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I would really like to get rid of the tv. I have mentionned this casually to the wife in the past but she's opposed to it. Not sure how to go about it. Looks like you try to arrange your life around your wife's favorite hobby. So she likes to watch TV. Good for her. Now leave her be and start with yourself. Stop watching TV. She may or may not follow you. It's her choice, not yours. You don't need to explain, invent excuses or confess anything. Don't fucking talk to her about "self improvement",…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 05:42 PM
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There are some challenges to getting a boat. Is this something you want in order to spend more time with your family or to spend more time on your own? This may be the need you want to address. Anyway, don't waste money on your own boat yet. If you're into sailing, get a day skipper license. If not, do a motorboat course. Then rent the damn thing every weekend and have fun with your family or alone. Start tomorrow with a jet ski. See if you even like it. You can always buy a boat later when you …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 05:12 PM
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My buddy and wife both pressured me to do it and gave me shit when I said no. You guys might give me shit for mentioning it. Fuck everyone. Good. You start to get serious. Your friends will stop giving you shit once your actions consistently show that you mean it. And don't bother explaining your desire to quit to them. This only devalues your actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 04:23 PM
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OYS #9 28 Apr 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. Physical H/W/B: 6'0" | 148 lbs | 13% (BIA scale) (Paused 5x5) SQ: 22.5 kg | BP: 20 kg | BR: 30 kg | OHP: 20 kg | DL: 40 kg I continue with the Recommended routine. Bulgarian Split Squats start to feel ok. I'm bringing the negative dips to 8 reps 10-seconds each. Diet Four weeks without snacking. The weight and BF% went way down after I started planning my meals a day before and stick to the plan next da…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 03:59 PM
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I think I can measure my success in peace vs anxiety. This provides a good path for me to follow.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 05:48 PM
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OYS #8 21 Apr 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. Physical H/W/B: 6'0" | 151 lbs | 14% (BIA scale) (Paused 5x5) SQ: 22.5 kg | BP: 20 kg | BR: 30 kg | OHP: 20 kg | DL: 40 kg I continue with the Recommended routine. Switched Squats for Bulgarian Split Squats. My weak ass negative dips finally feel ok. Shoulder and elbow ligaments getting in shape. The goal is to get comfortable 10-second negative dips. Diet Three weeks without snacking. The weight and BF…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 11:52 AM
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I don't usually want sex every damn day. However, I don't like the control of her scheduling it. She manipulates you because you need sex FROM HER and she can feel it. Take away that privilege from her. Yes, you fuck her but you can also fuck someone else if you decide. This must be your attitude. Then you'll laugh at her stupid schemes instead of obsessing about them. This bullshit schedule is invented only to manipulate you into being a weak bitch, so give no attention to it. Just initiate whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 04:51 PM
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OYS #7 14 Apr 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. Physical H/W/B: 6'0" | 154 lbs | 14% (BIA scale) (Paused 5x5) SQ: 22.5 kg | BP: 20 kg | BR: 30 kg | OHP: 20 kg | DL: 40 kg I continue with the Recommended routine from bodyweightfitness. Squats and core are becoming too easy, time to switch to the next exercise. Diet Success again. Two weeks without snacking. Hunger and food anxiety are two different feelings. And I've mistaken one for the other. I can …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 04:23 PM
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OYS #6 7 Apr 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. Physical H/W/B: 6'0" | 159 lbs | 14% (BIA scale) (Paused 5x5) SQ: 22.5 kg | BP: 20 kg | BR: 30 kg | OHP: 20 kg | DL: 40 kg I continue with the Recommended routine from /r/bodyweightfitness. Switched to the next progression exercise for squats and pull-ups. Diet One week completely without snacking. Finally a success. Bread was the trigger for food cravings. If I don't buy it, I don't want it. I was fixin…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 12:40 PM
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OYS #5 31 Mar 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. Physical H/W/B: 6'0" | 160 lbs | 15% (BIA scale) SQ: 22.5 kg | BP: 20 kg | BR: 30 kg | OHP: 20 kg | DL: 40 kg Weight and BF% stopped going down. I eat too much calories. I started the recommended routine from /r/bodyweightfitness. Doing workouts at home with heavy stuff and improvised equipment. This will do until the quarantine is over. Diet Second week of failures. I hold for several days, then anxiet…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 06:02 PM
