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NewtypeJ/r/seduction21/08/19 11:47 PM
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NewtypeJ/r/seduction01/09/19 01:35 AM
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Instead of having sex, get out of your parent’s house and get a car. I'm gonna take a wild guess and say you're a guy. No girl wants a guy who lives with his parents.
/r/seduction16/01/20 03:31 PM
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I have mixed feelings about this but the simple answer is to put it in perspective. You in the middle of a set and some girl comes over to talk to you. You know she's there just to ask you out but you're really just thinking about how heavy the weight is and how big you're going to be. If what the girl did seems wrong, then no it's not ok. If you'd be ok with it, then go ahead and try. Just don't go in the middle of her set.
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:46 PM
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Yes I’ll fix that now
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:20 PM
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The fun part about karaoke is laughing because you can’t sing well. It won’t be bad, just less fun.
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:19 PM
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Karaoke is always fun unless she can actually sing well. If you two have similar tastes in music, it’ll be even better.
/r/seduction24/12/19 03:38 PM
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No and you really don’t have to regret that anyway. Besides that, I think it’s ok to date someone even though you feel there’s someone better. I’m not saying to settle but if you like them enough to regret dating them, then it’s worth it. Too bad the “one” doesn’t exist. If it did, there would be an equal number of people at all times. I mean really, think about it. There would be an equal number of men and women if that was the case. There’s other reasons why but that’s the thought I bring up w…
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:19 PM
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Right, there will be some women that just won’t give you the time of day. Everyone, even the so called pros get that. I have a friend who could be defined as a natural and he’s the epitome of male attraction. Basically, he’s a male 10. He’s never studied game because he doesn’t need it. Beautiful women throw themselves at him now that he’s newly divorced. He still gets rejected. Rarely, but it happens. Girls will be into you if you put in effort. I recently went out for a business trip and my co…
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:40 PM
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I kind of agree, this sounds like a pick up line and pick up lines are hit or miss. I don’t suggest them but they’ve worked for me on the past with various results. You’re right about her being attracted to the guy, obviously that helps but that’s on the guy to make himself more attractive. It’s possible for anyone. I notice that the guys that usually say game doesn’t work aren’t willing to put in the effort to improve themselves.
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:17 PM
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Then you’re good, go for it
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:25 PM
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You don’t, easier to find someone new the recover something old.
/r/seduction11/12/19 10:23 AM
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So, as a guy who wants to be single for life, yes. Even though I slowed down 2 years ago, yes I still flirt with women when I get the chance to. I occasionally get numbers if I feel she’s worth it and after a quick screen, I start up a casual relationship. I think now that I’m not in the game like I used to be I’m naturally more closed off but I’m still young. How do I act around the opposite sex, I act like myself. Calm, confident, and capable. I don’t put to much attention on the pick-up nor d…
/r/seduction11/12/19 10:23 AM
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First of all, you have to ask a girl for a date. Don’t say, “Let’s hang out”, after not setting the tone that you’re interested. That’s not being honest. It sounds weird to say be interested but be aloof but I think a better way of explaining it is, just be honest. When I meet a girl, from our initial conversation I let her know that I am a hetero male with working genitalia. Asking her out, I generally get her number and then I’ll text her, “I want to take you out sometime” just phrasing it dif…
/r/seduction11/12/19 10:09 AM
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Structured, and for a silly reason. Looking back, I feel cooler thinking that I saw this girl, did certain things, and now we’re together. Natural game is nice but I haven’t relied on it since my freshman year of college. (9 years ago.)
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:46 AM
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This is great.
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:42 AM
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If she’s coming over to watch Netflix, you’re not watching anything. Make sure you have a comfortable couch, condoms, and tissues. Pick the worst Adam Sandler movie possible.
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:40 AM
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Dafuq? Dang it, school is more important than you. She obviously felt bad and was just trying to get work done. If you try and punish her I wouldn’t be surprised if she leaves you.
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:37 AM
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I’ve said so many things to this. When I was younger, I used to hear this all the time. So here are some that have worked: “That’s perfect, I was looking for a girl that would dump her boyfriend for me” She asked me if I came up with that myself, I said yes. We hooked up after 2 dates. “I have a gold fish, sorry I thought we were talking about stuff that didn’t matter” “It’s not healthy to start a relationship with lies” take her hand “But I have something he doesn’t have” “You” This was in resp…
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:34 AM
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Yikes to that other thread but yea, don’t. She’s your friend, which means she friend zoned you, which means she won’t sleep with you. If you wanted to sleep with her, you’re 4 years to late.
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:24 AM
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Don’t sleep with people you work with, it’s bad juju
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:22 AM
