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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | How I sleep at night knowing no man is cheating on me, lying, hiding things, scheming for ways to undermine me / get my money, drooling over instapics of another woman, watching porn, dragging me to his buddies...!I am sorry you felt that pain. I know it too. Never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | How I sleep at night knowing no man is cheating on me, lying, hiding things, scheming for ways to undermine me / get my money, drooling over instapics of another woman, watching porn, dragging me to his buddies...!God I love these comments :) haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:41 PM |
| 30 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️This fucking hurt my eyes to read, but we need to read these things over and over. We need to be able to hear things straight from the horse's mouth and learn from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 20 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayExhausting is the word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 31 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayBuT I JuST LikE To DISCuuSS Thiinggggs!!! Ugh, this is unbearable after literally 5 minutes. And it will drive you crazy, Run at the first sight of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.And when you call it out for what it is, you get the "you're just jealous because you don't look like a bimbo haha". Yeah.. really.. this in itself already proves you're doing it for the male gaze because the whole definition of bimbo body type is what men are supposed to like.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Being vulnerable to help build intimacy in relationships.100%. [Trigger warning: eating disorder] Even some of the kindest men, in moments when they are angry with you, they will drop some hints in public which will be horrible (obviously an HVM wouldn't). I had a small eating disorder in high-school, since then completely resolved, but when I'd pick a salad for dinner simply to watch my diet a bit, my LVM would comment in front of others how I never ate anything.. :( dont do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:12 AM |
| 6 | Being vulnerable to help build intimacy in relationships.I have a friend since childhood that I love like a sister. She has gone through a lot of trauma and I advised her not to share it. She reacted so badly, like "why would you not want to share this with someone you want to be your partner? How is that even an intimate relationship?" ... I am trying to protect you sis. If he actually becomes your partner and you have vetted him for 5 solid years, please go ahead and share A LITTLE BIT. But nothing at all before that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Being vulnerable to help build intimacy in relationships.I love this. And it makes you feel infinitely more intimate too -- internally. When you just act and do what you want, nothing more, nothing less, and an HVM is there to accept it and adore you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Why community-dick-men is a red flag telling you that they are a non-monogameous.ha! Totally! Especially that he calls everyone "friends" -- code for women he slept with and still keeps on rotation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 15 | No comment.I gasped at the second chart showing erection in response to WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK children's photos??????? All I can hope for is that this is the typically terribly done study that somehow asked people to volunteer to look at children's photo. This is so depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:50 AM |
| 5 | The Awakening is Hard.You are so right. Although it has been hard, it has been more therapeutic than anyone else. It's not like FDS "opened my eyes" to stuff I didn't know. It just VALIDATED what I felt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 11:11 PM |
| 42 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?Only on FDS can I scroll through all the comments and literally like each and one of them. Sorry, just had to say it. I learn so much, thank you Queens! Such a great community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 27 | I wonder if these are high expectationsThis hurts my eyes and heart to read. But she also sounds very young so I feel sorry for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:03 AM |
| 6 | If you are having doubts, leave.Posts like this make me wish I had found FDS earlier (I am not even sure it existed back then..) before wasting my 20s in a relationship "with doubts" :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.I honestly wondered too. I had trouble understanding men's psychology on this. But I came to realize that it is about the "game" and the "conquest." Otherwise, they can masturbate and save themselves all these effort to literally get "lays" (disgusting word too, by the way, these women are not even spoken about as human beings!) So what they get out of it is the "conquest" and their stupid pride that comes with it. Because some idiot-ass father and fucked up friends and probably all of society t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 01:56 AM |
| 21 | Pick me gf and pornsick bf vibesThe words are so demeaning. I cannot imagine anyone talking about me like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 17 | Perfect explanation on why you should NEVER date or marry down!I wonder what FDS thinks: can men be providers, but not necessarily the higher earner? Say a man has a good job, but the woman just tends to have a better and higher-powered job. Can the man be a provider by taking on more of all the other household responsibilities, including kids, and taking care of his wife? Is this delusional? :( How would really career-oriented women who do NOT want to give up on their job and also don't want to take care of the household find a provider? Someone much riche… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Concepts that need to be retiredThis is so true. I love this. This distinction is so important and people are totally confusing these two things. Any logistics of coordinating with another person imply some amount of work, even more so when there are others involved (like in-laws etc.) But yes, if the pure basics of getting along take work then.. you are definitely in the wrong relationship! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | FDS is BACK!I could cry tears of joy. I was seriously scared the sub may not come back. Thank you for all you do, mods. I can only imagine the huge amount of work this is. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Whenever I get mixed feelings about a man's actions...Ha! I noticed I do that too! It's like looking at yourself through the FDS-lens and quickly realizing how off the situation is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:49 AM |
| 30 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄I am not able to read advice columns anymore without getting so angry at the advice I see there. I can only assume these women reach out to get advice out of despair and what?? they are gaslit like that? I cannot believe that the first thing that comes out of the mouth of this "advice" person is "how could you violate his privacy and check his phone." Seriously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:04 AM |
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