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Nfuckedmeup/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:51 PM
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Nfuckedmeup/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:10 PM
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I enjoy everything about her. The fact that she is smoking hot, how she randomly likes to suck my dick, how we can sit down and talk about everything, how she understands me and how she can read who I am, how we can randomly decide to go buy few bottles of wine and get drunk together, how we can share a cigarette, how she loves to have sex and how she wants to please me, how I love to please her. How we can fuck for hours on hours and still not get tired of it. How we can cuddle with each other …
/r/askTRP10/12/20 12:28 PM
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This is really a situation where he needs a real therapist. I'll be following though what interesting answers this post will get.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:15 PM
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Mate I was in the exact same situation 3 months ago. I want you to get out of there now. I mean now. Trust me on this, I wish I had the strength to do the same. In my relationship she ended up pulling the plug, I just went ice cold and said ok, provided no reaction. 2 months later she is already in a new relationship and when I heard about it, it hurt me and put me some time back in my healing process.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:04 AM
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She is attracted to you but doesn't want to admit it to herself.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:25 PM
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Yeah I had the same scenario this year and it ended with us up breaking up. When you can't even kiss your girlfriend 'because she feels anxious it leads to sex' it's a lost cause.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:30 PM
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Don't play golf because you can make contacts. Play golf because it's fun. A warm summer day with your friends playing 18 holes and cracking a few cold ones. It doesn't get better.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 08:29 AM
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The thing that has always worked for me is being low bodyfat and muscle. If I went for the more built look and put on some more fat it shows on my face. For example last year I was about 7-8 kgs heavier and I got around 400 matches in 3 months on Tinder. I redownloaded Tinder around 7 weeks ago and now got 2000 matches. My pictures are a mirror selfie, selfie, a picture that shows my fit and a gym picture wearing a tank top that shows my gains. For me I've noticed I get more matches if I don't p…
/r/askTRP12/09/20 02:37 PM
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Didn’t read all that shit. Why do you need to keep her in your life in form of some bullshit open relationship? Just move on.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:43 PM
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Full body routine 5 times a week and 2-3 runs. I switched to full body routine since I had done PPL for so long and wanted some change.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:46 PM
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If she tries to withdraw sex next time I'm going to dread her and if the problem doesn't get better I'll break up with her I think.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:34 PM
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Delete this and grow a pair you wimp
/r/askTRP25/12/19 05:03 PM
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Thank you AlphaChad for the great insight
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:52 PM
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Yeah, we were just playing drinking games, got offered free beer all the time and I didn’t really realize how much I drank. I never in the past even acted up like this when wasted but I guess I need to learn from this.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:45 PM
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Come on it’s her birthday and you flirt with a girl in front of her? Then you proceed to take the girl’s phone number? If your girlfriend would do that you would drop her immediately. Have some sense.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 10:49 PM
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Why don’t you break up? You both would be happier.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:01 PM
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You are acting like a girl
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:48 PM
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Private profile and around 800 followers and the profile pic wasn’t of him but instead of some outfit lol
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:29 AM
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I don’t know if it was intentional that she doesn’t always check all her snaps when she’s with me me since there’s like 50 of em unopened. And honestly I don’t see the kid as any threat, it’s just weird but funny imo.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:16 PM
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If all you want to do is stay at home why don't you get a dog?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:01 PM
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cope
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:52 PM
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You’re actually coping your own insecurities framing it like ”revenge-cheating”. You’re insecure about your ability to keep her. What comes to your teen relationship, her cheating wasn’t because you were with other girls in the beginning - it was because she was a slut. If you were the price you wouldn’t be scared of her revenge cheating. Stop lying to yourself.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 01:57 PM
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Stop putting pussy on a pedestal and get a life
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:25 PM