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If you just met her, she gave you her number and you sent her a text a couple of days ago and she never responded. I think that’s correct, move on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:21 AM
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Awww young love. Dating in high school is so much easier than as an adult, especially if you have money and a means of transportation. So to start, stop texting her so much. You don’t even have to tell me and I know you’re texting her all the time. So go, about a day and half without texting her. If you see her at school, this can be an issue so do it over the weekend. What you’re doing is called ghosting. This will give her a break from you and give her time to think about if she really likes y…
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:19 AM
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First, admitting that you sell drugs on the internet is never a good idea. Now, this isn’t as easy for some people as you think. If you can’t do it naturally, good, that means you’re more normal. Sleeping with different women and not dating is normal, but sleeping with women with no emotional attachment is the behavior of a psychopath. You’re clearly not a psychopath otherwise you’d have no problem just sleeping with women. Congrats.
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:58 AM
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Google.
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:53 AM
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Or the alternative, she’s a narcissist who has to always be right. Tread carefully.
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:52 AM
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I respect you for not wanting to lower your standards. Though I think a lot of guys, myself included at one point, have an unrealistic view of women. We dream of these beautiful women that are loving, caring, intelligent, and skilled (they can cook), but that’s just not the case. Not saying that women can be any of these things because they can. To be honest, your ideal partner was a little vague, but I’ve answered a question like this before so I’ll answer it the same way here. Don’t expect a w…
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:51 AM
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First, @Silent-Raid, I actually made an attempt to finish that book after my mentor years ago gave it to me. I think I remember what you were talking about but I feel like it was worded differently. Second, @OP, there isn’t much of a difference between their behavior. I’ve noticed girls that get hit on a lot more are more experienced and are more quick to weed out guys if their game is bad vs average girls who will reject you because they can. Attractive girls are much less selective. In other w…
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:34 AM
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Yes working on my bike is a hobby of mine and I put quite a large sum of money into it. Lifestyle game is just what I call it. It might have a different name. Basically have a life and have other passions besides pursuing women. I responded to a post the other day about having things to keep the conversation going and this is what I’m talking about. Having a solid life outside of game/pick-up/dating. I have other passions where I devote my time. As a man, our time is valuable. Women on average h…
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:15 AM
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Yes. Simple as that. Women are priority #7 for me. Things I care about more... My life, my family, my career, my financial success, my condo, and my bike, in no particular order. I notice that being like this naturally makes me more attractive. In other words, have a life. Lifestyle game is more attractive than anything else.
/r/seduction10/12/19 04:04 PM
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It helps. It is almost as useful as having confidence. It helps build confidence. I say that every male should work out for health reasons. You'll live longer, you'll feel better overall, and sex is way better when both of you are in shape. I wasn't fat as a child but I really wasn't in shape until my 9th grade year of high school where I started running and doing calisthenics (push-ups, sit-ups, pull-ups, etc). In my junior year, I started weightlifting. When I was 18 I took fitness seriously w…
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:58 AM
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If you're not having fun with game, you're doing it wrong. It's supposed to be a fun, enjoyable experience for you and it's attractive to her. If she sees you're enjoying yourself, you'll naturally give off an energy that she will recognize and be more willing to continue a relationship with you. To be honest, I've gotten so good at faking this to where most women can't tell. Occasionally I meet someone who I actually have fun talking to. Most of the time people associate game with fear of appro…
/r/seduction07/12/19 07:04 PM
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I think to get back in the game after a dry spell is a lot harder than a newbie starting up, so don't get too frustrated over one failed approach. To start off, it doesn't matter how you open if you see the girl(s) is/are interested in you. I say this but use common sense, don't be creepy. I once saw a girl at this hipster restaurant close to the local college, that was checking me out. I also noticed she was trying to eat really healthy except for her drink (an energy drink), so I approached he…
/r/seduction07/12/19 05:45 PM
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You're right, most women don't want to take care of a grown man, but the story is true. Oh and you're right, I've never touched a woman in my entire life. 25 years and I've never touched a single woman. Everybody feel bad for me, please!
/r/seduction06/12/19 11:42 AM
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Hahaha... Nah not true. I heard a story about a homeless guy who went around picking up high-quality women who would let him stay with them. They would cook for him, give him money, buy him stuff. He was completely broke, had nothing going for him except his game. That's probably why it was so on point because he survived off of it.
/r/seduction06/12/19 11:28 AM
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Hahaha, I wish. Sadly I'm about 170 cm and balding. I work out, eat right, and I don't smoke or vape. That last bit really helps.
/r/seduction05/12/19 11:24 PM
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Hahaha, this is great. I don't think it matters what the person looks like as long as the advice is good. I'm glad I don't look like that guy though.
/r/seduction05/12/19 09:36 PM
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Basically what Joshd_47 said. It's not a bad thing, I generally do the same thing after I get out of LTRs.
