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Question For MenNiaMiaBia/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:18 PM
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Question for RedPillNiaMiaBia/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:30 PM
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Nah. The sorting is more work too. There are also more frequent loads with more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:30 PM
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If a guy has a nasty ass home, I’m pretty sure he doesn’t watch his ass properly 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:23 PM
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Yes. Those “extra steps” are necessary when you’re performing a task 😐 nothing is one step.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:11 PM
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Yes. I toss it in the machine after it’s sorted. After it’s finished I place it in the dryer (depending on the load I might need to hang dry some things). Once dried, I fold the laundry then put it away - my girlfriend sometimes puts the things away. Again, I enjoy doing the laundry so I’m fine doing it, but it’s still more work with 2 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:10 PM
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You think 2 people don’t generate more laundry? My girlfriend and I live together. I ❤️ doing laundry. Still, the addition of another person increases the frequency of laundry. Is this a difficult concept for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:43 PM
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Right, so what are we talking about? This is not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:40 PM
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It goes both ways though, right? Both men and women are in danger of coupling up with someone that doesn’t truly like/love you 🤷🏽‍♀️ how can I women ever really know how her male partner truly feels? We can judge by actions but some guys are really good at “performing” - hell, women are good at performing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:31 PM
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It does take more time to clean for TWO people instead of one. First off the frequency changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:17 PM
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Visible dirt/dust will indicate dirty 😐 It’s also a good practice to sanitize stuff - to hopefully avoid germ transmission.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:12 PM
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You’re still not describing gaslighting 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:50 PM
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This isn’t “gaslighting” 🤷🏽‍♀️ these are suggestions that probably won’t work if you’re not already attractive. Some of this is just common sense. Also, women are different. From pickmes to rad fems to TERFs and maga women. Do you think we’re all getting on the same page to “gaslight” undesirable men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:44 PM
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People don’t acknowledge “the truth” - um ok 🤷🏽‍♀️ the truth according to whom, YOU? So basically if you don’t believe someone (a woman usually) you decide they are gaslighting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:34 PM
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Nah. Gaslighting doesn’t happen en masse. If you say that women “lie and manipulate” and you have facts/proof to back it up, that’s one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:51 PM
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Gaslighting goes way beyond “insincerity” 🤦🏽‍♀️ No one is gaslighting y’all. Stop being so dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:31 PM
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IME this is not true. I find that men are FARRR more jealous than women. In fact, men are far more insecure. I never knew “retroactive jealousy” was a thing until I heard MEN talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:25 PM
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You thinking this has anything to do with HER feeling rejected is cracking me up. She posted it because it was weird. We’re laughing at his no-game having ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:13 PM
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You think height requirements were not around in 2010?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:27 PM
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I’d say most men experience it at one time for another. It’s probably inconsistent, but it’s happens for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:13 PM
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Nah. Tons of women are pick mes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:20 PM
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You realize “pick me” women exist, right? Not all women have mild disgust towards men. In fact, most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:57 PM
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How do you think the men in those countries feel? Truth is, y’all don’t care who is impacted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:27 PM
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I will never agree with PPBros. It’s predatory 🤷🏽‍♀️ obviously, people are going to do whatever they want anyway. PPBros are doing the same things they get upset at Chad/Tyrone for here in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:56 PM
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“We live in a society not alone in the forrest.” ———> Maybe you should go live in the forest then. “The way you raise your boys will affect my boys. They will influence each other and if enough boys are raised like girls, and I do different, that makes my way look like "abuse." ———> No, abuse looks like abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:25 PM
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It’ll never understand the “you were made to” nonsense. When you think of it, humans don’t really have a purpose. We’re just here 🤷🏽‍♀️ Also, raise YOUR boys however you want. No one will stop you (as long as you don’t break the law, obviously).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:11 PM
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Are you saying that non-western women are better because they pair up with average guys? Do you believe that western women do not pair up with average guys? Cause we do. Otherwise, no men would be paired up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:57 PM
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I think “hip dips” was a topic like 10 or so years ago. Prior to that it was “thigh gap” - it’s ALWAYS something and none of the female body shaming/commenting is new.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:30 AM
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I think you wish to fuck the vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:03 PM
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IDK. I don’t think I have ever liked a man more than he liked me. IME, men will make grand romantic gestures to be noticed or gain favor. TBF, I’m autistic and don’t notice the small things - grand gestures are the only way to really get my attention. This makes me “easy pickins” for love bombers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:12 PM
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Come on. Do you know how bad you have to fuck up to have a whole vehicle repossessed? Missing a utility bill is one thing but impacting transportation/credit is something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:58 PM
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Do you realize that we can make up our own vows? Not everyone takes the same vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:52 PM
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Which subs are you referencing? Also, you realize that we can’t really tell if someone is a man, woman, or child right? Unless we’re in a gendered sub - how can we know? Especially when names are generic. That said, I have seen what I assume are men getting tons of support on male-centered subs. About a year ago on the “Guy Cry” sub, there was a guy struggling with fatherhood (understandable) but he was going on about how he hated when his kid cried, that he just wants to leave, etc. I pointed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:49 PM
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He’s not really a “single dad” then, IMO. He’s a dude with kids 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:40 PM
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I’m starting to believe that a LARGE MAJORITY of men will go as low as the law allows - worldwide, mind you. There is no pocket of dudes that has not been involved in this. As a side note, I also believe that the “women” in the PPBro target countries are VERY young. Also, I was first catcalled at 11. Assaulted by a camp counselor at 15. I distinctly remember the looks from grown men. The lingering, the body language. All of it, IJS. Try as they might, I’ll never not give men side-eye - double-tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:54 PM
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All of this. I’m a black woman with late diagnosed autism; I still managed to find myself in a really good career. Going to interviews is anxiety inducing. Sometimes I have to do CODE interviews. It’s hard, but I do it 🤷🏽‍♀️ Walking into a night club is a walk in the fucking park, IJS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:10 PM
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I personally do not believe that men are in “romantic pursuit” en masse. I believe men are on “pussy pursuit” en masse. Sure, a lot of people fall in love, build lives, and find happiness - but I believe men’s main motivation is sex/mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:04 PM
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Are you a government entity?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:13 PM
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I disagree, lol. The vast majority can only get consistent sex from one woman (if that). If they could have more variety, they would, IMO. Men confirm this with their behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:09 PM
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Everyone (including women and minorities) should have access to the same opportunities - AND bodily autonomy. Women and minorities are not inferior. You’re gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:07 PM
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“Should?” ——> Yes. Should. “So I guess it should be illegal for me to give any help to my children because that would give them a different opportunity compared to the kids that had no parents.” ——> Illegal to help your kids? 😐 yeah, I’m ending this interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:05 PM
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“Why would I hire a woman over a man all other things being equal considering one can get pregnant and suffers through monthly pains?” ———> You wouldn’t - which is why DEI exists “It’s intentionally misrepresenting what women mean when they want equality.” ———> I’m a woman, a WOC at that. I want equal access to opportunities and bodily autonomy. Dassit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:49 PM
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Everyone should have access to the same opportunities regardless of race, gender, etc. Are you from the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:45 PM
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Rights, fam. Men and women should be equal in the eyes of the law, and such. Equality does not mean men and women need to think and behave the same. Y’all scare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:24 PM
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Don’t the majority of guys want to “hook up” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:25 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:55 PM
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Once a guy told me that he likes my “freckles” - problem, is - I ain’t got no damn freckles. Those were acne scars, lol. Faded, but still 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:56 PM
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There is a post from yesterday asking women if we care about what men like. Most responses were - NO. With that in mind, of course we discard what you say. Also, men are different. Some men like this, some men like that 🤷🏽‍♀️ no one is the same. I personally don’t care what men like, or what men think women like. Also, y’all have ZERO clue if women are wearing makeup or not. Not even joking. Men are so uninformed on basic shit. No one is making decisions based on y’all’s fickle desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:48 PM
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No, but that wasn’t your assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:23 PM
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Oh please 95% of y’all don’t even have social status, wealth, resources, good looks/genetics, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:17 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:11 PM
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That EW is for you. I have no idea what you’re talking about. I hope you get it figured out though 🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:04 AM
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IDK about that. Granted, I don’t watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:57 AM
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I said WHAT? Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:56 AM
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A 3 year old post is NOT “incessant whining” as you claimed. No one cares about Leonardo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:55 AM
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Pink Pill content is very much about attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:47 AM
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Ugh. Why can’t y’all just be better humans? 🤦🏽‍♀️ Anywho. I personally am not asking anyone to put their life on the line for me - or any other woman you deem unworthy. I think as humans we can all intervene when something is up. It’s not even difficult - “ayo chill” is sometimes all that is needed. Just breaking up a convo is a good strategy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:57 PM
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😂 👉🏽🚪
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:20 PM
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MARRY ME ‼️🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:40 PM
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I wish I could rise to the level of outrage OP is expecting but here I sit. Unbothered AF. Also, I never knew Tobey McGuire was a dickhead. I don’t want to roast him too hard, but damn, lol. He looks like he cries easily. He’s also very forgettable. I’ll forget he exists as soon as I hit “Reply” 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:37 PM
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A few weeks ago there was a post on here where a guy was talking about “bringing women from 3rd world countries here” to date the men. He insisted that the women could leave if they wanted, so it’s not trafficking. He said that there’s enough women to make sure “everyone has one” here in the US. I asked him how he felt about the guys in those countries. They’d be losing tons of women. Long story short - he didn’t care; he even blamed US women. PPBroing is VERY selfish. These dudes only care abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:53 PM
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“They do. Human females select differently form human males.” ———> No shit. Also, I’m a human female. I am telling you - those girls/women are being strategic. There will be ZERO desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:06 PM
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BTK had a wife and kids. He seemed fairly shy and whatnot. Gary Ridgway had a few wives. He was creepy AF. Basically, you’re not proving anything. Shy dudes and even weirdos get wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:42 PM
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I think a lot of women are just stepping back from dating altogether 🤷🏽‍♀️ the “lonely men” will need to work around the fact that women in general are less and less interested. I don’t even blame them. Men’s loneliness problem is for them to fix or cope with. The same is true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:35 PM
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“First time in human history” is doing a lot of heavy lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:36 PM
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Exactly. The government doesn’t care about kids, like at all. Much much less about poor kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:32 PM
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So Eugenics with more steps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:27 PM
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I think “free” healthcare - including mental health services will fix a lot of problems. Free education is also a good idea too, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:22 PM
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HARD PASS 🙅🏽‍♀️ If it’s not blue-pill, i don’t want it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:50 PM
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Most of those have nothing to do with dating 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:56 PM
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Agreed. OP categorizing him as a “bad boy” means nothing, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:58 PM
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Feel free to interpret my words however you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:57 PM
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Nah. No one is saying men can’t have close bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:51 PM
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To me is the cattiness. When he addressed her on why she cheated with him I knew something was up. I can’t even imagine a guy doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:44 PM
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This isn’t really gendered, fam 🤷🏽‍♀️ And yes, you can get hurt in relationships. You don’t need to be “comfortable” getting hurt but you should know there’s a possibility of being hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:40 PM
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Hm. The jump isn’t very big to me 🤷🏽‍♀️ not saying OP is in love or anything, but certainly the emotions seem more than platonic. At the very least it’s side-eye worthy, IMO. BTW, I’m bi … I see no issue at all in same sex attraction 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:34 PM
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Yes y’all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:30 PM
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OP talking to the girlfriend after the cheating is odd. It comes across as… IDK, messy/catty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:23 PM
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OP, you are way too emotionally caught up in this 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:20 PM
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Yeah, maybe. Still, there are no “male emotions” - just emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:23 PM
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Emotions aren’t gendered, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:13 PM
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“While there are men’s issues I support through charitable giving, I really do not want random men opening up to me. When male strangers start opening up, they develop feelings because I listened, and now I’m responsible for navigating that. I don’t want that.” ———-> That’s what I’m saying too. Men will open up to women and still somehow get mad at the woman. No thanks 🙅🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:33 PM
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I guess I’m in the minority because I do NOT want men to “open up” to women 🤷🏽‍♀️ IMO, they should journal, go to therapy, talk to friends, etc. Opening up to women just puts more burden on women - and the women will still be blamed in some way. Lots of people don’t even have the vocabulary to process their own feelings. Maybe men should start with identifying their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:31 PM
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“Why does it have to be 50/50 lol.” ——-> Why would it not be 50/50? “Do men expect you to contribute 50/50 when they date women lower in the economic bracket than them?” ——-> I have no idea what men expect in this regard. My questions remain though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:03 AM
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It surges after sex or orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:43 PM
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Are you only talking about casual sex? No one is doubting that hormones surge after sex. I’m sure they surge even more after orgasms - which a lot of women don’t get through regular PIV sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:39 PM
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Everyone has also seen women NOT get super attached. We also seen MEN get very attached/possessive after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:22 PM
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Doesn’t look like AI to me at all. What are some “tells”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:15 PM
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TBF, they’re also losing to dildos 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:40 PM
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Sources please 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:52 PM
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“Most couples I see irl are pretty looksmatched and not so much the hot girl/ugly guy combo that's talked about (if he was ugly, he would at least tall).“ ———-> So then WTF are y’all always bitching about? You see couples IRL - so what’s the issue? “Deadbedrooms and lack of sex is often spoken about online. Sometimes when you observe couples, you notice there's often a lack of affection or passion with either one or both settling.” ———-> There is no way you’re able to tell anything about strange…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:09 PM
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How can you know that; and why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:04 PM
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He thought we were giving suggestions just for the hell of it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:59 PM
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SAME! I saw it twice on Broadway and I used to sing the soundtrack like a mofo. I simply could not bring myself to watch the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:57 PM
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How could this even work IRL? People that make more money often have a higher standard of living. With a big income disparity how will the lower earner be able to keep up with even 50/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:53 PM
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I have no idea why you, or “antariusz” think you have a win, lol. First, OP asserted that these groups don’t exist - WRONG, and that if they did, women would shut them down - also WRONG. The police shut that shit down because crimes were being committed. Do you think women shut down whatever chat Gisèle Pelicot’s assaulters were in? Or did the police/authorities do it because heinous crimes were being committed? Do you blame women for all police activity?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:16 PM
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SAME ‼️ Were I not limited by gender (and race) I would have been took over some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:24 PM
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There is no doubt in my mind, if i were born a male, I’d be just as successful in all the ways I’m currently successful - if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:22 PM
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I read your edits and you’re really not saying anything. What is there to debate? These traits/standards are not even consistent among people. Low standards for one person can be high standards for another. “I'm not advocating for people to have no standards. I'm suggesting that some people's wants and demands from others should be grounded and balanced. That either extreme won't solve anything.” ———> What I consider “extreme” might be different from what you consider extreme. For the record, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:14 PM
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Not sure why you think that. Women don’t need to make shit up. The TRUTH is much much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:03 PM
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You can’t get sued for telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:08 PM
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Did you read the OP? It’s on the same site.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:43 AM
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And hold up! Just because I’m bored, I did some research - looks like men have created Facebook groups to share pictures (and discuss sordid details I imagine) of their girlfriends/wives, etc. 📰 read about that shit here https://www.vice.com/en/article/mia-moglie-facebook-group-where-men-trade-unsolicited-nudes-of-their-wives/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:08 AM
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I think men and women can be posted in those groups. I saw a woman posted earlier today. No one “lost their shit.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:02 AM
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Wait, why would a person be embarrassed by rejection? I can understand disappointment - but rejection feels a little dramatic. As long as the guy is decent about it she’d have no reason to feel embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:04 PM
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“Risk of rejection, getting clowned by your friends for being rejected, risk of getting on another woman's bad side for showing interest in a guy she's also interested in.” ———> Hm, I can understand men being concerned about those risks but I doubt women are. Do you really think women are clowning one another over rejection, lol? Seems like male behavior to me. “Think about it, if there was no social risk or even social benefits for women to make the first move, they would do it but they don't, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:33 PM
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TWO DAYS ?? I’d say more like 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:36 PM
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I actually don’t even date men anymore. I’m bi 🫶🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:11 PM
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Meh. I think my impact on men is pretty neutral 🤷🏽‍♀️ Most men already have their minds made up and are truly insufferable humans. I would have probably blocked half the dudes on here, were in not against the rules. I got dinged for blocking before - which, IMO makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:51 PM
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What “social risk” ? Keep in mind a lot of women (me included) find only 1-2% of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:43 PM
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I just realized how little I care about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:42 PM
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I guess I don’t see what the benefit of this data is. IMO, they should probably do something to stop the “unlimited right swipes” that guys do. Force them to be more intentional with their swipes. Only go swipe right in the women they are actually interested in. Mind you, I don’t use the apps - some could very well have this feature and I wouldn’t know. Is eHarmomy still a thing? It matches based on compatibility - which seems better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:33 PM
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Why would being “passive” even need a justification? A lot of women are socialized to be passive. DASSIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:15 PM
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Whenever I have said, “I wouldn’t give him/her the satisfaction” it’s after knowing someone. By then the bridge has been burned. I agree that women not approaching isn’t about fear of rejection. I think it comes down to desire. Some women will approach or give strong signals - the desire has to be pretty strong though. Most men do not invoke this type of desire, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:07 PM
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No it didn’t, I’m cracking up 😂 I wish I would deal with a man with a “connect the dots” looking ass beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:15 PM
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I read that some of the teen girl fashion trends were inspired by mofos on the Epstein list 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:02 PM
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Ain’t no wall, fam. Why do you think we’re completing for y’all? Men are super easy to get. I guess you could say that there is completion among the top 5% or whatever but outside of that - it doesn’t make sense for any woman to “compete” to be with any of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:52 PM
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I guess I’m “red-pilled” when it comes to jobs. One sec while I go update my LinkedIn profile! 👩🏽‍💻
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:41 PM
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This is some ahistorical BS. Maybe some of this is slightly true for mainstream/white feminists, but as a black/mixed woman, you have no idea what you’re talking about. Feminism is about autonomy and equal rights. Same with civil rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:36 PM
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100% worth it. You’re disgusting. Someone needs to check your internet history.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:38 PM
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As an autistic woman, I’m going to kindly ask you to STFU about shit you do not know about. “eAsY tArGetS fOr cHaD” fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:34 PM
5

Oh, you need better jokes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:46 PM
11

You’re the one that said you’d bet it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:33 PM
6

Ok then what do you mean by “unworthy of regard” ? This terms makes zero sense to me outside of Game of Thrones or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:32 PM
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One example is the men that claim “women see us as subhuman” (tons of men repeat this nonsense)🤦🏽‍♀️ which is just silly IMO. Most people are going on about their lives nothing thinking about strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:08 PM
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Yes - “can be” - doesn’t mean they are. Once you decide someone is malicious it leaves no room for other explanations that are probably much closer to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:04 PM
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IDK…. My life is already pretty fucking amazing. I work remote (STEM girly 👩🏽‍💻), I am in a very loving relationship. My kids are young adults. I suppose I could work on some side projects but I’m procrastinating on those.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:00 PM
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Meh… I think some men (the ones that have these odd/rigid thinking patterns) are intellectually lazy and ignorant. There’s also the thing where they don’t see us as regular humans. Everything women do is framed as some malicious thing, when really it’s just human behavior. People are flawed, people make mistakes, but women never get grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:19 PM
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I completely agree. I did not have regular sex with my husband, AND I never should have married his punk ass. And worse, we got married twice. The 2nd time was during COVID, and blah blah blah. Anywho. I agree with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:16 PM
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Bias or not (how can you even know that) - facts are facts. I also think it’s interesting that you frame it as though YOU are not biased, but “most people” are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:47 PM
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Most women haven’t read “50 Shades” either. I just looked it up. Says about 16% of women read the book. I’m in the 84% that did not read the book or care about the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:41 AM
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.. also, a lot of infants were killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:05 PM
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Good point. Why is it always “you’ll be forced to pair up because of low birth rates” and not - guaranteed maternity leave, universal healthcare, etc? There are a million things that the government can do, that’ll make having kids more appealing - but none of this is ever discussed. They jump to taking away women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:04 PM
-7