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It’s hard for me to as well in a LTR to balance between mate guarding and putting boundaries. In these kinds of situations I like to keep it short and say ’You can do what you want, but my girlfriend doesn’t do x and y.’ If she crosses those boundaries, just soft or hard next depending on the situation.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:00 PM
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Yeah she's insecure. If she weren't being such a bitch I'd say it was a comfort test of some sort, she needs assurance but you need to make it clear to her that this is not how she can get your attention.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:14 PM
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Yeah but I won’t go to like 10k. I’m at 1100 followers and 800 I’m following
/r/askTRP06/11/19 12:09 PM
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I do the same but sometimes bumped it to around 75 followers a day. I go to some fuckboy’s Instagram, follow the good looking girls and about 90% of the time they follow back. I bumped my followers from ’natural’ 400 to 1100 and get around 400-500 likes per post. My Instagram account has only my snapchat username in my bio. It’s possible to get laid off IG since around 20 girls also added me on snapchat and started talking to me and I could’ve easily escalated.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:42 AM
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"Do you REALLY want to be committed right now?" I got bored when I spun plates and when I got into a LTR I found out it suited me more. Just don't want this shit to blow up in my hands and I want to learn from this fuck up.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:36 AM
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Yeah I'm not going to tell anyone, not even my closest friends. The burden is not to be shared since it would be the pussy way out and would fuck things up.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:15 AM
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I'm just being honest about what I feel and I feel like a bitch. Bitch for doing that stupid shit and bitch for worrying about it. I know for a fact that she's not going to know about it but still it's hard on my conscience.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:55 PM
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Lmao. You're talking like pussy is everything there is. Why couldn't he enjoy a nice car or motorcycle without thinking about pussy?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 05:09 PM
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I think it also depends on the girl’s age and amount of previous relationships. If she’s relatively inexperienced in relationships talking about and enforcing boundaries could imo be a good idea and the girl is easier to mold to your liking.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:38 PM
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Bet she was fucked in the head, don't worry about it
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:05 PM
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You’re right. The whole social media shit in general is sickening imo. I’m 18, she’s 17.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:31 AM
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Yeah I got to press her on that. Next time she opens her snapchat, watches the snaps and leaves a few unopened I’ll ask her why wouldn’t you open them all and press her hard.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:45 PM
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Yeah I think I should bring this up when she pulls up her phone and starts going through her Snapchat. It is possible that she is too immature to be in a relationship (she's only 17, I'm 18) but I think since she's so young I could mold her to be more mature. She has other features in her which indicate maturity but then there's the attention aspect.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:56 PM
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I talk to other girls, most being my friends’ girlfriends. But I ghosted 4 of my plates when I started the LTR because I have morals and didn’t plan on gaming other girls when in a LTR. I can literally leave my girl and fuck another one the same day but how could I show it to her?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:17 PM
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Honestly you dodged a fucking bullet
/r/askTRP23/09/19 09:37 PM
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Hit her up a bit before the festival and if she responds she responds?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:44 PM
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I had roughly the same situation with a girl like that. She got mad at me for something and I lost frame. I couldn’t tolerate the bullshit from her anymore and cut her off. Every 2 months she still sends random texts trying to catch me.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:40 PM
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It's all about frame. I've fucked girls from 5'4 to 5'10 and I'm only 5'7-5'8. Get your head out of your ass & grow a pair.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:21 PM
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Fuck vasectomy
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:03 PM
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Hard next. GFTOW. Beta.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 05:03 PM
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You keep giving her validation even if you dump her and keep fucking her. She’s a cheating whore who disrespected you and you should cut her off completely.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:15 AM
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The real red pill is realizing that everything written in here isn’t true for you. You take the information and decide what’s good for yourself. Some things work better for some people and for some people not at all. Sometimes this sub seems like a cult.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:06 AM
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Yeah I know the feeling when a girl is getting slowly out of your ’control’. I’m just not understanding why she wants to distance herself when she thinks I’m high SMV? I’ve tried to rationalize it and have thought to myself that she wants to distance herself so that she doesn’t get too attached since she doesn’t want to get hurt if it seems that I’m not that into her - therefore she needs more comfort from me?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:10 PM