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:59 AM
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It sounds like problem is not that you're unable to talk to women, it sounds like you're just not interested in the moment. It's called monk mode and it's perfectly normal. Do your soul searching because women will always be there.
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:31 AM
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Kino is the best and easiest way to build sexual tension. Some steps of kino, start with something light like a high five or an extended handshake. The latter works for the most part but I've noticed some negative results from some self-test I've done. If you don't know what that is, watch any PUA and you'll see them start to shake a girl’s hand and continue to hold on to it. As far as actually building sexual tension, you must make sure you have attraction and comfort first. If you don't, she w…
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:50 PM
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Congrats on being good at the hardest part - opening. That takes a lot of guys a long time to be able to do. The trick to what I call fluff consists of three elements, communicating interest, negging, and progression. A common question to start off with after your opening is: What are you doing right now? Finding out what going on in her life right at that moment will help you determine if you gave to speed up the interaction or if you can take her on the ”legendary instadate”. Keep in mind, thi…
/r/seduction04/12/19 08:38 AM
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There’s no need in trying to be coy or seem standoffish as they will see right through. Women are better socially than men. They can read subtle cues which is why they can tell a guy likes them, whether they want to acknowledge it or not is something way different. Now, this doesn't mean text her every day with emojis and other feminine stuff (you can probably imagine what I'm talking about). Sometime in the middle of your break, text her (later in the evening) saying that you thought about her …
/r/seduction01/12/19 03:38 AM
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Continuing from earlier, girls like sex too and the context matters more than anything. If you are giving with a girl and the situation is right, go ahead and say it. I while ago I was on a date with a girl and I showed her a picture of my puppy. She tried to grab my phone from me after squealing that my dog is really cute. I reacted quickly and put my phone between my legs, unlocked of course. She grabbed it anyway and brushed my d**k on the way down. I laughed and sarcastically pointed out tha…
/r/seduction30/11/19 08:03 PM
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Who hurt you? Seriously, I don't know anything about coaching or boot camp as I've never done one. Having money and social status does help, I'll give you that, but you don't need a lot of it to be successful. Actually, I know what you're saying is wrong because I'm about 170 cm, balding, I'm 25 years old but I work out a lot. I don't have abs though (it’s bulking season). It's alright though, with that mindset, you'll do what's possible and pick up 4s and 5s. I mean, if I was you, I'd do the sa…
/r/seduction30/11/19 02:50 PM
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It’s interesting to me that you pity her for being what you define as unattractive. Let me tell you that a female 2 will get more guys than a male 9 could ever get. It’s almost a system of supply and demand in a way. I recently met some girls while I was waiting for my Uber. One of the girls approached me and said “Hi”. I guess she recognized me from work as she works in the office next to me. We started up a conversation and her equally unattractive friend asked me to go out to eat with them. I…
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:10 AM
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Physical bonding or escalation.
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:38 AM
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I personally like it to a certain extent. It provides some fun. Just the mistake I’ve seen girls make is that they become too hard to get and they kill their chances with great guys. PUAs everywhere will tell you that girls take a serious chance when they get with a guy, but the fact of the matter is that guys take an almost equal chance. We have what I call: Dating Investment, this is why so many will say that they hate when a girl plays hard to get. Dating investment means that as men we are r…
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:35 AM
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I like this one because I’m definitely an introvert. I let myself treat it like it’s a social experiment of some kind. I am an intelligent scientist doing research into the world of PUA. That way my curiosity overrides my introversion. I also fluff a lot when talking to women, as in, make up some exaggerated details for the sake of lightening the mood. Really it’s just me keeping my own privacy. Note these lies aren’t about major things, it’s more in a joking manner about small things that won’t…
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:08 AM
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Yea sorry there’s nothing detailed but if you can pull 7s you can pull 10s. It’s just a matter of how much you want it.
/r/seduction25/11/19 10:35 PM
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Go after 9s and 10s more. Just do it.
/r/seduction25/11/19 10:34 PM
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So... if I ask a girl to Netflix and ice cream and the vibe is right, she generally knows it’s about to go down. Adam Sandler movies are the best movies for Netflix and chill, that or adult cartoons (Big Mouth, Bojack Horseman). Never watch anything good. One time I smooshed to 2 1/2 episodes of Black Mirror. The key is to get the vibe right, otherwise she’ll show up and question you when you try to make a move. How to initiate it? KINO! Kino is the way to initiate the chill part. There’s not re…
/r/seduction25/11/19 10:33 PM
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Alright alright no need to get all bent out of shape. But for real that’s the best way to learn some stuff without watching weird guides.
/r/seduction25/11/19 10:25 PM
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Step 1. Go on a computer Step 2. Go to a website called Pornhub Step 3. Continue reading this post Step 4. Type in the search bar “Passion-HD” Step 5. Watch videos for actual education purposes Step 6. Don’t pretend to be a girl...
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:58 PM