“A state that defends women's bodily autonomy with phrases like "my body, my choice" ———> Where is this happening? In several states there are heavy restrictions on women’s bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:55 AM
2

I see what you did there!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:51 PM
1

These weirdos challenged me on the size of my ex-husband’s dick too. Saying that I didn’t know how big it was. I guess my weak little girl brain can’t measure inches. Mind you, my ex and I were together 25+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:06 PM
2

I have no idea why y’all keep telling me who voted for whom, as if I have not also seen the exit polls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:17 PM
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“Media highlights fucked up shit... that's what gets engagement.” ———> And? “Audible gasp, women do sexist shit too.” ———> And? “Why is this representative of the entire environment? Why are you making this the representation of your every day life?” ———> I’d go into it, but I don’t want to derail the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:03 PM
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I’m literally on-topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:33 PM
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We (WOC) have most definitely called those women out. I’d be doing it much more often but these platforms don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:58 PM
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Can confirm. I got banned for “hate” on the Women’s News sub because I was DRAGGING the women trying to downplay the contributions of WOC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:56 PM
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As far a “breeding stock” y’all absolutely did that. It was mostly with the enslaved Africans though. Again, HISTORY. Plain ‘ol US history 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:04 PM
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Yes. ALL the same rights men had.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:02 PM
3

Maybe because this is a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:48 PM
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“What is a basic human right in the first place? Human rights are a concept of the mind, they are an idea. They dont exist unless we make them up.” ——-> The same rights should have extended to all humans. You can’t deny all rights to a group, give SOME, then pretend to be good. “Also judging the past from a present view is very naive. People tried to survive back then. The roles were established because it turned out to improve their chances of survival.” ——-> Yeah, women were denied bank accoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:42 PM
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Men can absolutely be victims of women. Mackenzie Shrilla comes to mind. There are also women that seek to harm men (and other women) by calling the police and lying. I feel badly for these guys all the time. I still don’t (and will never) have ANY sympathy whatsoever for men that are unable to fuck the women they want. Access to someone else’s body is not a human right, FFS. A good way to not “get strung along” or used is to have good personal boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:26 PM
3

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:05 PM
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Yes, every blue moon a woman will do something, sure. No one is disputing that. It is however an extreme rare occurrence. No one (including you) is scared of women. As far as the slave thing, you’re preaching to the choir. I am well aware of history in that regard. That said, I’m cautious around most strangers. I’m EXTRA cautious around all men. I avoid them when possible - like the women-only Uber for one. If a woman wants to harm me, she can try 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m just not worried about a difference in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:54 PM
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Hm. Seems like you don’t know what “derailing” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:29 PM
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How am I derailing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:46 PM
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Nope. Just plain ol’ history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:14 PM
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“Historical narrative” is intentionally dismissive. The ACTUAL HISTORY is one where men brutalized women - all over the world, a lot is still happening today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:02 PM
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I’m so proud of the men that get it. Y’all give me a lil nugget of hope 🤞🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:57 PM
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First off, sexist shit is still occurring. Second, do not pretend that most of y’all would be doing the EXACT same things your forefathers did if it was still socially acceptable. Every.single.day there is a story about a guy doing some HEINOUS shit to a woman or child (or animal, or corpse). I was first catcalled by adult men when I was 11-12. Those men are still apart of society. One more thing, we have a rapist president. You talking about “history” while shit is happening in the present is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:45 PM
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I never EVER thought 6-7 was “big” either - I considered it average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:36 PM
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Speaking for myself. Size ABSOLUTELY matters. I have talked at length about it on Reddit. I thought the average size was 7 inches. It’s not. My ex-husband is 8+ inches - which I guess is “rare.” Anything below 7 inches is useless to me - in terms of PIV orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:34 PM
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“There are needs other than what's needed for survival.” ———> Not really. “Not only survival-related things are needs.” ———> Yes they are. “See the hierarchy of needs.” ———> I’ve seen it several times. “Sex is basically the same or almost the same level on the pyramid as survival.” ———> This sentence makes zero sense, especially if you’ve actually seen the hierarchy of needs. Also, you’re just wrong. People are able to live/survive without sex, juuuust fine. My point stands. Sex (access to anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:06 PM
3

Damn. He went out sad 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:45 PM
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Hm. The way I see it, desperation comes from a place of “lack” - it’s “anxious” energy, which can be a turnoff. TBF, I date women and there was one in particular that had desperate “I’ll do anything to be with you” energy. It was a bit annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:36 PM
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Give me an example of a lie that most/all women have collectively told.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:17 PM
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I hate how y’all overuse “gaslight” 🤦🏽‍♀️ No one is gaslighting you. You just don’t understand or agree - and instead of considering that you might be wrong, you claim you’ve been gaslit - for what purpose IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:10 PM
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I don’t think is true at all. Maybe it’s just me, but I haaattttteeee unwanted attention. I don’t like random people commenting on my looks 🤷🏽‍♀️ what someone might see as “validation” - I see as annoying. Different strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:14 PM
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Hard agree, lol 💅🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:06 PM
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Hard pass. If I’m invited (and accept) he will need to pay - and he will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:02 PM
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Many of us do have our own money. With that in mind, why would I pay half of a date, when I have “date” at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:11 PM
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Who told you to go on multiple dates you cannot afford?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:07 PM
2

What argument? Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:01 PM
2

SAME!! A man (especially if he invited me somewhere) not paying would be so weird. Like a prank, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:53 PM
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…. My ex-husband did those things, twice. Not even joking, we got married twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:46 PM
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For me, yes. Very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:43 PM
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It also shows a lack of generosity and manners. Also, most men (the ones I know) will HAPPILY pay for dates. A couple weeks ago a guy took me and my girlfriend out and he paid for everything. Opened up a tab and told us to get whatever we want. It’s been this way my whole life, BTW. A man not paying would be very odd to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:23 PM
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“I guess being black and disadvantaged is your problem and white people shouldn’t care.” ——-> Yes, it quite literally is my thing to have to workaround - that’s just reality. Also, people already don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:06 AM
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“I get annoyed when women say how men have no need for sex.” ——-> Sex is not a biological need for human survival. It’s really comes down to that. “You’re right in the sense it’s not water but human connection in romance social and yes sexual is huge for a social animal.” ——-> So yeah, not a need. “Saying it’s not a big deal while women can sex whenever they want? Basically it’s a non issue for them.” ——-> Sexless women exist also. Thats annoying. How would you feel if you couldn’t get a job and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:24 AM
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It’s not a silly argument. It’s the only logical response to some of the “double standards” (or whatever) y’all cry about. If you’re upset that most women expect the man to pay for the first date, then find a woman that is ok with 50/50. What exactly do you expect people to say/do? Like honestly - what advice are you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:35 PM
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Not everyone will decline if they have to pay. Some women will be ok with it. I personally would not, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:20 PM
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Is there an age requirement on here? OP, maybe post this in a different sub. One for teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:21 PM
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I have sympathy/empathy for lots of people but I have never, and will never have one drop of sympathy for a grown adult complaining about lack of sex. Sex is not a biological need for survival. It’s cool and all, but it’s not a need. With that in mind, most of my sympathy goes towards those that are being harmed, or starved, etc. And children. All children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:20 PM
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lol, fair 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:10 PM
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No worries, I’m happy to repel broke men 💅🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:02 PM
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Which is why the inviter should tell the invitee that they need to pay. This way no one is surprised, and the invitee can decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:43 PM
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“the massive quality of life difference between men without a sex life and women with a sex life” ——> This is what you said. This is what I’m pushing back against. Also, do you have a source for your claim about double the sexless men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:16 PM
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Notice that you used the word “supply” 👀 You’d be taking humans from 3rd world counties to “supply” them to MEN in 1st world countries. Does this sound familiar - from a historical perspective? Does this seem like a good thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:14 PM
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Lies on number 3. Also, in your response to me you faulted American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:37 PM
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But wouldn’t you compare the quality of lives between sexless men and sexless women? Why are women that have sex in the equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:34 PM
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I mean yeah. But you’re talking about migration (that looks a lot like sex trafficking). Why would their government allow this in sizeable numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:25 PM
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But how is your inability to get a woman in your home country (mind you - having a mate is NOT a human right) become a problem for men in a different country??? You think the men in those countries are going to be cool with it? Also, it’ll only take 1 incident for it to become an international incident.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:19 PM
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“That would be the 1st world women saying fuck those men.” ———> No it’s not. “What's stopping them is the sheer number. If there are 20x more women than men they wouldn't be able to be picky.” ———> 20x more women? So you’d bring in 20x the amount of women that are currently in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:05 PM
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What “consequences” ? A woman that you’re not compatible with not dating you is hardly a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:54 PM
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“If you think about it, there are enough women in the 3rd world to supply every man in the 1st world with a girlfriend.” ———> What about the men in the 3rd world countries? Just fuck them, huh? “Men could experience dating the same way some women experience dating and have an app with hundreds of women willing to date them.” ———> I doubt this’ll happen in the way you think. What’s stopping those women from going after the most attractive/handsome guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:49 PM
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Even the sugar daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:11 PM
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It’s not weird to tell someone, “hey, let’s go to _____ they have great sushi - we can go Dutch 🙂”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:09 PM
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It’s not even about gender roles. I pay for meals/outings for my platonic friendships. I like to be around generous/caring people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:06 PM
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“This is why I have my other post about women not understanding men. Men want to be selected for who they ARE not what they can DO.“ ———-> Lies. Men want to be selected for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:05 PM
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If a man suggests 50/50 at the end of the date - I’m going to pay 100% and block/ignore him on the spot. I will literally look through him while he’s sitting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:03 PM
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So what if it is ? 🤷🏽‍♀️ Men will still do it - happily mind you. Also, the person that invites should be the person that pays. I date women, and if I invite a woman somewhere, I’m taking care of it. Why would I expect someone to take on an expense to accompany me somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:58 PM
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That’s where I am. Genuinely, WTF is this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:50 PM
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Feminists don’t do nearly enough to address the concerns of WOC. We are not apart of their conversations - like, hardly ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:08 AM
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This post reads like it was written by an angry teenager that had to meet a certain word count. WTF is all this unnecessary fluff? “Amoral market” 🙄 “heavily shamed” 🤦🏽‍♀️ Y’all are so dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:00 AM
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WHOLE ASS FACTS
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:13 PM
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SOURCE PLEASE 🙂 Can someone post the “1 % of men” source? You know, the one that dudes use to dismiss women’s valid fears. TIA
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:42 PM
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Hard pass. I’m ending this interaction. It is not meaningful and you’re committed to doubting me anyway. Be easy ✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:32 PM
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That is why REAL is in quotes. How can you even know if someone has empathy? The most you can do is choose to believe them. If you want to feel like someone empathizes with you. You’ll need to hire someone (a therapist) or get empathy from your family and friends. Why are you expecting empathy from anonymous online strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:29 PM
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I think you ‘re expecting too much from internet strangers. If you want “real” empathy/validation - maybe a therapist is a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:06 PM
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My employers were VERY stupid, for sure. I’m not sure what “whole story” is needed, but - it was a “tech bro” company. They were all friends, got some investors and started a company. I was not the only one they discriminated against - but I was the only one with balls enough to press them on their BS. I was a software analyst for them. Also, I’m a black/mixed woman. We make like 70 cents on the dollar compared to white men. This shit is well documented and has been happening since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:28 AM
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I’d agree that in the big scheme of things, sex is not very important. It’s not a need by any means, but it’s very pleasurable. That said, men behave like it’s the most important thing. Right on this sub, dudes have argued me down saying that sex is a NEED. In my personal life, when I dated/married, etc. each man was low key obsessed. My ex-husband was not inexperienced at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:12 PM
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Hm. I’m pretty sure straight people look for other straight people. Queer people will usually look for other queer people. Not sure what is confusing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:48 PM
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WTF do you mean “if” they did what I said. They absolutely did what I said - which is why my lawsuit was successful (and easy).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:41 PM
2

“Yes it does exist.“ ———> Ah. Then we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:11 PM
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“The wage gap doesn't disappear when you count hours. The wage gap includes same hours worked, for the same job, with the same level of experience.“ ——-> They will argue this until the cows come home. I literally sued an employer in part because of the wage gap between me and a male coworker. It was a salaried position. We both started the job within weeks of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:10 PM
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Even if it is no longer “on a grand scale” it exists, and it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:08 PM
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Ugh. You’re annoying me with these dumb ass questions. None of this is good faith. I’m ending this interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:05 PM
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Then what is the point in your OP? The FACT is that the wage gap exists. You have no “accurate information” that says otherwise. Adding in hours or whatever such nonsense doesn’t change the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:04 PM
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I don’t need another example, fam. You’re just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:02 PM
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It is not “based off the work you do” 🤦🏽‍♀️ BTW… when I sued the company - it was based in our regular salary when we started. All these other caveats and variables don’t matter. This isn’t even a difficult concept - I have no idea why you’re fighting so hard over something you admit exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:02 PM
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I don’t think it’s rare; and you are admitting that it exists. Why are you still even fighting this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:00 PM
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It’s a wage gap based on gender. Race also plays a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:57 PM
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I know salaried workers can work different hours. Not sure why you think this is a factor. It’s a wage gap, not an “hours worked” gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:56 PM
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Nah. I think that knowing something is a problem, wherein people can be hurt - but pretending it’s not a big deal, or blaming like “choose better” seems pretty fucked up, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:31 PM
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Why are you stuck on “hourly” when tons of people are on salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:29 PM
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I have sued an employer for discrimination - them paying my same level male coworker more than me was a huge factor. The fact that we can sue means that the wage gap exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:28 PM
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Exactly. They definitely warn their daughters. Men know the risks in dealing with them. They just don’t want women to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:18 PM
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That’s the thing - they know male violence is rampant. Men will admit this outright, or show us with their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:59 PM
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Exactly. And there is CLEARLY a discrepancy in the numbers and men are not interesting in understanding. How is it that so many women in our lives have been assaulted if the risk is so low? If it’s just “tHe oNeS I cHOosE” then what about those of us that were assaulted as children?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:56 PM
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In my case, I don’t trust that men know what they’re talking about - especially when it comes to gender dynamics. For example - the wage gap thing. There is nothing you can say to ever convince me that there is no wage gap. I actually sued an employer over this. As a black woman, my LIVED EXPERIENCE (documented BTW) is that I make 70ish cents on the dollar compared to white men. Denying the wage gap is like denying racism itself. This entire country is built on hierarchy - wherein the “top” peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:51 PM
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I think “any amount of alcohol” is a bit dramatic. No one is saying that women cannot consent after a glass of champagne. As far as the “mental illness” - I guess you can look at it that way. Seems a bit odd though. Let’s even take it further, people under 25 can’t consent. They should not be having sex until their frontal lobe is fully formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:32 PM
2

You think GenX women had hearts? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:46 PM
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Nah fam. Not only do we know ourselves better than men do. We know MEN better than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:22 PM
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Some words that men use (and have for YEARS) are “hoeflation” “304” - years ago it was very common to refer to your wife as the ol’ “ball and chain” 👀 Then there’s “female” slut, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:00 PM
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You realize this is a bunch of hypotheticals, right? There’s no debate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:09 PM
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It’s giving… WEIRDO 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:55 PM
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You’re not holding me accountable. You’re having an emotional rant on an anonymous app 😬 I will debate FACTS, I will not debate sass. This is a DEBATE sub. Not a “I don’t like what this lady said so I’m going to send her some emotional drivel - unprovoked” sub. Calm down, get a grip. I don’t value your emotional rants, or you as a person. You are not that important. I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:44 PM
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Ok then why are you asking me? Go ask the sociology subreddit, TF?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:35 PM
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Ok, first of all. I only read the first couple sentences and skimmed the rest. You have a lot of sass and I’m simply not interested in some emotional “back and forth” 🤦🏽‍♀️ Also, your username checks out. You seem highly anxious. Be easy ✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:31 PM
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Meh. Not sure. I’m not a sociologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:26 PM
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Ok, well in the real world. Women are different. Some women are ok with 50/50 - some are not. Just like with men. Not ALL men want to do 50/50. This isn’t even a difficult concept. Also, you might want to cleanse your algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:09 PM
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The word “despise” seems a little dramatic. I think it’s more that young women are unimpressed with men. I also think more young women want to remain childless; or prolong motherhood. With this in mind, men will be optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:05 PM
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No, I would not. TBF, I’m bi and date women. I don’t really involve myself with men without a direct benefit. At the very least, he’s going to pay for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:29 PM
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Is this another “lower your standards and find a less attractive guy that’ll treat you like a princess” post?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:26 PM
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Who is wondering this? Who is confused? I think women are well aware that we like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:31 AM
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Hm. I think the issue might be that you’re detached from most *human* relationships. Women are humans, fam. Like men - we think differently from one another. A 20 year old woman is going to think differently from a 40 year old woman. Much like a 20 year old man vs a 40 year old man. Some women don’t like coffee dates, some do. Some men don’t care about body count, some do. These are not contradictions, it’s different people with different desires. Dassit. Y’all also confuse yourselves by making …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:09 AM
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What is a “bunnings date” ? I googled bunnings and am finding a company in Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:53 AM
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My case is the exact opposite. My ex-husband was (and still is, I imagine) 8 inches, easy. We were together 20+ years, and I was 20 when I met him. I knew he was larger than average but i also thought the average was 7 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:17 AM
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All humans can be shallow. Some men, and some women. It’s not either or, it’s a human trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:06 AM
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I love this messy ass post, lol. Also, it’s 100% facts - for me at least. The average size of 4-5 inches is just whack. That said, I get most of my orgasms from clitoral stimulation anyway - I’m also bi and date women exclusively. I get to pick the size I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:30 AM
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Hey girly!! I hardly ever come in here. Glad you got off early!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:28 PM
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Too cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:20 PM
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I’m not comparing, I’m looking at India only. The rates of SA are super high - and since you seem to be interested in gender dynamics, I’m wondering what your thoughts are on why the rates of SA in India are so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:57 PM
1

“I feel we should inform our kids about the negative and celebrate the positive.” ———> We already do this though. We do this in our homes with our own children and in most schools sex ed is taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:34 PM
6

What’s up with all that rape (of women) over there? It’s at crisis level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:44 PM
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If you’re South Asian and you’re talking about “gender parity” - I have some questions 😅 BTW… certain cultures doing a celebration within their families seems reasonable. As an American, this isn’t a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:37 PM
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Even so. Why would we, in the US (as a whole) start a practice that doesn’t exist? People can individually celebrate puberty but that’s about it. Celebrating puberty in the US is odd - we don’t do that. Our kids do not want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:31 PM
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Boys not having a celebration for puberty is not a societal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:32 PM
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Ok, so maybe “celebrate manhood” at 18 🤷🏽‍♀️ When my son turned 18 I made these little cards that told him everything he gets to do at 18. The one that cracked me up the most was “adopt a child” 😅 Most parents celebrate their kids for things. Puberty just isn’t high on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:31 PM
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It’s literally not an issue though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:17 PM
11