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If I could rephrase what I meant by saying ’RP part of my brain’, I meant that I’m not used to providing emotional support to girls. That’s usually why my plates didn’t last so long when I pursued that kind of stuff (aka pumping girls). What comes to your very insightful comment: Honestly, if you cannot provide anything else than comments that basically are worth nothing, shut the fuck up. I don’t care if you’re EC or what, your comment doesn’t do really anything.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:57 PM
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Textbook RP in my opinion. She tested you once (lied about the wedding) and you put her in her place. You gave her a chance and a possibility to redeem herself. She goes to the wedding and does the same shit (lies about where she stays) and therefore she loses her chance. Then you cut her off completely. Fucking brutal. Well done. I hope that if I have to face a situation similar to yours that I would be strong enough to pull it.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:25 PM
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She needs comfort, you’re too straight forward
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:29 PM
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I had this American girl as a Tinder match during my trip to Spain with my bros. First night we meet and I flirt with her and she shows IOIs but then I tell her that I have someone and that we’re looking for just people to party with and something goes off in her head. She goes to the club and I shit you not, she grinds and dances with every guy in the club including my friends. Anyways so I plug the girl to my friend we meet her and her friend everyday from there. They have a fling during the v…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:10 AM
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That’s the thing. There’s a whole different tone in ’A bit disturbing I got touched by some old men’ vs ’A bit disturbing I got touched by some old men😂’ On phone she insisted it wasn’t because she thought that it was funny
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:21 PM
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I’m taking responsibility for my actions, that’s why I am asking how bad did I fuck up, how should I proceed. Not ’why do I have a drug problem’.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:18 PM
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Easier said than done. I’m having really bad withdrawals from all the alcohol and I weed I did the last week that my dopamine levels are fucked. I can’t sleep and am feeling really anxious about everything. Add all the stress to that and I’m a ticking time bomb.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 10:33 PM
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Look, I know when she is playing games and I recognize it. This time, I was conflicted if she really felt shit about men touching her or if she just wanted to shit test me. When I talked with her on phone I was convinced that she actually felt like shit and wanted to be comforted by me.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 09:37 PM
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I’m 18 and why the fuck would she be an attention whore?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 09:14 PM
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I didn’t text her emotional shit, just put her in her place and then we talked through the emotional stuff on the phone since we were 5000 miles away from each other.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 09:13 PM
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Maybe actually something came up that she can’t miss
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:12 AM
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No but didn’t have a clear shot
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:33 PM
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Yes. The second date kiss, third date fuck.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:19 PM
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It’s a 2 minute read. But in short, I feel like she should be comforted during my trip via text, but how?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:49 AM
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If she’s really into you she gives you another chance. Had the same happen to me and all good.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:39 PM
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That’s true. We saw each other this Monday and I told her that I leave for a week on Friday with my friends to Spain and she was visibly put off. She asked me who I’m going with and what day I come back etc. She also went out of her way and asked me later the same night if I want that she blows me. I guess she feels some anxiety that I’m on a partying trip with my friends because she knows that there is/could be girls involved. I think I should somehow in a small way comfort her during this trip…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:23 PM
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Yeah not in US, legal drinking age here is 18.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:07 PM
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Might sound petty but really small things. Like she started randomly going on about these 2 girls that are in her school that 'everyone hates', how they act and dress like sluts and talk shit about everyone. She said while laughing that maybe she should start dressing like them too showing off her tits etc. Another one was when we were laying on the bed and she started showing her 'prom' (our country's own prom thing) partner's snapchat my story where they were drinking and she said 'this is my …
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:47 PM
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Can you be more specific?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:53 PM
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I think 5 is optimal. One breaks? No problem. You have 4 more and you can keep your eyes open for a replacement. Two break? You still have 3 left. Very unlikely that more than 2 break around the same time and you don't have a replacement. Last month 3 of 5 my plates broke the same week. Quite unusual but I was fine with it since I was getting more serious with one girl. Now I have 2 plates, one being a potential LTR and one being just a plate. I think it's a good balance to have 2 plates when yo…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 12:26 PM