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So I agree with some of this and disagree with some of this. You’re right when you say it gets girls out of your league. I don’t like to admit that girls are out of my league but I know what you mean... attractive women is much better, your 8s and 9s. Don’t try and seem cool and don’t waste time with desperate girls is also great advice. Respect is important, but honesty is more important. The first half had me. Where I disagree... NEVER buy a girl a drink, if she’s into you, she’ll buy you drin…
/r/seduction24/11/19 04:08 PM
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Totally agree with superbad4life, that’s the main thing I tell guys. The main purpose is to have fun, then pull. I can thing of rejections I’ve received. I still to this day laugh about fun interactions with women more than I brag about times I’ve slept with them. Most (me included) start off thinking it’s all about sleeping with as many 9s as possible or meeting the one, but it really is just about enjoying every interaction. A story: I’ve approached and had success with many lesbians throughou…
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:21 AM
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Tinder isn’t a place to meet women for relationships. If you didn’t sleep with her on the first date, you’re using it wrong. Sounds harsh but it’s true. What you should do is... move on and don’t catch oneitis. You went on one date, that doesn’t mean you have to completely loyal to her as I can guarantee she has no interest in doing that to you, especially since she’s not making time for you. It’s good you had fun but going forward, work on yourself as well. It will make you more attractive, you…
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:00 AM
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So, short answer, yes. I go out alone most of the time and pulling girls is just as easy as when you have a friend. My response to girls that ask me where my friends are is something along the lines of “They were being boring and just didn’t want to come out” or “I’m new to the area”. The latter is also a great conversation starter because it allows her to suggest potential date spots. The whole thing, whether you have friends or not is confidence. Generally when I go to the bar alone and it’s n…
/r/seduction23/11/19 07:59 PM
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Hahaha 25 M I remember those. No one was dancing, they just jumped up and down and made a mosh pit. No need to know how to dance (even though it's useful to learn, a lot of books suggest taking acting classes but I suggest dance lessons, you learn a new useful skill, you be in shape, and you'll get somewhat I'm used to the exposure and build confidence). I knew a friend who used to dress... flamboyant. He had everyone’s full attention anytime we went out. Women approached him constantly about hi…
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:33 AM
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Don't come on to drunk girls.
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:27 AM
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Hahaha I love this because I’ve been on both sides, cockblocker and the cockblocked. I’ve handled cockblocks in a few ways. The easiest and most effective is just by keeping your frame stronger than his. Control the conversation physically and socially. In other words, if you ask for an opinion, listen to his but don’t truly acknowledge it. You can tell where someone has their focus by their feet. The goal is to be positioned where her feet and yours are pointed at each other and his are not in …
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:26 AM
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I don’t really go to parties but I can’t imagine nightclubs would be much different. So... 1. Lock eyes and smile confidently 2. Approach her and comment on something genuine (When I started, I commented on something around that’s actually interesting. Now I comment on clothes, accessories, eyes, etc. just not on hair) 3. Give her a fake time constraint and begin to fluff. Insert slight dirty humor into fluff, this is your time to neg and control the interaction. If you fail this, she’ll get bor…
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:11 AM
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Good job being able to identify your insecurities and trying to fix them. I can’t recommend any books for you as I really can’t think of any that would really help. What I can give is advice. Be strong in yourself. Know who you are. Don’t fret the small stuff. I personally see nothing really stopping you from accomplishing whatever seduction goals you have. Confidence in who you are and what you’re capable of is a lot more attractive than someone who worries over things. Spontaneous sex is fun a…
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:51 PM
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Direct approaches are pretty natural lol. On a more serious note, it sounds like she wants a Disney Channel/Hallmark/Nicholas Sparks romance to form out of you two spending time together. If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my 25 years of existence, and 9 years of really dating/having sex with women, pussy isn’t worth waiting for. Trying to imitate some fake romance isn’t going to end well for either party for reasons that should be more obvious. I can think of a girl I know who was the same wa…
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:40 PM
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F
/r/seduction30/09/19 04:34 AM
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Well, first I must say that it's easier to learn from your error and find someone new rather than fix something old. You can still pursue her if you want but I guarantee you you can meet someone else just as good if you go out and pay attention. Secondly, this is why some guys believe negging doesn't work, because they overdo it. I know because I did the same thing. I was confident and I felt like I was a prized and I would focus on negs a little too much. Her trying to follow you on Instagram w…
/r/seduction08/09/19 09:49 AM
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You'd be surprised. Just try it. What do you have to lose?
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:05 AM
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What the fuck?
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:05 AM
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Yea but that's friends and family, you're not trying to sleep them.
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:04 AM