Who gives a fuck if it’s “a common practice across the world” (which is probably debatable). It’s not common in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:16 PM
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We don’t do this anymore, fam. We don’t embarrass our kids because of some weird ritual someone else made up. HARD PASS. BTW… do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:11 PM
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Hm. Do we (in the US, as a culture) celebrate menstruation? I never got a damn celebration. A lot of times we’re slightly embarrassed when our period comes. If it comes early that is even more of an embarrassment. As far as boys… what would even signal them starting puberty? His first wet dream? In any case, start a “puberty celebration club” for young men. No one will stop you. Except maybe the parents of the young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:09 PM
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Fam, a lot of men; ALL types of men commit atrocities against their partners, and children. Take Chris Watts for example. He seemed like a normal average guy. Turned out to be a family annihilator. I’m sure Shanann thought he was “the best” when clearly he was not. Y’all acting like the typical guy can’t be an abuser/killer is wild to me. Just today, on this sub - there is a post about the “performance” of dating. We all know that people don’t show their true selves until much later - often, aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:04 PM
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“They can feel lusty enough to fuck a cow, goat, horse, dog, a human corpse…” ———> I mentioned this a month or so ago, and the dudes on here were HIGHLY offended. Buckle up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:58 AM
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Nah. The Adam and Eve bit is 100% made up. Using it as proof of some “documented pattern” of anything is just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:44 AM
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And, as soon as one of those men harms you (and one will), then it’ll be your fault. You should have “chosen better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:43 AM
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Religion is part of human history, sure. The Adam & Eve story is pure fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:44 PM
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He referred to it as “human history” 😐 and proof that women make bad choices. Of course we’re going to tear his nonsense apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:34 PM
3

Why do you believe girls are not also getting messages?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:54 PM
10

Nothing on “boys will be boys” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:52 PM
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There was an LGBT kid that was being bullied by male classmates. When he reported it, he was told “boys will be boys” - he was eventually murdered. Brock Turner absolutely got a light sentence because of GENDER. No doubt his race and money played a part but still. Also, he was caught in the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:34 PM
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Adam, to GOD: “The woman whom YOU gave to be with me, she gave me fruit of the tree, and I ate.” He also blamed god, low-key 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:27 PM
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Is he an EMPLOYED nerd with a nerd job where he makes a nerd salary? If so - the nerd thing isn’t a turn off. If not - then YES. Because he’s not a nerd, he’s a dork - and ain’t nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:16 PM
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The problem is the use of “history” 🤷🏽‍♀️ Also, if this is so common, can’t you pivot to another story where a woman made a bad decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:58 PM
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You’re in the 4B sub? I didn’t even know there was one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:55 PM
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Agreed. Women will ALWAYS be blamed. As evidenced by the (checks notes ✍🏽) “one of the oldest documented patterns in human history.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:42 PM
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You guys are ALREADY self-serving 🤷🏽‍♀️ So, I guess. Business as usual?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:29 PM
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“Society constantly expects men to care about the "bad outcomes" women face. Whether it’s physical safety, systemic inequalities, emotional support, or just the general day-to-day struggles of women, men are routinely shamed if they do not display active empathy, act as allies, or step into their historical roles as protectors and providers.” ———> Society does not do this. We have a rapist/pedo for president. Y’all are NOT “acting like allies” or anything of the sort 🤦🏽‍♀️ another thing, histori…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:25 PM
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Just one small thing. Adam didn’t ALSO get the info from god, he was the ONLY one that got the info from god. Eve got her info from Adam’s weak ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:21 PM
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He did not take responsibility. He blamed Eve. Adam is the first snitch / accountability dodger 😅🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:19 PM
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“She ate it anyway.” ———-> So did Adam, and he was told directly by god.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:09 PM
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Asking a guy to get a short outpatient procedure to prevent pregnancy doesn’t seem like a crazy request, IMO.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 04:16 PM
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Your use of “women” and “boys” seems odd. Also, I’m confused on your statement about boys growing up with “feminist authorities” telling boys to lower their standards. Feminists usually don’t opine on standards (which - standards are personal).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:28 PM
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Ah. You plan on labeling dangers/risks as “extreme cases” - got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:17 PM
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I wouldn’t myself “anti-porn” but I recognize that there are ethical concerns with a lot of porn 🤷🏽‍♀️ like anything there’s tons of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:13 PM
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Hm. I don’t think it’s easy for women on the front end - unless you’re taking danger/risks all the way out of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:10 PM
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You realize these are TV characters, right? This is fiction. Clapping back with “buh-Rachel” is odd when these are fictional characters. The Ross character was used as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:58 PM
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Yet you’re defending a sitcom character to the point where you think people “deserve loneliness” for not thinking Ross is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:56 PM
3

Ross was obsessed and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:30 PM
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I’m here watching all the liars 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:48 AM
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“The no wasn’t intended to be an answer to a question. It was just the start of a sentence.” ——-> Oh, ok. Well I reject your start of a sentence. “Your second paragraph is unhinged. Get some help.” ——-> Where is the lie? None of you are in any danger of being pulled of your sunken-in couches to go to war. No one is coming to slap the game controller out of your sticky hands. You’ll be safe. I pwomise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:46 AM
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WTF do you mean “no” - I did not ask a question. I’ll restate the obvious - the gendered violence that women and children face is far greater than what the “registered for selective service” men have to deal with. I have a son - yes he had to register but that’s it. It’s not the actual draft. Y’all are so dramatic, ugh. Bottom line: none of you are going to have to take your weak chins, and flat feet to war 🤷🏽‍♀️ most of you are not qualified anyway 😅 there are men that step up WILLINGLY to figh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:34 AM
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Women and children (especially female children) are considered “spoils of war” 😐 the fact their casualties are left out of the conversations is very telling. Then again, those girls and women are not “American” so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:23 AM
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That’s what I’ve mostly seen. Tons of men sign up willingly - for practical/financial reasons. Which should not be surprising, the military has excellent benefits. Also, participation increases voluntarily around conflict. I’ll be glad when y’all stop pretending that in 2026, men are being pulled out of their homes to go fight in a war. That’s not happening; and if you want to prevent that - maybe vote for mofos that so not start conflict - but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:17 AM
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I don’t think those traits are “attractive” to anyone - also, it’s not a dealbreaker. The “mean girl” from high school usually has a mean ass boyfriend. Birds of a feather 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:26 PM
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This is pointlessly gendered. Women are regular humans, fam. Sometimes we feel regret. Sometimes we don’t. It all depends. Sometime we think of life milestones, sometimes we don’t. Like WTF are these questions? We the same species FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:19 PM
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IDK about “game” but I’m charming AF, and pretty. I’m also funny and generous. Why is it surprising that a person with my ✨qualities✨ is successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:51 PM
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It wouldn’t even matter if “feminist take you seriously. It’s the police that need to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:42 AM
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That’s a good indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:22 PM
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Yes, you explained an issue - and i explained how it’s not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:16 PM
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You’re getting life guidance from fiction? That’s kind of sad, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:16 PM
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How can I say what someone else brings to the table? The question itself is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:02 PM
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No assumptions on my end. Just responding to the scenario in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:11 AM
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Ok. Not sure why you’re telling me this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:00 AM
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Protection from abusive mothers, but not fathers? Interesting. Also, there’s already CPS in place 🤷🏽‍♀️ I agree that mental health resources should be free for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:27 AM
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I have no idea what you expect me to say to that? Seems like a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:18 AM
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I see what you’re trying to say but I’m going to disagree. There are abusive men in every tax bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:14 AM
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I think we’re already working towards an inclusive society. What else needs to happen. Why do you feel like weak men are excluded?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:11 AM
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If that’s what you want to do, no one will stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:10 AM
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Why would this be concerning? Should we be scared of powerful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:09 AM
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If the desire isn’t naturally there, what can be done?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:08 AM
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So do it 🤷🏽‍♀️ assume she cheated, and still get the test (or don’t, no one really cares about this).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:03 AM
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Agreed. I can understand help for the basics for survival - food, shelter, clothing; but DATES ???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:51 AM
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Meh. No one really cares about any of this. People are going to do whatever they want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:38 AM
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We can only speak for ourselves. I can answer what I bring to the table - how can I answer for someone else. Especially a hypothetical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:35 AM
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So, unemployed and “single for a long time” can’t be measured at school age. What early life indicators will indicate weakness - and, do we want to label kids as “weak” ? I’d have to be adults self-identifying. Which really they can already do. Universal healthcare might be a good option so that people can have therapy without having to pay $250 a session.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:32 AM
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“Those who are struggling to keep up in society like dating, employment as i said in my post.” ——-> How will the government even know who is struggling with dating? Knowing someone’s employment status or salary might be easier but what is the cutoff? “I'm not sure if the need to self identify is important. You just have to fix their needs” ——-> Seems like they’d have to self-identify. “Protections, like stronger mens support groups that should be set up following women's support groups but with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:51 AM
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Shouldn’t you go ask the abusive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:44 AM
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How would you identify “weak men” ? Would they self-identify? What types of “protections” are you thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:40 AM
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This is also a fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:24 AM
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Are the “other options for sex” men? If you’re still having sex with women, you’re not flipping the dynamic. You’re having more sex - which is fine. I’m just not clear on the “flip” aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:23 AM
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I’d say that the apps are best too - at least the people on there are looking/single. In public, you can’t be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:52 PM
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Why is this a question for women? Matter of fact, why is this gendered?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:08 PM
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It’s not a generalization, and I’m going to continue saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:41 PM
3

Please post this often 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:26 PM
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Black woman here 🙋🏽‍♀️ Black men are definitely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:19 PM
3

Why? If you have to limit the data, your stance is clearly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:14 PM
1

Thanks for explaining. But wouldn’t 50/50 (in effort) work better? For example, don’t double text - without good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:51 PM
1

Can you tell me what the 2/3rds rule is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:30 PM
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The sex drive thing is kind of funny. Not sure how it’ll be effective. IMO, men will always desire sex more than women so any attempts to flip the dynamic will fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:28 PM
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No, you’re being weird. Also, I have no idea what you’re even trying to say; and I’m not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:50 PM
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Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:42 PM
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“I can only interpret this as: women should be independent from men, but men should depend on women in relationships.” ———> My interpretation is that men need some sort of mental health intervention. I’m not saying that to be rude, either. It’s Men’s mental health awareness month 📆 please consider meditating or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:34 PM
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“Because I think it makes it hard for men to interact with women without being perceived as a creep because most of women's hobbies revolve around sex.” ———-> With all due respect (and not a drop more) WTF are you even saying? Our hobbies do not “revolve around sex” 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️ if this is your thought process, you are a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:08 PM
1

Ooooo…. Severance. I was obsessed with season 1. Haven’t watched season 2 yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:01 PM
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Can you start with a stat or something? I do not think you have analyzed this properly at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:43 PM
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I might be. I’d never heard about the black pill before this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:41 AM
3

…… I’m scared 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:52 AM
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Speaking on behalf of WOC… we have never not worked. In fact, they passed laws FORCING black women to work in the homes of “the privileged.” There is a brief blip in time when some white women didn’t work, but that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:47 AM
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Talking to strangers and approaching with the intent to petition someone for courtship are vastly different things.” ———> I am aware. “I am perfectly comfortable talking to strangers, as I've mapped out scripts for conversations, especially in professional settings. Engaging in personal conversations feel painfully awkward on every level. Approaching new people with this intent to be vulnerable feels like I'm walking in front of a firing squad.” ———> That’s weak, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:44 AM
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The fact that you’re comparing an ENTIRE movement/industry to a single lady that most people have never heard of is cracking me up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:35 PM
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“most rapists (whether male or female) don't actually intend their victim any harm” ——-> What in the entire fuck are you saying here? Also, I need sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:20 PM
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Hm. Well I certainly don’t think that way. The only “duty” I want a man to fulfill is to stay TF out of my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:54 PM
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For whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:45 PM
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Thank you! Ugh… these dudes are very tiring 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:06 PM
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Nah. You can be lonely with a guy. At least if you’re alone you don’t have the aggravation of having someone that you don’t like around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:58 PM
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…. And children too. They commit acts of familicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:58 PM
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“It's why many choose to remain single, many are exploring their sexuality to see if they could date people other than men, resulting in more Gen Z women who are LGBTQIA+ than any previous generation.” ———> This is what I did. I was already bi-curious but once I was divorced, I acted on it. I’m not Gen Z though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:48 PM
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Thanks for sharing, and yes - it sucked for a lot of people back then 🦋
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:38 PM
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I’m pretty confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:27 PM
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If you don’t mind, do you know how old your grandmother was when she was assaulted by your grandfather? I’m asking because in a lot of those marriages, the “wife” (victim) is 16-18. Maybe 19-20 but usually pretty young. Which makes it all more disgusting if you ask me. Thanks for speaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:12 PM
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Agreed. Lots of men are “duty” focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:05 PM
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No you don’t, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:50 PM
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“People will always act like your physical attractiveness and height don't matter, but the truth is they are both high impact factors when it comes to dating.” ———-> Looks matter - especially initially, they always have. You need to ATTRACT someone. If you’re unkempt, or dirty looking, you’re probably not going to attract women that are not unkempt. Looks matter less in the long run - because people change over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:50 PM
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I’ll be fine 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:42 PM
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“Self fulfilling prophecy.” ————> You don’t know what this term means “You could care and do something to convince them to vote your way.” ————> Waste of time, effort. Hard pass. “All demographics want something. Address what they want and you get their vote.” ————> Again, hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:35 PM
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Yes. It is “lost on me” - I’m a black woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:32 PM
10

Are you sure it wasn’t Sesame Street? Because it sounds like some “Oscar the grouch” level fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:32 PM
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Still don’t care. They’re going to do what they want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:30 PM
8

EXACTLY! Every man I know is NOT about to sit there and “get lectured” from some weirdo on a bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:29 PM
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Was he a “kid” or a man. In the OP you said man. Is he now a child? Are you out here telling your weird BS to children. Shame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:19 PM
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I guarantee you he clowned on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:17 PM
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This literally did not happen. Can you imagine an adult male allowing himself to be “lectured” by some weirdo on a bus? I don’t know any man that’s sit there and get lectured by some random guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:05 PM
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“Today I saw a very weird thing that a man did for women by giving her a seat and I gave him a lecture about everything written in this post and he agreed” ———> This absolutely did not happen (and what a weird thing to lie about, ew)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:02 PM
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“The sexual revolution and 304 phases as they called it opened men's eyes to the fact that women can be equally lustful and superficial as men.” ———-> Of course we can be lustful and superficial, TF. We’re actual humans that are capable of all sorts of things. Not sure why anyone would think otherwise. ———-> I personally don’t care if men go back, forward, or sideways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:58 PM
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Is it looked down upon? I could see maybe if a person is being fetishized but outside of that, who would even notice enough to GAF?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:48 PM
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You can’t gaslight me on this, fam 🤷🏽‍♀️ EDIT: Also, I didn’t mention “rape kill” - that is your projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:44 PM
0

IDC what you tell your kids 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:47 PM
5