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I'm a strong 5'7-weak 5'8 and haven't really had any problems with online dating. In fact half of the girls that I've been with have been as tall as me or taller than me.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:51 PM
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Why did I get Patrick Bateman vibes from this post
/r/askTRP19/08/19 10:10 AM
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Wow she’s fucked in the head
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:45 AM
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I don’t need to show my abs to get laid. When she’s in my bed and the shirt comes off she’ll see my abs. Of course if you are 12 years old which you probably are it may seem cool to have a sixpack but nobody fucking cares.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:35 AM
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I don’t really think that this is a shit test. She’s just literally asking you what your plans are, id you feel insecure telling them just say you’re in downtown for a thing and are free after that.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:31 PM
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Sluts are sluts. Me and my buddies went on a roadtrip and ended up staying the night in this one smaller town. We went to the local nightclub, I hit it off with this girl and we danced and made out. I tell her that I need to use the bathroom and told her to wait and stay here. I was 3 minutes in the bathroom and I see the bitch dancing and making out with this other guy. I laugh it off and go sit with my friends and the girl comes later asking me to dance with her again. I tell her to fuck off a…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:27 PM
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cringe
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:34 AM
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Half of my game is just saying random shit that comes to mind and then rolling with it
/r/askTRP17/08/19 11:25 PM
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I don’t know if this is satire or not
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:07 PM
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How fucking aspergers are you
/r/askTRP15/08/19 11:30 AM
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Haha yeah misread. In that case I’d say MMA
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:18 PM
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If you can manage do both. I box 3 times a week and go to the gym 4 times a week.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:12 PM
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I guess it's something between stoic and nihilistic what I'm feeling. I've just kinda lost my interest to everything and it doesn't even scare me.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:21 PM
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Haha guess we’ll have to see, I’ll check in in 4 months
/r/askTRP08/08/19 11:13 PM
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Of course. Could, not will.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:43 PM
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True, have to definitely stay on my toes.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:38 PM
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You've tried it?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:37 PM
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I had 4 other plates at that time so I couldn’t really care less. Yeah I could have build comfort with her and plated her but she really was bitchy.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:02 PM
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She doesn't want to be seen in public with you in a romantic way since: she doesn't hold you as high value she just doesn't in general like to show affection in public
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:13 PM
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Bitches playing stupid games. I dated this one girl for like 2 months. At one point I lost some fo my frame and she started gaining the upper hand and became distant, in other words started playing games. I ended things with her cold. 2 months later I run into her in a bar and just say hi. I go outside later to wait for my friend to pick me up and she comes outside and starts talking to me, asking me how I been and stuff. She then goes to ask how is my relationship life and I tell her that it’s …
/r/askTRP07/08/19 09:24 AM
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You’re going to overload your nervous system
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:05 PM
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who cares
/r/askTRP03/08/19 11:44 AM
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It doesn’t matter if you were to fuck it up. Think about it like that.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:56 AM
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I'm 18 as well and I could see a market for a YouTube channel like that. However I would suggest that you start off with just voiceovers and don't jump straight into facecams. You don't know for sure yet what kind of welcoming you get.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:08 AM
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Turns out it meant something, check my update
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:45 AM
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That’s just disgusting
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:12 AM
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Ooga booga
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:11 AM
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Well yeah. Usually the times when I notice a big difference in pupils is when I am fucking her, then they’re really big. Other than that the changes in girls’ pupils are quite small during dates.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:16 PM