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NEVER COMPLIMENT A GIRL UNTIL SHE EARNS IT!! Sorry for yelling but this is key. To tell you why I'll let you in on the last time a girl tried to game me. I was standing in the line at my favorite fast food place, Zaxby’s, trying to read the menu. A girl in front of me who I wasn't attracted to turns around and looks at me for half a second then turns away. I didn't think too much about it because I wasn't into her. After 10 minutes or so of standing behind her in line, she turns around and says …
/r/seduction03/09/19 03:12 AM
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Tis true, I do this on Tinder, works a good 95% of the time
/r/seduction03/09/19 03:01 AM
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Grand Theft Auto, I live that game? Michael’s my fucking hero!!!
/r/seduction03/09/19 03:00 AM
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The trick to being a better kisser is in 3 steps. Have fun Be passionate Find a female friend that's better than you at kissing and kiss them. Trust me, it sounds weird but I've kissed multiple female friends without any kind of seriousness. We just accept that we’re friends it will stay like that. They've also made great wing women. I was lucky to have found that when I was a teenager in high school, I think I was around 16, but there was a girl I used to smoke with and we would just make out n…
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:59 AM
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Dafuq?!?!
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:53 AM
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Wow this was my last LTR except the woman was about 10 years younger and I was 20-21 at the time. Point is this definitely hit home. I was the youngest guy she had been with but she was really attracted to my confidence and my bedroom skills. To answer one part, always talk about shit in person. If you fuck up, you can hug her and fix it and texts can be misconstrued. It's 2019, no one calls anymore. Anyway we met, I took her out for my usual inactive first date (ice cream) and paid like usual. …
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:53 AM
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Sounds like he likes you, invite him out for coffee or something and kino it up.
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:34 AM
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God all of the metric, it's a good thing math is my suit. But anyway, on to the advice. Dick size doesn't matter. I've had 1 out of the many many women I've slept with say the sex was bad because my dick was too small. I don't know maybe she was expecting a 10 incher or something. Clearly, I don't use metric. It really is about how you use it but if you want some genuine help. Try this stuff called L-Arginine you can get it at any health store. Before you freak out, this works 100%. It won't add…
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:32 AM
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Hahaha, oneitis is great, I remember my first high school girlfriend. You don't love her, guarantee it. You're too young for that and anyone who tells you otherwise is a fool who's destined to be divorced by their early twenties. If she's the only girl, you've slept with, try another one and try and think of a difference between the two of them. It sounds misogynistic but it's pretty straight forward, don't get caught in the mindset that one girl is miles better than another. I don't believe the…
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:23 AM
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I'm not fat, but I am short. Seems like you use metric so I'll comply. I'm about 173 cm. I strongly suggest you get comfortable with yourself before you start trying to attract others. By this, I mean lose the weight and find things that motivate you in life (besides women of course). The key thing to remember is: YOU DON’T NEED WOMEN TO BE HAPPY. True happiness comes from fulfillment and fulfillment comes from accomplishing goals. Learn to embrace the struggle and have fun, then work on inner g…
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:16 AM
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Step 1. Fuck her right in the pussy!! Edit: Ok, no bad jokes but seriously, she's into you. No need to make it harder on yourself. I tell people in here the most important part of game is having fun and enjoying playing the game. This will cover your ass way more than any inner game and I had to learn that year's ago when I first started. I was working, going to school, and working out. I thought I was hot shit but I wasn't pulling the girls I really wanted 9s and 10s, it was more like 7s. I rea…
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:10 AM
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It's cheesy but I did this before I got really comfortable talking to women in a day game setting, especially when they're walking. Think of this, they have no reason to stop so you can either follow alongside them, this works if you're attractive or you can stop them in their tracks with ”Hey, you dropped something”, they will then stop and look around. From here: ”I just wanted to talk to you” notice how this is nice but not a compliment. At this point, the conversation is initiated and you ca…
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:03 AM
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Yea, make it something you find fun and invite her. Recently I decided to try this by inviting a girl to a kickboxing class. It took the stress off of me to try and sleep with her on the first date, she was in shape so she actually enjoyed it, and I got a second and third date out of it. I find that I tend to get bored with dates because its the same thing with different women 2 to 3 times a week. Doing something that you enjoy or you needed to do anyway will make it so you don't waste your time…
/r/seduction03/09/19 01:54 AM
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Ha hell yeah, I hear it's supposed to affect it and tbh it's affected me a little, in good and bad ways. Some girls really just don't like black guys and they will never, no matter how good your game is, date a black guy. Those girls are so few in number and generally, they're not attractive anyway so I tend to ignore them. The point is, it doesn't matter!! If she doesn't like black guys cool, she might like you she might not if she doesn't, move on to someone better than her. She wasn't worth y…
/r/seduction02/09/19 10:04 PM
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I totally agree with Knightgod1177 and Kind of agree with Motionindocean. Game is possible for anyone, I'm not a natural but I can still go out and ignore all my doubts. I'm decent looking but let’s be honest I'm short and balding but I work out so that kind of makes up for it and get my clothes tailored properly so that kind of makes up for it. If you're gonna tell yourself you not fit to be somewhere then the people there will think you're not fit to be there too. You already shot yourself in …
/r/seduction01/09/19 08:54 PM
1