Hey, black woman here 🙋🏽‍♀️ You’re wrong. Women’s lives have not “always been easier.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:01 PM
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Men simp for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:44 PM
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“And why do you think men don't know that? Of course men are afraid of other men, a stronger man can beat the hell out of a weaker one, one with more power or status can ruin the life of one without.” ———> Agreed. So why is it a problem when women acknowledge this? Men are typically much larger, stronger, faster, etc. A lot of them have more power and status. “My question is why are you making it sound like it's a bad thing? Most people in this world are not going to be the risk taking types, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:36 PM
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This post reminds me of the “I know what happens in hostels even though I have never been in one” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:02 PM
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Right. So when men say “be cautious around men” it’s ok. But when women say it - it’s a problem? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:36 AM
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100% of loving fathers warn their daughters about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:33 PM
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I just said this the other day. My whole life it was, “stranger danger” - “don’t answer the door when you’re home alone” and so on. But now it’s “talk to me - even though I’m a stranger” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:46 PM
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Some men actually are creepy though. If you’re scared of being called creepy, you might be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:29 PM
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Yeah, I still don’t see what the issue is 🤷🏽‍♀️ The men on the kink apps are no more desperate than the ones on the vanilla apps. The ones on the vanilla apps probably hide their desperation better, but IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:07 PM
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“Could you explain the first part a bit more, what do you mean by that?” ———> I’m not sure what is confusing but I’m saying that we know men are scared of other men. “As for the second part, isn't that just obvious? If everyone was a leader, there would be no one to follow. Ofc, most human beings are followers and very few are leaders, that's the case for all group animals, what is that even supposed to prove?” ———> This goes more into my first point. Men are scared of other men and most men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:04 PM
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I would absolutely approach if I wanted. Part of me wonders if it’s a generation thing because I have nooooooo problem talking to strangers (again, if I want - I usually don’t because I despise being in these random small-talkie convos).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:58 PM
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“Men navigate dangerous men every day without concluding that all men should be feared.“ ——-> Pure lies 🙄 men do think other men - especially unknown men are dangerous. Why do men carry weapons? Why do men warn their daughters? Where did the whole “you better have my daughter back before a certain time.” Why do men warn their wives and other female family members?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:54 PM
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Yep you did. Then you minimized the real danger women face 😐🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:56 PM
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“However, men have to take a risk that women don't. It takes courage in this day and age to show vulnerability. Even asking someone to hang out or be your friend requires expressing vulnerability. But in that instance, you typically don't risk public humiliation or having your reputation damaged.” ———> AHT AHT AHT 🤦🏽‍♀️ This is where you lost me, the drop of “courage” you need to ask someone out is zero compared to the valid concerns women have. The irony of you talking about empathy while dismi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:44 PM
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Nah. I was straight until about a year ago, i was married for 20+ years to a guy - had kids and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:31 PM
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Here my big one: We know that most of y’all are terrified of other men. We know that you know violence can break out at any second - and we watch you soften your tone, cower, etc. - which is all fine and good until women are scared - then y’all get amnesia 😂 The threat doesn’t even have to be physical - men are terrified of being called out by other men - which is why y’all “bro” conversations to death. Another one - IMO, most men are followers, not leaders. We can tell - or at least I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:58 PM
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THIS!! Y’all homies are NOT y’all homies FR 😂🙅🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:44 PM
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Which countries are you talking about? In the “developing” nations - most tourists with money are treated well - at least on the surface. I don’t doubt that it looks like respect to you, but IDK. Also, I date women and they all have spent money on me and cooked. I don’t think it’s rare at all but that’s just my experience, YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:41 PM
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Agreed. Female friendships have been a huge positive in my life. Even from a dating perspective women are pretty great (I struggle to see how men are having so many issues, but that’s not the point). The main thing I’ve noticed is that women actually listen to me, whereas men will dismiss what I’m saying. Take my autistic diagnosis. It was women that helped me make the discovery that I could be autistic. My husband always dismissed my “quirks” as something to be dismissed or something sinister, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:28 PM
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You likely already do - knock yourself out 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:31 PM
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Request denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:12 PM
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“Are you trying to make the men ineptly seeking casual sex the problem of kinky women exclusively or something?” ———> Not at all. Also, do kinky women not have agency? I honestly don’t understand what the issue is. You don’t have to interact with anyone you don’t want to. They have the block feature. I block/ignore dudes all the time. I did this in “vanilla” dating too. Fish pic - BLOCK, messy background - BLOCK, posing with cash - DOUBLE BLOCK. “I don't even use those apps anymore... in large p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:52 PM
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You say that like I don’t already date women 💅🏽😈
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:33 PM
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“I think what we can draw from this is the sexual coercion is really common among men. That's very worrying.” ———> Why can’t more guys admit this at least? Instead, it’s “choose better” or whatever else nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:16 PM
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No one has to TRY to make y’all look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:03 PM
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“Keep in mind that this is a survey of men who were recently sexually active. Given the declining rates of partnership and sexual activity among younger (and arguably less aggressive) men, it's not entirely surprising that the remnants of such a group are more liable to exercise such behaviors.” ———-> That’s the point I think. The fact that it’s not surprising is very telling. I’m not AT ALL surprised by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:01 PM
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Talking about cheating on a sub where most of y’all get zero bitches is goofy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:41 AM
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This formatting on here never works for me 😤 Thanks for the tip though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:39 AM
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How are you determining “the bottom 10%” ? Are you talking income?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:34 AM
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Them acting like “go date women then” is an insult is cracking me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:31 AM
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“I don't know what you're really arguing against but noone should feel safe abusing another person verbally or physically.” ——-> Agree to disagree. No one should be beating another person over WORDS. I have my CCW, I can’t shoot someone over words (unless it’s a threat). How can you even justify that? And, in your mind - when is the line crossed? If I call a guy an asshole, he gets to beat me? Does that sound reasonable to you? “Considering that we are on a platform right now that can ban you an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:19 AM
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“There's a difference. I don't believe anyone should feel safe abusing another person in any form.” ——-> I’ll reiterate. There should be no hitting over words. The way the laws work back this up. “Should you feel safe going up to a group of gay people and calling them the f word?” ——-> Irrelevant, I’d never do this. “I'm black and I know for a fact no one feels safe coming up to me and saying the n-word.” ——-> I’d venture to say no one is scared to drop the n-bomb in front of you or anyone. Peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:06 AM
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“A man was about to hit a woman with a shopping cart by accident. He calmly told her to watch herself.” ———> Why did he tell her to watch herself? Wouldn’t he say “excuse me” instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:59 AM
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“Any person has the right to defend themselves. Verbal abuse is not an invitation to hit someone,but I understand why it gets there. No person has the right to be safe while abusing another person in any form.” ——-> I disagree with this fully. No one should be getting hit over words. IDC what someone says, unless it’s a direct threat to cause immediate bodily harm - there should be no hitting. ——-> I have never in my life witnessed a woman hitting a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:55 AM
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I don’t think I am an exception. Confident people want to be around confident people for the most part. Believe it or not (cause I talk a lot of shit on here, lol) I give out complaints like candy 🍬I like to lift people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:48 AM
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Lies. My confidence is dangerously high. I’m not even joking, I’m quite impressed with myself 🥰 i like surround myself with other confident people - especially my partners. I prefer someone that’ll tell the waitress their drink order is wrong - not someone who needs me to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:36 AM
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Oh, ok. Well I personally reject your input. Thanks though, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:49 PM
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Word? Hm. I paid ZERO attention to that case so I guess I’ll have to take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:24 PM
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Are you addressing me? If so, why? I don’t understand how your comment relates to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:03 PM
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The whole notion of “good men” and “bad men” is silly and useless. It’s also telling that “men” needs a descriptor. Why wouldn’t you just say “men” ? I personally don’t think there is a contradiction regarding OLD. I think men are not getting what they want; and women are not getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:38 PM
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…. Or a MAN. I bet if 1/10 men were raped by bigger stronger men - we’d hear about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:10 PM
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See, that’s my issue. Most of the time, women are talking about things related to dating. Then all of a sudden it’s “wHaT aBoUt tHe dRafT” (the draft that does not exist BTW).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:03 PM
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Sure! Fetlife and FEELD 👩🏽‍💻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:41 PM
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How is discussing our valid concerns about the brutal, underreported, crime of rape having it “both ways.” You know what, nevermind. Think what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:16 PM
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Like I said, it’s a valid concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:13 PM
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If not gender, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:08 PM
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Who does that though? If we’re discussing dating from the perspective of the people dating, we should be able to discuss our concerns. It’s not like rape is soooooo far-fetched; something that never happens. It happens a lot, and most of it is unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:07 PM
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Rape is not a buzzword, it’s a brutal crime FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:39 PM
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On the kink apps you can go straight to discussing sex if you want 🤷🏽‍♀️ this is probably not the case on the vanilla apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:11 PM
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Kink apps. I have heard that single-straight-cis men don’t have a ton of luck, but you probably have better chances than on “vanilla” dating sites/apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:55 PM
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“To be clear, I don't hate women or any other group of people, nor am I advocating for it, but we do have to start letting women be big girls and deal with the fact that they can be disliked as individuals based on their personality without it being representative of how that person views women as a whole.” ———-> “We” already do this, fam. For as long as I remember women have been disliked. Do you live in the US? Women are bashed all the time. Were demeaned in music/rap. Look at all the hate Mic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:38 PM
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I’ve not had casual sex with a stranger but I have had FWBs that I see casually. I had sex with them because it feels good. I only select people that are “sexually talented” lol. My orgasms are guaranteed so why not 💃🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:46 PM
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Will you tell me what “yellow pill” means? I googled and got nothing related to dating and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:33 AM
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He’s not close AT ALL. He admits that he’s never even been to a hostel 😐🤦🏽‍♀️ he made up this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:46 AM
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THIS! There’s all types of snaggle-tooth mofos with women, and maybe even a kid or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:39 PM
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This is one of the weirdest posts ever, lol. He’s never witnessed any of this but he somehow “knows what goes on” 😐🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:38 PM
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YUP!!! That is EXACTLY what this mofo is doing. He literally made this scenario up. He’s never even been to a hotel 😅💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:36 PM
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Ew. Stop messaging me 🤮 This is a DEBATE sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:26 PM
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Are you being serious? I already answered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:57 PM
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It FURTHER proves that OP has no idea what he’s talking about. He admitted in another comment that he’s never even been to a hostel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:54 PM
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No TF you don’t 😅 So all you have are “vibes” ? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:17 PM
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No. And your question doesn’t even make sense considering your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:17 PM
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If you’ve never even been to a hostel, how can you know what happens there?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:14 PM
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Agreed. So the “carefree” scenario you posted is all made up on your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:13 PM
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It happens though, is the point. Women are not doing any “carefree” solo traveling as you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:01 PM
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I listened to a podcast a few years ago about a group of young women that were drugged and assaulted by a police officer in Italy https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/dec/21/the-couch-surfing-predator-how-a-group-of-women-were-drugged-and-assaulted-then-fought-back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:56 PM
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I’m always so confused when this topic comes up. People like what they like. Are we supposed to feel bad for not being attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:27 PM
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“As a black man I get so entirely sick of the insane victim complex black women use....” ———> Why are you telling me this? IDC about your feelings. “It's nowhere remotely close to the level of intimidation that black man receive on a male to female basis.” ———> Where did I say it’s the same? Please show me a DIRECT quote. Thx. ************ Can I just remind y’all - this is a DEBATE sub 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:12 PM
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You saying mascs don’t approach is false. My lived experience (as an actual woman/fem that dates women) contradicts with what you say you have observed. Riddle me this - how are lesbians pairing up then? According to you, neither the mascs nor fems approach - so what happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:09 PM
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I guess. But I think he was like all ugly and gross (ew, just pictured what he probably looks like 🤮). It didn’t seem like he had any other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:05 PM
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I had ZERO “solutions” for that dude, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:57 PM
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I just checked the OP. Looks to be the exact same 🤷🏽‍♀️ not sure what you’re seeing on your end though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:35 PM
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Where did “the subject” change? Did OP update his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:34 PM
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“Almost every woman has insecurity that they are not good enough for their husbands, especially sexually. Especially if they actually love them.” ——-> You pulled this straight out of your ass, lol. This is untrue AF. Do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:23 PM
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There was a guy on a sub talking about “my girlfriend won’t sleep with me, what can I do?” Turns out they have been “dating” for like 15 years. She has medical issues, and there was like a 20 year age gap. He’s in his mid 60s. He deleted his post after about 45 mins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:22 PM
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Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:18 PM
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“Not denying that. Still agreeing with you.” ——> Cool. “I do feel the need to defend POC men here” ——> Ok, great. “and say you’re still not fully giving them the grace they deserve on this issue.” ——> Grace for what, exactly? “Saying “I’ve got it hard too” is what you’re attempting to shame me for” ——> That you FEEL shame does not mean I shamed you (I stg y’all are so dramatic, lol) - I was pointing out that your experience is not unique, Dassit. “But it’s exactly what you’re doing right now…. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:17 PM
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How could you know ANY of this, lol. “even then they don’t always feel like approaching” ———> You have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:57 PM
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My point is that having others fear you is common for POC. You’re not “special,” fam 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:31 PM
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Maybe 2 fems will “just stare at each other” but the masc/studs are often as forward as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:14 PM
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“This is important. The danger aspect. I find women have no clue what it’s like to be feared as a default.” ——-> I’m a black woman, I know what it feels like to have someone treat you as a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:11 PM
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I’d be a 7 at least. Could easily get to an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:05 PM
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Yes, the dynamics would be different but I’m not sure why that matters. Things might be more challenging for an “undesirable” man but I’m pretty confident that I’d still knock it out the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:14 PM
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I know this because I date women and I don’t struggle at all (and keep in mind, my pool is small AF). As long as my level of attractiveness remains the same, I’d kill it outchea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:55 PM
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I think people should be detached from the outcome - which means they’d go with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:37 PM
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As a man, I’d still be drowning in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:36 PM
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Or a bear mauling. We literally keep choosing the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:20 PM
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Absolutely TF not. I’m not engaging in anymore bad faith comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:54 AM
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Ok, if you think “a bigger scourge” on society is scamming over brutal murder then we can agree to disagree. We have different value systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:52 AM
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Oh, you funny. Got it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:50 AM
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What “narrative” ? This is real life, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:45 AM
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You think women are attacked/assaulted based on ATTRACTIVENESS? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:45 AM
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Agreed. Especially at night. Literal predators lurking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:37 AM
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Are you comparing being “scammed” for around $40 (potentially) to someone being murdered? Do you not value women’s lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:36 AM
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For YEARS it’s been “better safe than sorry” or “stranger danger” but NOW it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:34 AM
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“On average” means nothing. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:33 AM
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Yep. He’s all through these comments crying foul because women have (rightfully so) brought up the risks and potential fear dealing with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:09 AM
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Doesn’t matter, fam. And what do you mean “correct” ? How can you determine what is “correct” for someone else? Dating is not a quiz with correct and incorrect answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:05 AM
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I have no idea what those percentiles mean. I stand on my statement. Men, or better yet; the average men has 0-1 options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:57 AM
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“Also nobody said anything about victims, but where not going to equalize this as if both sides are "going through it" ——-> Agreed. Women have it much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:56 AM
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Yes we can, and we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:54 AM
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None of that matters. It’s still a consideration for most women, and you left this out of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:30 AM
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I disagree fully. Women aren’t even attracted to most of men. Sure, the attractive ones might be able to drum up options but the average man cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:25 AM
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Hm. You seem to have left out the part about the risks associated with dating men. Men are scared of (I guess) being “scammed” for a $40 dinner and women are afraid of being assaulted, stalked, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:23 AM
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I think your strategy is ok, but most men don’t even have the options to narrow down. How can you narrow down from zero? Not sure who thinks “the more people that chase me, the better” - this sounds stressful AF. I was dating 2 women at the same time, once (both “chasers”)🙅🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:52 AM
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IDGAF Show me the citation that I requested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:21 AM
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There are a lot more women than when I started.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:50 AM
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I have a STEM career spanning back prior to Y2K.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:50 AM
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No it’s not 😅 that’s why “whatever” was your only response.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:49 AM
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“Throughout all of human history men have created and added resources to the system and women extract those resources.” ———> Citation please - also “human” history is about 300,000 years old. Even in the hunter gatherer days, women GATHERED and raised the children. IDK when humans started “taxes” but this is hardly a measure of anything except some man-made system.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:48 AM
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What are you talking about? I don’t have a big sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:34 AM
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Women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:28 AM
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Women pay taxes too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:27 AM
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Lies. I prefer shorter guys anyway. 5’8” or 5’9” is perfect. Ugly men on the other hand - REPULSED. Also dick size doesn’t correlate, so 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:13 AM
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“Ok, perhaps I should have specified, the past 125 years or so, not Gen 1800’s.” ———-> It was in the 1930s - 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:59 PM
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Oh please the government doesn’t “give” you shit. What happens usually is that the martial assets are distributed evenly - and since most women work AND contribute in unpaid labor - the marital asset bucket is shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:54 PM
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The marital assets should definitely be distributed evenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:53 PM
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We depend on society and the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:31 PM
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They still don’t need men. They can get their CCW, and a ring camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:30 PM
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I disagree fully. One can decenter the opposite gender and just go on about life 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:12 PM
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You have be going on and on about “genz” - I’m countering that drivel with history 😐 plain ol’ US American history. As far as ethnic names, there is no “COULD” it is much much harder as a POC. There was literal legislation keeping whole races of people on the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:10 PM
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“Decentering” is seen as a healthy withdrawal from the opposite sex, but in online discourse it’s more often a spiteful retreat.” ———> So TF what. Most things have a healthy and none healthy side. Take water for instance, you need it and it’s helpful, but too much will kill ya. “And the modern toxic gender politics are partly to do with treating decentralization of the opposite sex” ———> Nah. “Decentralization” is nowhere near the correct term. Also, “toxic gender politics” is likely due to ACTU…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:06 PM
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Do you know that resumes with an “ethnic” name are tossed? Same qualifications and everything. It has been hard for POC since the beginning of the US. I imagine it sucked to get a job during Jim Crow, IJS.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:58 PM
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Nah. Just him, personally. No one else has EVER had to face hardships in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:51 PM
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Omg. The whining. Have you ever tried being a black woman from the hood - that was a foster kid? I had to work my ass off to get success. Don’t get me wrong, it has paid off like a mofo but still. I’m also autistic (late diagnosed in my 40s).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:50 PM
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That “big brother” label gives me the heebie jeebies. It can be used by older guys to groom children. Ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:43 PM
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As a black/mixed woman. Who TF are these people? What are these tropes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:42 PM
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I personally do not believe it. Most men in my vicinity try to fuck at some point; maybe not “most” - but definitely 75%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:35 PM
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Always 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:21 PM
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You can’t even write a proper sentence. Women will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:39 PM
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IMO, this is 100% true. The average penis size is 5 inches, which is abysmal. Women should not settle for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:36 PM
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No TF you can’t! Tall and ugly is scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:32 PM
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This is a lie. Ruby Bridges is still alive BTW. Education has always had value. This is why slaves were not allowed to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:17 PM
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Sure, they’d “investigate” then come to the conclusion that the women needs to be lobotomized.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:12 PM
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We would THRIVE without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:11 PM
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Black women could not vote until 1965.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:15 PM
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In my case, as a WOC - it is very much “we were slaves but Noe were not!” 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:56 PM
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I’d say that men have hailed themselves as the “protector/provider” which was hella shaky because men were never protectors. Very few men can be “providers” so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:29 PM
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Happier than they would be if they had to depend on a guy for basic needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:56 PM
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No one “gaslights” you. Personality is not the most important thing, initially. You MUST be physically attractive to a person - to even get your foot in the door. This should be common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:50 PM
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I’m definitely not surprised at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:52 PM
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You putting abuse in quotes indicates to me that you are not conversing in good faith. Feel free to think what you want, I’ll do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:49 PM
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I’ll ask again. Do you believe name calling is abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:46 PM
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Oop. There is that casual racism again. This is not just MY experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:03 PM
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Too late. I have 2 kids 👧🏽👦🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:45 AM
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Hm. “Everyone” is doing a lot of heavy lifting here. You think we can “love” one another while fighting for scraps in this shit society built on the backs of other people? I don’t think it works that way. Wish it did. Who benefits from this current system? Those are the “everyone” that does the things you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:12 AM
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Hm. Then why do so many women have stories? Not just personal stories, but we all know someone that has been attacked. Some of us know of people that have been killed. I’m not calling ALL men abusive but women should be very cautious. Also, I doubt you’re considering all forms of abuse - like name calling, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:03 AM
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No TF he is not. He’s all through these comments proving why he’s alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:56 AM
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You likely repulse women at a cellular level. Like, your DNA might actually stink or something. Just a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:49 AM
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“Women frequently claim that they can detect bad personalities, and such is what keeps lovely men lonely.” ——-> I hope that was a typo because none of you are lovely. Also, do men not make such claims? “I don't make the rules here. I just wish women would explain why they think abusive men have such great personalities.” ——-> Ask men 🤷🏽‍♀️ you act like this is gendered, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:45 AM
5

Ooooo girl. I might be red pill now. Because I think you might be on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:40 AM
0

Did you message me some shit under another comment? You have “frantic” energy. Don’t ever start off a comment to me with “yeah so” 😐 I have no idea what you’re trying to tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:39 AM
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Big facts. Luigi can GET IT 😂 And yes. Serial killers are usually unattractive. Who is trying to give it to John Wayne Gacy? Ew. Ted Bundy seems to be a special case. I never EVER understood the appeal, at all. He looks like some librarian or weird teacher to me. People say he was charming. Jeremy Meeks is another. Very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:34 AM
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Ladies. PLEASE do not answer. OP is not here to learn. OP: WTF do you think? You think abusers show up to the first date and knock her out? 😐 so you think Scott Peterson had a good personality? How about Chris Watts? How about OJ? People seemed to like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:29 AM
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Ooop, my “bad faith detector” is going off, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:21 AM
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Sir. What in the ENTIRE FUCK are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:18 AM
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IDK. I have heard way more men complaining about “fAmiLy” than women. I guess we’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:12 AM
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Ew. Projection 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:55 AM
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This is pretty common. I was first catcalled by adult MEN when it was 11/12.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:29 PM
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Are you a real human person? How women act in PORN changed how you see women? Can you tell me your thought process? Do you know they’re ACTING in porn? I’m fascinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:23 PM
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I personally think the “rose colored glasses” have been collectively removed. Women are collectively over it so the standards have raised for LTRs. Also, the baby thing. Women are less willing to take risks and I don’t blame them one bit. There’s not enough money in the world that could make me risk pregnancy/death. IMO, men are upset that women have raised the bar. So they are crashing out all over the place - which won’t help 🙂🙃 EDIT: Since sex is not a biological need for survival, I have zer…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:16 PM
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Have you considered that most women have never even heard of that podcast? How does your mind work? I’m honestly asking. “Among female watchers” is already a small percentage, fam 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:52 PM
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“does adapt in your language means giving into unreasonable demands?” ———> Which of the average woman’s “demands” are you talking about? “Also funny you say women want respect when research has shown that women tend to like guys with dark triads more lol.” ———> There might be some women that prefer “dark energy” dudes but it’s not the norm for average women. And who cares what they want 🤷🏽‍♀️ just like IDGAF what you want. “If your statement was even a teensy bit true, a common and honest man wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:00 PM
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So, lol. That can be 80% of men not approaching or paying for meals - we don’t care 🤷🏽‍♀️ never will 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s literally not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:50 AM
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It’s not difficult, fam. I date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:42 AM
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Speaking for myself only. No, I do not feel anything in my clit when I see an attractive guy (or girl).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:47 AM
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No, it’s just weird. Don’t use POC to make a point. Especially if you’re not one. That’s just common sense 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:37 AM
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I gotta say, she’s my type of c-word!!! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:43 PM
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Are you aware that most women are just going on about their lives with no consideration for seeing STRANGERS in a romantic context? Some of y’all might be dealing with the spotlight effect; also, lots of women are already bop’s up, or not interested for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:38 PM
3

