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| 7 | [CMV] One of the best ways for guys to get better at talking & flirting with women is to talk to women.Yeah, it really does when she never meets you because she is busy with the ripped guy that she met off Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 11:28 PM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingSure, and you are entitled to believe so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 11:28 PM |
| 8 | [CMV] One of the best ways for guys to get better at talking & flirting with women is to talk to women.Not really. The best thing you can do is to hit the gym, get some juice, then get ripped. Amazing how (assuming you aren't short or have an ugly face) much better you get at talking to women after you do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingSo maybe these others aren't treated well because people sense their entitlement. Maybe ask them to fix their personalities first before interacting with others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?Chads also need to approach. The idea a guys walks in and the women come running is idiotic. No, sorry, that's not how it works. Chad is rare while women who want Chad are not (as all women want Chad), thus, Chad is the rare and valuable party in the interaction. That means that women have to compete for Chad which is why women approach and offer sex immediately. If she does not, some other woman will. It is basically the same reason why men pay for women. If he doesn't, there are plenty of men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:19 PM |
| 4 | What’re your thoughts on being treated/giving different treatment after a rejection?If you think asking a person behave in a consistent and acceptable manner is entitlement, then I think you need to rethink all of your relationships. It 100% is. The only thing you are entitled to is not to be subject to illegal treatment. Beyond that? It is the height of entitlement to expect certain treatment. If you expect this, perhaps people are sensing your entitlement and acting accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 3 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingYikes! No, it's not. You are not entitled to decency from anyone. Maybe if you fixed your entitlement, people would be more likely to treat you well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:36 PM |
| 4 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingYikes. Women are not entitled to protection from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:32 PM |
| 5 | What’re your thoughts on being treated/giving different treatment after a rejection?It is not her fault. But she is not entitled to being treated in a certain way and getting upset that she is no longer treated in a certain way is the definition of entitlement. She should fix that and maybe people would want to be around her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:28 PM |
| 8 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?Teehee I like dad bods like Jason Mamoa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What’re your thoughts on being treated/giving different treatment after a rejection?Yikes! The woman is actually the entitled one in this situation as she expects certain treatment when she is not entitled to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 2 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?Which is why you have the influx of absolutely insane men recording themselves going up to women, asking for sex, and pepper spraying the women when they get defensive. Assuming we're talking about the same video, those women assaulted the dude so he was perfectly in the right to pepper spray them. Being a dickhead to someone is not a justification for assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:20 AM |
| 2 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?You need to talk to them. As a guy you need to make the first move. No, you don't. As an unattractive guy you have to make the first move. Women approach Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?Nope but knowing how to first befriend women will help you treat women like normal people thus making it easier to date No, it won't. Also there’s the chance she’ll introduce you to other women. No, she won't. His best bet is to start doing steroids and get jacked. It may not work if he's short or has an ugly face, but it's the only thing you can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:17 AM |
| 9 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?Is just cold approaching a woman considered “harassment” Yes, if she doesn't find you attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:16 AM |
| 14 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?They won't be attracted to you. They will be attracted to your money. If they could get the money without the man being involved, then they wouldn't interact with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 02:24 AM |
| 23 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingThey think it is exciting now, if the man is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Sure some men have probably missed signals in their life, now take this with a pinch of salt but I believe that most men don’t get signals so there’s nothing for them to miss or misinterpret. Correct. Women are about as subtle as a nuclear missile when they think you're hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:44 PM |
| 20 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingThe value of most male attention to women has always been zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?That's fine. So I guess it's not that important when we ban abortion. After all, just stop having sex since there are more important issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:21 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?Vast majority of women don’t engage in casual sex. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?It’s literally mens fault that someone do this. Err, no. It is women doing this. Women make some men wait. Since we know that almost all women sleep around, it follows that if she makes you wait, she is not actually attracted to you. We aren't privy to the thoughts of women so all we have to go on is how she behaves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally?I know you end up with rats because I’ve lived in enough student housing to see what creatures are attracted to unclean houses 😂😬 Rats don't show up because someone did not dust the cabinets, sorry. Men have the same option for work that women have No, they don't. Not if they want to have sex, at least. but our sex didn’t determine our actions Easy to say when you have options. Your time is not worth more than hers. Source? People are begging to pay me twice as much for my time than they are her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally?If you don’t do things like occasionally dust and clean you end up living in one of those hoarder houses with rats. As I said, women and their neuroticism does not make something a requirement for me. Furthermore I’m confused why as a woman you think I’m not working a demanding job You have the option not to. Men generally do not. Because that’s called fairness. Because time is the most important resource a person has Agreed. Time is the most important resource a person has and my time is twice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally?Just want to start of by saying I feel sorry for any partner you are with that you measure their value in money. What is so bad about being able to attach an objective number value to their time? If her time is as valuable as mine, why won't people pay her as much for it? Secondly- there is no job you can do that I think justifies not doing basic adult functions. The problem is that to women, those 'basic adult functions' include a whole lot of things that aren't really necessary. No one is goin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 10:08 AM |