She told me she had a boyfriend before we kissed the first time. You’re probably right. Oh well it was still a fun free night, she bought all of my drinks.
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:09 AM
1

I was definitely more fucked up than she was but no, she wasn’t slurring or falling over so I’m gonna go with no.
/r/seduction01/09/19 03:06 AM
1

That’s what I thought, even my wing thought I was gonna sleep with her that night. We have this game where whoever pulls that night, the other has to pay for the Uber. She mentioned she had a boyfriend at one point but she still straddled me while I was sitting at a table and we made out so I don’t think that was an issue. She definitely didn’t friend zone me. She had two male orbiters but my wing took care of it. I really can’t find out what happened. I think it just didn’t work. That night low…
/r/seduction01/09/19 02:59 AM
1

Dang... good luck finding love on Tinder hahaha
/r/seduction01/09/19 01:25 AM
1

Yes, colleges are huge though. Hitting on girls at your college is like hitting on girls in a new city cause you’ll never see the same person twice. The thing about getting rejected is that it’s a learning experience, learn from it so it doesn’t happen again.
/r/seduction31/08/19 11:04 AM
3

Exactly why I tell everyone, just have fun
/r/seduction29/08/19 07:42 PM
-3

It was filled with SJWs and beta males.
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:02 AM
1

I guarantee you that any college you go to has some of the most beautiful women you will ever meet. Girl 1 - Ride or die main girl (This is the ”one”) Girl 2 - She thinks she's girl 1 Girl 3 - She could be 1 or 2 but there's something wrong with her Girl 4 - She’s less attractive then girls 1-3 but she has redeeming qualities (She nice or she can cook) Girl 5 -FWB
/r/seduction26/08/19 12:27 AM
3

I agree with this as well. At first, I thought it would be gay, and it was, but it really teaches you how to emote and express properly. It also helps with confidence.
/r/seduction25/08/19 11:27 PM
2

Sounds perfect, I would just keep her on the back burner, like a #6. #5 is the girl you hook up with when 1-4 are busy. #6 is the ”Hey, I'm back, wanna smash?” girl. Good thing you're not catching oneitis, keep up the good work and happy hunting.
/r/seduction25/08/19 11:26 PM
1

Sorry OP, to this day I look back to that loss and cry. Just kidding, there were tons of small things that could have made it go wrong but in the end I took my lessons and have very successfully moved on. If you really want to know... 1. Never lie to impress a woman (fluff and lying are different) Make sure the first date is cheap (I think as a man, you SHOULD ALWAYS pay for the first date. Make sure the date is cheap to avoid spending $100 at a fancy Japanese restaurant and not close) now when …
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:28 AM
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Depends, you can really do whatever you want. Date her, FWB, drop her. Just don’t get postcoital oneitis or abuse her emotionally and you’re good. Now if she starts giving you the cold shoulder, that means the pick up was fucked up and she’s having regrets. Confront her about it, if she still does the same thing, drop her and move on.
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:29 PM
1

Things are starting to make a lot more sense. Your tastes are your tastes. I just want to point out there’s a difference between a good guy and nice guy. A good guy is honest about his intentions and comfortable in his sexuality and testosterone. They don’t shy away from conflict and the pursuit of women is fun for them. They are confident and focused and generally more successful. This isn’t saying they aren’t emotional, but they let their emotions drive them to success. Nice guys don’t do that…
/r/seduction24/08/19 06:42 PM
1

Women opening with compliments would have a better success rate then men doing the same to women so that should work. Although I must point out, the majority of women don’t want a herbivorous man. Most don’t want to be the one pursuing and if you prefer it over having men approach you, you’re definitely the minority. That’s not a bad thing. I agree with you when you say men and women can be creepy. Actually I tend to find more male creeps than their counterpart, so that’s a thing. I think there’…
/r/seduction24/08/19 04:37 PM
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Getting hit on by a girl is weird. They come at you in the most sexual way possible, I mean, that’s probably because they don’t know game, but I’m fine with it staying that way (not sexist, just old fashioned). I’m sure there are plenty of guys on here and some girls apparently that will agree. I remember going out to a gay bar a little while ago, for guys that have never been, grab your wing or lesbian friend and go. You will get so many women so easily, especially if you’re in shape. Anyway, w…
/r/seduction24/08/19 11:43 AM
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What’s wrong with pure game to fuck?
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:45 PM
9

Females don’t need game. It can help for them to know how to flirt but being a female is easier. You can just sit there and get hit on by guys and then pick which one you want.
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:40 PM
1

Ah yea just noticed that. Hahaha thanks
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:05 PM
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I’m noticing a lot more females on this subreddit, what’s up with that? It’s not bad, it’s just different.
/r/seduction23/08/19 05:52 PM
8