Animosity? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:07 PM
3

If they both work, they’re both providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:06 PM
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Not sure why you’re telling me this but go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:22 PM
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DAMN BOY (you kinda crashed out) 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:08 PM
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Boy, hush. It’s all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:04 PM
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Yep. Still not landing. Thanks for trying though 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:29 PM
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Hard pass. I can’t do 5 inch dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:54 PM
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But YOU are the one that added medical diagnoses to the convo - in your OP. Then later you say “you can’t do that” 😐 it’s hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:53 PM
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Honestly, what is up with these dudes lately? Just unhinged and saying shit - AFTER being proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:50 PM
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“Therefore women also dehumanize men 🤔” ——-> Not enough, apparently 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:49 PM
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How old were you the first time you were catcalled? I was 11/12 the men were adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:41 PM
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LMAO, this you?? “Sounds like narcissism to me. Literally.” EDITED: Also your actual post has mental health diagnoses in it. Are you able to see your own comments? We can, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:40 PM
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Doesn’t matter. Your assertion is objectification is a myth - which is FALSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:38 PM
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I hate when y’all pull race in, to make a point. Unless you are a POC, it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:33 PM
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Yep. You’re racist 🖕🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:28 PM
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LMAO, agreed. The irony be juicy! OP: Women can’t handle bluntness and truth like men. Also OP: My ex was blunt with me, and it was very mean, she didn’t have to say it like that 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:14 PM
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Ooop. “Violent thug” seems racist 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:10 PM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about or why you’re addressing me. Seems like you think you’re telling me off, but it’s not landing at all. Maybe you responded to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:08 PM
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But women ARE oppressed so of course we talk about it. Men are NOT oppressed but claim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:06 PM
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TBF, I think I’m morally superior to almost everyone 🤷🏽‍♀️ especially online. I agree that traits are not gender-specific so any talks about “female nature” are just weird. Most people want a successful partner, but if a woman does - “sHe’s a gOldIgGer” or “hYPERgAmy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:03 PM
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Pure lies 🤦🏽‍♀️ People have objectified others since always. Not to get too far in the racial weeds, but a lot of things were justified because we were seen as “not human.” Dehumanization is well documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:59 PM
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A lot of men say they are oppressed. There are EXAMPLES on this sub. I am not saying only on this sub 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:48 PM
1

Source please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:42 PM
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“Sometimes they do, but that won't stop anyone from being dishonest if they want to be. It's not like you can predict these things will happen and proactively head them off. Probably, the hurt has to occur before it is even on the radar.” ———> Agreed. So “better safe than sorry” - right? “You should work on your attitude lol.” ———> Boy hush, her “attitude” is fine. Y’all crack me up with these little passive aggressive attempts 😂 just sassy for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:40 PM
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“I don't think all men are like that. But some are. And that is what fathers warn against. More men will be flaky about relationships than will try to rape or kill women. It's not even close.“ ——-> Since this is the case (and we all know it is) why do men get triggered when women are cautious around them? Why “not all men” when a woman is telling others to be careful. But a man saying it, is not only acceptable - but unchallenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:38 PM
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Nah. Men are all through this sub saying they are oppressed by women 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:25 PM
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I’m a black/mixed woman in STEM, and bayyybeeeee 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:24 PM
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I see the link to “evil autism” leave us out of it! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:24 PM
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Literally never. I have heard, “yes I’m picky - oh well” a lot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:19 PM
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Well most women don’t choose men based on sex. They choose him based on other things, then hope the sex is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:14 PM
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Agreed. Take “negging” for example. How is that supposed to work? I’d be so annoyed by negging, I’d shoo him away, TF.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:59 PM
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Blah, blah, blah. My point remains. Men cannot handle blunt honest from women. This has ALWAYS been the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:11 PM
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Again, just because you got hurt does not mean she TRIED to hurt you. Even in your examples (unless she’s lying), she’s being blunt. Your feelings might he hurt, sure. But that doesn’t mean she tried to. Also, men talk all the time about “daddy issues” - what’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:44 AM
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Let’s PLEASE play the honest game!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:41 AM
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Terry Crews talked about his assault. WOMEN supported him. Men clowned him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:40 AM
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I’m CTFUUUUU 😂😂😂💀 I’m definitely staying away. Ol’ hatfishing ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:36 AM
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“I am a black man. And the way black women talk to anyone can be more on the true disrespectful side rather than attempted bonding.” ———> Who made that claim that “bonding” attempts are made? Also, I hope you know you’re invoking the “angry black woman” stereotype? “I once told my (black) ex that she needs to be better with money because she was late on her rent.” She told me that she was was use to having gifts because her parents spoiled her and that I wouldn't understand because my mom died a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:34 AM
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I know what an average is. I know that the average is 5 inches. I was unaware the average was 5 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:46 AM
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Well, “you” are words on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:24 AM
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What year are you from? I’m honestly asking. Do women still flip out over weight? Seems like something that happened in the 80s with the “jazzercise” crowd. In any case, I disagree 100% Men crash out THINKING their wives previous lovers might be better in bed. Imagine a man asking his wife if he has the biggest dick, and her saying “nope” lol. He’d be throwing up and sliding down the wall for the next 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:22 AM
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I don’t have a character flaw though. You not liking my comments means nothing. I don’t value your opinion, or even you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:14 AM
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“Again, if you see the average dick size as too small then it might be a YOU issue. (To be fair I thought it was closer to 6 myself).” ——-> Not an issue at all. I have no problem finding big dicks - which is why I was SHOCKED at the average. Also, I’m bi and date women exclusively now 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:12 AM
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Hm. Looking at your grammar, I’m not surprised you’d say that 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:07 AM
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IDK, fam. I’m a black/mixed woman that grew up “playing the dozens” … men crash out, not women. A few months back, Corey Holcomb punched a woman in her face because she was clowning his ug’lass. My ex-husband used to dunk on me often, but when I simply called attention to his pointy head, then I’m the problem, lol. Mind you, HE KNEW his head was pointy. But me saying it …. pure drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:03 AM
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Boy hush, where am i “playing coy” ? Also, YES - everything I do is on purpose, TF. I’m typing these words on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:59 AM
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An ex of mine works with men. They do cell tower shit. They do fight, physically. Granted - these guys are together 24/7 for weeks at a time, but still. They seem to make up easily, I will say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:40 AM
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Really, I’m pretty sure that acronyms are in all caps usually. WTF, LOL, STFU, etc. Since when are acronyms in lowercase? I’m autistic, not lazy 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:35 AM
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Men absolutely canNOT take bluntness from women 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:34 AM
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Agreed! Most problems would be solved if people were more direct/blunt. Problem is, most people can’t take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:33 AM
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Stroke flames or answer questions? You’re proving OP wrong BTW (and I ❤️ to see it), lol. You can’t handle blunt honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:31 AM
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Take responsibility for what exactly? BTW… my bluntness doesn’t bother me in the least. I’m a dope person. Would not change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:29 AM
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Nah. I was late diagnosed. Had no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:28 AM
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“Wait most men in general? (Might be a you issue)” ———> Yes. Most. The average is like 5 inches. I thought it was 7. I looked it up and everything 😮‍💨TBF, my ex-husband is at least 8 inches - and I typically date men from a similar demographic - so maybe that’s a factor. Either way, 5 inches is… not ideal. “Or most men on this sub? (How dafuq would you possibly know)” ———> lol, ESPECIALLY the men on this sub, lol. Y’all crash out every time I talk about this. Remember the DMs I mentioned? Also, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:27 AM
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This is actually a really good point/counter. We could have fewer men and still thrive, populate, etc. Too many “uncoupled” men is bad for society anyway. Why spend trillions of dollars when women can do it naturally for much less? It makes no sense. I’m a techie, and I love tech so I hope there are advances that we can’t even imagine. The “powers that be” can also incentivize motherhood. It wouldn’t even be that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:27 PM
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No. I don’t see the difference. The man is asking why he’s not getting dates or whatever; not “am I ugly?” Let’s also not pretend that men don’t get violent with women over words, or perceived slights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:01 PM
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IDGAF 😂🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:18 PM
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Nope. No line at all. Blunt is blunt. Someone can FEEL insulted without being insulted 🤷🏽‍♀️ Also, the scenario was very clear. A man asks someone (me) “am I ugly” I respond - “Yes” and mofos were crashing out. They were implying that I was being cruel (to the HYPOTHETICAL man in the HYPOTHETICAL scenario). It was a mess. As far as dick size, that’s another area that crash-outs happen. I get angry DMs riddled with all the annoying little dick energy you can imagine. MEN HATE HONESTY/BLUNTNESS FR…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:17 PM
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“Lack of tact is just male communication. Your haircut looks terrible. That was a stupid decision. She's out of your league. Men say this to each other's faces, in public, without managing anyone's emotional response. It gets received as honesty.” ———> Lies. I’m autistic AF. People do not like bluntness. Just a couple weeks ago guys were on this very sub crashing out because I was willing to tell them they were ugly if they asked. Mofos FROM THIS SUB were in my DMs complaining. Whole time, i was…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:00 PM
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No TF you won’t find “feminists on this very sub” defending circumcision. I doubt you can find ONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:20 PM
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The difference is BIRTH. What do you think the word “born” means? Have you ever heard the term “give life?”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:17 PM
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Y’all already do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:12 PM
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We don’t have to imagine. Men do this already.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:08 PM
1

You are so dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:03 PM
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“No, anyone can not call themselves feminist.” ——> Yes they can. Who is stopping them? It’s not like feminism has a registration.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:17 PM
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Your lack of media literacy is embarrassing. You’re upset over nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:14 PM
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How are they “not remotely as big a deal as feminism?” ? You can’t just arbitrarily decide something isn’t a big deal without reasons. For starters we can compare sub count.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:54 PM
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Doesn’t matter. You asked about a male YouTuber saying crazy shit. They already exist. Threatening us with something that is already happening is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:42 PM
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Maybe that’s what the “Male Lonliness Epidemic” really is, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:32 PM
2

Not a single person is looking to a man for nursing and therapy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:26 PM
3

Did you push back when your “close female friends” said these things. What were their responses?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:22 PM
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They already do this, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:19 PM
2

Were they also children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:15 PM
2

Men are not better. The laws are “better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:52 PM
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I’d like to know how this will worsen women’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:34 PM
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They can have newborn babies now, if they hire a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:14 PM
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I can’t believe I was downvoted for my QUESTION. People be mad for no reason 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:08 PM
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I have a hard time believing that a regular boy can’t defend himself from girls. Why didn’t you just run, fam? You stood there and got beat up by slower, weaker, humans? Like HOW? Were you drugged? Please tell me the entire story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:22 PM
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Sure, you don’t “owe” her anything but on a DEBATE sub, under your own post, you should be able to have discourse without using AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:18 PM
1

Show me the polls please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:09 PM
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This never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:08 PM
1

You thinking a woman has to “lure” a man is crazy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:23 PM
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We care about ALLLLL positive traits. Kindness, charisma, personality, 8 inches. It’s never been either/or.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:13 PM
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I know you didn’t just call TAYLOR SWIFT “the most prolific song writer of this generation” did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:11 PM
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Hm. I find both of those unacceptable. I wouldn’t want either of those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:53 PM
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“There are many laws that stop men from adopting kids and so on.” ———> Source? If you are female you can get artificial insemination whatever but you can't do stuff like that when you are a male. ———> You can hire a surrogate I'm not asking to have kids every year but we deserve to have at least two versions of us. ———> You can hire a surrogate, twice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:08 AM
2

They can also hire a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:57 AM
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The interesting thing is that men don’t really want to raise kids. All this going on about babies is odd (and now that I think about it, gives me the heebie jeebies). So artificial wombs? What then? IDK any woman that has any fears around artificial wombs. Why in TF would we feel any regret “down the line” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:43 AM
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Not only is it “funny” - it’s tin-foil-hat energy. We’re laughing at you, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:34 AM
3

Boy hush. I date women and women still are not my “competitors” what an odd way of approaching life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:33 AM
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Ah. I responded to the wrong comment. My B.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:23 AM
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“Instead swiping yes or no people swipe hot or not.” ——-> What happens when most women think most men are NOT? Women are swiping left on like 90% of men. “every user gets a rating by percentile of his gender (so the top 10% attractive men get in 1 group, the 20-to 19,9% or something attractive men and so one)” ——-> Who/what makes this determination?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:17 AM
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Looks are important. Not sure why any normal adult would think otherwise. A person needs to be ATTRACTED to their partner. Once you find a partner, looks matter less over the course of the relationship. Looks fade so there needs to be more. This might be where “looks don’t matter” comes from. Keep in mind most women think most men are unattractive. I find most men repulsive. Ew. Side note: You seem like a miserable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:08 AM
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TBF, it’s too late for most of these weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:50 AM
5

If she needs a vibrator - she doesn’t need a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:44 AM
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Boy. Don’t ever “cold approach” talk to me. Ew. I’m not interested in any of those links. Glad you posted though, maybe someone needs them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:53 PM
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Yeah, pal. Just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:50 PM
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What is the debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:11 PM
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“Idea is to use their attacks against them. Be aggressive, loud, obnoxious, and just plain unpleasant to feminists. They need to feel the hatred and disgust coming towards them. They need to feel frustration everytime they dare to present their stupid ideas.” ———-> Y’all already do this 🤷🏽‍♀️ none of this is new, fam. No one will be at all surprised. Have fun, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:59 PM
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A lot of women DO NOT want to date, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:47 PM
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“Something's got to give.” ——-> No it doesn’t. Also, a lot of women are just not interested. Nothing you can do about that. “Either woman making the first move needs to become the norm or we have to ignore woman's preferences about being approached or not.” ——-> Ah, so fuck what most women desire. You’re going to do what you want anyway? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:46 PM
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I thought we were only talking about cold approaches. As far as cold approaches (a complete stranger, approaching you at the gas station for instance) i think most women say don’t. Maybe some women don’t mind, but not enough to overwrite the vast majority of women that don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:18 PM
2

What “fence” ? There is no “other side of the fence” when it comes to the trauma I suffered as a child at the hands of adult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:14 PM
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All of this. And I didn’t even touch things that have happened as an “adult” (around 19-20) because I probably should have known better or whatever. Mind you, I’m late diagnosed autistic. We sometimes get into situations because we misread signals/intentions. I have had close calls because of this. But yeah, I’m the “mIsAndrIst” for choosing a woman Uber driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:54 PM
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I used to think they were referencing “all men must die” from Game of Thrones. Kill all men is not a saying at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:43 PM
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When it comes to this topic women are pretty much one or the other. I’m in the camp that does not want to be approached, ever. But there are some women I suppose that don’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:02 PM
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Thank you for this, truly 🦋 So many people dismiss what we’re saying and our “unstructured living experiences” - it’s frustrating AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:18 PM
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“Your personal trauma is deeply unfortunate, but those experiences happened because you encountered specific individual men tied to a localized demographic, upbringing, environment, or psychology, not because their "manhood" itself was the root cause. If we use unstructured lived experiences to hate or avoid an entire macro-category, you could logically trace blame back to all humans, nature, atoms, laws of physics and hate the Universe or the Big Bang itself.” ——-> Even your language is dismiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:30 PM
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Exactly. My entire post is highlighting that exact hypocrisy: men aren't a monolith, and we shouldn't be lazily **weaponizing crime statistics** against an entire gender instead of looking at specific, localized factors like socioeconomic status, geographic areas, or psychology. ———> Who is “weaponizing crime stats”? Because what most of us are doing is avoiding situations that can lead to the same harm it did in the past. Y’all want to ignore the actual trauma some of us suffered, as CHILDREN. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:04 PM
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I’m glad you clocked that! “Just one non consensual fuck” is wild phrasing 😮‍💨 Him saying “just one” is weird AF. Would it make more sense to him if it was instead 2-3 non-consensual fucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:02 PM
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And what is the point, really? What exactly is the beef? I avoid male Uber drivers (mind you, the fact that they had to add this feature is telling) - what’s the issue? How is anyone impacted by MY safety measure? I lock my doors at night. I make sure my car door is locked, etc. Who is hurt by this - and in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:58 PM
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I was paid less than my male counterpart for the same exact job. Even sued the company. This was in 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:46 PM
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THANK YOU ‼️ BTW, I’m a black/mixed woman. All this “eQuaLitY hAS bEEn aChieVed” is frustrating. Especially since it’s common knowledge. Like we have a whole hierarchy in place where women - especially WOC are on the bottom. Thinking that equality has been achieved is ignoring facts, and real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:45 PM
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Her case is pretty normal, IMO. We all have horror stories about men. Some of us were assaulted by adult men as children. Again, I was catcalled around 11/12 - which is consistent with what other women report. Is it really unfathomable that eventually we’d avoid getting ourselves in situations that can be harmful to us? Because let’s be clear, me avoiding men - like the “dark alley” scenario is no different than me choosing a woman driver for Uber rides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:43 PM
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They’ll deny the pay gap until the cows come home. I literally sued a company for discrimination. A huge part of the proof is that my UNDERQUALIFIED male co-worker made more money than me. He was even promoted at my supervisor for 2-3 (they realized he was an idiot and placed him back at his original position). I have talked about this, on this sub. It doesn’t matter. They think the pay gap has been “fixed” 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:28 PM
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See, that’s what I’m saying. Some of us have been victims - CHILD victims, mind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:24 PM
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Can confirm. Woman/Woman sex is 👏🏽 out 👏🏽 of 👏🏽 this 👏🏽 world 🤤 I’m more of a “pillow princess” - I pretty much just lay there and get waves of orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:08 PM
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IMO, the whole notion of AF/BB is insecure man-based thinking (which I find extremely pathetic, personally). Men are framing themselves as “beta” - because of the attraction she had towards someone in her past? Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:00 PM
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“I would avoid men in a dark alleys too. What I won't do is avoid men at workplace or colleges or any other places like that.” ——-> No one is avoiding men in public. It’d be impossible anyway. Y’all are 50% of the population. “You are just paranoid if you believe that men working jobs and making decent pay or even living pay check to check would throw all that away for just one non consensual fuck and would ruin their lives for that.” ——-> They do though … why do you think they implemented women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:53 AM
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Nah. Some of us have lived through trauma. Not to trauma dump but I was first catcalled at 11/12. I was SA’d by a camp counselor the summer I turned 16. Most of my friends have similar stories. Also, I grew up in the 90s. Crack era. Dudes pimping “crackheads” out. Men have ALWAYS been high risk, low reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:41 AM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:35 AM
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Right! Saying “equality has been achieved” while we have a rapist president and fewer rights than a decade ago is just straight up incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:34 AM
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I have been looking on the “Girl Dinner Diaries” sub and alllll sorts of shit is posted - like SA/coercion. Bottom line: Dudes are too risky 🤷🏽‍♀️ high risk (that can result in SA/Murder) low reward. Even if the guy isn’t a murderer he could still be one of those resentful weirdos. Ugh. No bueno.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:31 AM
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First off, I’m a black/mixed woman. If you think I’m not subject to extreme jail sentences, you’re mistaken. Then, there’s femcide. The overturning of Roe vs Wade. In 2023 Brittany Watts was charged with a felony when she had a miscarriage at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:28 AM
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Such a good point. It was very “my friend thinks you’re cute.” I vividly remember the “you’re not that fine anyway” lines after declining. Once I told a guy that I was 12 (I was 17). He didn’t believe me but what could he do? Any glorification of the past needs close examination.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:21 AM
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Equality has not been achieved, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:16 AM
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“WTH are you even saying the body of the post was quite clear.” ———> Meh, that’s debatable, lol. “You guys **pick out one point** that promotes your argument and then ignore everything else that doesn’t support your point just to save face.” ———> Pipe down, I only “picked out” what you explicitly said in YOUR title. Why would I “ignore” a post on a DEBATE sub? Wouldn’t it make more sense to read everything so I can understand and tailor my response? ———> The whole “save face” thing is pure proje…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:12 PM
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IKR…. what money? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:32 PM
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What are you looking for exactly? Because “blue pill” is just - mainstream, right? It’s the default way of being for most people. How do you provide information about default settings?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:31 PM
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I’m reposing this. Sorry if it appears twice 😬 Isn’t blue pill basically “normal life, mainstream ideals” ? Like “white picket fence” thinking? If so - I think I can confidently say most of us have lived regular life and can make some determinations based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:23 PM
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You know, you might be onto something. I have seen guys on the “short” subreddit (a MISERABLE place, BTW) blaming their shorter parent - which is usually the mother. Some dudes say they don’t want to procreate because they are short 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:04 PM
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Agreed - but you have to acknowledge that when something is hammered into your head; takes awhile to shake it. Religion does this too. The sex shaming is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:51 PM
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Wouldn’t it make sense to hire surrogates here in the US? What is the benefit of getting someone from a different area to have babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:20 PM
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My upbringing was very much the same. Teen pregnancy was “an issue” (a LOT of those girls were getting knocked up my men in their 20s BTW) so “don’t get pregnant” was drilled into our heads. The powers that be now deciding that pregnancy is good is hilarious but this was NOT the case until very recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:11 PM
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Hm. I’m looking for a FDS influencer, specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:02 PM
2