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I think the pupil shit is bullshit. They are always connected to the lighting. It’s dim? They’re big. It’s sunny outside? They’re small.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:10 PM
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Because half of the people in this sub are IRL betas so they come here to larp and to vent their anger. Most of the time it comes off just cringy. I suggest you listen to the people who come off as rational and stoic.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:09 PM
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How do I not catch feelings for the slut?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:23 AM
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Honestly, it's a funny story. I'd say it's just bad luck. I would have punched 'him' as well if someone tried to put a cig on me and would act aggressive against me
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:55 AM
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Honestly, if a girl is hard to kiss just tell her that you want to kiss her. One girl I was with was really hard to pull for a kiss so I just told her ’look here so I can fucking kiss you’ and kissed her. If she refuses, congrats you don’t need to waste more time with her. If she kisses you, congrats you can now move to fucking her. Really that simple.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 12:50 AM
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Depends a lot on the environment. And it doesn’t come off as insecure if you aren’t insecure about it.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 08:58 PM
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I’m barely 5’8 and spin 4 plates atm and I’m not even American. What I mean by not being an American is that I’m from a Nordic country where the average height of young men is 5’11 so I’m even more under the average. The plates are 5’2,5’8, 5’9 and 5’10. They don’t have a problem with my height and neither do I. Would I like to be taller? Ofc, but it’s not an obsession and a big insecurity for me. What I do to look good, is lift 4-5 times a week, take care of my skin and hair, dress well and ove…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 01:30 PM
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Of course he's mad. Even if you rationalize that you shouldn't be mad at a non-exclusive plate for fucking other guys it still stings a bit. But he did the right thing though.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 10:06 AM
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Tbh I can see myself in your position writing the same exact answer to my post. When I read the post I wrote I had the same points in my mind - maybe I just needed someone to tell me how it is. I think I’ll ask her out once more with a specific day and time. If she says that it’s not possible I’ll just ghost her.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:56 AM
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I don’t really think that. Massive part of girls around my age (16-22) seem to be on Tinder just for the ego boost and play it as a ’game’. I don’t know about the states but the age of consent here is 16 and I don’t think that there’s nothing wrong with me dating a girl that’s 1,5 years younger than me. I think it turns weird when the guy is like 20 and the girl is like 16.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:46 AM
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I honestly can’t tell if you’re joking or not
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:30 PM
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what the fuck is this video
/r/askTRP28/06/19 09:05 AM
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I need to fuck like a god though if I want to keep fucking her...
/r/askTRP23/06/19 11:12 PM
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I lost my V card at 18 years old. The next day after that I fucked another girl. Now I have 5 plates. I lost my virginity exactly 30 days ago.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:10 PM
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The plan was to get few drinks and chill. Not even fuck anyone. Why I went to the girl 1 outside the club was because I just wanted to see if I still could pull her for fun. I’m not really interested in her but the problem here is if I broke my plate and I’m searching for answers to that question.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:24 AM
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she wants something she can’t have
/r/askTRP06/06/19 09:10 PM
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Are you tense when making out? It might be that you have performance anxiety. I don’t know what to do to fix that but I also have the same problem to a lesser degree. I’m rock hard for the first time but I can’t go too fast or I’ll bust a nut too fast. If I nut I wait like 30 minutes and I’m ready to go again. Sometimes it works and I can fuck for like 45 minutes but sometimes I just go soft. Especially with a condom.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 09:01 PM
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I’m just rewatching also and at season 3. I shit you not I almost bought a beret 2 days ago because it was on sale for 50% off. Strange world.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:13 AM
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Hi Tommy
/r/askTRP31/05/19 08:46 AM
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nsydic
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:07 PM
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They expect more, they find out about other girls etc.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:53 PM
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Thank you for reminding. An old plate started showing these red flags towards the end and I remember how she became a totally different person. Women are really cold people, it was like a flip of a switch how she turned from a nice submissive warm girl to a cold piece of shit.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:52 PM
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Sometimes I just feel like some of you guys are literal robots.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 08:01 PM
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It will take 1-3 months, then you slowly realize that she wasn't special. And also GFTOW.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:22 PM
1