What kind of adult would I be if I bought a little girl a drink?
/r/seduction23/08/19 03:22 PM
1

Agh... I have to go but I saw this post and I used to say the same stuff when I enter college. Alright, how to deal with roommates, if they’re guys, go ahead and tell them confidently. Who gives a fuck what they think. Tell them “I’m going out to meet and fuck beautiful women. Eventually I’m going to meet one, we’re gonna have 10 kids named Pablo and we’re going to run away to Mexico together and live happily ever after.”, or something like that. The point is, no one cares and as you get better …
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:30 AM
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The easiest way is prostitutes. After that is Tinder. Then game and unless you’re one of the world size handfuls of Naturals, then it won’t really be easy.m, unless you don’t mind sleeping with ugly women. That’s about as easy as Tinder.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:00 AM
2

Happy hunting brother.
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:58 AM
0

Uh don’t use viagra and penis size doesn’t matter. Out of the countless women I’ve slept, I met one that called me small. I don’t know, maybe she thought because I’m black I’d have a 13 incher. Well it doesn’t matter, I still smashed, I still made her cum, and then I dumped her hard after round 2. For the next year she pursued me harder than any girl has ever chased me. Penis size doesn’t matter, it really is how you use it. Although, if you want to give yourself that extra... half an inch natur…
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:57 AM
2

What ilikepie145 said. Some girls will offer their number to you, these include but are are not inclusive to milfs, hoes (a hoe is a girl who gives up sex without any investment from the guy), and ugly girls (the key thing I’ve found here is that ugly girls that think they’re hot do this).
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:48 AM
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I love this one. I used to think the same way as what a majority of people used to say, “Don’t hit on girls while they’re working”. Sounds right doesn’t it, sure you missed your opportunity with, as Mystery called them, a Hired Gun but whatever. This is sooooo wrong. Lucky for you, Hired gun game is just like regular game except the woman is guaranteed to be way more attractive. The first step is to get out of the mindset that if a woman is being nice to you she likes you. This actually applies …
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:39 AM
1

Yo, I just finished the first season, I love that show.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:05 PM
6

Fuck it, it’s definitely different, treat it like a physical date (i.e. bowling, etc.) and escalate when you can.
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:12 PM
36

Or putting furniture together means sex, like when I say “come over and Netflix and ice cream”
/r/seduction22/08/19 03:36 PM
6

Ah yes, the beginning phases, I told someone else this today as well, you remind me of me from 5 years ago. Approach anxiety never goes away, ever. I’ve been actively approaching women for over 5 years and I’ve liked girls for 14 years now. It’s how you deal with it, when I first started, I would see a girl and approach her in the first 3 seconds, any longer and I was too late. My main focus is daygame, it’s what I do the best so I can share some of my experience. I started with the 100 women tr…
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:17 AM
1

No problem brother, just trying to keep it real. Happy hunting.
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:56 AM
1

That’s the whole point of game, don’t let anyone know you’re hitting on the girl at first, not gonna lie, I can preach it but even I still fail at this sometimes. I mean, it’s easy to do in a club where everyone is willing to accept a fun, outgoing person no matter who he is, unless it’s the girl’s boyfriend (Good times...). In a normal daytime setting with a lot less alcohol and grinding, I’d hope, this is a matter of balancing the hobby at hand and not just turning into another guy. I don’t kn…
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:54 AM
1

To answer you for advice purposes, invite her out to do something you want to do that’s physical. Physical dates are alway more successful (bowling, arcades, etc) than non-physical (movies, dinner). Never invite a girl to the movies for a first date actually, you can probably guess why, unless you intend to make out the entire time, then do invite a girl to the movies (at your place). Don’t be awkward about it, tell her what you want her to do and if she’s on the edge about it, tease her (My go …
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:36 AM
1

First, I want to agree with you, meeting someone just for sex is bad. I also want conversation and the occasional dinner cooked for me as well ha. Second, depends on where you’re looking, I guarantee you you’ll never find a high quality woman in a bar or club because they’re low key there for the same reason you are. If she is as high quality as you say she is and this isn’t just a case of oneitis, then message her. Just saying, high quality women are everywhere, you just have to screen out the …
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:20 AM
1

Getting fit will help your confidence, which in turn will help you with women. Also being fit is a sign of high survival value and that you just give a shit about yourself. I hate to ask for likes but I really want this message to be seen. I was just mentoring someone on this subreddit earlier and I know there are plenty others like him. I want them to get this message.
/r/seduction22/08/19 12:26 AM
1

Smoothest and Ntips011 are geniuses, everything they’re saying is true, especially what Smoothmax says. Gaming a group is hard, especially a mixed group due to the fact you can have competitors and if their frame is stronger than your’s, you’ll come off as a beta. Your best bet is to get her number, then ask her out over the phone. If she brings up guys from the group, change the subject because as I said, potential competitors.
/r/seduction22/08/19 12:23 AM
1