So she’s an FDS influencer that says “men will lie…” ? I figured the strategies for FDS would be about makeup and shit. Level up content.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:48 PM
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Sources please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:33 PM
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Your title is “Women have ruined cold approaching” not - women are preventing me from building connections with them 😐 Just a side note: Stand on your shit. Don’t “soften” your argument just because you’re wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:30 PM
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Please speak for yourself, lol. I’m genX - I grew up in the hood in the 90s. I do not EVERRRR want to be cold approached by a man. I have been avoiding certain gas stations because of riff-raff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:26 PM
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What are you going to do if you’re never “dEsiRed”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:21 PM
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Downvoting is against the rules? That’s strange. I have been downvoted. Did you also get downvoted? I know incel has a negative connotation. I have no idea why you keep telling me random shit that I already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:19 PM
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So, according to you. Women and smartphones ruined cold approaching? Just as a side note (not sure you’re aware) but most women HATE cold approaches. I personally wear a decoy wedding ring so if I am approached (I make every effort not to be) I have an easy out; hopefully. The reason we hate it, is y’all are unpredictable. We have no way of knowing what your motivations are. And since most of us have 1-2 horror stories about being approached/stalked. Do you think men hold any responsibility here…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:45 PM
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“Then what is special about Manosphere concept.” ———> Nothing “It is not a self-definition. Men didn't use it. It was used by their haters.” ———> Your own source says that a man coined the term. You keep glossing over this fact. A term being “used by haters” doesn’t change the fact that a man coined the term. In summary - a man coined the MANOSPHERE term. “Eventually some men embraced it though...” ———> IDK how “eventually” fits into the sentence (and I doubt you know either, you don’t even know…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:35 PM
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This is good advice, IMO 🦋
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:22 PM
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But how can you know that “most people who struggle in dating” are blue collar? What about other fields? Take IT for example. You think the typical “coder” isn’t struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:06 PM
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Ah. So “trust me bro, I know about blue collar bros, because my bros told me - in bros we trust” 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:58 PM
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“But since most people who struggle in dating are working blue collar jobs” ———-> Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:52 PM
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You’re using “cold approach” incorrectly. Meeting people and building friendships is normal. I do it myself from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:32 PM
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I always thought a “cold approach” means that you do not know the person. Just like marketing folks might do “cold calls” (meaning, they don’t have a lead or introduction). If I’m pumping gas I do not want to be approached by a man that I don’t know. The end 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:18 PM
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Yeah, I know. How is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:51 PM
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Girl 🤦🏽‍♀️ he does not care. Another commenter pointed out that his source conflicts with his premise. OP then started talking about “haters” 😐 Methinks his problem is that women / “haters” use the term. He’s obsessed with the concept of “haters” - that’s his beef. On a DEBATE sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:46 PM
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Oh wow. You’re not embarrassed? YOUR source confirmed that the term was coined by a man. This conflicts with your own premise 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:14 PM
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Interesting. Any notable FDS influencers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:04 PM
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Sir. Delete this post 🤦🏽‍♀️ You are arbitrarily deciding who is being a “hater” and who isn’t. “So what, a man made the term - he wasn’t a hater, but everyone else that says manosphere is a hater” head ahhh 👀 TBF, maybe your post should be about haters. And on a different sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:03 PM
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Ugh. This too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:59 PM
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Him thinking “men” is a better term is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:58 PM
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Is FDS “female dating strategy” ? I think that was before my time in these spaces so I can’t speak to that. BTW, “femosphere” is not going to hit like you think it is. Keep trying though, at some point someone will be offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:56 PM
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I cackled the 1st time I saw “femosphere” 🤭 And really, this is something I notice with a lot of men. First, they don’t understand nuance. They think they can just “flip” a term/concept and it’ll have the same meaning. It hardly ever works that way. Femosphere will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:51 PM
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What term shall I use in its place? “Men” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:46 PM
5

Mofo just discovered how language works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:39 PM
5

Quit using a common term? Sir, are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:38 PM
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I not addressing the concept of “haters” on a debate sub. But yes. The concept of the manosphere is a made up term. Humans often make up terms to refer to something - “leftist” is a common one, “right wing” also. Not sure what you’re so hype about 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:27 PM
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I mean, yeah - words, labels, concepts are man made. What is your point? Do you think you discovered something? The term “mOdErN wImMizn” is made up too. It also has a negative connection (same as manosphere). What are we talking about, fam?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:19 PM
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Yeah, pal. That’s what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:06 AM
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PREACH! I have dated older men (married one TWICE) - he absolutely, 100% led with money to the point of lovebombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:35 PM
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Hm. I don’t think “dramatic” is a word I’d use to describe a system, but ok I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:07 PM
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If y’all had not claimed to be protectors you wouldn’t be getting called out. It’s not a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:02 PM
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“Proving my point here lol. If you truly didn't see men as protectors, you wouldn't feel the need to insult men by calling them cowards.” ——-> I’m countering y’all’s BS. This is how things work. You falsely claim to be “pRoTectoRs” when the opposite is true - I call you the opposite. This is how discourse often works 🙂 also, I think it’s funny to rattle y’all’s emotional asses 🥰 “And bet your "women are natural protectors" BS goes straight out the window when you see women not stepping in to hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:56 PM
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Oh, ok. You’re being dramatic. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:37 PM
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I disagree here too 🤷🏽‍♀️ I have had several men “protect me” (from other men) - but were they? Is my dude protecting ME or his ego? From what I have experienced, men will “protect” women from other men by beating the man’s ass for “looking at my women” 🤦🏽‍♀️ Also, the whole “protect my sister, daughter, etc” means nothing since a some girls and women are hurt by the same ones that CLAIM to be the protectors. Know anything about the Gisèle Pelicot case? Bottom line: Men are not protectors, never…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:35 PM
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Sir, calm TF down. No one has ever said anything about “suffer and die” (I swear, y’all are sooo dramatic). Most women just want to be safe and left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:28 PM
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There is zero evidence of this - but to them, not getting pussy at whim is akin to dying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:13 PM
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Will do, thanks! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:12 PM
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The problem, for me is that men have hailed themselves as “protectors” 🤦🏽‍♀️ for centuries “we’re the protectors” but when it comes time to actually protect, they are straight up mealy-mouthed cowards wobbling at thought of confronting a stronger man (see gif below). In truth, WOMEN are natural protectors. In short, I have no problem with men being cowards 🤷🏽‍♀️ just stop pretending otherwise and embraces being a coward. This way, there is no confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:57 PM
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How is it a problem for me? 👀🤔 “Ohhhhhhh nooooooo I am not interacting with the mofos that I do not want to interact with, what shall I do??” 😭 “ohhhh dang, this guy on Reddit says that I should not boast about something that I didn’t boast about, what shall I do??” 😭 Bottom line: Women are not approaching because they’d rather do anything but be near y’all. I suppose it’s comforting to pretend that women are “not brave” - but this is 100% false, and there is zero evidence to support this claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:50 PM
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The women don’t want y’all. This is what you’re missing. It’d be like if someone told me about a sale at a store I would NEVER shop in (like a discount thrift-bin store). It’s useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:29 PM
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Resources? Lol. Have you seen these folks? Most are on government assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:26 PM
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Men can decline doing anything they don’t want to 🤷🏽‍♀️ no one is forcing y’all. No one should compromise AT ALL when it comes to their own body, WTF are you saying? What if your girlfriend/wife wants you to get a penis enlargement because you have a micropenis? She’d be wrong, because it’s YOUR BODY. See?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:21 PM
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Personality does matter more than looks overall. This should be obvious because looks change over time. Over the longevity of a relationship - personality is more important than looks. But initially - the attraction has to be there. For the 99% of you that range from unattractive to repulsive, you don’t even get to show your “shining personalities” because of the way you look/present. None of this is groundbreaking information. I swear, some of y’all are bots that have ZERO knowledge of human in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:17 PM
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But that’s the point - there isn’t even a “driver” for women to date, much less approach🤷🏽‍♀️ most of you range from unattractive to repulsive. Do you know how many attractive men I have seen in the past week? Maybe 2. The week before, ZERO. You framing women as anything but disinterested is (as the kids say) “cope.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:12 PM
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Lies! My only goal is to point and laugh at failures 🫵🏽😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:06 PM
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Ok so worse case scenario - she settled. So what. She still has a partner that is clearly doing everything she wants which is more than most men get. How does that land? Even 600 pound women can find simps 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:38 PM
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The last line “even if they’ve done them in the past” is going to have them crashing out 😂🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:11 PM
1