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Your wife is good at manipulation. You confront her, she turns it on you. Before you know, it's all your fault. She's not Machiavelli though. Don't you see from your own writing that what she says is a big fucking pile of lies? Just read again what you wrote! She gives you a cookie, then pushes you into accepting her bullshit. You happily go with it because you desperately want to be wrong. This leads to the main issue. Where are you in your own life? What's your plan for cheating her? Can you t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 07:19 PM
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Any goals for pot abstinence? Do you continue with the social use?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 06:36 PM
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OYS #4 24 Mar 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. Physical H/W/B: 6'0" | 161 lbs | 14% (BIA scale) SQ: 22.5 kg | BP: 20 kg | BR: 30 kg | OHP: 20 kg | DL: 40 kg Weight and BF% are going down. I started taking photos because I feel crazy. I know I lost a decent amount of fat and weight, yet still seem to look the same to myself in the mirror. All gyms are closed. All places outside where people can do a workout are closed. Everybody stays inside. I do pu…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 06:19 PM
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I made the deliberate decision to smoke pot on Sunday afternoon Hello, pothead. So, figuratively speaking, you've listened to siren songs, jumped over the board and got fucked in the ass by mermaids. Congratulations. Now stop pretending that you are making any legitimate effort to beat your addiction. You can't recover and smoke pot at the same time, you dumb stupid faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/20 11:48 PM
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OYS #3 18 Mar 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. Physical H/W/B: 6'0" | 163 lbs | 15% (BIA scale) SQ: 22.5 kg | BP: 20 kg | BR: 30 kg | OHP: 20 kg | DL: 40 kg I've started StrongLifts 5x5, from an empty bar. Two workouts and then all gyms around here are closed because of coronavirus. I hope this won't last longer than 2 weeks. My back injury situation improved after only two workouts. Maybe I can grow enough muscle to finally get rid of the pain comp…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 08:18 PM
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OYS #2 10 Mar 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. Father I've taken steps to forgive my father. I decided to go with the honest and straightforward route and asked him about the real history of his marriage. He refused to tell me anything at first, but I convinced him. We had a good long talk. He was trapped by kids in a shitty marriage, of course decided to sacrifice his life "for the kids". Once my mother realized that he isn't going away, she was fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 07:05 PM
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Caveat. I smoked at poker night on Friday, but this was planned. I will continue to do it socially because I enjoy it and it is something I have in common with a few of the guys. Stop this bullshit. You are a pothead. That's what you "have in common" with your guys. How do I know? Because only a pothead would try to disguise a turd as a lollipop. You "enjoy it" so much that you've spent last 52 days abstaining from it, counting days, and being proud. You had enough honesty to write about this sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 11:36 PM
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I've added the book to my reading list. I surely had this contract a long time ago: "If I open up to my parents about my problems, they will help me." I tried to live by this contract, but got what is probably described in the book. It was weather talk with both of them for almost two decades really. This time around I went with this: "I'll ask my father to open up about his problems so I can forgive him". It worked. My father gave me honest answers that I needed. I'll post a little more about i…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 12:03 AM
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OYS #1 26 Feb 2020 Mid-thirties M, 30 F, 8 years in marriage, together for 11 years, no kids. I've lurked here for a month but the last OYS thread had some great reports that inspired me enough to post my own awful shit. Physical H/W/B: 6'0"/174 lbs/17% (BIA scale) I'm fucking scared to go to the gym. I've been putting this off for a month now. This must go. My plan is to go there, ask some questions about costs and everything and hopefully finally start. I'm really insecure about my body. I've …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/20 07:02 PM
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