14 02:33 PM
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I think it's more about "eye contact isn't something you should be afraid of, and here's a method to get used to it."
/r/seduction13/05/14 04:11 PM
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I think it would come off as douchebaggery if the OP is just holding a cold, blank facial expression, instead of a slight smile. However, I don't know why people are just straight up assuming he's not smiling and instead "staring people down like a douche bag".
/r/seduction13/05/14 02:23 PM
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I didn't know that the body language stuff was considered pseudoscience. I genuinely thought that video and other blog posts were good information, but I guess now I know better. Do you have any resources you can link to that you know to be verified good material?
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:26 PM
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A little acronym called FORD. Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams. I'm specifically a fan of the last two, with my favorite question to ask being, "What do you like to do for fun?" That one question can open many doors to new conversation paths. Basically, just try to get to know the girl deeper than the superficial small talk things that she feeds to everyone whilst on autopilot.
/r/seduction08/01/14 03:30 PM
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Your mind may be telling you that you're a kissless virgin, but it's only talking to you. The many girls you see out in day to day life have no idea what your past entails. You have a chance to start fresh with every new girl you meet, so take advantage of that! Other than that, it's probably best not to focus on your past in this regard. It's tough, but try not to let it eat at you. Just work on becoming the type of man you want to be and remember that new girls you meet have no idea how many g…
/r/seduction02/12/13 03:49 AM
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