And those 300 (even 600) pound women will still have more options than 9999.999% of y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:07 PM
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I’m already with my VERY-BERRY best option - we’ve been to two concerts this week 💃🏽🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:02 PM
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I love how y’all pretend to have vast networks of female friends that are saying the things opposite to 99% of all women in existence. “One of my best friends (a woman) confided in me that she regrets not approaching her crush back in 1982. She cried, ‘oh why…. WHY was I not brave’” as she collapsed in my arms” 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:00 PM
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There’s no way you think this lil “reverse psychology” trick will work on anyone older than 4 do you? First off, the vast majority of y’all are unattractive. Have you ever been approached? Why not? Most likely you’re not anyone’s type (in terms of attractiveness). This is why you’re not approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:34 AM
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You keep trying to frame it as bravery, it’s not. You look silly. Let me give you an analogy that you’ll pretend not to understand: Let’s say I’m highly qualified for several jobs in a high demand field. Recruiters call me daily to offer interviews, etc. At some companies - I’d have to go through the entire HR process which takes more time, AND the pay/benefits are lower. Am I a “coward” for not going for the company/HR positions? Mind you, I’m getting calls from recruiters that can have me plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:23 AM
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The “why” to what? You added nothing to this interaction, and no one asked you why anything. Be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:17 AM
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Crashing out already, I see 😂😂😂 Bottom line: Women don’t have to, need to, want to approach any man ever in her life and men will still approach/annoy/harass her. Any accusations about “bRaVeRy” or “iNseCUirTy” will never land. Now, do the lame thing again and tell me I lack reading comprehension 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:15 AM
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Ugh. First off, I have no idea what your first sentence is. I’m autistic, I need proper grammar FFS 🤦🏽‍♀️ It’s not about right or wrong. It’s about reality. The reality is that women are not naturally attracted to most men. That alone should indicate that looks matter. Women are not lying (as y’all claim). People (women included) can be very shallow - which should not be a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:06 AM
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“this respect, women are vastly disproportionately contributing to their own suffering, since the vast majority default to a passive role of being approached (by the wrong person as they described).” ———> You thinking women are suffering because they are passive daters is hilarious. A lot of women have tons of options - we can be passive AF, and still have offers for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:00 AM
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Yeah, a lot of women have stepped back too. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze for a lot of folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:54 AM
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Men vs Dumb Broads?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:45 AM
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IDK, fam. This is regular dating. You win some, you lose some. Also this is not gendered - men can also be duds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:45 AM
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You said absolutely nothing. Do you have an example or not? What trait do you look for to spot “physically abusive” women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:41 AM
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Boy hush. Women have said that they find the vast majority of men gross/unattractive. There’s also women that openly dog on short men. Women are not collectively saying looks don’t matter 😐🤦🏽‍♀️ we MUST be attracted to our partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:33 AM
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If a woman isn’t actively trying - she doesn’t like the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:29 AM
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I date women, and money is still important!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:28 AM
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“For men, of course they can spot the PHYSICALLY abusive women.” ——> Can y’all? How? I’m honestly asking. I have a hard time “spotting” physically abusive men - I’m interested to know how you’re able to do this with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:08 AM
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I have not always avoided them, obviously - I have been in society/community with men for decades. I was married twice - to a man. I had male in-laws, I have male family members - they have friends. My friends have male family members. Also, I can only avoid them to a certain degree (they are 50% of the population). That said - I 100% avoid them when I can. I do female-only Ubers for example. All of this is obvious. You pretending to not understand nuance so you can act like you had a slam dunk …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:48 AM
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Sir. Your response is pure gibberish; and your assertions are false (as evidenced by the comments).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:47 PM
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What do you think impacts transwomen more in society? The transphobic men that commit violence against them, or the transphobic women that don’t want to date trans attracted men? There are trans women under this very post saying that the threat is men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:44 PM
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Nope! You were very firm in blaming women. But it’s not going like you thought - so you’re trying to lighten your stance, which is pathetic 😂 How much do you think women should be blamed for WTF you’re talking about? Anything higher than 3% is you being hysterical. BTW, if YOU 🫵🏽 are the trans attracted man - just live your life. I promise you, women do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:59 PM
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If it’s women talking, it’ll be from a woman’s perspective. Most women date/marry men so they discuss it. Y’all act like there’s some ulterior movie, or malice. There’s not. Women are talking about their experiences. That said, MOST behaviors are not inherently gendered. This should not be news to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:51 PM
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Has anyone ever been nervous around you? Some men are nervous around me. They don’t act on the nervousness, or act on it (like running away or some shit) but they’re still nervous. We can tell 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s the same thing with being desperate and not acting on it. Another example - rage. Sometimes a person can have/feel rage and want to IDK “tear your head off” but they don’t act on it. HTH 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:23 PM
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Wouldn’t that be more of a preference, than a boundary?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:09 PM
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Agreed, autism is not an issue for me at all, lol 😉 I probably would have understood your sarcasm if your grammar and sentence structure followed the agreed-upon rules of written English. It’s even worse when no punctuation is used. It looks like gibberish to me, and I’m not spending any time deciphering it. So I ask people to be direct. I am direct. See how I directly told YOU that YOU are the creepy guy in the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:08 PM
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“The solution is that trans attracted men should not give a fuck about what either gender thinks, and just date trans women.” ———> I could not agree more! I’ll never understand how this is difficult. As a bi-sexual woman, IDGAF what people think 🤷🏽‍♀️ and I’m a black/mixed woman. Trans attracted men should also do whatever they want. ———> Also, cis men are the biggest threat to transwomen (fatal violence) so it makes sense to focus on their transphobia which can lead to real life harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:01 PM
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Reading through these comments, it seems to me like SUCCESSFUL men enjoy the chase. The unsuccessful ones do not. Which makes sense 🤷🏽‍♀️ I too would dislike something that I’m bad at, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:11 PM
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Hm. I did not assume you were a bad person. You being good or bad never crossed my mind. I am however inferring that YOU are the weird, creepy, desperate guy in the room - since you claim not to see them IRL🧑‍🦯🧑‍🦯🧑‍🦯 “sHarE tHE sAmE wORlDviEW” 😐 I swear y’all are so dramatic 🤦🏽‍♀️😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:07 PM
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Are you saying that you like the chase? I always thought that men liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:53 PM
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I worked at McDonalds in the hood, as a teenager that always looked VERY young. Adult men were 100% trying to hit on me daily. Even one of the team leads tried to corner me. Because of men, my husband (at the time) and I decided that our daughter can’t work with the public or retail.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:35 PM
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I have no idea what your response means. Seems like you’re trying to be passive-aggressive, but since I’m autistic, it doesn’t land. Care to rephrase? Be as direct as possible. Like I did. Thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:31 PM
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Boy HURSH. I avoid men IRL but I still have to see them when I’m out; they seem desperate and give me the heebie-jeebies. If you’re not seeing weird/desperate men IRL, you probably are the weird/desperate one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:16 PM
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I definitely think a lot of men are very desperate, IRL. They just don’t act desperate in person (some still have “desperate” energy though).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:43 PM
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Boy HURSH. You can’t have a boundary for someone else’s skin. If you don’t like tattoos, don’t get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:37 AM
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I would 100% call his bluff, lol. He’d only be hurting himself. Sure, pal - leave me and the kids (pay child support and a divorce settlement, move to a shack) all because there’s a lil butterfly on my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:35 AM
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“And honestly, I think this is kind of the reason y dating is hardy than it should be becuz men are too afraid to say their exact preference out of fear of being called insecure, so they end up in relationships where they know they aren’t attracted to the other.” ——-> What are you even talking about? First off, outside of these entertainment-based dating shows, no one has to “say” their preference, they can just go for their preference 🤷🏽‍♀️ and how are they ending up in full relationships with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:35 AM
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Hm. It’s not really relevant to me so I wouldn’t care. My lived experience is that I’m much happier being unmarried and financially independent. BTW… the whole “housewife” thing was only relevant for a small set of women during a certain time period. For example, black women have ALWAYS worked. It was only wealthy-ish white women that were stereotypical housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:23 AM
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I never once thought a person leaving a relationship is being controlling. It’s the opposite… they’re releasing control (or the perception of). Leaving is final. Control requires ongoing interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:04 AM
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I’m trying to figure out what you’re asking. Are you asking if I think “skinny nerdy guys” prefer above average looking women? And how women might feel about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:13 PM
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Agreed. I do this all the time and it’s not difficult. I tell men upfront that I don’t suck dick. I’m very clear that if they want their dick sucked, it will not be me doing it. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:03 PM
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It’s also possible for someone to decide they don’t want to perform particular sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:04 PM
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Why would she not do it, if she enjoyed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:02 PM
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Nope. A woman could try a sex act. Realize she doesn’t like it, and never do it again. It has nothing to do with anyone else. She likely made the decision before knowing meeting her future boyfriend or whatever. Also, y’all obsession with other men needs to be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:01 PM
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Do you believe that everyone should be “consistent” over their lifetime? So basically, if a woman tries a sex act at like 19, and she hates it; to be consistent with her future lovers she should do the same act that she hates? IMO, when people talk about consistency. It’s consistency within the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:56 PM
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THIS! I have no idea why they keep bringing in “it’d be like..” scenarios. The reverse of a woman denying sex acts is a man denying sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:50 PM
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You realize that taking someone to a restaurant is very different than performing sex acts that you don’t want to? One involves someone else’s sex organs, the other does not. Also, people can leave relationships for any reason they want to. If a guy isn’t meeting my romantic relationship desires, we can break up. The same is true for men. If you’re sexually incompatible, break up. None of this difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:38 PM
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You can literally be “married off” by your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:17 PM
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I agree with this fully. If a guy wants BJs and she hates BJs, they are not sexually compatible and can break it off. No harm no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:47 PM
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TRAFFICKED into marriage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:41 PM
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You can also live comfortably without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:40 PM
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I just took a peek in the AIBoyfriend subreddit and it seems so cute. They’re discussing game nights and whatnot, lol. For women, this might be a new way to IDK feel like they’re socializing and interacting positively with something/someone - with no risks of danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:38 PM
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Believe it or not, I’m pretty damn self-aware. I have reflected on all of my life decisions, countless times. I have even unpacked my privilege in the world - I notice how I’m treated vs others, etc. (also, I’m a black/mixed woman - I talk about colorism all the time). With that in mind - yes, I know the advantages/disadvantages that I have. In most areas of life, I am extremely disadvantaged. On the other hand, I am able to attract partners easily - which I don’t consider an advantage because r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:30 PM
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“And I'm starting to believe you live in some kind of fictional paradise where everyone tells the truth at all times.” ——-> A “fictional paradise” is pretty dramatic. But yes, I absolutely trust that my intimate partners are telling me the truth at all times. If I did not trust them, they wouldn’t have access to my body/life, etc. Can you tell me what kind of dishonesty a woman could be engaging in - while discussing her own boundaries and limitations? “I tried it, I didn’t like it, not doing it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:14 PM
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She likely does, TF. How do you think those conversations go? If he already knows her sexual history (because she told him) wouldn’t it make sense that she also tells him what she is and isn’t comfortable with and the reasons? I’m starting to wonder if some of y’all have ever interacted with another human. None of this is difficult, BTW. If a woman is unwilling to perform a sex act; and you like that sex act, you can decide to bounce 🤷🏽‍♀️ if I came across someone that did not LOVE to eat pussy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:39 PM
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You say that like Chads want kids. Also, there’s not enough Chads to impact the birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:28 PM
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If she doesn’t want to do something, can’t you surmise that she doesn’t enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:08 PM
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That often is the case though - I tried some shit, didn’t like it, not doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:04 PM
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A better question might be - what if a guy performed oral sex on everyone then stopped when I came along. Even then it’s his choice 🤷🏽‍♀️ I can then choose to accept it, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:00 PM
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I said this in another comment. Since they’re concerned about the birth rate, they should start taking action. Find/hire a surrogate and, IDK “multiply” 🤷🏽‍♀️ “be merry” “populate the earth” and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:49 PM
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Yup. This is another angle. How are people supposed to have kids when they are living check to check already? Pregnancy and babies are (and I cannot stress this enough) are SO COSTLY. Young folks are already living with their parents longer. This model of society or WTF just isn’t sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:41 PM
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Not to be mean but I asked you a yes or no question. On a debate sub, “seems like they are” doesn’t work 😐 Can you tell me, in which Nordic countries (that have better benefits for women) are they screaming at the top of their lungs about the great replacement theory? I think you’re just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:16 PM
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I have 2, lol 🥰 And I still do not recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:11 PM
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First off, humans are not going extinct because of dropping birth rates, so “continuing the human race” means nothing - but if that is the concern; why not give women incentives (the ones I already mentioned)?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:04 PM
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I’ll ask again. Can you tell me what is appealing about having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:55 PM
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It is miserable AF ‼️ I had a toddler and a newborn at the same time; I was barely functioning sometimes because of lack of sleep, stress, etc - on top of working full time, paying out the ass for childcare, etc. It was a lot, and I do not recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:54 PM
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Are they panicking about the birth rate in those Nordic countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:43 PM
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What about having a child in 2026 appealing? The housing prices are crazy. So is gas, food, etc. With insurance, having a child is around $3K - without is around $20K. Daycare for a newborn is $300-$500 weekly. Y’all better stop acting like having kids is a walk in the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:42 PM
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Idea: 💡 What if the people worried about the birth rate have kids (via surrogate) and raise them yourselves? Also, the whole birth rate panic is so odd to me. I grew up in the 90s and alllllllllllllllllll we were taught is to NOT have kids - the teen birth rate was super high back then. In any case, the people that do not want kids should not have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:37 PM
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IDK… I think the whole birth rate crisis could be solved by making it appealing to have a child. Currently, it’s not appealing. Guaranteed PAID maternity leave might help. Child care prices are crazy and increase by the day - so help there will be an incentive. Also, women are not “playing” hard to get. They’re becoming less and less interested in the whole “nuclear family white picket fence - get a man and life if great” myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:29 PM
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“For women who vehemently believe it's all 100% "fake", it may even be a defense mechanism probably mixed with a​ ​disdain for male sexuality.” ———> But it is actually fake, right? They’re “actors.” Even in the “step” category (I looked this term up yesterday, ew) they’re not actually siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:02 PM
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I literally just looked up “step” - and i wish i hadn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:30 AM
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I think frustration is reasonable and doesn’t seem like entitlement to me 🦋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:03 AM
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What is your point about the women on 600 pound life having boyfriends? Usually the boyfriends are similar to them. What’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:09 PM
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“Fucked”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:02 PM
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Point being….?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:02 PM
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I’m cracking up that he deleted his comment saying he’s going to stop interacting with women on this topic, LMAO. He’ll probably (and should) delete the entire post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:26 PM
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…. Masterbation objects too. Think about the words they used for sex… “smashed” “cracked” etc. We are objects to them. Objects to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:19 PM
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“Compared to guys you are a different species.” “The woman get upset because they think that guys are treating them like their rare commodities and like they are a different species.” ——> Do you see the irony, or shall I point it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:17 PM
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Since I’m orgasming with WOMEN (easily, I might add - low effort on my part), why would I need a man? All of my sexual needs, desires, etc. are met by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:31 PM
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“This is true because all of feminists complaints stop the moment a country is invaded.” ———> No we don’t. We protest those invasions. We call out politicians for war.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:06 PM
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Not needed. We have dildos and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:17 PM
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Why would I do that? Men are not needed for my orgasms. I’m already having the orgasms people write about - with low/no effort on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:14 PM
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Men giving orgasms is a way to be lusted over, IJS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:09 PM
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Lies. It’s men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:06 PM
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Not for nothing, but ALLLL of my female lovers can give me multiple orgasms easily. I don’t have to do a thing but receive pleasure. On my “pillow princess” energy heavy. I have no idea why/how men can’t give orgasms. Even i given orgasms and i’m very new to being intimate with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:04 PM
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The “safety” isn’t even on the PLANET 🪐 with us 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:40 PM
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“This is entirely false. Go to a girls school and ask how common physical fights are. Then ask the same question at a boys school” ——> My schooling wasn’t gendered, but I can confirm. Boys were ALWAYS fighting. Sometimes I’d have to keep my dude from fighting another “over me” (not over me at all, but over some man-slight he perceived 😐). Try as they might, but men are never beating the violent allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:34 PM
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Ask the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:16 PM
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Your “thesis” is wrong, fam. We can’t just ignore history/reality. Women are not safe, never have been. Misandry is new, men’s behaviors are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:16 PM
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To address your title - where are we “safe” in the first place? Misandrist or not, women aren’t safe from men anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:29 AM
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I don’t like pounding, in general. But sometimes it feels good because of positioning or timing or what have you. Believe her! If it feels good, don’t overthink it 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:12 AM
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Ah. I see what you’re saying. I’d agree that if we’re squashing gender rolls, things get a little vague, lol. My current boo and I are both fems - at times we’re both waiting for the other one to make a move. We figure it TF out though, ya dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:39 PM
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Do lesbians say that? I’m bi and date women, and I’m able to “get them” the same as men. No difficulties at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:17 PM
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I feel like this is some hard projection. Do you really believe people are making assumptions about strangers lives? I don’t make too many assumptions about the dating lives of my coworkers for example. Maybe it’s just me but I’m pretty neutral about men’s partnering status. Be married, or don’t. IDGAF. Be single, be poly, etc. Just don’t be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:15 PM
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No, but like good looking to me. Never cared about the opinions of others in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:06 PM
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For me (I’m bi) my physical type has changed over the years. My guys have all been different physically, and now that I date women - I have a “type” for them too - and even that has changed. Maybe this is what people mean by sexuality being “fluid” for some of us. Most people I’m attracted to share the same inward traits though - protective, generous, good looking, funny, generous, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:59 PM
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I agree with this for the most part. Most people will pair up at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:52 PM
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I have made no statements against awkward women. I am an awkward woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:28 PM
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I wish they only used traffic cones and apple pies 😮‍💨 I’d have no problem with that. It’s the LIFE that I take issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:38 PM
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Sticking a cucumber up my vagina isn’t hurting anyone though. Do you see the difference? 🥒 🚿 vs 👶🏻👧🧒🦃🐶🐈🐑 👩🏽‍🦼‍➡️ See, the items on the left don’t have feelings. The items on the right do (because they are alive). No wonder y’all struggle so much 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:31 PM
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“And it's hard to debate an unproven assumption.” ———> I didn’t make an unproven assumption. I posted a fact. Also, please quote where I ever said “most” 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:20 PM
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You didn’t add context though 🤷🏽‍♀️ You’re just expressing that you don’t like what I said. What context beyond “is wild” did you add? Where did you counter anything? I’ll remind you again, this is a **debate** sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:22 PM
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Right, WE are the ones “out of touch” because we don’t think about y’all’s dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:17 PM
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I’d guess 3-5 a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:13 PM
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If you’re not disputing, why did you address me? Did you want me to know that you think what I said “is wild” ? IDGAF about your opinions or feelings. This is a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:10 PM
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So-called “straight” men stick their dicks in each other all the time. It’s usually the stronger men taking advantage of smaller/younger men. This has happened all throughout history. Bottom line: There is nothing men won’t fuck - which is why a man wanting to fuck means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:05 PM
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Nah. What’s wild is that you can’t dispute what I said, because you know it’s true, lol. Men will put their dicks in all sorts on non-consenting entities. Awkward women are also fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:57 PM
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Same here. I grew up in the 90s. I was also misdiagnosed a lot. The diagnosis helped me tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:10 PM
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I’ll restate my position. Men will fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:33 PM
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“a lifetime jerking off” is no one’s problem to fix. And no one is “relegating” anything - y’all are so dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:31 PM
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You know it’s crazy to see other human beings as a “resource” right? Colonizer thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:26 PM
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The risk is TOO HIGH to be beneficial. It’s not worth it for most women to engage with men, especially if the men are rejects.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:29 PM
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Oh hush. Women are not making these assumptions. Most of us don’t care and keep scrolling. Y’all are not that important to strangers on the internet, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:25 PM
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Sure will! Autistic/ADHD here 🙋🏽‍♀️ late diagnosed in my 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:23 PM
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My son is similar to yours. Has some social issues, but never had issues with girls as far as I know. He has a girlfriend - they’ve dated about 4-5 years. He doesn’t have any of the resentment that these dudes have on here. He’s also very handsome so that helps, I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:21 PM
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I’m pretty sure we do say that risk is too high. Especially if he’s kind of a reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:15 PM
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Exactly. These the same mofos that came up with “hoeflation” 👀 don’t lie now acting like her “social standing” does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:11 PM
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Not to be mean, but men being willing to stick their dicks into anything (turkeys, corpses, babies, special needs patients, apes) is not positive. The attempt to frame men as “less picky” and therefore “better” will never work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:38 PM
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More like Taimi 🥰 I have no problem meeting people in person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:21 PM
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“Ah well see as a white men j never experience racism, so it's not a problem for me lol.” ———> I know it’s not, lol. “I don't think you understand just how privileged and hypocritical you sound.” ———> Likewise 😂 “You have no idea probably because you don't care.” ———> I have no idea because I can’t relate. I thought that maybe I’d be able to relate when I began dating women but nope. I even had a woman break my heart - still, I regret nothing. And still, i have no idea why y’all have so many iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:41 PM
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So first, I don’t FORCE anyone to do anything 🤦🏽‍♀️ Also, I don’t date men anymore so I pretty much have ZERO expectations of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:18 PM
1

Hard pass. I’m not on any dating apps at the moment. I doubt I’ll ever bother with them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:11 PM
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It’s certainly not a problem for me, lol. I date men and women, women are very easy to date. I have no idea why y’all have so much trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:05 PM
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I can back this up. I get overwhelmed at the amount of matches and horniness so I end up leaving or uninstalling. I can do maybe 3-4 days before it’s too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:55 PM
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I’d choose B ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:24 PM
5

No one discriminated against a man in a professional environment. That’d be career suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:22 PM
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This did not happen, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:12 PM
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“Goalpost shift. The topic wasn't general 'stranger danger', otherwise, it wouldn't have been gendered. The topic was whether or not **women should hate men** due to the negative experiences they've had with men. Please stay on topic.” ———> LOL @ the irony - you got the topic wrong. “Also, the implication that women are as helpless as children is wild lol.” ———> You mentioned elementary school first, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:21 PM
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Some of us were assaulted as children. Not sure how you get a better filter in that circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:32 PM
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A lot of us have been traumatized by men. Post a question for women - ask how old we were when 1st catcalled. I was catcalled around 11. It was traumatizing. My friend’s dads were creepy. I was SA’d by a camp counselor at 16. I’m not rare. I’d say 80% of the women I know have been traumatized by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:19 PM
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Did you also learn about “stranger danger” in elementary? Cause I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:16 PM
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I have no opinion on men’s dating practices and what is “reasonable” 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:05 PM
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Omg delusional. There were not mass beatings in public like this is Saudi Arabia, and even in Saudi Arabia They don’t actually do that to random women. It seems you genuinely hate men so much. you’ve deluded yourself to make them to be enemy to you regardless actual facts. Do you honestly believe that even in 2005 you’d walk around in a major American city and get randomly beat up With a high degree of probability? How about now? ———> Who said anything about “mass beatings” ? What I’m saying is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:03 PM
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I’m not suggesting that. I’m saying that there are more concerns outside of violence that make women not want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:34 PM
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First off, here in the 2000s - y’all still beat women in public. Maybe less often but it happens. Also, this doesn’t account for all the beatings behind closed doors. All the SA, etc. There are DV posters and cards in the women’s bathrooms in hair salons. We have to cover our drinks because of y’all. Why does “happy wife happy life” offend you? Actually, no - how does it HURT you? Is making your wife happy that much of a chore? I date women, and i cant relate. Also, what “positives” should I tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:33 PM
1

When did racism happen? I’m black/mixed BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:24 PM
2

Do you live in the world? Have you not heard of “pretty privilege” (which is the same as the halo effect)? Take me for example, I’m seen as attractive. What do you think happens when if I get pulled over? Nothing 😂🤷🏽‍♀️ maybe a warning. Again, this occurrence is not gender specific, you just have tunnel vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:20 PM
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It’s not a full list, fam. You get the gist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:15 PM
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It’s less blatant hatred, and more self-protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:15 PM
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And men have songs about assaulting women and children. I heard a song just 2 days ago “Anthony Q” - he’s talking about cheating on his woman, but if she cheats back…. he’ll end her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:10 PM
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It’s not gender specific because the occurrence happens in all areas of life. Why do you think most presidents are tall? People that are attractive get better treatment in life. This isn’t groundbreaking or gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:04 PM
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What annoys me about these types of questions is that they are almost always incomplete 🤦🏽‍♀️ you don’t take into account history at all. Is mens hate towards women justified? NO - but it has always been this way. Men have subjugated and abused women since always. Demeaning women has been common. All the “my wife is a nag” jokes. Or, “if she kept her mouth shut” - things like this. I. Religion, women are blamed and demeaned. Over the past few years (just a blip in human history) women are respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:02 PM
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The person that asks pays - this is how I was raised. I’m a very generous person by nature. Before you ask, NO - I do not ask men out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:24 PM
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Ugh. Stop crying. I’m a black/mixed late diagnosed autistic woman from the hood. I have been masking/performing for decades. Welcome to being a human in society. That said, I still get more pussy than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:06 PM
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One sec. Are you aware that “heteronormative” expectations are ingrained in everyone, and we play those out - even in same sex relationships. I have dated stud/butch women who absolutely have the “protect provide” mindset. In my current relationship - we’re both bi and fems. She’s slightly tomboyish but she’s still very fem - so the heteronormative expectations are less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:02 PM
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Are you familiar with “the halo effect” ? Because this is what’s happening and it’s not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:56 PM
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I date women. I’m being spooned by one right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:40 PM
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Men are “struggling to participate in dating” and women are “avoiding being hurt” - Agreed. We are not the same. Facts don’t care about your feelings, and the FACT is there are a lot of dangerous men, so women need to be very cautious. We don’t only have to worry about rape/murder, we also have to watch for scammers, sexual deviants, alcoholics, moochers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:38 PM
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Normal dating includes avoiding being hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:31 PM
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TBF, dating women is also easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:23 PM
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This link says nothing of a wine mixer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:17 PM
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“Let's say you are correct.” ——-> I am. “Then should men have male only spaces or the very existence of them is an issue for women?” ——-> Meh, IDGAF what men do as long as they aren’t hurting anyone (which y’all usually are plotting a bunch of heinous shit).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:13 PM
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Oh please. When y’all get together you start hazing each other and grabbing asses. Or sometimes y’all get onto online spaces and plan on assaulting the girls/women in your lives. Don’t act like when men get together, it’s always some noble endeavor. It’s often not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:03 PM
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Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:34 PM
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What is the debate exactly? This should be tagged as a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:40 AM
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I’m not fine “getting very little” from anyone I’m romantically involved with, TF. TBH… I just think no woman has ever loved you (or most of you for that matter) so you don’t know what it feels like. You’d rather perform mental gymnastics than deal with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:01 AM
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And nothing has changed, lol. I’m dating a woman right this very now and she’s a dream. I have no idea why men struggle so much to get along with women. For me, it’s very natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:47 AM
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I’m not sure what you mean by this. My point remains - women are easy to date. Not too much trouble at all. I can’t relate to this mindset at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:45 AM
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First, I doubt anyone uses the term “toxic masculinity” anymore. The discourse has evolved to point out particular behaviors, not vague terms. You say that young men are seeking a “model for conduct” 👀 what do you mean by that? Why do young men need so much guidance? Just be regular humans that treat everyone with kindness. I’m agnostic, but religion provides some sort of framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:44 PM
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We might also DISAGREE. Women are not too much work. At least not for me. I have been treated very well by most of the women I’ve dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:31 PM
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Hm. I just can’t relate 🤷🏽‍♀️ I date women too, and we’re not “too much work” IMO. My experience has been that women are much easier to date than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:29 PM
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You can reduce everyone’s work load by getting a meal service. You still have not accounted for time so having a service is probably best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:01 PM
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But the woman also does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:59 PM
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“aND wHeN hE dOEs’Nt…” is irrelevant. Challenge my point directly or hush. I’m not interested in any attempts to move the goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:35 PM
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Nah. Men FEEL controlled by their own desires to control women. Women just be existing for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:46 PM
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Come on fam, you posted this nonsense earlier and it was just as much of a non-starter then, as it is now. Why don’t you just state whatever unhinged thoughts you’re having and let people debate/address those? But, to answer again - NOTHING. I, a woman, being of sound mind and body will do NOTHING if men were all socially inept. I probably wouldn’t even notice TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:38 PM
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I didn’t see a reference to black women specifically - AND, as another poster said, none of this accounts for class/poverty issues. Compare sentencing between Brock Turner (a brutal rapist) and Cyntoia Brown - who was a trafficking victim that killed her attacker. Bottom line, that “sCentEnCiNg diSpAriTY” is pure nonsense, and y’all know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:17 PM
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What are men’s duties, if not to provide enough to where the wife does not have to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:12 PM
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Yeah, I’m pretty sure. Also, gender is not account for in that report. Not sure why you posted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:10 PM
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Oh, so you want a meal prep service? Seems easy enough to get factor or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:00 PM
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He can choose what he does with his sperm. If he deposits his sperm into another human, he loses control - which is why he needs to take responsibility for where his bodily fluids go. Not a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:59 PM
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My question remains. When will she have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:42 PM
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His sperm, his choice, fam. He can choose where he deposits his sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:23 PM
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The sentencing disparity is false. Especially when you account for race.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:21 PM
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When will she have time to meal plan, shop, prep, cook, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:09 PM
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Yes we are. There are tons of social rules that women have to follow. We’ve had debutante schools and religion teaching us how to sit, how to speak to men, etc. Y’all are so tunnel visioned. Be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:05 PM
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In this scenario, you wonder what **women** will do? Wouldn’t the question ask what men should do, considering they’re the inept ones? In any case, I (a woman) will do nothing. WTF am I supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:03 PM
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This only makes sense if the WIFE doesn’t work. There are lots of traditional ladies. Find one and live happy 🦋
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:00 PM
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Agree to disagree. Also, you should proofread 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:27 AM
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Agreed. I have no idea why the friend ended up in this post. It’s anecdotal and unrelated 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:46 AM
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No y’all won’t, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:31 PM
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Are you equating DNA testing of a human to … luggage? 🧳
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:32 PM
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lol, as if y’all pairing up is an option. We just want y’all to STFU about women. Go your own way. Follow though. Y’all are MGTOW failures, and no one likes a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:31 PM
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We dog on y’all because you’re losers and it’s fun. We’re pointing and laughing, fam. No one takes y’all as anything other than a joke. Any “hate” or “resentment” is 100% imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:08 PM
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They are female-centric though. I clown on the MGTOW crew because I think they’re losers, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:07 PM
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Agreed. In fact, no one should be blamed for being single. Men specifically have never been ostracized for being single. The whole “bachelor” lifestyle is a thing. Not sure what the debate is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:04 PM
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Agreed. These dudes act like the “grape murder” scenario is the only thing we have to worry about. It’s not 🤦🏽‍♀️ that “hot/cold” nonsense is enough to avoid them. Their tiny penises is another reasib. They’re exhausting AF and aint nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:52 PM
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For me personally, I don’t fear rejection AT ALL. And I date both men and women. Admittedly, I’m autistic and don’t feel embarrassment like neurotypical people. Also, I’m seen as attractive. The likelihood of me being rejected is slim. For me, fear is not the issue. If I dated men, here are the reasons I would not approach: -IDGAF about men 🤷🏽‍♀️ there are so many that are interested that I don’t have to give any thought into having one. Believe it or not, men are VERY easy to get, keep, etc. -M…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:48 PM
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Meh. I disagree, but do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:09 AM
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“I say "might" because, last I checked, women arnt a monolith.” ——-> So it doesn’t happen, just like I thought. “Id have my wife tell you to fuck off, but I cant read a Reddit trolling without laughing.” ——-> Not sure what you’re saying here - and it doesn’t matter. This is a debate sub, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:09 AM
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“Im 43, and if I wear my work shirt, women in their early 20s **might** come on to me hard.” ——-> What do you mean “might” - either they do or they don’t. Which is it? “Ive never seen myself as attractive. I think im Shrek. Im tall but almost as fat and ugly as Shrek.” ——-> So, you’re ugly - got it “Here is what I think is actually happening. Its the internet. The internet has romantazed "tall" and "dad bod". And it’s made it so guys with a gut like me suddenly get a passing grade.” ——-> What I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:51 PM
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And, she can “bag” younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:46 PM
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I’m in my 40s - the attention has not decreased.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:44 PM
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I have a girlfriend and date women on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:32 PM
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Nope ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:05 PM
2