I’ll make this simple. Investment = Sex. You give investment and don’t get sex, you’re an orbiter. You don’t give investment and she gives you sex, she’s a hoe (you might get labeled as a player, but fuck it that’s what we’re here for) Relationships are a very simple give and take.
/r/seduction22/08/19 12:18 AM
2

Hahaha I can’t help but laugh when I read this, it’s weird to me to have this convo over text. Really if it we’re me I would have fucked up and part of this would have gone to my mom or something.... but that’s besides the point. Unless it’s tinder or she’s a hoe, don’t do this. If any of the prior apply, go ahead have fun with it, don’t text your mom on accident.
/r/seduction22/08/19 12:15 AM
2

Work out Find a hobby Apply the rules: •You are the prize, act like it •Never let a woman be in charge of birth control •All rejection, bad relationships, and losses are learning experiences •Have fun •Never tell how many girls you’ve slept with, honestly or dishonestly •Never settle, resort back to first bullet •Girls want investment, guys want sex. Girls will you sex to get investment, don’t get trapped.
/r/seduction22/08/19 12:04 AM
2

The funny thing about that is and it pisses me off to no end, you have to be in charge of almost all escalation in the beginning. If the convo goes south, the girl will think it’s your fault, blame you, and go get another guy. I won’t tell you exactly what I say because it won’t be natural to you but I generally do day game so I comment on something in the area we’re both looking at, I’ll tease her if I notice she’s picking up something (follow this with a neg, I swear this works 90% of the time…
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:32 PM
2

You don’t, find someone new. It’s easier to start something new than reconnect with something old. P***y isn’t special.
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:14 PM
3

Completely normal, I pulled a girl that works in the same building as me. Long story short we got back to my place after coffee to do the dirty and... nothing. I concluded the reason was that I had stayed up late the night before (tired) drinking with some friends and gaming out in town (alcohol) and I woke up late with a terrible hangover and was almost an hour late to our date (stress). In the end, we don’t really talk and when we see each other we greet cordially and go our separate ways. I t…
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:12 PM
2

First of all, glad the short guys are getting some success, as a fellow short man (5’7) I congratulate you. I find that giving my number to girls has rarely lead to success, in the initial stages, a girl has no reason to invest in you and she probably has multiple guys hitting on her everyday, whether she’s attractive or not. The only way to be successful with that is to kill your first approach and how do you know you did that, she will ask you for your number and show an eagerness to talk to y…
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:06 PM
1

OP, advice for you going into the future, game is fun, you are where I was 5 years ago. It gets easier, approach anxiety never goes away, and remember to always have fun with it. Having genuine fun is more important than any 9/10 and you’ll look more attractive that way. If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, she rarely does. It’s usually a rejection and sometimes a shit test, I’ve seen all three outcomes and I’ve been successful with all of them at least once. Girls with real boyfriends are i…
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:48 PM
1

Funny I recently heard girls talking about this, Girl A was telling Girl B to say this to some guy if she wasn’t interested. I then watched as the first guy tried to hit on her with “You’re so beautiful, date me” and she used the advice perfectly, guys women don’t have boyfriends and even if they do, you can and should be better than them so you can get the girls you want.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:40 PM
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Another one realizes how it works, good job, really.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:34 PM
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Hahaha someone gets it, you my friend are a man of culture. Keep doing great things and happy hunting.
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:15 PM
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No one really, I’ve always been the other guy.
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:10 AM
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The sad case is, there latter is true most of the time. When I first started actively gaming women while I was out, I heard that a lot “I have a boyfriend”. Afterwards I started hearing it less and less and every now and again I come across a girl that actually has a boyfriend. She doesn’t mention him until after we f***. I don’t think women cheat more or they’re bitches, they just cheat for different reasons and in the end, they always blame their boyfriends. P.S. a message to those who chose t…
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:13 AM
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Girls won’t think of their boyfriends if your game is on point.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:39 AM
3

I’ll just go ahead and be your first upvote
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:55 AM
1

Bro he busted that second chick with the donkey punch... he knows wtf he’s doing!!
/r/PussyPassDenied16/08/19 08:51 PM
4

Depends, if you mean fall in love with, don’t... “love” benefits the woman a lot more than it does the man, I connect with every girl I go out with to some degree. Just keep trying, you’ll find someone who’s worth your time. Not every girl is worth connecting with.
/r/seduction06/08/19 12:27 AM
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Alcohol never helps me personally. I refer to myself as a tired drunk so when I drink, my main focus is to go to a small corner and fall asleep. I look at it logically like most guys try to do with all things, there are more women than men in the world so the odds of finding someone is more for you than it is for them. There’s that, but you don’t want all women, you probably want a select few, when I first started I gave myself 3 seconds to approach them and talk to them and it worked with confi…
/r/seduction02/08/19 07:11 AM
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