| 0 | Many men nowadays don't want to date and avoid marriage because they don't want to lose their money and assets and they are afraid of having to pay child support and being able to go to jail if they do not pay itBut that’s the point. She has THEIR child, for BOTH of them She made the choice to have a kid. So, if she didn't want to lose decades of wages, again, why did she choose to have a kid? It takes two to tango. with the agreement they will be financially supported. I do not think there is anything in a marriage that says you must "financially support" your spouse. Why is that hard to understand? Women shouldn’t be punished because they had children. It is not punishment to not receive money that an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.We're not talking about being married with families. We are talking about sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Being afraid of relationships going bad. Do you feel it?They want to replace his sexual position but they don't necessarily want to replace some of the other positions he may have such as breadwinner, man of the house, protector, etc. Why would a man want to be with a woman that wants to do this? Secondly, when has this ever stopped a woman from leaving or at the very least being unfaithful? PS: Women even have a far easier time of finding relationships than most men, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.You mean you are saying that the man that women clearly want sexually does not have an easier time securing relationships if he wants, too? Come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Many men nowadays don't want to date and avoid marriage because they don't want to lose their money and assets and they are afraid of having to pay child support and being able to go to jail if they do not pay itSimply put, my point is that a man should not be able to “opt out” of all assistance if he is the biological father. Regardless of his wishing she terminates the pregnancy. Period. Full stop. Yes, he should. If she can opt out of parenthood unilaterally, then so should he. ’s tough to say but all that must be considered before the act. I agree. If she chose to have sex then she chose to be a parent. Ban abortion, the morning after pill, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:08 AM |
| 0 | Many men nowadays don't want to date and avoid marriage because they don't want to lose their money and assets and they are afraid of having to pay child support and being able to go to jail if they do not pay itIf you don't want to "lose decades of wages" then don't have children. There is no reason for alimony. She made the choice so she should live with the consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Just because someone finds a person attractive odds are literally nothing will ever come of it. So? The man who women all seem to find attractive has far better odds of "something coming of it" than the other 99% of men. But, again, we're talking about attractiveness, not about relationships. The man who gets casual sex is sexually attractive. The man who can only get relationships is probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Yes, Chad is certainly real. There are a subset of men that women largely find attractive. For example, that West End Caleb guy from several months ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 12:26 AM |
| 4 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?Sure, but the problem is that there is little incentive for us to believe that. You may very well make a man wait for that reason, but all the man knows is: Almost all women will immediately sleep with a man she finds attractive. You are not immediately sleeping with him. That leads to two possible conclusions: you are a unicorn or you don't think he is attractive. One of these is more likely than the other. Let's also not forget that the group of men that women desire have plenty of other optio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Curious - how do RP/etc theories perceive lgbt relationships?I wanted to understand more why or how men end up so lonely or resentful Consider living in a world where almost everyone is, at best, indifferent to your entire life and any pain or suffering that you experience. The only time that they are not indifferent is either when they want something from you or they are in competition with you. Not only that, but you are filled with an extremely strong desire for people who largely will never, ever desire you like you desire them which ultimately gives … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 11:27 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally?Why is your performance at work slipping because you’ve been asked to be a functioning adult? If I work a presumably more demanding job (hence why I make more money), then yes, putting more time into other things means either less time to keep my skills up to date or simply to rest. Secondly, if I am contributing 70% of the household income, then I do not think it is at all fair that the other person does not have to make up for that difference elsewhere. There are no free rides and women should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 11:15 PM |
| -2 | Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally?If my time is twice as valuable, then why am I wasting it on doing housework? We suffer more if my job performance slips than if yours slips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.He's able to date the woman unsuccessful men want, someone they feel they should be able to possess but can't. He is able to date women with the sort of ease that men want. Chad doesn't have to wine and dine women. He does not have to put up with their games or anything like that. Women come to Chad, too, so it feels like more of an equal exchange rather than being the dancing monkey for some indifferent woman. But how does envying a man who gets treated like a person when you rarely do change a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 10:04 PM |
| 0 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Yes, but that is the female perception since they only see/date/fuck Chad and Chad has more options on Tinder than most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | would casual sex benefit women more if they actually started asking for money ?The men that women have casual sex with wouldn't need to pay, because they are the men that all women want. All it would mean is Chad passes on her and goes to another woman for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Do women talk about how easy men have it with dating? Yes. Any article about dating, especially online dating, will inevitably talk about how men behave badly because they have so many options at their fingertips thanks to Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Men also practice dual mating strategyNo, the guys who get short-term sex can also get long-term commitment when they want, too. So, yes, they absolutely get treated better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.because they always conveniently forget the rest of the study which showed that women still messaged/swiped significantly more men across the scale apart from that 20% Because most bots on OKCupid were women who are not picky about who they message, not because real women message normal men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:33 PM |
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