Nice and kind are different. Everyone should be kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:58 PM
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In any marriage, my partner gets extra benefits. First off, they have full access to me; and I’m dope AF. I’m divorced, but absolutely my husband had more sexual access to my body than casual or short-term flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:04 PM
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Oh, ok. Well you can tell that to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:01 PM
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Why are you telling me that? Maybe you responded to the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:56 PM
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You want me to reflect on when men’s loneliness epidemic started? Why would I do that? Also, there’s no assumption. IMO, men are whiny AF - which to me is a huge turnoff. I have observed the whining. No assumptions, fam. Maybe you don’t know what an assumption is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:40 PM
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Well, you’re wrong, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:20 PM
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If nothing has changed, what are y’all bitching about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:17 PM
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“Receiving compliments about your personality probably means there is nothing else to compliment you for.” ———> False.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:16 PM
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“it doesn't JUST come down to sex.” ———> Yes it does. Look at the comments. “But sex IS a factor because most men are simply not capable of getting sex reliably outside of a relationship.” ———> Agreed. “Just out of curiosity, at roughly which point in time would you pin the "beginning" of the "male loneliness epidemic" and why?” ———> I honestly don’t know or care. I’m GenX and think most of y’all are a bunch of whining pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:14 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:11 PM
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Yes. Sex is important to people - you’re saying nothing. My post is about the FACT (read through these comments) that there are men saying that a woman actually liking them is BAD. That’s the argument. Maybe re-read the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:10 PM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about. This is a debate forum, not a “random musings” forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:08 PM
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“women’s selection gets treated like it is beyond criticism because “autonomy,” “preference,” and “chemistry,” but men’s failure to get selected gets turned into a moral verdict. “ ———> This isn’t even true. Who thinks anything along the lines of a moral verdict. Single men have always been praised. Which is why a “bachelors pad” has a positive connotation and “cat lady” does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:53 AM
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“I dont want to be liked for "who i am as a person". That implies that they like you for your character/behavior AKA what you can do for them.” ——-> Yeah, this is jaded thinking, IMO. And even if she likes your dick, isn’t that also something you can “do for them?” “I actually dont care about being liked at all.” ——-> Wild. “It would make no difference if my woman likes or dislikes me.” ——-> Insane. “What I want is mutual attraction like a magnetism.” ——-> The only sensible thing you’ve said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:03 AM
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I’m wondering if “respected as a man” means, “gives me sex all the time and cooks and cleans” 🤷🏽‍♀️ Respect is respect. All you need is respect. Respected “as a man” seems to have some unwritten expectations. The fact that they can’t articulate what “as a man” is, confirms my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:46 AM
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I’m far past asking “why” it’s always about sex - I’m more observing. My theory anyway is that the whole men’s loneliness epidemic comes down to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:31 AM
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Being valued for both makes sense to me, but a lot of guys are saying they only value the attraction part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:29 AM
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“I'm not, but warning doesn't mean hate.” ——-> Never said it did. “Warning doesn't mean thinking a whole group of people are awful, as you insinuate.” ——-> This is a debate forum, fam - the only thing I will debate are things I actually said. “However, according to you, my grandma was an internalized misogynist, right?” ——-> Let me be so clear - IDGAF about your grandma’s personality/thoughts/opinions 😂🤷🏽‍♀️ you talking about her/them so much is getting a bit weird to me personally. “You can giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:27 AM
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Why can he be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:12 AM
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Ah, so your grandmother warned you about women using you - but you can’t fathom a grandmother warning her granddaughter about being used? You’re disingenuous. Be easy✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:47 PM
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Also, “Hollywood” doesn’t even exist in a lot of places in the world. It’s so odd to me that OP thinks Hollywood has a job other than making trillions of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:37 PM
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My question remains, why would a grandmother warn her grandson (the person not at risk) about men? I have no idea why you’re adding all that fluff about your grandmother 🥱 wait, do you think our grandmothers warned us about our grandfathers? This is why you need to think things through.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:34 PM
2

I think the “rose colored glasses” have been removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:06 PM
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Of course you’d think that. Why would a grandmother tell her grandson to be careful with men? Think it through, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:06 PM
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Wait, you think Hollywood is responsible for providing the “romantic formula?” Do you not have parents or peers? I’m fascinated by your line of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:04 PM
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Lies. Y’all have been awful the whole time. Why do you think our grandmothers told us to be very careful with y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:57 PM
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I hardly ever hear “then don’t date.” The whole reason men are up in arms is because women are less and less interested in dating or even being around them. If men really were saying “then don’t date” they would not be complaining about the fact that we don’t want to. That said, I fully agree. Women don’t gain anything from marriage to men. And I have been married and divorced twice AND got a settlement each time. I still gained nothing and don’t recommend it. IMO, women should be very choosy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:56 PM
2

It speaks volumes, huh? What does it say?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:29 PM
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I’m in my 40s. There has (and I can’t stress this enough) NEVER been a time in my life where I have not had men - including younger men highly interested in me. My last guy was/is in his early 30s - and I’m not the first older woman he’s been with. He’s also married to someone in her late 20s (we were poly). As far as this being good or bad, I think it’s neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:27 PM
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“I dont want to be liked for "who i am as a person". That implies that they like you for your character/behavior AKA what you can do for them.” ——> Wild “I actually dont care about being liked at all.” ——> Wilder “It would make no difference if my woman likes or dislikes me.” ——> Pure insanity, IMO. “What I want is mutual attraction like a magnetism.” ——> Mutual physical attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:33 PM
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I’m trying to understand, not project.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:30 PM
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At the least, they (or even we) should get free healthcare and GUARANTEED maternity leave for, 90 days at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:00 AM
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Come on fam, just because you think the point in life is to pass off genes and have sex, don’t mean others do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:17 PM
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Hm. Well, this is the internet buddy. Of course we don’t know each other, lol. In debate spaces, the person that makes the claim provides proof. You failed. The end. Also, you’re not even the OP. You jumped in the comments with your little proof, lol - like why jump in to FAIL?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:55 PM
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If you’re talking about Meg and Klay I guess you could say that she should have known - but he could have also told her that he wants to be faithful. You don’t know what goes on behind closed doors, AND basing your views off of celebrities is kind of weird. Do you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:43 PM
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“I didn't say the cheated-on person isn't a victim. I said she isn't a pure victim, because she walked into a known situation with the information in front of her.” ———> How do you know she had the information?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:38 PM
2

This is Jeremy Meeks. He went viral some years back. Men lose their minds because women (and some men too I assume) are thirsty over his physical appearance. I think he got a modeling contract. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:34 PM
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He still has not responded to my comment about Brock Turner 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:28 PM
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That’s all you got? A survey about the death penalty from 2018?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:27 PM
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George Floyd is absolutely a criminal, and IMO needed to be locked up. He did not deserve to be murdered by police for “resisting” 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:26 PM
5

You’re actually coming across as pitiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:22 PM
3

Agreed. I’m excited to see what examples OP comes up with. My guess is that OP will delete this within the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:03 PM
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This is a debate forum. We need examples - especially when OPs assertion is false emotional drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:01 PM
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Jeremy Meeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:59 PM
8

Lies. BTW…. have you ever heard of Brock Turner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:59 PM
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Do you personally know a man married to an SW? Have you been able to observe how he’s treated? You’re just making shit up, fam. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:54 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:48 PM
14

You have no way of knowing this 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:47 PM
4

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:46 PM
5

IDK… if you need an incentive to be a decent person, you’re not a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:43 PM
10

I’m cracking up at the list of jobs you think add “status” 😂 I agree with having a career that increases the quality of life. I’m an automation engineer that works remotely 4 days a week. I don’t do much of anything that does not directly benefit me. For starters, I don’t have the time 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:41 PM
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If she already doesn’t like him and he “ghosts” her, she’ll probably just realize it one day. Like, “hm, I have not heard from _____ in awhile.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:19 PM
6

“I keep seeing the same pattern across Reddit. Certain feminist spaces will loudly insist they do not hate men, but in the same breath allow and upvote phrases like "kill all men", "men are violent monsters" or blanket statements about men being inherently bad to circulate freely.” ———> I don’t think you see this pattern at all 🤷🏽‍♀️ can you show an example of a feminist (not a woman) saying that she doesn’t hate men AND “kill them all” ? Also, upvotes don’t mean much. Anyone can upvote. How do …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:15 PM
2

I don’t see approaching as “submissive” 👀 Unless we’re talking about reality TV where there’s 1 picker and everyone vying for the affection of the picker. Maybe that is submissive. As far as your title - I agree, 100% - and maybe this is the shift that needs to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:38 PM
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Ahhhhhh. Ok, that makes sense then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:25 PM
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And you consider that “feminist literature” (ONE single paper from 1980)?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:07 PM
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What have you read? I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:09 PM
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lol, these dudes don’t have anyone to ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:06 PM
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….. whole time she probably doesn’t even notice, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:49 PM
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Hm. You could just breakup because your needs (that you communicated) are not being met. Why let it linger? I broke up with a chick a couple months ago because she wasn’t considerate towards me. I literally said, “THIS” (by now I’m pointing) “is not working for me” - mind you, this was in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:48 PM
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After watching the video: Ain’t no damn way. I would never even be alone with someone like that. As far as the topic.. the asshole usually doesn’t care. I have been an asshole to men in the talking stage. I didn’t care AT ALL. Consequence where? Pft.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:39 PM
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“I disagree and think that it is natural for any organism to want to perpetuate itself.” ——-> Nah. I think people are having kids because of expectations to “have a family” and because they are a bi-product of sex. “One is being unscientific thinking that humans naturally want to off themselves by not having children.” ——-> Who is being “off’d” ? People will still have kids… humans will continue. But more women are realizing that marriage/kids is a scam. I do think that our capitalist system and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:32 PM
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I never knew lesbians express disgust towards lesbian porn. I date lesbians, this has never come up. Also, stop trying to understand “female sexuality” - (a topic far too complex) you either get pussy, or you don’t 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:25 PM
2

I don’t think we’re trying to get men to improve. I think women are recognizing that “marriage and kids” are a scam and living their lives for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:07 AM
21

“Whereas women don't seem to have much of a plan.” ——-> A plan for what? “Mens spheres tend to focus on self improvement and strategies for finding mates.” ——-> This is pure lies. “Womens sphere (often 💙BP/feminist) focus on self acceptance and glorification, heavy push for therapy, and gaslighting of opposing perspective especially that of manosphere. Not much is focused on for finding success.” ——-> How would you know any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:03 PM
0

This too! I hate a whiner/complainer. I find it pathetic. And if I’m being honest, I find it pathetic that men need so much guidance. Also, why can’t they just be themselves, literally. Never once as an adult have I been concerned with what men want. I’m going to be myself regardless and anyone that doesn’t like it can kick rocks, TF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:47 PM
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Y’all are not just innocently venting about frustrations related to dating. Y’all are bashing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:41 PM
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“Usually when asked the first thing that comes out of their mouths is that “he has to be nice”. ——-> The “first thing” is usually money or height. I have never seen anyone talk about niceness. Also, being “nice” is the default expectation. As far as the title, IDC where “nice guys” come from. It’s not a thought in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:49 PM
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Not only that. Most women have been assaulted or know someone that has. Just the other day my girlfriend told me about a friend of hers that was BRUTALLY assaulted by an Uber driver. Dudes act like our fear is made up, but it isn’t. And the gag is - MEN FEAR MEN too. But it’s a problem when women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:36 PM
1

…. And TIME PERIOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:31 PM
3

That’s not his “argument” at all. You’re being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:30 PM
5

“One form of violence by proxy is by paying someone to be violent for you.” ——> Like paying for a hitman? Men can do this too BTW. “Another form of violence by proxy is by encouraging bystanders to be violent for you.” ——> Boy hursh. Men don’t need ANY encouragement to be violent - and how often gas this happened to you in real life? Please detail the scenario. Which do you think is more likely, that a crowd of bystanders be violent in service to a man, or violent in service to a woman? ——> WTF …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:54 PM
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“Women aren’t “getting angry” at all of the posts about how women should cold approach men and men are tired of all of the rejection and just aren’t going to do it and then we’ll be sorry… We are shaking our heads…” ——> Exactly! Another commenter said that women complain about the bar being in hell, it’s because we’re upset at men and want them to change. I explained that we’re actually saying this in jest. We’re talking shit in the group chat. We’re LAUGHING, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:26 PM
13

I think women are just scared of men, in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:21 PM
8

Y’all just be making up shit. The whole “women are wonderful effect” is made up and laughable 🤦🏽‍♀️ no one treats women (and much less, WOC) like we’re wonderful. Look at the crime rates. So again I ask. Where are the “bodyguards” doing some proxy shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:19 PM
5

Where are our bodyguards though, fam? Let’s get back to the “violence by proxy” nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:05 PM
13

Yeah, because we all have bodyguards, TF 👀😂 We’re not even taken seriously by the police. What are you whining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:14 PM
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Women are disadvantaged in all areas of life except courtship/dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:12 PM
3

Well said, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:46 AM
1

Wanted means ZERO when what were wanted for is sex. Y’all “want” women just as much as colonizers wanted people to exploit. Do you want to be wanted for your body then exploited when you get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:31 AM
4

Nope. It doesn’t prove that at all 🤦🏽‍♀️ Please tell me how I’m privileged in life as a black/mixed woman born to drug addicted parents? BTW… I had autism the entire time and was just recently diagnosed in my 40s. Admittedly, I have some level of “pretty privilege” (that I don’t control) but other than that; nothing 😐 You can’t give me THREE ways that I’m privileged. That said, implying that we’re *immensely * privileged is hyperbolic to the point of being laughable. I’m laughing at all of you 🫵…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:13 AM
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I wish y’all would stop talking about privilege without acknowledging that the privilege exists in a very limited scope - and it has been recent; which is (to some degree) mate selection. DASSIT. Outside of that, there is ZERO privilege being a woman and it’s actually quite dangerous as y’all know. Please get a grip 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:25 AM
6

Are you selecting a sliver of cases to be upset about? Women get sent to prison a lot, fam. WOC in particular gets sent to prison a WHOLE lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:11 PM
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What do you mean by “accountability” ? How do we hold strangers accountable? I’m sure the people you mention are being already being called out. Not sure what else you want. BTW… most of what you list is gender neutral. Both parents are capable of doing those things. Perjury is already a crime. How many people in general get jail time for perjury? Seems like another flaw in the justice system. Not sure what you want people to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:08 PM
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Agreed…. It’s pathetic AF. I hope it becomes popular soon so i could laugh 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:12 PM
-1

You thinking that would offend me is hilarious. IDGAF ✌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:02 PM
1

Yeah, people should STFU, but they won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:01 PM
1

None of the meanings are clear. A couple months ago I made a post on here asking what a simp is. The answered varied a lot. I’d imagine the same is true with “Chad” - Is Chad just a handsome guy? Or is he a guy that gets a lot of women, regardless of what he looks like. And really the answer doesn’t matter because the next dude could disagree. These labels are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:59 PM
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IDK. I think it shows the predictable depravity of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:54 PM
1

This post is pure drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:02 PM
2

“The problem is just the existence of online dating. It blatantly benefits women. The boring/pleasant/good looking guy will probably get chosen over the fun/unattractive guy. It might end up just being a fling. But then online dating affects real life dating too, because overall you’ll always have to convince women to pick you over whatever random guys they match with online.” ———-> All of you are “random guys they match with online” 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:56 PM
1

Nope, not at all. I know y’all are going to continue to do that dumb shit - making ALL conversations unproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:55 PM
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It works this way for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:51 PM
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