Yeah I know exactly what I should do but the urges are there. I’m just confused how the fuck can she be so heartless? I want to understand her. I know for a fact that she has done this thing to other guys. We get to know each other, we start developing feelings and the second the guy starts to show even the slightest beta traits she starts pulling her strings. She probably feeds off other people’s misery. I was fucked up for a month after the whole situation because she was so fucking cold. Then…
/r/askTRP04/05/19 08:03 PM
2

Time will tell. She left me on read haha
/r/askTRP04/05/19 01:19 PM
1

She’s cute. I don’t usually find cute girls fuckable. Would I still fuck her just for my ego? Yes.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 11:35 AM
5

jesus christ the cringe
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:36 PM
0

I mean it's not even that the hottest girl I have around is causing this
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:33 PM
1

Yeah I can shake off insults and petty stuff. But when something like in OP hits, it's on a deeper emotional level.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:32 PM
2

Yeah I learned this the hard way as well. First two times she pulled a way she came back in a few days. Third time she did it I pressed her on it and was beta as shit and she got away
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:58 PM
1

I've lifted for 3+ years and am fairly strong
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:44 PM
3

I'm sorry you have had terrible friends. I have few good lifelong friends that have my back and have never betrayed me.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 04:29 PM
3

4 months and you haven't kissed her? Shut your brains off and do it pussy
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:56 PM
0

I might need some too
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:52 PM
6

Not really if they are your true friends. There is also a time and a place to talk this kind of shit. Usually for me and my friends it's late nights when we are a bit drunk since it's hard for all of us to talk about our feelings.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:28 AM
5

I've learned this the hard way many times. "It's sexy for a man to cry and show his emotions". No it's fucking not. Like you said, even if she thinks that it's ok for men to be vulnerable her inner instincts turn her off. That's why I have real male friends.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:26 AM
2

You're a girl in TRP?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:49 AM
1

I don't think she is a nut. I just know for a fact that she is a bit inexperienced (she's had sex once or twice before) which might play a role. I've dated older women (oldest being 22) and they haven't been like this. I think the "weird" relationship to sex she has is rooted in bad earlier experiences or something. It was also that night when I was fingering her and she was feeling it, that she said something about morale. IIRC she was feeling it until I wanted to take her panties fully off to …
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:41 AM
2

I mean how is that a fuck up? I'm not running away from a potential relationship. I just thought I would be seeing her for maybe a month more and then see how I feel.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:15 AM
2

Oh, by the way, please never put relevant information into an OP. If you do, people that are trying to help will get a better picture of the situation. I know you didn't, in this case, but, there's always that chance that somebody will find out what's going on. You mean that I should spare the little facts? I just feel like they are relevant and helps with the context. Tough shit for her, if she gets jealous. You get blue balls, and she isn't on some forum asking what she should do. It's a tough…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:13 AM
2

That's true. It's magnificent how I always manage to fuck up with girls when it's about to turn serious
/r/askTRP20/04/19 10:06 PM
1

yeah I fucked up but is this salvageable?
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:50 PM
1

One of the "problems" is that I have texted other girls. She got mad jealous when she saw me snapchatting other girls and that is probably one of the reasons why she is mad. I know I should lay low and let time pass but honestly this kind of stuff fucks me up. I feel like everything has to be sorted quickly and I know that is a wrong mindset.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 08:37 PM
4

Drink two beers to ease up (only two), hit it raw, get viagra or man the fuck up.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 08:17 PM
1

LTR? No problem. Once you start bringing 3 different chicks regularly your parents are going to act probably.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:40 AM
2

Sorry but Bradley Cooper is mine and mine only
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:09 PM
2

you’re not Bradley Cooper
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:08 PM
6

Off-topic but I want Bradley Cooper to hug me
/r/askTRP23/02/19 06:44 PM
3

Early 30s and dating a 19 year old? Lol what did you expect that would happen?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:04 PM
1

Hit the gym
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:19 AM
1

I don’t know just enjoy the moment. But if you pull away you can leave her wanting some more.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:41 AM
2

If you’re really wasted you can’t get hard. Period. I don’t care what anyone says, it’s nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:25 PM
5

lol come here when you have real problems, you pushed all the right buttons
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:15 PM
2

fucking BINGO, got all 4 of those
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:58 PM
3

I am kinda in the same position. I pushed way too hard in the start and we met two times. She played games with me and I confronted her about it until she finally opened up about the issues. Some words were exchanged and she kinda lost interest. She briefly said after some pressing that I don’t want to see you anytime soon and I agreed. She literally told me yesterday that she doesn’t want to talk with me. Anyways why did you reject the girl when obviously you got feelings for her?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:33 PM
15

