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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Feel like I'm doing this all wrong and I don't know where I'm screwing up. | SEEKING ADVICE | Newtosexandmen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 12:33 AM |
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| 1 | Feel like I'm doing this all wrong and I don't know where I'm screwing up.I just want to thank everyone. This thread has been WOW eye opening. Even a few days later I feel so much better. I've whittled down my dating app guys to the essential men that fit my criteria and I'm cutting them off at the first red flag I see. Already seems I'm talking to more quality men... Now to employ this stuff in real life. I have a date tonite with a guy who's actually been gunning for me for a couple weeks and acting like he should. Hopefully it carries over to real life but if it do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I'm doing this all wrong and I don't know where I'm screwing up.Oh man, I have gone on a similar number of dates. Probably like 75 in the past 3 years or so. No relationships have sprung from it though. I think honestly like the first 1.5 years was me seeking a relationship but also getting a lot of validation on more shallow levels. That was ok for a while but I'm over it now. I think after sleeping with the same person for a decade I just needed to know I was still on a physical level, desirable. Classic trap I know but... I needed it at the time. I think … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Feel like I'm doing this all wrong and I don't know where I'm screwing up.You guys are all like the best big sisters a girl could have. All this advice is so good and I honestly feel validated by the responses here despite making a lot of mistakes with men. Slowly but surely making less as I figure them out but I'd like to get to none. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 07:20 AM |
| 10 | Feel like I'm doing this all wrong and I don't know where I'm screwing up.Thank you thank you thank you lol. I feel like I should know way more of this at my age. It's honestly kind of embarrassing. If I was in my 20s my self esteem would probably be zero at this point but I'm glad I'm a little older and going through it. Seems that I'm just making moves at the wrong times and giving up a little too much. The fact that my theory, which is that it can't just be me and that 98% of men are trash is sadly correct... Sucks. But thank God for this sub, it's amazing and has … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Feel like I'm doing this all wrong and I don't know where I'm screwing up.Thanks so much. This is all amazing advice. I don't know that I've ever been trashy sexy... I just tend to carry myself very well, and I look really confident, and from what I've been told intimidating partially because it was sexy, and partially because I just seem deliberate in the way I move... I have no idea, I just do me lol. My fishnet, club days, booty shorts, etc are longggggg over and gone lol. I will be paying more attention to it though for sure based on what you said, I think it's a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 02:38 AM |
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