NextUnit5 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	I'm in a dark place I have to concur with a lot of what people are already saying here, it sounds like an incredibly strangely skewed set of ladies you’ve been talking to. I can only presume the culture of the females you’re surrounded by is quite backwards and cherry picking, but this is by no means my experience of women, all of whom in the past have been happy to split bills for meals and drinks, happy, even decidedly determined to pay their own way because they haven’t wanted to feel like they’re in debt to me.…	/r/ExRedPill	04/08/22 12:39 PM
1	So what do I do if I think she's throwing a tantrum/overreacting Explore this from her perspective. When you added her to that conversation, you unwittingly included her. You gave her this feeling of inclusion, which is obviously validating by inviting her as part of a group of your peers. By striking her from that, regardless of the circumstance she was added to it, you seem to be disregarding those feelings and her as part of this. Getting left out against our wishes can be brutal. There’s a WhatsApp group I have with two old house mates I’ve stayed good fr…	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/22 07:59 AM
4	Why are female characters sexualized in anime? Because it sells. One of my first memories of feeling attracted to something was a sexualised cartoon in the back of a humorous text book. The adolescent market is the biggest buyer of new merch and music, so it’s heavily capitalised on with whatever can be gotten away with.	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/22 01:51 PM
1	Does being arrogant and brash work well with women? I’m gonna stick my neck out and say yes- with the provision it’s done with humour. Someone who is arrogant with humour will show a lot of confidence, they’ll project themselves in a crowd and it won’t matter if they get on the nerves of some by being brash because they’ll get to know lots of people and others will like them. It will even help that they’re not affected by those who are too sensitive. They also won’t think twice about approaching people and asking for things because they already h…	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/22 12:14 PM
3	Here is an example of how poisonous the cult dogma is. Who the hell would carry out that study??? What kind of questions would they be asking victims of horrifically traumatic things about these events? “Okay, and when you were kidnapped/ being threatened by the gunman, how attracted would you consider the gunman? Would you say that you were sexually aroused by the event?” People carrying out these studies don’t work in a social vacuum! I think what this Redpiller is asking is, “do women find dangerous men attractive?” This is the conversation he re…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/22 12:43 PM
2	is bullying real Finally! An intellectual conversation!… such a crock of shit. These people need to stop smoking weed and smelling their own farts and hear some perspectives from outside their own tiny circle. Clearly these guys have never jumped as a young teenager by a group of adults for no other reason than to fuck with them. Where raising the stakes would only risk life, limb and being permanently scarred.	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/22 07:00 AM
2	I’m becoming bitter and sexist. Not sure what to do. Yeah, man, things will appear shit sometimes. You sound down AF. Social lives take work to progress and maintain. Your right that women do often have many more social habits built in to their behaviour, not to say men can’t intentionally implement these, but that’s often what’s needed. Online dating is difficult, yes, but lower your expectations and expect to grind for a long time at it, and most can have results. The sex workers and escorts in this sub can express their opinions, and your welco…	/r/ExRedPill	11/05/22 10:23 PM
1	Following common sense will make your life harder. Sometimes it is okay to lie Hey man, your absolutely right about everything you said here. I saw those judgemental comments on other posts too and I couldn’t help but feel it demonstrated well how the commenters couldn’t relate to men who should do this, which might be a sizeable portion of those who share their unfortunate ideas and stories on this sub. Part of red pills damaging ideas is it’s overly romantic notion around sex and relationships. It puts it on this pedestal which isn’t helpful. Part of saying “this isn’t a…	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 05:59 AM
1	How do men become desperate thirsty simps ? Why are they like that? Honestly, there’s so many guys who lack social skills and just haven’t learned any, maybe not had the opportunity to learn, or lack the innate awareness. It’s difficult for them in some ways, because they’re compelled towards what they want and there was never anywhere respectable for them to learn properly. It’s certainly not something we’re formally taught. Attracting a partner is hard and who’s out there teaching? The pick up artist community, that’s who. And their ethics are 99% awful. Hones…	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/22 04:47 PM
4	Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson? Hey man, the two that you mentioned, they’re not first and foremost “bad boys with tattoos.” One is a comedian and one is a musician. They’ve both achieved success and recognition within their fields, but the point is that they’re doing cool shit. That’s where their energies are, sure they might go in for the physical decoration of people doing creative pursuits, but that’s not what they are. Their days are filled with meeting people, getting photos taken, loads of writing, travelling to new des…	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/22 06:23 PM
2	Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell? Hey man, sure there are lots of things in this work that are out of our control, but if we succumb to that kind of fatalistic thinking, then we don’t just make more likely, but guarantee the negative consequences that come with it. Not only that, but become prone to seeing the positive things that happen as exceptions rather than evidence that the lens is at fault. Your a 24 year old man, there’s so many things you can do to get yourself to where you need to be. Go to the gym, join a drama club,…	/r/ExRedPill	24/04/22 06:26 PM
1	Confidence isn't attractive Yeah, confidence isn’t a fix all, but I tell you what, the people who get labelled as confident, specifically loud guys, they’re the ones who will get noticed, they’re the ones who have to be heard and seen and they are the ones that will create chances for themselves, which if there’s anything that confidence can do, it’s to create chances for that person to meet other people because they’re open to speak to new people, to put themselves forward, to give their whims a chance and find out if the…	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 06:56 PM
6	Are relationships worth it? Is it better to be single? Yes. Go be in a relationship. You’ll probably get it wrong, but do your best. Eliminate expectations. Make some effort on yourself- workout, join some amateur theatre, get into dance music or something, read! (I recommend a book like a picture of Dorian Gray) and befriend as many people, both guys and girls, as possible, get good at befriending people, talk about whatever the hell pops into your head. You’ll meet some gorgeous people and when you do, ask them if they like you and they’d like to …	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 06:29 AM
1	If you're ugly do you really have to make up for it with wealth, success, and personality? If you’re asking if the solution is to work on yourself, then you would be correct. Start with fitness. Regular exercise releases endorphins, raises your energy levels and will see your confidence improve. When you’re in a good frame of mind, you’ve only got to be doing some hobbies which involve mixing with the opposite sex and there are many of these, from drama classes, improv comedy, walking groups, dancing classes, it likely won’t appeal to you at first but broaden your horizons, do somethi…	/r/ExRedPill	08/04/22 07:30 AM
2	Starting to become an incel. Oh man, go into construction or something. At least you’ll get weekends and sociable hours. Then find hobbies that overlap with the interests of women, that get you mixing with the opposite sex in a natural manner. Doesn’t matter what it is, it won’t appeal at first, broaden your horizons like, it’s not comfortable growing.	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/22 06:38 AM
2	What do you bring to the table for the opposite sex? So I have a notation ableton launchpad which I use to trigger the loops inside my laptop when they’re needed, but it’s mainly through running synthesiser and guitar channels through my interface where I can side chain them to the kick and the snare of the electronic drum kit. That’s what gives the whole jam that cohesive compressed dance music sound. So I bring that to the table and we all have good times and if she doesn’t want to be at that table then that’s cool too, but this is my dining roo…	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/22 09:55 PM
4	Red pill, MGTOW and their effect on my mind Man, 21 is still incredibly young. How many hobbies do you have where women and men mix together? That’s generally the defining factor for how successful a man is with women- how much exposure to socialising with a large number of ladies he is getting. PUA inflates that by encouraging cold approaches, which in itself is simply odd but done poorly qualifies as harassment, but it’s the sociopathic flow-chart tactics that make PUA the most problematic and the least genuine of interactions. They pro…	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/22 07:13 AM