How fragile are you? It’s not a big deal.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:11 PM
1

FATA
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:09 AM
3

Different behaviour for different girl. Hard to say what you should do without knowing the context.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:20 PM
3

I think she wants you to be more romantic? Not in a cheesy-clingy way but touch her and kiss her. I mean you've only kissed her once.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:18 PM
1

you already answered that question
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:16 PM
11

Don’t straight up ask them if they want to come to your place but instead frame it as ”wanna come continue drinking” at my place or something.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 12:52 PM
1

You just keep piling excuses on excuses when people here are trying to help. Why are you here?
/r/askTRP16/02/19 07:31 AM
6

Live your life and improve yourself while dating other girls. If you especially go out to find yourself a girlfriend it's not going to work. When you find the right one you'll know. Also girls can sense that kind of shit and it comes out as desperate.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:47 PM
6

don't search for a girlfriend
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:43 PM
1

fuck you
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:57 AM
4

why did you even say you have to leave early and for reschedule you shouldn’t give her the ball
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:22 PM
-1

Don’t worry, I was literally a clone of my dad growing up. Honestly I can’t be sure, but let’s see how things are in 30 years.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:58 PM
0

I just don’t believe it. Don’t you know any couples who have stayed together their whole lives? My parents got together when they were both 19 and got married 11 years later. Never in my life I’ve seen them seriously fight over anything. And it’s not like my dad provides for my mom, my mom makes double what my dad makes and my dad makes a lot of fucking money.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:50 PM
0

But could he still have scored? I mean was it necessary to leave her in the woods?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:47 PM
1

Exactly. The person makes a decision if this is what he really wants and lives with it.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:41 PM
0

Honestly I think red pill is great for one night stands. However when it comes to LTR it’s bullshit, at least for me. I only commit to a relationship if the girl is fun to be around, pretty and trustworthy. And when she is all 3 of those, I don’t have to play games and stay on guard with her. Why LTR someone if you don’t think it’s going to last rest of your lives?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:39 PM
1

That’s true. But I don’t think that because you don’t want to leave a girl alone in the woods because she didn’t give you pussy makes you a beta.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:32 PM
5

Sounds desperate. You can be open to changing your mindset but if something fights your morality hard and you go against your morals for some pussy it's quite desperate.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:20 PM
16

Fucking CRABS
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:12 AM
1

There’s no context. If you don’t meet up with a girl in 2 weeks since starting chatting, she’ll lose her interest.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:35 AM
45

Fucking gold. Really boosted my mood thanks.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:32 AM
3

This. I don't understand this whole thing. Did you just call her "a flat surfboard"?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:26 PM
1

I have the same problem. Once something gets to a point where I can't have it, it really gets into my feelings. I don't really know what mindset me and you should adapt to, to get over this issue. I think one way is to convince yourself that you could have her but you don't want to.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:25 PM
1

What the fuck this honestly means? "Only your turn"? Do you mean that there is no love of my live?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:25 PM
6

I agree to a point with the health question. Yes you get punched in the head but at an amateur/beginner level it's not enough to make any real damage. Especially if you're not looking to compete. You however get bruises and cuts in your body and face. If I was OP, I would pick the sport that I enjoy the most.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:22 PM
2

If you are as good with women as you claim I salute you. To me it's absolutely the opposite. When I hang out with guys there's logic behind actions and it's predictable. When I'm with women, especially if she's a hard one, there's sometimes no logic behind the actions which fucks with my temper.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:16 PM
1

If you enjoy it then why not. Taking to accord that she gives you head as well. It also improves your own oral game.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:54 PM
5

You need to do it to him with his deep insecurities, if he bitches about it you bring up the double standard.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:07 PM
12

He tests you in a way. Honestly I do that with all of my close friends, we fuck around and call each others stupid things and try to make each other insecure. It builds a thicker skin.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:44 PM
15

Lmao she's hooked
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:36 PM
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