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When putting her name in your phone you say "how do you spell that?"
/r/seduction04/08/26 07:22 PM
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Part of overcoming insecurities is acknowledging them. Verbally stating them relieves a lot of the pressure you are putting on yourself about all of this. True friends will help you, fake friends will laugh. Ask yourself, is it better to know who's on you side and who's not, than to be naive about it?
/r/seduction03/08/26 08:13 PM
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"It bothers me because I take it seriously and he doesn't" you answered your question in the last line. Women want the fun feelings, he doesn't take it seriously, he's fun and enjoyable to be around. You take it seriously and that takes some of the fun out of it. Does that explain it? It's not a buisness transaction
/r/seduction31/07/26 01:33 AM
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18? Bro. I don't waste my time on lawsuits and children. Mid twenties, no problem at all. If you are established, have a good career, look after yourself, know how to enjoy yourself, then you shouldn't have much issue attracting women younger than you. Just remember that age is a preference, so when someone is into it, another person may not be. That's thier choice. I think you probably have bigger problems that you need to address before you start dating. You need to address whatever it is that…
/r/seduction28/07/26 01:54 AM
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It's like asking any pro, why does it look so easy when you do it? They typically answer "I don't know, it just is" I have a mate who was an international model, I asked him for dating advice, his advice was, "just go talk to her, bro" which would lead to "oh you're so and so's friend, can you introduce me to him?" Thing is, the confidence he had, was because he was attractive. He couldn't understand why what he did worked, so he just told us to do the same thing he did, and when it didn't get t…
/r/seduction26/07/26 01:47 AM
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Ah yes, the illusive easiest way that every man would do if it was so easy. Long story. It takes time, patience and hard work. You build yourself into a man who is something of worth to other people. People look upto you and rely on you, and then women become attracted to you. Then you keep going. Or, become a drug dealer or pimp
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:36 AM
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You don't react. You say "okay, have fun" leave it at that and then wait for her to initiate the next conversation
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:00 AM
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If your dating for a relationship, I'll give you some great advice. Do not pursue sex from her. Do, show your intention, be confident, lead etc. Pursuing sex implies you haven't had sex in a while and your thirsty. Thirstyness, and desperation are incredibly unattractive to women. Control yourself, let the tension and attraction build. If you do not pursue sex she'll eventually start thinking you're getting it from somewhere else and she'll start escalating to try and lock you down, suggesting w…
/r/seduction22/04/26 07:13 PM
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This could go on forever, so this will be my last reply. I can only speak from my generalized experience, but I'd say its because she's attractive and easy to get along with. I find interesting that you included she was "smoking hot" you didn't need to, to make your point, but perhaps you know subconsciously that's what makes her attractive, not the money?
/r/seduction21/04/26 06:55 PM
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My point, height and wealth doesn't mean a woman will have her pick. Your rebuttal, I know one example, and she's "really hot". News flash, that guy she's with, he's with her because she's hot, not for her money
/r/seduction21/04/26 05:54 PM
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Why do you think a 6'3" neurologist would have her pick of men? That's two things men don't really care for, her height and her occupation. Those are things women select for, not men.
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:15 AM
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Be hot. They'll laugh at anything you say 😅
/r/seduction14/04/26 12:17 AM
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Yeah, you're right, but you're talking about the exception rather than the rule. I'd rather give advice that suits the common guy rather than the advice that those kids you mention would give. The advice that young guys who get girls would be "just go talk to her, bro." The truth is they don't really understand what they're doing that's attractive to women, not enough they can effectively teach someone else to do it.
/r/seduction12/04/26 03:15 AM
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Being a teenager is tough. Like it or not, you don't really have much to offer a woman. You don't have resources, stability, lifestyle, experience, or at least the guys you're competing with have developed these areas simply because they're older and have had more time. And from your replies to other comments on this thread, you lack confidence and humility to accept genuine advice. For the majority of men, they'll struggle with women until they get into their mid twenties even into their thirti…
/r/seduction11/04/26 10:12 PM
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Have fun, push and pull, be creative, and learn to create exciting stories with the person you're flirting with. Flirting is a skill, flirt with everyone. So when you're with someone you're attracted to, you'll just naturally flirt with them, and it'll be fun for both of you without effort. Flirt with the world
/r/seduction11/04/26 04:30 AM
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For women, the short fall of online dating is the paradox of choice. I might not be happy with the guy I choose when I can go on my phone, and Prince Charming might show up in a couple of weeks. So they fail to choose a guy and get off the app because there might be someone better just around the corner. This is true for men, too, but it's much rarer to find themselves in this position. I never struggled to get dates on apps, multiple dates with half of them, but never relationships. My experien…
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:51 PM
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You've gotta realise, you can't speak your way into a woman falling for you, they fall for who you are and what you do, not what you say. I'd reply, "Yeah, I had a great weekend, thanks," and leave it at that. Her response will give OP the clearest indication of her interest if she tries to spark a conversation, then good. If not, she was never interested and just using OP for entertainment, suck it up, move on.
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:57 PM
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You're putting in far too much effort. She sees, I can ignore this guy for two days and give a rubbish excuse/ low effort, and he's still willing to try to plan dates. You need to be someone who she wonders if she'll see again. Go all the way back to square one. Take the date off the table. She's no longer your number one option. If she wants to be, she needs to put in the effort
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:05 PM
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When I meet a girl, I’ll always give her a peck on the cheek when I say hello, so she knows I’m not here to be her friend, if the date goes well (first date normally something chill, coffee, etc) I’ll kiss her on the cheek to say goodbye. If I like her, I’m going to see her again so why rush the first kiss. And if I don’t like her, I don’t want to see her again, so why would I want to kiss her. That’s my reason to not kiss her on the first date. She’s still a complete stranger that I’ve maybe kn…
/r/seduction28/02/26 09:11 PM
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It's true. Social validation is a deciding factor for women. If the friends don't like you, she'll likely dump you. She needs to know that you're a socially acceptable option, and she usually finds this out by the opinion of her friends, or, if you are successful with other women
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:51 PM
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